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Everyone has a booty here 😅🖤
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/24 08:46 PM
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I used to mess with my hair soooo much but he likes running his fingers through it so I cut off my dreads and stopped getting extensions when I get tired of it growing out. I think he's also not into the same super slim runway model body type that I naturally have but I gained weight after my last breakup (divorce) so we can deal with that one later because I AM into my own body type and I don't think it's something I will compromise on.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/23 07:50 PM
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I'm sorry but this is hilarious and I'm probably lying if I tell myself I care a lot if my man goes out looking like a hobo if I'm not there.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/23 10:45 PM
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Oh no I'm agreeing completely.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/23 11:42 PM
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It is transactional 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/23 11:10 PM
1

Yes and I am pretty sure she's a woman.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/23 04:29 AM
2

Or you are missing a great opportunity right now for a second husband!
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/23 12:51 AM
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I'm sure you can find that. Most likely not here though...
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/23 12:38 AM
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Is he reading the instagram articles though?
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/23 05:35 PM
2

Yes I know. So I did just the first two steps (of the six) from Surrendered Wife and his response was shocking. It was like I was dealing with a 12 year prior version of the man I married. Unfortunately I left soon after and since I had made up my mind I stopped seeing if the other steps did anything in case they gave him the wrong idea or hurt him. Edit: it also made me realize how much of our issues were my fault and I needed to work through that.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/23 04:33 AM
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I kind of beta tested the process on my ex of 12 years (I was in the process of moving out) and it was hours . It was so fast that I started to feel like maybe I was making a huge mistake leaving if he could change like that back to who he used to be (but it wasn't the whole reason I was leaving). My experience may be extreme though. But hours, I got whiplash.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/23 04:24 AM
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I think I made it sound creepier than I intended. To clarify I meant saying something so the woman knew I could plan the rest of the trip around her spending time with me. I'm a woman btw and it's just a kind of little confident not possessive but showing satisfaction comment that we don't forget and we might very well keep us coming back. Unless she really was in hoe discovery zone.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/23 02:00 AM
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If he had said something like I don't think I'm going to let you go anywhere (but not in a I'm going to keep you in my basement sort of way) she would not be looking elsewhere.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/23 01:39 AM
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Doesn't make her wrong. Men are providers.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/23 06:44 PM
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My daughter is starving (insert 😂😂😂😂😂😂).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/08/23 05:37 PM
2

In past posts she has mentioned transgressions on her side. --Which doesn't excuse his behavior!-- If you're following the 6 things (or even just the respect part) Laura Doyle suggests, OP, and he's still like this, that's really on him and his inability to forgive or forget whatever happened.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/23 05:08 PM
2

Since I have crossed the wall I'm just assuming a giant A on my forehead maybe.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/23 09:52 PM
1

Unless you're specializing in every single one of these things in a 4-6 year program you're not an expert.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/23 07:06 PM
1

This sounds like a BDSM dynamic. I can't really say if the Dom is wrong for giving too many chances and not having rules followed but I can say that this kind of punishment is cruel and inhumane. And if it's not BDSM it's just mean.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/23 05:25 PM
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I used them on my ex husband when I was still living with him and getting ready to move and the difference after two days was sorcerous. It's like happiness power steering (unfortunately those weren't the main reasons I wanted to leave or I'd still be married.)
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/23 05:53 PM
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I'm using this cat motivator, it's brilliant 😂 I also wouldn't want to know (including being surprised by a sudden std) because I know it is something that would gnaw at me no matter how much I forgave him. Plus I might end up with a cat and a felony homicide and I couldn't do that to my new cat.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/23 05:15 PM
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Just mute yourself during hormoneaggedon, it's the only way to stay safe. I'm in a secure and wonderful relationship with the man of my dreams and without fail once a month for two days I KNOW he is going to leave me any second or has a secret wife or is a figment of my imagination or thinks I'm fat, etc. 🙈🙄
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/23 01:03 AM
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No because I'm not competing with a has been and if he was that impressed with her rock painting (whether or not that's a euphemism) he'd have stayed with her. I give the best rock. Paint.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/23 10:01 PM
7

You dated his best friend. He dated your (now ex) friend. If he is a good guy I would be surprised if he ever saw you the way you want.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/23 07:09 PM
5

Stomach vacuums do some kind of flattening voodoo.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/23 01:50 AM
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Honestly my first thought was one of these guys told his guy friends a massive lie about you and something sexual.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/23 12:17 AM
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This is a bit like calling out every person who found god later in life. People change. They learn to be better (or worse).
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/23 07:07 PM
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You would never not have sex with another person if you were in a relationship not having sex with your partner? I feel like that’s not hard to believe.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/23 10:30 AM
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I’m stepping in to say female is a noun as well as being used as an adjective 🙈 She sounds awful and unhappy. You don’t have to be friends with your coworkers, some take a lot more than they give.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/23 08:42 AM
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Technically he is your victim.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/23 05:59 PM
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This is why pictures are only two dimensional.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/23 10:06 AM
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Oh you don’t do that? That’s a really good point and one I didn’t really know how to address politely.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/23 07:33 AM
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If that’s how you feel it’s how you feel. That’s not how most men work however. You were not together. He did nothing wrong. If you wanted him to save himself for you then the conversation after high school should have been different.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/23 03:15 PM
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1% in the U.K. is something like £180k.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/23 10:40 AM
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This is it exactly. Good luck 🖤🖤
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/23 08:26 AM
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I would tell him that I would love to go with him and leave it up to him.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/23 05:37 PM
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Thank you! I hope it keeps helping your relationship as well. Unfortunately I’m in that mid divorce limbo where you’ve filed and are supposed to be thinking things over which is excellent if you enjoy overthinking and second guessing things 😂 I’m moving in 10 days but I guess there have been weirder things than people getting remarried. But if not we’ve ended things amicably and I wish him the best.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/23 08:25 AM
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I only felt this way considering the amount of mental illness in my family and my ex husband’s. But neither of us wanted kids. I would have been a horrible parent and probably lost my child somewhere or left them in a carrier on the roof of the car or something. I do have a kind of eugenics approach to the whole process though. And I can own up to being too vain to ruin my body and sleep schedule with kids (that I would lose somewhere which would probably also keep me awake 🙈😩).
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/23 09:22 PM
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I’m reading these now, they are awesome and eye opening. And they work. I tried a few of the tips on my ex husband who I still live with until the end of the month and he completely changed to super masculine manly man (from just masculine but not excited about divorce man). It was really depressing actually because if I had read them 12 years ago we probably wouldn’t have had the same problems.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/23 09:10 PM
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I just take a caffeine pill in the morning. My body goes through phases of being a traitor and refusing coffee and that helps 😂🙄
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/23 01:33 PM
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Other than a possible marriage I’m not feeling any red pill woman vibes here. Or your man leading vibes either for that matter. This sounds like a normal socially acceptable relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/23 10:54 AM
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I think I’m weird because my type was always the same and I was on and off BC since 14. My type is also Men™️ 😂
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/23 03:59 PM
1

I like Biore Watery Essence SPF 50.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/23 10:51 AM
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Migraines disappeared.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/23 10:44 AM
1

I really love slim tailored trousers with a slightly higher hem and kitten heels.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/23 05:51 PM
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If he’s rich she should leave him after talking to a lawyer.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/23 08:12 PM
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I’m not surprised. I get so much more done when I’m not actively doing anything.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/23 02:03 PM
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I never understood why people are so anti the word boredom. I revel in having nothing to do because everything has been done and done well.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/23 01:44 PM
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I’m sorry but Hello Baby Duckling 30x a day is just the sweetest thing 🖤 you sound like a wonderful wife and person 🖤🖤
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/23 09:09 AM
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Not irrelevant since she says they only want sex do we can assume she’s giving sex.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/23 09:46 AM
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Is this how you stay soft or…?
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/23 04:31 PM
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I used to do that too so now I track just to make sure I’m getting enough protein and micronutrients because I’d probably live on eggs otherwise 😂
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/23 06:08 PM
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Sorry you’re right that was my BMR, I haven’t looked at a calculator in years. My TDEE is 1450. I don’t gain weight and probably eat twice that though.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/23 04:15 PM
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Short or really tall and thin I guess. I’m 5’10” and super skinny.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/23 12:15 PM
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1000 calories may also do nothing for smaller people. My TDEE is like 1230 and I might drop a pound a month if I dropped it to 1000 or homeostasis would say no you’re fine and I wouldn’t drop anything.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/23 11:45 AM
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We want choices as women! No not like that! 😂🙄
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/23 08:52 AM
2

Oh how funny, yes that whole series was so helpful!
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/23 04:25 PM
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That’s exactly what I meant and rereading what I wrote didn’t make sense 😂
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/23 04:23 PM
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I was stalking your profile and found lots of great things plus an answer to this question 🖤 win/win Sucks to see you leaving though.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/23 03:49 PM
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Knowing TRP doesn’t give you feminine vibes and appearance and she really does give off one of the guys energy.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/23 03:39 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/mdr62i/tradcon_is_rpw_but_rpw_is_not_tradcon/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/23 03:23 PM
8

Omg exactly this 😂🖤
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/23 07:45 AM
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Yes, we’re allowed to have choices. Oh but not that one 😂🙄
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/23 07:43 AM
5

Have you ever been to a jazz club? The ones I have been to have tables and food…just more intimate.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/22 09:20 AM
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It’s based on a book.
/r/MensRights30/12/22 06:50 PM
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It’s definitely been more commonly brought up lately. Even last week my man was jokingly bemoaning how he is just not red pill enough because he values loyalty. I told him he doth protest too much and gave him the side eye but I have no reason to worry 😂
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 07:43 PM
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You too! And I’m glad things are working out for you. In the end it’s really what works best for two people not two people and the rest of reddit 😂🖤🖤
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 06:32 PM
2

I find my HVM more attractive because he’s an 11 and could easily pull anything but so am I and I value loyalty more than the excitement of knowing I have a better toy than the other kids. Maybe an age thing but it’s a quick way to lose my respect when any man is willing to lead another woman on (because let’s face it she is not hooking up with him hoping he never calls again.)
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 06:15 PM
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In this case all I can think about when I read what he’s saying about you is- accusation is confession. He obviously knows he’s lacking. But hey he LET YOU keep 40% of the compensation for something you paid for yourself 🤔
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/22 12:05 PM
3

This is so much more common every year. Just go into any dead bedroom forum and this is a solution that is thrown around. Ethical Non Monogamy. It’s a no from me but I’ve had guys suggest it in past relationships. Thinking they would be rolling in extra women. That’s never what happened…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/22 08:05 PM
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My guy just told me a couple of days ago when we were discussing the differences between men and women that women want a guy that can cheat on them. My knee jerk reaction was wtf no we don’t. But we do because we want a guy attractive enough to us and therefore to other women that he always has the option to cheat.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 12:26 PM
1

I have never abandoned my VS leggings but I really like Gym Shark. Probably mainly for the name 😂🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/22 11:02 AM
6

There’s really not enough space for shenanigans under most sinks…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/22 10:25 AM
1

One of his shirts.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/22 10:22 AM
7

You lounge in a jacket? Do you live in the Alps?
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/22 10:18 AM
1

Hey I also got to memorise my social security number!
/r/TheRedPill15/12/22 12:56 PM
4

This made me cry so hard. I’m so sorry this happened to you and I’m so glad you got out 🖤🖤🖤
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/22 02:47 PM
1

Boxing, swimming and glutes, back and core are a good combination. But unless you have decided to take steroids the likelihood of you looking manly is very low. I skip specific quad exercises because I am quad dominant but that’s the only muscle group that I over gain and I look like a turkey drumstick 😂
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/22 10:09 AM
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Having an ADHD sensory overload meltdown is not the gateway to domestic violence 🙄
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/22 01:37 PM
4

Ah then in that context it means ‘that’s crazy!’
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/22 01:56 PM
2

The next day after what?
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/22 01:46 PM
1

Yes but I’m talking about the woman telling you to shove it. If you have been together long enough for common law wouldn’t this be affected as well?
/r/TheRedPill29/11/22 05:37 PM
1

Have you spoken to a divorce attorney about how this would work? I have a feeling a woman who wants to fight this could on the grounds that this was some kind of setup and get restitution from the beginning of the relationship.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/22 04:20 PM
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What if she doesn’t sign the separation agreement? You leave and she files for divorce and gets half?
/r/TheRedPill29/11/22 12:25 PM
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So the dealbreaker was no threesome with both of you or??
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/22 01:06 PM
15

No one likes a golf ball in a sock?
/r/BlackPillScience10/11/22 04:06 PM
1

Diet is about looking good clothes. Working out (and yes lifting which has so many benefits and no you’re not going to look like a man unless you’re juicing) is about looking good naked. Its even better if you can go to the gym with your partner because it is so hot watching them throw weights around.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/22 03:55 PM
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I always have my eyebrows shaded in even if I’m only wearing sunblock and a little concealer. I’m a redhead so I have my eyelashes dyed darker too for a flawless natural look. Great skin can make makeup almost unnecessary. A few nice pieces of matching metals jewellery will elevate any look. I don’t drink or smoke and hydrate all day and sleep 9 hours a night. TCA peels every 4-5 months for face, neck/chest and hands. Sunblock and tretinoin daily. Lingerie that matches. Tailored clothing! I do a…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/22 02:17 PM
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Good bot.
/r/BlackPillScience07/11/22 01:05 PM
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Fat has been an attractive look repeatedly in the past though. Has low height in men ever been an attractor? I can’t think of any time in history. (I’m a slender picky girl)
/r/BlackPillScience07/11/22 01:04 PM
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Don’t forget, ‘keep stretching’ too.
/r/BlackPillScience07/11/22 12:32 PM
2

Have to start bringing spare pants if I ever need to visit anyone 😂
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 08:11 AM
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It helps to be ridiculously small boned and thin. I look like a fragile baby giraffe.
/r/BlackPillScience06/11/22 11:51 AM
3

Sure but it’s one thing to want to get laid and whisper something hot into a woman’s ear and another to run around going I’m not gonna wear pants!! 😂
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/22 07:42 AM
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He isn’t seductive he’s pushy and disrespectful. Stay firm.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/22 05:38 PM
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Do you enjoy sex? Most of this is written like you are just giving in because you don’t know how to say no. I’m asking because if that’s why it’s probably best to deal with that first (learning to speak up for yourself). I get that trauma can make that a hard thing.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/22 02:04 PM
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Unless she said she wants to lick coffee out of your pants it was not a date.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 04:20 PM
1

These replies are heartening. Sincerely-NAWALTs who behave.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/22 04:38 PM
1

Definitely bridges work. A lot more people are starting to not want metal in their bodies long term.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/22 11:29 AM
3

If he hasn’t left her for you he is doing that.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/22 03:01 PM
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I don’t even know a friend of a friend story about it working out.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/22 03:00 PM
3

Morals definitely aligned with J except for the him not liking what she’s doing part.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/22 02:51 PM
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I think you might be lost unless you are trying to save us from the evils of traditional relationships. Most of us do know we have a choice to be “dominated “ and our submission (in varying degrees) is a gift. We are discussing femininity not who women are. Being a woman doesn’t necessarily make you a feminine woman and some men exhibit more feminine traits than masculine ones. If you are a feminist you seem to be overlooking the very important point that women fought hard so that future generat…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/22 09:49 AM
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That was the first thing I thought. MRI. But also depending on age, medical history of mental illness for sure.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/22 07:53 AM
6

A female baby elephant.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/22 11:06 AM
3

This is why I am in the middle of a divorce after almost 12 years. He started off taking charge and then slowly the ball was more and more in my court and no amount of talks could get the dynamic back (if it ever existed and it wasn’t him trying to give me what he saw I wanted). I could never be happy or fulfilled in what I ended up with (though I did try until I couldn’t try any more). And I can do everything myself but I really don’t want to.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/22 10:30 AM
1

This is excellent but in all seriousness making blowjobs transactional to butter someone up seems manipulative. I’m not sure if that’s a good thing. (I’m only replying to you because it’s the best example not because I hate steak and blowjob day 😂).
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/22 09:38 AM
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How will any of them make more babies on the kitchen counter?
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/22 03:36 PM
1

Thanks for your detailed reply. I wonder if I’m mixing up community/culture with lifestyle. I have seen quite a few outliers (not enough) who after a string of bad long term relationships (not just ONS) have decided to stay celibate (as early as their mid 20s) and watch their girlfriends completely ruin themselves. And there are always a few born agains. But maybe the outliers really are a small number.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/22 06:34 AM
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Apparently I make little whimpers of distress when I’m trying to do something and that’s like some kind of dominant crack. I have of course in no way practiced these help me noises. Ever.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/22 11:37 AM
1

Oh wow. Trickle down whore is a term I’ll try to use in at least three situations today. 🙏🏻
/r/TheRedPill04/10/22 07:06 AM
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The thing about everyone is doing it is that there is always going to be a large group of people who don’t want to conform which will swing them (women in this case) back to the opposite direction (traditional values). Either that or they take the red pill and are disgusted with their moon sisters and want to change their name from Sunshine Apple Glitter or they grow up and learn to think for themselves (if they are lucky this comes before menopause).
/r/TheRedPill04/10/22 06:59 AM
6

I thought you guys used numbers!!
/r/TheRedPill04/10/22 06:52 AM
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Had me at awkward pre-apocalypse period. Lost me because I was laughing so hard at magical vagina rocks but the shiny things definitely got me back into the van.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/22 03:56 PM
1

I always refer young people looking at self betterment to The Daily Stoic as a start. Good luck 🤞🏻🙏🏻
/r/TheRedPill03/10/22 06:05 AM
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Beautifully written.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/22 04:35 PM
1

Your brain isn’t even done growing yet. You should save this thread for 25 year old you. And 30 year old you.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/22 09:33 AM
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This I agree with. Being picky so you don’t leave a trail of broken hearted women who then perpetuate the idea that men are pigs serves no one. None of the HVM (in their 40s) I know even bother to mix their energy with someone who is not relationship material and are perfectly happy being single and not hooking up in between if it isn’t a possible long term relationship. But even with those they usually know immediately if it’s going to end in marriage. Edit: I think when you say older I assume …
/r/TheRedPill02/10/22 08:53 AM
1

You basically walked into a locker room looking for a fight. Men who are living their best life have nothing to prove. It’s not like in high school when you can go up to someone wearing a band shirt and scream, “Oh you like Nickelback? What was the name of their third single, HUH????” I mean you would still get mocked (and not just because it was Nickelback). Maybe find someone local whose lifestyle you think is close to what you are looking for, can you intern somewhere over the summer? Do you …
/r/TheRedPill02/10/22 08:15 AM
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Ok that’s the first smart thing you have said. But you can’t just come into a group slamming your fists against your chest screaming that you want to talk to the manager about getting a mentor because the mentors you see are suspect. Hopefully some men here have, or will, message you and help you out.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/22 07:39 AM
1

“Shit.” is a complete sentence. You would know that if you took Lit 101 or even just 3rd grade.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/22 09:01 AM
2

How can you be near the bottom of your bank if you have a portfolio like the proof you mention? I’m not even a man (I’m just here to bless you all with my feminine energy. You’re welcome 🥰) and I know men don’t enjoy throwing money around. Boys do though.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/22 08:59 AM
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Being able to pull older women is not a sign of maturity on its own. Come to the U.K. where every 30 year old single mom of 4 kids is pulling guys your age. Because you’re sooooo mature. Pulling a 10 with a ton of options in her mid 20s is another story.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/22 03:53 PM
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Must have a brand new car. Tell me you’ve never been rich without telling me you’ve never been rich. Flash does not equal status or high value. I look at flash and the smell of desperation is enough to turn me off for at least days. That’s not to say the cringey this is my science experiment posts here don’t make me wish I was dead. You are not mature. Maybe you know some low value immature women (and men) who are telling you what you want to hear.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/22 03:20 PM
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He’s weeded himself out quite nicely.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/22 03:14 PM
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I probably used to be very argumentative and confrontational but with this guy—and he’s the polar opposite of me in a lot of ways—I just want to understand why he thinks the way he does. He doesn’t try to convince me of anything or change my beliefs though or I probably wouldn’t be as zen.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/22 03:26 PM
1

I accept that he thinks so and I don’t make him feel like he has to hide any parts of himself. I do ask questions but I don’t try to change him mind. I’m assuming you meant the sky isn’t blue but hey if you think it’s another colour then I support you in that too 😂🖤
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/22 01:12 PM
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Weird outfit guys 😂😂🖤
/r/TheRedPill26/09/22 02:19 PM
1

How about women escaping domestic abuse? How about women moving for school or work? How about women who just like to travel? Do we only get one social group?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:37 PM
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You’re the one with the faithfulness issue. The opposite of faithful is unfaithful yes? I’m going to let you beat this dead horse or fantasise about my partner (he’s a god so I don’t blame you) or whatever you’re doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:34 PM
1

I really have no idea where you are going with this. If he was cheating on me he’d be moving on because he would be crossing boundaries we both agreed to. If he’s had 500 partners before me I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:29 PM
1

It would never happen but if he felt the need to move on it’s his choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:25 PM
1

Where did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:19 PM
5

Because one happened in the past and not to your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:01 PM
3

I’m Eastern European and very much not single. I bet I could still pop some babies out if I wanted to wreck my body though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:57 PM
7

I’m pretty sure those aren’t good comparisons.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:53 PM
4

What makes you think I’m not in Europe and in vastly better shape? I honestly don’t even know what my n count is. More than 5? Less than 7? I’m 44 and I can’t remember most of my misspent youth just my serious relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:46 PM
7

I was just thinking that as well. I don’t think my husband ever asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:42 PM
1

It’s a waste of energy. Not every guy needs to bang a new girl he wants nothing else to do with every other day. Some people are picky with who they let into their circle. Those people are usually the unicorns high value women will look twice at.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:16 PM
1

Hypothetically but—Who is going to tell them? I can pick up and move to a different country any time. I’m always curious about how honest people are about their n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:10 PM
2

He can have another point when he can grow a beard and I don’t even like beards. And I don’t smash anything under 9.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 01:17 PM
2

4.5 and he looks like he eats a lot of soy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:51 PM
1

Woman here and I have always appreciated my partners having their own friends of either gender. I’ve had some of those female friends have epiphanies about their friendships and wedge in but nothing ever happened. I’m self assured enough that I’m not bothered. I’ve met some great female friends this way too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 11:20 AM
2

He was saying wife though as well as gf. Surely you have vetted enough by that point that you don’t question your own choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:24 AM
2

30 is considered obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 07:28 PM
2

Who even uses silicone? I think you need to get with the 21st century and implants are saline now welcome to the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 07:27 PM
5

My point was if the woman wasn’t interested. I would perceive that sort of test as a low value move and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:53 PM
7

Do they end up single when she finds out?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:38 PM
3

I turned down one of the people on the above list in my 20s because he was wearing Birkenstocks. Birkenstocks are not high value footwear.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:37 PM
3

If you want an easy calorie up just up the whole milk.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 07:41 AM
1

Ok well that was my hypothesis as to the very American question of oh yeah then how come we can vote. We probably didn’t know we were going to make advances in neuroscience. The two have nothing to do with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:50 PM
0

I think you are replying to the wrong person. I didn’t bring up voting…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:32 PM
2

That’s exactly what I said, verbatim. 😂🙄 What I think is people need to realise they may not make their best choices until at least 25. That is also not me saying no one should make choices before 25 if you were going to say I said that next. Just be aware we’re not thinking as rationally as we would be (hopefully) with a full tool kit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:47 AM
2

Wait what? I’m older and I am at peak hotness and peak libido with a peak HVM partner. Start taking care of your body young and go see a good therapist (advice I’d give anyone).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:14 PM
1

I wanted to go back for my MFA in literature but I had to take humanities so I’m not getting an MFA in literature 😑🙄 You couldn’t pay me to take a humanities class.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:00 PM
2

I think voting laws happened before they discovered our (human not gender related) prefrontal cortex (the part we use for rational thinking) isn’t finished growing until 25?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:08 AM
11

I need a man to open jars. And it’s spider season.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:39 PM
3

Since our brains don’t even stop growing until we are 25?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:45 PM
2

She stayed with you two years before you got this job. Do you think she went to therapy to work on her plotting skills? I don’t act traditional when I’m not 100% secure in knowing my family won’t fall apart if I stop working or carrying a large part of the burden because it feels unnatural to me and I start to get anxious, irritable and very not submissive. She’s young I assume? There’s a lot going on she has to unlearn and it sounds like she’s trying.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/22 05:46 AM
2

Right? What about low libido low n count men? I’m leaving but not because I have not tried to work on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:10 PM
2

Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:09 PM
5

So much this. And disrespect is not a relationship base.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/22 09:48 AM
5

I’m always going to need a man because of spiders and tight jars.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:27 PM
2

Oh crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:04 PM
6

Suicide pact.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:44 PM
2

Where are the mixed signals? He’s been avoiding you for almost a month. Avoid him right back. Also don’t sit on your phone 🖤🖤
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/22 02:08 PM
2

Well when they go from an Alpha mentality to dropping the ball and you having to pick up the slack until you’re the keeper of the slack and running the show (the last thing I want in a relationship) get out at that point and don’t let them convince you they will change and suck you in with no change for another 8 years. I should have vetted for longer. I think I’m doing the best for both of us and it’s as amicable as possible. And thank you 🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:04 PM
2

Here I’ll start. I’m at 11 years of trying and I’m just about done. But I spent 11 years trying. I know exactly what I won’t be looking for in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 05:56 PM
3

Right? I get what I want whenever I want it and I don’t need to throw a party about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:35 AM
14

Non virgin woman here. You realise women can end relationships for reasons other than trauma right? Just because someone fails vetting doesn’t mean they hurt my feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:19 AM
4

Cute that you think women can’t use men and throw them away when we get bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 08:16 AM
3

I’d assume that the younger women were just hooking up with the older men whose hoe phases overlap. Is that not the case. I don’t think I ever dated anyone my age until my early 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:49 PM
0

I really thought 5’6” was the world average. But I’m 5’10” and you’re all very smol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:24 PM
1

Only peasants breathe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:20 PM
1

As a picky about aesthetic woman I agree that in the picture she’s a 7 at best (and I love Asian women before anyone asks).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:27 AM
1

Physics and Computer Science and a minor in Literature. I worked in computer security for almost a decade. Just because I knew I was more traditional didn’t mean I wanted to stop learning and growing. I also speak five languages. I’m an asset to my HVM.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/22 01:38 PM
2

I second this app it’s so easy to keep track of everything. Before that I was always like well today I need to do everything when I really needed to do two things and maybe a third if I didn’t want to do it the next day.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/22 09:55 AM
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