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LIFESTYLEmagicalSITAR/r/RedPillWomen30/07/16 02:54 AM
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magicalSITAR/r/askTRP31/03/16 06:07 AM
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If I were your LTR I would be offended and embarrassed. A slap in the face (in public) is disrespectful. I would expect you to sincerely apologize one time...and then never bring it up again. If she uses this as leverage in future fights, she's being petty and it's likely she didn't even feel disrespected. That's a bad sign. These guys can tell you how to deal with all that. I strongly suggest you refrain from anything that resembles a slap to the face in public again. At worst it makes you look…
/r/askTRP09/09/16 04:05 AM
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Thank you, I'm glad it helped. I'm afraid I'd have to agree with the consensus; while I'm not a fan of divorce I've seen what it's done to men so it might benefit you to find a lawyer...just in case. Respect yourself, otherwise she can't respect you. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 03:22 AM
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I'm going to chime in here, if you'd like a woman's perspective. She doesn't respect you. No woman who has respect for her man would have him witness another man violate their marriage the way she is suggesting. She thinks so little of you that she is not making the effort to cheat. That's assuming she hasn't already. If you still think she's being reasonable, think of it this way. Let's say you're walking down the sidewalk and you see The Car. Perfectly restored, shining in the sun...maybe it's…
/r/askTRP09/09/16 03:13 AM
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What a coincidence, I actually baked him some of his favorite cookies this week! Poor guy, he came home from work and said he was afraid to eat them because they were "too soft". I was pretty confused at first, thinking some water had spilled in his lunchbox and gotten them wet and mushy. Turns out his mother never baked him cookies and he assumed all oatmeal cookies were hard and brittle like the store-bought ones :(
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/16 07:22 AM
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Thank you! I'll check it out now.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/16 05:08 AM
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Let's see... I purchased some dresses, skirts, and heels. (I've been a jeans and sneakers gal my whole life.) Wore my first dress in years today and loved it! Only downside is my pantyhose got completely destroyed in only a few hours :( I am continuing with my relationship and it's going great! I used to tease people or talk their ear off but I'm learning to shut up and be positive. He actually asks about my day since I've learned to shut up and he tells me how nice it is to be around me! Bonus …
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/16 07:44 AM
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First off, make sure these things that need done around the house weren't something you mentioned off-hand with no timeline. He's not a mind reader. If they need his attention, gently remind him. He may be stressed with a dozen things you don't know about. Remind him once, and make sure to be appreciative when he makes progress, no matter how small. Good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/16 07:10 PM
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One thing to remember is to initiate some social occasions to create a friendship. Ask one of the ladies you get along with to join you for lunch one day. Or talk to your husband about inviting her and hers over for dinner. Lots of shy people wait for people to extend the invitations without realizing everyone is actually waiting for that too!
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/16 07:00 PM
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Oh, dear. Honey, she doesn't respect you. And you don't respect yourself. I would NEVER buy form-fitting clothes to impress any man other than mine. Because I respect him. And I would fully expect him to dump me if I were engaging in the behavior you described. Because he respects himself. With no respect there is no LTR.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 11:51 AM
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Thank you, but how would I word it? I don't want to bring attention to the situation but I am very grateful for how he treats me.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 11:07 AM
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I tell him often that we don't have to go out and being with him is what's important to me. I suggest afternoons at the dog park or going for drives in the country. But I'm not going to control how HE spends HIS money. He's an adult and doesn't need me telling him what he can and cannot do. I just want to be the best woman I can be for him. He has money saved and he's fine for quite some time financially. He's obviously been smart enough to prepare for periods of unemployment so I trust his deci…
/r/askTRP31/03/16 10:53 AM
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He could be. But he's got enough reserve for that not to be a problem. He's being smart and responsible by not spending all his money on entertainment.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 09:48 AM
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It's still a new relationship. I don't think injecting myself into his mother's care is my place. But if he asked me of course I would. And I'll let him know I'll be sticking around. He's a good man. Thank you for your advice.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 09:34 AM
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