maiqthetrue Archive

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7	Dealing with jealousy - boyfriend looking at women he knows on IG I’m not seeing her as a red flag so much as a search history deleted except for her. She’s the one he’s okay with her seeing, but there’s something else that he’s very careful to delete.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/03/23 09:15 AM
4	Male friendships while in a relationship? Because attraction is different than friendship. A friendship is about just being around each other. Introduce sex and it’s about whether or not you’re going to get with them.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/12/22 11:57 AM
6	Male friendships while in a relationship? It’s a complete lack of boundaries. If he’s a friend, it’s not sexual. Which means that him thinking about you in a sexual way is out of bounds. Would you sleep with your brother if it was totally his idea? No. Nobody would. And I see a friend in the same way. If sex is on the table, it’s not a friendship, it’s a relationship that hasn’t been consummated yet. And I tend to avoid male “friends” for that reason— men will always be looking at you as potentially a sexual partner. And doubly true if …	/r/RedPillWomen	02/12/22 11:35 AM
2	Do you offer to split the bill on the first date? I’m wanting you to be invested enough to pay for a single date and have a full time job sufficient to pay for something like that. Now I’m perfectly fine if you’re openly and honestly telling me you can’t afford a meal at some fancy place, but if you’re not willing to do something as simple as coffee, I mean, seriously, why are you asking women out?	/r/RedPillWomen	27/11/22 10:24 PM
6	Do you offer to split the bill on the first date? I think the contrary is true for me. If a guy won’t even pay on the first date, it’s suspicious to me. Is he entitled? Is he using a date to get a meal? Does he have the job he’s telling me he has? Is he that into me? If you’re not into me enough to pay for a single meal, why do I want to consider you?	/r/RedPillWomen	27/11/22 01:45 AM
3	Trying to be a traditional woman after having grown up without a mother If you want to learn the basics of cooking, get old cook books. Betty Crocker, Better Homes and Gardens. They use very basic ingredients and have introduction sections that tell you how to pick out and cook everything as if you have no experience at all cooking.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/11/22 01:22 PM
1	Is it worth waiting for the chance of commitment? What I’m understanding from her reporting of the conversations is that he’s saying he doesn’t want to date other people, but he can’t commit to saying that dating other abstract people is off limits. That’s a feeling, not a commitment. Feelings are neither facts nor commitments, they’re emotions. Emotions change. If he’s committed, the conversation would have been different, especially since it was (as she reported it) completely abstract, with no person mentioned. If a person is committed, then…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/10/22 07:45 PM
10	Negative association with cooking, how to nix and small kitchen appliances I think if you want to start cooking, you’re probably better off worrying less about equipment and more about learning basic cooking techniques. I’d go to a used bookstore and get a simple old school basic cookbook and lean to make very simple meals by following those recipes. Most of the old ones will teach you everything about picking ingredients and properly cooking meats and sides and sauces that don’t need fancy ingredients or tools to make. I tend to find most people start wanting to get f…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/10/22 10:03 PM
3	Is it worth waiting for the chance of commitment? If he’s not even willing to cross off the possibility, he’s not going to. He’s not saying no to other women, he’s not moving toward committing to you, he’s just using you. It’s not even something hard to say, and he won’t even commit to saying he won’t date other people. If he considered that you might be “the one” he’d be moving to build trust, moving to get closer, moving to prove he’s committed to you. This is why I’ve always said no LDRs. It’s really easy to lie and cheat when you’re not see…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/10/22 09:50 PM
3	Thoughts on the term High Value Man Money as a number is bad as a metric. On the other hand, I think his ability to make money is a part of the vetting for a lot of positive things: work ethics, ambition, responsibility, confidence, and so on. In order to land and keep a good job, you have to have those traits. You aren’t going to get a good job unless you’re putting yourself out there— $100K a year jobs don’t fall out of trees and hit you in the head. You have to hustle for them, you have to be willing to work hard, and you have …	/r/RedPillWomen	15/09/22 11:19 PM
2	No, a nanny can't be a child's primary attachment figure. I agree with this. A huge red pill for me were all the weird WFH parents who were getting burnout for taking care of their own children full time. They really were, for the first time ever for a lot of them, parents — in the sense that they were the primary caretakers of their own children. And this was mind-blowing to them. It showed me just how lacking our culture is in this area — the families barely knew each other. They drive each other crazy because they weren’t going off to their separate…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/09/22 02:24 PM
4	What can we unanimously agree are dealbreakers in a relationship? I think for me it’s mostly about character and responsibility. Can they get and keep a job, do they keep up with chores, do they take their turn caring for kids and pets? If 5hey don’t do that, they’re out. And then there’s the character stuff, lying, cheating, bullying, and so on. Those things are dealbreakers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 06:53 PM
61	Men who glorify villains I think the minute someone uses media of any type as a major aspect of their personality, something is seriously wrong. I’ve never met a mature, responsible adult who is into any media enough to spend hours on it, collect stuff from the series, or wear related clothing. It’s just cringe. I enjoy some of the same stuff, I like some marvel, I like James Bond, I even like Elder Scrolls, but I never thought to make either one a substitute for a personality. But then there are these man babies who sp…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/03/22 12:58 PM
13	Lies Men Tell: Women Can't Pairbond I think it would be more fun to make up shit that should be obviously wrong to anyone who knows those things. Like I’m an Ophucus with Bajor rising. If he doesn’t catch on, it’s a larp, but you can make him make a complete fool of himself as your chart fills with bull. Pro tip: Q’noS in the 6th house is really really bad.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/02/22 08:04 PM
6	Weaponized incompetence isn’t just annoying: it can be dangerous. They will hurt their own kids if it gets them out of simple tasks. This is why I don’t believe for a second he wasn’t aware of the heat in the sandwich. He knew. He had to know. If he had the tiniest cut on his hands he’d know what was on the sandwich. He abused his daughter.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/22 05:44 PM
33	One close to home, 21 year old killed by her 47 year old boyfriend. Ladies there is a reason women his age don’t want him. I think the danger is that so many people are brainwashed into not wanting to seem judge mental. It’s a weird thing to me, like no matter what the dynamic is with boyfriend or friends or lifestyle, and how bad of an idea it actually is, most people just won’t say anything. My reputation, even my friendships, are not worth someone else’s life. I question where her family and friends were. I question how his parents allowed him to stay this shitty kind of person who thinks that dating a child is o…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/22 01:30 PM
3	What do you think about a man opening up and telling you he goes to therapy on the second date? To me, it seems like a red flag. A second date is barely starting a relationship, and it would be weird to bring up therapy to a relative stranger. It would be different if it were a longer term relationship where you both were at least no longer strangers to each other. My best guess is that this is groundwork for manipulation. Maybe he'll "relapse" if you try to leave, or maybe he'll use it to get you to help him in ways you otherwise wouldn't.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/11/21 08:30 PM
5	Is the collapse of the middle class producing more LVM? I think you're on to something, but I think causality is reversed. Our current economic crisis isn't causing men to lose their values. The values of being HV -- male or female -- are the values of civilization. This is true of all civilization. It's high maintenance, you have to work hard and put forth effort or the thing falls apart. You have to support other people, you have to support things that don't benefit you personally. Those values started dying with the boomers. They got theirs, and g…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/11/21 10:51 PM
53	There is no surefire way to avoid LVM - you are not responsible for what comes your way, but you are responsible for what you choose to entertain. You can't avoid them, but one thing I've found in most relationships, work, friends, boyfriends, even in situations where you are getting a service, your demeanor will tell people if you are easy prey or not. If you go in with the I am in charge here attitude (you don't have to be mean, just confident) knowing what you want, and knowing that you deserve to get good things, and knowing that you are willing to go without rather than get something you don't want, the LV types won't stick around lon…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/11/21 02:24 PM
30	Sad, unfortunate truths about the “friend zone” There's honest to god no such thing as opposite gender friendship. You might have acquaintances of the opposite gender. You may be friends with his wife, whatever. If he gets thought that he might have a hint of a chance, you're a potential bangmaid. And that's something to keep in mind always. With men, unless you've decided that you want to date them, you keep cool and professional, and don't do anything that might seem encouraging. Don't invite them places. No texting. If you talk to him, do …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/11/21 07:51 PM
65	Men have no ability to emotionally regulate because society has been coddling their feelings from the moment they were born Men generally -- outside of mechanical stuff -- are never expected to fix it themselves. Especially their own lives. An ugly woman is told to dress to accentuate her good points, to work on her body and wear make-up, to wear push-up bras if they're too small there. Men who are ugly aren't expected to so much as shower properly. They can be 300 lbs, dress like a ten year old, and then expect to be accepted that way, or be coddled because ugly. Job wise, women are expected to get whatever they can…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/08/21 12:03 PM
4	Markers of Abuse Look for a lack of normal relationships and accomplishments as well. A person who has no one other than their relationship, and does nothing is always trouble. They're going to eventually be controlling and will be jealous of you doing anything.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/08/21 07:10 PM
1	Ugly feminist writes letter to her CEO whining about how she doesn't get paid a living wage for her entry level job, and deserves to be paid a living wage to "tweet funny things" for a living. Gets fired, and whines even more begging for handouts. Socialism is blue pill. Blue pill people need hand outs, they need help, they need someone to give them things because they unconsciously know they can't take care of themselves. Socialists are exactly that. Blue pill whining babies. Sooner or later socialists will demand a free nappy change service because changing their own nap pies is just too hard.	/r/TheRedPill	22/02/16 10:44 PM
1	Ugly feminist writes letter to her CEO whining about how she doesn't get paid a living wage for her entry level job, and deserves to be paid a living wage to "tweet funny things" for a living. Gets fired, and whines even more begging for handouts. When I hear "living wage" I write you off as a loser. That's why I love the anarchocapitalists, those guys get it. If you need some government to force people to pay you, you're too weak and stupid to live.	/r/TheRedPill	22/02/16 10:40 PM
2	Is "To Kill a Mockingbird" an example of rape culture? Not seeing it. For one thing, as mentioned above, Atticus is a defense lawyer, point of fact is that even though the story focuses on his defense of a black man accused of raping a white woman, he doesn't give his opinion, he offers a defense. I don't think he even privately told anyone his theory, and as such, to assume he did not believe her is reading into the story. Second, the story is about the idea that even blacks (in the Jim Crow South no less) deserve to have a fair trial. It's a stran…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/16 09:58 PM
8	CollegeLand: The Secret Pathway to Top Grades Another one for free. Read the chapter before the lecture, not after. Knowing the material means being able to get brownie points, but also to ask if you're stuck. Either way, you're impressing the lecturer.	/r/TheRedPill	18/02/16 11:36 PM
1	Do women's higher empathy cause them to feel PHYSICAL discomfort by being offended / hearing different opinions? I'm only going to speak for myself, and I have to say you're exaggerating quite a bit. Many learned men over the years have noted that women are not taught to control their emotions, which leads to larger fluctuations in mood than men. A woman can easily go through several powerful mood fluctuations in a single day because of their sensitivity to emotional external stimuli around them, as well as a smaller Amygdala to process the emotion. I don't, I promise say that unless I'm under a great deal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/16 01:54 AM
1	Q4BP: Are Women GENERALLY More Emotional Than Man? I agree. I feel like as a woman, there's no negative stigma to tears, expressing fear, or even anger. My brothers generally express only happiness and anger or the like. There's just a huge social stigma against males expressing fear or sadness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/16 01:10 AM
1	Women are simply not as good as men at some jobs - businesswoman says some woman cannot cope with failure as well as men and suffer from giving up too easily They aren't breadwinners yet, but they're watching the family dynamic, and more than likely mom and dad are telling them even if the culture wasn't speaking that truth very loudly. Think about TV, I've never ever seen a show in which MOM was the primary earner. Not even preschool type shows, not the most edgy grownup shows, NOTHING. Same with movies, hell, even books. There's no part of culture that doesn't have the traditional arrangement. At the same time, mom and dad are telling them that. Th…	/r/MensRights	10/10/15 09:42 PM
1	Women are simply not as good as men at some jobs - businesswoman says some woman cannot cope with failure as well as men and suffer from giving up too easily I don't even really think it's biological differences really. It's socializing. When you aren't the primary breadwinner, when others don't depend on you succeeding, you don't get the emotional skills to do the things that lead to success. Women aren't more emotional just because of biology. They're more emotional because if they let emotions get the better of them, they have someone else to pick up the pieces. You don't have to learn to work long hours at a job you hate if you're the second fami…	/r/MensRights	08/10/15 01:08 PM
2	The Rise of the Weak-Kneed Feminists She still doesn't reach the actual problem, which is providing a method to test the claims of an accuser. I've read all of the statements made, and the standard they want is "she made the claim, jail his ass." Nothing she actually does after the fact, no amount of time elapsed between the act and the claim, nothing can disprove the claim. And I think that's a serious problem when you're talking about a crime that carries a serious stigma as well as a decade or more of jail time. If they win, no …	/r/MensRights	09/02/15 11:07 AM