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| 1 | Dear “nice guys”........They’re all human beings regardless of whether they act 15 and waste your time. And every human being deserves a basic level of respect even if you don’t like them. And if you do respect them then making those blanket statements about their whole gender gives the wrong impression of you, and aren’t you here because you want women to like you? | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 06:38 AM |
| 2 | Dear “nice guys”........What else can someone do when their beliefs don’t stand up to scrutiny | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 06:33 AM |
| 3 | Dear “nice guys”........Nah thanks that’s a hard pass for me. I love men but I’d 100% prefer dying single with cats and wine than be submissive to anyone, male or female. By the way, a submissive IS another problem to solve because by definition she will not take the lead on things, including her own problem-solving. At some point you made the leap to equating independent women with being another problem and didn’t explain why. Lastly it is completely possible to be supportive without being submissive, the way some hus… | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Dear “nice guys”........Edginess has nothing to do with tattoos and piercings. You can stay true to yourself and have a little bit of spice to you. Can you take a joke? Can you dish it out? How’s your banter, how’s your wit? Can your jokes be a little irreverent? Can you go after what you want while still being confident enough not to be crushed by rejection? Don’t be pushy, nobody likes that. Be the guy bold enough to state what you want from her, and confident enough not to get butthurt if she says no. Respect and en… | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 02:21 AM |
| 0 | Dear “nice guys”........Kind of you :) | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Dear “nice guys”........Hmm being like that only hurts you with women, you know. We are very good at telling when a man secretly has low opinions of us as a whole | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 02:08 AM |
| 6 | Dear “nice guys”........Nah man. These are cheat codes for some women, not all. And I promise women want men just as bad, think of how much most women want to be married and see it as a life requirement | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 02:06 AM |
| 6 | Dear “nice guys”........🤷🏾♀️ I’m sorry brother. That’s why I said it depends on the woman. For every woman you meet who wants a man to take charge, there’s another one who wants to make decisions together. Politics aside, would you walk up to a woman like Jacinda Ardern and try to “take charge” of her life? She’d laugh you out of NZ. That’s why it’s important to consider what kind of woman you’re pursuing and whether you are well-suited together. | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 12:20 AM |
| 71 | Dear “nice guys”........Eh that’s just you. It depends on the woman. I like a self-confident, kind, and witty guy. I like banter and men who know themselves- I hate hearing “I don’t know” as an answer, especially about himself. He doesn’t need to be an “alpha” or “take charge” for it to be a spicy relationship. I’m a grown woman making plenty of money in a good career, I don’t give a flying shit about a man taking charge. If anything I’d avoid that man, because I’m not interested in being treated like a child at home a… | /r/seduction | 27/04/21 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Lost virginity from listening to sedditNo problem man you got this | /r/seduction | 05/04/21 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Lost virginity from listening to sedditDon’t waste your precious time on guys with silly rules like these. Flip it around. If they won’t give head but insist that the girl has to, you’re ending it anyway | /r/seduction | 05/04/21 05:03 AM |
| 4 | Lost virginity from listening to sedditHmm. So once I was going on another date and told a past hookup about it. He made some snarky comment about how I “need” to go on dates and fuck people. Blocked him. A couple people’s tones changed- they never said anything directly but you could tell they were being mean and shitty cause they were butt hurt. Ain’t got time for that, I quit texting. Here’s an example of what to do. I casually dated this dude for 4 months then he moved away, but we kept texting. Then I told him I was going on a d… | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Lost virginity from listening to sedditNegatively respond to me talking about other guys on dates? It doesn’t happen because I have a ruthless filter for insecure guys. If I get a whiff of jealousy when we’re texting, dates don’t happen and I end things. No one’s ever had a bad reaction to it in person. I also encourage an atmosphere of openness during my dates, like we can talk about anything. It makes things more comfortable. I’m not gonna get jealous if a guy wants to talk about the cute girl in marketing and I expect the same | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 07:19 PM |
| 4 | Lost virginity from listening to sedditThe way OP responded is perfect. It creates a conspiratorial bond with the girl and you come off confident as fuck. Don’t brag about your own girls (yes that comes off douche-y) I’ll give you the flip side. I was once on a date where the guy was talking about one of his crushes. I legit just talked to him about it and helped him with his game with her. I mean why not, right? She’s not a threat to me, if this guy ends up choosing her over me, there’s a million other guys to step in. Note: the guy… | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 07:10 PM |
| 4 | Lost virginity from listening to sedditNah. Confident dudes wouldn’t have | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Lost virginity from listening to sedditI agree with almost everything in your post except telling her that you tense up. Honestly I feel like that could kill the vibe or take away the carefree element. Obviously if this is a recurring issue with the same girl, I’d talk about it. But if it’s a first time hookup, I’m smoking a J to relax. Honestly hookups should never be 100% sober if you’re the type to tense up | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Lost virginity from listening to sedditSure but you gotta have some evidence before you assume they are shit tests. Giving the benefit of the doubt is a sign of confidence. I wouldn’t assume an action is malicious unless there’s some solid evidence in that direction. In this post, OP describes these as shit tests and I just don’t see anything to support that. Jumping to that conclusion seems insecure, that’s why I sent that reply above. Could be a shit test, but it’s more likely that she assumes her hookup is confident so she doesn’t… | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 06:47 PM |
| 10 | Lost virginity from listening to sedditYeah stay slow, keep your strokes even and long. Eventually build up to medium speed, I wouldn’t jackhammer until the very last few minutes when you’re about to finish. I’ve had many hookups who spend the entire penetration time just jackhammering as fast as they can. I’ve asked, not a single one of my girlfriends likes that shit. It doesn’t feel good and can actually hurt. The best ones are always the ones that slowly and deliberately make you feel every inch. Hula hooping the hips has never do… | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 06:38 PM |
| 5 | Lost virginity from listening to sedditLittle bit of booze, little bit of weed. Remember you’re important in this too. If you’re not having fun or you’re not feeling it or if you’re in your head too much, you don’t have to go ahead and have sex. You can cancel for another time. Sex is never something you HAVE to do, scarcity mindset isn’t helpful here. Best of luck | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Lost virginity from listening to sedditTry to rub her clit or suck/play with her nipples during penetration, it’ll elevate the experience | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 06:32 PM |
| 6 | Lost virginity from listening to sedditAre they shit tests or did that girl just not have a scarcity mindset? Think about it for a second. You’re a single girl on a casual hookup date. You’re not gonna pretend like you don’t have guy friends or bother hiding harmless crushes from a hookup, right? They’re not your husband, they’re a hookup (at that point in time anyway, could lead to more later or not). A self-confident dude won’t give a shit about crushes and guy friends, and an insecure dude would act like an asshole (therefore lett… | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 06:08 AM |
| 2 | Lost virginity from listening to sedditIf you’re in your head too much, smoke some weed and drink a little (not too much) | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 06:04 AM |
| 75 | Lost virginity from listening to sedditLots of soft touching on non-sexual body areas Make out. She likes to make out? Fucking make out. Girls love that shit and it gets us going. Get that neck and collarbones too, don’t be boring Foreplay. Look up videos to become good at it. Don’t even think about 5 seconds of foreplay then quitting When fingering, clit > penetration. Again, clit > penetration. Don’t ignore them boobs, but they’re not goddamn hackey sacks. Be gentle and center around the nipple, nobody gets off on just their whole … | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 05:58 AM |
| 7 | Lost virginity from listening to sedditSo you were chill, didn’t act like a possessive weirdo, treated her like a real human and enjoyed her company, and you were self-confident enough not to be needlessly threatened by her guy friends. Good job! You don’t need shitty PUA techniques, you were good, decent, and charming and got the girl all by yourself | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 05:51 AM |
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