mamakolo Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Always, ALWAYS check his phone	MALE DEPRAVITY	mamakolo	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/06/21 02:40 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
34	Always, ALWAYS check his phone I am filled with gratitude. Your support means a lot to me. Thank you all so much.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/06/21 09:40 PM
177	Always, ALWAYS check his phone I've asked him to leave. My mum is coming over tomorrow. I couldn't tell her on the phone. My best friend is on her way over.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/06/21 09:00 PM
49	Always, ALWAYS check his phone He had hidden apps on his phone. I know most of his passwords, and I was able to use his fingerprints to throughly access most of his phone while he was sleeping. I'm not sure why, and I've been asking him: was it stupidity or arrogance that made him not change his passwords all these years? I have not felt the need to go through his messages for years now. In fact, until now, I never have. I think he just got too comfortable. I was too stupid and naive. He is my husband. I thought I knew everyt…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/06/21 08:55 PM
28	Always, ALWAYS check his phone Thank you. I will.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/06/21 08:45 PM
30	Always, ALWAYS check his phone OK, I'm not broken. I laughed. Thanks sis!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/06/21 08:44 PM
309	Always, ALWAYS check his phone This group is simply amazing. I feel validated and supported, even though I don't know any of you. You strengthen my resolve. I used to be the one on the other side giving advice, but let me tell you, it's very different when you're the one passing through it. This is easily the worst thing that has ever happened to me. I will not lie, I have considered staying. I am terrified of starting over, of being alone. He has suggested counselling, both for his sex addiction, and marriage counselling. He…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/06/21 08:15 PM
138	Always, ALWAYS check his phone Thank you, thank you for the support. I have been unable to tell anyone. I feel so ashamed. I think I really need help. I need to call my mum.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/06/21 07:22 PM
140	Always, ALWAYS check his phone I've been feeling so ashamed. I feel like a wounded animal. I haven't told anyone about this. My friends think I'm ill. I don't know how to face our friends and family. I am just trying to believe that it is not my fault. Thank you for the kind words.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/06/21 07:12 PM
355	Always, ALWAYS check his phone I know. He has been begging nonstop. He mentioned sex addiction. What even is that? How is this my life??	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/06/21 07:01 PM
337	Always, ALWAYS check his phone Thank you so much. However painful all this has been, I am glad I found out. The truth has set me free.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/06/21 06:58 PM
140	Always, ALWAYS check his phone I've been googling divorce lawyers in my area. To say I'm unprepared, would be an understatement. The good news is that I'm entering the anger stage. I'm determined to get my pound of flesh. He will not ruin my life.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/06/21 06:57 PM
30	Bought myself my own ring cause I was tired of waiting around for someone else to do it. Such a pretty ring! Give us the deets!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/04/21 03:29 PM
1	Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow. It's really quite unbelievable. I'm 2 days late, and I'm shocked by what I'm reading. I've never seen FDS so divided. I guess people feel very strongly about this couple.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/21 04:12 PM
1	How can I avoid getting too emotionally attached early on and letting myself get led on? I understand perfectly what you are feeling. We have all been there. Men toying with women's emotions after luring them into relationships, is nothing new. There's solid advice in the other comments. Additionally, the eleven year age gap is less than ideal. You need to not just match his energy, but make sure his energy always exceeds yours. Detach from him emotionally. Stop waiting for his phone calls. Stop sending him messages. Seek validation elsewhere (not just from other men). Find ways to …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/03/21 02:29 PM
7	I finally broke up with him, thanks to FDS. You're awesome. Thanks, on her behalf.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/21 06:38 PM
10	Why it's unfair to compare FDS and TRP These damaged, emotionally stunted men put in so much effort into getting meaningless sex from vulnerable women. There really are no depths they will not plumb in order to bring women down. It's quite sad, really. The only way to fight this is by having information on their tactics, which is why spaces like FDS exist.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/21 03:03 PM