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2	They want you to prove you’re worthy to them. If you have to prove to be worthy of commitment- he’s not worth yours. Can someone please clarify the FDS position on this for me? Not the post. But the headline. Are you saying that a woman should be presumed by a HVM to be a queen, worthy of his investment and attention and all these wonderful things, before we have shown him? I'm getting a sense that many feel this way and I wonder why, if he needs to prove himself in every way for you, do you not need to at least show him your own value, what you'd add to his life as a partner? I want to put myself out there an…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/03/21 07:45 PM
1	I’m new to this community and this way of thinking, so I’m wondering. What are your thoughts on the kind of music we listen to? Do you ladies actively try to avoid music with lyrics that are disrespectful to women/sexualise women? I actively try to consume music and arts and food and water and energy that feeds my soul. I also listen to some raunchy af 90s dance hall reggae at the gym.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/03/21 06:42 AM
2	Weekly FDS Chat / Check-in What specific responses do you find successful in encouraging a man to improve his date invitations early on?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/03/21 03:07 PM
7	As usual men doing the bare minimum in relationships. Dude is lucky there's someone willing to sleep with him in a 20 min radius of his sorry ass.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/03/21 02:50 AM
2	The pandemic is making me take the company of my own for granted - posting this to remind myself that only I can give me lovely things I crave for. Throwback to the time I took the train for 1 hour in heels for pancakes and coffee alone 🥞 Never settling for "walking dates" again Beautiful! 🌺 I took myself out for fish tacos last night and thought how lovely it was to be with the one person who truly understands me. Lol. I treat me well and I demand the same of others. ❤	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/21 05:29 PM
2	Making a man wait to have sex is a vetting strategy that has NOTHING to do with "purity culture" Wellll....you have the option to keep a friend around who is an awesome lover but maybe not compatible relationship wise while you search for your real man. Plenty of men will sign up for this assignment and happily avoid catching feelings.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/02/21 05:40 PM
1	Making a man wait to have sex is a vetting strategy that has NOTHING to do with "purity culture" I love the immediacy of getting past feelings I was developing when I click block and delete and suddenly can't hear from them again and know I won't go soft and try to reach out again.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/02/21 05:33 PM

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