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No fucking way 6.5% of the men have been charged with rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:52 PM
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unless she’s sober, consenting Let me correct it for you - not extremely drunk and doesn't mind. It's more accurate for most of the guys like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:50 PM
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and penis size How much you packing? Speak numbers to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:44 PM
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You might be, but the particular topic requires pretty big sample size to be assessed properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:08 PM
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Your exact question was You are claiming no boundaries when it comes to how someone behaves towards you as long as they don't physically touch you? My reply was Nah Meaning no, a negative answer to your question which means I don't claim "no boundaries". I hope it's clear to you now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:46 PM
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Listen, I've just been answering how would I feel in the particular hypothetical situation you created. You are the one coming with your conclusions and speculations here. I never said I have no boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:40 PM
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Nah, I'm just not a crazy woman, that's all :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:36 PM
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Yes, I got you. I have no problem if the guy would be following me around like that. Damn, I will feel like a celebrity or something. Finally getting some appreciation for my big dick :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:27 PM
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It's not good health/performance wise but it's normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:10 PM
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Nope, I'll be happy that somebody is finding me attractive, even if that's a gay man. Are you homophobic or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:09 PM
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That's a bit of a random reference though, isn't it? Why not use the average American of today for a reference?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:22 PM
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That depends on your reference point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:33 PM
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Your logic is not quite right though for a couple of reasons. First, it's not very socially accepted to ask a guy for his dick size before you've slept with him and even if you do, there is a really good chance he will lie or exaggerate. So the only practical way to verify if he has a big dick for real is to sleep with him. Now, if you need to sleep with 50 guys in order to get to the one that has a big enough dick, that is obviously a problem. Second, 7" dick minimum is never the only requireme…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:18 PM
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True. So you can consider yourself safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:50 AM
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Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:49 AM
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Don't even like big dicks How come? That's a bit of an unpopular opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:48 AM
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Big dick is not worth it But if you have it for free, isn't it just a bonus?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:47 AM
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Big dicks are uncomfortable You just gotta be properly wet girl. Then the excitement starts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:46 AM
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Big dicks are unappealing to me How come? I feel personally offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:45 AM
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I doubt you have enough experience to make a reliable conclusion on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:44 AM
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7" is 1 in 50 guys so it could be a bit difficult to find such guy who also has all other desired qualities. Source: https://calcsd.info/ That's assuming you know what you are talking about. I've heard so many delusional women who go like - "I've been with a few 10" guys and one who was 12". Just to put this in perspective, there hasn't been a dick in this world verified to be above 10". Even 9" dicks are still super rare to the point where it's pretty much impossible to meet such guy. So unless…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:42 AM
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Yes, around 5.5 measured bone-pressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:39 AM
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Quite lucky indeed. If you ever slept with me, you would question if your husband has a dick at all, lol. Just having some fun here ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:38 AM
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That's 1 in 50 guys so it could be a bit difficult to find such guy who also has all other desired qualities. Source: https://calcsd.info/ That's assuming you know what you are talking about. I've heard so many delusional women who go like - "I've been with a few 10" guys and one who was 12". Just to put this in perspective, there hasn't been a dick in this world verified to be above 10". Even 9" dicks are still super rare to the point where it's pretty much impossible to meet such guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:34 AM
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Would consider it acceptable for an enormous gay man to see your photo and then follow you around and stare at your crotch with his mouth hanging open? I have zero problems with that, let the guy have fun if that's his thing. I also have a huge dick so I'm sure he will appreciate that. I am straight to make it clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:22 AM
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you gotta be good in bed Does having a monster cock help?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 10:31 PM
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I'll never understand couples who pee in front of each other or share every thought that enters their head. I agree for the peeing part since it's something many people find disgusting, but I don't agree about sharing everything. I think that's one of the most beautiful things in an amazing honest relationship and I'm very happy that I found a woman who shares the same believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:23 AM
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Mystery is sexy and exciting I will speculate here. IMO this is only the case because mystery leaves space for the revelation of something exciting. Very often people have their rose-colored glasses and are biased towards somebody who they like. When/If they get to know everything about this person they realize the reality is not as exciting as they might have imagined it to be. However, that won't be the case if a woman meets a truly high value men for example, because he will have plenty of go…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:21 AM
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The difference is I have a woman to be sleeping with every night, so I don't have anything to cope for.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 10:56 AM
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Not only this, but it's also important to note that such "pretenders" won't be your "friends" for long. Nobody is really willing to pretend being a friend if he is not interested in you otherwise at all for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 10:43 AM
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I don't know bro, but you are definitely a loser with that sort of delusional thinking. Keep coping brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 10:02 AM
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And you are speaking about holes in logic? Men who are intelligent and mature enough to engage in actual relationships. You can absolutely be an intelligent and mature man and still be interested in casual sex. There is nothing wrong with that. I am a perfect example of that - 140+ IQ for the record, you don't get much higher than that. There is a place for serious relationships for sure, but there is also place for casual stuff if that's what you like at certain point. If men have slept around …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:53 AM
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I kinda agree with you. Actually a common problem with women that I've noticed in my social circles is that they tend to often be far too optimistic/encouraging to a female's friend relationship. In so many cases it was straight obvious to me that the girl is in a bad relationship, the guy is a terrible choice for her, etc. Meanwhile, most of her female friends seem to be incredibly supportive and telling her that everything is great and things will improve even further with time. Needless to sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:43 AM
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I've had some compliments for my junk, I don't know what you are on about. You just need to have an impressive enough junk.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:39 AM
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Dem bitches just too blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:35 AM
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It's not about being dependent on women. If you have a girlfriend/wife/FWB or whatever, it doesn't mean you are dependent on her. On the opposite - if you are single forever the society will think you are a loser. And of course you can say fuck society, but the problem is there is pretty high chance you will think yourself you are a loser as well. And it's not fun being a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:34 AM
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True - it's full of toxic crazy motherfuckers and bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:33 PM
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I approve. Science degree here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:22 PM
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Miscarriage Significantly Associated With Increasing Paternal Age That is not a study, that is an article. The fact that you didn't realize this tells me that you don't know much about research. I couldn't find a link to the actual study anywhere in the article, which makes me believe that the article is bullshit - they can't even provide references. However, I found another pretty solid meta-analysis study on the topic: Advanced paternal age is associated with an increased risk of spontaneous m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:20 PM
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First, please familiarize yourself with the rules of the sub - downvoting is not allowed here. You pretty much confirmed what I said, but loosened some numbers. No, I presented not only the realistic numbers but also the numbers used in the TRP community. I provided numbers based on what I have seen in TRP community. Just because you loosened the numbers is not changing much. You haven't seen the numbers you presented in the TRP community. You are either openly lying about it or you just intenti…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 02:54 PM
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I should say that I might be a bit biased here, having a 8.3" dick which is quite thick as well. However, I've spoken to many guys with big dicks as well (I was one of the main contributors on /r/bigdickproblems at the time) and I'm pretty familiar with the otpic. if you want to show a woman a good time, 2-3 guys are where it's at The thing is many women are not comfortable with such idea nor they have the desire to do it. Another problem is that I would definitely not want to share my partner w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:20 PM
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Damn I really didn't expect that coming from you. I mean fair enough, if that's how you feel. So would you say you are fine with average dicks? What if the guy has a pretty small dick (or micro penis if we push it to the extreme)? I would imagine you will barely feel anything during sex like that and that won't be optimal. On the other hand having a partner with a big dick is normally exciting / a turn on for most women. On top of that it allows for a wider range of position and increases the fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:29 PM
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And ugly people have the human right to do everything they can to improve in all possible aspects and compensate for their shortcomings. And then if they deserve to get laid will depend on the women who will potentially sleep/not sleep with them, not on you. This statement of yours is some Blackpill bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:59 AM
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Probably has at least a 7 inch dick Irrelevant. You will tell me you don't like a nice big dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:53 AM
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supposedly for some reason he said they believe that they're entitled to something in life when in reality either you work for it or you don't obtain it What the fuck are you talking about? TRP exactly teaches men that they are not entitled to anything and they need to put in some serious work in order to be worthy of getting good women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:31 AM
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Probably the same as Japan. I can only assume what you mean here, but what's happening in Japan has nothing to do with TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:25 AM
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Let's see. women education and career success is not important Not important to a high value man who on top of everything else is really wealthy and can support the whole family easily on his own, providing them a great living. her only goal is to settle on some older guy Women date older guys most of the time anyway, it's not just a TRP thing. as soon as she turns 18 yo Nobody in TRP claims this. Falsely exaggerated by you. she will hit a WALL at 27 yo Another stupid exaggeration. her value wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 09:07 AM
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If you ask me, it shouldn't be normalized amongst women either. It's fake shit and you can't wear it 100% of the time. What's the point to start dating a girl, only to find out her skin is terrible without the makeup after the first night you sleep together.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:40 AM
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The mentality of "how can I do as little as possible, give as little as possible, do zero self reflection What the fuck are you talking about, TRP is a lot about self-improvement, self-reflection, etc. TRP literally tells you get fucked up working on improving yourself for years, until you are into your 30s and then you will be good enough to get girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:09 PM
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Believing you can get almost any girl if you just play your cards right I've never ever seen this in RP. TRP is about maximizing your chances, it doesn't say that you can have any girl you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:06 PM
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Yeah, I’ve done just as much for society as you have, fella The saying is about the history of mankind, not what you do today. But even today, it's pretty clear that men have more input/responsibility in how society is run. For example you have more men in key position on average and you have more men in dangerous/critical position as well. And also that's not meant to say that women are useless or shit like that - women just have other important responsibilities in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:02 PM
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You are vastly exaggerating and misrepresenting the RP's view on the topic. Not cool. Actually I would even say quite dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:59 PM
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It's not that I don't think trp have identified certain behaviours that are common among many women, but making mass generalizations will always be inflammatory and simply wrong. I agree that it's not an accurate statement and I don't like generalizations as well. It's just not worded in the best way possible and it's meant to sound cool/catchy. That's why many people get triggered by it as well. However, as you stated the key point is that it is more about some common and important female behav…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:57 PM
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True to a degree, but not quite. First part of the problem is that men have a bit lower standards even regarding beauty. Second, it's more fair to say that some qualities are just harder to achieve for men. For example a woman can simply put some makeup on, which is quite easy. However, if a man has pretty bad skin it's not socially acceptable to wear makeup, so he will need to go for complex cosmetic procedures which questionable effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 04:55 PM
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Absolutely, this is something many women fail to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 04:47 PM
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Cause they know I have a huge dick and such are very rare, so it's not like it would be one in a million coincidence, you know? It's like if you have this local drug lord in your small town and you read on the news that police busted a local guy and found 100 lbs of coke in his house, you know right away who they are speaking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:33 PM
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No, fight club has RP rules. Cause the guys in fight club are bad motherfuckers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:40 PM
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LOL, that's the attitude!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:32 PM
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Not necessarily, like all my family knows I have a huge dick, so it won't be hard to connect the dots when seeing a photo with a huge dick on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:30 PM
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I don't know bro, if it's my dick all my friends would recognize it's mine. Thing is fucking huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:28 PM
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Sounds like plenty wrong to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:26 PM
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Dude was ethnic looking, big no-no in developed places. Bruh, every time an arab shows up with millions of dollars in his pocket, there is a mile long queue of women ready to lick his balls. Here we are not speaking about an average ethnic guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:25 PM
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Good luck getting a major in biology, that requires some brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:51 PM
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Being a step parent is the worst of both worlds. Sure, that's what most women agree with on the topic with single dads it seems. However, there is a common double standard when single moms are in question. Women should understand that the same way they don't find single dads as a particularly attractive LTR option, guys don't find single moms as an attractive LTR option.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 10:36 AM
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Women do want to meet you if you are a good catch. Do you think literally 0% of the men are successful doing OLD?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:42 AM
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women subconsciously view men that get on dating apps as low value because if those men were really great catches they wouldn’t need to be online at all That's pretty retarded logic if you ask me. You can be a great catch / HVM and still benefit from online dating for all sorts of reasons. For a start it's so much easier / low effort to speak to many girls online than IRL. You also have much bigger access to girls on your fingertips.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:29 PM
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The most common problem with such cases is that she didn't have any hobbies/passions I would imagine. Otherwise things would have been much different for her as a stay at home mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:14 PM
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For me and my social group this could not be further from the truth. Well, fuck you and your social group of snobby people. I have a ton of success in my life, not only professionally/financially but in many other aspects as well and I don't care if a woman has some sort of flashy degree or flourishing career. There are many more important factors which make her a good partner. Some of the redpill tactics such as "Agree and Amplify"... I'm not a big fan of this method as well, but I can see you …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:11 PM
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Cause it's a turn off for many girls, otherwise guys wouldn't have had the problem to always be asking. Just take a look at the OP's video - it's straight autistic to be asking like that at every step. If the mood is right, you are alone with a girl and you've been flirting etc. it's by far the better decision to just lean for a kiss. The girl can very easily stop you if she doesn't feel ready or just doesn't want it. Asking her first makes the situation more awkward. Also there is a chance that…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:49 PM
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Here we are not speaking about a random guy trying to kiss you on the street, out of nowhere. Here we are speaking about two adults willingly being in an intimate situation together.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:39 PM
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Do you know another retarded behavior? Not reading the rules. Downvoting is not allowed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:07 PM
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Those bitches are just crazy retarded bro. Luckily not all women are like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:04 PM
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Do you realize you can just simply push him away/stop him? And by the way I will also break your nose if you knee me in the balls. I don't fucking care about your past history, you don't have any right to be violent to people who weren't violent to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:02 PM
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I don't think you know what a retarded behavior is. When 5 people tell you that you are wrong, odds are they are right and you are indeed wrong. So maybe take your head out of your ass and look around.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:58 PM
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That's because the acting is shit No because this behavior is fucking retarded. Do you think IRL people would be "better actors"? It will be even more cringy IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:54 PM
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Yeah? So what is the truth? Female fertility https://62e528761d0685343e1c-f3d1b99a743ffa4142d9d7f1978d9686.ssl.cf2.rackcdn.com/files/53777/width237/2yc47rxd-1405334279.jpg Male fertility https://daviesivf.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/Male-Fertility-Aging-chart.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 04:27 PM
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I can relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:31 PM
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Come on, go fucking educate yourself before speaking such nonsense. The two are not comparable at all. With men there is barely any difference in fertility between the age of 25 and 40. With women this difference is fucking huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:29 PM
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While I don't agree with her, I don't agree with you either. First it's stupid to state the same age for both genders simply because women's peak in attractiveness is quite a few years earlier than men's. Shortly after going through puberty women hit their peak - that is around the age of 20 - 23. For a woman the biggest asset in terms of attractiveness is her youth. After that she starts slowly declining in looks. Pretty much no woman looks better at 30 compared to how she looked at 22. Of cour…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:27 PM
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Good dick - Nothing you can control about dick size Wrong. You can achieve pretty significant gains which are semi-permanent with regular exercises: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XyI_BJ6PUaU
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:12 PM
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There might be some amount of in-between, but female choice is definitely a lot more binary like than male. With men it is always a smooth scale pretty much, going from I'll never ever consider fucking her to I will fuck her brains out, depending on how attractive the girl is. For women, more often than not it's either I would fuck him or I would not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:12 PM
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just like how taxes on ciggarettes have failed to stop smoking... instead it has just made smokers impovrished Cause the taxes are not high enough. If a pack of cigarettes costs $50 I guarantee you that the number of smokers will be much less.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:17 PM
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4 day 30 hour work week Love this idea. I don't know how the world got to this shitty place right now, where people think it's OK to basically have next to no free time 5 out of 7 days in the week and barely have any holiday through the year.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:11 PM
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They're perfectly normal. They're perfectly normal and being single in their 40s can't be in the same sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:24 PM
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I disagree. And of course we are speaking about purely sexual attraction here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:50 PM
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No, it doesn't need to be. For example I can tell you exactly what attracts me to a woman. Maybe you just don't understand your feelings well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:40 PM
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Sure, that's perfectly clear. But the aim here is to describe what exactly turns you on in a guy. Saying "having an emotional connection" is really vague and doesn't help anybody understand the reason why you are attracted. For example you could have been a bit more clear if you said something like: Having similar interests Having similar sense of humor Having similar views about different things
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:32 PM
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What about something casual like that: https://i.pinimg.com/474x/f4/17/91/f41791254509916ec4136614eeefa0e2.jpg Also what would be an example for good footwear for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:27 PM
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I guess that's the key word here, but it's really vague from a guy's perspective. It could mean many different things. It's basically like saying - I'm attracted to the guys I feel attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:25 PM
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Damn, do you have foot fetish or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:23 PM
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That sounds good but not enough really. By this logic you should be attracted to all of your good male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:21 PM
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I mean even in your case though. More than 50% of the guys in US are obese which makes the average guy obese. By this logic you are fine hooking up with obese guys. Is that the case? Cause many women won't be.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:21 AM
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That was a joke - I clarified in my other reply. Your logic is not entirely straight either though. The attractiveness scale is logarithmic - 8/10 is not 80% percentile. It's more like 95% - 99% depending on who you ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:14 AM
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It really makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:12 AM
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I was just referring to a common recent trend in the sub for women to consider guys who are clearly much above average looking just average. And as I said you might be an exception to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:10 AM
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For most of the girls losing their virginity is a very special moment and they want to do it with their first "love". Do you really not mind doing it on a hook up?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:33 PM
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So roughly how many hook ups did you have in college if it's not a secret?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:30 PM
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No, I just go by common statistics. But of course, you might be an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:28 PM
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They were average guys Just to translate to the ordinary people here - probably 8/10 average.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:23 PM
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What are those lazy-ass one line replies? You can't even express yourself properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:24 PM
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Bruh, I can't believe you still fight and stick to your stupid analogy. Let's examine it a little bit, so it's not just words: There is absolutely no benefit from re-using condoms apart from the very little money you save like that, but that would help nobody because the difference is so negligible. And you have a lot of downsides. Condoms are designed to be put on from the default manufacturing rolled state. And when you use the condom you can't really roll it back the same way. Trying to put o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:53 PM
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No, I'm not happy. You can totally be normal friends again after you stop fucking. It might not work with everybody but works with some people. You examples are too extreme and not an accurate representations of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:14 PM
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No, I'm particularly speaking about virgins in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:31 PM
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Somebody didn't pay enough attention in maths classes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:17 PM
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Less than 5% of adults between the age of 25-29 are still virgins though. I don't really have time to check for sources now, but I strongly believe that is wrong. I've seen other studies before where this percentage was significantly bigger for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:16 PM
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Good analysis, I approve. We need more people who understand maths/statistics in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:14 PM
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Stupid and inaccurate analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:50 AM
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Here you are, calling me dumb. First, I didn't call you dumb, I asked you if you are dumb. Second, it's indeed pretty dumb to assume that no FWB arrangements ever work as it's suggested by your extremely simplistic and generalized statement "No. They don't.". Acting like you're defending FWB in general. I'm trying to be objective here. When in reality you're just defending yourself and your choices. And how the fuck am I defending myself and my choices if I've personally never been in FWB? gener…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:50 AM
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Are you that dumb to assume no FWB arrangement ever works? I personally have at least a couple of friends who are very good friends with their exes/fuck buddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:25 AM
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You will never be friends with a person you used to fuck like you are with your friends you've never slept with. That's incredibly wrong as a general statement. There are plenty of FWB arrangements which work. I would argue that you can have even a better/closer friendship with somebody you've been intimate with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:56 AM
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Statements like this leave a bad taste in my mouth. At least to mine understanding, to be in a relationship with somebody you really need to like him as a person and as a friend if you will. So it's completely normal to care about them still even after you break up. Now if there are hurt feelings and shit that could obviously be a problem for one/both sides. But otherwise if you don't care about being friends with them anymore, arguable you were in a shitty/fake relationship in a first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:55 AM
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Someone who I consider HV would never say But that's the thing, the world doesn't give a fuck about your personal considerations and it doesn't work based on your personal feelings. Women often struggle to understand that. As long as she’s pretty and has cute clothes, then I’m all hers. Did I ever say that those are the only qualities HVM look for? I was just focusing on the things they are not looking for or are of a much lower priority. Here are a few important qualities that are universally c…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:09 AM
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Brother you are certainly the baddast motherfucker I've met here in a while. Salute to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:45 PM
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And you don't know shit about statistics. My grandmother used to say - If you don't know shit about something better shut up, otherwise the others might think you are a fucking retard. And yes, my grandmother was a badass, RIP.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:42 PM
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If a woman’s only options are shitty, that should be her signal that she needs to do some serious work on herself. Absolutely, but I've seen plenty of examples online where women don't realize that it's them who is the problem. They almost always blame it on guys ("There are no good guys nowadays") or society or whatever else. FDS does acknowledge the reality that only HVW attract HVM. Sure, the problem is they have a crazy retarded definition of what HVW is. The dating scene is a market and as …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:57 PM
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Maybe he will settle for one if she is good enough. You can't settle from the first try, that will be naive and risky.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:25 PM
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None of the things you Or he mentioned are HV. Again, according to FDS type of retarded thinking. The practice shows the complete opposite though. All of those qualities are highly praised and looked for by most women. A highly successful men with good careers who make a lot of money, exercise and look good are greatly desired by most women which makes them indeed a very high value men! On top of that it's supply and demand - there is a huge demand for such guys while there is not much supply, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:22 AM
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Who says he is insecure about it? I think he is just humble and stating something that he is not exceptionally good at - just above average. And is that your only comment here? What about all the other bullshit I called you out for?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:12 AM
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The problem is, it really sounds like you are coming from the presumption that all man on this world want to be with you and you have to learn how to reject the vast majority of the trash and leave only the ones that you like. In reality though, what happens with most of those FDS women is that they vet so hard without having nothing to offer in return, that the guys who fit their stupidly high standards will never want to be with them. So no, it's not only retarded, but also highly ineffective …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:05 AM
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Plenty of money but not worth the ego Pretty dumb generalization if you ask me. HV is measured by how you treat your partner. Aight, then feel free to go for a guy who is 1/10 in looks and being broke, but treats you with the utmost respect. I guarantee you that you will be able to find plenty of such guys really easy. Being in shape, knowing basic adult stuff like cooking, having a job are simple basic things that make you a functional adult, not a HV man. That's the sort of retarded delusion o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:58 AM
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One of women's main goals is avoiding guys like OP. To correct you - FDS women perhaps. The vast majority of normal smart women are dying for a guy like the OP. If a guy thinks so highly of himself with all his money and looks It's not just him who thinks highly of himself. He presented straight facts and if those are proven to be true, every sensible man/woman will think highly of OP. All of those are difficult to achieve and highly valued traits he has and it's fucking dumb to argue against th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:47 AM
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Come on knight, you missed one of the most important points - fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:26 PM
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Real as fuck. Have you seen a woman having babies at 50?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:18 PM
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Men can find taller women quite emasculating and embarrassing to be with. No, they are just ugly giraffes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:15 PM
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Being friends with someone you want to fuck who wont fuck you is simping. What a dumb statement that is. You can be friends with a woman for many other reasons. If she is hot, of course you would like to fuck her, that goes without saying. However, she might just not be into you. You are not being her friend because you want to fuck her, you are being her friend because you like her as a fucking friend as well. I guess you either don't have female friends or you just have some ugly ones. Unluko …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:00 PM
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Cause in this hypothetical situation you would have finally had a chance to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:51 PM
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https://i.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/original/000/008/910/IF0yE_copy.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:49 PM
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Haven't you heard of the term "Discount for a friend"?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:46 PM
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Unluko bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:44 PM
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Why would I pay $200 to fuck one friend. Because you already have the emotional connection and there is a good chance you've wanted to fuck her since the beginning of your friendship if she is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:30 PM
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Wrong. Prostitutes are not cheap in any of those countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:29 PM
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Nah, you don't know shit. In most Eastern Europe countries prostitutes are more expensive than UK and are often not that good quality either, unless you pay big buck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:28 PM
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I don't agree pretty much with any of this. If he's your friend and wants to smash, odds are good he wants a relationship. Not at all. Pretty much every guy would like to smash a female friend if he finds her attractive. That doesn't mean he would also like to be in a relationship with her though. Relationships are much more complex thing and require many more tick boxes. Sex requires simple attraction. would probably ruin the friendship in a catastrophic fashion That is only if he actually want…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:23 PM
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One of the dumbest generalizations of the day I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:07 PM
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Bruh, you have no fucking idea what you are talking about if you think serious tech companies don't need super high level engineers, programmers, etc. At least that's the feeling I'm getting from your comment. Sure, there are some bullshit tech positions, but it is like that with every field. You always have many bullshit managers, sales guys, lawyers, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:04 PM
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Where are you from originally and where have you lived?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:56 PM
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Yeep, that's exactly how retarded the OP sounds. On top of everything the vast exaggeration being presented: countries where it's easy as shit to get laid Lots of easy, eaaaaasy fuckin girls No, fuck no. There is not a single country where it's extremely easy to find casual sex, especially if you are a LVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:51 PM
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I mean, after reading like 100 comments of yours on your profile, I still couldn't fucking figure out if you are a guy or a girl. So even if you are a girl, I wouldn't want to do such thing with such a girl unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:27 PM
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A long lost friend ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:27 PM
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Ah, it depends how much dick the girl has seen and how tight she is. BTW how can you be on /r/smalldickproblems bro, it's pure cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:19 PM
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I don't know where you appeared from, but the amount of bullshit I've seen from you in a single day is astonishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:15 PM
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Well, I've heard plenty of stories where the girl just left right away after the guy undressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:13 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:12 PM
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This pretty much. /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:55 PM
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Is it really bad behavior that women can be more honest in online dating No, honesty is a great thing. What's bad behavior is ghosting a guy after you've been chatting with him and letting him hope for nothing, instead of just telling him with a few words why you would prefer to stop the communication with him. Bad behavior is just seeing his messages and not even bother replying to him because you are a lazy bitch and you don't care about people. Sounds like you want to personally punish women …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:51 PM
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Who told you it ‘suggests’ that? I mean that's literally the meaning of the phrase. "Be yourself" means that you should be who you are, having the qualities you have, having the looks you have, etc. You shouldn't be trying to change or to pretend you are something else as you suggest. You shouldn't try to be in a good shape because that's not who you are. You shouldn't be trying to look better, because that's not who you are. That is literally the most straightforward and logical way to interpre…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:59 PM
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All the other advice discussed among men decades before and after PUA was even a thing. Among very few men who knew the game anyway, not among the masses. /r/seduction is a joke from what I've seen, similarly to any other mainstream sub. Keeping up a fabricated personality is a terrible long-term solution. You getting the whole thing wrong bruh. It's not about lying and presenting a fabricated personality. "Be yourself" suggests that you don't need to aim at improving yourself and that you are p…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:23 PM
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Yes there is. I didn't here what is your suggestion instead then? common dating advice Do you listen to yourself? The most common dating advice spread nowadays is blue pill shit like "Be yourself", "There will always be somebody out there for you", "Be nice to women", "Give women a lot of attention and make sure they know you like them" and more crap like this that helps nobody. What TRP supporters fail to realise is that the rest of us didn’t need super edgy sounding essays layered with sexism …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:44 PM
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So you are trying to convince me than a single new study should disproof all previous studies before that? Violent, war-like behavior, expansionist imperialism? Do you think those things are based on logic? Of course they are. You are the leader of an empire. The bigger your empire is, the more resources it has, the more people are united and living under the same law, etc. It's not like the emperor felt angry one they because it was this time of the month and he decided to conquer a few other n…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:35 PM
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It's exactly the opposite in the present society.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:53 PM
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Majority of men don’t need TRP to have “awareness” of sexual strategies or dating dynamics. They absolutely do, simply because there is no better alternative. Yes, maybe TRP is not the most optimal thing perhaps but if there is nothing better it is the best choice. And the key here is to interpret TRP the proper way and to be able to choose the best of it while leaving some of the extremist shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:51 PM
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You have a point, but in my personal experience with close friends of mine I've seen the other extreme even more often. And that one being people getting stuck and staying in bad relationships for ages naively hoping that they will be able to fix the problems or get used to each other. At the end they've wasted literally years staying in a terrible relationship and being unhappy constantly, while they could have ended it much earlier and spare themselves from all this suffering. In my opinion, f…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:32 PM
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What “bad” behavior does online dating encourage? Just to name a couple: Relying heavily on looks as a first big filter criteria. Then you wonder why you end up meeting people with shit personalities. Allowing for being super fake - heavily photoshopped photos, using camera angles, good lighting, etc. Allowing for shit like ghosting, being rude without consequences, etc. Allowing for spoiled shitty behavior and attention seeking without any obligations to commit to dates, etc. Due to the nature …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:44 AM
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Sure, the only huge problem here is everybody agreeing on what's good and what's bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:31 AM
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And what does it have to do with masturbation? You can try to quit porn but still masturbate, it's making it even much easier than quitting both.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:13 AM
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Here is the full paper: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/225384248_Endocrine_response_to_masturbation-induced_orgasm_in_healthy_men_following_a_3-week_sexual_abstinence It's bullshit though, nowhere in the text you can find exact figures about this supposedly "elevated levels of testosterone". It's also no evident from their charts. Few similar studies have been done, one popular one suggesting an increase in testosterone 7 days after abstinence. The problem with all of those is that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:15 AM
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Bruh, no fucking guy is sitting around and commenting in such a retarded community just for the fun of it, unless he is actually doing it. It wouldn't make any sense - what is the benefit of doing so?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:01 PM
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Then why the fuck not simply quitting porn and not stopping masturbation?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:59 PM
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I understand it quite well and I know about most of the people's motivations about doing it and I still firmly believe it's some utter retarded bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:56 PM
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abstaining from masturbation gets your testosterone up Bullshit. "rewires" them to actually be able to cum from sex The vast majority of men can cum from sex, what are you on about? The desensitization from masturbating is not as wide spread of a problem as you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:54 PM
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Nofap is bullshit and unhealthy thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:43 PM
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It's not a meme, there is a proper community full of crazy people who do it religiously.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:42 PM
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It's clear now, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:45 AM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:15 AM
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PPD women: I don't agree, I've seen many cases when it's not really wet. Men should stop complaining about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:14 AM
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Wait a fucking minute. You are all over the place. That is not how you lead an intelligent debate. First you are presenting some "fact". Then I'm disproving your fact. Then you are coming back stating something completely different. Do you even follow the conversation? Can you find some women who want to be screwed by a person who identifies themself as a pickup artist? That's a straw man argument. Women won't be attracted to the fact that he is a pickup artist. Women sleep with pickup artists b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:55 AM
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but of course she should've had sex only with you Never said that. Either she has a bodycount of whatever the amount of dates is she had had, or she doesn't have sex with guys on the first date. Things are not as black and white though. Maybe she dated 7 guys before you, but only slept with 2 of them. So her N count is still pretty low.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:41 PM
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so it's definitely a good strategy waiting to have sex until he is committed to the relationship and shows that he's serious about it That's a whole different topic. It's about the satisfaction of the own sexual needs That's clear. you want to present yourself in a good way and not spoil it by having sex immediately Again, you are using the presumption here that having sex too quick will present you in a bad light and spoil it for the guy, which is not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:33 PM
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So males don't lose interest in a female after sleeping with her early? Yes exactly. If they lose interest it will be due to other reasons. because it's a female's experience which shows time and time again in many cases Women just interpret it wrong. They think "Oh he thought I'm easy and that's why he dumped me". While the truth is he wasn't looking for a serious relationship anyway in a first place or he just didn't like her as a serious partner. It's not the quick sex that made him leave her…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:20 PM
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You can ignore the fact that the term suggests being thought of as an object and fooled. Do you know what the word "fact" means? That is not a fact a all - that is just your personal feeling about the term.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:00 PM
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Yes, because such term for women will not make any sense. It's not an art to pick up a man as a woman, because it's easy as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 04:59 PM
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Because they don't want to invest anything, they want to get sex right away You are going into all sorts of tangents here. What you are saying makes no sense in the context of the discussion here. Again we are not speaking about if women should or should not do it. We are speaking about THE SPECIFIC REASON discussed here why they don't, or more specifically to avoid appearing as easy and to leave bad impression to the guys. And that very thing is bullshit according to the most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 04:58 PM
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this is the reason why women don't sleep with guys on the first date who are boyfriend material That's the reason why they think they do it, but they are vastly wrong. It's also well known Well known amongst women perhaps. Majority of the guys think it's bullshit. And yes, men definitely are responsible for the harassment and abuse of women done by men's hand, what kind of statement is that Who the fuck is speaking about responsibility now? You made a statement that something is not women's prob…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:05 PM
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It's not the women's problem that millions of guys in this world don't get to have sex. That's a pretty shitty ignorant thing to say. That's like if I say "It's not men's problem that millions of women get abused". You're only speaking up against withholding sex in the beginning of dating No I don't speak about that. I speak the particular reason discussed in this post about WHY it is done. I don't agree with the reason. because many guys lose interest in them after getting what they want Bullsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 02:15 PM
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It suggests being thought of as an object and fooled. No it doesn't. It suggest that the guy is good at finding girls for casual sex. What is wrong about that? There are plenty of girls who have casual sex regularly as well. So what, you will say that the guys they use for casual sex are thought as objects and fooled as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 01:07 PM
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I speak about the average man in general. I've personally have been happily married for years and I don't have problem getting regular sex. that's your problem No, as I said that's not my problem at all. But it's a problem for millions of men in this world and you can't just be fucking ignorant about it. Im talking from a woman's perspective and what's best in order to create a long term relationship. What women perspective?! You've been talking all about how MEN feel about it!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 01:05 PM
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what is the divorce rate in modern 1st world countries and which gender instigates them the most? relationships that last a lifetime (or should I say 50+ years) are rare as hen's teeth now... think about this you think a relationship with a female from the instagram/tik tok generation is gonna wipe your ass when your too old and frail to walk 10ft to the bathroom? She will be too busy posting shit of social media or doing her nails. The OP is from eastern Europe motherfucker, this is a place whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:57 AM
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Many women absolute do if the man in question is really attractive and has all the right qualities for a ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:51 AM
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You are just not a man and you can't understand how difficult it is for men to get sex. We are just fucking sick of it. So in the rare occasions when it happens to get it easy, it's like we hit the jackpot. There is nothing interesting/fun/existing about chasing women all the time with nothing in return and constantly being rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:49 AM
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Where do they leave for? I know quite a few wealthy westerners going to live in eastern EU actually. The biggest problem with this region as you know is the lack of money, right? So if you manage to solve this part, suddenly life becomes so much better. In my case I managed to achieve it by using my British university degree and experience working for British companies. That allows me to work as a freelancer nowadays for British companies and to make big big money and spend them in eastern EU wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:58 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:54 PM
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do the math which is more appealing Ah, let me present you my math then: A career can last decades, a relationship on average lasts 3 to 5 yrs or even less.. A relationship can last a lifetime and be a life changer, a career is normally what everybody hates the most in their lives and what people do out of necessity. a career gives you money for your time... a relationship takes money off you for your time... In most careers you are just being exploited by a blood thirsty company and you are get…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:53 PM
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Exactly this. The number of delusional people who think they can give him any other advice based on the little information he provided is mind boggling to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:40 PM
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It’s either choose to be happy with your job, which is a dream come true nowadays And how exactly do you know for sure that he will indeed be happy with his job if he takes the offer? Are you Nostradamus or what? I have no idea how can people be so fucking naive to make such big conclusions based on a very limited set of information they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:38 PM
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Listen bro, I am from eastern EU as well. Yes, I'm not from Ukrain and I assume the situation there is a bit tougher than some other eastern EU countries. However, many eastern Europeans imagine the west as being this dreamland with everything perfect. After high school I went to study in UK university and after that I worked for 4 years in London. I spent 8 years in total living in UK, which was pretty much all my adult life at the time. After all those years, me and my wife decided to move bac…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 08:32 PM
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This term has always been used for men who trick women into thinking they are serious when they are just looking to pump and dump. No, it hasn't. A pick up artist is just a guy very good at pick ups, who has a lot of experience doing pickups. It doesn't necessarily suggests tricking women or misguiding women. And who says that no women want casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 08:22 PM
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I was joking, too. I obviously don't know anything about the guy. And how do you know how weak I am?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:21 PM
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So unless you have a proper six pack, you either have a dad bod or you are obese? Isn't there anything in-between?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:20 PM
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Jeez, this guy is jacked. What world we live in nowadays if that's what people consider a guy with a dad bod?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:19 PM
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And everything that you are doing is ignoring my sound arguments and bringing in some inaccurate speculations of yours. You are impossible to lead an intelligent debate with. And by the way downvoting is not allowed in the sub, read the fucking rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 11:55 AM
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You cannot be saying that shit to kids dude. Let me remind you again that the "kid" started the whole drama and she was just being told off for that. And why can't you tell shit like that to kids? Do you think teenagers don't use such words or are not aware of them? She’s clearly deranged and aggressive. No, it's you who is deranged in this situation. The woman is completely sensible, logical and on point with her remarks. They’re obviously on some sort of drugs. Speaking for the woman who is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 11:50 AM
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No, she never called her a slut in the video. Watch the fucking video carefully before making such statements. She said: "Slutty ass fucking outfit" That is describing the girl's clothes. So far everything that I've seen from you is some miss-statements which you need to do to make up your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 11:20 AM
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She wasn't aggressive, she was firm and serious. And she wasn't yelling. And she said shit exactly the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 10:57 AM
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What a shallow way of thinking you have... She could be crying because all sorts of things, it's pretty dumb to assume that the only reason could be that he was aggressively hitting on her. I will tell you why she is crying. It's not because of the cat calling at all. It's because she started a big drama out of it inappropriately, thinking that she will be a bad bitch and tell the guy off. However, the guy's partner appeared to be more of a badass than the girl and called out the girls bullshit,…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 10:15 AM
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You make zero sense. Do you think it would be more likely that we was full out hitting on the girl in a really explicit rude way while he is with his partner?!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:50 AM
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It's the chasing-game where the women don't give everything of them too early in order to maintain the interest of a man. Nope, there is absolutely no such thing. It's just in women's heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:39 AM
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It wasn't intended to be personal/offensive. I just comment on the situation in general - this might apply to many other similar cases as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:34 AM
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You don't know what happened exactly in the particular situation. Why do you straight go for the worst case? Maybe he said it in a quite gentle voice and was polite?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:21 AM
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Who gives a shit about max deadlift All people who care about being strong, no matter the reason maybe? I get more girls now slimmer and slightly weaker So do you do all of that solely to get more girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:19 AM
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It sounded like making you stronger with respect to flat bench, i.e. incline is more effective for strength gain which I disagree with. Of course you will still be getting stronger doing incline, it's just not that efficient for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:18 AM
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You are wasting your tren if you are just 225 at 6'3. That's natty numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:06 PM
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Bruh, 177 lbs at 6'4 is a skeleton.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:05 PM
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If incline was making you stronger, that would have been one of the must have exercises for powerlifting and it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:00 PM
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maintaining a 500 calorie deficit wasn’t all that bad You generalize waaay too fucking much and come off entirely from your own biased experience it seems. If you are 20% or more and you've been doing sports actively (not just being fat cause only playing video games and not moving your ass), you will have a hard time getting to 11% or whatever value you quoted. And no, you won't lose just 10 lbs on your compound lifts in the process. If you have 500 lbs deadlift for example, you will lose much …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:58 PM
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Don't you think that's a bit of a generalization? Human beings are weird and it might surprise you how much you can vibe with people outside of your own demographic. That's totally the case brother. The problem a large part of Reddit userbase is fucking dumb retards with extremist views.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:45 PM
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And the girl is even crying at the end. Like what the fuck?! You got complimented for what we know, from a guy who is with his actual partner in a shop (pretty safe situation for the girl from all perspectives). Why the fuck is she even crying - she dressed up in a really slutty way and she just got a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:21 PM
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I didn't get if you are being sarcastic or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:58 PM
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You're literally speculating, and making stuff up in order to justify your argument. No, I'm considering different logical possibilities, something that every smart person does. What the dumb people do is use simple and narrow logic and rely on a vague argument without considering different possibilities. Yes, here, here, here, here, and here. Why the fuck are you wasting my time? I asked specific question: Do you have a reference to any research showing that the prefrontal cortex development is…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:57 PM
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Not everybody wants to have kids. That vast majority of the people do. You are speaking about exceptions here. Exceptions don't make the rule. they can engage with as an equal Either more exceptions or straight female fantasy. The two genders are not equal in many different ways even biologically. there's also a financial advantage to dating older Most men don't want a woman who makes more than them. That's no longer an issue. It is because most women won't respect a guy if they earn significant…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:20 AM
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And still, the vast majority of women prefer men who are at least a little older than them. That is mostly because they prefer more mature man. Women on average prefer men who are "more" than them at different aspects - earn more, have better career, have more life experience, are more mature, etc. There are studies demonstrating that women have less respect for guys younger than them (on average again of course). Also older men tend to be more masculine and wise, at least compared to men in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:29 AM
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It's a scientific fact that a person doesn't reach full maturity until 25 (as the prefrontal cortex isn't finished developing until around the age of 25) Yeah, science doesn't work like that, you just pulled out some random shit out of your ass referring to some random terms here. Here are just a few facts showing how naive your take is: Everybody's brain develops differently. 25 could be an estimated age for the prefrontal cortex, but for many people that age will be lower. It's the same with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:22 AM
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Oh, I wish you all well. Maybe you have an amazing relationship and you are happy. You are an exception though. That doesn't change the fact that on average it's not advisable to marry to somebody much older than you, especially when that is the woman. Under equal circumstances (you love each other, you are a perfect match for each other, etc) there is no benefits I can think of to marry a much older woman than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:10 AM
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28 year olds on average don’t look older than 22 year olds. Of course they do. It's 6 years of a difference. Both might be relatively young, but a woman at 28 will certainly look older on average than a 22 year old one. 22 year olds that don't have wrinkles, are attractive and fit are usually the same at 28 They might not have wrinkles at 28 either, but will still look older compared to them being at 22. This is Reddit. I’m sure you’ve heard worse on the internet in this hour alone. That's the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:07 AM
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I mean, who wants to have a much older wife? There are not many positives about that. And for the fact, not many women want to have a much older husband either, although it's a bit more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:57 AM
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That's literally the most stupid thing I've seen this week and I've seen a lot already.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:58 PM
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Yes, they probably feel bad for the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:54 PM
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is going to make a 30 year old dating an 18 year old any less creepy Do you know the problem with the word creepy? First it's not really well defined. Second, it's extremely open to personal interpretation, so it's almost completely useless in the context of a serious conversation/debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:48 PM
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There's a massive difference between who I was at 19 and who I was at 22 even. You can't use your personal self-biased case as an argument, you know? There are plenty of people who are really mature at 18 even. I was a perfect example of that (to use your strategy).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:46 PM
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Just to add that it actually depends on the age of consent of the particular country. In EU in half of the countries it is 16 while in the other half it is 14.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:43 PM
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dated a 30 year old as a 40 year old and it was a mistake Of course it was a mistake. The guy should have lost his mind dating a 40 year old single mom while being at 30 himself. Unless he wanted to just get some easy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:39 PM
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hows a highschool boy without a car gonna compete with dude in his career and experience dating for a decade It's not a competition even, such cases are 1 in 1000.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:36 PM
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And have you considered those? Can you always be with a gun in every situation to use it for self-defense? Isn't there a chance that if you use it slightly out of place you will end up in jail for killing somebody? Is it always appropriate to use a gun? No, men are not replaceable in this aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:27 PM
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Nope, wrong guess again. She is having an amazing time. You seem pretty confident that you know enough about me to make such conclusions, while the fact is you've only seen a few comments of mine and you don't know shit about me. A wise thing will be to stop embarrassing yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:24 PM
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I would argue that at its core it is quite right and it makes sense. There are some things which are kinda bullshit to a degree, but those are off bits and not that important overall. bias skewed field reports Although it perhaps started around PUA, it doesn't have much to do with PUA overall nowadays. However, many people have reported that it helped them to be more successful with girls. feelings-based speculations Nope, most of it is logical things that make sense supported by many real life …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:25 PM
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You can replace men easily through sex toys You cannot replace women easily, neither in the sexual sense Those two don't make any fucking sense. If you could indeed replace men easily with toys, why the fuck would so many women be going for casual hook ups? Female sex dolls and sex robots of quality are also very very expensive That's not the equivalent argument though! An equivalent to a sex toy (dildo) would be a fleshlight and those are not that expensive. Also using your hand does pretty fuc…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:00 PM
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In other words this guy knows his shit and it would be difficult to prove him wrong :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:30 PM
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I am mostly speaking in the context of this post, where we have SMV determining how sexually desired you are and RMV determining how desired are you for a serious LTR. You can be valuable of course in many different other ways. I just don’t understand with the pills why is sex like end all be all? It's not only in the pill communities. Pretty much every guy out there enjoys sex and wants to have sex in some shape - would it be within a relationship or casually or paying for it depends on the cir…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:59 PM
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So I think that it’s better to judge based upon sexual interest from acquaintances rather than strangers. Both are fair approaches I think depending on what your aim is. If you are keen to date strangers (OLD for example) what matters is how strangers perceive you. If you are keen to date/hook up with acquaintances from your social circles, that is what matter in this case. And your value could be potentially significantly different in both cases. For example if you have really good looks but no…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:43 PM
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It depends how you see it. To me it makes a lot of sense, but I acknowledge it's a bit of a vague term and it's not easy to define it or use it reliably. That is how I view it personally - your SMV determines your chances of success hook up wise against the general population. If you have a relatively high SMV, you will have more success going for hook ups on average, you will be getting more successful hook ups per unit time and you will have better access to good looking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:40 PM
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Two popular “Red Pill” podcasts that are infinitely mocked on TikTok by women That is highly biased view on it though. It is not representative at all on how many of the women, percentage wise, know about RP or those podcasts, nor is representative of how the majority of the women feel about those topics. Every single show will always have fans and haters. These podcasts often question what do women bring to the table Of course they do, shouldn't it be questioned? Isn't it dumb to assume that wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:35 PM
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If women hear that you support the red pill, they will FLEE immediately. That's pretty dumb generalized statement. First most women have no fucking idea what red pill is. Second, it's more about the key ideologies of RP, which will actually be approved by most women. Some of those being - take care of how you look, stay in good shape, have confidence, be assertive / have strong character or don't be a pussy, be financially stable, have a good established career, etc. Would you say any of those i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:15 PM
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Yeah, the difference here, using your analogy, is that the rest of the world has no fucking idea how gravity works and can't even use gravity properly for the most part. While TRP explains to you how gravity actually works and how to use it to your advantage while hooking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:10 PM
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Sure, but that's something that incels say. If you are not such a girl, that's alright. Not everybody can be an amazing girl. your comment about people makes YOU the incel in this argument Yeah, but fact here is I'm not. I am happily married and I've been getting tons of sex for many years :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:02 PM
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Oh, so you are not only uneducated but also stubborn and arrogant? I'm trying to help you here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:45 AM
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it still isn't an ideal body type It's probably not ideal, but there is a bit difference between somebody with a lot of muscle at 23% and somebody with zero muscle at 23%. The second guy will look absolutely terrible. younger girls prefer shredded guys There seems to be similar tendency where younger girls prefer lean guys with a bit less muscle, while older girls prefer guys with a bit more muscle. I guess it has to do with their environment and what they are used to seeing around them. If the …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:30 AM
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Said every incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:23 AM
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I used to be 23-25~ and was looking like a bowling ball with moobs. Cause you probably were a weak motherfucker with zero muscle. Of course you will look like a bowling ball. If you have a lot of muscle on, 23 - 25% doesn't look terrible bad. People on the street won't say - ha, what a fucking pig. They will say - fuck, this guy is a bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:03 PM
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Being skinny can work if you have definition, too, because then you look athletic There is nothing athletic about being skinny. v-waistline That's just useless for performance in all sorts of way. I have no idea why is it considered a beauty standard. Narrow/small core is a weak core.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:53 PM
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some men are vile when they're rejected Have you had such experiences yourself? Or alternatively what stories have you heard of?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:54 PM
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Do yourself a favor and watch this video please: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zfRuinRYHhw
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:53 PM
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The uncircumcised men I've encountered did not take care of their penis properly and I noticed they weren't clean under the foreskin. If you just think about the fact that there are plenty of countries in the world where circumcision is not even a thing, you will realize how stupid this comment of yours sounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:52 PM
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Woman, please stop being fucking dumb, do yourself a favor and watch this video for the sake of your kids: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zfRuinRYHhw
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:49 PM
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Do you even read? Circumcision is about the same as removing the clitoral hood, which is a form of FGM. That has nothing to do with what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:48 PM
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Maybe because the kid wouldn't care if he will live or not, while the circumcised kid will always need to live with the consequences. I’m circumcised and it’s no big deal And do you know how it feels to not be circumcised to know that? Here is a video that might be interesting to you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zfRuinRYHhw
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:44 PM
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If I had a son he would have been circumcised. Why? Are you aware of all the terrible downsides and few upsides?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:42 PM
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I always thought that many women in US find it disgusting to sleep with a guy who is not circumcised. Please correct me if I'm wrong, I might have misremembered.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:39 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:21 PM
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It's pretty shitty experience, no matter the gender I would imagine. Especially when it happens with a great friend of yours, who really likes you in many other ways and really enjoys spending time with you, likes your jokes, etc. And also when you are not that bad looking + have a pretty high SMV overall which increases the chances that she likes you sexually as well, but at the end it turns out she doesn't...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:17 PM
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because they valued me for more than just my vagina Well, that goes by default, they are your friends. If they only wanted you for sex, they wouldn't be friends of yours. I've also had sex with male friends. If you don't mind sharing, did it affect your friendship in any way? How did they feel after you couldn't have sex anymore? Did somebody develop feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:14 PM
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I guess that's how it is with most of the girls. It really depends how the girl feels about friends with benefits type of arrangement though. If she is open minded about it and happens to be single for a longer period of time, while being horny/missing sex at the same time it's quite easy for her to approach a hot friend of hers for casual sex. I've had female friends who've done that. Relationships are bit trickier though I guess. As you've said there is a bit too much history there which makes…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:10 PM
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You can still comment/debate in poll posts though, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:03 PM
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So many people get this wrong, it hurts my eyes. Those two are not necessarily related and that's the big important detail. A woman can sleep with you on the first date and still have a low N count, it's completely possible! Here are a few ways of how this can be achieved: She didn't date many people before you. Maybe she only dates people who she really likes in a first place and has enough information for. She is really picky. Maybe she did date many people before you, but she never followed u…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:59 PM
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They refuse to believe you can be in a relationship AND have sex lol. Bruh, where the fuck have you seen this stated in RP? And why the fuck would you have a Red Pill flair if you don't know shit about RP? It just amazes what crazy shit the people who hate RP come up with just to make a strong point against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:48 PM
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Could be a friend, a fried of a friend, a colleague of your brother, in the same university course as you, etc. There are plenty of ways to have some information about the guy before you go on a date with him. That's how a pretty major part of the dates happen, it's not always with a complete stranger. Don’t sleep with every guy - that’s in agreement with OPs girlfriend and the female behaviour that’s largely being derided in this thread. No, the problem with the OP's girlfriend is the REASON wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:40 PM
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Sorry, what was the reason for that? Obviously the sub userbase is quite biased and the sample size will often be too small, but it could have been interesting to see the results in cases like this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:18 PM
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Yes you absolutely can: Don't date many guys. Date only guys who you really like in a first place and have some reliable information about them. Don't sleep with every single guy on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:52 PM
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He’s just as likely to dump her because he has options after he’s slept with her He might like her though and be willing to have a relationship with her. However, just because she is not willing to sleep with him in a reasonable timeframe, that could be the turn off deal breaker for him. I personally would want to be in a relationship with a girl who really desires me and is clearly showing that by sleeping with me. I wouldn't tolerate the classic women bullshit of "Let's withhold sex for 2 mont…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:51 PM
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how special can you be after meeting someone for the first time and she just throws it at you In theory you can be infinitely special. You can be fucking Brad Pit, you know? You can be one of the best models in the industry, who is also really rich, has the status, has awesome game, is very intelligent, etc. Do your friends actually try to have with women on first dates If the girl really seems into them and the circumstances are right, of course. It's a no-brainer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:30 PM
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If age is a factor, I've met more than you I guess. I've met plenty of man who were really annoyed because the girl is withholding sex for too long and they really want to do it. And as I said, I've never met a guy who goes like "Damn, I like her so fuck much, she seems like an incredible girl but she let me fuck her far too quickly and that turned me off". Every guy is just happy to get sex and feels privileged for that, because as we know many girls wouldn't give you sex that easy. So in a way…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:14 PM
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If he’s very attractive then that’s even less reason for her to be sure of him after one date Yeah, but it's even more of a motivation to try her best to keep him. And withholding sex for a long time is the perfect recipe to turn a guy off and he dumps you just because he has options and doesn't want to deal with your female bullshit. how is it “illogical” for her to wait It's not illogical to wait. It's illogical to wait purely for the reason that she doesn't look "easy" which according to her …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:09 PM
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Just like that: They haven't dated many guys. They don't need to sleep with every single guy on the first date, it's not a must.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:08 PM
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You haven't met many men then.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:06 PM
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No, I don't call women sluts for sleeping with guys on the first date. I call women sluts for having excessively high N count number, and more importantly N count density (count of guys per unit time), which can't be reasonably justified with good arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:05 PM
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ONS indicates purely one off casual sex. Here we are speaking about dating with the aim to get into LTR, which is pretty different scenario. So were you even looking for an LTR with this girl and was she also looking for such with you? Because it doesn't sound like it the way you describe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:43 PM
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You've done what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:39 PM
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that think that women who sleep with men easily are sluts Let me correct you - who slept with many other men easily. Nobody complains when a girls sleeps with HIM easily. they all talk about "body count" on women Yes, but if the girl sleeps with you easily that doesn't necessarily mean her N count is big. You get that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:38 PM
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Well, that entirely depends on what type of a guy you are. If you are really high value man, really attractive, etc. the girl might have thought she hit the jackpot with you. Also it depends on how young she is - if she is not that old the chance of her having big N count is smaller. But more importantly it depends on her behavior, etc. That's why you have a few dates at least before starting a relationship. You need to read the girl and see what is she like. The problem with ''sluts" is not pur…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:36 PM
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Men will think twice about a woman if they sleep with her on the first date No they want, that's just an irrational/illogical women fear. I've been trying to explain you this all along but you don't seem to get it. As a man, that's coming like a compliment to you and shows you that the woman really wants you. There is nothing better than that. No fucking man ever said "God, I wished she withhold sex a bit longer".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:11 PM
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That is a whole different topic and it's irrelevant here. What is relevant here is that sleeping with the guy on the first date wouldn't decrease your chances to get an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:27 AM
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Which is which what? I didn't get you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:55 AM
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Oh, so now the women are mind readers and know exactly what guys think? Women will tell you that as an excuse for being pumped and dumped. They being pumped and dumped is not due to the fact that they allowed sex too early, but simply because the guys they go out with didn't want anything serious in a first place - they wanted just sex. Withholding sex for longer wouldn't have changed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:49 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:47 AM
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I've not only heard, but I've read a lot of TRP stuff and I had been a part of the community (mostly reading) for a few months at the time to familiarize myself. According to TRP, you want a girl to be easy for YOU but not easy for other man. So the simple fact that she fucked you quickly doesn't necessarily mean she is a slut and she fucked 100 other guys like that before. Maybe she is really into you? Also if you follow TRP you wouldn't probably care about LTR that much anyway. Do you really i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:46 AM
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Disagree how much you want. I've never seen a guy saying this. I am a guy, I've spoken on the topic with quite a few of my friends and I've been around PPD and similar subs for a long time. It just doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:43 AM
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Most guys don’t want to date a girl who who he thinks has been around. That's only if they know for a fact that she is a slut or if she has an extremely slutty behavior which suggests that. Sleeping with you on the first date is none of those. so they think she’s been around Bullshit. No guy is thinking that. If her behavior is alright otherwise and everything seems good with the girl in respect to LTR, sleeping with you on the first date is only a positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:40 AM
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No. Logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:27 AM
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This makes zero sense. Either elaborate or GTFO.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:35 PM
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then don’t make any promises in regards to the future Yeah but who the fuck makes such promises. And even if some men do, who the fuck are those stupidly naive women trusting them? It's a new relationship. The two people just met. Nobody can guarantee you if it will go well and for how long.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:32 PM
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Women avoiding him because of his totally normal and logical human behavior? Logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:28 PM
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she wanted to preserve herself so that she seemed more innocent and modest to him, so that he would also consider her girlfriend material If she will sleep with him on the first date or not has absolutely no impact of his decision if he will consider her an LTR material or not. I would argue she even has bigger chances to get an LTR if she does sleep with him on the first date. For guys sex is something very difficult to get, hence very special. The best way to impress a guy and show him you are…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:23 PM
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I understand the logic behind it (not wanting to appear too easy) No, there is no logic behind it, it's some dumb women logic. There is no such thing to appear too easy to a guy. Every guy will really appreciate if a girl cuts all the bullshit and sleeps with him as early as possible in the relationship. I've never ever seen a guy saying "She seems like an amazing girl for a serious LTR but the only problem is she had sex with me too early so she appears easy and that's a downside". Shit just do…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:10 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:26 PM
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Here we are not discussing thick or curvy women, here we are discussing morbidly obese women. Do you consider yourself such? What's your height/weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 01:08 PM
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Are you obese as the example in this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 01:06 PM
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She is a fucking pig bruh, open your eyes next time you check her up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 01:04 PM
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Unfortunately, us mortals do not possess your fat wrinkly brain You are really young, you have plenty of time to achieve big things in life as well. Just have some confidence and work hard on achieving your dreams. Do you believe the woman was lying when she said she wouldn’t have dated her ex if she had met him today? No, what I believe is that she is extremely biased by her past experience with him, so it will be very naïve to take her word for anything in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:10 PM
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I also make it clear I want commitment before sleeping with a man Can you please clarify what exactly mean by wanting a commitment? Like what exactly needs to happen in order for you to feel like they've committed enough to have sex with them and what is the expected timeframe of this? As a man, that's always been a red flag to me if it takes too long. Now, up to a few dates (a month let's say) it makes sense. But anything more than that is not acceptable. I would feel like I'm wasting my time w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:05 PM
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So it's alright to disrespect the guy by not allowing him to sleep with other girls while sleeping with you? That is his personal freedom, he is not in a relationship with you. Also yes, it is an equivalent act of cowardice - you are afraid to let him sleep with other girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 05:57 PM
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It's not only a time management issue, but that is an important one as well. Let's say you are actively being in a relationship with 3 girls - that's like the minimum sensible number for our imaginary situation, with more than that it will be even more of a nightmare. So you are in a relationship with those girls which normally means meeting often, doing stuff together, sleeping together, etc. If we assume you have 1 day in the week for yourself, which is pretty sensible minimum number, that giv…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 05:53 PM
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Sorry compa, but are you using google translator?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 05:39 PM
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Yeah, but I can you the same logic towards women "If you don't allow your fuck buddie to have sex with other women as well, you are a piece of shit and a coward".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:59 PM
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I mean overall. A high value man generally has many options and in such case it doesn't make any sense for him to be going for a 35+ single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:54 PM
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with a brain that is not yet fully developed It's 99% developed already, but more importantly you should have enough knowledge about the world and social/life experience to be able to take such important decisions in life. Also women mature earlier than men. People often just don't seem to be serious enough about their choices or make far too many compromises with their relationship in a first place. Or you might just be lucky I've achieved so much in my life that it's just statistically impossi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:52 PM
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still hot at 30 plus I said mid 30s or older, which suggests 35+. You are speaking about 30 here. Do you even follow me? Also who is speaking about looks only? The biggest problem is fertility. Most serious high value men want to have kids. For kids you need younger fertile woman. After 35 the female fertility goes down the hill and different risks associated with pregnancy, giving birth, birth defects, etc. increase a lot. So it's pretty damn stupid to be dating a 35+ woman with the idea to eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:46 PM
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I've never heard anybody sensible claiming that the wall is at 30 anyway. It's very often quoted as 35 which is more sensible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:40 PM
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Maybe you’re seeing things from an introverted man lense. Maybe you are seeing things from the lens of a guy who's never been in a relationship and doesn't know all the intricacies involved in that. it isn’t that difficult to meet women and present yourself as a single man Of course it's not. The difficult part is not meeting them on a date, but actually being in an active relationship with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:39 PM
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There is no such thing. You can't realistically "pretend" to be a boyfriend of several girls at once. Shit doesn't work like that. It's far too complicated logistics/practicality wise and also there is a huge risk that the girls will quickly realize that. And apart from that, it's still really difficult to get several girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:23 PM
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And a lot of 30 year old women are single because theyre coming out of 10 year relationships. Yeah because they did the wrong choice at the time and now they need to suffer the consequences. No high value man will take a single mom in her mid 30s or even older, being used and abused already by another man for years and having a kid from him. That doesn't make any fucking sense. If she is fortunate she can maybe get the local Billy Beta to support her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:14 PM
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the "wall" being pushed back That's bullshit only women believe. And they wonder what's wrong when they start struggling getting HVM after their mid 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:09 PM
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Bro, the this girl is out of her mind. That's probably the third post at least where I've seen her speaking about that. Not only me, but like 10 other people at least were not able to convince her what average means. She has some sort of twisted stupid definition of hers and doesn't accept any reasoning in the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:22 PM
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Trying to compare which is the more attractive gender is really retarded thing to do. That's the exact definition of comparing apples to oranges. You arguments don't show anything else than the fact that man just have lower standards and are willing to fuck a woman who is "nothing special" relatively speaking, while women nowadays have some crazy inflated standards. That doesn't mean the women are more attractive on average, as I said you can't compare the two genders in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:20 PM
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demonstrates absolutely “no game” if the strategy is to pretend commitment in order to get multiple women to fuck you. Essentially it’s pseudo-Betabux more than Alpha. Bruh, you managed to get several girls fucking you in parallel in the same time frame. What the fuck are you even talking about. Do you know how few men manage to achieve this? It's fucking difficult thing to achieve and it requires all sorts of qualities. Don't downplay it like that. The described situation doesn't have anything …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:01 PM
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if you need to lie to get pussy you’re a coward with no backbone I don't think a coward is the right word here. Manipulator sounds more suitable. And that's often necessary for many to be able to get casual sex just because of the weird nature of women. I will give you an example. A guy is having sex casually with a girl. There are not in a relationship and none of them has shown any intentions to want such yet. It's purely a casual sex agreement. However, the girl requires from the guy to not s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:56 AM
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that leads us to be in shitty marriages that could’ve been prevented if we waited till our brains fully developed Mesosphere doesn't tell you to make stupid choices though, that's on you. You just married the wrong person. You can't really use age as an excuse. At 20 you are a fucking adult, you've had plenty of years to become such. Stop always looking for things to blame all your mistakes on. I met my wife when I was 21 and we got married a few years later. Now, many years later, we are still …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:41 AM
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Women keep asking for their husbands to be responsible adults Sure, but why the fuck would you even marry him in a first place if he is like that?!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:36 AM
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Sorry, I made a typo, it was supposed to be "suggests" but I think you got it. The rules of the relationship are set, crossing that is cheating. That is not black and white at all though and varies a whole ton depending on the particular relationship/circumstances/timeline, etc. For example rules are not often stated explicitly and discussed in detail. That could be due to all sorts of reasons, such as it's uncomfortable topic to speak about especially in a new relationship, it's just assumed by…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:01 AM
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Absolutely. It really feels like Reddit is full of fucking pussies nowadays. But what's worse is that so many mods are even bigger pussies and ban people left and right. It's not too bad on PPD, if they ban you normally it's not for long and bans don't seem to be getting exponentially longer each time which is really good. But even here it's so easy to get banned just because some fucking pussy got offended by you disagreeing with him and reported your comment. Once your comment is reported, man…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:52 PM
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Many people wouldn’t be comfortable with that. Yes, but many people are also retards and their opinion shouldn't have much weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:14 PM
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What you’re missing is the plain fact that we don’t agree. No, that is plain obvious to me. Otherwise we wouldn't have had this argument going. it doesn’t change the bottom line that it would make you a coward That's not a bottom line, that's simply your personal biased view on the topic which you couldn't even defend well with arguments. I tried my best to show you that it doesn't need to be like that in all cases, but what you did is that you just ignored most of the stuff that I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:11 PM
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That's a good illustration of how narrow minded you are. Now do your best and try considering some different potential reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:08 PM
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The definition of a coward is a person who lacks the courage to do or endure dangerous or unpleasant things. I don't know if you are lacking the brain capacity to figure this out yourself, but there are many other reasons why you might not want to do dangerous or unpleasant things. Being a coward is only one of them and you simply seem to neglect all others. For example if they ask you to run through a burning building with a pretty high chance to get badly hurt, without anything in return, woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:25 PM
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There could be 100 different reasons why she feels like that. And communication is definitely the first step in this case. Knowing what's the problem from her perspective is crucial to know how to fix it or if it's fixable at all. Just asking random people on reddit is not a good approach at all. Just ending the relationship without any effort to understand where the problem was is pretty damn stupid as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:15 PM
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We NEED negative population growth. You might have an argument for an OVERALL negative population growth in the world. You are missing a big factor here though - raising high value kids might have much bigger positive effect on the world compared to the slight negative effect they will have from contributing to the population increase. Another thing is that the population growth rate in most western countries is already negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:12 PM
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I explained everything pretty well. If you don't understand specific points, ask specific questions and I will clarify. This question is super vague.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 04:25 PM
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Yes I do have children. I prefer to educate my kids in a way that they grow up having all the good qualities so they can do a good positive contribution to the world. And then have their own children who will do the same. If all people follow your advice the humanity will just vanish in a few generations, do you realize that? And the only way to reverse the direction the world is going in according to you is to have more good/smart/educated, etc. kids who will hopefully do a big enough positive …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:55 PM
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I tell my boys not to bother having children Incredibly stupid thing to say to your children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:11 PM
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I have a couple of problems with it. First, people nowadays use the word "cheating" left and right as there is no tomorrow. Your wife smiled at another man? Wooo she cheated on me. Well no... Your wife is watching porn. Cheating again. It goes for both genders of course. Second, IMO cheating suggests making sacrifices with the relationship. For example spending time with another man, being intimate with another man, having sex obviously, etc. Just chatting with another man or sending him nudes i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:08 PM
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Yeah that's not appropriate behavior but it's not cheating either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 01:56 PM
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So you agree with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 01:01 PM
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I specifically addressed the quoted statement of yours. It was not presented as strictly your opinion: No loving person wants someone they care about to do something like that. That is not expressing how you personally feeling about the topic, that is saying how all "loving" people feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:28 PM
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emotional cheating There is no such thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:42 AM
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No loving person wants someone they care about to do something like that. Retarded generalized statements like that make me losing hope in humanity more and more. My wife loves me with all her heart and our marriage is in a great shape and at the same time she doesn't give a fuck that I'm watching porn or masturbating. She knows I'm extremely horny and it's just not practical to have sex twice a days, so she considers me watching porn and masturbating something completely normal and natural. It'…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:38 AM
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The fact that she is still putting up with you means she is giving you a chance to man up and fix the relationship Bruh, stop pulling shit out of your ass. You have no fucking idea what's the matter with his girl. You are not helping anybody with your random speculations.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:32 AM
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What a piece of shit advice is that? The OP needs to fucking speak to the girl and see what's the matter. It's mind-blowing to me reading all those speculations people make in this post without having any details about their relationship or about the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:30 AM
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I don't really get anymore if you are talking in general or about me in particular. Let me first make it clear - I presented a general hypothetical situation. So I really hope that by saying "you", you are not actually addressing me but you speak about a hypothetical guy. If your concern was damaging the relationship and family, you shouldn’t have cheated in the first place. I disagree. Because if you do it right, you do absolutely no sacrifices with your relationship/family. For example you don…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:49 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:56 PM
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First, I am pro-telling the truth and communicating with your partner as well. However! I understand many people who decide to better not tell. Some partners are just weak minded or don't have strong enough character to handle such things. Also many people have extremely strong artificial prejudices towards things like cheating. In many of those cases you would save them so much pain by not telling them. Imagine your relationship is great and everybody is extremely happy. However, it happened th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:55 PM
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My partner doesn't want to sleep with other people at all, do you even read?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:48 PM
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First, who is speaking about unequal permissions here? Second, did you just ignore all other things that I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 09:29 PM
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She could, but I have a very simple answer for her - I just like variety and sex is just sex. And now you can be like "Well she can say the same". Sure, she can, but then she will be an exception. The majority of the women don't feel the need of variety (different partners wise) when they are in a good stable relationship and they have an amazing partner next to them. If they feel the need to cheat, in the majority of the cases it is because they are missing something with their partner. On the …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:56 PM
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Nope, the circumstances and particular relationship matter a lot. You can't make such generalized statements just because you feel like that. I will give a simple example, out of many. My partner knows that I've always been extremely horny and like sex a lot. Also she perfectly knows I love her and respect her a lot and we've had extremely good relationship for many years now. Another thing that she knows because we've spoken a lot about this is that if I ever end up sleeping with another woman,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:10 PM
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Spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:37 AM
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Good observations!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 08:57 AM
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If a woman asks for the same thing you better just dump her right away IMO. Woman not agreeing to an open relationship I understand, that's quite natural for women. But agreeing and wanting the same thing for herself is a massive red flag. I would be asking myself why the fuck does my girlfriend/wife want to sleep with other guys?! What is she missing with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 08:54 AM
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You can't claim that because you are extremely self-biased in the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 08:51 AM
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if one has some past experience with it Well, that's technically illogical again. Past experiences are unique and you can't directly apply them to your current situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:25 AM
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You haven't met many normal women then I guess. That literally the default expectation in the whole society.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:23 AM
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That's the big difference between men and women though. In most of the cases men want to sleep around just for the variety. In most cases if a woman wants to sleep around, that is because she is missing something in her current relationship and that's obviously a problem many times. You might be an exception I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:22 AM
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If you can not be faithful sexually, you can not be trusted in any way Literally zero logic here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:14 AM
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the exclusive contract you’ve made with your partner What contract are you talking about specifically? Cheating IS evil and it ruins lives. I just don't like such generalizations because plenty of exceptions exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:07 AM
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Good answer here. It's all mostly based on illogical feelings - at least as far as women being afraid of being cheated on goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:06 AM
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I don't think most adults expectations exist out of thin air. They come from communication. Not really. I bet the vast majority of the women expect from a man to not cheat on them by default even if that's never been a matter of discussion with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:04 AM
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I have no sympathy for someone who is too weak to ask for what they want. I kinda agree, but often the problems is not that men are too weak to ask. The problem is that women are too weak to handle the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:02 AM
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But what if I want to be fucking around while my partner doesn't? What if that's alright with her because she doesn't feel the desire to sleep with other men and she is happy only sleeping with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:00 AM
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The only people who will reply the same way as you are people who don't understand the true value of PPD, who rely entirely on their feelings only and people who don't like theory crafting/being objective about such topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:57 PM
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Stats for steroids are readily available. You can see them online. Brother I've been in the field for years and I've done tons of research on it. Have no idea what stats you mean, but I would just assume you've read a couple of bullshit articles on the topic and you are just running your mouth here. Please provide me a solid source otherwise. Basically, if you're in a class of 20 people Please, don't teach me highschool maths, I have a first degree honors masters degree in Engineering, I know a …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 11:09 PM
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statistically it's evident that steroids are horrible Bro, what statistics are you talking about? There are barely any studies on steroid abuse (high doses), especially long term. Or you mean the ones made by your gymbros? Regarding money it is. It's nearly impossible. Fam, fucking 10% of the people manage to do it. Does that sound like nearly impossible to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:26 PM
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No it doesn't make sense to believe lying either, because there will still be plenty of exceptions. Also it really depends on the context - what is the person lying about, how easy is it to lie on the topic, what evidence/supportive argument did he present, etc. Straight accusing somebody of lying without knowing anything about him is as dumb as straight believing him if not dumber.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:02 PM
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All guys say they have it under control, then die at 40/50 So what are you saying, all the guys abusing steroids die by the age of 50? Earning 200k is the top 5-10% of men everywhere. True, but being in top 10% is not really a huge achievement in anything. Especially depending on countries. Yes, I was giving an example for USA. I'm not american either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:00 PM
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I think you are focusing a bit too much on some rare exceptional cases that don't have a huge importance overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:39 PM
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Thinking that everybody is saying the truth is naive, but thinking that everybody is lying by default is just as naive brah.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:37 PM
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See bro, I'm happy for you and wish you continue having success. Such shit is really not enough though in the average case in todays dating market: It's just a matter of being confident and having positive traits There are always some exceptions, but the majority of the girls nowadays put quite a bit of emphasis on looks, status, etc. Especially if it's regarding casual hookups. That has been proven many many times in studies, surveys, anecdotal evidence from many people, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 11:52 AM
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But if you already have children or don't want them, a woman doesn't lose more with age than a man. You are skipping an important factor here though. Women hit their visual peak much earlier than guys on average. For women that is around 22 and for guy that is around 30. So in their mid 20s women are already a bit past their attractiveness peak while for guys that is only happening in their early 30s. So in that regard guys have an advantage. Obviously here we assume both genders staying in shap…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 11:45 AM
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5/10, a bit overweight, big nose, not wealthy, etc Yeah, but how have you raised your value I don't get? It really sounds like you are just working on your personality and nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 11:21 AM
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But personality alone doesn't make a pussy wet, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 11:19 AM
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I'm dating an amazing girl that is intelligent, emotionally intelligent, attractive, educated, funny, good at communicating, etc 5/10, a bit overweight, big nose, not wealthy, etc Never underestimate how lucky you were brother, trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 11:17 AM
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LOL what a revolution
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 11:15 AM
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In terms of impact yes. But he meant in terms of odds of them happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 11:15 AM
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but actually won't I would disagree. Done right they can totally help, in some aspects at least. that finds out you had leg lengthening surgery No way for her to find out really, unless you end up being in a serious LTR with her and you decide to share. I'm not advising for such surgery of course, just trying to be objective here regarding your comment. the classic prejudices against men and cosmetic surgery Again, done right there is no way to notice that such surgery was performed. Acting aggr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 11:14 AM
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Bitconneeeeect Just testing if you are a true crypto guy :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:58 AM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:50 AM
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That's not love. That's an erection.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:50 AM
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I knew a girl who developed feelings and shortly fell in love pretty bad to a guy who she used to know for many years beforehand. All those years before they were just friends and she didn't have any feelings she said. Go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:49 AM
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Fuck did I just read?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:47 AM
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Your whole comment/wording comes a bit insecure to me to be honest with you. their supposed IQ Why do you assume it's supposed though? Maybe they tested it properly using professional scientifically approved IQ tests? come off more insecure Why would you think they are insecure? If they have really high IQ and they are obviously confident about it, there is absolutely nothing to be insecure about in this situation, with regards to intelligence at least. On the contrary, a low IQ person often com…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:15 AM
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understand that they can’t be right about everything/every time Sure. by claiming that they are a big deal That depends on the exact claim. They might indeed be a big deal in some aspects. they are setting themselves for almost certain embarrassment down the line In my personal experience that almost never happens. When you are really intelligent you have enough brain to measure your words and know exactly what you need to say which decreases the risk to embarrass yourself greatly. Often people …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:07 AM
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Sure, but I've noticed that very often being confident and proud is confused with bragging, mainly by some insecure people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:04 AM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:02 AM
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it’s totally not uncommon to hear something like that nobody in their social circle would have thought about that It doesn't matter what you hear. Check some statistics. Exceptions don't make the rule. As a man, I value their life experience in that regard Anecdotal experience doesn't mean much, especially as a mean for quantitative analysis. My wife had a totally different experience when she was pregnant. So now should I claim that no women have negative experience when pregnant, cause she sai…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:24 AM
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I just so you edited your comment, so let cover the rest. I really don’t know how you can say a strategy that doesn’t solve the problem is the best and most efficient strategy It is from the available strategies. It might not be able to solve it completely for all the women, but it will certainly greatly reduce the risk of something of that nature happening to a woman who really follows this advice. And great reduction is much better than nothing. you only focus on the victim, because you someho…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:21 AM
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I never ever understood such statements. Why the fuck would anybody think that all truly intelligent people must be humble and quiet about it? I am a pretty intelligent person myself. I scored >140 IQ on several professional IQ tests - that is about 1 in 1000. On top of that (for those who don't believe in IQ testing) I have a bunch of awards from high level science competitions, masters degree from top university in UK graduating in top 5 of the class and pretty successful career. I've always b…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:04 AM
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Damn, I felt like you answered a second after my comment. Mind blown. You can exactly expect that from law and your government Yeah, but as every sensible adult knows, those are terribly unreliable very often. So you should always think about your own safety as well. otherwise something is wrong with them, not with you Do you live in a fairytale or what? We don't live in an ideal world, there is a bunch wrong with many many people. You can't live your life naively ignoring that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:55 PM
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I don’t understand how peoples initial reaction is to tell the victims to be more careful Because that's by far the most efficient thing that can be done. It won't solve the problem completely of course, but it's the best strategy overall. Every woman should be wise and shouldn't start relationship with people who seem dodgy in any way. It's not only the risk of violence with such people but a bunch of other problems as well. You as a woman can't just expect the society/law to protect you and no…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:47 PM
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Yeah I guess because everyone wants to be something special...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 07:19 PM
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It doesn't need to be based on the study, maybe the study didn't look into this particular aspect. It a common sense in life though. Most of the people who commit crimes involving violence are the dodgy people you see on the street every day. It makes total sense as well. Who do you think is more likely to commit a violent crime - the well educated nerdy kid from Uni, or a thug from the ghetto? But I guess the nerdy kid is not as attractive dating option for women, so why not make it more exciti…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 02:48 PM
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Sure, but I'm sure you needed to have more humble standards and not only aim at the best looking guys for example, as many women do nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 02:20 PM
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Sure, it's like a woman will ever tell you "No chad ever committed to me for an LTR because I'm a fat pig".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 02:18 PM
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Do you realize that your ridiculous example is a big exception and doesn't make the rule?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 02:07 PM
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Then you have a crappy common sense and can't read men at all I guess. It will be pretty rare to start dating a guy who looks perfect with no red flags whatsoever and he ends up killing you at the end. In the vast majority of the cases there were plenty of red flags, you just either didn't see them because of being naive or did seem them and that was the factor making dating this guy "exciting". Of course all until the moment something bad happens to you and the gamble didn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 02:03 PM
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i guess OP is correct She is also wrong, but for different reasons. most men are below average. something like 55-60% No, what I was trying to say is that they are not. That's why it is considered average (median) value. The number of people below average is exactly the same as the number of people above average. Women just often wrongly interpret it differently. does a similar scale apply to women? Yes, it's the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 01:59 PM
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That's a pretty good point actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 01:54 PM
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LOL I always find comments like this really funny. Why do people expect by default that all foreigners should have crappy English? I myself started learning English at 14, but had plenty of years after that to perfect it. Moving to UK when I was 20 helped quite a bit as well though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 01:52 PM
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Yeah, that is true, but it's a specific situation. Also it doesn't change the fact if you are average or not, it just changes how a particular person who knows you is rating you, which is not very relevant overall. Overall I think it will be good if all people are as realistic as possible - that way everybody will live/behave having the true picture in his head. It's just better for the people overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 01:44 PM
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dick size either isn't important It's a bit like the height IMO. If you are too small, many women will not be impressed after the first time you fuck and will have second thoughts repeating. If you are really big it's impressive and could be one of the contributing factors why she finds you sexually attractive. If you are average, well you are average - like the height it might not hurt much but it doesn't help either and it's up to all other qualities you have / don't have. I'm saying this as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 01:38 PM
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Being a jerk gives a false sense he'll be strong but these "alpha" types crumble fast. Don't you feel like you are generalizing a bit too much here? I would bet there are plenty of exceptions of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 01:33 PM
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I'm not saying I agree with him, but technically that is not the only reason one would not listen to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 01:30 PM
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To be fair, most of the comments have been of the same quality, so you can't really blame the guy for answering in such manner considering the idiocracy of the comments he is replying to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:16 AM
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That's pretty vague though. What do you mean by bigger? I can certainly guarantee you that the vast majority of men don't find obese women attractive. If you are such, your boyfriend is just an exceptions or he is just coping because of the benefits he gets to be with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:15 AM
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Nah, that's total bullshit. It's not only him, the vast majority of men find obese women unattractive and there are good reasons for that. And believe me, women do care if the vast majority of men find them unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:12 AM
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If you can’t tell why you’re an asshole, then I can’t help you. Instead of playing arrogant, why the fuck don't you just tell him in a few words why do you think he is an asshole? If you are offending him you at least owe him explanation. For example I completely disagree with you that he is such, so it's not like all the people agree and that is an absolute fact while you are presenting it as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:09 AM
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Nah, you are just insanely biased by the environment you live in. Come to Eastern Europe and most man will tell you she is a fatass bitch. It doesn't really matter that her stomach is alright (in contrast), her ass is waaay too fat. Having a bit of a booty is alright, but not to that extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:01 AM
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You just don't understand how the scale works, or at least how it is most commonly used. It's a logarithmic/exponential scale to be able to properly describe the very wide range of attractiveness amongst the people. Here is how it goes: It's a normal distribution - you have the most people who are about average and much fewer really attractive or really ugly people. 5.0 is the dead middle and that would be the most average looking guy. The further away you go from the middle, the more extreme it…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 10:13 AM
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I mean the men described as "5"'s are more like 4/3s. Overrweight? Balding? That's BELOW "average" so that 40 is 4's and 3's. The very fact that you put the word average in quotes shows that you have some sort of own definition of average. And by the looks of it, it really seems like it doesn't match the wide standard mathematical definition of the word. Yes, the average guy in the US is overweight and balding (to a degree depending on the age of course). That is what is average, because it just…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 10:06 AM
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Yes, there are few 1s and 10s (9.x to be specific, because 10.0 is the absolute maximum in theory and nearly impossible in practice). But the scale is still symmetrical. It's a normal distribution: https://miro.medium.com/max/1200/1*IdGgdrY_n_9_YfkaCh-dag.png 5.0 is the exact middle. There will be approximately as many 4s as 6s. There will be approximately as many 3s as 7s, etc. 5.0 is the absolute average man, that has nothing to do with your individual taste and if you find him attractive or n…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 10:00 AM
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If someone actually rates you as a 5, its meant as in below average. That is literally the first time I hear this. Quite often is actually the opposite when women are rating men. This post is a good example of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:57 AM
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Oh, and what exactly did you see? Or you just like to speak nonsense. I explicitly explained everything I said, the mods just deleted all of this. I can happily copy/paste some stuff to you, but they will just ban me this time so I better not. If you are curious just tell me and I will send it to you over DM. Be a man and own up to it. Own up to what exactly? To the things a group of crazy/retarded people are trying to convince me I said/meant? That is called being a bitch to my best understandi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 08:26 AM
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Yeah, continue believing what makes you sleep at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:38 PM
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I'm just encouraging people to follow the rules, what's wrong with that? And yes, one of the main reasons for upvoting is agreement with the particular comment. What are you on about? Like in the situation above, it's pretty useless for her to reply with "Okie doke", especially considering that she doesn't seem to actually be agreeing with my statement. It's called being fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:05 PM
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That's just your personal story though. In my case bullying definitely helped me to be more resilient.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:03 PM
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I really doubt you have no personality. You can use that as a foundation and improve on it. You fix overthinking by becoming more confident. Self-criticism is good at the right time, don't use it when talking to girl obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:52 PM
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You can always work on self-improvement without necessarily trying to become "more alpha". For example with looks, you always have options, unless you've done everything already. Yes, you might not have a super masculine thick stubble, but you can still work with what you have or choose to go well shaven. You can always work on your hairstyle, skin quality, being fit, dressing well, etc. You can always improve your confidence by different ways as well. Or you can become more social and improve o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:30 PM
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No it's not, it's used as an offensive word towards feminine guys as stated by Wiki. That's like saying that calling somebody a douchebag means that you want to incline he is a bag used for douches. Kinda ridiculous, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:20 PM
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Yes, that is how the term came to be. But when people use it, their point is not to criticize those guys for their dietary preferences, but to offend them based on their feminine qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:10 PM
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No, I nowhere said he is, I said that he presents himself as such in the hypothetical situation he is describing. People often seem to misinterpret statements, while I am always pretty careful with my wording.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:07 PM
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I understand, you were focusing more on your personal experience, while I was looking at things more in the general case. It's good to hear different experiences, thank you for sharing yours. I think it's a bit of an outlier though and many girls won't be able to relate to it completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:05 PM
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I mean, not everything is about your dick size though. Things can go south due to all sorts of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:02 PM
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I didn't mean to insult him, I just analyzed and presented my view on his imaginary situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:00 PM
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Ah, it depends on the circumstances I guess. If things are good and the girl seems into me though it could be a good move. Because if she wants to see a dick pick, probably she is horny/curious enough and she will definitely be pleased with the one I send in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:57 PM
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"Soy boy" is a pejorative term often used in online communities to describe men lacking masculine characteristics (from Wikipedia). So there is nothing inherently wrong if it's use by masculine guys. Being on TRT has nothing to do with that. are on TRT due to bad eating habits, associated with the “carb scare” that compound onto other factors related to aging That here a huge stretch and a bunch of speculations without anything to back this up. There could be many different reasons to be on TRT …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:55 PM
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I don't need to look around, I'm not a dumb person. There are enough solid studies on the topic. "Lots of" is vague. Is it the majority? I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:51 PM
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I'm not mad about that, they can do whatever they want. Just don't speak a bunch of inaccurate bullshit and pure hate towards people who do want to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:49 PM
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Yes, but he is still an average man, isn't he? You can personally find attractive whoever you want, but that doesn't move the average. In your original statement, you kinda agreed with the OP that JGL is average, while that is clearly not the case, because again if we order all the people at similar age in terms of attractiveness, he will certainly be above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:48 PM
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Bruh, maybe she is just not into scat. It's rare but it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:44 PM
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I personally don't do it because I know most girls would find it weird/offensive and it wouldn't do me any good. I guess some guys do it just because they want to show off with whatever possible, and having a big/good looking dick is something to show off with. It's also something that girls can't normally see before you two have sex and then it's kinda useless already because you as a guy got what you want. In my case for example, I have a truly huge dick (top 0.01% of the population). It would…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:43 PM
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And would you please be so kind to elaborate and explain to me what is the discrepancy you are not happy with about those two statements?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:36 PM
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First off, being average has nothing to do with being attractive. We are speaking average in terms of attractiveness here as one of the components, aren't we?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:34 PM
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Ok sorry, let me correct myself - I don't see the connection here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:27 PM
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Soyboy is the standard insult. Yet it seems half the guys are on Testosterone Replacement Therapy. I didn't see the connection here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:21 PM
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It takes a particular kind of person who really wants to have children. No, it takes a completely normal ordinary person. Not wanting to have kids makes you a big exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:55 PM
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This is probably the only type of reply that I understand/appreciate on the topic. If you know for a fact that you gonna be a crappy parent, probably it's better to not have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:51 PM
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I know how vaginas work, believe me. why having sex as someone with a vagina isn't as physically easy as you believe I don't even need to believe anything. As I said we have a great proof in our society that if you are really horny and want to have casual sex you can absolutely do it. The example being all the 14 - 16 year old girls who decided to go for ONS / casual sex as a mean to lose their virginity. Sure, I agree, it's more tricky than to be a man in this situation, but it's not nothing im…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:39 PM
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Nope, scale is symmetrical. What is the average number between 0 and 10? It's 5. Did you miss some maths lessons at school or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:35 PM
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And how the fuck do you know that his relationship is wholesome? Or you know the guy IRL?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:32 PM
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I had to put in a shit ton of work to find a man who would actually wait until I was comfortable enough with him to have sex. I highly doubt that's average case. It shouldn't be that difficult for a woman. Maybe you were just unlucky in this aspect or it's a combination of you being unattractive combined with you being too picky. There are plenty of incels / virgin guys who will be willing to give you enough time to feel comfortable. For them just being in a relationship with a girl would be alr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:05 PM
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No, they will lose it because some of you women are out of this world crazy delusional. What is average is defined mathematically pretty well. What is median is defined pretty well as well. Let's give you an example with the median value (it will just be much easier for you to grasp it) - in this context it should be pretty similar to the average. Let's say you have 11 random men at a similar age. Let's order them by attractiveness, from the most ugly one to the most handsome one. Do you know wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 03:49 PM
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Wow, and how is that even an argument in the debate here?! Quoting a single random fucking guy. What's average is based on statistics and studies, not on a single random guy you happened to see making you coffee.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 03:41 PM
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See, fuck whoever the fuck you want, that's your business. But don't be fucking retarded and call a guy who is at least 7/10 if not more average, simply because men below 5/10 are literally none existent for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 03:39 PM
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maybe a 5 on a good day Hello?! 5 is the middle of the fucking scale, isn't it? Average is 5. What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 03:34 PM
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What fucking industry are you talking about? /u/goatismycopilot did a great description of how the average man looks exactly. Do you understand what average means? Because it really looks like you are dismissing all the people who you consider unattractive out there and you make an average only on the base of the kinda alright looking people. This whole post is just a fucking parody: Joseph Gordon Levitt might not be a model but is in no way average looking. Several people told you that already.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 03:25 PM
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Was also virgin until 24...and that was just a stroke of massive luck, I'm sure I'd be a 30 year old virgin otherwise. The big important difference here is that as a woman, the only reason why you stayed virgin is because you wanted it that way. If you were really eager to get some sex, you could have always approached a random guy with a pretty high chance of success, no matter how awkward you were. That is simply not an option as a man. You have to put a lot of work in order to get any sort of…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 03:19 PM
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I've always found arguments like yours so fucking naive. It's normally how the weak people without any sort of willpower think. There are all sorts of problems with this theory: There is no way in the world we live in to completely stop bullying. There is no way to even limit it efficiently. You are just naive and don't know how the system works if you think the opposite. Bullying often helps people to toughen up. The human brain is an amazing thing and has a great ability to adapt to things. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 02:00 PM
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they made it sound bad like you haven't lived life but in reality its a great thing It's not as simple as that. The fact that you haven't done drugs/alcohol/smoking is obviously great for your health. However, in the mentioned context, those people often miss a lot of the social experiences which normally go along with taking those substances.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 01:52 PM
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Mixed emotions I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 02:25 AM
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I'm not imposing standards to anybody. Do whatever the fuck you want with your life. You are just not a woman for me. I have the right to pick whatever woman I want for a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 01:06 PM
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I personally don't think this girl looks feminine in those clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 11:29 AM
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If alain delin grows a beard and becomes buff and gets a scar then will look the same as Jason. And grows another 6" taller and becomes a bunch more athletic, etc. That sounds almost like "If I just wasn't ugly I would have been handsome". Being masculine looking is a lot about looks, you realize that? Look at this pic: Guy looks like his girlfriend just dumped him and went to Jason Momoa instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 11:28 AM
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Oh don't worry about me, I made a pretty solid choice, I don't think a divorce is expecting me any time soon. Divorces are for people who make dumb choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:26 AM
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Amen brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 12:19 AM
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look in like any magazine from before 2010 and you'll know what i mean I don't need to, I've read those at the time and I don't remember them being full of anorexic models. Promoting just skinny Media has almost never really promoted really skinny/anorexic people. There were instances of slim people, but forever it's been mostly slim fit or muscular people. and even plus size models are rarely ever what anyone would consider obese Bruh, just check a couple of covers of the fucking Cosmopolitan: …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 12:17 AM
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What sort of logic is that?! To undo all the damage promoting skinny people, let's promote obese people. You know this is not maths right, shit doesn't cancel out like that. Also, when exactly did the media promote anorexia?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:14 PM
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Because it's factually true that being fat has many big negatives in all sorts of aspects - looks wise, health wise, physical performance wise, etc. So trying to present it as being something totally normal or alright is just dumb. The proper stance of society should be to be demonstrating that it's not alright, to be showing the reasons why and to be motivating people with such problems to change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:45 PM
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But what exactly is shaming for you? For example if you are a really obese woman and I say any of the following to you in person, is that shaming and am I the one to blame? You are really fat and that is not healthy for you. It will be good if you lose some weight. You are really fat and that is the main reason why I found you unattractive. You are really fat and those clothes don't sit well on you in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:41 PM
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Nah, that's a commonly used bullshit statement IMO. Many women just have low libido, that's it. It doesn't fucking matter if you put Jason Momoa in front of them, they will still have low libido. Sure, they will be more motivated/excited to fuck him because of all the fame/status/looks, etc. but that doesn't instantly make them into crazy wild bitches in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:26 PM
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Is that women don’t have the same opinion. It’s either a guy is gorgeous or he is a "hotdog on the ground covered in hair outside of a 7/11" That's a great point actually. I've noticed that as well. Guys seem to be a lot more objective at judging looks and having considerations. For the girls it's often either they will screw you right away or they give so little shit about you that you are basically none existent to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:23 PM
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In which world is Alain Delon tall? He is exactly average height. And just the fact that you think the looks of Alain Delon and Jason Momoa are comparable in terms of masculinity is laughable to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:16 PM
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shaming women for the way they look doesn't really help anyone Yeah but the opposite extreme helps even less. Totally normalizing being obese is one of the dumbest social phenomenon I've seen for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:13 PM
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It's possible to study, work, and improve oneself simeoultaneusly while making time for a partner and even have children. Definitely, I was just addressing the women who don't do that entirely by their own choice. It sounds like you personally are selecting for... Nope I'm not. I'm happily married and I met my wife at the time when we were both young. I'm just saying that if I was single now, I wouldn't pick a woman who is well into her 30s no matter what her excuses are. I think you could provi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:58 PM
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Out of the younger girls (in their 20s lets say) I think most of them are fine face wise. Maybe not as far as 90% but the guys has his own view on things. Face is often not the problem though, girls have other more serious issues that affect their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:53 PM
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A smart person can take what they need from a space and reject the parts that are ridiculous. I agree with that, that was my strategy with TRP. However, I think FDS is more like 99% trash and 1% useful stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:52 PM
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I don't think he was exaggerating though. And exaggeration would have been something like 99.9%.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:48 PM
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No I meant everybody is trying to defend their gender in a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:33 PM
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Bruh, the 10th percentile dick is 4.6" long. Please show me who are those most women who can confidently say they are perfectly fine with a 4.6" dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:21 PM
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Bonus is that you climb in duos I wouldn't advice anybody to let an unfamiliar girl belaying him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:18 PM
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Casual scene is harder for men, because there are far more demands than offers. Less women than men are interested in hooking up with strangers, so the ones who are have a wide range of variants to choose from. This is a pretty good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:16 PM
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If I have mental health problems that cause me to cry, then I think the best person for me is someone that understands my mental health issues and is OK with that. Yes for sure, but my point was that instead of just relying on finding somebody who will be OK with those, it's better to try to work on them and fix them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:04 PM
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Nope, it's bioidentical.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:01 PM
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To be honest with you, I haven't really noticed men being more angry than women on average. Obviously you can say that I'm biased about the male side, but I can say the same about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:59 PM
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Yeah roid rage is a thing for a reason No it's not really. It's mostly a myth which is annoyingly wide spread. It pretty much only happens with one particular steroid - Trenbolone which is one of the nastiest ones and has a bunch of other shitty side effects too. Simply taking testosterone, especially at replacement doses wouldn't make you angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:57 PM
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You can share all sorts of intimate emotions even if you don't cry. Maybe you are just really tough mentally and you never feel like crying? You are saying it as it's a bad thing if the men doesn't cry while in a relationship and I really disagree with that as a general statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:46 PM
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You totally have the right to look for a girl that fits your criteria, but such opinions often sound a bit entitled, while many times it turns out that the problem is with you, not with the girl. I have no idea about your situation, so that might not be valid for you of course, but I will give you an example. Let's say you are extremely unstable mentally and that is the reason why you often cry. You might still say "I need a girl who respects me" but in this specific situation you obviously have…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:44 PM
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No, I said that does not apply to the same degree to women (in respect to finding a high value partner specifically since that is the context). Read more carefully please and try to understand what I'm saying before commenting. Surviving was never a topic of discussion here. You want women to be stupid, helpless and dependent on men. No, I don't want that. But I don't want the other extreme either - a woman who spent 6 years at university or more and then another 10 working on her career. Sudden…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:18 PM
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I didn't get most of what you just said, but to be clear I would be totally fine with women making jokes against men, if it's clearly just jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:00 PM
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I certainly didn’t fail at staying with my ex. The real failure would be staying in a miserable marriage Well, at the very least you failed at picking up the right partner. It's interesting how few women have balls to admit their mistakes, it looks like in 99% of the cases it's always the guy's fault for unsuccessful marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:57 PM
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It got weird and racist and ableist I guess mods weren't very smart if they allowed this to happen Life doesn’t end when you have children. If you think it does, you’re in for years and years of absolute misery. If you think women are nothing more than pretty vessels to carry babies, you’re wrong Where the hell did I say any of that? likely to never find out what a good relationship between a well-matched pair of minds and bodies can be Oh, don't you worry, against all odds I've been happily mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:54 PM
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follows the basic FDS premise of self improvement You probably know FDS better than me and how it's changed over time. I've read around 100 posts on FDS in the past year, just out of curiosity, and I don't really remember seeing a single one which speaks about self-improvement. Most of the shit posted there just convinces women to be entitled bitches basically and that they deserve a really high value man no matter how low their personal value is. Maybe this is just the ugly state of the sub now…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:28 PM
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Would you stop saying "too high standards"? Just say most women view most men as physically disgusting, because that is the real issue. Both are valid to a degree - they describe the same thing. I don't really see what's your problem with "too high standards". A woman wants to get an LTR. The men she likes are too high value though compared to her and for that reason they don't like her back as an LTR option, because they have better options. She is unable to get into an LTR with any of those me…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:45 AM
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I mean, let them? I have a couple of problems with that. First, personally I don't care because it doesn't affect me since I'm happily married to an amazing woman in all aspects. However, I get annoyed every time I listen to some women complaining how there are no high value men nowadays, etc. It's just irritating to be constantly listening to such retarded nonsense. The thing that they don't seem to grasp is that there are indeed high value men, they are just the minority - that is why their va…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 11:43 PM
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Having lower standards out of necessity, not because they find other 3/10 people particularly attractive. If you could afford to have any man in the world easily, would you go for an ugly as fuck guy just because you are not that attractive yourself? That wouldn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:59 PM
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Let me tell you, people who rely on studies and have an excellent ability to do research, etc. understand particular fields much better than the dummies who purely rely on their own biased anecdotal experience. You can't have a reliable perspective about this just by going out and observing couples. It's a fucking crappy setup to make conclusions for so many reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:56 PM
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No one is demanding anything. Oh, I've seen plenty of women who do, believe me. No one should have to be with someone they don’t respect or are not attracted to. Sure, but it's also important to understand the real world and what your chances are. Many women live with the delusion that they can eventually end up marrying some 9/10 high value man, only to get super disappointed and maybe even insanely depressed later on when they realize there is no fucking way this will ever happen since they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:47 PM
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Bullshit, no matter how ugly you are, you don't find other ugly people attractive. You find attractive people attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 11:14 AM
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As for some less than perfect women aiming for 9s & 10s, maybe they would rather be alone than with less than they consider ideal? Yeah, the problem is when such women, similarly to you, start complaining how most men are not good, don't look after themselves, etc., while at the same time they are far from ideal too. If you are 5/10 woman, how the fuck is it justified to demand a 9/10 man who is on top of the world?! Sure, you have the right to have whatever standards you are, but at least be re…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 11:09 AM
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I do know that it’s okay for women to have a discussion space where men aren’t allowed to participate That is not a fact, that is just your opinion. Female-only spaces give us the ability to be honest without worrying about hurting a guy’s feelings In the case of FDS at least and many other similar examples, that is completely false. Guys are not allowed to post/comment in the sub but they are totally free to read. So you would hurt guys' feelings regardless. Something tells me that's just virtu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 06:36 PM
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It’s a dating strategy sub for women who don’t want or need a man’s input on dating. It is only such because it was created by some extreme feminists who hate men with passion. If it was created by some reasonable open minded smart women, it wouldn't be such. Men try to infiltrate the group all the time and it’s just to be awful Probably being motivated by the extremely toxic nature of the sub. Have you seen similar problem on PPD? That’s why the mods are so strict about keeping men out. As I sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:38 PM
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Props for that, very few people manage to achieve it. I've always been a fan of the FWB idea, just never been in a situation to be able to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:09 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:05 PM
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It doesn't matter what you think. It's a dating strategy sub. Men might want to weigh in, share their views, etc, similarly to what they do on PPD here. Assuming all men who would join such sub hate women is fucking dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:52 AM
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Oh, so you met him just recently and you are already married?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:50 AM
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I’m having a hard time trying to find a childfree man Cause most man completely logically want to have kids. If that is your only requirement, it wouldn't be impossible, but I'm pretty sure as most women you have quite a few boxes to tick. But don't worry, buying some cats is always an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:37 PM
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I would rather ask, why would a 45 year old high value man (because that's what women want right) go after a 33 year old brat, when he can get a 23 year old one?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:29 PM
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Another crazy person talk, I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:27 PM
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Come back when you have found a HVM who properly commits to you by marrying you. Until then nothing is guaranteed. And even then you might just be an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:23 PM
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Sometimes I like to wear... Alright, I misinterpreted your words then, I apologies. Because people that I don't know staring at me is uncomfortable Why do you feel uncomfortable? Because it's uncomfortable. Come on girl, is that the best answer you could come up with? And it's also just plain rude. Again, that is just your personal view on it. I wouldn't find it rude if a girl is staring at me for example, I will be rather happy about it. Because it's very unlikely that a man... I highly doubt y…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:17 PM
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Please, give me some quotes, show me when have I done it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:54 PM
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Yes. Because it's absolute nonsense. If you think it's nonsense you are totally free to present your view supported by good arguments. If you have the mental capacity to do so of course, but that doesn't seem to have been the case so far. Simply stating it's absolute nonsense wouldn't convince anybody. Y'all legit build a world of men and think that's the way it should be. Alright, enough speculations here, you don't know anything about me. You do you, OVER THERE. I spend all of my adult life in…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:21 PM
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I have no idea what the fuck you are talking about and I am pretty intelligent/well educated person. Maybe you replied to the wrong guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:11 PM
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If we need to adjust to staring, then you can adjust to us calling you a creep. How many times should I repeat that you can't compare the two because one is logical and supported by arguments while the other one not? I even gave you a good example. But you just keep being stubborn and ignoring all of those. Those women are feeling uncomfterable, probably a lot more then western women Yeah, the difference is that I grew up in such society and I understand it much better, while you only know about…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:08 PM
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I really mean that with no offense to you None taken. I just really like cute clothes it's not because we're in competition with each other Not everything in our lives revolves around how attractive we are to men Women aren't constantly on a mission to outfuck our friends I don't argue with any of these. You missed a big part of my point though. You are not doing those things consciously with the idea to attract males or to be in competition with your friend. That is the very origin of those thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:02 PM
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It's not that complex dude, they just don't want to get stared at, learn to glance like every other civil male that feels the urge to stare. It's not that complex dude, men just like to stare and as already explained multiple times for very logical reasons. Women should just learn to use their brain and not be offended by it and suppress their urge to feel uncomfortable as many women in some non-western societies have done. What about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:39 PM
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There are a lot of immoral things that aren't illegal. Absolutely, but the problem with morality is that it's not well defined and often doesn't follow sound logic. For that reason it is up to everybody's individual interpretation and it's not really fair to judge people purely because they don't match your definition of what's moral and what's not, especially without using good argument. Your feelings are your feelings. Completely disagree. Presidents are often elected more for their charisma t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:31 PM
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Just go report that guy. I'm sure that is illegal in the gym and they can kick him out. By the way downvoting is not allowed in this sub. Stop doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:24 PM
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Nope, the difference is that one (staring) is really logical behavior from a biological/evolutionary perspective while the other one is not logical/sensible. Imagine the following conversation between a girl and a guy: -Why do you keep staring at me? -Because I find you really pretty/attractive and I am just enjoying and appreciating what I see. -You are a fucking creep, get out of here! -First, why do you think I am a creep. Second, this is a public gym and I have the same right to be here as y…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:23 PM
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because most of the time women don't go to the gym to get attention or for their beauty to be appreciated Yeah, that might not be the main point of going to the gym often, but it's surely a nice extra which many women like. Please, don't start telling me now that women overall don't like attention. And again, if you don't like it, put on some super simple unattractive clothes and that should get you a long way. Basically stop trying to make yourself look attractive if you don't want extra attent…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:17 PM
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Yes, it's not an argument. Those women should address their own insecurities/issues - that will help them in other areas of their life as well. The world is build most on solid logic and reason. It's not built on random feelings and social trends. For that exact reason staring is not illegal - because there is nothing inherently bad with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:06 PM
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That's just some strawman arguments here - it's not equivalent to the original issue we are discussing. For all the things you listed there is actually fairly logical reasons/arguments why you shouldn't do those things. For the staring there is no such arguments. make you a giant asshole Same with intensely staring at women in the gym There are examples where the exact opposite happens actually. If you are smoking hot male model and you are known, most of the girls will find it really sexy that …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:00 PM
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And why should they? It's not something illegal as far as I know and its everybody's freedom to look wherever they want. The same way I can tell you "But the girls should just adjust to minding their own business and not judging guys who just happened to like them".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:22 PM
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it's NOT designed to be sexualized for men You are truly delusional if you think that. It is designed with the ONLY idea to be sexy. That is not only limited to the gym industry but to most of the female fashion as well. It's not even just clothes - makeup, cosmetic procedures, etc. How are the men that glance irrelevant? Because they are not a problem in the discussed situation. It's the socially acceptable form of staring Yes it is, due to the extremely soft nature of out society. If you think…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:13 PM
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And why the fuck would you assume that all man who join the group would hate women?!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:06 PM
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the next woman might like him for who he is You are just being ridiculous here. There is a range of qualities which are almost universally liked/disliked by women. You can't never shower and be stinky as shit and expect to find a partner who will be fine with that. You get me? he shouldn’t change himself to fit what I like Of course he shouldn't. But getting some feedback not only from you, but from several women, might give him a hint that he has a quality which many women might not like for ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:05 PM
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She's complaining because she likes wearing it though Oh, so she likes wearing really sexualized / explicit clothes specifically designed for attracting guys and then she complains that guys are being attracted to her? Logic? Why is the majority of men capable of glancing then That is irrelevant here. We are speaking about the guys staring.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:55 PM
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It's retarded as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:51 PM
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I don’t like wearing cute gym clothes because the men there stare I will never understand women who think like you. First, if you don't like that, just don't wear super revealing / really sexualized "cute" gym clothes. Second, you must understand that this is male's nature and there is nothing wrong/bad about it. The strong sexual drive is one of the main reasons why humanity got to where it is nowadays. So there is nothing inherently bad about men staring at you. Have you ever been attacked in …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:34 PM
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I don't agree with you. I don't really see any value in such spaces. Take some subs for examples, such as FDS that a forbidden for men. It just results in a toxic female community and an echo chamber for gender biased women. It's like a fake escape from reality where you have both gender present and constantly interacting with each through all sorts of means. Another example I can think of is gender schools. It's really a terrible idea IMO, because kids spend most of their time in school. Imagin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:26 PM
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Why else would I reject a guy that I agreed to go out with? First, as I said, it's not only about you. You are thinking purely from your own biased perspective here. A better question in this situation is "Why else would a woman reject a guy". Apart from your obvious and common "He is not my type", as I said there could be many other reasons. Just a few random ones on top of my head: You realized he has bad hygiene, he is smelly, etc. Some feedback can help him fix that, because sometimes he mig…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:02 AM
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That’s like telling someone water is wet. It's totally not. There are many reasons to reject a guy, you are presenting it as the only possible reason is that he is not your type.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:48 AM
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I'm aware, just curious to hear her opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:47 AM
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Bruh, you can pick for free, why do you want an old lady for a wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:46 AM
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I would disagree judging by my personal experience and having pretty good knowledge in the topic. You just need to be a bit more careful and mindful of the particular position and not go all in with full force all the time, because it might be painful for the girl. Otherwise it has a list of advantages: Many women love the idea of a huge dick. There are various reasons for that - it's considered a big masculinity trait, it looks better as you said, when they grab it / do oral it looks and feels …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:51 PM
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I mean average is average for a reason, it should do a good job. Popular cultures created the myth / influenced women perception that a guy must be huge or he is not worthy otherwise. I myself can't relate really, because I've been fortunate to be huge (21 cm), but I've been deeply interested in the topic and I've spoken to guys with various sizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:42 PM
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Your response falls in line with an Appeal to authority Fallacy. Your response falls under the fallacy of not having any proficiency in such a complex topic as human psychology / mental health and still drawing some big conclusions regarding it straight out of your ass. Your words ignore common sense Your response ignores the fact that there are millions of people around the globe who have this kink and like it for some reason and straight labels them as crazy, just because you don't like it or …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:39 PM
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since the answer is in most cases “you’re just not my type and didn’t feel anything” and not something they did that they can fix That's your own biased perspective though. There is no way the guy would know you feel like that in most of the cases. So if you do feel like that about him, better tell him so that he knows it's not a problem with him and he shouldn't feel bad about himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:23 PM
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Thanks, it's always good to hear woman's opinion. That sounds sensible. You've been lucky to not meet a guy below 15 cm though, because 14 cm is the average.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:20 PM
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big dick How big?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:13 PM
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There is some slight logic, but I agree it's not a very strong one. For example there is a correlation between well defined jawline and androgen levels. And as we know, androgen levels are responsible for different masculinity traits. I am in a similar situation to yours. I've been lucky to be extremely gifted in many areas, not only physical traits wise but further, however I have pretty shitty jawline.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:12 PM
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And have you actually thought that there might be another reason why they are on dating apps and not going for a prostitute, apart from not having money for a prostitute? Like what the guy suggested originally for example: Men get validation from women voluntarily choosing to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:16 PM
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Spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:15 PM
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You don't get the point here. The point is that many men (could even be the majority, I don't know the exact stats here) actually genuinely desire to be wanted by women they sleep with. Otherwise the use of prostitution would have been much much more wide spread. I've spoken with at least 5 single male friends on this topic and all of them agree that they don't want to use prostitutes because sex with them is fucking boring and they don't feel fulfilled by it, because it's obvious that the prost…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:14 PM
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is largely something you are born with which defeats the purpose of the category Even if that's the case, which might as well be, I think the terms still have some significance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:06 PM
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That's not how it works. You don't get shit particles in your pee hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:20 AM
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No text after a first date = fine. No it's not fine and it shouldn't be treated as being the norm! You've gone on a date with somebody, you got to know him to a basic degree, he got to know you to a basic degree. There was a conversation, emotions, etc. Maybe the guy really liked you and is really enthusiastic about you. It's a common courtesy / good human behavior to let him fucking know that you don't feel the same about him and maybe give him a simple quick feedback about what you didn't like…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:47 PM
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So the apparently now “mainstream” activity of choking until someone blacks out or close to it, is off the table. That doesn't posses a risk of serious injury though. I've been into grappling martial arts for many years now and I've been choked / I've choked hundreds of people. It's perfectly safe. It's only dangerous if you restrict the blood flow for more than a minute, because then you risk causing some brain damage due to the lack of oxygen to the brain. If you pay attention though, it will …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:34 PM
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But if both of them were horny and keen to do it, why would you feel uncomfortable? Didn't you find it sexy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:28 PM
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You mean you, her and another girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:59 PM
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I am a simple man. Paraphrase: I'm a boring man. When even a blowjob/pussy eating is not on the table I can't imagine this sort of sex life being exciting for too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:43 PM
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You wouldn't like a threesome with another girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:42 PM
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I'm eating your ass because I fucking want it, I'm not doing it because you are asking me, or because I want to be dominated or some other stupid shit like that. That's a pretty weird logic to me and it's the first time I hear about such thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:38 PM
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Turned down sex from a cute girl because she wanted anal almost exclusively. Crazy man you are brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:35 PM
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And I guess you are a professional psychiatrist to make this statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:18 PM
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It doesn’t mean anything on its own. That's a bit of a shitty argument though, because it can be used for anything. Any good/important quality on its own is not enough of course, but that doesn't make it any less important.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:14 AM
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My issue is that men don’t understand weight on women Sure, it's something often said by obese women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:32 AM
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biggest defining factor is how social you are, and how large the social circle you're a part of This is really underestimated. You will see many average/below average guys getting laid (as of absolute numbers, not necessarily percentages), but most of them are just super social and talk to plenty of girls. It might sound as a Blue pill statement, but if it almost doesn't matter how unattractive you are (to a reasonable degree), you will always be able to find a girl who will fuck you if you play…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:13 PM
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I find it funny when women shame a shy, inexperienced man then end up being treated like garbage by the experienced men they pick That statement doesn't make any fucking sense, they might end up treated like garbage by anybody. It's not because they picked experienced men, it's because they picked an asshole. Looking for somebody with sexual, or any other experience in fact is because with experience you become better at the particular thing. It doesn't need to have anything to do with treatment…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:00 PM
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Perceived is the right word here. And women perception for strength is often quite fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:43 PM
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Where the fuck did you see me complaining?! I'm just telling you facts here. You are the one who seems irritated by the facts. get your ass out of the room and talk to girls Bruh, I'm one of the most high value men you would meet in every aspect, I promise you that. I've been happily married for years now and I've had enough girls in my life. Been there done that. If you haven't, do yourself a favor and listen to your own advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 12:28 PM
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The attractiveness scale is exponential. 8 is not top 20%. If it was the scale would have been wasted because it wouldn't be able to encompass the huge dynamic range of attractiveness. Here is a rough idea for you: 5 is the average woman. Most of the women are around average looking. 6 is above average. You can say maybe top 30%. 7 is definitely above average and is considered really good looking. Top 5% I would say. 8 is super attractive woman, could be a model perhaps if she wanted. Top 1%. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 12:14 PM
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Come on man, don't be a sore incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 12:01 PM
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I mean, even if that's true, imagine how trash they are if they turned to be single moms in their early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 10:23 AM
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You for real or what? There are no Kpop boys, because nobody finds them sexy, apart from Asian girls or some weeb teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 10:18 AM
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Emma Stone is 8 at most, on a good day with a lot of makeup on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 10:16 AM
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No, you need a BBC for that one. Can't mimic this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 10:14 AM
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Well most of them are. How many single moms do you have who are in their early 20s?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 09:49 AM
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pussy is pussy my friend Pussy is indeed a pussy for the desperate incels. For a Chad who is being chased by 7s all the time and can easily get an 8, there is a big difference between shitty old pussy, average pussy and some amazing pussy. So if he can get some amazing pussy with not much effort, why would he settle for less? fucking single mum is way easier than standard-issued girl And if you are hot enough, fucking something better than a single mom is not too difficult either. Single moms ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 09:48 AM
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Said no Chad ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 09:32 AM
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As I said, I'm not an anomaly. That's just a common paradox - if you really hate toxic people for example and they really irritate you, you will notice toxic people much more. So even if toxic people are 20% for example, to you it might look that they are 80% just because how irritating they are. Also the toxic people are much more vocal normally, so they appear as more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 09:31 AM
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they are all going after the same 2-3 guys That is factually incorrect. I've been to many schools, universities, academies, etc. in my life and I've never ever seen 100% of the girls actively chasing after the same 2 - 3 guys. Hell, I've never seen even 50% doing that. That is pretty far from ALL that you claim. Of course, the hottest guys get chased the most, that is completely logical. But even having 10 girls after you all the time which makes you a fucking superstar at school doesn't mean 10…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 09:28 AM
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Sounds like an interesting idea for such.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 09:17 AM
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Bruh, no fucking Chad is ever fucking a single mom. The Chads have access to the best pussy, they don't need an old brat with a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 12:03 AM
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The rise of the hyperchads What do you mean by that? Suddenly you will have a lot more hyperchads or they will be a lot more desired by women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 12:00 AM
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And what is immoral/disgusting to you might not be immoral/disgusting to somebody else. You realize those are not well defined terms?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 11:27 PM
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Legal in my country, nothing wrong with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 11:02 PM
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Make it 12. On a serious note though, there are many people who follow TRP for all the right reasons. The problem is there are also many dumb fucks who misinterpret it and say a lot of toxic/hateful shit which ruins the TRP reputation. To me it was just interesting to explore it. I got the good tips out of it and disregarded the dumb ones. That's why I don't consider myself a red pillar. I don't really support the movement or whatever you want to call it. I think at it's core it has a lot of use…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 09:05 PM
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Some just mind their own business But whatever the case is, the term itself suggest they are not missing on pussy by their own will (involuntary celibate). They want to get some, but they can't. I would agree that dating for the average man is much harder. I agree, too. I give people a lot of advices as well. I don’t think fat-shaming is productive either. It depends how you define it. I wouldn't be going around making jokes with fat people, but I heavily criticize them for being fat at every op…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 08:59 PM
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I don’t consider people low value I was just going by the popular definition commonly used in the sub regarding the value of a man in respect to how desired he is by women. Obviously you can have value in many different ways as well. incels just minding their own business That is the problem though. They don't just mind their own business very often. The are clearly unhappy with their lives because of their inability to get sex/relationships and they complain left and right about it, while its m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 08:03 PM
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It's all relative though. Most dudes have about average game in theory, because that's the majority. That's like saying most dudes are really short, just because you like men above 6'2 for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 11:07 AM
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What statistics are you talking about, did I present any numbers?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 09:00 AM
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Ah, whatever makes you sleep at night buddy. After all MGTOW are not any better than incels, they are just trying to convince themselves they are not getting pussy on their own will.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 08:59 AM
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I just don't know what to say to such sort of retarded statement, especially considering the context it's used in.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 08:57 AM
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First, your examples are far too vague to do any sort of estimation of probability. Second, they are biased and you set them up in such way to favor your point. Apart from that you are not debating at all with this comment, you just entirely ignored my previous comment and just said your shit. A waste of my time basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 08:55 AM
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I am calm, that's just how I normally speak. Have been doing that for 30 odd years. You don't make sense with your comments though and clearly you are not keen on clarifying either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:40 PM
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Sex is important, but relationships are equally as important. Otherwise you can be just fucking prositutes indefinitely. It's not that some people don't do it, but those are the losers you don't want to be. In my example the guy is 28 and has never had a girlfriend. It's really important for him to get some relationship experience, because he will need to settle in a few years. And settling with zero experience is a recipe for disaster. And why the fuck do you think men pressure other men to get…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:38 PM
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Then why the fuck are you on a debate sub?! To just share your opinion or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:34 PM
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You seem to be into conspiracy theories a bit too much, aren't you? I shame incels because most of them are motherfucking losers who just don't have enough will power to man the fuck up and change their lives. I was probably one of the most low value men you can imagine when I was 20 and now at 30 I am one of the most high value men you can imagine. It took 10 years of hard work, but now I am proud of myself and really happy with my life in every single aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:27 PM
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People like you seem like they are living on a different planet, seriously. If I have a friend who is 28 year old incel, still virgin and never had a girlfriend, you bet you ass I will be pressuring him to get into a relationship. men pressure each other to get out of relationships Again some nonsense. It's not that it never happens, but considering most of the men are looking for relationships, make your conclusion if what you are saying is logical or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:23 PM
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Sure brother. They are also jealous as hell that you are a lonely fuck with nobody next to you and you will never have kids. Be tolerant and shit as much as you want, but don't state such type of bull crap for the sake of supporting each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:15 PM
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Nah, that is just some crap. There are men really happy with their marriages and there are some that are not so happy. It's like that with everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:14 PM
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and I look at the raw numbers the overwhelming majority of folks I encounter couldn't care less They are just minding their own business bro. They are probably still looking at you as a loser though, they are just not expressing this explicitly not to offend you or not to appear rude. If you don't care about people's opinion, fair enough. But if you do to some degree at least, you might want to consider that. Just don't live in a delusion, thinking nobody minds me being single for life and every…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:13 PM
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Not a good definition. Maybe sexually desirable. But simply desirable is vague. He could be desirable for his money/status, but be ugly otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 06:26 PM
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Facials get in hair and eyes. Sure, it can be messy, but is it so bad? You’re nuts if you think most women have had anal ever. Maybe you misunderstood me, I mean most of the women would be able to if they wanted. Even gay men have to prepare Who said the opposite? And laser hair removal costs lots of money. Not really, considering how much money women spend on makeup, clothes, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 06:23 PM
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To me that's clear, but many people would interpret it differently as I said. That's why I clarified.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 06:21 PM
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An important thing to note here is that will pretty much never be the case with the Chads or with any super attractive guy in general. Even if you have like one of the most attractive guys on earth, you will always have let's say 20% of the women who go like "He is not my type". And sure, 80% are still most women of course, but statements like yours sound like 99.9% of the women will agree that he is super attractive. Take Henry Cavil for example, regarded as a really attractive actor (Chad). My…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 05:54 PM
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Chad: very tall How tall are we talking exactly? Are women really that obsessed with super tall men? What if he is 7'0 for example, wouldn't that feel a bit creepy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 05:52 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 05:50 PM
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Oh, so you think it's alright for a woman to settle on such type of thirsty creep?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 04:35 PM
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single digit body fat percentage year round You think steroids will help you to cut fat and stay at low body fat percentage? Haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 04:32 PM
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Bullshit. Maybe stop sleeping around with young inexperienced guys. Every smart mature men with a bit of experience knows that real life is much different than porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 12:15 PM
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Sounds like you both share the exact same opinion, but at the same time the feeling is that you disagree with him. Do we have some communication issue here?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 12:13 PM
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I'm pretty sure context matters though. For example if you've cheated just once, for a ONS, I don't believe they have a way to make you pay child support for years. You probably need to have been in some sort of relationship with the woman to be required to pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:24 AM
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How does that work exactly, legally I mean? Genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:54 PM
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doesn’t make it any more or less moral There is no hard, scientific definition of what is moral and what not though. It's really open to interpretation, so it's not strictly right to judge somebody just because he happened to have slightly different moral views than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:27 PM
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Or he can just decide to cut her off if this happens and not give away any time and resources from his family?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:25 PM
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I would insist on the right, even if I didn't plan to exercise it. That's some dumb feminist logic though. She is a really intelligent and good girl, who cares about our family and cares about me. Why the hell would she want the right just for the sake of it when she doesn't need it, if that will make me feel worried? The only reason for the man to refuse is because he thinks she can't be trusted No, there are plenty of reasons why. I don't want to worry that some random fucking asshole would tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:07 PM
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Like them expecting facials and anal and completely shaved snatch every time and getting disappointed when their partner wants vanilla. Those are completely normal/healthy desires in a good intimate exciting relationship though. And those are the reasons why: Facial is the easiest thing for a girl to do. Just sit there on your knees, your guy cums on your face and you go wash it off. Not a big deal if it makes your guy really happy - in turn he will be keen to do stuff that make you happy, too. …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:53 PM
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How is it unequal though? Everybody would be happy in this situation. It's equal in terms of everybody is satisfied with the outcome - she still has an amazing husband next to her, who she is really happy with in every single aspect. And I get what I desire as well - which is a bit of casual sex from time to time on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:47 PM
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What about asking for an open relationship, but only on my side? My wife doesn't expect any liberties, she is totally happy with me as her only partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:38 PM
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Imo one of the most destructive side effects of cheating is the psychological effect on children. I don't quite agree with such statements or at least I look at them from a different perspective. The kid doesn't give a fuck if his dad decided to band a side chick or his mother slept with somebody else. In fact the kid might even not understand those things, especially if the kid is relatively small. And more importantly there is almost no way that the kid will learn about this. The only reason w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:36 PM
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Yeah, but the topic of discussion here is who feel worse from the two partners in a relationship. We are not discussing the feelings of third party women, who decided to have some casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:29 PM
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An important quality to a degree, but what I've noticed with many blue-pill people is that they enter a serious LTR or even get married doing too many compromises. Obvious such LTR is not healthy and there is a great risk it will fall apart sooner or later.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:16 PM
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I am the same. I wouldn't say I am super handsome, above average maybe, but I surely have all the other qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:08 PM
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Nah, gtfo. I'm not getting anywhere closer to anything above 145, preferably under 130. I don't live in the country of land whales and I have enough access to slim pretty girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:55 PM
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assuming they don't want babby And how retarded should a woman be to assume that the person she meet doesn't want a baby?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:52 PM
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It's a safer time than ever SAFER doesn't mean SAFE! And that is the most important fucking thing to note here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:50 PM
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Bruh, I am 210 male at 6'0 and if you see me on the street you wouldn't wanna mess with me. 225 woman is a fucking monster out of Jurassic Park.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:43 PM
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That's some truly retarded shit. You don't need to present your fetishes here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:16 PM
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/u/bluefingerblue did a good take already, but let's waste a bit of my time as well and try to explain it again. Not true, even if you workout age will show it’s hand. That simply suggests that you can be in a great shape in your 30s, which is a very important part of the whole thing, but not the only part. Almost half of men will lose their hair by 40. And if you are wealthy as every high value man (HVM) should be, you can easily do hair transplant and nobody will be ever able to tell that you …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:12 PM
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Go take some maths classes again please. When you speak about portion, it suggests percentages, not absolute values.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:53 PM
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No shit bruh. Do you expect them to prefer 60 year old grandpas? Of course visually they will prefer men who are around their peak, and that peak is usually not after 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:51 PM
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turns out a large portion of women are increasingly looking for young men Based on fucking what exactly? A few replies that you've read here? Have you seen some more concrete evidence, like a solid study to suggest that for example?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:49 PM
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That doesn't work as a guy though. Most of the women date up. So if you are 3/10, you wouldn't have that much success with 3/10 girls, because they can easily get a 5/10 guy for example. Why would they go for you in such case? So in most of the cases your only realistic chance is to go for the super ugly girls, but that obviously has its downsides as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:40 PM
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Didn’t you post this exact question with almost the same wording a week ago? He did. His nickname claims he has autism though, so this might be the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:35 PM
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That's technically not true. There are many women even at this age who would like him because they are really into the same culture as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:33 PM
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Exceptions don't make the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:38 PM
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It is the same, but the additional information is much more important than the number.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 01:34 PM
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Sure, but fucking 10 prostitutes is quite a bit different than having 10 fuck buddies than having been in 10 relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 01:32 PM
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Yeah, but that is a problem for the women in general. If you have a stupid (or not optimal let's say) requirement, or especially several such requirements which you use extensively to filter guys out, you run the risk that you will filter out some awesome men just because they happened to not fulfill your stupid requirement. Like in her given example, do you honestly think that I would have been a bad candidate for her? It would have made sense if she was particularly looking for a running buddy…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 12:29 PM
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Nothing she said about moderately fit suggested heavy muscle mass. That is not the only problem though. To be able to run, you most probably need to be, well running... There are many men who simply don't run and are not trained to do that specific activity but are indeed really fit. I am a good example of that. I am 6'0 210 lbs, around 15% body fat and super fit (performance wise). I've been doing MMA for years, with heavy 2 hour training sessions and sparring with high level fighters. My cardi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 12:10 PM
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Even those are not always the case though. We've seen plenty of super hot women with guys who are not that tall for example. Sure, they probably compensate with other qualities, but still it demonstrate that height is not a must either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 12:05 PM
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No, I don't hate women. I am just being realistic and I also support my views with arguments. Downvoting is not allowed in the sub by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:34 AM
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Hypocrisy would be if someone said "it is morally acceptable for a man to sleep around, but not morally acceptable for a woman to sleep around" No, even that is a bad example. You need equal conditions to make a valid comparison. For example "I as a man can sleep around, by my male friend can't". In this case you are setting different standards to two equivalent men, so it is hypocritical. You can't apply this to different genders because the two genders are really different in all sorts of way,…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:17 AM
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So to you it's completely normal and alright to do this to your husband: give him starfish once a month and an unenthusiastic bj on his birthday
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:11 AM
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Out of curiosity, why does such rule even exist? You might get to have two good ideas for a post in a short time and want to post both of them for example?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:10 AM
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Nope, nobody respects you for fucking a prostitute, not women nor guys, so it doesn't count. It's also an insignificant experience as well - purely a physical one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:02 AM
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Yep, that's my problem with such studies as well. Often they are misrepresenting the true picture and pushing the narrative in a weird direction. Many girls I've met have told me they've kissed a girl before, just because they were drunk and curious. That doesn't make them lesbians though, or truly attracted to girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:56 AM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:55 AM
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Absolutely, in theory at least, but as we know it wouldn't work in practice. That is partially because many women can't help themselves and are extremely biased by their own personal ideas/understandings/feelings. That prevents them from being objective and understanding what the majority of the women really want. And even if they are a part of the majority, they won't necessarily be able to truly describe what they like, because in many cases it's subconscious for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:54 AM
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I agree with what you say, but feelings are often really subjective and different for everyone. Obviously the most simplistic extreme case is one of you falls in a deep strong love with the other one. It doesn't necessarily need to be like that always though. There are many different stages and many different "directions" feelings can go. For example if you were very good friends to begin with, there are some sort of feelings from the get go. You enjoy spending time with your friend, you love hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:51 AM
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That's all cool and makes sense. Just remember than men have similar preferences. So don't be salty if when you turn 30+ and start having loser skin and a bit of a belly men suddenly don't like you as much anymore. And for the record, purely appearance wise women tend to age quicker than men IF both of them look after themselves. That is mostly because they hit they visual peak at different age on average. Women seem to be at their peak around 22 - 23 while men more towards late 20s - 30. So a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:37 AM
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I look at young men just a few years younger, and I see cute babies. Your problem is that you really struggle seeing it from the men point of view. When we look at women younger than us (obviously still legal, etc.) we see attractive young beautiful women. You as a woman are used to desiring somebody at least a bit older and more mature than you. There are all sorts of reasons for this - evolutionary, biological, social, historical, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:32 AM
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That's a good insight overall, but what in particular regarding physical attraction for example? It seems like it varies so much between women. I've noticed men are a lot more consistent with that. For example if you have 8/10 woman, 90% of the men will agree she is attractive. If you have 8/10 guy, probably just 50% of the women will find him attractive, the other 50% will say "he is not my type".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:20 AM
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Body fat percentage is an alright metric (not perfect but still fine). Time to run a mile is not though. For example you might have a really light guy at 15% body fat (just lacking muscle / bone mass) and he will have no issues running that. On the other hand you can have a huge guy at 15% body fat (having big frame, a lot of muscle on) who will be much heavier (even considering the same height to fulfil your height requirement). Heavy guys are not suited for running longer distances and natural…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:17 AM
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The problems with opinions like yours, to most of the guys at least, is not that it seems you are lying. I'm sure you are being honest. The problem is that when you have an opinion which is very different than the masses (or the average woman), you appear like an exception which doesn't define the rule. And as such an exception, your opinion has less weight sort to speak. That's becoming even more of a problem when some women (not you) try to pretend like most of the women feel/think like them, …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:11 AM
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I don't date women to have them in a hijab or locked up in an apartment I don't do that either, but in no universe I will allow my wife to flirt with other men, let alone anything beyond that. she should have the same rights So you want to have an open relationship? Fair enough, but that is entirely different dynamic and that's not the point of this post. 1 means nothing if she is manipulating the dudes which is 99.99% of the time I don't know where you pulled this statistics from, but I can ass…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 11:20 PM
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That argument isn't valid here though, because the way you described it, it is related to trends in society, not trends in the behavior of a single woman that get's to have some experiences and changes her behavior based on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 10:45 PM
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She could be the non-sex girlfriend of a 1000 men and I would actually feel bad for the DUDES Sorry bro, but what sort of a cuck are you? #1 is tons of cheating in all sorts of ways just without the sex part. #2 is just having sex one off, under a heavy influence of alcohol where you don't exactly know what you are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 10:40 PM
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Bullshit, if my wife ends up in 2 I will understand - she was wasted and she didn't know what she is doing. In 1 she was fully aware of what she is doing and she had a full blown out affair with a guy. Yeah they didn't fuck, but it doesn't matter, it's already fucking bad enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 10:37 PM
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LOL another awesome reply. I knew a girl who was behaving like that. In a period of an year or something, she slept with a few guys. I asked her "so you just wanted to have some fun and get some casual sex?". She was like "Nooo, there was some feelings involved, I just quickly realized with each of them that it's not going to work out". Lame excuses basically not to admit that she was just having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 09:53 PM
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as women realize they don’t want or need it How the fuck they get to realize this just now?! That's not something that you realize - that's something that you feel. I feel horny, I want to fuck, I don't want serious LTR at this point, I go and get some casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 09:53 PM
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Social reasons, laws, movements, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:55 AM
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About many millions of men every year?!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 06:20 PM
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Please, I'm asking you, please, can you all women in the sub stop acting fucking butthurt and replying with the same stupid shit every time this topic is discussed? We got it, totally, man history might have some significance as well, alright? The post is about WOMEN history though, isn't it? That is how it is defined by the OP and that is the matter of discussion here. Instead of focusing on this fucking aspect, most of the women just come here to shit on the fucking post and say their totally …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 06:18 PM
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Yeah but exactly Eastern EU is what matters in this context because you have the highest chance to find a traditional woman there. Western EU has had too much of an US influence already.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:55 AM
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In some eastern Europe countries that is like 6 times the average salary. What do you mean it's not much?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:00 AM
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Men on this sub can’t even pay for a $20 date without complaining about gold-diggers using them First that is some men, not all men. Second, that is some men on this sub - it's not a general sample from society. Third, they complain about being used without anything in return. Have you heard anybody complaining, if the woman gave him sex after the date?! Learn what being a traditional man is. I think you are the one who needs to learn what a traditional man is. You seem to have some fairytale un…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:57 AM
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You seem to have a few misconceptions here. Let's see. “Traditional men” on this sub seem to love the idea of a submissive wife but rarely the idea of paying for everything. No, most of them are fine paying for everything. What some are not fine with, is spending tons of money for useless shit their spoiled wives want to buy. Traditional wife doesn't spend 1000$ a month on beauty care, another 1000$ on clothes, another 1000$ on expensive restaurants, you got the idea. And that's the mistake many…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:59 AM
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Finding someone sexually and emotionally attractive is the definition of a romantic relationship Are you crazy or what? Having even mutual feelings is not enough to call something a relationship. That is just that - mutual feelings. A relationship is an entire different complex setup between two people. You might have those mutual feelings but decide not to start a relationship for whatever reasons. You might even have those feelings, fuck a couple of times and still decide not to start a relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:59 PM
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Changes in Sweden are not happening because of evolutionary reasons, I can promise you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:56 PM
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Then those men should be honest so women can either clarify the friendship is platonic or remove them from their friend group. See, that's what I'm talking about. You have such a fucking defensive stance, that you don't even consider the third possibility - that some women will consider just fucking them. I think FWB is an incredibly stupid concept You have the right of an opinion and do whatever you want. Just be tolerant to people with a different opinion. more often than not it isn’t an ideal…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 07:04 PM
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No, it's not. In no TRP sub you will see so many annoying toxic feminists or FDS bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:50 PM
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By definition platonic friendship is not sexual. By definition platonic friendship is a friendship where none of the parties involved have any romantic/sexual interest towards the other. Many times that's not the case, even that women goofily believe so, because their male friends often do have sexual interest towards them, even if they are not showing it. If someone wants friendship and sex then that’s a relationship. Bullshit, you are incredibly narrow minded. Haven't you heard of the term fri…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:46 PM
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work on breaking down gender What do you mean by that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:37 PM
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Plenty of men are bi Plenty? Less than 3% of the population in US is none-heterosexual. That includes homosexuals, bisexuals and everything else that comes to your mind which is not strictly hetero. And you think that is a significant percentage to make a difference? Also that doesn't solve major problems, such as declining rate of births and shrinking population.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:34 PM
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So we see two problems here: They want a really big house (area wise, compared to a flat for example). They don't make enough to be able to afford such. There solution is to buy such in a fucked up area. I don't approve. That sounds like those people who make 30k an year but bought a car for 60k.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:36 PM
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Well, obviously it's fucking not enough, that's exactly what you said?! If it was enough he would have bough a house in a better area.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:31 PM
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If you rely on evolution for such matters, it will literally take thousands of years, not a few generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:27 PM
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You are pretty delusional if you really believe that's the biggest issue of society that will solve everything. I would even say the disappearing masculinity nowadays is a bigger problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:26 PM
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And all of that in the expensive of being miserable and depressed all the time, because you don't have any people around you and you left all of your friends behind? He could have chosen a better career that pays better if his dream was to have such a house at a more reasonable location. a big house to raise kids in and a backyard for those kids to run around in It's like it makes a huge difference for the kids bring up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:24 PM
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is lonely because he and his partner bought a big house in the middle of nowhere where housing prices are cheaper, away from all of us, his friends, and he is socially isolated now No, he is not lonely because of that. He is lonely because he is dumb to do something like that in a first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:20 PM
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It is rude, because of the way you are saying it to them: I tell my male friends from the start they will not ever be considered as sexual partners Worded like that it really sounds like you are addressing them as people and potential partners. Instead, you can be a bit more polite with them and say that you personally don't like the idea of casual sex between friends. Do you not value yourself enough to set boundaries That's an absurdly vague question and I would rather not waste time trying to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:17 PM
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doesnt mean itll turn out good for others Of course it doesn't. I was just referring to your recommendation to me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:11 PM
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That's a bit rude thing to say to them though, isn't it? It's like you are telling them they are not good enough for you. That might affect their confidence or even make them think bad of you, think you are arrogant bitch, etc. Also as I said, you never know what will happen. Maybe your LTR will end at some point for whatever reason, shit happens, and you will fall for one of your male friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 08:47 AM
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It's not toxic, it's the reality and those are just facts. Yes, reality is cruel sometimes, I know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 08:45 AM
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You didn't sound insulting, don't worry. according to her, had indeed experienced an ultra-rare ten-incher Never trust those dumb bitches bro, they don't know shit. Those fake stories are so widely spread, that it hurts my eyes every time I hear of such. Even in porn it's super rare to see a dick which is 9" or longer and porn actors are famous for being gifted, right? 9" is 1 in 10 million rarity (a few hundred such dicks in the world). 10" you probably have just a few in the whole world. She'd…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 08:43 AM
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It's all jokes, nobody cares about scoring shit. I have no idea what mad stuff you imagine in your head, but you are not a men, so how can you speak so authoritatively on the topic?! Also potentially tacit admission of sexual assault. Crazy talk again. People say it for jokes. Nobody will casually tell the story if he actually assaulted a girl, are you dumb?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:31 PM
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I don't speak about you in particular, I speak in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:28 PM
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Of course it is only a harmless locker room talk, what do you think it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:27 PM
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It's her, not him, according to her flair at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:20 PM
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there is zero possibility my male friends wanted to fuck me, any more than men want to fuck anything with a vagina anyway So basically you admit that they did want to fuck you indeed?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:16 PM
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depending on the individual woman’s comfort level of course That's my experience as well. The problem is most of the women I've met feel damn uncomfortable though. Anything from going crazy, to asking me to stop talking about this, to barely engaging in the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:14 PM
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Never say never.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:10 PM
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I don't do it with my male friends anymore. What made you change that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 10:02 PM
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I think every smart and mature men should be able to do this. I've seen this from myself and some of my male friends enough times to know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 10:00 PM
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they can’t handle those convos in that they either think less of you or they want to fuck you or both Why is that though? I personally don't judge my female friends like that. Do they think it's a "slutty" behavior if you are engaging in such topics as a woman? Do you think you suggest being more sexually open or even inviting to them if you speak on such topics?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 09:58 PM
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Because you are presenting stuff as being purely platonic from both sides, right? So if we imagine hypothetical situation where you do that to give him an opening, if his feelings are truly platonic he will definitely denied your invitation. Reality might be a bit different though. Many times you think that for your male friends it is purely platonic, too, just because you haven't seen anything explicit for them to show the opposite. The lack of explicit demonstration from them doesn't necessari…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 09:53 PM
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It's like they can't fathom that single people of opposite sexes can be platonic friends and that there is no sexual and romantic interest between them. This is one of the most common things that women don't understand about men. Imagine the following situation: You have a male really good friend and you think everything is 100% platonic. You spend a lot of time with each other, you find each other funny, intelligent, interesting to talk to, good company, etc. My point is none of you is the awkw…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 08:19 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 08:02 PM
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I don't know where you've heard that, but that's pure bullshit IMO. I speak about sexual topics with my friends all the time and as far as I know, they do it with other friends of theirs as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 08:02 PM
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Women always say shit like that, but never explain why the fuck is it so difficult for them to find a good, reliable husband? You gotta take some accountability at some point and admit that you are shit at picking up the right guy or you can't pick a good enough guy because you don't have much to offer yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 07:54 PM
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If you ask me if I would have rather had average or a bit bigger than average - fuck no! I'm really happy with my size. It makes me feel special, gives me confidence, and more importantly many girls treat you like a sex god. I don't care that most women can't get the full length inside their pussy. That wouldn't make it any more pleasurable for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 12:14 PM
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Are you fucking serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 12:11 PM
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Yeah, many people are not educated on sizes and think that 8" is average, 10" is big and 12+ is huge, or some shit like that which is obviously bullshit. It's a very common myth created and empowered by rumors, porn, men lying about their size, etc. And for the record again - average length is 5.5" and average girth is 4.5".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:10 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 07:11 AM
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Why if having high standards is serving me well?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:02 PM
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No, but it's been a struggle for some. Length is not that much of a problem, because I've learned to control the penetration depth really well - otherwise it bangs against the cervix and it could be pretty painful. I can't do anything about the girth though and I'm quite thick as well (above 6" which is about 1 in 1000). It normally requires more foreplay so that the girl is relaxed enough and preferably lube. Blowjobs are often a struggle too. Some girls can't take it in the mouth, some can but…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 10:38 PM
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It is indeed real - it varies from 8.0 - 8.3" depending on how turned on I am. I have it verified on https://thevisualiser.net/ I was also one of the main contributors on /r/bigdickproblems before I got banned. I don't send nudes to strangers though - have been asked enough times. I don't blame you for doubting though. Such sizes are extremely rare - about 1 in 20,000 (top 0.005% of the population). And just for a reference, the longest confirmed dicks in the world are 10.0". There hasn't been a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 10:32 PM
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In the ass I can insert at least 8.3". I don't have any more dick to try. That's not necessarily the point though. Girls are just excited by big dicks. It's a masculinity / sexual power feature. Similarly to being tall, strong, having big muscles, well defined jaw, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 10:28 PM
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all above 6’5 with angel crafted 8inch dicks Not quite that tall, but dick is above 8". Can I sign up?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 10:22 PM
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And this is open for interpretation unless he explicitly says all men or anything better defined.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:29 PM
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Perhaps the ones that can afford it?!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:18 PM
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No, he didn't say all men or average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:16 PM
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OP said: Women don't want men to be able to have sex with a 10/10 giga-Stacy whenever he wants. You said: They think the super hot classy escorts would be the same price as the crackhead prostitutes working the corner. Two entirely different statements. Are you lacking basic reading comprehension or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:08 PM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:03 PM
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I explained that “hot” dudes had burned me before and guys who felt “lucky” to be with me treated me a lot better You reasoning is just dumb. Instead of being logical you only rely on a very limited experience you've had. You can totally find a guy who is better looking than you and still treats you with respect. It's not the problem that your exes were too good looking, the problem is they were assholes. Fix that instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:29 PM
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He might, it just depends on his other qualities. Of course if you don't have such and you purely rely on your money, while looking like Kermit the frog, you will need a lot of money to compensate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:22 PM
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No one "accidentally" has anal. You are quite oblivious. Most of my friends, me included, have had accidents when they are sloppy and accidently try to put it in the wrong whole during an awkward position for example where it's not super easy to feel where the pussy entrance is exactly. And in at least half of the cases it ended up with a good amount of pain for the girl, due to the pressure applied. Learning how to have sex isn't rocket science. But learning how to have really good sex and lear…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:15 PM
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having sex with a guy with IQ less than 130 Here we go, unreasonable female standards again. Just this requirement alone leaves you with 2% of the men. On top of that you want them to be nice, low N count, loyal, fit and with a full set of hair. After those you are probably looking at 0.01% of the men. A promising cat lady I would say. For the record, I have an IQ of 140+ before you come and say that I am just butt hurt and smart men do exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 10:37 AM
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Spot on as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 10:29 AM
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Cheating is probably the most clear cut example of this. Elaborate please.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 10:23 AM
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Wise words.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 10:22 AM
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Hence why I said, in the 0.0001% of cases I fucking hate when people do that. First you pull statistics out of your ass. Second you highly exaggerate the numbers to back up your claim, while in reality the number would certainly be very different. You either to this on purpose which is a shitty manipulative thing to do or you hack extreme lack of knowledge in maths/statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:40 AM
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and you edge Edging is for losers bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:37 AM
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No it's not a massive if. Most of the people can easily save 1000$ or whatever if they really want to fuck an elite prostitute. Don't present it like it costs fucking 50k or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:33 AM
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This is a mistake i see men on this sub make a lot. Nah, you don't see fucking shit. I have literally never seen a guy being so delusional with respect to that. Everybody knows that the higher quality prostitutes/escorts are also more expensive. It's a common sense even if you are not explicitly familiar with prices.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:14 AM
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Yes it absolutely will if you have the money. Are you even serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:12 AM
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How you gonna deprave a human of something all humans want/need because of their genetics and not their character Just like that - Baam, you fucking ugly, you don't get to have this amazing dick of mine. She can have a great character, but character on its own is not getting this dick up if ugly is too much. In what blue world do you live? Looks have been important forever, for both genders and are one of the main necessary factors for attraction for the vast majority of the people. Saying stuff…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:08 AM
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I think you are just not aware of the definition of the word perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:01 AM
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maybe 10 if we're counting all types of acts Did you just include kissing to bump it up to 10?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:28 PM
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How do you get women to blow you off but to refuse having sex with you? Genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:23 PM
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As an engineer I can confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:19 PM
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Yeah that's the problem with prostitutes in general. It's so much better to do it with a friend or at least a person you have some sort of an emotional connection with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:18 PM
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Sounds impressive, but if you think about it for a girl it's super easy to get casual sex. If you go out 2 times a week on average and you really want to fuck, you can easily do it every time. So that will give you like 100 count in a single year even. When you spread it across 9 - 10 years, suddenly it doesn't sound that extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:15 PM
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I've always found such stories fascinating as well. To me it's just very difficult to imagine how I would go for a hook up with a girl and she will ended up just sucking my dick but not having sex with me. In my experience the opposite is much more likely to happen. Meaning - if a girl is willing to suck your dick, she will most probably be alright to just go for sex, too. The situation is obviously different for kissing for example. Many girls will make out with you but would not feel comfortab…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:09 PM
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Insecurities are the bane of humanity, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:05 PM
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You welcome. Have been missing fooling around with goofy cock convos since the motherfuckers banned me on /r/bigdickproblems.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:04 PM
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Guess confirmed :D
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:00 PM
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I guess. Out of curiosity was it mostly black girls or white?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 10:54 PM
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Damn, you've seen some action. I would guess it wasn't all relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 10:54 PM
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It's a comfort thing I guess. Or them going for the BBC?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 10:51 PM
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You don't stick your dick into ugly, right. Or maybe the saying was for crazy, but it still works.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 10:49 PM
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Well, different women different preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 10:45 PM
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Maybe some girls want to be with an experienced guy who knows what the fuck he is doing and doesn't accidently put it in her ass the first time they try to have sex. Sounds pretty logical to me. Also I don't think many women find inexperienced guys that sexually attractive. Like being a virgin as a man is a red flag for many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 10:35 PM
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And you just conveniently missed to mention that we should also tackle some aspects like feminism, which make many women fucking hatefully bitches and a terrible partner for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 10:21 PM
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Thank you for ignoring most of what I said and basically implicitly admitting that you just ran out of counter arguments. I guess I'm right after all. What's repay and what not seems to be just your personal feeling about it. You are not going to convince anybody in your believes with such simplistic expressions of personal feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 10:18 PM
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you find them perfect including their flaws. It isn't entirely logical, but love is an emotion and you can't expect it to be And that's exactly why divorce rate in America is 50%. People should use their heads a bit more instead of just relying on feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 10:13 PM
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Bruh, that only means you had low standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 10:10 PM
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And what car you drive?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:21 PM
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Bro, stop using stupid rare words if you want people to understand you. I'm a fluent speaker and I still needed to google the definition of "sans".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:10 PM
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while everyone else just laughs at the obvious schizophrenics Guess what, currently a bunch of people are laughing at you as well. That's like the joke story where a crazy guy without pants was laughing at some other crazy guys without shirts and he was saying "Fucking retards, aren't day?". You need to be truly delusional if you honestly think that the red pill fanatics are the only crazy people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:05 PM
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Some will, most won't. For all sorts of stupid reasons - they feel shy, they feel insecure for different things, they feel that's not how it's done in the society and the guy is always supposed to initiate first, they feel you must be the fuckboy, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:58 PM
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Wait, how come you don't like tall guys? I guess such women exist, but you would be in the vast minority probably. Mind sharing why you feel like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:49 PM
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No, those are not memes. They are often used as such by some retards or misused in general by insecure guys or women who hate men. When used properly they express some important character/behavioral differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:14 PM
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Weird one alert.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:07 PM
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Yeah, that's very interesting. I always thought that it shouldn't be that difficult nor should take that long, to a dick size at least. As you've mentioned, the 6 months for vaginal fisting sounds pretty reasonable for anal as well if you are working on it consistently. In my experience, it doesn't take long at all to get to the "dick" size with a girl when you know what you are doing, but I guess genetically some people would just be more stretchy than others. I wouldn't be surprised if there a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:46 AM
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I'm saying that pushing through explicit and stated sexual boundaries is rapey - and it is I'm not saying entirely disregard your partners wishes and do whatever you want. That is the second extremity I've illustrated. That would be "rapey". I'm all about being open minded, discussing stuff with your partners and experimenting in order to achieve common happiness. Having some explicit hard boundaries which are not even open for discussion (apart from such covering very extreme things) is just du…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:36 PM
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In my experience it shouldn't be much different strategy wise. It's just a question of if you want it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:17 PM
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Read better please. Where did I say your partner has to disregard their sexual boundaries I said precisely being open minded to your partner's sexual desires and suggestions and trying your best to accommodate them The problem with people like you is that you are fucking extremists IMO, and extremism is almost never good! I will give you the two extreme view points here so that you can understand me better: Your boundaries are sacred and nobody should ever question them or comment on them. You s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:38 PM
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No matter how hard it is for you to believe, many people do indeed mean "people should understand sex is natural and normal and not feel shame when exploring it with mutually respectful and consenting parties".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:22 PM
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Sorry, I got confused that both of you do it in the butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:20 PM
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if there isn’t stretching in a long time, it has to be worked back up to that level again Clear. I reached my actual physical limit What do you think determines this limit? Is it for example when stuff starts getting too close / putting pressure on your pelvis? Or is it simply the limit to which the skin/surrounding tissue can stretch? Also have you had any negative side effects? Some people are afraid of fecal incontinence, some permanent damage/pain, fear that they will never be tight again, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:44 PM
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You are fortunate that you have somebody at all then, with this selfish attitude. I hope he is of a good quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:38 PM
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Yes, but she made a generalized statement and not a statement strictly about your situation. So I replied to that in a general way, not in the context of your situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:21 PM
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I wasn't replying to you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:15 PM
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Sounds amazing. after more than 6 months Taking it slow is definitely the key, I agree. If I may ask, when you are already at that stage, is it easy to keep doing it? If you stop for let's say a month or a bit longer, do you get really tight again and you need to work it up for quite some time again to reach the same level?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:13 PM
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And let me tell you how you get somebody to really love you and enjoy being with you. By doing compromises for him. By doing things that he really likes, despite them not being your favorite ones. By being open minded to his wishes and desires. Should I continue?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:02 PM
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Sex positivity means being open minded to your partner's sexual desires and suggestions and trying your best to accommodate them first and not just straight rejecting anything you don't quite like. And it goes both way - man to woman and woman to man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:59 PM
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fisting (giving and receiving) Damn girl, props to you. Few are the girls willing to try such extreme stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:52 PM
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I don't reprduce and I'm not fertile so live's a great mystery isn't it? How come you are not fertile?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:48 PM
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Wait, I am confused. So do you do just anal nowadays or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:45 PM
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A bit selfish/arrogant I would say. What if your partner likes particular positions that you don't? Isn't it a fair compromise if you do stuff for him and he does stuff for you from time to time, just to make each other happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:42 PM
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I don't speak about her situation with her ex. I speak about her feeling about porn in general. And it matters if it's vanilla or not, because it makes more sense if she is not comfortable watching some hardcore bizarre porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:13 PM
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would you advise anyone asserting a sexual boundary to seek therapy and overcome their "fear" I absolutely will and I've advised people doing that before. It's not even only about sex, but fear of highs, fear of swimming, etc. If a man didn't want to participate in his SO's cuck fetish would you advise him to get professional help? It's a cuck fetish if you want to see your girl being fucked by another man. If you are the girl who wants to get fucked by another man, it's not cuck fetish, it's fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:12 PM
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My husband finds the idea revolting. Your husband doesn't want a threesome with you and another woman?! He would be one of the few exceptions I guess. Also finishing in mouth. Come on, that's one of the most normal things you can do nowadays. Do you like being eaten for example?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:50 PM
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LOL exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:49 PM
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Take care of your emotional health girl, it's for your own good. You have to face your fears if you wish to ever defeat them and a professional can help you for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:46 PM
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That's a bit vague though, how adventures we speaking?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:45 PM
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I would advise you to maybe speak to a professional / go to therapy about the way you feel towards porn. It might be related to some deep emotional issues you have that could impact your personal life and relationships in many negative ways. If it's some hardcore bizarre porn I understand, but it sounds like you feel like that even with normal vanilla porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:43 PM
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Oh, so that's why you are so weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:36 PM
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I’ve had multiple men think they can just stick a dick in my butt Sorry but that just speaks about the intellectual level of men you've decided to have sex with. A hint - it's not much higher than a chicken.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:31 PM
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Maybe some retards. No sensible guy thinks that. It's the era of the internet, you have plenty of information online about everything, anal included.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:29 PM
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You can be telling that to yourself and everybody else, but do you truly believe it? Would you not prefer if your husband didn't have low libido issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:24 PM
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Which hormones exactly and are the values low/high?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:35 AM
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Oh, now I understand why you hate men so much. You've probably been sexually unsatisfied for years. Anyway, ask your man to go and ask his doctor for an extensive hormonal blood panel. He might have low testosterone, high prolactin, out of whack thyroid values, etc. Those could be the reason of him lacking libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:34 AM
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And who the fuck cares about the average man? I personally don't and I thought you women don't care either. Would you want to be with an average man? Why are those a factor then? And don't speak about money here, I used him purely as looks example. Do you honestly think that if he wasn't famous and wasn't rich the women wouldn't be attracted to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:27 AM
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I'm not going to read the entire comment. Oh, so you are lazy as well and can't spend more than 5 sec reading a comment which was specifically targeted at stuff you said? Good stuff. Pretty sure we know female fertility a little more than a random internet man does. Awesome, explain more then, share the knowledge. I've always tried to help the less knowledgeable than me. So far the only thing you've said that it's possible to be still fertile after 40. And how is this information useful in the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:26 AM
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Please tell that to my mom Right, let's use some super rare exceptions as an example. Go read some studies on female fertility before coming up with useless anecdotal evidence. Some of you are really dumb. Yeah, but do you know what the funny part is? If you are dumb yourself, you are just delusional thinking that you are any better than the rest of the dumb people. If you are smart though, you can reliable distinguish between dumb and smart people. I myself for example know for a fact that I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:18 AM
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Oh yes, compliments are 100% accurate always. Reliable proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:11 AM
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no girl is gonna be dumb enough to commit to me if it’s that much of a dealbreaker for her That is not the whole picture though. Imagine that you meet a girl and everything is great. You enter an LTR for a few years and then you marry her. At some point sex starts becoming a bit boring and she starts exploring different ways to make it more fun. She gets keen to try anal, but you are really against it. Yes, but damn girl is really curious and she tries that with a dildo and she realizes she real…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:06 AM
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Yeah and plus with something like anal, people will tell you that you can't give up after one try, even if it wasn't pleasurable. And that is a fairly sensible thing to suggest IMO. I have a lot of experience with anal and I am personally a fan. Yes, it can hurt in the beginning, but if you as a guy know what you are doing and choose the best strategy to prepare the girl you can totally avoid the painful period. Most of the people are just fucking noobs and have no idea what they are doing, henc…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:13 PM
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Would you really want her to be willing to do those things with you? Now we speaking. Bring it ON babeeeey. I'm all about the adventure ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:00 PM
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See bruh, I'll be honest with you. I don't quite like such behavior coming from women, but at least I'm used to them behaving like that because of being more sensitive, relying on emotions a lot, etc. However, when I hear about a man acting that way, to me it's completely unacceptable and you appear like a little bitch (no offense, it's just a good common way to describe it). If your new girlfriend really likes anal, you fucking man up and stick it in her ass. That is your responsibility as a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:58 PM
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Not necessarily laws, but policies, society views on certain things, etc. Just a couple of random examples, but there are certainly many more than that: It's so easy to get fired nowadays just because you've been accused of sexual harassment as a man. The employer is pretty much never on your side. It doesn't even matter what happened exactly, maybe you just made a compliment to a colleague of yours who just happened to hate men. She goes, she complains for sexual harassment on HR and you are ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:48 PM
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but I’m sure there is someone who wouldn’t be totally put off by this list And you are also sure that he would be a great husband material, right? I think we've heard this somewhere already.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:01 PM
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So just because those women were offended by some toxic men justifies them being toxic to all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:14 PM
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Romance, sex, relationships are wants and not everyone wants them. Feel free to want whatever you want. Just don't come up with such stupid generalized toxic phrases which are presented as like all women agree on that. That's a bit like saying "All women are sluts". those kind of women are just pushing back against the shaming narrative Yes, and they chose the most retarded toxic way to do it? I don't think anybody will take their cause seriously if they are using such dumb misandric phrases.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 05:16 PM
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so they created feminism to receive the right to vote, work and literally own a bank account without a husband And all those things were great achievements for women, I agree. The problem is they just didn't stop their, with the power they gathered they started demanding more and more ridiculous shit and nowadays it just looks worse than a circus.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:55 AM
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The phrase "a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle" is about needing a man on individual level for fulfilling one's social/romantic/sexual needs. No matter how you try to present it, it's a dumb retarded and toxic phrase nevertheless. First, it's highly exaggerated and inaccurate. No fish on this world ever needed or would need a bicycle. Obviously many women need men for social/romantic/sexual needs. Second it generalizes in a disgusting way, trying to fakely portrait the situation as …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:52 AM
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You realize that not all women need to be virgin for a man to find a virgin woman to marry? Even if 20% of the women stay virgin, that will be plenty of choice for men. The other 80% can fuck around as much as they want. Oh sorry, I forgot you are bad with numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:38 AM
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This sub is literally only talking about average men. Nah, don't play this bullshit to me now. In my very first reply to you I explicitly targeted high value men having particular desired qualities: You can be rich, you can good looking, you can be various serious about being fit and look like a 25 year old, 50% of the man at least if not more never go bald, 70% of the men at this age don't have any erectile problems, etc. I don't give a fuck about what you think the sub is talking about - I am …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 12:51 AM
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You see what the average man is going to end up like though. Again, who the fuck speaks about average men here? They are as crap as average women are (you for example). Care to explain why the birth rate is declining then if the vast majority of men want kids? What dumb logic is that again? Last time I checked women are giving birth and they decide when to get pregnant and if to continue with the pregnancy. And you decided to blame men for women giving less births? Every single woman can get pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 12:40 AM
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The vast majority of men don't want kids You pulled that out of your ass now. considering how many men make women single mothers Nah, those women were just dumb enough to pick the wrong partner. But of course, let's blame it all on men as always. The average American man in reality And who the fuck is speaking about average men here? I don't care about average men, I'm a high value men. Do you care about average men? Apart from that, a part of your statistics is bullshit as well: At age 50, 70% …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 12:03 AM
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Your logic is out of this world dumb, enough time wasted on speaking to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:52 PM
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You just misinterpreted his comment and now you are playing fucking dumb. Let me clarify a few things to you, I will try to use simple language in case you have reading comprehension. ED at an older age is often a result of decreasing testosterone levels. It's just one of the symptoms. That is why /u/Stoic_WillToPower suggestion was quite appropriate. You start a hormone replacement therapy to get back to a normal, healthy hormonal levels which are good to you. You don't do it just to make your …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:49 PM
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Yeah, you just stupidly missed the most obvious factor. After 40, as a woman your fertility is none existent. You can't fix that with money, you can't fix that in any way. So if you are still single at this age (and that is the part of the population the wall is about) you are basically useless as an LTR, apart from the guys who don't want kids who are the vast minority. After 40 as a man, you have plenty of ways to still be desired as an LTR material. You can be rich, you can good looking, you …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:42 PM
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Yes, but the wall concept explaining important points of why the dating pool decreases even much further than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:28 PM
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So, when someone says they're no longer okay with living without something just because they found out their partner used to do it for others....that makes them look very pathetic. Nah, that's just a really dumb way to think about it. I will give you an example. I want to have anal with my girlfriend. She says she feels uncomfortable, she finds it a bit disgusting, she is a bit ashamed, she is a bit afraid of the pain, etc. Then I somehow find out that her previous boyfriend has been splitting h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:15 PM
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This (rightfully) comes off as insecure to the well-adjusted person Nah, fuck this shit. If I want my dick sucked it's because I enjoy it. It's not because I'm insecure that some other guy got it and I can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:02 PM
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I agree with that as well. As a side note, what do you think of the people who have huge confidence, but it is entirely based on a very good list of qualities/achievements they have? I am an example of such person. I often have the problem of people thinking that I'm cocky/arrogant, while I'm just being really confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:59 PM
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That's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:53 PM
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Yes, absolutely, all of this. Or, maybe, there is a very slight chance actually that she is just... ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:45 PM
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Bullshit, even for attractive guys it's not straight forward to get regular sex, let alone for the ugly ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:34 PM
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we find him utterly repulsive for a relationship and certainly don't want to fuck him casually Come on, stop generalizing and speaking for all the women. That's clearly not true. To achieve a really high N count, guess what the Chad did - he fucked a fuck ton of women. And normally he can keep doing so indefinitely. So obviously many women do in fact trip over to suck his dick and in many many cases women do want a relationship with him. It's really funny, the evidence/logic is right in front of…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:47 PM
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High n count straight up makes a man low value. You missed to say IN MY OPINION. Many women or their actions will disagree with you. This statement is clearly incorrect, because getting sex as a man is pretty difficult. To be able to accumulate a high N count as a man, you need many good qualities which are highly desired by women, which inherently makes you a high value man. I explained this better here: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/r8xwjf/does_her_history_matter_pt1_infid…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:43 PM
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claiming that they wouldn’t date a woman who had a high n count but that formerly promiscuous men are desirable as partners This is one of the big misconceptions women have about the topic and the reason is - they often look at it from the wrong angle. I will speak about the average case / most of the cases here, it's clear that there are exceptions as with everything. It's an absolute fact that the vast majority of the men would not like to date a high N woman seriously or look to be in an LTR …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:39 PM
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It doesn't make sense removing it in a first place though, it looks like the OP actually put a lot of effort writing all of this and inserting all the references.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:19 PM
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I don't get this, was the post initially removed but brought up again?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:15 PM
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then you know that all sex isn't good, so there is no need to have a high count - find someone you're compatible with actually enjoy what you're doing Do you understand that different people have different preferences / views on this? You are saying this as a general statement, but it's far from such. Obviously many people (both men and women) enjoy having casual sex and it works for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:09 PM
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I know, but it's unreasonable to mention traits that don't make sense. Downvoting is not allowed in the sub by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:38 PM
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IMO that is one of the most stupid demands women have. Watching porn doesn't necessarily affect your life/relationship in any negative way. Yes it can with some people, but it's not like that with everybody. I think it's really blown out of proportion. I watch porn regularly and my wife is perfectly aware and OK with it. It hasn't affected our relationship/sex life for many years now. Even the opposite I would say. Once I tried to experiment and stop watching porn for a couple of months. It was …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:31 PM
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Men who are charming - but with low n counts Well, that is just unreasonable. If a man is charming/handsome/good loocking, etc. he will be able to have much easier access to casual sex than most other men. And it's a fact that the vast majority of the men love sex. So why wouldn't he?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:23 PM
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What fairytale bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:21 PM
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So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:19 PM
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If it was legal, they won't be pedophiles then. But it's illegal for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:11 PM
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That's true, although it's still pretty goofy rough analogy. For example being 6" is just above average (5.5" being the average), while the other 6s are more rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:08 PM
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It's not my job to tell him how to get casual sex. It's my job to make sure he grows into a functional adult who can support himself and anybody else he cares to support. Well, the problem is that such attitude from the parents often leads to kids actually becoming losers / incels. You shouldn't straight teach him how to get casual sex of course, but you should help him develop qualities which would help him to succeed in life as a whole (not just professionally) AND get casual sex if he wants a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:09 PM
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What he meant is that it's not easy to understand and know how not to become one, especially for an young kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:05 PM
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Yes, men use those excuses as well, I'm aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:03 PM
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So you can generalize, but when men use AWALT they are misogynistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:01 PM
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It is, because you are saying "I'd rather die than this, I'd rather die than that". The fact is most of the people wouldn't have the balls to actually die for their believes when shit gets serious and there is an actual real risk to die in the next minute. So better not speak bullshit like this, unless you actually mean it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:59 PM
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spinning plates This is basically having casual sex with a few girls in the same time period. How is that misogynistic? It's not like you are in a relationship with each of them and you are cheating to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:56 PM
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So basically you are saying AWALT?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:54 PM
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But that's basically what TRP teaches?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:52 PM
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You know the difference between the Bible and the internet? On the internet not everything is 100% made up bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:50 PM
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I'd rather die than be with someone who believes in an internet pill theory. It's so funny when people act so tough and shit on the internet. If somebody actually puts a gun to your head, I bet in a minute you will be sucking his balls and saying how yummy they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:47 PM
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Bullshit, there are plenty of RP fanatics who will fight with tooth and nail to defend the movement. I don't even have the Red Pill Man flair, do you even listen to yourself when you are making those dumb accusations of yours?!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:44 PM
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Props to you. You are probably the first woman who I hear admitting this on PPD. And that's a paradox, because the idea of the wall is probably one of the most logical TRP ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:41 PM
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What's wrong with you woman? You speak to me as I am some sort of TRP prophet or some shit while I'm not even claiming to be a big TRP supporter. LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:31 PM
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according to Ariana Grande, a big dick Never ever trust women on that. The vast majority have no fucking idea what's big and what's small. Especially don't trust them about specific numbers. For a reference, saying it as a guy with a huge dick who's done a lot of research on the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 07:30 PM
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I said it just sounds like one, particularly AWALT. I explained why it is not one. I don't particularly promote them either. I explicitly made it clear that they should not be presented as hard rules. You seem to be getting everything wrong, don't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 07:28 PM
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And curls are hot as fuck Are you speaking about curly hair or what? I can't think of a more feminine trait than that. Puking...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 07:25 PM
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Bruh, are you into feminine men or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 07:22 PM
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It's just laughable how people like you think that they know anything about TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 07:02 PM
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Each of those terms is logical to a degree and has it's real life applications. They just need to be interpreted properly and not taken out of context. AWALT sounds like a goofy generalization, I know. The point of it though is to show that majority of the women have some similar behavioral traits as far as mate selection / feelings towards men goes. You need to be a dummy to think that it actually means every single woman, like literally. In general TRP sounds a bit generalized and it's the str…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 06:58 PM
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FDS also advocates for men and women to improve themselves Even in their fucking Wiki they don't have any information about practical and important means for self-improvement, such as losing weight and getting in shape. Imagine how much they advocate for women improving themselves...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 06:42 PM
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Yep, it's 100% of insecurity. Insecurity that you might make your partner feel uncomfortable, that he might see you in a bad light, that he might get jealous, etc. If it's not insecurity, what else is making you feel like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:35 AM
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I would recommend you using the quote feature, it's much better than using Italic. Poly doesn't hurt anyone apart from potentially the people involved in it Drugs don't hurt anyone else either. Yeah, but not for the reasons you think. Sure, let's get into some conspiracy theories now, great stuff. No, what you described is not a 'great part' of people, you just convinced yourself of that based on your superiority complex. First, there are things that are certainly not good for people overall and…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:34 AM
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As I said, insecurities. It's alright having those, but I think it will be beneficial for you to work on fixing them. there is no way I'd feel comfortable telling him intimate details of what ex-partners have done with me I'm sure he will be curious to know (unless he has insecurities himself). It could be an interesting conversation, he will know more intimate details about you which will help you bond, it could give him ideas what he can try with you, etc. I see just positives. The only negati…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:22 AM
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I don't understand how it's fair to compare what someone did with a past partner to what they do with you in the present Because if you used to sleep around a whole ton in the past, that's most probably a part of your character and how you are as a person. That aspect of people very rarely changes. So if she did that before, there is a really good chance she would want to do it again or she won't be able to bond with you that well. Once a whore, always a whore they in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:06 AM
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No way. I don't need to know that much. To me that's straight insecurity and nothing else. If you really love somebody, you care about him and you are naturally curious to know more and more about him. Past experiences are an essential part of everybody's past and it's a great way to learn more about somebody - by learning what he's been through. And details are important part of that as well, because nuances matter most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:02 AM
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treating adult people as children and telling them what they can or cannot do in scenarios that don't involve hurting bystanders That's a different topic, I just used it as an example. Humanity has concluded long time ago though that in many aspects that's just beneficial for the people. As I said, it doesn't matter that they are adults, a great part of them are super dumb or/and lack strong character characteristics / decision making to take good care of themselves. That's why there are laws ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:54 AM
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Yeah, it's sad but seems to be true to a good degree. I don't think it's necessarily better with poly people though. It feels like in the cases where they are obviously not conventionally attractive, it's there common believe that keeps them "attracted" to each other. Or at least they are convincing themselves so. Or they are doing it out of necessity and lack of more attractive people who share their beliefs to do it with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:45 AM
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It's good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:43 AM
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See, if most women were actually having really low standards, there would have been pretty much no guys who struggle to find a partner. And if you just look around yourself, even IRL, you will notice that the majority of the guys in fact struggle to find a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:00 AM
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polyamory like a lot of alternative communities is more open to people being sexy and/or sexual without conforming to standard commercial ideas of attractiveness The problem is not about being open minded though. It's about personal preferences. The common standards of attractiveness are mostly such because that's what people like (mostly biological / evolutionary reasons). It's not because that's mainstream and being advertised. At least that's how you make it sound.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:56 PM
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Triads and quads (where everyone is romantically and sexually connected) are rarer and a lot less stable. People made this work for centuries though in the Muslim countries. To me it actually makes an equal amount of sense. If you are a wealthy HVM, why not live with two women at the same time? If they are friends or just get along well with each other, it doesn't sound too impossible to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:52 PM
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Big dick Chads You mean there is some hope for me? Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:46 PM
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I'll call this a cuck party, but that's just my personal opinion of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:43 PM
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Some things are just too dangerous and there are many dumb people who would want to try them. That's why you have laws against some of those - drugs for example. Now, many people argue that drugs should be completely legal and it should be individual's choice to experiment with drugs or not. I don't quite agree with such statements, as I said there are far too many dumb people with bad decision making and inability to control themselves. I think it's similar with polyamory. There is no law again…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:34 PM
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I'm totally with you on this one. If you bang another chick front of your wife it might be alright though. Alright, let the feminists jump on me now, I'm ready :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:30 PM
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Well, I'm a pretty intelligent person who goes by strong arguments / logic / science. I don't get convinced by anecdotal evidence and I don't think any smart sensible person does. Here we tried to use some basic logic + knowledge + math to make some sort of analysis (educated guess if you will) of the phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:52 PM
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So we're saying between 1/260 and 1/1300 guys can rack up 50 women in a year Even if that's the assumption we go by, another important factor is how many of those guys do actually get 50 women per year. In theory they can, but that's only if they put a lot of consistent effort in. I think many guys with the mentioned qualities focus on other parts of their lives, some are introvert, some don't have high libido, some are not that interested in casual sex, some will simply not be willing to put al…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:36 PM
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I don't quite agree with your numbers, but it's a good start. Here is my take. Being above 6' sounds sensible, so we have 15% of the guys. I don't agree that 1 in 6 guys is considered really good looking in todays society though. like 60% of the guys are overweight. Out of the remaining 40% many are not good looking face wise, some are balding (depending on the age it could be up to 50%), some don't have good masculine features, jaw definition, etc. And to be able to fuck a girl on the same nigh…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:44 PM
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I call it how I see it. It seems like you are the butthurt one. You also don't know the meaning of the word debate it looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:40 PM
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It's a debate sub, it's not a sub for sharing how you see stuff. Bring in some arguments next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:36 PM
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I think that is a bit of an offensive assumption if you don't really know the guy. He might just be passionate about bodybuilding. Does that mean he certainly has some issue or deep trauma? Fuck no, that is a retarded thing to assume if you don't know the guy and how he behaves otherwise. Hyper gym bros are more feminine than women about their appearance. I don't think feminine is a good word here. A huge turn off For you, many women will disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:19 PM
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I have a couple of friends who basically pick up new women every time we go out I call this BS. It doesn't really matter how hot they are or how good of a game they have. Nobody is so successful to be able to score on every single night out. Maybe if you are celebrity or something and many women just know you. Such stories are almost always highly exaggerated or simply a lie, because they sound cool. A handful of such guys can easily account... Yeah, the problem is that such guys will probably b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:12 PM
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That doesn't seem reliable either, because that would give on average 4 female partners per guy. That value seems far too high to me, there are not many men who can fuck above 4 girls in a short span of time to lift the average to 4. I'm curious how is this defined as well. It's not like people have sex consistently - for example all those 20% of the men casually fuck every single day and all those 80% of the women do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:10 PM
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Of course, it doesn't happen with average people. I just said that a man can potentially have qualities which still make him an attractive option even when he is getting older, while women don't really have such qualities at all pretty much. I’m sure that every 50-year old would love to sleep with a 20-year old I agree, but many women apparently go like "50 year old guys actually prefer somebody closer to their age". No bitch, they don't prefer old women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 01:09 PM
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Well of course, it's just a very common argument used by women around here to deny "The Wall" theory, etc. Women always fight with everything they have to present it as like they are still perfectly viable option even if they are 40. A man who is 40 might compensate for aging with other qualities - like being rich, being of a high status, being in decently good shape (even if it is with the use of steroids, etc.), having good genetics to help delaying aging factors such as balding for example. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 12:49 PM
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he seems like an over compensating What does that even mean? Compensating for what? In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:17 AM
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Sorry bro, I'm not religious and think that religion is a bunch of bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:17 AM
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Do you understand that can't be used as a generic statement for everything and in every situation. That could be right to a degree for the single men and women who engage in casual sex. Even then the ratio might be skewed, because probably a relatively small portion of the single women are looking for casual sex. This is just a portion of the population though. If you look at the people in relationships for example, pretty much 100% of males and females are having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:15 AM
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I think more conservative minded people absolutely tend to have a problem with childfree/chronically single types I think that has to do with the fundamental idea that it's in a way bad for humanity. If everybody suddenly decides to go this way, humanity will just vanish. So in a way it's an entropy increasing behavior. I will personally argue though, that if those people are so dumb to have such understandings (and the majority of them are, perhaps there are few exceptions with valid reasons), …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 11:33 PM
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it becomes annoying when it becomes a womens entire personality…being “strong and independent” Spot on. I would also like to add when they are trying to present it as something great and even encourage it in many cases and support other women in doing so. Do whatever you like, but be objective about it and don't make a fucking movement out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 11:31 PM
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I can never stop wondering why the fuck are women on PPD so much different that women IRL. This post is a good example. The majority of the women IRL would think that guy #1 is a pretty decent choice, while here most of the women seem to hate him for some reason. On the contrary, most of the men I meet IRL seem to think the same as most of the men on PPD. Obviously you always have some crazy exceptions, but the majority is consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 11:21 PM
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How is that man #1 makes a great living without being career focused but woman #2 is career focused with just a potential of a great living? That is just statistically true in todays world. For women it's just much more difficult to get super rich and to be able to make a great living, especially if they are not extremely focused on their careers. Just check some statistics on how many male millionaires there are versus how many female ones. Using this logic his example is realistic and valid. O…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 11:18 PM
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In what many ways exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 11:14 PM
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Do I believe a small % of men account for a disproportionate % of sexual encounters/partners? Yes. I have a strong feeling that this is often blown out of proportion. I mean, when I hear people speak about it I imagine something like 1% of the men are having 30% of the women as sexual partners. I really don't think the disbalance will be anything meaningful to be really worth mentioning. Sure, you have some players who have a reasonably big N count, but those are very few and they don't cover to…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:59 PM
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but the love goes up That is entirely dependent on the particular case. With some people it might stay even, for some it might go up, for some it might go down. It's very common for relationships to fall apart because people just stop loving each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:50 PM
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so you are not a native speaker? No I'm not, but I lived in UK for 8 years. I did my university degree there and I worked in a high level company for a few years. Also to this day I continue using English on a daily to speak to my wife, to communicate to my colleagues, for social media, etc. So yes, I believe I'm fluent in English. what I mean by tones There was no way for me to guess that by your previous comment. also what makes you think I care about having perfect punctuation? Well, clearly …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:48 PM
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Not necessarily though. Just things change in life, in some cases pretty drastically. It's kinda naive to think that you can stick to any sort of promises forever. You can argue I guess that in such cases you shouldn't make promises, or you should update them when you feel necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:42 PM
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What I meant is the excitement about the relationship, the butterflies in your stomach, that sort of stuff. with this information, you would think that the chances of finding only her attractive go up. No, not really. The beginning of every good relationship (suggesting it had a really good beginning as well) is always the most dense period feelings/emotions wise. As the time goes it's natural that things settle down. It's just biology. It's a bit like when you have sugar for the first time in y…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:41 PM
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I acknowledge it is extremely bizarre Ah, I don't think it's that uncommon for women from what I've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:35 PM
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do you know tones?? What do you mean by that? its just common in my life that people use it. maybe its just unfamiliar to you I don't know, I believe I'm reasonably fluent in English and your use of punctuation is far from perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:34 PM
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The little detail here is that this type of thinking is much much more common for women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:30 PM
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Oh boy, I was as naive as you 10 years ago thinking shit like that. Eventually with life experience I got wiser and realized that due to the way our society is, shit like "my word is my bond", no matter how royal it sounds, is just bull crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:27 PM
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Loyalty is not acting on it. I would even push it further and say that in some cases, under certain conditions, you might be loyal even if you do act on it, but that wouldn't be the mainstream definition of loyal anymore I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:24 PM
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men that only feel sexual attraction when in love Yes, majority of men. Have you lost your mind or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:20 PM
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It doesn't mean we are sexually attracted to her in the same way we would be to a wife or a girlfriend. Aaah, we can argue on this one buddy, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:19 PM
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They are out there, they are just 1 in 1000. When you have some extra requirements as all women have on top of that, suddenly you will realize that there is no man who fits your requirements. And the reason for that is that even your first requirement is too ridiculous already.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:17 PM
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Pretty spot on reply, which is surprising to be coming from a woman here. Well, until the last paragraph at least. He finds me the most attractive Love certainly can be a big factor to boost attraction, but I can guarantee you that you are not the most attractive woman in the world for him. And even if he somehow truly believes that, it will sadly not be the case forever. When the relationship goes on for many years, unfortunately this crazy strong feelings in the beginning slowly calm down. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:15 PM
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So is your problem that you need to be very close to somebody to be sexually attracted to him and you haven't had the chance to be close to many men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:08 PM
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I don't understand, are you secretly attracted to some guy and not in a relationship with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:07 PM
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You either don't use punctuation or use it in a very weird way. For example, why did you use a question mark now, if you just wish to thank the guy? It's not a question, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:05 PM
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What's your IQ smart boy? Let's compare.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 09:05 PM
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Oh boy, somebody has been swallowing blue pills like there is no tomorrow, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 09:02 PM
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Of course, nobody wants to have those, it sucks. But the point here is that the vast majority of the women think it's absolutely worth it to go through this because at the end you have your own kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 02:21 PM
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Bingo. Sometimes the most obvious logical things are somehow really difficult to understand for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 11:04 AM
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That's old enough you should know better. Who are you to say what is better? The guy is 28, has a great education / career and enough life experience to be able to take those decisions himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:57 AM
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Why settle for a random girl from McDonald's who is probably in it only for the money? Makes no sense. I will tell you one of the possible reasons why. Because she will probably fucking appreciate the husband she has. I will ask you the opposite - why marry a successful woman with flourishing career and great financial security, when she is so independent that she can divorce you any moment she wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:36 AM
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It is, but I've never heard a woman saying that she would rather adopt than go through pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 08:48 AM
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What do you mean, I didn't get you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 08:46 AM
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Bro, go read the fucking notes again and stop speaking bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 12:35 AM
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No no nooo, you either didn't read his notes, didn't watch the podcast or did neither of those. 60 year olds don’t typically prioritize 25 year olds due to reciprocal mate choice phenomenon (they both have to select each other) However, depending on how culture and status is set up, men could get away with being incredibly old and mating with far younger women. Kings didn't abide by it and neither do celebrities: Leonardo Di Caprio, Mick Jagger, etc... Old men don't go for the 20s girls because …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 12:34 AM
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Do you have a phobia or something? It's literally the first time I hear a woman saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 10:27 PM
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Personally, i have no problem with it That's all cool, but I think that's one of the main reasons for the divorce rate being so high. Women/men don't think it's going to be a problem to compromise 25% and eventually it turns out it is a problem indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 09:16 PM
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Simps gonna be simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 08:01 PM
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Well it makes sense if it doesn't really. But I can imagine certain ways where it does change. For example the girl can be introverted / shy / quite IRL but at the same time being really sexual / horny. So when she is in bed with a person who she trusts, she can go all out I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 06:27 PM
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I don't think either that it plays too much of a factor when picking up somebody for LTR. It definitely plays some role in how hot the guy is in women's eyes though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 06:15 PM
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Q4W Do you think there is a good correlation between how a girl behaves IRL and how she behaves in bed? For example can you say that it's logical to expect that a crazy, loud, extroverted, outgoing, really social girl with no obvious insecurities would be relatively wild / active in bed. And the opposite example, a shy, quite, humble, traditional, introverted girl would behave in a similar way in bed? I don't expect the correlation to be super strong, but at the same time it sounds logical if th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:42 PM
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Why is that if I may ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:30 PM
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I was eleventh wheeling sometimes What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:29 PM
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Making 25% of a compromise is a terrible compromise IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:20 PM
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Wise words.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:01 PM
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I will disagree with you. I think communication / openness / honesty is one of the key qualities every successful relationship needs. I've noticed that many of the problems people often have, which turn out to be crucial at the end, develop because things are not said in a timely matter. They are let to grow more and more, while they are doing their mental scarring and people explode at the end resulting in a massive scandal. Having good communication and always being honest with your partner en…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:01 PM
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What I'm saying is they are not indicative nor optimal for maximum performance. For example who will be individual that will be able to protect the female and her offspring in the best way possible? That will be the guy with the best fighting skills and the best athletic output / strength, right? And point being is that this guy is not the guy with amazing 6 pack sitting at 5% body fat who looks like a Greek god.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:02 PM
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It is for the Billy Betas.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 01:58 PM
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10% body fat is where your testosterone levels start crashing. So you slowly start admitting that there are negatives of being too lean. they have visibly well defined abdominals during competition Perhaps our definition of what is considered well defined abdominal is different then. But you definitely can't have anything to do with a visible 6 pack above 15%.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 01:44 PM
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That's a whole different topic though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 01:41 PM
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Bruh, 60% of the population of US is overweight - that's a conservative estimate even. Do you honestly thing that 20% are below 12% BF? 5% or less makes more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 01:27 PM
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No, it teaches them to work on themselves and improve themselves. How is that teaching them fake something they are not? By trying to get fitter? By trying to succeed in their careers and achieve better financial security? By trying to groom better and dress better?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 01:26 PM
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That is interesting. Most people around seem to hate him and call him a scammer as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 01:24 PM
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Most men who spend any time training will have visible abdominals at 15-20% body fat. You have no idea about body fat percentages if you claim that. Nobody has visible abs close to 20% body fat and few people have a 6 pack at 15%. Especially if you want well defined 6 pack, in most cases you must be around 10% and that is even considering you have good genetics for well defined ab muscles. Every other division with a weight limit does in fact feature very lean fighters. That is only because they…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 01:23 PM
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Being a slave is being a slave, there is not a good excuse for it. I've done plenty of stuff of great complexity without enslaving myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 01:17 PM
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You are a fan of Kevin Samuels?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 01:16 PM
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Are you missing the fact that the whole aim of RP is to teach men how to get pussy and not be incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 01:15 PM
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Bullshit, if you are an Alpha you arrange your life in such way that you have freedom to do whatever you want. Who do you think is an Alpha - the guy who is a slave to his boss, or the guy who is a slave to his business and doesn't have a free minute to do anything he likes in his life?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 01:12 PM
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More generalizations. Great stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 01:08 PM
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No, this is very simplistic and naive way at looking at it. You entirely miss the fact that performance gets a bigger and bigger negative hit the more you cut weight. There is always an optimal body fat percentage which is individual thing and depend on the aims of the particular activity. For a 6 pack it's simple - the less body fat you have the better the 6 pack looks because the muscles are more defined and not covered by fat. But even then there is a nuance, because being at extremely low bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 01:07 PM
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On what front exactly and why do you think it's useless? You are speaking way too vague.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 12:34 PM
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So in your opinion it will only be useful if it's main aim is to fight against feminism. Logic? It won't really change anything for the collective male population. It will if it becomes wide spread enough to have more impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 12:31 PM
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I literally have abs, to give you an idea. And that's your only example why you are above average? Bruh...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 12:13 PM
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Woah man...you really are packing Normally people use that to say somebody has a big dick :D
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 12:12 PM
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Sure, take this guy for example: https://cdn.vox-cdn.com/thumbor/y1DZJwqZkOHODGMnzzXmJpLHqk0=/0x0:600x400/1200x800/filters:focal(0x0:600x400)/cdn.vox-cdn.com/imported_assets/761681/2bnor9.jpg Arguably the best heavy weight MMA fighter on all time. Incredible athlete by all parameters, always been in an awesome physical shape and pretty much nobody in the world can beat him when he was in his prime. But still he never was even close to having a 6 pack and he has pretty wide waist line as you can …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 12:08 PM
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Yeah, when I was 20 I naively thought that will be the case as well, listening to such statements people make. It's not that I bought a motorbike because of that of course, I did it because I was passionate for riding, but I thought it will be a nice little bonus on top. I quickly realized it's just another myth. It didn't increase the interest towards me at all. I also had some other qualities to enforce this "bad boy image", like being a guitar player in a small rock band for example, but thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 11:58 AM
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Ah, the good old logic "It's the internet and absolutely everybody lies, so there is 0% chance what he is saying is true". Whatever makes you sleep at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 11:49 AM
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Being diabetic is pretty minor thing nowadays because the condition is easily controlled in the vast majority of the cases and doesn't have much of a negative health impact. More importantly it doesn't have any mental / behavioral impact. Have depression / anxiety / mental issues has the potential to have much deeper negative impact on a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 11:48 AM
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It indicates a good shape and a fair amount of excising. You typically get it from strenuous physical labor, which indicates healthy. Yes, I really agree that having muscles and being fit is attractive and there are many logical reasons behind that. I speak about very particular things though. Like having a 6 pack doesn't indicate being in a better shape or being able to perform better in any way, or being healthier. It's actually quite the opposite. The guy who doesn't quite have the 6 pack (bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 11:46 AM
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Yep, that's my observation too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 10:55 AM
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To be on such medications means that you had some mental issues. And those medications are often not 100% effective, so you might still struggle with stuff even being on medications.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 10:54 AM
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I actually think the life is easier than ever nowadays. People are just extremely spoiled and moan / get depressed about everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 10:53 AM
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Is that news to you? I've been extremely annoyed at the fact that 80% of the population at least are complete fucking retards for decades now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 10:51 AM
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Why in todays world we have such goofy/illogical looks standards for men? I will give a couple of examples and explain why they don't really make sense IMO: Having a visible 6 pack. It requires having really low fat percentage for a good 6 pack definition. It doesn't increase performance in any way (physical work, sex performance, the ability to fight / defend your partner, etc.). Arguably it even affects performance negatively. The reason for that is that you need to do a good cut in order to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 10:47 AM
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Nope, it's mostly about genetics. You can either achieve it in a reasonable amount of time (or get close enough to it) or you can never do it because you don't have the genetics. If you are naturally a chubby/fluffy guy, good luck getting down to 8% while still having some reasonable amount of muscle and feel alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 10:22 AM
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I'm glad you are using my examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 10:20 AM
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I agree. The society/social media puts a lot more pressure on men those days in order to stay competitive and naturally many guys put a lot more effort. 15 years ago somebody looking after himself was often being called metrosexual/gay. Nowadays that is the de-facto standard for every man if you want to be competitive in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 10:14 AM
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very few men have satisfying dicks or know how to use them Knowing how to use them part makes sense. What about the first part of the statement though? What makes a dick satisfying in your/women's opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 10:11 AM
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It's not the opening that makes him valuable. That doesn't matter. In the analogy it's not mentioned which are the qualities that make it possible for the key to open the locks, right? The act of opening a lock is only a possible correlation of what is valuable to women Not possible, it's an absolute correlation. What better proof that somebody is able to get pussy than actually doing it? In the case for a low body count with a high quality person, the analogy does not apply and seems nonsensica…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 08:57 AM
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Well, it will never be perfectly balanced, but I don't think 3% is something significant enough to be discussed in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 08:49 AM
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My favorite brainless comments. As you know every single fucking alpha guy in the world. I am an alpha guy and I am on this subs. What about that? I am also a pretty high value man as well, in case those don't have the time in your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 08:48 AM
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And do you honestly think 3% is significant enough to make a difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 08:46 AM
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Women want tall, high earning, good looking men. The fact that it may correlate with a high N count man does not mean that women want high N count men. You think that if you dropped the high N count and kept every other quality that women would think that the man is not "valuable"? That's what I've been trying to explain to you all along! It's not the N count which makes him valuable to women, it's the qualities that he possesses which allow him to get this high N count! But the fact of the matt…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 12:48 AM
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I'm talking about LTR. Well, guess fucking what. Most of the qualities that are required to be able to get sex are the same qualities required for being an LTR material. Being good looking, being tall, being confided, having high status, having money, having good game, being charismatic, etc. Women looking for long term relationship do not want a fuckboy Yeah, they just want a HVM, right? That is what almost every girl dreams of. But the regality is, most of those HVM having all the qualities I …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 12:28 AM
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Getting sex is seen as an accomplishment from other men. Nope, achieving something that is hard is universally considered as an accomplishment. It doesn't matter what is it. The only reason some women might not consider it as such is that they don't acknowledge / understand how hard it is for men to get sex. The analogy is based off of purely male perception and doesn't see that they do not have THE say of the value of both the key and the lock. Sure, but as I said the women themselves are ackno…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 12:10 AM
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It can be for very small portion of the people. But exceptions don't do the norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 12:05 AM
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Sure, one of those dumbass TikTok videos where people make themselves look terrible on purpose and then they make themselves look as good as possible. Good one bruh. Guess what, if "you have the right face for it" you've never been a 3 in a first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 11:43 PM
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Now you are missing another very important point though. For men getting sex is much much harder than for women. For that reason it's considered an accomplishment. On the other hand, sex it's an effortless thing for a woman to get. Using this logic, a man who could get many women to sleep with him is considered high value - he achieved something very difficult. A woman who've slept with many guys is largely considered slut by men and not taken seriously for an LTR/marriage. So the analogy with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 11:36 PM
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Total BS, I guess you don't know how the scale works then. If that was the case, absolutely every woman you see in a social environment outside would have been fucking gorgeous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 11:28 PM
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Nah, no amount of angles turn a 3 into a 8. That's just BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 10:52 PM
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TRP/manosphere has been useless countering this. TRP was not started and it's never been a feminism countering movement. Are you aware of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 10:47 PM
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In 2020, male to female ratio for United States of America was 97.95 males per 100 females Looking at the birth rates is less relevant, because mortality is higher for male kids. And by the way, stop fucking downvoting, it's against the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 10:36 PM
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A guy already explained it pretty well up in the comments. It's not all men who are gatekeepers of relationships - it's only the HVM who are highly desired by many women. The same way it's not all the women who are gatekeepers of sex - it's only the reasonably attractive ones. If you are one of the ugliest women on this world, you are not gatekeeping shit, because nobody want to have sex with you anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 10:32 PM
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Above average men usually end up married. That’s why they’re HVM. A man's value is determined by many different qualities, but none of them is if he ends up married. The ones who want to “spin plates” and engage in serial monogamy are LVM If they are LVM, how the fuck and why are several women willing to sleep with them at the same time?!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 10:29 PM
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PPD men like delude themselves into thinking women are desperate for all the low value men out there. Bruh, that is literally the biggest bullshit you could come up with. I haven't seen a single sensible guy on PPD who thinks that. Literally every fucking day you see statements here that the women go after the HVM only, the top 20%, etc. Who the fuck ever said that women are desperate for LVM, that doesn't make any fucking sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 10:23 PM
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maybe because every year are 5% more men born than women Where is that data from? I thought the ratio is pretty close to 50:50.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 10:19 PM
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Well, guess what. If guys can't get relationships, that means girls can't get relationships either and we know that relationships are much more important for girls. And if you don't understand why that is - with relationships it's simple maths. The number of guys being in a relationship at any given time is equal to the number of girls. That is not the case with casual sex for example, because one chad can be fucking different girls every day. So hypothetically, in 10 days he can fuck 10 differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 10:15 PM
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it does not make sense for anyone on TRP to lay it out, because you people are not even close to the level where the problem of choice emerges And who the fuck are you to say what type of people exactly are on TRP and what their level is? And what is even TRP according to you? Is that a well defined group of people somewhere? anyone on TRP That would suggest there is not even a single one HVM who supports TRP, which is complete bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 10:09 PM
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To correct you - the super low quality desperate men. Don't generalize it for all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 09:48 PM
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Obsession with BBWs (fat pigs basically) is just a reasonably rare fetish, hence an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 09:46 PM
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Cause one of those parts has a particular importance, wink wink.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 09:41 PM
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a woman should not claim a man unless he's married to her. Yes. Which means that she / they should maintain being "single" because her being a relationship with him to you - does not count. So what's the point of being in the relationship? No, I never said that, that is some crazy twisted logic you are using here. Of course you need to start it as a relationship first, in order to figure out if you two fit each other well and if you are a good match for creating a family. Figuring this out requi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 09:37 PM
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Vaginas don't become "shitter" or "looser" with frequent sexual activity. Sorry, I should have been more clear. It's not about vaginas getting shitter or looser. That's not what the analogy is trying to say. It's about the high N count women being a bad wife/LTR material in the eyes of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 09:32 PM
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It only serves as an useful analogy to people who believe it to be true. For the delusional ones around here - the vast majority of the men believe that and that is the only thing that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 05:57 PM
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At this point I think you're telling us you've never lifted for aesthetics. At this point you are telling us you are just another gym rat who is buying all the bullshit myths of the bodybuilding industry. I've been V-shaped, 4 pack (almost six). My ex said that I had a "very good" physique when she met me. I've been, my ex said, nobody gives a fuck about your personal biased anecdotal experience. Is great a six pack? Maybe we're arguing about the definition of the word great. No, it's not a six …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 12:01 AM
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Bro, get the fuck out of here and stop wasting my fucking time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 11:04 PM
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So you expect women to only talk positively about her man and claim him when he's a husband. Talk positively as much as you want. But don't "claim" him unless he's given you the ring. Without the ring he is not yours, he can easily dump you at any time he wishes. I start feeling like I am repeating myself though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 11:03 PM
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Come again, trying to use your brain this time and formulate a proper comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 09:47 PM
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Nah, if you have half a brain even you can come up with plenty of sensible excuses. Also if your wife is at work all day long, you have quite a bit of freedom/flexibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 09:43 PM
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I'm not speaking about becoming the next Mr Olympia here. I'm speaking of having a great physique as a working professional. The standard of this is not particularly high. Many people are just delusional and think that if they work out 6 hours a week instead of 3 hours, they will look twice as good. That's just bullshit. After 3 times a week you really start getting diminishing returns. It doesn't matter if you work out 4 times a week or 8 times (twice a day in some days). The result will be app…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 09:39 PM
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Have you seen anyone with career aspirations? Yes, myself. For 5 years in the industry I managed to become one of the best Engineers in the country. When people have career aspirations they work 12 hours a day and only stop there because their company doesn't want to go into the territory of double pay. That's perhaps what the dumb workaholics do. If you are talented and work efficiently, you can totally succeed and grow in your career by working normal 8 hour shifts. I pretty much never did any…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 09:34 PM
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I know a guy who claims he is at 30% Sorry bro, but that's just complete bullshit. Being able to fuck every third girl you randomly approach on the street? I don't fucking care if you are Henry Cavill and you have the best game in this world, nobody can achieve such rate. From what I've read even the top PUA have around 3% or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 09:27 PM
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Then there's other factors in play. Absolutely. Like women having crazy standards nowadays without offering anything in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 09:22 PM
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That success rate is low because it's a COLD approach. The important factor is that it is indeed low though! That is the thing that has practical implications for the one attempting it. That's just the nature of talking to strangers. Yes, and that's why it's a shit strategy and borderline waste of time or a complete waste of time depending on your priorities. It's not the lack of looks. Lack of looks just pushes the success rate even further down. The more you work on your abilities to cold appr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 08:03 PM
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That's absolutely fine, just don't claim that you've made a high value man commit to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 07:57 PM
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So if you have all this experience, it should be crystal clear to you that the success rate is super low and it's just a waste of time for most people? Especially if you don't have the looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 07:48 PM
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Because men take terrible pictures, so the vast majority of those men were rated as 4/10 Sure sure, I'm sure that is the only fucking reason and nothing else. However, 60% of the "ugly men" were still messaged by women. If you mean on dating apps, that's bullshit as well. There are enough studies showing that women don't even look at 80% of the guys on the dating apps, let alone messaging them, let alone going out with them, let alone ending up fucking them. Going back to my point: It's just men…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 07:41 PM
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It's the charm and seductivness that make them knees weak. Yeah, continue believing this blue pill bullshit buddy. You are advising people to cold approach and at the same time you don't know shit about cold approaching and its effectiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 07:37 PM
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I'm not advocating for branch swinging. What twisted logic is that? As a woman you need to do your best to make a HVM commit to you (marry you). Cheating on him is one of the worst things you can do if you wish to make him commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 07:36 PM
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Ah, so you are suggesting cold approaching women with a success rate of like 0.1% if you are not a chad. Good luck being the pussy slayer of your neighborhood if you only manage to score 1 in 1000 women using this strategy. You will realistically be able to do 2 women per year if you are approaching every single day, impressive stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 07:16 PM
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A guy who doesn't have great genetics may have to scale back on career aspirations to have the time and energy needed for him to get into good physical shape. That's just bullshit / lazy people's excuse. To get into a great physical shape you need to exercise for 1 hour a day, 3 - 4 times a week. It doesn't require 20 hours per week. Of course, that is considering you are doing things right, exercising properly and efficiently, eating properly, etc. But that goes without saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 07:12 PM
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Yes, I do. High value men do exist buddy, they are just rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:56 PM
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Nope. I'm a married man who really loves his wife and I do use the term Beta Bux as well. It's used for married men who are clearly not found attractive by their wives. They settled for them for whatever different reasons, but one of the main ones being they needed a provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:45 PM
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Most women find most men attractive. That's total bullshit. There are plenty of studies showing that's not the case, especially in this Tinder age. Can't really bother looking for references now though. Even men don't find most women attractive, although the percentage would be quite a bit higher in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:39 PM
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Yes I have, pretty much the same but a bit more natural, without tons of plastic surgeries and cosmetic enhancements.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:20 PM
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It's sounds logical, but my feeling is this is not the case. In the big city women have plenty of options. There is always some chad available and even if he never commits to anybody, every woman secretly keeps dreaming that she will be the lucky one. In the small town, statistically you have just a few chads, so when those are taken the rest is average and below average guys, so if you are one of those it's an equal playing field in a way. Also because of availability again, the women are not a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:15 PM
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So there is no commitment in a long term relationship? If he hasn't married you, he can easily dump you at any time and you wouldn't get anything. If you are married you have a lot more security, because divorces are pretty complex and in the vast majority of the cases the woman will end up having half of the family money/resources, child support, alimony, etc. So again, if you haven't convinced him to marry you, you haven't secured shit yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:49 PM
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The guy explicitly said TALK. Did he mention anything about harassment? Do you consider it a harassment every time a guy tries to talk to you? Female logic 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 11:16 AM
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I think you replied to the wrong guy. I never said anything about 9 billion whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 11:14 AM
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Alright, thank you for the clarification. Now I know better how you feel about it. reminding me that male friends would love to fuck me genuinely just reminds me I'm seen as a potential masturbation rag and like our friendship is not based on friendship It's not like that though. You friend might really like you as a friend/person and really appreciate your friendship. Wanting to have sex with you is a separate thing though and doesn't devalue your friendship in any way. I would even argue that …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 10:41 AM
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I don't know, you go to work to work. Ah, is that the case? So let's forbit speaking to each other at work unless it is strictly work related, so that people don't get too distracted. Also let's forbit company lunches and social events - that has nothing to do with the work. What about those ideas? But asking out someone at the office just makes everyone uncomfortable. No it shouldn't make absolutely anybody uncomfortable. If you are the girl being asked, just deny if you don't like the idea, no…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 09:44 AM
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I just asked a simple question because I don't know what is consider sex work and what not. And instead of simply answering you are turning defensive and assuming shit right away. On top of that some retards are downvoting me (probably you being one of them but that's just speculations), considering downvoting is not allowed in the sub. What a fucking shit show.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 09:35 AM
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So just because you personally feel like that, let's create a retarded rule which labels a harassment every single case where a guy happens to be looking at a girl at work? You don't think that's a bit excessive and unjust towards the guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 09:32 AM
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No, I am dead serious and I expect a serious reply from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 09:30 AM
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Do you even read? He hasn't committed to her yet and she is already proud that she got him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 09:29 AM
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Naah, cut this bullshit. /u/DjangoUBlackBastard did a pretty good take on everything that is wrong with it here: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/r2yln3/what_is_so_bad_about_female_dating_strategys/hm7ly7v/ If you care, please go and reply to him disproving his points.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:43 AM
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Oh, so you are one of the people who write bull crap like this: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStratPros/comments/nlroap/5_traits_of_a_hvm_high_value_male/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:38 AM
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Wait, are you an actual prostitute, or OF is also considered sex work nowadays?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:34 AM
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Just saying something doesn't serve any purpose. Give me some arguments, be more descriptive. Otherwise it's just your opinion against mine. Beta simps ARE WHAT WOMEN LIKE I don't speak about what they like here. I speak about what they are sexually attracted to and turned on by. And that is definitely not beta simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:23 AM
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You honestly think only “alpha” men get women and are attractive to women? No I don't think that. But I definitely think that most women are not attracted to beta simps. If you think women are genuinely attracted to some rich beta losers entirely lacking confidence, who can't even speak to a woman because of being too nervous, you are just delusional buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:18 AM
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The problem is that she claims she got a HVM commit to her, while he hasn't committed in any shape or form until he marries her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:14 AM
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Who the fuck is speaking about being a nice guy here?! Bro, every time I happen to engage into talking to you I'm getting more and more convinced that you either lack reading comprehension or you have some other problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:06 AM
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Don't bother, here it is: https://www.reddit.com//r/FemaleDatingStrategy/wiki/recommended_reading There are exactly 2 chapters about self improvement for women, full of crazy useless shit. For example there is nothing mentioned about how to improve your looks for example, which is unarguably the most important thing many women need. It's a total joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:03 AM
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That is what some dumb gold diggers want perhaps. An average or above average woman wants a guy who she is attracted to and women don't seem to be attracted to beta simps if you haven't noticed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:59 PM
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with looks and money being the most important Character/personality is equally important I would say. You can have a handsome rich man, but he can still be a beta simp. You can't call such man high value. I agree with the rest of your comment though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:52 PM
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If they aren't chasing women how would they be drowning in pussy? Because they are high value and pussy should be chasing them!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:48 PM
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Here you go: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStratPros/comments/nlroap/5_traits_of_a_hvm_high_value_male/ And would you actually just ignore the majority of his comment? If you have any decency, you will go through every single point and explain how it actually makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:45 PM
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Bro, mods should make this comment of yours sticky and lock the fucking post. Thank you for the good summary.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:43 PM
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If it was that hard then how could that be? Let me just guess here - they are not. They could be high value only by your personal made up definition of what a high value man is. And who said anything about swimming in pussy? Well, if they are high value women will really desire them and go after them, right? Or now you will say that women don't need high value men. I really start feeling like I'm speaking to a kid here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:38 PM
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I'm not trying to convince anybody, I'm stating facts here. That's not my opinion, most of the PPD supports this and any sensible person who ever checked FDS supports this. The only people people who support FDS are some brainless feminists, not even the smart feminists support it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:35 PM
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Are you actually that delusional? So you say that this is actually the biggest key for success for men? If they only try to be good men, suddenly they will be reaaally high value and it's super easy, and suddenly they will be swimming in pussy and hundreds of women will be chasing them? Don't you think that if shit was that fucking easy, men would have realized that by now and they would have been applying it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:30 PM
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not womens or FDS's. Instead of just running your mouth, why don't you state what is the proper definition according to you / women / FDS?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:25 PM
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It's not even hard to be one. The very definition of anything high value suggests that it is rare. That's why the value is high in a supply and demand driven market. So yes, it is fucking difficult to be one because it requires having many rare qualities which are difficult to achieve.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:23 PM
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What's the saying, listen to the fisherman, not the fish? Yeah, you are just missing the simple point here that in this case the fishermen are so fucking retarded, that every fish on this world will have more brain and will give you much better advice. If you want some sensible advice, better look for some other fishermen, not FDS fishermen. I unknowingly used FDS and have gotten HVMs. That just sounds stupid. You don't get HVMs, you get a HVM. Getting several suggests that none of them committe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:17 PM
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Their confidence was untouchable, and it just seemed like other women wanted them. Nah, that just sounds like some cheap movie intro. Speaking from experience here. Have been in a pretty long term relationship and even married at this point. I have all the experience and tons of confidence. On top of that I am pretty high value all around - overall looks, status, money, etc. Absolutely no women are approaching me. It doesn't really matter how confident or good looking you are, etc. You always ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:10 PM
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Well, as I said that is not a concern to me. What the fuck are you trying to say anyway with this story? What choice did the boy have apart from defending himself? Laying on the ground and waiting to be beat up terribly, risking life long injuries or something worse? Is that what would you advice your kids to do, so that they avoid getting suspended?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:57 PM
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I'm not saying that's a bad thing, I think its good its considered harassment What the fuck do you mean it's a good thing? How is gentle flirting being considered something as serious as harassment a good thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 09:16 PM
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I don't know where you live, but there is no such shit in my country. A friend of mine back at the time broke another kid's arm in school because he was bullied. Teacher asked what happened, several kids confirmed self defense, the teacher sent the kid with the broken arm to walk alone to the hospital as a punishment. Easy life, no drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 08:35 PM
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I am sure he would not want that either. Absolute bullshit. If you are even average looking girl, every single male friend of yours would love to have the chance to fuck you. And it doesn't even matter what the circumstances are. No my sexuality is not a consolation prize That just shows then how selfish you are and how much you care about your "best" friend. Can you imagine how it feels like to be disabled and no girl to be even looking at you because of this? Let's give you the opposite exampl…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 08:30 PM
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When you see it enough times you just get used to it. It's not like watching your parents dying, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 06:20 PM
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The problem is what happens when everyone else rubs it in your face and dont let you ignore it. That's why I'm planning to introduce martial arts to my kid from a pretty early age, so that he can effectively defend himself against any sort of bullying in school, this one included. When you get to fuck up a few kids, the rest learn that you are not somebody to be fucked with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 06:19 PM
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I think they just ignore it and pretend it doesn't exist. Or acknowledge it and accept that it's something normal in todays culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 06:17 PM
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But if you get me horny, I will sit on my knees begging for cock, letting you call me all types of degradations and licking your toes after ordered. Damn girl, doing all of that and not even beg me to put it into your ass? That's a shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 06:15 PM
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a woman showed me her boobs and openly talked to me about how her boobs got bigger due to her taking too much pills - and we weren't even fucking Damn boy, who does that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 06:08 PM
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