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| 592 | How I Got My Shit Together and Turned My Dating Life Around | malarky44 | /r/seduction | 27/10/17 10:30 PM |
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| 21 | Having coffee with a former high school crush tomorrowHey man, anything is possible. Go have fun, something may happen this time. You may also be setting things up for the future. | /r/seduction | 25/12/17 10:51 PM |
| 4 | How I Got My Shit Together and Turned My Dating Life AroundIt started by not trying to date anyone. I stopped going to the bars with the intention of meeting girls, I got rid of my tinder, I stopped trying to reacquaint myself with girls that I had known. Instead, I started reading more, I worked on my skillset as a software developer and got myself a really good job. I started to do all of my hobbies more: skiing, climbing, longboarding. I got a dog that I started hiking with 3 or 4 times a week. (Note: Please don't get a dog if one doesn't fit into yo… | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 01:39 AM |
| 1 | How I Got My Shit Together and Turned My Dating Life AroundLove those pictures you shared. All of it is really good advice. | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 01:33 AM |
| 3 | How I Got My Shit Together and Turned My Dating Life AroundIt's the most important lesson for dating and for business. Value attracts value. | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 01:32 AM |
| 3 | How I Got My Shit Together and Turned My Dating Life AroundLike the other replies, that sounds like a massive red flag to me and you're definitely better off without her. You have a lot going for you with your education and your boxing. Hang out with your friends and talk about the things that interest you with girls, you will be just fine. My suggestion for your exercises is this: Next time you are out with your friends or out in public by yourself and you see a cute girl, just go up and say hello. Don't worry about your intent, and don't have any expe… | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 01:30 AM |
| 4 | How I Got My Shit Together and Turned My Dating Life AroundDefinitely don't get comfortable. It's great to spend some evenings at home with your girl but your life needs to be more than that. Get busy with the work that you want to do and always make time for it. Go to the gym, write a blog post, play guitar, etc. But just make sure you are doing your thing regardless of your relationship status. | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 01:26 AM |
| 1 | How I Got My Shit Together and Turned My Dating Life AroundIf you are working on yourself, you’re good enough. A lot of people don’t even bother to try. But you should definitely be putting yourself out there and talking to girls all the while. | /r/seduction | 28/10/17 10:07 PM |
| 1 | How I Got My Shit Together and Turned My Dating Life AroundYou’re welcome | /r/seduction | 28/10/17 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Hey Seddit, if you had to start from scratch in pickup again, what would be the 3 things you'd start with?Read: Models No More Mr. Nice Guy Then: Talk to everyone Be assertive: Ask for what you want (this isn't always verbal) Assume all things positive (Don't hurt yourself with limiting beliefs) Control your emotional responses (You're a valuable person regardless of how a girl responds to you, keep that value) Be the best version of yourself (if you're boring, self-conscious, overweight, etc - work on it) If you see a pretty girl, just say "Hey, I'm _____, how's it going?" | /r/seduction | 30/11/16 12:36 AM |
| 1 | My "inner game" is spiraling down and I can´t stop itFirst. Stop playing mental movies. That's just self destructive and won't help your mindset at all. You are directing the movie from your inner dialog and mindset that she is out to get you. Secondly, you never own a woman, and therefore don't get to decide who she introduces her new boyfriend too. Her relationship with people she knows, regardless of who introduced her, is their own relationship so don't take it personally. Your friends aren't trying to hurt you. This isn't a game, there is no … | /r/seduction | 04/08/16 04:02 PM |
| 6 | How can I develop a social life?I would start with meetup.com join a group or two that have things you are interested in. This is an easy way to meet people and shouldn't feel as "forced" as taking a class. Also, since at one time you were in a relationship, I assume you once had friends. Try to reconnect with old friends/acquaintances that are in your area. Then meet their friends. The majority of my friendships have come from us having mutual friends. Finally, if ever presented an opportunity to go do something, go do it. Yo… | /r/seduction | 15/06/16 10:08 PM |
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