maliapani Archive

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8	Seeing redpillers describe women makes me wonder what kind of women they seek out. They blame girls who behave rationally too because rational girls would reject them.	/r/ExRedPill	13/05/22 04:08 AM
1	Now I understand why I was unsuccessful with women - it all started with my mom Here's a link of an article about attachment styles. https://www.simplypsychology.org/attachment-styles.html I'd love to recommend a book about attachment styles, it also has exercises for modelling secure attachment styles. The book is 'Attached' by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller. An article about saviour complex: https://www.healthline.com/health/savior-complex On codependency: https://psychcentral.com/lib/symptoms-signs-of-codependency As for narcissistic abuse I suggest you to watch videos by…	/r/ExRedPill	05/04/22 01:37 AM
2	Now I understand why I was unsuccessful with women - it all started with my mom I feel really sorry that you went through all that difficulties. I went through almost the same things too. Now, I'm recovering and doing great. I suggest you to learn about attachment styles, saviour complex, codependency and narcissistic abuse.	/r/ExRedPill	04/04/22 01:32 AM
3	in your opinion, what are the general characteristics in a man who whole heartedly believes in the red pill movement? Low self-esteem	/r/ExRedPill	21/03/22 03:10 AM
17	what is it like to have a husband or boyfriend red pill? Depressing, terrifying and traumatizing. Mine was not my boyfriend, just a date. Initially he love-bombed me and told me I was different than other women and I was the one he's been looking for. After a while he tried to make me feel not special because women are 'entitled'. He taught me about red pill. He even cancelled his plans with me to have sex with other women. I don't understand why he accused all women cheat when he did similar behaviours himself. He craved admiration from other women a…	/r/ExRedPill	16/12/21 02:25 PM
2	Do RedPillers have Attachment Trauma I do believe redpillers have attachment trauma.	/r/ExRedPill	15/12/21 07:00 AM
4	Ladies of /exredpill what makes you want to help men leave the Red Pill? I dated a red-pilled man once.	/r/ExRedPill	03/12/21 07:22 AM
1	In reality what will happen if you approach younger women as an older guy? And Leonardo diCaprio	/r/ExRedPill	19/11/21 06:59 AM
1	Obsessed with female validation after breaking free from inceldom/RP Sounds to me like you have anxiery and an attachment issue. I too was craving for men's validation until I addressed my attachment issue.	/r/ExRedPill	10/11/21 05:31 AM
6	Is being more appealing with older age a big myth? I think it's a myth. Not many people get more attractive and become more interesting as they get older. But people generally get wiser with age.	/r/ExRedPill	02/11/21 10:03 AM
5	Important question: how is guy supposed to be like to be considered GOOD ENOUGH to date? It's not an anecdotal evidence when it's not only the person making the statement can see the situation.	/r/ExRedPill	23/09/21 04:38 AM
3	Correlation between narcissism and red pill men? I do believe red pilled men are narcissists, be it overt or covert.	/r/ExRedPill	22/09/21 10:49 AM
3	What do you think of this guys. I like to think i left the paranoia and lack of trust behind but this Twitter thread made me sick to my stomach brought back all kinds of terrible memories Uh, I'm a woman and I don't know any woman personally who behaves like those chicks. Even if those chicks exist, they're not common I think.	/r/ExRedPill	21/09/21 10:20 AM
13	Can a short man as desirable to a woman as tall man? Or am i just always going to be second option to women. I can confirm too. I really don't care about height. I like a calm-looking, kind, and funny guy.	/r/ExRedPill	18/09/21 03:47 PM
2	Are women really more emotional/annoying that men are? If women shouldn't be allowed to work then there would be much less nurses, therapists, teachers, and many more.	/r/ExRedPill	18/09/21 03:42 PM
1	Red Pill YouTubers are bad. So who should I watch then? I would suggest you to learn about attachment theory instead of watching loads of dating advices videos.	/r/ExRedPill	18/09/21 03:58 AM
5	The idea of submissive women is gross to me Indonesia	/r/ExRedPill	08/09/21 04:35 PM
12	The idea of submissive women is gross to me There are many of RPers here in Southeast Asia, looking for those women.	/r/ExRedPill	08/09/21 01:39 PM
3	how many women in this sub? I'm a woman who had dated a red-pilled guy.	/r/ExRedPill	08/09/21 12:40 PM
1	How to make female friends? Don't you have any female relatives like an aunt or a cousin? If you do, maybe you can talk to them and ask them how.	/r/ExRedPill	07/09/21 03:55 AM
2	I used to be exactly like this "Alpha" then lost all my friends and gf Well, you gotta set good boundaries – not too porous, not too rigid. But it takes some good psychoeducation and practice. And learn to be interdependent.	/r/ExRedPill	06/09/21 02:13 PM
3	I used to be exactly like this "Alpha" then lost all my friends and gf If you want to keep your friends and gf just don't be emotionally unavailable.	/r/ExRedPill	06/09/21 09:27 AM
5	"RP guru" compared women to dogs \| Debate breakdown "I don't hate women" "Women are like 🐶" "I'm not reducing. I'm comparing. Comparing a Lamborghini with a Toyota doesn't mean I'm reducing Lamborghini." Nobody would say a Lamborghini is like a Toyota 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ "I love dogs." Love dogs=love women? "Dogs are family." OK, dogs are family, then family are dogs. Let's compare men to dogs too then 🤣 /s	/r/ExRedPill	05/09/21 08:38 AM
2	Do you guys have any YouTubers you watch for dating advice? I watch Courtney Ryan. She gives dating advices to both men and women.	/r/ExRedPill	03/09/21 06:15 AM
3	I'm scared of women.. Seems like you have a kind of mental filter where you detect toxic women and it made your radar really sensitive, and nice women have been invisible to you. I had been there, I saw many toxic men and nice men just seemed to be invisible to me. Also, I attracted toxic people because of my then insecurities. Now that the filter is gone, thanks to therapy and good social support, I see the reality that there are as many good people as the bad ones and I learned how to detect red flags.	/r/ExRedPill	03/09/21 06:13 AM
4	The Texas Anti-Abortion Bill has made me infuriated and I'm extra glad I got out of the Red Pill cult. I notice that RPers don't have any consensus about abortion. They'll just accept anything that is convenient for them.	/r/ExRedPill	03/09/21 06:03 AM
2	Rejection leads to low self esteem and perception of lower self worth Average and below average looking women don't get asked out on a date by men as frequent as good-looking women. And there are plenty of average and below average looking women. I think it's more about good-looking privilege than about gender, but of course there is still a difference between gender when it comes to rejection, mainly because women don't approach men as much as men do.	/r/ExRedPill	01/09/21 01:24 PM
2	Rejection leads to low self esteem and perception of lower self worth When your self-esteem dropped terribly after being rejected, it's a sign that you thrive on other people's validation and that you have anxious-preoccupied attachment style. I am a woman. I got rejected by men several times. It hurt. But a lot of time, rejection isn't personal. Instead of self-loathing, I tried to improve myself, learn to self-soothe and learn to be okay being alone. I still look for love. Sometimes I reject men, and it's usually because of red flags. Sometimes it's because of i…	/r/ExRedPill	01/09/21 10:02 AM
6	What percentage of women would you say are affected by redpill thinking in potential partners? Affected in what way?	/r/ExRedPill	31/08/21 04:53 AM
1	Sigma? So, are MGTOW men sigma males?	/r/ExRedPill	28/08/21 02:18 PM
5	The Red Pill Community in a Nutshell WHO HURT YOU? Ha!	/r/ExRedPill	26/08/21 11:43 PM
6	Red pill plays to people’s biggest fears He claimed he's rp'ed. He no longer my man.	/r/ExRedPill	26/08/21 02:00 AM
3	Red pill plays to people’s biggest fears Yes, I dated a western red pilled guy and I'm from Southeast Asia. These are what he believed. I wish I could educate SEA women to get rid of these men.	/r/ExRedPill	26/08/21 01:41 AM
3	this is the type of shit that got me into TRP. it makes me want to cry, man. i want to believe people in the world are good and people will love you for who you are but then again, this stuff happens. i know that the girl didn't owe the guy sex or love, he wasn't entitled to it but still, cmon This kind of situation happens to women as well.	/r/ExRedPill	25/08/21 03:32 AM
2	Any book recommendations? Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and how it Can Help You Find--and Keep--love by Amir Levine and Rachel S. F. Heller.	/r/ExRedPill	25/08/21 12:52 AM
8	Hypocrisy in the “women are only emotionally driven people” statement. Yeah, I dated a red-pilled guy and he constantly said that. And claimed that I was different. But in the end when I confronted his toxic behaviours and discrepancies with logical explanations, he told me I was too logic and have little empathy and that he would need another woman to meet the things I couldn't give him such as empathy and high degree of affection. Ironically, he was the one who was emotionally driven a lot and very impulsive in making decisions.	/r/ExRedPill	24/08/21 04:04 AM
4	What exactly is the point? What can you do? Blame the universe? Blame women who don't find you attractive? Those things aren't within your control, so let go of things you can't control. My suggestion would be to accept yourself, come to terms that most women won't choose to date you but it's not impossible to date someone, and find strategies and put more efforts to date women. Life isn't fair. I'm a short Asian woman (5'2"), I had dated someone shorter than me in my country. I'm not ugly but I literally look like a chil…	/r/ExRedPill	24/08/21 03:17 AM
13	Do women only want alpha men? No, not all women want alpha men. What does alpha even mean? If alpha man means a man who's masculine, have a high physical strength, a leader, and a highly resourceful person (well he sounds like a perfect man, this is unrealistic) many women would want him but not all women. An average woman like me would feel anxious around him because he gets to choose a much better woman than me. An 'alpha' man can be a narcissist too, which is a turn off for me.	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 09:19 AM
2	Fresh & Fit disrespecting Aba & Preach HAHAHA	/r/ExRedPill	18/08/21 09:35 AM
4	I find the "women seek providers" type of view utterly stupid. Growth must happen conventionally from both sides. And they went on to improve themselves using the RP advices. Then once they're successful they look for those gold diggers to game. Are they happy? no. Still full of rage. What a waste of time an energy.	/r/ExRedPill	17/08/21 06:00 AM
1	Red pill is the most depressing shit ever lol Lowering down your standards does not mean you have to settle for a toxic person. There tons of attractive women who are toxic. There are many average looking women who are humble and nice waiting to be discovered. Maybe just lower down your standard of physical attractiveness, learn about yourself more, figure out how have a more positive outlook because having a positive outlook attracts persons who are secure (pretty too, if you're lucky). I'd suggest you to seek help from a therapist to make…	/r/ExRedPill	17/08/21 05:50 AM
2	Red pill is the most depressing shit ever lol Exactly! Women are emotional? No, average people are emotional. Women are illogical? No, average people are illogical. All women are the same? No, average women are the same, so are average men. Women are stupid? No, average people are kind of stupid. Women can't maintain relationships? No, men and women who have insecure attachment styles can't form a healthy relationship. Be the change!	/r/ExRedPill	17/08/21 05:36 AM
1	Regarding the "You guys criticize red pill but don't offer an alternative" criticism I'm from Southeast Asia and I'm a trainee counsellor.	/r/ExRedPill	17/08/21 02:30 AM
5	Regarding the "You guys criticize red pill but don't offer an alternative" criticism Well, my advice would be not to attribute dating failures to genders. Not everything is gender specific! Another advice from me is to learn about attachments styles in order to learn about your own attachment styles and attract women with the compatible attachment style with you. People fail in dating and relationship usually because both parties have insecure attachment styles and never work out on it. Pardon my English, I am not a native speaker.	/r/ExRedPill	17/08/21 02:12 AM