maggiebear Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
13	Reminder for ladies to keep vetting in a relationship And friends ask why I stay single. This behavior is so common. It's vile. OLD was exhausting - constant bullshit and shitty behavior. STI screenings. Flakes. Blameshifting and excuses. My real friends (every gender and orientation) - amazing, fun nights, support, travel, laughs. The straight white male is a unique trainwreck of entitlement and insincerity.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/08/21 08:29 AM
2	What to do about medium value men? I think the problem is that they start as HVM but by the end, they reveal their LVM status so we average them as MVM. They’re not. They were just better at hiding their LVM status longer. I’ve dated a few of these.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/07/21 05:57 AM
6	My friend matched with a guy on OLD. He sent her this..... what in the??? I would have soooo much fun filling this out.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/07/21 04:16 AM
14	How all of the "Chad" stuff really sounds I wasted a lot of time married to one. Totally presented himself as a nice guy that cared about women's rights. Façade. What I learned over time was that he was jealous and envious of his fuck boy friends, made derogatory comments about the women he claimed to be mentoring and did not give AF about me as an individual. Throw in an epic porn addiction and an insane sense of entitlement. Good times.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/07/21 08:45 AM
12	Why exes circle back aka “the phenomena of the circling penises” Quarantine really brought these types out.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/07/21 07:29 AM
6	HVW in Action: MacKenzie Scott Gives Away Another $2.74 Billion Even as Her Wealth Grows She is one of my idols. Smart, beautiful, accomplished, compassionate and selfless.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/06/21 07:28 AM
15	The author said both positions were “totally reasonable.” My ex had pre-check before me and made it very clear that he would use it when we travelled together and would meet me later. It never sat well with me. So i got pre-check. Post break-up, I went on trips with friends that didn't have it. And for all of those, I stood in the regular line with them. You're on a trip with someone you care about and you're getting on the same damn plane. Why would you ditch them??? I've encouraged those friends to get it, but I would never leave them if they didn't.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/06/21 06:16 AM
1	HVM will respect your time; LVM have no worries making you wait around for them because they have no respect for you. I've ended so many relationships over this - with time and practice. I dated one guy that was always late - for dinners with me, with plans to catch a flight, with a date to the opera. I understand life gets in the way but he was never late to catch a sportsball game at the bar with his boys.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/06/21 07:23 AM
3	“Build with him” My ex quit the corporate world to do his start up. During that time he abandoned all the promises he made to me (I’ll handle cooking, I’ll do cleaning, etc). Neither happened. He kept up on his share of the mortgage, but would always forget to pay me for the other expenses (cleaners, insurance.) After his start up failed, he got a high paying corporate job and immediately started criticizing me about everything. Suddenly I wasn’t smart enough, pretty enough, thin enough, whatever enough. And I d…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/06/21 08:25 AM
24	Women boss up after their break up. Then men go around doing the same shit, business as usual. ☺️ After my divorce, I looked 10 years younger, focused on my career and got promoted with a huge increase, and took better care of myself. Life is so much better now.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/06/21 02:07 PM
92	This popped up in my memories. This is HV. My parents have been married for over 40 years and have a very traditional marriage in the sense that my dad worked and my mom was the homemaker and they both wanted that. My mom had a serious injury a few weeks ago and the way that my father showed up for her has framed my expectations for all future relationships. He handled everything hospital related, took over all of the cooking (he hasn't cooked in over 40 years), and took over all of the shopping and cleaning. And his emotional state was …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/06/21 10:19 PM