| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 10 | Seduction and being short - my personal experience and adviceThis is an amazing post. Thank you! | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 03:15 PM |
| 15 | Signs when she is not interestedI did this for 4 months this year. Can agree daydreaming leads to unrealistic expectations | /r/seduction | 22/08/21 01:48 AM |
| 46 | If there is one thing that would attract you the most about a woman, what would it be?I have to agree that low-confidence influenced my choice to slowly take my partner for granted and lose interest. My loss of interest was ultimately down to me, but having to reassure my ex 24/7 that she’s good enough bc she never believed in herself was exhausting, especially bc she was talented and brilliant as it is. Support is one thing. But I can’t/it’s not my responsibility to make you believe in yourself. Edit: Whatever it is you’re not confident about, you can definitely overcome that in… | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Be confident and you'll attract womenYes! Kind of! Sometimes we attract people on accident when interested in those that are opposite to those we accidentally attract. Things can be two things! | /r/seduction | 29/10/20 03:34 AM |
| 1 | When women test you, they are providing you with an opportunity for you to prove yourselfQuality post. | /r/seduction | 29/10/20 03:29 AM |
| 2 | How idealism and daydreams can destroy your dating gameFantastic post. | /r/seduction | 29/10/20 02:06 AM |
| 2 | A Simple, but effective TestNope. But you missed mine. You stated “It’s not your skin tone (which you can’t prove or disprove, that’s for a women or minority to speak on) it’s your tone in general. You look like shit in a shirt”. Many people of color look/feel great in a shirt and are still perceived as non-desirable bc of skin tone. I didn’t say complaining about skin tone is worthwhile, but it’s a factor separate from how one feels in a shirt. | /r/seduction | 28/10/20 09:59 PM |
| -2 | A Simple, but effective TestI agree with EVERYTHING you said minus the bit about minorities. If you’re not a minority then you can’t possibly comment on the experience of being, say black, in a mostly white environment, for example. Neither can you comment on a women’s thoughts about people of color or how men of color perceive their own interactions with women of non-color or their experience with women in general. Great advice otherwise. But if you’re not a minority, your advice regarding that has absolutely no weight or… | /r/seduction | 28/10/20 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Notice good looking women are nicer to guys who look similar, anyone else?Neither this comment or your original one is backed by any scientific or otherwise evidence. It’s entirely anecdotal. You can’t speak for everyone’s experience by saying “this doesn’t really apply to skin color”. Your original comment said “similarities”. If you look at most couples, they date within their own ethnicity and race. It doesn’t get more similar than that. Literally lol. Also, none of the girls I’ve dated have had the same facial or body features as me, most were not my skin color an… | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Notice good looking women are nicer to guys who look similar, anyone else?Agreed | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 02:28 PM |
| 11 | Notice good looking women are nicer to guys who look similar, anyone else?This almost completely goes out the window with white and black couples. I’ve almost exclusively date girls of other ethnicities whose skin tone and features don’t resemble me in the slightest lol. | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 02:46 AM |
| 1 | How to re-approach a girl?Appreciate the feedback. To your second point, going back I'll never know unless I try; guess that's why I should be bold right? :) | /r/seduction | 06/01/16 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Got rejected badly but at least I triedThanks! | /r/seduction | 04/01/16 03:38 PM |
| 138 | Got rejected badly but at least I triedYou did the right thing by trying! Be proud of yourself. I know it's disappointing she said no this time, but she's not the only girl out there and more importantly you took a step forward in approaching someone, female or not. Might try asking directly next time as well. I just went through something mildly similar, but you'll get more comfortable in your approach. Great job dude and keep your head up! | /r/seduction | 03/01/16 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Finally asked out a girl 2 years after a break upNot a bad idea. I was just hesitant since she didn't suggest lunch or something. | /r/seduction | 03/01/16 07:18 PM |
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