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27

My ex-boyfriend had said no to something minor I requested, something like choosing what to eat for dinner, and as I walked by I playfully called him a “butthead” and lightly socked him in the shoulder. He grabbed me by the shoulders, threw me down, smacked the back of my head against the coffee table, and spit in my face and said “this is what I think of you.” I was seriously playing around and had barely touched him. He “apologized” later, saying he was sorry he lost control, but he had warned…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 06:45 AM
105

I saved that to remind me to use it in the future 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 04:31 PM
72

I think it was $48. I only know because it’s the only palette I ever wanted badly enough to pay full price 😆 Usually I’d wait for a sale. But it was totally worth it. This guy would be replacing Wild West and adding Honey to my collection as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 07:17 AM
162

Agreed! I see Naked Wild West and a Natasha Denona. This is why my kid only gets to play with my Ipsy cast-offs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 10:17 PM
298

Not Naked Wild West!! Aughhhh!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 10:16 PM
78

There’s a scientific theory I read that pairings work best for about seven years because that’s enough time to make a baby and get it to an age that the “village” can step in and help raise it. I could see that making sense, considering kids start school around that age and are a lot more independent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 12:13 AM
27

I would love this too. I have a young daughter and I try to do the best I can to teach her to have self-respect and standards. I didn’t try to make it work with her crummy dad. I teach her that no one can touch her without her consent, and to not be afraid to make a scene if she’s being bothered. I tell her to focus on her girlfriends and not her crushes. I also use examples of toxic relationships in songs/TV to call out inappropriate male behavior. But I’m sure there’s a ton of things I’m missi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 04:43 AM
129

I am so tired of people ragging on Michelle Obama. She’s brilliant, genuine, gorgeous, and in fantastic shape. A cheap shot at her is the easiest way to get me to know a person is never worth talking to again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 05:40 PM
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I am so tired of people ragging on Michelle Obama. She’s brilliant, genuine, gorgeous, and in fantastic shape. A cheap shot at her is the easiest way to get me to know a person is never worth talking to again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 05:40 PM
203

Hahaha. Some guy tried quizzing me on how many moons Jupiter had, and while I didn’t know the number, I started listing the names of the ones I knew. Then when I gave him trivia back he’s like “why do you know this shit?!” They all suck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 04:55 AM
13

These are the guys around me as well. All “entrepreneurs,” yet can’t really explain what they do. I assume it means living off their parents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 12:17 AM
42

One of the OG partners at the firm I work at is such an old-school, I-never-changed-a-diaper-in-my-life type man. But years ago late one night when he was walking out of his office I saw him stop and gaze at his wife’s picture on his shelf and say out loud to it “my god, (name), you’re beautiful.” He’s 82 now and loves her more than ever. It’s pretty sweet, honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 04:38 AM
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No doubt I became a bang maid, but I do genuinely love him, I’ve known him for 13 years, he’s been my roommate, coworker, best friend. I know I’m safe around him, I know he takes consent seriously, I know he’s honest, I know he’s good with money, I know he is kind and helpful to his mother. He cares about social justice and the environment, and puts time and effort into helping with both. He’s seen me at my absolute worst, helped me move, supported me through my estrangement with my parents, sha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 05:43 PM
13

One of my best guy friends and I recently hooked up for a while. I love him dearly and trust him more than anyone I know, we’ve gone through a ton together, at times I would have happily married the dude. But what happened this time was he’d come over, I’d cook us a yummy dinner (a current hobby, so decent meals, not cheap crap), he’d do his laundry here, we’d fool around, and he’d leave. Cost me effort, groceries, and utilities. I didn’t feel wanted at all, and I probably wasn’t, hahaha. We’re …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 04:30 PM
59

Haha! It’s funny, she looks more like him, but luckily she got the sharp chin the women in my family all have. Her Dad is a handsome guy, I often say that… mostly because for a couple years it was the only nice thing I could say about the man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 06:26 AM
94

This is ALL I can think about when I see a guy with a long beard. I just imagine all the poop particles, and food bits, and all the men who talk about going down and leaving the um… essence of the woman in his beard, to enjoy all day. Makes me want to vomit just typing that out. I don’t mind short scruff but anything long is foul.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 04:04 AM
172

Omg, the first time I saw my daughter’s father without a beard she was already a year old. I could only sputter “wow… you have no chin!” He’s like “yeah, no shit, why do you think I have it?” Hahahaha. Payback for commenting on my after-baby body. Luckily our daughter has a chin!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 04:00 AM
18

Yuck!! Reminds me of when my daughter was a baby, trying to buy Fathers Day gifts on Etsy and ending up with pages of perverted “Daddy” crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 02:45 AM
60

Hard agree. I feel like women who “enjoy” bdsm operate with a similar mindset. Like, if they’re gonna get roughed up and disrespected by a man, at least they can pretend they’re into it. I wonder how many woman actually enjoy being hurt during sex or how many of them gave up on finding relationships without it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 02:34 PM
6

I don’t dress up for dates. If the guy is lucky I happened to look decent at work and kept the same outfit on. I never wear makeup on first dates either. Don’t want them to expect me to put all that effort in all of the time, because I quite simply won’t. However, I will dress up if I’m dating a guy and I know he will appreciate it. But never for some random guy who is likely a chode.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 12:03 AM
15

I’d love to see him list all their names. Bonus points for birthdays. Bet he can’t get past 12.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 07:37 PM
63

Give men some credit, they golf and fish too 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 07:32 PM
109

Hey, these guys totally have money… when they want to buy drugs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 07:31 PM
62

I keep a pack of champagne splits on hand at all times! It makes me giggly and happy, and I only need one glass. Try mixing some with a fancy fruit lemonade, it’s amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 07:27 PM
43

Yo, holy shit! Like, how can you just finish in women willy nilly with zero concerns about getting her pregnant? Condoms are better than no sex, vasectomies are cheap, heck even pulling out would have prevented a lot of those kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 05:07 PM
23

Omg hahaha! Triggered by Star Trek! I matched with a guy on there who started me off with a fun trivia question, asking me how many moons Jupiter had. I got all excited and started naming the ones I knew and he was like “uhhh… why do you know this shit?” I’m sorry, did you not ask? Clearly I was supposed to be impressed by his vast knowledge, but as soon as he saw I knew something about the subject he didn’t even know what to do with himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 03:24 PM
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Hinge is something else… The guys on there are so hostile and negative. The one guy I actually made it on a date with yelled at me the entire time. It should be called Unhinged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 05:23 AM
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Haha, they were indeed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 05:00 PM
4

Thanks for the kind words! It was so long ago that I mostly forget he existed, but it was just such a mindfuck at the time! Older, wiser me thinks I figured it out - he had had a dramatic “breakup” with his “ex” and I’m pretty sure the six month timeline corresponded with him waiting out a restraining order. Lace up my red shoes and call me a clown 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 04:29 PM
68

I got ghosted by a man who said he loved me, who spent every night at my house for six months, whose friends I had hung out with. Called him one night to tell him I was making tostadas for dinner, he never called back and that was that. I was really fucked up over it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 01:30 AM
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Mick Jagger has eight kids with five women, including this one who is four decades younger. Brian Jones already had five kids before he died at the age of 27. He also beat the shit out of Anita Pallenberg, which is why she left him for Keith Richards. Bill Wyman (original bassist) married 18-year-old Mandy Smith when he was 48… he had been sexually involved with her since she was 13/14. The actual marriage didn’t last long, but for added cringe Wyman’s son then married Smith’s mother. And then y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 05:56 PM
6

Every few months or so, I think to myself “it would be nice to go on date.” So I open up a dating app, thinking just maybe this time I’ll find someone decent enough to crush on. Every single time a guy manages to say something so blitheringly stupid that I close it and refuse to ever go back. Until another few months goes by and I start thinking it might be nice to go on a date…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 03:39 AM
6

Last time I ventured on to a dating app some dude I’d exchanged two brief messages with sent me a “👿” for not responding quickly enough. I was like “did you really just send that because I didn’t answer immediately?” He said he “mistyped.” Fucking jackasses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 03:35 AM
9

I kind of wonder if it’s the same guy, haha, he had so many people fooled thinking he was devoted. But maybe it’s just too much for me to think that there’s more than one of these assholes out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 04:06 PM
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She had been so sick for a few years so it was kind of a mercy she died, and he had done such a good job on social media of playing the doting husband torn apart by the ordeal, so many people seemed happy he’d be getting a chance to take care of himself. Which I could see, if he really had been devoted to her instead of trying to sleep with other women. I never outed him, I didn’t think it would do her any good to know. But I felt like I was in crazy town watching all these people happy for him …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 03:27 AM
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A former friend’s wife was diagnosed with terminal cancer when their daughter was two, online he acted the part of the doting spouse - posting about how tough she was, shaving his head to support her, taking her to all her appointments… Meanwhile he’s hitting me (and other women) up via messenger about how hard it’s been for him because he has sexual needs that his wife can’t meet. You know, his wife who is dying of cancer. He couldn’t just wait a few years? Anyway, it really grossed me out. I s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 01:12 AM
5

Wow, now you have me wondering! I never asked how he acquired the foam, I always assumed it was just taken from a stockroom at one of his friends’ jobs. In my defense it was my first boyfriend after I moved out, we were all young (I was 21) so I just thought that was broke life. But in hindsight he could have bought a damn air mattress for the price of a pack of beer. I moved recently, and couldn’t immediately afford the bed I wanted, and wasn’t about to take my old filthy one to my new place, s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 06:32 AM
12

No, they expect us to kiss their ass because they even have their own place. The bar is so low we’re simply relieved to have dodged yet another hobosexual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 06:58 AM
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Mattresses on the floor are baller status. I had an ex who slept on a piece of foam on the floor. Not an air mattress, not even a real foam mattress pad, just a piece of foam. And he was such a gentleman when I stayed the night he would let me have the foam. So romantic! 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 06:55 AM
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I’m 5’6” and 120 lbs and I built my queen bed entirely by myself, even though I had to break the box down in the hallway outside my front door and move the pieces inside individually because it was too heavy for me to move alone. You would think that if a tiny female can figure out how to build a nice bed so can any man. Then again, I’ve had to go over to multiple ex’s/male friend’s houses to take apart and put back together furniture they couldn’t build correctly. Fuck, I built my daughter’s ba…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 06:52 AM
10

They can’t believe that we are perfectly content alone, and think we’re crying into our pillow out of loneliness every night. Nah bro, I’m taking up as much space as I want on my bed watching what I want to watch on TV, eating what I choose to eat, and doing things I enjoy. It’s peaceful and quiet. I rarely feel lonely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 10:30 PM
133

Yes! I broke this song down for my seven-year-old, pointing out how pathetic the man is. We snicker and laugh at his sorry ass. In the music video he makes this face like he’s the one hurting when she references him cheating. Sums men up nicely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 06:18 AM
34

Aww, maybe I’m showing my age, but I love Paul Rudd. His normalcy is refreshing. He is sexier to me than any of the younger famous guys I can think of. He may not be an Adonis but he’s handsome and funny and looks great for his age. And him saying his wife was “stupefied” seems kind of endearing to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 04:30 AM
45

Thank you for this! I’m so over people excusing parents mistreating their kids because of whatever they’ve suffered through. If I ever complain about some of the awful things my Mom did, the rest of my family (except one brother) always excuse it with “but she’s mentally ill.” Yes, she is, but she also continually refuses to address it through medication or therapy or even a damn self-help book. The aforementioned brother and I are both have various mental illnesses, both of us have even been ho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 05:27 AM
54

There was a woman on there whose boyfriend kept wiping his ass on her shower curtain, leaving obvious shit streaks across them! And she had toilet paper in the house, it wasn’t an emergency, it was how he wiped his ass there. How did she keep him around long enough for that to become repeat behavior?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 09:20 PM
53

Can you imagine being that fucking lazy? Many women go through pregnancy, some of them multiple times, which makes them have to pee constantly and probably have bladder/pelvic floor issues for life, and yet I don’t know one single woman who would choose to pee in a receptacle rather than get up and go to the bathroom. Well, except for that famous Marlene Dietrich anecdote, but that was a mental health issue. I don’t even think it’s because it’s more difficult biologically, in an emergency situat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 09:18 PM
37

Ah yes, shout out to the guy who called me “unfit” even though I’m 5’6, 120lbs and I taught gymnastics and yoga up until covid lockdown. Maybe I don’t have a spectacular mile time, but I’m pretty freakin’ fit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 11:30 PM
115

I currently have short hair, and this guy I had been kind of interested in felt it necessary to tell me three times how I’m pretty, but he just really prefers long hair on women. I stop talking to him, of course, and he comes back with “what happened? I thought we were gonna go out.” I was like “we were, until you told me how much you didn’t like my hair.” “But I didn’t mean it like that!” Verbatim, he said it just like you did. Ugggh. He did not get his pp wet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 11:28 PM
103

Right?! I was going to make a joke about how she better not put a pad into his likely overflowing trash, but I realized this guy definitely does not have a bathroom trash can. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 01:27 PM
40

I kinda love “good riverdance.” Next time I kick someone out of my life I’m gonna say bye while doing bouncy Irish tap steps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 01:23 PM
68

Flashback to me making $40K when my boyfriend at the time was making $450K and somehow I was expected to make things somewhat equal. I don’t know how I didn’t trip all the time since I apparently spent two years wearing big, honking clown shoes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 05:24 AM
101

“My dog will always come first.” = I am incapable of forming lasting relationships with any human beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 09:25 PM
95

Omg, so many goddamn fish on dating profiles!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 09:12 PM
14

And then there are the NBA players who do have multiple kids with multiple women. One has 14 kids with 9 women! Another has 10 with 8, and then there’s a ton with like six or seven kids with all different moms. It’s insane! And if have kids in a bunch of different places there’s no way you’re spending quality time with any of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 05:15 PM
30

There’s a group of groupies who follow the teams from hotel to hotel trying to score a baller. There was a fascinating article about it in Sports Illustrated (I think) a few years ago. Like, they don’t work, their entire life is based around trying to snag themselves an NBA player.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 04:07 AM
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My name. Seriously, a guy showed me his newest tattoo. It was my signature. He got it off some form I signed. Wtf?! I think it’s on his forearm too, ie very visible. Haha, his girlfriends must love that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 12:38 AM
21

Yup. Ex-boyfriend with both his daughters names on him is a terrible, terrible father. Their mom isn’t any better. I still worry about those girls all the time. CPS has been called on them a few times but nothing ever changes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 12:33 AM
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I dated a guy with Motley Crue tattooed on his chest. Not their logo, but the band members’ actual faces. I always felt like they were staring at me when he was shirtless. It was really weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 12:30 AM
21

Because she can’t be alone during the pandemic… Yet plenty of single people made it through it so far somehow. Grow the fuck up. She wasn’t even completely alone, she has kids. But she apparently needed someone else’s husband’s dick. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 06:10 AM
56

I have an ex from 20 years ago who will still occasionally pop up and message me about “what could have been.” Dude, we dated for like a year, you cheated on me and abused me, how can you romanticize any of this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 09:59 AM
158

Last week I finished a fairly basic bookkeeping project I do for a client every year, and she sent me the most beautiful bouquet of flowers and a thank you card. Nicer than any I have ever received from a man. And she pays our company for our services, it’s not like I did her a favor. She’s just extremely generous and appreciative. They smelled so good too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 04:48 AM
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Isn’t that the nastiest thing? And he left it for me to find on purpose. Like, the repair he was doing was in the kitchen. He went into my personal bathroom in the back of the apartment, not even the one next to my kitchen. So it’s like even if he supposedly had to pee so badly he couldn’t make it back up to his own apartment, he still chose to enter the part of the house he was nowhere near for the specific repair. Also left the toilet seat up and it used and unflushed. So gross. I was worried …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 02:21 PM
130

I caught the maintenance guy at my old apartment going through my laundry, thought it might have been an accident. But then after he came in to do a repair on my kitchen sink I found an open copy of Playboy and a Kleenex full of a suspicious matter in my bathroom. I was so relieved when he and his wife moved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 06:17 AM
5

Thanks to your comment it’s taking everything I have to resist the urge to reactivate my Hinge profile just to put that on there and see how they react.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 04:55 AM
1

It really is. I feel like I hacked the system by staying unmarried to her father. Since he actually parents I get more free time than most married moms, and when we aren’t getting along we aren’t forced to be in the same space. I’m getting the benefits of a second parent without having a husband in my space to clean up after. It actually works out quite well most of the time, we get along well enough to get accolades from our peers for our coparenting, and our daughter is happy, confident, smart…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 04:08 PM
2

Oh definitely! Luckily, as much as dad is a jerk, mom doesn’t put up with any shit from men. Dad and I were done before she was born. So hopefully she’ll learn more from me, that it’s better to be alone than with a controlling jerk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 10:35 PM
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Man, as much as I get mad at my daughter’s dad for being a controlling jerk, I gotta give him credit, he is a very involved parent, more so than many married Dads I know. He happily drives our daughter from practice to practice, makes sure she does her homework, takes her to do fun things all the time... He has a ton of flaws, but he’s never dumped our daughter off on anyone so he can flake off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 03:34 PM
9

Almost 20 years ago, I broke up with a man after he smashed the back of my head against a table and spit in my face. He texted me this week because he wants me to proofread some story he wrote. You haven’t made any fucking friends in 20 years you can ask?! You have to seek out an ex you were admittedly awful to?! It makes no sense. Unless it’s about me, which is a horrifying prospect. Fucking creep. Edit: Also, the only man I’ve had a crush on in years regularly checks my Linked In. But I know h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 03:32 AM
66

They all hate Cardi B for drugging men and stealing their stuff, when most women I know would give anything to only have had their stuff stolen when they were drugged. Wish that guy who followed me home from the bar had stolen my cash and not any sense of security I ever had.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 01:49 AM
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I remember talking about slapping with an ex - not asking him to - it was just a discussion. He said he could never do it. Made me realize how fucked up BDSM is. If a man asked me to slap him I don’t think I could. I’m small, I’m not particularly strong, yet I could never bring myself to hit a man, even knowing I probably couldn’t hurt him. Even if he begged, I just don’t think I could. So why would I ever date a man who has zero qualms about slapping a woman?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 02:59 PM
46

Or owning a dog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 05:14 PM
61

I want to see him standing next to his bookshelf. Or a list of his podcast subscriptions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 05:13 PM
34

I’m dying. I was(am?) talking to this guy who actually seemed okay. But his pictures were him and his truck, him fishing, and him with a beer. Hahaha. These men are all the exact same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 05:11 PM
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“‘Meanwhile for me there are college girls out there waiting to be made into women,’ Werking wrote. Muncie, Ind., is home to Ball State University.” He. Was. 40. Foul excuse for a human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 03:33 PM
57

Right? No one in this scenario looks good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:14 AM
107

She got down on her knees in dutiful appreciation, sighing with delight. Then everyone clapped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 05:41 PM
64

I cannot even imagine sleeping with a taken man. Even in my 20s when I was a complete pick me I still had enough self-respect to never (knowingly, though I was finessed once) hook up with a married man. I had one pursuing me recently and I straight out said “if I’m as wonderful you say I am, then don’t I deserve a man who is only focused on me?” They really don’t get that some of us are perfectly content being alone. I’d honestly rather deep clean my bathrooms than go on a date with most of the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 02:23 PM
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I mean, he might not have done this if a woman gave him a chance. He might have become a family annihilator instead. I don’t think anything can “fix” that amount of misogyny and anger. They hate women no matter what we do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 02:06 AM
9

Anne Heche and Harrison Ford? Or was it Calista Flockhart?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 03:07 AM
8

Same, I’m 5’6”, and I’ve been the same height as a few guys I’ve dated. I’ve never had anything against short guys, as long as they don’t care if I wear my heels, then we are all good if I’m taller than them. However, a lot of them aren’t cool about it. I can dig a confident short guy, not an angry one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 03:19 PM
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My birthday is always kind of crummy, it’s a yearly deadline in my line of work, so I rarely celebrate. One year a recent ex said he wanted to take me out to dinner for my birthday. He picked the place - a sushi place. I don’t eat sushi. But I’ll eat tempura and yakisoba, so I agreed. He wanted to take his motorcycle. It was cold out, plus I don’t really like motorcycles anyway. I think I met him there. He had two huge beers and a few sushi rolls, I had one normal beer and two appetizers. And wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 06:16 AM
39

Todd sounds like a real… Todd. It’s a perfect name for this kind of guy. I feel like we’ve all dated a “Todd.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:46 PM
72

My youngest brother is kind of like this, and it baffles me. Has a master’s from a UC, has only had one job ever, and it was only for one summer. He’s 27 and still lives with our parents, doesn’t do anything around the house, spends his time gaming, my Dad ends up running his errands for him, even though he has a car my parents gave him. At least he’s gay, so he’s not gonna live off a woman. But it’s ridiculous. I had to get a job as soon as I graduated high school. I was driving my two-year-dau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 04:13 AM
7

He already had two kids of his own when he did that shit, isn’t that awful? I met him when he had moved to my city for a job. Shipped him right back to his baby mama, who I believe then had his third kid, which they gave up for adoption. At some point he did time for stealing from his own family. He shit his pants once too when we together, and just left them in the laundry. I can’t believe it even took me six weeks to get rid of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 05:57 AM
3

Ohhh, thank you! I’m always on mobile so I’ve never noticed the flair. I thought it might be a different subreddit I was missing out on. Roast-a-scrote is a fun game!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 04:22 AM
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Hahaha, you’d love one of my “exes” - fucker was so broke he stole the non-penny change out of my car’s ashtray. He and I were only together like six weeks, half of which I spent trying to get rid of him. He was, and probably still is, a garbage human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 04:20 AM
11

Is roast a scrote a real place?! Because I’ve got two decades of material.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 04:15 AM
375

Same here. I won’t go out on a date unless I have enough cash to cover my portion. Being able to leave quickly is of utmost importance to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 04:39 PM
45

And then every girl he ever dates in the future will have to hear all about tHe eViL eX wHo WaSteD 13 yEaRs oF mY LiFe that he is clearly still hung up on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 06:55 PM
56

I had the opposite, an obese ex who called me fat, who said it was “hard to be attracted to anyone who sat around on the couch with their stomach hanging out.” I’m 5’6” and 120. I was a dancer, dance teacher, gymnast, runner, etc. My stomach was most definitely not hanging out. But his always was 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 02:30 AM
28

Ahhhhh!! That just gave me flashbacks from 10 years ago, where at my office if the partners left a mess in the lunchroom I was expected to clean it up. And they always left a mess, I’m talking spilled food, trash not thrown away, extra condiments thrown all over… I didn’t even eat in there myself, yet they’d come out and pointedly look at me and mention what a mess the lunch room was. Luckily, there’s a somewhat happy ending to this, as once I pointed out to my reasonable boss that it was expect…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:19 PM
61

And even lower than these creeps are the “hobosexuals” - the men who go from relationship to relationship living with each girlfriend so they have a rent-free place to stay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:06 PM
22

Omg, and I had almost forgotten about how against my better judgment I let my daughter’s Dad (we weren’t ever official) take a look from the foot of my hospital bed when she started coming out. A week later he told me incredulously “your shit stretched so big!!” We’re in our 30s. He called my vagina my “shit.” Ugggh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:04 AM
49

Oh my god, yes. I can’t be around friends who have a new man every week. And then the friend is crying, and he’s gone, but oh look, new boyfriend a week later, and she’s already referring to his kids as her step kids? I feel like it’s bad for me to be around people with zero self-respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 01:44 AM
76

I was creeping a guy I had met online, and I found a GoFundMe that he made to try to get custody back from his “evil ex” who used her “new guy’s money” to hire a lawyer who got his custody reduced to one night a week. I doubt the judge really just set that schedule for fun, and if somehow he had been fucked over, his friends would have rallied to his cause. But it was a very unsuccessful GoFundMe, so I’m assuming he indeed sucks ass. I don’t need any of that in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 01:41 AM
124

I don’t envy any married women whose situation I know anything about. Of all of my married friends, one couple has a fantastic marriage where they’re clearly perfect for each other. They’ve been together since college (18 years). Every other marriage I know anything about has cheating or abuse or dead bedrooms or addiction issues or a husband who has come on to me or something else I would not want any part of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:44 PM
287

Oh man, and the wrinkles! I’m 40 and I take meticulous care of my skin and it shows, meanwhile men my age are starting to look really rough. And they still think they should be pulling women in their 20s. Unreal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:39 PM
35

Ugh, I also have a high sex drive, and I’m jealous of you. I absolutely have wanted to have sex lately. I miss chemistry. I have never had a problem being alone but I sure wouldn’t mind meeting a guy I like enough to sleep with. Problem is they’re all such jerks! I’ve been on one date in two years now, and he yelled at me the whole time. It was awful. However, I do greatly enjoy the power of no. It’s funny how many men see me single and assume I must be lonely or desperate and should jump at the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 03:48 PM
72

Lol, I just had this argument with my daughter’s Dad, apparently me letting her listen to Nirvana is inappropriate. Seven year olds should be listening to Disney music only, according to him. “We have to keep her as pure as possible.” So creepy. And he is totally projecting and trying to protect her from guys like himself. Eww… Edit: Nirvana Unplugged has zero bad words and sexual themes. Their music might be depressing but it’s not explicit, bar one song.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:36 AM
31

They are allowed to make money off of our appearance, while we aren’t. As soon as we financially benefit from being attractive they’re out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:34 AM
140

I also think that for some of the women who proclaim to be into kink they see being abused as inevitable, so they convince themselves they’re on board with it. Maybe as a way to try to control it? I definitely felt that way when I was younger. Like, if I was gonna get roughed up by the guys I dated I might as well try to get something out of it. But then one day I realized that no matter how much a partner begged me to hit him as hard as I could, I wouldn’t have it in me. He could be a massive l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:38 AM
10

Is Tucker Max still a thing? Perhaps I’m dating myself, but if a man has a copy of I Hope They Serve Beer in Hell, I’m out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:40 AM
27

Yup. It’s the text equivalent of poking someone to get their attention. It’s the most low-effort message there is. I never reply. If you don’t have anything to say to me don’t talk to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:29 AM
5

Right?! I grew up in the 90s, getting dating advice from Cosmopolitan. I thought I had to make myself the perfect girlfriend. Hahahahaha. Fuck that noise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:27 AM
81

Yup! My kid’s Dad used to say I trapped him, even though he pretended to pull out in time. Like, okay yeah I made the decision to have the baby, but you literally pretended to finish on my stomach. If he had just said “uhh, I...” I would have run to the nearest store for Plan B before he could finish his sentence. I feel bad even saying it, I would never change things, she’s six and the best thing that has ever happened to both us. We coparent effectively and I honestly feel like I have it bette…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:30 AM
112

Last time I was swiping on Tinder a profile came up where the guy was clearly flashing a white supremacy hand sign, and had tattoos to go with it. I was aghast, took a screenshot, and only when I sent it to my BFF to ask “is this guy for real?” did I notice it was clearly taken in some sort of dormitory. I assumed a halfway house after jail, but maybe it was a homeless shelter. Either way, thanks but that’s a hard no. The fucking audacity...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 05:27 AM
74

My ex actually tried to neg me using my baby’s forehead! I had run into him at the bar I used to work at and I was showing him pictures of my beautiful 10-month-old, and he says “wow, I see she got your fivehead.” Nothing about my baby being cute, nope, he negged us both. We no longer talk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 03:03 PM
100

I went from dark brown to blonde once and my goddamn boyfriend didn’t even notice! I had to point it out to him later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 04:15 AM
19

My ex-boyfriend couldn’t enforce boundaries with his ex wife to save his life. After yet another intrusion I complained that I felt like the side chick. He couldn’t get over how I could say something “so hurtful to him.” Like, no care about what caused me to feel that way. It was all about how I hurt his feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:36 PM
6

Well... Saving that for the next time an ex hits me up out of the blue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:31 PM
48

I’m 39 and I’ve never been married (by choice) and I rarely, rarely feel lonely. If anything I get more content as I get older. I almost never see a relationship I’m envious of. Mostly other people’s situations just reinforce how glad I am to be alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 07:17 AM
7

This guy I’ve hooked up with before keeps asking to come over. Um, no? Like, I would be absolutely mortified if I got exposed and had to quarantine myself for two-weeks because I couldn’t say no to some thirsty dude during a pandemic. It can wait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 08:17 AM
1

Every man I have ever dated for longer than three months has resurfaced in the past few weeks. I’m sitting here looking through posts trying to find the bUt WhaT aBouT My pEniS? Spongebob meme because that’s all I see when they text me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 03:32 AM
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