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1	Follow-up: Men are indeed hotter when using makeup. science doesn't care about gender norms. Also: gay men. Such a study is super simple to do. Sampling group size is also small. I am 100% sure companies have been doing these studies regularly to test products for men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/22 08:42 AM
2	According to you, what does the "average guy"'s dating life look like, as well as the "average woman"'s? Dude, extreme sexual behavior or no sexual behvior at all are both reactions to traumatic sexual experiences in childhood which lead to mental health issues in adolescence and adulthood. Read a freaking article for once and stop arguing from your feminist ideology base. Also, women on average have a way lower interest in casual sex than men do. The median number of sex partners women wish to have during a lifetime is 1. My girlfriend wants to have about 40. She is a woman too, this is not in con…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/22 08:19 AM
1	Men crisis, possible solution. sex ratios are a thing. There is only a man for every woman if the ratio is even, which it usually is. Removing women out of another dating pool is making the situation for the men there worse. OP tried to solve the men's crisis, but with his solution he was only solving his crisis and transfering his problem over to a developing country.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/22 08:12 AM
1	How much sex do women actually have? How many are you talking about? Because you can put "many woman" in front of ANY statement and it's true. Many women hate it to be eaten out until they have an orgasm on casual sex encounters.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/22 08:06 AM
2	Follow-up: Men are indeed hotter when using makeup. It's unbelievable that the effect of make up on the perceived attractiveness of men has not been studied before. Every makeup company on earth has an interest in expanding their market to the other half of the population, doubling potential sales. And they want to tell me that this hasn't been done?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 09:12 PM
2	How old are you, and have you had your first love yet? I am m38 and i had my first love at 13, second love at 20, third at 32, fourth at 35. I often come across people age 23-26 who say they have never truely loved someone, or their new relationship is the first one they ever loved, or they even can't tell if they ever loved someone. I can understand that someone doesn't want to be your first. Because people don't want to risk their emotions with someone who has a high chance to not be able to deal with the hardships of a relationship. You haven't l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 06:30 PM
1	Men crisis, possible solution. (We are not all living in the US. The US is not the most successful country in the world, unless "successful" somehow has nothing to do with any of the metrics used in rankings of best countries or countries with highest quality of life.) Men are not in crisis. Some men are. The one's who are a net loss for a woman to be in a relationship with over being single. Once men aren't needed anymore for financial stability and the woman is not yet old enough to consider family building, a man really ne…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 06:20 PM
4	What should an inexperienced man do? Imagine an average dude who, for whatever reason, hasn't dated and is now out there searching. First you need to identify what those "whatever reasons" are and then change yourself so they no longer are a part of your life. Then you start having experiences and no longer be inexperienced. Yes, this means you will have to go through the same things that younger people already did. There is no fast track to your next date being your future wife. You will fuck up a lot of things and people will be …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 05:00 PM
1	Women (especially young and liberal ones) judge female infidelity less harshly than male infidelity Not quite on topic, but it's in the linked article's source. It always cracks me up how medieval americans are still thinking about premarital sex and that their traditional beliefs are so ingrained, they hold them against their own contradicting behavior. Roughly equal numbers of Americans say it is always or often morally wrong for a young woman (33 percent) or a young man (35 percent) to have sex before getting married. -source Yet "everyone" has premarital sex. The vast majority of Americans…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 09:48 AM
1	How should a higher libido woman behave with a lower libido man? So I want to know: - Would you want to have a higher libido wife or partner? - How would this scenario (HL wife, LL husband) make you feel as a man? - If you had a lower libido than your female partner, how should she behave? Should she accept your libido as is? Should she stop initiating? Should she try harder to turn you on? What is the secret? No, i'd prefer to have a same libido parttner Especially in this case of HL wife, LL husband i (m38) would feel like i can't satisfy my partners sexaul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 09:36 AM
1	If you know how worthless dating apps are, why do you continue to use them? Because i am competitive and enjoy the thought of beating out the other men. I am comfortable in thinking i am able to out-compete a lot of men over the women i am into. I enjoy being successful in online dating where others fail If anything, the women on online dating are of higher quality on average than what you can see in real life. It's no fun being ugly and undesirable on OLD as a woman, so they don't even stay around. Also, what you see on OLD depends on your own desirability on the app. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 10:37 PM
2	How much sex do women actually have? yes, i forgot to put "on average" in that sentence, because i assumed that it's clear we are always talking about averages of a normal distribution that lies underneath. There are of course men whose ideal lifetime number of sexual partners is 1. They are as farm from the mean (which is ~62 for men if i recall correctly) as the ones who want 120+ sexual partners in their life time if it was up to them. The reality shows that mean life time sexual partners for men is 9, which is far from what the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 09:55 PM
2	How much weight do you place on the age a man lost his virginity? Your current desirability as a partner is relevant, not when you lost your virginity. When you lost your virginity is not an achievement that sets how women think about you for the rest of your life. You can lose your virginity at 25, but when you make out with the hottest women in the club at 26 and have sex with a new woman every one or two weeks, nobody fucking cares about what happened until you got to the point you are at. If you lose your virginity at 15 but no woman is going to flirt with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 08:40 PM
1	Are women just overwhelmed with the dating options they have, or do they truly dislike the majority of them? They are overwhelmed with choices, that's why astrology is so attractive for women. It's the illusion of having a guiding help from the universe to decide which men to pick and which to reject.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 08:05 PM
7	Do most men consider 30 year old women to be too old? No, most men prefer a woman their age or 1-2 years younger. That doesn't mean they don't prefer the looks of younger women, but they choose similarly aged women as life long partners. Age gaps are the exception and there isn't even a trend towards more age gaps. I don't have an agenda here, my gf is 13 years younger and i would love to tell that most men who are desirable go for a way younger woman, but they don't. Even in my case, it's not based on attractivness of young women (although that su…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 06:46 PM
1	Women's perceived extreme selectivity does not track with reality It's assumed the average women in her mid 20's probably had 5-6 boyfriends (some longer term than others) as well as a couple of flings up to this point Just using secondary literature here, i have found that to be rather 2 boyfriends (in the sense of a committed relationship. You americans seem to start calling someone boyfriend if he makes you breakfast after the second hookup). The mean number of sexual partners for women aged 23-26 is 5.8 with a SD of 9, so pretty spread, but also not supp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 06:38 PM
2	How much sex do women actually have? Women on average do not like casual sex that much. You will see lots of women go years without sex when they are not in a relationship, even when they have offers for sex every week. It's men's sexuality that is bottomless, never satisfied, always looking to have another new sex partner, but never having enough willing women to achieve their dreams of ideal lifetime sex partners. The error lies always in projecting from your own view on it to the situation of the other sex. Men cannot phatom, th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 05:39 PM
9	If a woman has to lower her standards for you to have a shot with her, the relationship you’ll have with her will be shaky at best Oh god, this is wrong on so many levels that i don't even know where to start. Women as a whole tend to be biologically drawn to the best physical specimens, it’s simple biology. This is true for men as well when it comes to committing to a long term relationship. Men are only "dating down" for sex. There is this thing called assortative mating and it's effect can be observed when you analyze long term couples regarding several, desirability-inflluencing, traits. Partners in couples tend to be e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 03:46 PM
1	Q4M: Is there anything you like about women? I like how women are not part of the male dominance hierarchy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 01:32 PM
0	Why are so many women unashamed of being overweight in OLD? Going on 1-2 new dates per week is not average. You need to update your valuation of yourself to the new reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 01:16 PM
1	Nevermind red flags, what's your biggest yellow flag? My biggest yellow flag is people talking about "flags" in dating. People are too much concerned with crafting the perfect template of what they want in a partner and checking if all wanted things are checked and all unwanted things are not present, that they lose view of how desirable they are for other people. Spoiler alert: most people are pretty shit themselves and will never be able to attract candidates who don't have red flags themselves. It's all fun and games to do a theoretical approach…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 11:57 AM
1	Something most women just wish men understood Yes, women are afraid of men. Men are also afraid of men. Men are dangerous, capable of physical threats and actually physically harming or killing you. The capability is also something women and men are drawn to, since it protects them from outside sources of threats and aggression, in evolutionary history. Now, we live in the least threatening time for women EVER. Men have the highest constraint capability over their aggressiveness, the most reason to cooperate and stay within the societal rul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 10:51 AM
1	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? But what you are not seeing is, that only men would enjoy this kind of "trying". Women HATE it. Every other post in dating subs is about not getting commitment from men and only being seen as someone to have sex with. It's not something women enjoy. They'd rather not have sex than have sex without commitment on average, when they are looking for a relationship. Also, stop with this stupid dichotomy of beta and alpha or whatever you call the two groups of super successful and super unsuccessful m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 10:11 AM
1	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? Nobody gets to have a relationship outside their league, but we all try.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 03:54 PM
1	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? But if you are a Kentucky 8, then you will also only be equal to a Kentucky 8 partner, which would be an LA 5 partner, so why not stay in LA and be content with a 5 partner?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 03:03 PM
1	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? Online dating is different. Because of sex ratios, women are more desirable than their actual, ratio-independent, value. If there a 3 men for every 1 woman, each woman will get a desirability boost just for scarcity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 03:00 PM
1	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? And that's exactly what men try to do as well. Well all want the best partner possible and the way to this goal is plastered with failed attempts to score above our desirability value.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 02:55 PM
2	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? exactly this. sex and relationships are different, and online dating is different to real world because of sex ratios.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 02:52 PM
1	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? Only on online dating due to sex ratios affecting relative mate value and market dynamics (men swiping everyone for sex). In real world settings, everyone accepts their "actual match" = equal in desirability. Studies show this time and time again: couples are very close in attractiveness and overall desirability as a partner on average. It's so obvious that 80% of woman can fuck 20% of men, but they can't be in a relationship with them, only 20% of women can and the other 60% are going to mate w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 02:50 PM
1	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? It's doesn't matter for online dating with skewed sex ratios for obvious reasons that have to do with market dynamics and not with "current age"/"nowadays"/"Hookup culture". Outside of online dating, people still easily mate with their equals. This works for 1/10 guys with 1/10 gals ans well as their 10/10 counterparts. Just turn on trash tv and look at the families. Those guys didn't need to looksmaxx or improve to any point to find their wifes. They are already competitive for mates at their r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 02:46 PM
0	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? You clearly never successfully matched, texted and dated a very desirable woman. You will get nowhere by showering them in compliments. That's what all the men who are below her do, in an effort to get her attention and show their committment. To show her you see yourself on her level, you should act as an equal, who isn't showing his inferiority by being a lapdog. You said the same thing but understood it in the wrong way: " If a man believes himself to be less valuable than his potential mate,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 02:44 PM
1	Many women fight for equality but only when it suits them Just don't mate with a woman who is like this. Just as feminists don't mate with mysogynists. Why do you care that "many women" want something different than you? That equality movements are riddled with hypocrisy is common knowledge. You don't have to make it your fight to change them. Vote with your wallet, don't mate with women who don't share your values and views regarding this topic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/22 04:56 PM
4	The redpill isn't about harming women - it's about saving men from being taken advantage of. Men never stop to prefer having new and more sex partners as they age. Monogamy will not go anywhere since it's the only system that guarantees social peace.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/22 04:51 PM
8	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? That's common knowledge and practiced very well. Messeges sent by men to women who are higher in mate value than themselves show reduced positive word usage and short messages than when messaging same or lower value women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/22 03:44 PM
17	What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage? That assortative mating is happening, just not on Tinder. The only reason to not be mated with an equally desirable woman is the lack of ability to determine who would be an equally desirable woman, or not accepting the reality of one's own limitation in mate value. You don't have to X-maxx anything to find a girlfriend. There are plenty of women on your level already. It's your desire to get a higher value partner and failing at acquiring the necessary increase in mate value, that is so rage in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/22 03:42 PM