magat3ars Archive

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1	Why do straight men seem to hate Sex and the City so much? The only thing I can say is really the tropes have been done on my media to death. Like I'm sure tartuffe and Shakespeare were really something. I just don't vibe with it bc I've seen it built upon. And sometimes done better. I want to watch it bc I want to give it a fair shot. To me, it seems like flat characters characters engaging in multi dimensional problems. Thats really good but has been built upon. Not the fault of the show. Also I'm gen z. So that may play a role. Modern dating or seein…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/24 10:12 PM
2	People who hate feminism don't have a viable alternative The issue is there are no laws in western nations that discriminate against women. Women are thriving for the first time in human history above men even. The issue is looking at the world, and we see that women don't. Even in America, a woman has to simply move states for abortion treatment. There are places in the world which kill women for having intercourse pre marriage. Consent doesn't matter only outcome. I think we can all see that as bad (well some rp guys prob don't). The one who thing i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/24 01:48 PM
5	Do most men on dating apps just try to match with virtually every woman? I feel like this a very rare issue. Like I swipe on everyone, but I don't click with everyone. A match is just to start a convo imo. Like I find everyone on some level attractive by their pictures. A profile can't tell me what texting can. Then texting can't tell me how your personality is like a irl date can. Does every match turn into a date? Like most of mine do, but I can show you multiple that don't. Their profile didn't list the oddities like texting does	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/24 03:17 PM
1	Normalize saying you have a big vagina instead of "size queen" You're so unironically right here. The problem I've seen women here not get is the vagina can in certain scenarios, and you'll run into a genetic limit most likely. Even then, a smaller vagina women will prefer a guy who isn't as long or doesn't require as much stretching to accommodate. That takes time most women don't want to do. Like the body isn't experiencing the same thing between childbirth and intercourse. Like if childbirth was pleasurable, no one would have an issue of too thick or lon…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/24 03:27 AM
1	Let's say women's standards are too high. Now what? I've heard of demi before I think, and I think it fits. Cause my view hasn't change, but the anxiety isn't there. I just don't like being sexual instantly. I thought it was empathy, but I get relief when the other person agrees. Still inexperienced, I've been in more situations, but it didn't feel right. Like you said I'm not as attracted unless ik them. To add, though might be explicit, porn is the same kind of. Either vanilla (really just affection) or female lead with some connection there. E…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/24 02:52 AM
1	Let's say women's standards are too high. Now what? Reading yalls back and forth. It was the biggest mind twist I had growing up. I truly did have crushes based on personalities. I thought everyone else did until I grew up. Turns out I was either autistic or ace. I'm neither so not sure there lol. Honestly having female friends, who are very sexual, showed me I'm not explicit enough (or I thought at the time). Like my first gf, I didn't even want to be really sexual with (not bc I didn't like her. I feel bad for bringing it up lol). I felt pressu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/24 01:45 AM
6	What are some things you envy about the other sex that are NOT commonly talked about? The furniture is created based on the average height of a man. I have to use a pillow on the chair because my head doesn't rest on the lowest setting of the headrest without me sitting on a pillow. Unless you're a short man 😅 source 4 foot 11 guy The one thing you didn't add that I would add is the difference in calories burned. Height equal, men burn more than women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/24 07:33 PM
8	Submission is earned. I say me personally it depends on what your interests are. Like I'm better at tech and designing things. So making the house look good and tech issues would be where I would hope my partner would trust me. However, I'm really short and are bad at labor jobs. I can help, but I can't really do it on my own. I would trust my partner totally here. Even like helping a kid with school. I'm good at science and math. I'm terrible eith English and alright with history. It would be unified or I would trus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 03:03 PM
2	Men ignore conventionally unattractive women (they aren't even on their radar), so they assume that all women are privileged in dating I go by bodyfat % since BMI doesn't account for men who lift Could say the same for a skinny fat person tbh. Look at an asmond gold for example. Skinny guy who eats like shit, but he's saved by his height and being male. women are in way worse shape overall than men in America Depends on how you look at it. Is it easier for women or men to gain weight?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 02:26 AM
3	Men ignore conventionally unattractive women (they aren't even on their radar), so they assume that all women are privileged in dating I'll warn you. You're talking to people who are avg male height or within 3 inches of it. They don't understand how harder it is to be fat at shorter heights. It's harder for men to be fat. We give a bit more leeway to women bc you guys burn slower when equal for height (male vs. female tdee)	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 02:22 AM
3	Do you think most men would forgive a cheating girlfriend if she was a good girlfriend ? Yes, look at older couples or even family trees. Hidden to the grave is very true. My family found out a lot of messy history regarding cheating. As bad as it sounds, we would defend those we love bc WE love them. The person who cheated could hate you but you'll still try. You're willing to forgive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 04:03 PM
1	Short version: Men are not slobs. Husbands are not slobs. Wish this could be pinned for any future debate. This is a good way to clear up confusion. Plus even cracks down on why division of chores is important. When you both pull 40+ hours, it gets annoying seeing one not pull their weight. Men can experience this, but it's mainly women who encounters this more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/24 11:07 AM
0	Why don't women care about promiscuous slutty men? Some women do care about it, as they want to date someone with similar values. They might be less inclined to insult men who do sleep around though. Personal story, so it wouldn't apply to everyone, but I find older women will while younger women won't. I wonder of its the pretty affect lessing in years or bottom up reasoning. My uncle was a hoe and still. Is at 60+. Everyone knows but new people are in town every day. Ime, it's mostly from lack of info. Like as you get older charisma and a pret…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/24 10:15 AM
1	Are guys who have more success in their 30s actually out for revenge like some narratives here suggest? This is just hs plus. This happens and is understandable bc they haven't aged one bit. They're still haunted by ghosts of bullies and bad people. They want to get back at those back then, but they really can't unless they're lucky. They then take it out on everyone else sadly. Even becomes judge, jury, abd executioner where all wrong doings deserve punishment. Looks at you longer, so you must act shitty now. They might have not looked you in the eyes before or something. Men and women do this. T…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 05:31 AM
5	Are guys who have more success in their 30s actually out for revenge like some narratives here suggest? I doubt that's true Okay, would you deny people generally pair with people in similar situations as them? Like education, age, bmi, health, and energy is similar?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 04:22 AM
2	Is therapy a valid solution for men coping with dating complexities? Not the person you replied to, but it's interesting bc Prozac didn't work for me. It was way too active and exacerbated issues lol, but you're right about the right meds. One thing that I'm not sure if, but I would assume it's similar for women. You're super ready and wanting to have sex but things don't flow correctly. Like you're mentally there, but it physically looks like you aren't. Ik lube can help, but I would assume both sexes can have a issue of blood not flowing correctly lol. Does thi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/24 12:43 PM
3	Is therapy a valid solution for men coping with dating complexities? Something I keep seeing are people shitting on something and discouraging others to try something. There was a guy in short going on about dating. Like how it doesn't work and apps are a scam. He never tried them either. Like I'm a 4 foot 11 guy and tried them. They are pretty decent. Some are shit like bumble, but hinge and tinder are pretty decent. Honestly to anyone try something for a month or two. See if you gained any new insights from the experience. If not, then you know there wasn't any…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/24 12:35 PM
20	Would you say (especially in Gen z) most relationships start with sex first? It would seem like it but no. There are more sexless situationships and talking stages that you'd realise. If you talk to sexually active people, you'd think gen z are super sexually active. Imho, for every 1 relationship that starts with fwb or sex, you have 20-50 starting without it. Not hard stats, but a pandemic makes everyone really socially inept. Men and women equally are socially stupid from that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/24 11:03 PM
–	As a man I honestly can't see whats unattractive about short men. What I'm saying is this: Imagine there are 100k men. Lets assume normal distribution. There are equal number of men above and below 5 foot 9 (not necessarily but hypothetical) 6 foot statistically is closer to that median than something multiple steps down. Generally you're closer to a number of 50k around 6 foot plus then seeing the general population at 5 foot 6 and lower. Even if both groups had a 30 percent chance of having big dicks. You'll still see more taller guys with big dicks just bec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 11:58 PM
–	As a man I honestly can't see whats unattractive about short men. You have to think about why. On to penis size, men are generally around the taller numbers. You'll be more likely to meet a man who is on the average height to taller range than meet a man who is well endowed but also short. Height doesn't correlate simply. You have more taller men than short men. If you look at men who are an anomaly at 6 foot 5 and above, you'll see similar numbers as a guy who is like 5 foot. You are more likely to meet a 6 foot and taller guy than a guy who is 5 foot. Even t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 11:27 PM
1	Does the "friend zone" mainly consist of males? If so, why? So I see men can have emotionless sex. It's just an act. It's why the fuck zone can exist, but men when having strong romantic feelings will have sex lead from those feelings. They present their feelings first instead of sex. Offering their vulnerability. Like for women, emotions aren't the vulnerable part for women compared to sex. It sounds weird ik, but I see a lot of malice placed on the other side of the friend/fuck zones. I don't think the ire of desire here is evil or purposely keeping th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 05:04 PM
0	Does the "friend zone" mainly consist of males? If so, why? I think the friend zone generally is what the fuck zone is for women. It basically the limbo between friendship and relationship. You can't seem to get both sex and feelings in the relationship. So commitment is now a situationship. Men usually give a type of emotional vulnerability. You're one of the few people to see him open up and be vulnerable. Then the same with sex for women generally. A very vulnerable state is shown and admired. It's respected for women to be caring to men being vulnera…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 09:45 AM