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No LDRs happening here lol. I’ve let her know a few times which has made her question the future a bit. I just want to have a good time while she is here and enjoy it for what it is. I can work remotely for my job so I’m also open to living in China for a year or two because I’ve always wanted to live overseas and there should be plenty of poon. Not 100% sure that I would pull the trigger for her but it’s an option.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 01:03 PM
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Maybe I have a blind spot here but I don’t see the bit where she’s fucking around behind my back.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 12:20 PM
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Sidebar taught me AWALT. What makes you think this girl is more of a whore than the others?
/r/askTRP14/09/18 12:16 PM
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Thanks for the constructive input mate.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 11:58 AM
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Thanks for that, I have lost focus lately on raising my value. Does she really have to think I'm a shit steak though? Even in a healthy relationship I would think girls play up from time to time. There's never any problem with sex and afterwards she is blowing up my phone with messages about how much she loves me and the emotions I give her.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 09:47 AM
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Sounds like you mean we are captive (at least within this subreddit). An organic hierarchy would have the potential for a new alpha to come along and dethrone the old.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 08:46 AM
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Imagine she has already been raped. Accept that like death it’s inevitable. At this point in time things are good and you should appreciate it but nothing is forever. “You see this goblet?” asks Achaan Chaa, the Thai meditation master. “For me this glass is already broken. I enjoy it; I drink out of it. It holds my water admirably, sometimes even reflecting the sun in beautiful patterns. If I should tap it, it has a lovely ring to it. But when I put this glass on the shelf and the wind knocks it…
/r/askTRP29/03/18 07:34 AM
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You don’t want to be too obviously negative about the new guy, it attacks the boss’s ego because he hired him and of course wants to save face. Look for a new job, you’ve been there long enough for them to get to know you Play up your achievements more. Say you have some good ideas about how to handle clients. People are busy and don’t always notice your good outcomes. Hint that you want more responsibility and tie this in with your achievements. When you have a new offer tell them that you’re g…
/r/askTRP29/03/18 07:29 AM
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It was pretty funny. I would’ve liked to have taken control but I was pretty weirded out for the first few seconds because I was expecting something else. By the time I worked out what I should do she was 100% embarrassed (saying we had to break up because I couldn’t look at her the same any more) and I couldn’t make it work. I talked dirty to her about it later that night which seemed pretty effective but other fallout got in the way.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 02:30 AM
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I’d like that. I’m closer to that type than I am to Thor chads.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 02:18 AM
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Who said anime? I gave her no personal space for about an hour. She kept insisting I turn off the light but I had a quick look around the room and didn’t see anything.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 02:17 AM
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She was doing it in an embarrassing way so I don’t think she was expecting anyone. She had washed the sheets that day though.. how might I verify?
/r/askTRP14/03/18 02:15 AM
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It’s not a problem of itself. There’s been a few warning signs lately that have me a bit more on edge than usual. I’m a bit concerned I might be overly relying on how often she wants to have sex as an indicator of how things are going/fidelity.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 02:11 AM
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Does she really need to set aside a few hours to rub one out? I’m not home 90% of the day anyway.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 02:08 AM
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It’s a rom com about gay men haha. She is always asking if she can peg me...
/r/askTRP14/03/18 02:06 AM
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Potentially. If this was the case then I’m probably best off keeping my eyes open and not worrying too much.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 02:05 AM
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I agree. There’s plenty of time per day that I’m not home and she is that she could make use of without inventing a story.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 02:02 AM
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If you're getting vibes from her then just drive her somewhere dark and fuck in your car. Just make sure you escalate a bit before you get there so it isn't too much all at once for her.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 11:18 AM
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If a girl insists you use a condom the first time but after that follows your lead should you be concerned?
/r/askTRP09/10/17 07:21 AM
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The deepest level of the pill comes when you realize it can be applied to all competitive environments.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 07:18 AM
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If he is being willfully blind then who are you to end his blue pill life. If not then you should tell him.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 07:53 AM
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One of the greatest things that the red pill has taught me is there is strength in asking for help from others when done from the correct frame. It places them as subservient to you and gives them joy in serving something greater. It signals you as comfortable in leading. There was a post on it a week or so back, the Ben Franklin effect. The key seems to be in asking not from a position of need.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/17 04:07 AM
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Yeah I am dwelling. I've been moving forward a bit since I started ghosting her but this thread has put me back in my head a bit again. Why do you say it was inevitable that she would cheat? I believe that up until she did it she was still showing strong interest in me and afterwards her behaviour only changed in order to help her hamster her decision. I would've had to have worked a little to win frame back but I think it was possible. If you were unable to satisfy your partner promptly on a re…
/r/askTRP27/02/17 03:15 PM
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Pay attention to her cycle more. That's seems like solid advice. I checked the dates and it lined up pretty perfectly with ovulation. Stupid girl didn't even use a condom... Hypergamy 101 Don't overcomplicate this. This is a learning experience. Here is where I think the pickle is. I want to be able to get into more LTRs in the future. I know I am never going to be able to be 100% alpha all the time, it isn't my natural state. The next time there is a bump in my life I don't want to have to thro…
/r/askTRP27/02/17 02:52 PM
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I wouldn't have read the old one. Have to make sure other people can understand :)
/r/askTRP27/02/17 01:48 PM
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Thanks. It was definitely Christmas Day but you're right it doesn't matter. 1.5 hours is too far away for a relationship. Everything else is moot. Yeah that was always a major stress. It seemed like it was working though. The main thing I want answered is whether I should have gone over to the apartment before anything too bad happened. Or to generalize it further, if there is a very specific/obvious threat to the relationship then surely it makes sense to mate guard. The story isn't just some g…
/r/askTRP27/02/17 01:26 PM
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that's stupid, she shouldn't make new guy friends while in LTR I agree with you and would've been stricter with her but she had very few friends in general. She especially had trouble connecting with girls (red flag I know). Would you extend this rule to people they talk to online (no chance of physical intimacy)? I was comfortable with this but it set the stage for what happened later. Btw meeting him at his place or in public without telling you before you had last word is fucked up. Once agai…
/r/askTRP27/02/17 12:40 PM
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She cheated on you and you're asking if you should have stopped her from cheating? Girls don't cheat on guys that they are scared to lose. She was super impulsive in general. I think she valued what we had but just wasn't able to say no to feels in the moment. I'm wondering if in an alternative universe I could've shown up there, managed the situation and then we could've been smooth sailing for another 6 months. To be honest I was just revising what happened to see if there was something I coul…
/r/askTRP27/02/17 12:29 PM
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Is it more clear now?
/r/askTRP27/02/17 12:16 PM
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Horny for me. I think I come across as more masculine/having intent. Otherwise I don't give enough fucks... I'm probably low T if that makes a difference.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 11:15 AM
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I'm a consultant and interested in your take on this. If I see a client looking around at competitors I often remind them of my value because honestly people are stupid and can forget. It's probably something I should be doing all the time but I up my efforts at critical junctions or when I know they are actively looking. How do you respond?
/r/askTRP27/02/17 10:02 AM
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No offense, but your post is very long None taken, it's hard to be concise when internally it all seems like an interwoven matrix. I might delete the rest and just leave the TLDR. Ready? Not at all. Regardless of situation, you shouldn't mate guard, at all, ever, and yes that always applies. No exceptions at all? I've been coming around to viewing women as equivalent to children. Children you let fuck up in little ways but you step in before they do anything too serious.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 09:36 AM
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