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2	All the guy's I've [F22] asked out so far had girlfriends Cause then you can pick the guy you like vs the guy who just shows up. Also as others said, women are much more well-received by men than vice versa. But anyway, big kudos for putting yourself out there. A lot of women can't deal with the rejection, so just remember to stay positive.	/r/seduction	21/06/25 03:38 PM
16	Why are women physically attracted to guys with a porn star profile? "Trust me bro."	/r/seduction	21/05/25 12:32 AM
6	Why are women physically attracted to guys with a porn star profile? Lmfaoooo That "Build a man" got me lol.	/r/seduction	20/05/25 11:12 PM
5	How many of you fake being into things like astrology and tarot cards to get laid? Bruh 💀💀💀	/r/seduction	24/11/24 11:53 AM
4	How many of you fake being into things like astrology and tarot cards to get laid? This sums it up perfectly. Especially "playfully tease and entertain." That's pretty much a cornerstone of seduction in itself.	/r/seduction	24/11/24 11:47 AM
2	How To Sexually Escalate On A Date Yeah I still think it's a good video. Just could have used a better script.	/r/seduction	09/11/24 10:48 PM
7	How To Sexually Escalate On A Date Just remember, if you watch OP's video: a well-timed "That's what she said" is probably not gonna get you laid. Also telling a girl "I bet you like a dominant man in bed," is also not gonna score you a lot of points- unless she was already waiting to have sex with you.... It's hard to come up with examples verbatim, because they are gonna mostly be situational. If she says her day sucked, making it sexual might just piss her off. But if instead you're like "Oh my God that's terrible. I bet you c…	/r/seduction	09/11/24 05:07 PM
4	How To Sexually Escalate On A Date Yeah if she has a ring or bracelet- anything you can ask her questions about (maybe it's sentimental and she tells you a story) and also ask to look at- is gonna help break that touch barrier. Hell even if she just got her nails done: notice it, ask if you can see them, hold her hand, compliment them. Little things like this will make her more interested and actually feel something about you. So many guys could use advice like this if they keep hearing "You were really nice, but I just didn't fe…	/r/seduction	09/11/24 04:26 PM
1	Good girls are usually picked up from the field by age of 25 at most Jesus Christ for real lmao.	/r/seduction	17/10/24 06:20 AM
3	What happens to those guys who can easily get sex, but not a relationship? A lot of people lie to themselves as well. And shift the blame to the other person in the relationship. Or justify their actions/attitude because they don't want to "settle." But they're often conflating settling with compromising, and compromises are important in relationships.	/r/seduction	24/09/24 12:14 AM
11	What happens to those guys who can easily get sex, but not a relationship? Idk if it's the "cheating vibes" or more so those guys have programmed themselves to get laid and be overall self-serving. People talk about red flags and deal breakers these days, but everyone has red flags. Deal breakers are another story, but I've found a lot of people to be insanely picky and then wonder why they're not happy and can't hold a relationship. They just keep blaming the world...	/r/seduction	23/09/24 11:50 PM
7	What happens to those guys who can easily get sex, but not a relationship? Bro you perfectly summed it up. Relationships are work and people who "want a ltr but it never seems to work out" almost always self sabotage. I see men and women both do it and it's very common these days with the advent of instant gratification and swipeable dating partners.	/r/seduction	23/09/24 11:40 PM
1	The reason why you run out of things to say (and how to fix it) Yeah I agree. His examples read as rigid/generic, so I was kind of assuming he was giving generic examples because, well, it's generic advice. You can't give specific advice without knowing the specific situation. This isn't an exhaustive guideline, it's just basic pointers to help people keep a conversation flowing.	/r/seduction	13/09/24 05:53 PM
3	Family treating you different after learning seduction? Hold on, still trying to decipher what I just read....	/r/seduction	13/09/24 01:15 PM
2	How can I break my fear of cold approach? Old ladies are such a treasure. They always will carry on a convo at the grocery store lol. I've not yet made the leap to chatting up younger women randomly, but I'm working on my self confidence to get there.	/r/seduction	11/09/24 04:08 PM
1	How likely are girls to cheat? Just Google and read more than one article, cause some will push an extreme number. As the other person said, the number could be higher due to people lying in surveys (or lying to themselves 🤷🏻).	/r/seduction	09/09/24 09:01 PM
0	How likely are girls to cheat? I think it's like 20-25% for men and 15-20% for women. But I believe that's concerning married people, unmarried would be even more common.	/r/seduction	09/09/24 08:30 PM
2	Getting rejected by 200+ women in a row... now what? Could just be that you are not creating enough interest for them. It's not all about looks, women are also attracted to a guy who is confident and fun. If you meet a girl who wants to hang out, make sure she has fun, try to be subtle but you definitely want to flirt with her. If she gets the vibes you're just a friendly shy boy, she'll file you into friend zone. But also, you're young. Don't sweat stuff too much, I was a virgin til I was 18 and already graduated HS. And I never put in the work t…	/r/seduction	06/09/24 04:16 AM
1	Getting rejected by 200+ women in a row... now what? So you're in highschool. Do you have any friend groups? In HS you should try to have a few friends groups to hang out with. You can meet girls more organically this way-- not a lot of girls are gonna be receptive to you asking them out in the lunchroom or while they're grabbing books at their locker. Also, congrats on the weight loss. Keep working out though, your competitors at this age are all the jocks and kids lifting weights in gym class and after school. I know when I was in HS, me and all…	/r/seduction	06/09/24 12:33 AM
3	How to be more dominantly flirty as a male partner? Be more bold and assertive. I'm guessing y'all have had sex? Reference some of that stuff in public, but only loud enough for her to hear. Or say what you want to do later in the bedroom. Or even just compliment how sexy she looks. Could be her dress, jeans, her hair that day, perfume, whatever. Or even suggest she wears a certain outfit that drives you crazy. Stare into her eyes and entice her to give you a kiss when you guys are out. Give her butt a spank sometimes. When you kiss at home, be m…	/r/seduction	01/09/24 09:43 PM
4	What questions can I ask girls when approaching? This one is really a classic conversation starter. Plus if she starts dropping compliments, there's a good chance she's interested.	/r/seduction	30/08/24 08:50 PM
1	Is it even worth learning night game? I live in the suburbs, so there's lots of city fairs, church picnics (don't knock it lol), local clubs that do events. You kind of have to keep an eye out for events or be a member of the clubs (or in my case, know members). Occasionally you do an event and everyone who shows up is like 50+ years old lol. In a big city, idk if they allow volunteer bartenders because of licensing and stuff. Most big events subcontract bartenders. It's definitely not overflowing with hot girls like at a dance club…	/r/seduction	27/08/24 04:47 AM
14	How to get laid with minimal conversation My mans hittin her with that spritz had to be what set it off. That sounds so fancy even I wanna fuck you. But seriously, this is solid advice. After a good date, see if she wants to go to your place. It's straightforward, but not blunt. However, being a good conversationalist is a huge bonus. If you feel stiff or distant, a woman is not gonna feel connected to you. If you're not fun or funny, she's just gonna feel bored. I feel like enjoying conversation genuinely is a better payoff than "What …	/r/seduction	27/08/24 01:56 AM
0	Is it even worth learning night game? Idk if it's a thing in your city, but try to find events where you can be a volunteer bartender. You get to talk to literally everyone. It's a great way to hone your speaking skills with strangers. Plus you can test jokes/banter. Everyone loves you. You get free drinks. You can be flirty, but then- boom- you walk away to go serve another customer. It's actually a ton of fun too. But then there's the off-chance you rizz up some girls and one of them keeps going back to the bar looking for you. Yo…	/r/seduction	26/08/24 07:53 AM
2	Girl flakes but apologised and asked to reschedule. What to do? I'm with this dude on this one. I mean, she didn't even give an explanation and she completely stood you up. I see the general consensus is to just unmatch and move on, and it's not bad advice. But I guess I'm just a forgiving person, cause I'd hear if her apology at least sounds genuine. I'd prolly say "Idk if I'm free tomorrow, but maybe you can take me somewhere nice to make up for standing me up." And if she gets defensive or deflects, it's over. If she apologizes and gives a genuine explana…	/r/seduction	26/08/24 06:04 AM
7	Need some sense slapped into me 33m went on a date with 21f Oh for fuck's sake 🤦🏻. A sugar daddy website?!? Bro....get up from your chair, go into your kitchen and grab a bottle of vodka, pour yourself a shot, down it, and then slap yourself in the face. Maybe bite a lime, idk. You've got other girls on the line too? Talk to some of them. Make a date plan with the 21yo girl too. I know you're trying to be cool and calm, but if she doesn't respond to that, try being more.....fun. Take her dancing or something; show her you can keep up with the younger guy…	/r/seduction	26/08/24 04:15 AM
5	Need some sense slapped into me 33m went on a date with 21f Hold him down, I'm putting a bar of soap into a tube sock.	/r/seduction	26/08/24 03:49 AM
1	Looking for flings, hookups; but all the women i meet want a relationship. In that case, you gotta shit or get off the pot. Make a move and see how she reacts. If she shuts you down and/or starts having the relationship talk with you, then just move on. If you don't want a relationship, then don't keep trying with a girl that is expecting that out of you. There're plenty of more women to go talk to.	/r/seduction	24/08/24 08:11 PM
1	Looking for flings, hookups; but all the women i meet want a relationship. Lol I mean, you could try dating her? That's always an option, unless you're terrified of the idea of getting tied into a relationship. Otherwise, show her you're interested. Try making a move, see if she's into you (it sounds like she is). If she immediately starts pushing for a relationship, well, then you're at a crossroad. I also don't like lying, so I'd just be upfront about it. If a girl asked me what I'm looking for, I'd tell her "I'm not sure." Normally I wouldn't get the relationship ta…	/r/seduction	24/08/24 08:16 AM
0	Unintentionally ignored a girl and got laid you could of slapped her and she would be into you. For some girls it's a perk, actually lol.	/r/seduction	23/08/24 12:31 AM
2	Gents, give me your best covert/subtle ways to make a woman horny Yeah I guess I could have elaborated.	/r/seduction	21/08/24 02:48 PM
2	Gents, give me your best covert/subtle ways to make a woman horny What's intimidating about someone's cry for help? Bro sounds troubled and I was being sincere...	/r/seduction	17/08/24 04:21 AM
1	Gents, give me your best covert/subtle ways to make a woman horny Have you tried a therapist?	/r/seduction	15/08/24 09:13 PM
1	Why so hard despite being attractive? Bars at closing time.	/r/seduction	27/07/24 03:00 AM
4	Could we all be less attractive than we think? OLD is more like the crucible to find out if you're really attractive. But also, location, good photos, and other eye-catchers are gonna be a factor with that. That being said, average looking people (men) still get matches, they just don't get flooded with them.	/r/seduction	27/07/24 12:42 AM
6	I always see people say aproach 100 girls, but whats the point if u know it's not gonna work Sounds like he's taken right now, but if you wait patiently, maybe he'll get freed up and you can see for yourself lmao.	/r/seduction	18/07/24 12:07 PM
2	I always see people say aproach 100 girls, but whats the point if u know it's not gonna work Bro stop obsessing over being a metalhead. I fuckin love metal, but I don't make it my whole life. I listen to heavier stuff than 90% of people I meet, but I also listen to other music. It's okay if all you like is metal, but listening to the same music as your partner isn't necessarily the foundation of a relationship. If that's the thing you value most, then I'd suggest finding places where metal girls congregate and try talking to girls in those settings. However, there's no guarantee those g…	/r/seduction	18/07/24 12:03 PM
15	I always see people say aproach 100 girls, but whats the point if u know it's not gonna work I wouldn't call it rudeness as much as tough love. Especially when people have a defeatist mindset, you kinda gotta slap them out of that thought process.	/r/seduction	18/07/24 11:32 AM
3	Anyone else have a difficult time saying no to sex? We all have our own personal battles. Some people combat loneliness because they have nobody in life, others because they're surrounded by people but still feel alone. If you feel empty, find out what you're missing in life. And find out what you need to do to get those things. I'd still recommend a hiatus from partying for a little while to clear your head. Including drugs. Dry out your system for a few months (it's gonna suck ass, btw) and reassess what you're looking for. It sounds like you a…	/r/seduction	07/07/24 04:46 AM
5	Anyone else have a difficult time saying no to sex? I checked your post history and I feel like you already know what you have to do.... Club life is fun and so are hookups, and hey drugs are fun too. But when you consistently get high and go fuck randos every weekend, you're probably gonna run into mental health issues. Start to feel empty. Burned out. The self-worth issue is just a symptom, I think. All of your enjoyment is short term. Your finances might even be short term. You said you have a good job, but spending hundreds to thousands weekl…	/r/seduction	06/07/24 08:15 PM
4	How to be happy alone Well one question is: how much do you have going on in your life right now? Part of being happy alone is having hobbies, career goals, family, friends, etc. All of that stuff brings contentment to your life. Go see your friends, have a good time doing what you like to do. Get some hobbies: go birdwatching, hiking, play some video games, build a bookshelf. Anything that makes you happy. A new thing I've found very fun and accomplishes both contentment and female interaction is volunteering at loc…	/r/seduction	01/07/24 08:31 AM
3	Constantly getting ghosted after sex. Are you making a separation between "date" and "hookup" here? Like you've only been on one date, and it went nowhere. But you've met a couple girls for a hookup? Also what's the context of the hookups? Did you just pull a girl from the bar? Online? And yeah, if you meet a girl to just hook up, then there's your answer. Unless you were incredible at sex or you guys hung out prior (and she had a really fun time!), she prolly won't be interested going forward. If you wanna meet a girl for a LTR, th…	/r/seduction	01/07/24 05:14 AM
1	What are some interesting openers to start a conversation at Costco/Any store Goddammit 😭😭	/r/seduction	09/06/24 01:31 PM
6	What are some interesting openers to start a conversation at Costco/Any store Aight the "club scene" one was funny as fuck lol.	/r/seduction	09/06/24 01:28 PM
1	What are some interesting openers to start a conversation at Costco/Any store Or get her to talk about herself.	/r/seduction	09/06/24 01:27 PM
2	So if it’s standard practice to get rejected in 99+% of approaches you make. What can you do to make your approaches more meaningful? I answered similarly to him, but your answer was so much better ❤️	/r/seduction	06/05/24 02:00 AM
1	So if it’s standard practice to get rejected in 99+% of approaches you make. What can you do to make your approaches more meaningful? I think you're just looking at it wrong. We're talking cold approach here, you can't get upset every time you get rejected by a complete stranger. And feeling sorry for yourself will just mess up your head game. Now you're feeling doubtful and insecure, and you want to go talk to another girl? Doesn't sound like a recipe for success.... Also, equating getting rejected once to the death of a family member.... Aren't we being a bit dramatic here? If every time you get rejected, you feel remorse an…	/r/seduction	06/05/24 01:56 AM
0	So if it’s standard practice to get rejected in 99+% of approaches you make. What can you do to make your approaches more meaningful? Only a few thousand and you're worried there's not enough? My guy, it would take years just to approach one thousand women. Maybe you could do it in a year, averaging 3 approaches per day. At that point, if you haven't gotten good at it, have you really been focusing on improving?	/r/seduction	06/05/24 01:31 AM
87	why does it seem like the less energy a man puts into women, the better his life gets? such an enigma I shit you not I did that at work by accident. An inspector (female, very attractive) was doing a job for several days in our area, and the guys were just goo goo for her. Trying their best at small talk, one was asking about her military service (he was a veteran), trying to get that common ground lol. Anyway then one day I kinda just signed her on to work, busted her balls cause her partner was overdo for a shave (company policy), and sent her on her merry way. Then later she came in to sign o…	/r/seduction	12/04/24 08:55 PM
1	Should I not pay for the ubers for a hookup? Yeah but it sounds like he smashed anyway... It'd be different if he was so disgusted he just walked out lol.	/r/seduction	25/03/24 06:02 PM
1	are there any other guys on here in the US who are in their 30s living with their parents and are still able to hook up or date with women? Idk, I'm selling the house in the divorce, and moving in with my parents, so I guess I'm gonna find out.	/r/seduction	16/03/24 04:57 PM
2	What do you do the next day after a one night stand? Have you talked to your doctor about ED meds? Some of them you just take daily and it keeps you ready to go.	/r/seduction	12/03/24 06:28 AM
2	Back after 8 years If you think being a stronger role model and leader is beta, idk what to tell you. Or even at a baser level: being compassionate and loving. Nobody in this sub is going to tell you those are beta qualities. You just have to do those things while staying in a masculine state.	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/11/23 02:49 AM
3	Back after 8 years Please don't ever have kids.	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/11/23 02:39 AM
3	Back after 8 years Kinda weird that you said "beta traits" followed by a list of "great job, great father, husband."	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/11/23 02:07 AM
1	Wife wants to host her nephew and his roommate (who neither of us know) in our house I guess that's a fair perspective for you then, but it's not just the US, I've heard in some countries in Europe, divorce is even worse for men. But you can hold frame without there having to be a threat of divorce. Generally speaking, every fight shouldn't result in threats of divorce, otherwise your relationship is probably halfway in the grave anyway.	/r/MarriedRedPill	19/11/23 06:25 AM
1	Wife wants to host her nephew and his roommate (who neither of us know) in our house He said he "cupped his hand over her mouth hard" to get her to shut up. Also I see your arguments with other guys here about "women should be afraid of divorce, not men" but have you ever been divorced? As a man and breadwinner, getting divorced sucks donkey dick. First you get the enjoyment of having the State cut off one of your legs and give it to your ex-wife, then you get generally less than 50% custody of your children and have to pay more so your ex-wife has enough money to raise them. Th…	/r/MarriedRedPill	19/11/23 06:00 AM
1	You'll never be too platonic if you just know how to ESCALATE I gotta say, I find it a bit surprising since I've always heard people recommend the opposite. I've heard "teenagers sit next to each other" or "guys with nothing of substance to talk about." I've also heard that having good conversation/strong eye contact helps the "sitting across" argument. Now this may all be advice specifically for finding a relationship and not a hookup. This would make a good thread even by itself lol.	/r/seduction	30/07/23 07:59 PM
2	You'll never be too platonic if you just know how to ESCALATE See, I've always heard to sit across from your date. And that women can think it's "juvenile" if you choose to sit next to her, like for instance at a restaurant. After reading this article, I see that obviously sitting next to them will automatically make you closer. But is it more mature/confident to sit across from her and still find ways to maybe make her reach out so you could touch her hand (just for starters during a date)?	/r/seduction	30/07/23 06:58 PM