| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | A new problem with approaching that happening to often this days, how do you guys manage your way around itCold approaches are generally shit. | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Do some guys really ask the girl if they can kiss her on a first date? And i also heard this girl who is a dating coach tell guys that one way they can be a good kisser is to ask her consent before you go for a kiss! How do you guys feel about that?I would say its mote 50/50. Some find it a turnoff and some find it sexy. Half of the times i have explicitly asked concent for a kiss it has tipped the weights in my favor. How you phrase it, timing and in what tone/comfidence you say it in plays a larger role. For some it will be a absolut no-go if you dont ask before going in for a kiss. | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone know guys who insult women after they reject them?Noep | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 05:23 PM |
| 12 | How does vulnerability lead to non-neediness?This person cognitive therapys | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 02:41 PM |
| 4 | [India] my therapist just told me that cold approaches don't work in this societyFor women, at least from my females friends perspective, getting hit on by strangers is for the majority of the time unwanted. However getting hit on by someone you at least knownin some matter is taken more positively because they know you somewhat as a person and not just a something nice to look at. Cold approaches is just having interest in someone for how they look, and for most people they wont go out of a dare with someone they know nothing about. | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 04:04 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Cool username, when i get a dog i will name it after you. "Will/Bill" for short. | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 09:30 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]You didnt read the last part of the last sentence i guess.. "sexual health and STD prevention"... It not up to you to decide for someone else if they should be ok with sex-stuff or not. Still yeah practice safe sex always, but that doesnt mean you should omit to tell people that they are going to ha e sex with someone who has multiple partners at the time. | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 09:28 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]I used to just put my phone on silent and vibration off and the screen facing down, so i didnt get disturbed and to signal that my attention was fully theirs. Somehow that got taken as me hiding something and one of the girls i dated completely flipped the F out and then brought it up as "evidence" for her thinking i was seeing someone else.. she had a lot of problems with insecurities, it didnt last very long. | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 08:26 PM |
| 18 | [deleted by user]Go on dates with both, but if sex ever comes up and you have sex with them both make sure to inform them about them not being the only one you are seeing so they can make an informed decision if thats something they are comfortable with or not. Its good practice for not being a complete asshat and common sense considering sexual health and STD-prevention. | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 07:03 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]My phone is always in "do not disturb"-mode whenever im with someone. Not because i have something to hide, but to keep focus on them and not my phone. Have it set so only nessages and calls from my immediate family and closest friends comes through. Just ab idea for you. | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 06:57 PM |
| 13 | Cute guy at gym: Will he ever notice me?Yes, as a guy you only reciprocate if the girl takes initiative to talk in the gym. Otherwise you keep your eyes down and focus on the workout. At this point some women will even get pissy and visibly annoyed if you just ask how many sets they have left on a machine. Girl working out next to me without headphones, i will still only talk with her if i have question about some nearby equipment being free or if she talks to me, if not i just assume her headphone batteries have run dry or something. | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Why did this smoking hot girl turn cold?I have stumbled upon and got follow suggestions on IG of people i have met and talked to IRL, and the same the other way around. For me its a uni. campus gym so there is often mutual friends that we follow on IG (including the gyms profile) making them show up in discover and suggested profiles. And if you know their first name they are bound to be one of the first results that pop up because the community is quite small. I have followed people that way and also had people follow me regularly wi… | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Why did this smoking hot girl turn cold?She was probably just being nice. That should really be the default in the gym if not REAAAALLLLLYYY obvious that there is interest like her asking for your contact info or ask you on a date. | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 10:37 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Also some women are very bad at the eye contact thing. Not smiling back or not holding the eyecontact for a few secs. So then they might just think they look funny to you or that they have something in their face. | /r/seduction | 16/11/21 09:59 PM |
| 2 | She lost interest out of nowhereIn my experience something like 80% of the ones showing interest in me have just been bored, funnily enough they themselves have a hard time distinguishing between having interest or liking the attention because they are bored. Kinda understandable, but it still sucks major balls when it happens with someone you really like and seem to match up with you perfectly. I feel like in some of the cases it can be because of an avoidant attachment style, that when she comes to a certain point ahe gets s… | /r/seduction | 09/11/21 12:34 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]I think the question and grouping it together like that kinda makes sense in that people who have few sexual partners tend to value sex in a relationship setting and people who have a lot of sexual partners tend to have had either a lot of really short relationships one right after the other (which to me is a kind of a red flag) or value casual sex too and not just in an emotional setting. The numbers somewhat point you in a direction, but dont say a whole lot without context. For me at least a … | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 11:15 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter