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I don't really care if this story is real or not. In three minutes I will have moved on with my life and will probably never think of it again. But I do find it interesting that you felt compelled to come here and tell your obvious shock-value story under the guise of "discussion". True alphas must not have much to do in their spare time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 07:49 AM
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Especially when they punch them in the face and threaten to kill them. That's my fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 07:44 AM
3

I have some really helpful advice: Don't date or surround yourself with women who act like that. And if you think, "all the women around me act like that" then you need seriously evaluate why women like that gravitate towards you, and why women who are not like that stay away from you.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 09:56 PM
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AND look at Chris Brown!!!!! Dude is still the #1 sex symbol to like all women. Dude how out of touch are you? hahaha You're hilarious
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 09:48 PM
7

Don't date shitty people, sounds like bad taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 11:54 PM
4

Alright guys, there you have it. Pack up PPD, they finally get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 06:17 AM
1

Just try harder next time
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/15 04:02 AM
14

No. I've had this discussion on here before, I could find it in my history if anyone wants. It could be considered threatening/manipulation, but the thing that matters is whether it is justified or not. I am not obligated to spend the rest of my life with you if you refuse to have sex with me, just like you are not obligated to have sex with me just because we are married. Context is key, people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 02:50 AM
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People, please don't feed the trolls...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/15 04:24 AM
1

Wow...I don't know about other women but I can say personally this is exactly what it feels like for me, and I never knew how to describe it! Thank you Although I disagree that it's default is to take a while to get going. It gets going on it'sown just fine. Just that once it loses momentum it definitely takes some power to get it back up
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/15 04:35 AM
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Yes I think telling your partner that you've never touched or been touched in that way when you have is a huge problem. No one should feel comfortable telling that big of a lie to their partner. A factor though is why they felt the need to do it? Will they be cast out and degraded as sluts by everyone because they've slept with one or two men ever in their whole life? Then shit, I think the injustice done to them outweighs the injustice they are doing. But it would take an extreme case to justif…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/15 06:10 AM
5

Anastasia Steele and Christian Grey
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 11:59 PM
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I actually thought that last one was pretty funny, but it probably wasn't supposed to be
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 05:00 AM
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The Story of O is about as abusive as it gets. I don't think that's any where near representative of BDSM either, and I know many people on /r/bdsm agree
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 03:39 PM
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I said that people should communicate their needs to their partner, you said "Why should one partner have to invest time and energy into a non-problem created by their partners neuroses?" I said, Did you seriously just call having and then communicating wants and needs in a relationship neurotic; you have now somehow twisted that into claiming that I said having wants and needs in a relationship is neurotic, and are also saying that I allegedly demonstrate having harsh judgements on people who e…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 07:14 AM
2

I've never been attracted to someone I've seen who was transgendered, so I would have to say no, given that preference as it stands. Not to mention it was said somewhere in the thread that a FtM would not have a functioning... member? I'm not educated on the issue but if that was the case it would be a deal breaker for me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 05:15 AM
3

So... As a straight woman you would have to give up PiV sex to be with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 05:13 AM
1

You saying that expressing my needs in a relationship is manipulative, is manipulative. You're selfishly trying to change my behavior by guilt tripping me with manipulation. See? You can say that about anything. Or alternatively, you could just put on your big girl panties and have a mature and open conversation with your partner without taking it as some kind of insult and attack. Anyway, I hope you the best, genuinely. Thank you for having a civil, open and mature conversation with me, even if…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 03:54 AM
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Oh so it is that you're just overly sensative, and apparently avoidant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/15 06:15 PM
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Why should one partner have to invest time and energy into a non-problem created by their partners neuroses? You tell me. Or do you not understand what those words mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/15 01:21 AM
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Why should one partner have to invest time and energy into a non-problem created by their partners neuroses? Sexual or otherwise needs is "a functional disorder in which feelings of anxiety, obsessional thoughts, compulsive acts, and physical complaints without objective evidence of disease, in various degrees and patterns, dominate the personality"? You must have relationships of deep and beautiful quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/15 10:56 PM
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Maybe your boyfriend doesn't know how to have a mature conversation about his needs without making you feel attacked or manipulated. Or maybe you're sensative and can't handle hearing that he's anything other than over the moon at all times. Who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/15 10:50 PM
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Well if stating your wants or needs under any circumstances in a relationship is nagging and manipulative, and your advice is to not bother "working on the relationship" but to just jump ship and leave immediately, then you must have really long-term, deeply-understanding and fullfilling relationships. Until you want to play more boardgames or cuddle and realize that you're really just being a manipulative piece of shit and dump him, of course. Actually that sounds a lot like hopping from man to…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/15 07:00 PM
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This is a very valid point. I think this circumstance is heavily dependent on the amount of time, though. If someone can't handle a couple dry weeks every once in a blue moon, then I think they're being sensitive/entitled. On the other hand, I've been in relationships that started out with asinine amounts of sex, and shriveled up around the year mark into being sexless. I was on the cut-off end of the deal and after months and months of trying everything I could, it started to make the relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/15 05:06 AM
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Is this a joke? Ok...To start. I already said that sex is not an entitlement. So no, no one is ENTITLED to it. Let me repeat, no, someone is not ENTITLED TO SEX WITH THEIR PARTNER. What I did say is If it's long term, or for unreasonable reasons, but especially both, then I think [it is emotional abuse] Can you please explain how you garnered from my set up of the denial being both long term, and being unreasonable, that I must have meant that I expect someone in a relationship who has recently …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/15 04:53 AM
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But the quantity drive varies; women have a quantity drive of 5 and men have a quantity drive of 15. This means men are more likely to be willing to forego some quality in exchange for additional quantity, whilst the opposite is true of women. And yet the results are the same, so this almost boils down to splitting hairs. I'd suspect that if our society stopped judging men's worthiness on the basis of sexual conquests and if the stigmas against porn/masturbation/etc were to vanish, we'd start se…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/15 04:43 AM
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Except that isn't including the end of my post where I said that if there is a problem in the first place than the couple needs to reevaluate a multitude of variables. That should be considered "fighting" to make it work, in whatever way is best. You should obviously only walk away from a serious long term relationship after trying your best to resolve any issues reasonably.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/15 04:35 AM
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However, if you don't WANT to make your partner happy, and you don't try to, then you should not be surprised if they decide they would like to be with someone else who does. Yes this is much more in line with what I was trying to say but didn't word it well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/15 07:30 PM
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I'm a feminist and I think nine is complete bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/15 06:30 PM
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In regard to number nine I think that's a pretty flippant attitude to take. Obviously the presumption here is that the relationship is long term/serious/marriage. Oh course no one is entitled to have sex with another person, but if you have entered a long term, monogamous relationship then you have some responsibility to meet your partner halfway unless the relationship was founded with the understanding that sex would be rare or nonexistent. This person has agreed cease all sexual contact with …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/15 05:35 PM
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I don't think you truly understand what hypergamy is No, I mean the actual definition of the actual word: "Hypergamy is the act or practice of marrying someone wealthier, or of higher caste or status than oneself."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/15 04:17 PM
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I agree both genders participate in it but I would disagree with saying it is done equally. Men are more willing to 'settle for less' in order to get laid due to their higher "throbbing raw hunger" relative to women. Whilst partner quality is something which both sexes desire, a man's higher libido will in general mean he will be less picky on average. I disagree to some extent. A lot of the time, men are told the exact opposite; that women have this magical non-shallow sexuality which is attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/15 04:06 PM
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I wouldn't go that far. Ideas like hypergamy and (most importantly) the belief that female sexuality is just as looks-driven as male sexuality seem to be pretty core to Red Pill theory and perfectly compatible with respecting people. Hypergamy is something that both genders participate in equally. Hypergamy is looking/marrying someone "out of your league", and almost everyone is guilty of trying to get the Best they can. Goldigging women want rich men, older men want young beautiful women, ect. …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/15 06:46 AM
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Yeah no shit. Women have been clamoring into STEM fields and military/police fields since the moment they were aloud to be. So... Sorry men haven't wanted us until recently? It's almost like they have an information-selection bias and just don't take in the same shit that every one else sees as obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/15 06:04 AM
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I think TRP has some truth in it In the most basic sense, yes it has some. But if it stopped at "have self respect" instead of going on to say "and be disrespectful to others" then it would be not only better on every level, but it would also just be standard charecter-building dating advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/15 05:55 AM
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lmao And this is why we laugh at your "logic" Because saying that it's important to have similar views in a relationship is just a female, BP CONSPIRACY for racism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/15 05:28 PM
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Except that a work environment is nothing like a relationship; a relationship is founded on similar personal views and ideology, which are both things that should be almost entirely kept out of the workplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/15 05:00 PM
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The fact that I want to date someone within my culture is an...excuse? An excuse for what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/15 04:14 PM
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I would prefer to date within my culture Similar culture is just that important to me This is by far and large the most common reason, and it's pretty telling of OP that he sees something that is pretty basic common sense in dating, and thinks "racist!" and "conspiracy!"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/15 06:33 PM
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So a woman fucks a lot of men despite all the social condemnation? How brave. Oh yes, I forgot. Those poor women who fuck 90 guys and have trouble fucking another because they are labeled as a slut. Must be so hard to find another dick in this barren wasteland. Boo hoo. Ok I gotta admit, this was fucking hilarious. The barren wasteland part is what keeps really getting me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 07:06 PM
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The fact that I continually breath is fundamentally self-centered. I don't see the point of his argument. Every time I eat I'm being self-centered as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 06:45 PM
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The entire premise is "treat her kind of shitty and she'll wet her panties and never leave". But they're constantly changing the "facts" depending on what they're arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 06:42 PM
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Bad troll
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/14 10:19 PM
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Treat women equally as opposed to what, in what case? Not trying to be condescending, just asking context.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/14 09:29 PM
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Seriously. This is just the basic idea of "constantly improve yourself to find better suiters and don't have a bunch of meaningless sex if you want a relationship" that all experienced and mature people/women know, except dripping with the degradation and bitterness that is TRP. It wasn't even a debate or question (he had to be told top add a question in), this guy just wants to feel like he's really smart and post one of the many evo-psych, pseudo-enlightened dissertations that are constantly p…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/14 08:56 PM
2

... What does that have to do with an observation about what a lot of RP men have said about make SMV?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/14 12:09 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/14 07:34 AM
1

It's kind of off topic, but could you explain? I'm like this with a lot of things, but all things?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/14 09:31 PM
1

Not to mention most of their strategy is about breaking them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 10:41 PM
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You shouldn't date terrible people
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 03:45 AM
2

For reference I'm 27 and hang out with 18-24 year olds regularly. So you hang out with generally immature people and you're upset when they act immature?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 03:17 AM
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women demanding commitment from any man (alpha or beta) before sex? That's pretty much the definition of traditional courtship. But I agree with the first half, the hookup culture has gotten pretty out of control
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 08:39 PM
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What is traditional courtship to you? Genuinely curious; when I hear that term I don't really know what it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/14 06:35 AM
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Holy shit an explination that actually looks at reality and doesn't just warp it to demonize an entire gender? GTFO Edit: I've tried to explain to many a RP man here on PPD that young women are usually just inexperienced and therefore to a degree, "easy pickings" for these "alphas". And that us learning what we do and don't want from a man and therefore then finding a "beta" that we actually do want to stay with, isn't some big conspiracy (subconscious or otherwise) against men, it's called lear…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/14 06:25 AM
0

Because you're having to "cash in" with inexperienced women who "don't know any better" yet? Kinda sad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/14 06:21 AM
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Exactly. How am I supposed to give him advice when I have no idea what he could be doing wrong? That makes any answer a probable wrong answer
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/14 03:59 AM
2

TRP doesn't believe hypergamy is a bad thing, really? That's what we're going with?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/14 02:34 AM
4

I think it would just come down to the type and health of my relationship. If my SO was controlling, manipulative or irrationally jealous, this would probably be the final insult and I would tell him to take a hike. If my current SO and I found out next week I was pregnant and he asked for a paternity test, even if he said "Well you know babe, it's just a huge step. This will change both of our lives forever. I would just feel better if it was on paper." Then yeah I'm sure I would be offended, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/14 11:37 PM
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No its guys like this who say It was that we were born not as emotional and more rational. And then immediately, with no editing on my part, says We do not express how we are sad, if we are true men we resolve them. Who is the problem. He said that in direct response to me saying men should not feel uncomfortable opening up. He is the one who said "real men just man up". I find it a little ironic that people with these rigid gender roles do not see the hypocritical contradiction they are inflict…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/14 03:06 PM
4

You're got really emotional over a couple reddit comments
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/14 03:16 PM
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It says right in the article that the results indicate that men are less likely to communicate that they're unhappy and therfore the wife/marriage will be less effected than if the wife is unhappy, because she will let him know and it will directly effect the marriage. I think that is probably to do with the fact that men are raised not to express their feelings, which I find very sad. Even in my own experience, I didn't know how frustrated my SO was becoming about some miscommunications in our …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/14 04:33 AM
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All* I could do was laugh before I even got to the actual post
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/14 02:28 AM
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That's my point also
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/14 04:30 AM
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Although, by the same token I've heard women say all the good men are married or gay. I've also heard this saying: "Attractive, Single, Sane - Pick Two." I've heard this about women more than men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/14 01:13 AM
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Was this an answer to her question? I didn't see it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/14 12:43 AM
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I guess I see it as kin dof unique to TRP, constrasted with the feminist "You go girl! Any man woh doesn't think you're beautiful no matter how you look or how much you weigh is a jerk! NEVER change yourself!" As much as they think they are, SJW aren't feminists. They are just the other side of the extremist coin. And yes, they can be just as bad and damaging. That's actually the main thing that attracts me to TRP as a woman- they admit that most people, including women, need to improve. If it w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/14 07:21 PM
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So, yeah. The second list of things, I totally understand why you can see that and say "I'm not red pill." But to be 100% blue pill, don't you have to be 100% anti-red-pill? And can't you admit that their BASIC theories are by and large true? No, you don't have to be 100% anti-red in order to be blue, life is not black and white, nothing ever fits perfectly into a stereotype, and everyone has different experiences and opinions. Yes you could say that their most basic of beliefs like the ones you…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/14 06:42 PM
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Marrying a woman who is under 18 (48% chance of divorce within 10 years) [Whereas] Divorce is...reduced by 24% [HALF] if you wait until you are older than 25 to get married. As for partner count, I know it's been theorized that a higher partner count means more risk of divorce, and this wouldn't surprise me, but I can't seem to find a legitimate study on this. I fucking knew it. It's almost as if Redpillers don't know what the fuck they're talking about... "If you are a woman who has recently be…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/14 01:16 AM
2

2, 24, 135
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/14 09:57 PM
5

What's your number, Mr. Sainthood?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/14 09:57 PM
5

Maybe bent at 90 degree angle? Yeah I was hoping he would expound on that, but apparently he felt it was self-evident
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/14 09:53 PM
2

Oh my god it's so cute
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/14 04:35 PM
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lol Right, because I'm the pretentious one in the above conversation. OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/14 04:30 PM
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Uhm average age of first marriage for women is 27 and rising. Which in and of itself is evidence of women's interest in sleeping around (or having lots of ephemeral "long term" relationships) when young. You would think that with the rate of divorce (which is just the woman being hypergamous, ofc), you would be all for people waiting longer before jumping into marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/14 01:11 PM
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He's passive aggressively attempting to condition her out of having an emotional reaction to feeling used by him when he blatantly uses her for sex and then dismisses her otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/14 12:32 AM
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No, he is just less invested. It's easy not to have a emotional reaction to something going downhill if you're not emotionally invested in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/14 12:30 AM
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And look at that. He acts patronizing when you answer his question with more than one word, and disappears when it's his turn to hold up his end of the constructive conversation. What an absolute rose; exactly what I expect from a redpiller
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/14 12:25 AM
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Hmmm, you're right. Sorry, I didn't look into it very well and was under the wrong impression
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 09:43 PM
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No, narcissism is an excessive sense of self‑importance, and a lack of empathy for others. Pretty much the exact opposite of feeling inadequate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 09:00 PM
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What's being misinterpreted? On a side note, this seems like classic gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/14 08:46 PM
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Isn't it kind of sad that he was able to succeed in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/14 08:39 PM
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he had mastered the art of holding a person in way that was simply orgasmic That sounds nice. I didn't trust that this wouldn't be an area of contention in the future Exactly; I felt like it would become this skeleton in the closet that I would feel the need to hide and lie about for fear of being shamed by him, which seemed unhappy and exhausting even to think about
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 03:32 PM
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I had the opportunity to date someone who was a 23 y/o (I was 22 at the time) virgin who considered sex to a very intimate and treasured experience, and he wanted it to be done with someone he was very serious with. I found the idea of being his "teacher" to be intimidating, but I was mostly uncertain about the validity of us having a relationship because A. We had radically (to me) different moral views (religion) & B. He had made it clear that because of how serious he considered his own sexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 03:42 AM
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only a matter of time before you leave him a for a real man who can make you submit I can practically feel you cumming your pants from with excitement at the very thought. Creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 12:33 AM
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You forgot the part where they asked if there was someone else up there they could talk to, presumably someone more mentally stable and sane since they knew there was no point in continuing to attempt to converse with him. I think the analogy works well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 03:27 AM
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Are you five?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/14 09:07 PM
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This is what drives me insane about PPD. When they say "That's not what we meant! I mean that's what we say we meant, but it's not what we meant!" You really do think I'm a fucking idiot, if you think all you have to say is "We don't think women are dumb! We never said that!" and I'm just going to say "Oh well I had no idea. I guess this is just a huge misunderstanding. Moving along, then." Just own it. Stop trying to down play it when in "public" just to go back to tRP saying the same shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/14 04:52 PM
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most of the women I know are partnered with "nice" (wo)men, according to their sexual preference. It's almost like they're referencing when females are younger; are experimenting and don't have any experience, and therefore make poor choices for the first few years of their dating world. Like that "bad boy" or "cute actor/rockstar" phase young women go through. At the same time, most males I know went through a "I'll fuck/date the rudest, nastiest, sluttiest thing that will spread her legs for m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/14 03:22 PM
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But women, he said, have evolved to have a high sex drive when they are initially in a relationship in order to form a "pair bond" with their partner. But, once this bond is sealed a woman's sexual appetite declines, he added. He said animal behaviour studies suggest this could be because females may be diverting their sexual interest towards other men, in order to secure the best combinations of genetic material for their offspring. Or maybe they're just bored? Or maybe because men tend to lose…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/14 03:23 PM
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of being seen as creepy, getting accused of sexual assault and all that This is a good point, and a big problem that society needs to work on. Sexual assault does happen, and it happens a lot. But most guys aren't assailants, and it's not right that in today's society a guy who's done nothing wrong somtimes has to fear being labeled a creep, or god forbid a rapist, unjustly. While I don't think this is the fault of "feminism" so much as an overreaction by extremists making unfair generalizations…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/14 09:48 PM
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You do realize there's a pretty stark difference between laughingly casting aside sexist notions you do not really care for and are glad to be rid of, and a redpiller's grim realization that the sexist notions he does not WANT to be true in fact are. Not exactly a 1:1 comparison we're talking here. One is clearly a more painful experience. And you do realize that there are a plethera of negative sexist notions from men towards women that all women are upset about finding out are in fact a realit…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/14 06:36 PM
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Men approach women. Men set up dates. Men escalate the date into intimacy. This entire process is completely lead by men, women just sit back and enjoy the ride. Men often bear the financial cost of courting and sometimes the emotional cost of being rejected. Women are exempt from these costs because of their passivity. I don't know if you just live in a conservative area, but where I live (which is not even very forward thinking, compared to a lot of the rest of the country) it doesn't work thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/14 06:30 PM
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You mean when: Women were expected to restrict their sphere of interest to the home and the family. Women were not encouraged to obtain a real education or pursue a professional career. After marriage, women did not have the right to own their own property, keep their own wages, or sign a contract. In addition, all women were denied the right to vote? Or when: Women were completely controlled by the men in their lives. First, by their fathers, brothers and male relatives and finally by their hus…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/14 06:01 PM
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Yes and I can see why he feels that way, but that's mostly stemming from an inner self hatred and bitterness because life wasn't "fair" to him and now he's taking it out on her just because she has a sexual past and that activates his chip-on-the-shoulder bad attitude. I get why he's pissed, I really do. But he's a big boy now and it's time to get over the past and handle things like a mature adult, not an angry child... Besides, I would wager most single people in their thirties would feel like…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/14 01:29 AM
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Yeah it was pretty obvious that he's very emotionally fragile, but I figured if I said something to that effect I would be attacked for it. I agree, this isn't something that makes him pathetic or stupid, that it just means he's dealing with a lot and that therapy would probably help him a great deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/14 01:17 AM
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She thinks bodybuilders are super hot She did and doesn't anymore. That's what I don't get. It's like he responded to "I used to be attracted to a different kind of men than I am now." With "sigh See this is why I have to break up with you." Huh? I don't get it. Either we're missing something or this is just the ramblings of a guy going through a break up, and not the actual explination as to why (as far as I can tell?).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/14 09:41 PM
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"I Would Never Have dated You When I Was 25" Well that's a pretty insensitive thing to say to someone you're dating. I can't imagine many relationships that saying something like that to the other partner would be appropriate or acceptable, unless it's understood that the other person has thick skin and this wouldn't bother them (obviously not the case with this example). "[then] I told her that I would never marry her" Huh. Ok well unless the guy just doesn't believe in the institution of marri…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/14 09:35 PM
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Thank you :) It's crazy to think that two years ago I was balking at the suggestion from my then-boyfriend, thinking "He just wants an excuse to cheat!" and "He must think I'm a slut!" and completely shutting it down as something I could never do. Now even though I don't feel an impending pressure to dive into it anytime soon, it's something I don't think I could ever go back to not wanting to eventually have in my LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/14 06:29 PM
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I'm BP and my last boyfriend warmed me up to the idea of open relationships because he had a cuckold fetish. We never made it into a reality, although we had plans to. With my current SO it was me that was introducing the idea to him, and he's opened up to it. We talk about it being a future possibility once both of us feel more stable and secure, as we've only been together about six months. We both agree that for now it would be more of a stress inducer than anything else, given that we both h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/14 06:15 PM
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/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 04:56 AM
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Exactly. This is like saying "Oh I see you've previously complained about having an abusive and manipulative friend who you choose to spend a lot of time with at one point before cutting out of your life, and you now only hang around people who "treat you better". Clearly this indicates that you prefer to have asshole friends. See, you like it, you want it." Plus this doesn't take into account at all that many of those cases are results of the fact that in a relationship "abusive" or "manipulati…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/14 03:23 AM
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This entire thread is ORP saying that because he took someone else's anecdotal evidence out of context it proves his point? It's the entire foundation of this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/14 03:01 AM
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I don't understand how wanting to date someone, then finding out they are an asshole and subsequently dumping him shows "see being an asshole works!"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/14 02:57 AM
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I personally believe this is just settling for more quantity from lesser quality women. It's easy to get the kind of vapid, shallow women that respond to "asshole-complex" but I assume most people would rather go through the extra effort to find an approach that yields better quality acquaintances. You're also putting yourself into a self-fulfilling prophecy because you're constantly thinking "See! Look how vapid and shallow they are! I knew they deserved to be treated like immoral children." Be…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/14 04:57 AM
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He thinks you're offended because you keep saying "Ah you just think I'm repulsive and are telling me to fuck off!" Implying "Why should I listen to something so rude??" So he keeps trying to clarify that that isn't what he meant, and then you just try to discredit that by saying "Why are you defending yourself like I'm offended? I'm not offended, so you're obviously just trying to distract from the actual topic." He's addressing an issue you created by making him feel like he had to defend hims…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/14 04:23 AM
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Oh I just figured you couldn't read, sorry to interupt.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 06:48 PM
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I think you misread the question: "Why do you identify as Blue Pill? Or, if it's easier, Why do you not identify as Red Pill?"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/14 05:53 PM
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It's not a "developement" like we're "lacking" something. That's why it is mocking. Female brain have increased connection between neurons in the right and left hemispheres of the brain, meaning women’s brains are wired to better integrate between intuitive and emotional regions involved in rationality and planning; and males have increased neural communication within hemispheres from frontal to rear portions of the organ giving stronger links between coordinated action and perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/14 04:22 PM
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That's makes wonderful sense. I suppose my hang up is on the fact that it needs to be viewed as "treating women like children" and saying that women are emotionally stunted because "they don't mature emotionally past the age of ten" instead of just ackowledging that women want to have a conversation about the way you act towards her makes her feel and men want to have a conversation about why they acted that way. Neither is wrong, neither is stupid. Women might say, "yes I can see why logically …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/14 03:43 PM
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Well yes I will admit that if I found out my SO was "gaming" "dreading" or otherwise manipulating me in any of the number of ways I've seen advised in TRP I wouldn't feel valued or respected as an intelligent equal in the relationship. I don't think that's a projection, I think that's the fact of the matter. I'll never say that most women don't enjoy feeling "safe" and taken care of, like they have someone they can turn to for answers when they want or need them. Anyone would prefer to feel that…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/14 03:20 PM
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I understand and respect your point, but I don't see why guys with amazing bodies hitting on me would compell me to change my need for honesty and respect in a relationship, or even a FWB situation. I've had douchey, egotistical, yet drop-dead looking men approach me before (I'm not claiming this to be a common occurance, but it has happened) and the cocky, disrespectful attitude makes me lose interest. The type of women that will treat you in a way that will never make you feel the need to cont…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/14 03:05 PM
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He is not an upstanding fellow by blue pill standards. You will never be with her because she only selects guys who do what it takes. Hmm. I guess as just a normal, standard woman who has always valued honesty and respect, I've always looked at the type of women who would even want the kind of men you're refering to as being unattractive and not the kind of people I would expect any self-respecting, intelligent man to want. I always figured that the only types of men who went after women that re…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/14 08:27 PM
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Many times a guy looks at a girl and thinks "I want to fuck her." (I do this at a half dozen times a day without even trying.) BUT... a guy can almost never approach a woman and say that. He has to think of something else to say and reel her in. My point: the goal for the man is sex, but he can't acknowledge that right up front. From the get-go he has to conceal his intentions somewhat. This is a big part of the reason men aren't always honest with women. If they knew what we really thought they…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/14 07:51 PM
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Thank you; I was afraid it came off dismissive and a little condescending, I'm glad it didn't
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/14 01:39 AM
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I think it's more a matter of just finding someone who turly loves you for who you are. As a woman, almost every relationship I've been in I've been scared to show vulnerability or emotion also because if I do then I'm a stereotypical crazy emotional girl. And, as a woman, if my SO came to me with his vulnerabilities I would never react in any way other than loving. I know you said You can do it on occasion but you can't make a habit out of it. But I think that's arguable for anyone. If anyone i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/14 02:27 PM
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