| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 73 | Looking to improve your social skills? Go skiing. | mahuchu | /r/seduction | 26/01/13 01:45 AM | |
| 7 | Lets talk about text game, again [with examples] | mahuchu | /r/seduction | 20/01/14 11:28 PM |
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| 2 | How do i break down getting physical into practical elements you can train one at a time.His entire book "Models" is brilliant. Also check out the rest of his website if you haven't already | /r/seduction | 31/05/15 05:01 PM |
| 7 | How do i break down getting physical into practical elements you can train one at a time.Honestly man, this is the best advice you can take right now. Don't worry about some kino escalation ladder, don't worry about being a 'creep', you'll never get anywhere with a negative mindset. | /r/seduction | 30/05/15 01:46 PM |
| 2 | What if I just want to be that cool dude everyone likes?http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/gjqim/the_definitive_seddit_inner_game_collection/ The hardest part is to have a good time yourself and always keep a positive attitude. Sure it sounds simple, but being able to have fun and carry on in social situations isn't always easy. Like anything it takes work, and the quickest way to learn is to go out and actually practice. | /r/seduction | 11/04/15 06:07 PM |
| 7 | What if I just want to be that cool dude everyone likes?Then almost all of the advice on this sub still applies to you. You need to be social and outgoing, but most importantly have value to offer. If you're organizing social events, always having fun, introducing people, than people will start wanting to hang around you. | /r/seduction | 11/04/15 04:14 PM |
| 2 | No ioi, approach or not?Most of the time you won't be getting any IOI's before an approach man. You just suck it up and go say hi | /r/seduction | 11/04/15 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Is there any empirical/scientific evidence to prove PUA tactics work? Or is a lot of it psuedoscience?Powerful characteristics in the sense they are (were?) the most necessary for your survival, and the survival of your offspring. For men this was dominance, strength, ability to provide (hunting skills etc). For women this was ability to nurture, reproduce, and provide healthy genes for a child. These characteristics are (were) desirable because they lead to the greatest chance of your genetic line being carried on. This is a subconscious process which is wired into everyones genetic makeup, and… | /r/seduction | 08/04/15 01:01 AM |
| 3 | Is there any empirical/scientific evidence to prove PUA tactics work? Or is a lot of it psuedoscience?I don't think a lot of the 'Tactics' themselves are actually scientifically proven. But a lot of the knowledge going around the pick-up community is, like you said, based on scientific research. Take Richard Dawkins "The Selfish Gene" as an example. He mentions why people act the way they do, and how when procreating you are naturally attracted to those people who display powerful characteristics that will carry on your genetic line. So I don't think you could say someone doing a magic trick is … | /r/seduction | 07/04/15 03:02 PM |
| 3 | Kissing on first date?I agree. The rule makes it so no matter what I'll go for it. It's always in the back of my mind and has lead to me making a move when I've been hesitant to - almost always giving a positive result. | /r/seduction | 06/04/15 02:18 PM |
| 92 | Kissing on first date?I always go for a kiss on the first date. If she's interested she'll reciprocate and if not then I need to reevaluate what she wants out of our relationship. There's no perfect moment, like Mark Manson says when you want to just shut up and kiss her | /r/seduction | 04/04/15 07:34 PM |
| 4 | Throwing a party todayYou're the host man, which means you'll know everyone and have a ton of preselection. Just have fun and don't be too uptight about having people in your house and you'll be good | /r/seduction | 04/04/15 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Need help determining how long you should wait to text a girl back?I fully agree with you, which is why it's awesome to get out and actually do something. If I'm out hiking with friends the last thing on my mind is texting that girl I met on the weekend back. Is the website a bad idea? No. It's a good stepping stone for guys who are transitioning into a more attractive lifestyle, until they reach a point where they no longer need it | /r/seduction | 09/07/14 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Meeting older womenYou don't need to do anything different. The only thing to keep in mind is they may be more in tune with their surroundings and be able to call you out if you're being somebody you're not. I slept with a 39 year old when I was 19, I never lied about my age and I gamed her the same way I would somebody my own age at the time. | /r/seduction | 09/07/14 12:44 AM |
| 3 | Putting x's at the end of texts.You seem to be overanalyzing this man, I sometimes will throw xoxo at the end of my texts as a joke but you shouldn't be in your head thinking "is this the right time to end my text with an x" | /r/seduction | 09/07/14 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Need help determining how long you should wait to text a girl back?The whole point behind not texting a girl back right away is because it gives the illusion that you have more fun and interesting things going on in your life than waiting for her to respond to you. The best way to do this is to actually have fun and exciting things going on in your life so that you check your phone on your time, and respond on your time. | /r/seduction | 09/07/14 12:37 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on LED TShirts?Like many forms of peacocking you're going to look like a tool. But people will see it and it will be a conversation starter so just weigh the pros and cons and decide for yourself | /r/seduction | 08/07/14 02:49 PM |
| 2 | You guys must spend a lot....I spend next to nothing on dates man, you don't need to go out to dinner and drinks every night. For example in my city there's an outdoor skating rink that has free skate rentals that I take girls to in the winter. Beforehand I grind and press my own coffee and make us lattes to bring in travel mugs, costs about $1 for coffee and milk and the girls love it more than all of the other cheesy dates. Find something fun to do in your city and make yourself stand out from all the other guys doing the… | /r/seduction | 08/07/14 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Lets talk about text game, again [with examples]I can't speak to bad timing, but all you have going for you is charm and good looks? Dude that's all you need. Fuck all that other bullshit it only matters if you think it does. My go to date this time of year is to invite her to my place, I make us each lattes to put in travel mugs and then we go ice skating in a local (free) outdoor skating rink. It costs me maybe $1.50 and trust me girls love it. You don't need a ton of money to have a good time. If she feels comfortable around you and is hav… | /r/seduction | 21/01/14 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Lets talk about text game, again [with examples]Hmm that's a tricky situation, I'm usually only planning a couple days in advance so I've never really been in that situation. If she's away for work or vacation I wouldn't message her, if not I would try and schedule for earlier or send her a message in about a week but keep it simple. The most ideal situation would be if she texts you to check in, but that's not always the case. Stick to short and simple, and talk to other people and girls in the meantime. | /r/seduction | 21/01/14 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Lets talk about text game, again [with examples]The only emoticon I use is a winky face and I'll usually only use it to start a conversation (often with a girl I know I'll be sleeping with soon). But I have friends who use them more often. Key is calibration, if she isn't sending you any I wouldn't send any back. Exclamations yes, sometimes I'll send a mass message to 3 or 4 girls saying something like "Hike the split tomorrow! Bring extra food" to make it seem more exciting when sending invites | /r/seduction | 21/01/14 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Lets talk about text game, again [with examples]Then texting should factor in even less, if you know you'll see her Friday for example don't worry about texting her Thursday to say hi | /r/seduction | 21/01/14 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Lets talk about text game, again [with examples]I might text her on Friday to confirm the meeting, something simple and fun like "Get ready for the best date of your life tomorrow" but keeping to two or three messages (unless she is texting you like crazy, don't fully ignore her) | /r/seduction | 21/01/14 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Looking to improve your social skills? Go skiing.Yeah that is a problem. If it's a nice day I try and take my helmet/hat/goggles off on the chair but other than that there's not much you can do | /r/seduction | 27/01/13 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Looking to improve your social skills? Go skiing.Note to self: Get hot girl to teach me to ski FTFY | /r/seduction | 27/01/13 03:46 AM |
| 3 | Looking to improve your social skills? Go skiing.The snow has been awesome this year! Pickup is definitely secondary to the powder we've been getting | /r/seduction | 26/01/13 05:29 PM |
| 3 | Looking to improve your social skills? Go skiing.Well I'm a very good skier (competed nationally for 3 years) so normally I'll tease girls for not being as good, saying they need a lesson (great idea for a meetup the next day) or ask "Do you drink as bad as you ski." But I'm pretty intermediate at this pickup stuff so that's all I really have to offer | /r/seduction | 26/01/13 05:27 PM |
| 16 | Looking to improve your social skills? Go skiing.I didn't downvote you, but this post isn't directed at the people who can walk up to a random girl and talk to them. I made this to help the newbies who find it hard or nearly impossible to approach a stranger. This approach forces an interaction, which is why it is good for beginners. I'm also at a level where I don't need these forced interactions but some people do, and that's why I made this post | /r/seduction | 26/01/13 02:29 AM |
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