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Exact correct advice. The ONLY thing you can do is stop being attached to the outcome. Let her go. If you need motivation then remember that you will never be truly completely happy with someone who doesn't want to be with you at least as much as you want to be with them. If you have to convince her to be with you then it is not going to be a good relationship.
/r/seduction30/01/19 07:40 PM
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I would probably agree with this. You just seem a bit too keen to describe how tough/witty/rich you are and it all comes across a bit like a big performance, generally people with these attributes find discussing them a bit distasteful and unnecessary. It might be worth considering that you aren't a natural leader or dominant male and maybe have a bit of a confidence issue which you are projecting onto these other guys. It's nothing to be ashamed of but if you don't address these issues they cou…
/r/seduction28/01/19 11:15 PM
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If you are doing all these things with the purpose of re-approaching and changing the dynamic then you are ultimately too outcome focussed and this 'new frame' is really just a performance which she can sense is insincere. The formula for breaking the friend zone should technically be quite simple- merely become more attractive to the girl in question - but in practice is almost always far too much work to be worth it. Once you have established a friendship like the ones you are describing you a…
/r/seduction28/01/19 10:43 PM
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It's a very good question. I think it can be beneficial to have a period in your life where you are hyper promiscuous and come to the sad realisation that there is virtually zero fulfilment in having sex with an endless carousel of people. From that realisation you can enter into the next stage of development where you begin to seek a greater truth/ something with a bit more connection. Unfortunately, the old biological imperative is always there, someone once called having a strong libido "bein…
/r/seduction26/01/19 11:45 AM
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Might work within the very narrow parameters of the coffee shop situation but a person who frequently says factually incorrect things with absolute confidence will actually be considered (at best) an idiot but more likely to have some kind of learning disability. In most cases a person who can't use a variety of nuanced and subtle tonal intonations to display both strength but also vulnerability through a degree of circumspection will be considered one dimensional and probably very annoying.
/r/seduction24/09/18 08:24 PM
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Yes lots of women do want a man with a purpose but not if that purpose is turning themselves into some make believe character entirely based on hatefulness. Lots of men get emotionally hurt and make the mistake of adopting some objectifying persona built entirely on false confidence. It never ends well. If you project these so called 'alpha' traits then you will attract equally damaged and manipulative personalities. If you really believe that calling women bitches, having a business and going t…
/r/seduction24/09/18 04:35 PM
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You don't need to send this message, it won't reflect well on you. If you need to be a straight to the point kind of guy then you already have your answer - she is either distracted or becoming emotionally unleashed from your experience, either way it seems like she isn't the one to meet your needs. Maybe she had something going on in her life that she doesn't yet feel comfortable sharing with you but that's irrelevant because you are the kind of person who needs to know the status of things at …
/r/seduction18/09/18 12:44 PM
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Oh thanks man
/r/seduction17/09/18 09:40 AM
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Hey, sorry if that was a bit harsh. Whenever I have been in a similar situation I have always felt like the dynamic is all out of whack and once the thought is in my head I can never really be myself. Honestly, if it were me I would just leave it or at least offer to hang out with the intention of just being friends. Often once she sees that you are in a place of abundance it will change the dynamic. Ask her to come along to something with you and your friends.
/r/seduction03/09/18 08:32 PM
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The use of "Subliminal sexual stuff", playing weird mind games where you 'make her compete' with a pretend person and then analysing the conversation into a ratio of who had the most involvement is all super uncool behaviour. Is this the person you want to be? Some kind of manipulator who has to use a series of bizarre deceptions to get with this girl? This is very outcome focussed and very low value. Why not just tell her that you like her and would like to go on a date? If I had to hazard a gu…
/r/seduction03/09/18 08:19 PM
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As I said, might be different where I'm from. Cultural relativity and all that.
/r/seduction01/09/18 03:27 PM
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Some good advice here. Also consider this - he probably went home in absolute turmoil because he didn't have the nerve to make a move.
/r/seduction01/09/18 01:14 PM
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Hey man, I imagine it must be strange and disorientating to be single again after such a long time. I can't relate because I'm married and have been for many years. I totally missed the whole tinder thing too so I don't really know about it. One thing I think I can advise on is this - if you aren't a guy who likes to be hanging around bars and clubs late at night then that isn't the place to find a person who is going to be a good match for you. Also, when I was younger I always used to be in th…
/r/seduction01/09/18 12:17 PM
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Playing with hair is good but think about when would you pat someone on the head. Certainly not if you found them attractive. I wouldn't like to be patted on the head, it's condescending.
/r/seduction30/08/18 10:11 AM
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Some people are just low energy but it isn't necessarily the energy level that is the problem. You can be lackadaisical and sardonic but also be perceived as hilarious or cool - someone who isn't in a hurry to impress anyone. It's worse to try and fake being a high energy person because that is super outcome orientated and stinks of insecurity. The issue with low energy people is that they usually behave like that because they are unsure of themselves and that betrays a lack of confidence so bui…
/r/seduction27/08/18 08:12 PM
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Man, if you didn't feel like doing anything at the time then it's not a mistake. Sometimes it's nice to chill and the way I would look at it is if she can't respect that then she isn't worth having around. Give her a message and see if she wants to hang out. You never have to do anything you don't want to and you especially shouldn't have to feel like you somehow miss a chance if you don't do something on someone else's terms. You just work on your own terms and if she doesn't like it then find …
/r/seduction27/08/18 01:16 PM
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She's too young. Which country are you in? This sounds all kind of messed up
/r/seduction22/08/18 09:06 PM
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Firstly, I'm just really sorry to hear that this has been your experience, no one should try to invalidate your perspective or your lived experience, especially people who haven't gone through it themselves and I think it's messed up that we live in a world that is still making people feel bad because of the colour of their skin. It also sucks that you have issues of self esteem now because of the destructive dominant tastes of some people in the West because that is going to damage your confide…
/r/seduction17/08/18 06:15 PM
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Yeh I think she is definitely in to you
/r/seduction13/08/18 05:49 PM
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Your welcome bro, all the best.
/r/seduction13/08/18 05:42 PM
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Oh fair enough, I took it as legit and then I was thinking oh that maybe makes all the difference because she probably just wants a gay bf
/r/seduction13/08/18 05:40 PM
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Does she know you're gay?
/r/seduction13/08/18 05:36 PM
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There's plenty to go on from what you've said. It's very clear she isn't in to you and her actions show that she is just delaying and putting off having to be brutally honest about that with you. Going and being even needier with her isn't going to change her mind. Just let it go.
/r/seduction13/08/18 05:33 PM
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I think you are maybe a young guy but my advice would be to move on. Seems like you learned a good lesson from it. I promise that you will meet a ton of other girls if you keep looking.
/r/seduction10/08/18 10:43 PM
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I googled 8th grade and it says like 13 or 14 years old?? You think the one that got away was some girl you dated at 13 years old, you can't be serious? You need to pull yourself together man.
/r/seduction10/08/18 10:31 PM
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A very basic and superficial answer would be - get some hobbies and then work towards your 'passion', something you can be excited about. When you have a passion and a series of interests it will come across in your conversations. If you don't know what your passion is then your passion should be finding out what it is!
/r/seduction09/08/18 05:59 PM
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You have an insufficient filter for the people you get involved with. You should sever all contact the instant a girl plays games or attempts to manipulate you, literally just say "I'm sorry I think we have different values" and walk away. First you need to work on yourself, though. If you are in the habit of objectifying women or trying to be overly confident through performative routines then it may just be that you are attracting the girl who are most similar to you. It is nothing to do with …
/r/seduction26/07/18 08:43 PM
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Well, I still don't agree with it but if you insist lol: trad pua would be to start with non verbal communication eg a bit of the head or prolonged eye ckntact, then push for ioi's to determine interest - eg do they not back or maintain eye co tact, initiate conversation with added value demonstration, talk about gym stuff or college stuff or whatever and escalate to kino (light touching) from there. Alternatively, a more modern approach would be - If you see someone you like then go up to them …
/r/seduction24/07/18 11:07 PM
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I don't think you should hit on people at the gym, no ones there for that. Focus on yourself and your goals
/r/seduction24/07/18 10:53 PM
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Unfortunately, I think you know the answer already. When people are on holiday they are in a kind of fantasy land where the normal rules no longer apply. Girls will often behave in ways that they normally wouldn't because they are in that state of feeling free and uninhibited but when they get back home the normal restraints prevail and all the goings on from the holiday feel like a reverie, a distant dream. I have had a situation very similar to this where I met a girl during a kind of holiday …
/r/seduction23/07/18 01:08 PM
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In which case I think this web site will be right up your street and I sincerely hope it works for you with your goals. Good luck!
/r/seduction16/07/18 10:07 PM
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Well I think that performative false confidence will get you laid but only by very low status manipulative women (admittedly some may be good looking - if your standards end with that). If that's what you mean by 'works' then yeh I suppose it works. If, however, you believe in personal betterment, realising your best self through self improvement and striving to only spend time with those women who reflect your values then this stuff is toxic rubbish. Anyone can 'just get laid', that's literally…
/r/seduction16/07/18 09:56 PM
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Is this some kind of terrible joke? These videos are the rancid puddle at the bottom of the seduction trickle down economy. Probably the worst thing I've ever seen on this sub. The whole thing absolutely reeks of a sick desperation. There is no value in any of this
/r/seduction16/07/18 04:57 PM
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I don't think anyone is arguing that paying for girls is a form of seduction. Nor do I think anyone is suggesting that you can ONLY get girls through game. As far as limiting physical attributes are concerned, these would be things that improved social skills might negate to some extent but I'm not sure if this is exactly what you are saying. It's not really clear what your point is or what your question is.
/r/seduction09/07/18 10:42 PM
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Yes I am taking it to the extreme. I pretty much agree with your point and I actually don't think that is exactly what he meant but these are complicated times and there's no room for nuance.
/r/seduction08/07/18 08:45 PM
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If you are doing a series of tricks to make her come to you then you are completely outcome focused and not genuinely confident. Even though she may come to you, you are essentially doing a performance and a truly high status woman will detect it. Also, it isn't good for you, it doesn't build your higher self. If you like a woman approach her and let her no with no fear of rejection. Show her that you desire her and if you are well enough calibrated, if you have done enough work on yourself firs…
/r/seduction08/07/18 12:55 PM
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That's a brilliant way to go to jail for rape. Whether you agree with the idea of it or not, enthusiastic consent is a big deal these days and what are you gonna say in court, "she said she didn't want to but her ACTIONS were communicating that she did." This is very bad advice to give, it isn't 2006. Even if that isn't what you mean you have to consider that the person listening to you might not be good at reading social cues etc.
/r/seduction07/07/18 10:52 PM
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I'm happy for you. Sounds like a really interesting emotional journey.
/r/seduction05/07/18 08:11 PM
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An experience like this can be living hell while it's happening but in the future it will be a shining beacon for where you became the person you were meant to be. This is going to be a huge learning opportunity for you and eventually, as hard as it is to believe, you will be glad for this. Good luck with your journey!
/r/seduction05/07/18 08:14 AM
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Hey, here are a few thoughts for you: were you wrong in all this? Yes you were, you were much much more invested in her throughout this whole ordeal than you were in yourself, she sensed your low confidence/ low self investment and used it to manipulate you. You are only in charge of your own behaviour, you can't control what she does and a high status man would never have found this girl attractive, let alone been involved with her to this extent. She gave you a million warnings about her natur…
/r/seduction05/07/18 07:54 AM
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This article screams insecurity on every conceivable level. It just sounds like it was written by someone who has been deeply hurt and wants to get revenge on the people who hurt him. Its fundamentally dishonest and very low value - completely outcome focused, pretend confidence performed through objectification and utterly lacking in any emotional intelligence.
/r/seduction04/07/18 10:34 PM
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Manson just address a paradox which runs through all of seduction theory going way back prior to even mystery method. The contradiction is that one cannot truly be unconcerned with the outcome and yet ardently pursue a girl at the same time. Manson is just making a logical progression from the concept of 'inner game' as addressed by Neil Strauss in the Game and then developed into the idea of 'becoming a natural' by RSD. It is fine to follow routines and canned openers etc as long as you: (A) do…
/r/seduction03/07/18 11:41 PM
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Nerves are good, they keep you sharp but they will fade with time. A day will come when you meet people who complain about 'never meet girls' or something similar and you will not be able to relate to that because you will know that you are someone who takes the initiative, someone who just went and did it, even... when it was really really scary. You are someone who will not just sit at home complaining, so go out and just enjoy the privilege of learning to be your best self.
/r/seduction01/07/18 09:01 PM
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Enjoy yourself, you are doing something the vast vast majority of people would never have the nerve to do. You are voluntarily putting yourself in a very demanding learning zone, good for you.
/r/seduction01/07/18 08:57 PM
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You are being much too vague. It seems like you don't have a solid enough grounding in the theory of social dynamics to be able to elucidate what your real strengths, and more importantly, weaknesses are in social situations. Solid advice for anyone is to work on yourself first - become truly confident in a way that is not performative, have a wide range of interests and invest in your own well being first and foremost. Seek enriching relationships and learn to be brave but vulnerable with your …
/r/seduction01/07/18 08:06 PM
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Well, firstly I am speaking in general terms because I obviously have never met the specific man in question but you have to question what a man's motivation is in dating a girl who is so much younger. Usually it is because he can appear more impressive, wield greater control, seem wiser and do and say things that people his own age might roll their eyes at and lots of people would argue that someone using a power imbalance is a manipulative thing. You guys will have very little in common and es…
/r/seduction29/06/18 11:11 AM
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You are technically an adult so you are well capable of making this choice for yourself and I suspect from the way you are wording your responses that you are maybe curious to do it. However, it is a VERY large age gap, you will not have many cultural or experience similarities and there will be a massive power imbalance. While you may have some neurosis or fetish that makes you attracted to much older men, he is most definitely acting in a predatory fashion and his motivation is questionable. T…
/r/seduction29/06/18 10:57 AM
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As much as you want man, if she doesn't reciprocate or starts leaving you on read just dial it back a bit. Don't strategize texting though, just send a message whenever you feel like it.
/r/seduction29/06/18 10:49 AM
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Lots of people hook up and then get bored and move on. It's not a big deal, just be friends now or don't if you don't want to. Don't do some weird campaign to like 'win her back' or something though - isn't it the worst when you sleep with someone a few times and you are ready to move on but they won't accept it and keep doing weird stuff to make you change your kind or make you feel guilty. Just respect her decision.
/r/seduction20/06/18 10:49 PM
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In my experience, when you make a good connection with someone they are enthusiastic about spending more time with you. If she liked you like that she would have wanted to come and with you and made it clear. She said she had a 6am flight. That's enough reason for most people to not go back to spend the night with a stranger and if she was lying then she obviously wasn't feeling it. What do you mean by 'not masculine enough?
/r/seduction17/06/18 10:27 PM
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Yes it's a combination of things: as pointed out above some men can become aggressive or violent after rejection. It is awkward to reject someone out of hand who is being very amenable and in some cases the person who approaches can be very charming/charismatic but once that state has dwindled the girl is no longer interested.
/r/seduction17/06/18 10:21 PM
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Now flee from youthful lusts and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart
/r/seduction05/06/18 11:02 PM
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