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Trying to sell the idea of why it's good to wife up the whore. Another day in PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:39 PM
2

Save your breath man, women are going to shame men for their preferences. That's the way females operate. Women were born to nag.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:36 PM
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There is a difference between dating a high n woman and wifing one up. Ideally for any man he wants to date the high n count woman and wife up the low n count woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:34 PM
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Who the fuck cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:33 PM
5

I move to add a new category of body - Sloppy So it's slim, curvy, sloppy, whale
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/22 08:32 PM
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Oh the red pill at that point will be a giant suppository up the ass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/22 01:18 PM
1

It isn't my job to supplement your ignorance with knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:08 PM
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Theories can't be formulated around every single woman out there. We have to broadly generalize about broads. Does it apply to every woman? No. Is it generally true? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:31 AM
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Having a good career isn't a guard against divorce rape. Never has been. Plenty of couples who earn money on equal basis get divorced and the general issue revolves around money. It's why I would never consider marrying or cohabitation with any woman, regardless of what she earns. Just ain't worth the hassle of compromise. Because ultimately that's what a relationship is, endless compromise on everything. Sorry but personally I have never met a woman who was worth the hassle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:26 AM
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Oh joy a life of no fun with a post wall Asian chick.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 01:42 PM
4

Not really. Sex happens because of willingness on the part of the woman and woman alone. But stronk women can't even admit their very active role in the shit show.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:45 PM
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Hookup culture exists because women want it to exist nothing more nothing less.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:01 AM
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Don't hate the messenger, I'm just observing what I see in the wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:55 AM
2

Every fat chick I have hated was a 100% because of that tightfisted attitude and not because they were fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:53 AM
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Not true at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:50 AM
2

This has a very IT Crowd like feel to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:49 AM
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Some of the worst women I have met were obese chicks. Terrible attitude coupled with that constant chip on her shoulder.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:19 PM
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Relationships are one endless compromise. Which is what settling is. You compromise that this is as good as it's going to get. Problem is that the longer this shit goes on the more you compromise. Of course in most cases these compromises add up to the point where you literally start resenting the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:39 AM
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Look around, what exactly is worth preserving?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:36 AM
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Men settle for who they can bed, women settle for who who they can marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:31 AM
1

You would be a dumbass if you didn't get a paternity test regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:30 AM
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Guys, there is a simple way to avoid paternity fraud. Freeze your sperm and get a vasectomy. Too many guys trust the woman to handle birth control and think that it will be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:29 AM
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Some poor schmuck is going to get his clock cleaned.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/22 04:21 AM
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I don't think they make Ferrari's that can fit her fat ass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/22 02:35 PM
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Every line ends with Emoji. Tells me that dealing with her will be like dealing with a toddler.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/22 02:30 PM
1

You have a right to have preference. What you don't have is the right to demand that the world cater to your preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:21 PM
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You can freeze sperm. No need to leave it up to chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:13 PM
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I did it at 30 and I still don't want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:39 PM
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I got mine at 30. Highly recommend it. If you want to have kids, consider freezing sperm and get the snip. No sense in giving the modern day chick that much leverage over your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:37 PM
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Oh look, another female who wants to outsource her responsibility to men. What a fucking surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:06 PM
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Oh I read it just fine. Tolerating lack of sex and shit like that is the death knell of a relationship. Don't put up with the shit and you are fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:03 PM
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I have told married guys this - when the wife refuses to have sex just tell her that someone is sucking you off and if it isn't her then it's someone else. Remember, the type of relationship you have is entirely based on exactly how much shit you tolerate. The less you put up with the better then outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:47 PM
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No fault divorce with each party walking away with what they brought into the marriage and splitting everything evenly. No alimony or spousal support, none of this, but I need to be kept in the lifestyle I've become accustomed to. A sensible stipend for child support with accounting to ensure that money for the child is actually being spent on the child. Default shared parenting of the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:27 PM
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Well riding a crotch rocket isn't by itself dangerous. It really depends how you ride and if you are being a complete moron on the bike. I ride motorcycles, more cruisers than crotch rockets since I enjoy the ride than just the sheer speed. The difference is calculated risks. I like my life and it's enjoyable enough without needing to have sex under a hive of a Africanized honey bees for a thrill.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:37 PM
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All it takes is for one accusation and your life is pretty much over. Not unlike playing Russian roulette.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:35 PM
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Well it takes all kinds to make a world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:34 PM
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So in other words, it's a consumer driven day to pedestalize women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:33 PM
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Don't think I have ever seen that. I have however seen men get blamed when their wives cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:26 PM
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Everyone has a right to be as shallow or deep as they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:03 PM
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Well if women want to demand that your past does not matter then men can go after younger women with less of a past.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:02 PM
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Between the risk of STD's, rape accusations I'd say the video games and porn are a better alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:00 PM
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Valentine's Day is a day of love, No, valentines day is a consumer driven day to pedestalize women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:59 PM
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None.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:09 PM
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Only way those poor cats will get a good meal once she is dead.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 03:08 PM
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Great, I'd suggest women embrace the homo and single mother life. It's a win-win for everyone involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:20 PM
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To you it might seem that way since you spend no extensive time among MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:19 PM
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The worst female teachers were the old spinsters. I remember this one bitch who taught me math in the 6th grade, she would post a problem on the board and then roam the class room peeking over your shoulders at your work. If you made a single mistake she would wack you across the head. I learned to hate math and didn't learn to love it again until I was in 8th grade when I had one of the nicest female teachers who wasn't a sadistic piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:28 PM
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Participating in a conversation regarding gender dynamics isn't verboten in MGTOW. Never understood why people think that being MGTOW somehow means that you no longer get to talk about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:23 PM
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Men by and large don't give a fuck about their cloths. It's a utility a lot like any tool. Hence our outfits are utilitarian. We leave it up to the women to play dress up which is strange since hetro men could care less if women work a burlap sack.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:19 PM
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Most women don't understand the power of their femininity. Just as most men don't understand the power of masculinity. Hence you have people on both sides rejecting it and trying to be like the opposite sex. Then they wonder why they can't attract anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:18 PM
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Nothing. But like any claymore mine just know that she has the capacity to shred your ass with the help of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:16 PM
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Not really sure where the revenge scenario really is. Women have every right to reject, trash and/or shun femininity. Knock yourselves out - me personally, I'm going fishing :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:15 PM
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Just go out on a Saturday to any mall. Sit there and watch the couples and in particular pay attention to the men. Some of the saddest people you will ever see holding their gf/wife's handbag as she runs into the next store to spend money on shit she does not need.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:12 PM
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Read my comment above about everyone on the internet has a cock the size of a babys arm....this time slowly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:10 PM
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Yea, I got nothing better to do than to go through your selfies to make you feel better about being such a simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:24 PM
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Everyone on the internet has a cock the size of a babys arm that breaths fire on a command and a pussy that makes the gods weep.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:21 PM
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It really depends on what the objective here is. You should seek to self improve and explore facets of who you are and your interests. But none of that can even start unless you have a bedrock of who you are as a person. That can never shift.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:20 PM
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No I can't say men need women anymore for life and pursuit of happiness. If anything women and kids are a detriment to those objectives.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:17 PM
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Oh I wouldn't date mannish women to begin with. Jesus, talk about a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:14 PM
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i'm poly translation: My gf/wife fucks other guys and I have to be okay with it for societal approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:14 PM
0

Perfect. Carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:10 PM
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Women can reject their femininity - go right ahead. Just don't demand traditional men line up to date you or wife you up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:01 PM
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Only women bleed ~Alice Cooper
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:48 PM
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No my definition of accountability applies to everything. Women will hamster their way into excusing terrible choices in partners, careers and financial decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:09 PM
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Bwahahaha.....yea where exactly is the plurality? I'd like to see it because right now all we see is women claiming that you are beautiful even if you are the size of a garden shed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:03 PM
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Women don't even hold themselves to account. AWALT is the most logical way to approach women because we have no way to be certain what you are dealing with is a decent human being or not. Women will claim that they cross the road if there is a man they don't know walking behind them at night. Well consider this a man's way of doing the same - we have no way to say which of you is the psycho.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:01 PM
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Same reason women will scream that all men are pigs and still want a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:58 PM
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Naw, just walk over and ask. Worst he can say is no.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:08 PM
1

So you want humanity to emulate the Bene Teilaxu from the Dune series?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:51 PM
1

would explain the obesity among people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:38 PM
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About 10% of the female population would be wife material these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:31 PM
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People have survived high speed car crashes. Doesn't mean that we should all get into high speed car crashes and expect to live. Exceptions don't disprove the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:38 PM
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There is no point in taking up traditional masculinity in a world where everything traditionally masculine is toxic and women have abandoned traditional femininity. Why the fuck would I want to participate in such a society? Far as I can see, society, the country can fuck off into obscurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:55 PM
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I don't date certain types of women - Single mothers, obese, have mental problems and married chicks are folks I don't deal with. Women will gladly list all of these and no one bats an eye, a man says this and he is a misogynist. These days I would say I have more expectations of my dog than I do most people. I do expect the world to be against me. For me the life of a man is one that he walks alone. Oh the women will try and understand and empathize but it's largely to gain favor nothing more. …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:31 PM
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Well in general you would expect that people will accept accountability for their own actions. I mean if I smash my thumb with a hammer, I don't curse the hammer - it would be a stupid thing to do since it was me and not the hammer that is at fault. Same thing here. A woman will hamster her way out of anything she does that causes an adverse response in her life. Start there, start with some level of self reflection then we can talk about expectations. As it stands today society will shame men f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:02 PM
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I have no expectations of women. Women rarely if ever have accountability, so having expectations of someone like that is a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 01:53 PM
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Not anymore unhealthy than staying in a miserable relationship. Some of the loneliest people I know are married or in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 01:14 PM
1

I have no thoughts about it. Like you said, it's their life and their money. Takes all sorts to make a world.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 01:10 PM
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Fuckboys only exist because of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:32 AM
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Oh that's nothing. Have you seen the chicks who video guys working out at the gym making fun of whatever work out the guys are doing? Just think, you go to the gym to take videos of guys working out and make fun of them. The guys are just minding their own business.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:31 AM
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well some guys do and their success rate is directly related to how hawt the women think he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:29 PM
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On todays edition of Fuck around and find out...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/22 09:24 PM
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I fail to see a down side.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:57 PM
2

Male Feminists have a long illustrious history of being sex offenders.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:24 PM
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Is there a movement some form of legislation to that outlaws gold digging? Something other than some rando on the internet belly aching about what he always knew?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:18 PM
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Right? Part of the reason why I got a vasectomy at 30. When that's the level of sex ed knowledge out there, best to not leave birth control up to chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:17 PM
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It's a totally acceptable stance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:16 PM
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Where exactly did I complain about women having freedom? Did you have a stroke while reading my post?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:15 PM
3

Ah single mothers, like taking a whiff of sour milk.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/22 08:14 PM
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Did anyone say you couldn't? Is there some great movement to prevent women from gold digging?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:11 PM
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# of times I've ever seen a woman complain about that 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:52 PM
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Not anymore rare or common than people who are married or in a relationship and alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:52 PM
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Most people mistake loneliness with being alone. The two aren't the same. In fact you can be married or in a relationship and be lonely as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:44 PM
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Yea, I'm not suggesting people follow my template nor do I claim that it is a template. I do however suggest that people find what motivates them and makes them happy and pursue that. Not for some end goal of getting a woman. But for their own happiness, sanity and above all fulfillment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:42 PM
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Not an optimal position since it will then require me to defend the lie. Takes more time and energy doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:40 PM
1

Every single one of those people in the subset of "people doing work they hate" are individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:32 PM
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I've had more than one chick tell me that Mountain Dew was birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:32 PM
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Women of any size spread their shit and take up more space than they need all the time. With their bags, shopping etc. I see it at work, I see it during travel. Fucking hell some of the worst offenders on plane are the women who board the plane with a backpack, carryon luggage and a handbag. Then proceed to cram everything into the overhead bin. Meanwhile the line behind her is growing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:30 PM
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gaggle, coven, cluckers, herd - it's all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:26 PM
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Oh I agree. Not saying this is some magical way to hack life. But what I'd like to see is less people doing shit they don't really enjoy for a fucking paycheck.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:25 PM
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Only logical thing to do right? I mean if you are going to cry about me sitting down how about I really give you a reason to cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:23 PM
1

Not entirely. There is a difference in working for someone and being your own boss. In the 15 years I stopped being a company man my life has gotten way better. So much so that in the last 4 years I have only worked 8 of the 12 months of a year. I keep more of what I earn, I save way more than I can and truly enjoy what I do. But I will say that my journey wasn't easy and that it can't be duplicated by everyone. Takes a certain mindset and a willingness to forego things that others might hold ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:20 PM
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True, better to never commit. But in case you do make sure your lawyer puts together a solid prenup - do not skimp on the lawyer, and perhaps consider living in a state or country where lifetime alimony or alimony itself isn't a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:14 PM
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No, one can improve oneself given proper avenues and a great degree of stubbornness and self reflection. Hard to do yes, but can be done. For some folks it's just a matter of hitting rock bottom and wanting a different life. I was 24 when I decided that I didn't want to live my life chained to a fucking desk at some job working 80 hours a week and killing myself for paycheck and useless platitudes from upper management. It can be done provided you have hit your rock bottom threshold.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:12 PM
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Because most people lack any support system and the drive to stick to their goals. Which is why most people make resolutions to lose weight every year and by the 2nd week go back to eating shit and drinking diet coke. Goals and self improvement takes time, takes patience and the ability to stick to things over the long haul. Depending on what you are trying to achieve it could take years.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:06 PM
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True. Be attractive and/or be tall and/or be rich. Being none of those is the death knell for a mans dating life. Of course being rich and having a 7 figure personality can offset height and attractiveness. Just make sure you have a sharp lawyer who can protect your investment from the kind of woman who is going to go for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:03 PM
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He's just spreading the love. I mean can you imagine if the love it takes for 200 women were slammed onto one woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:00 PM
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No, women lie about shit like that all the time. Hell I've had female friends compliment a ladies cloths only to turn around and in the next breath say that it was the most hideous thing she ever saw.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:59 PM
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No, women complain about men sitting with their legs spread, which isn't taking up 2-3 seats since his ass is literally in one seat. Furthermore, the same women have nothing to say about women dumping their handbags and occupying 2-3 seats with their shit strewn all over the place. Hell I work as a consultant and was used to seeing women show up at conference rooms for a group session and would occupy two seats because of their handbags.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:58 PM
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Runs out of money maintaining slut gf, hookers and travel. Plus given that lifestyle cocaine has to be involved so budget what like 30% of whatever stash you have for that. So in 10 years you are either dead or McHammer broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:49 PM
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And women think that men have no romantic side.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:47 PM
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Women by far overestimate their attractiveness because women lie to each other. Ever see a gaggle of women tell their fat friend that she looks beautiful?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:35 PM
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My advice to any guy is to never improve yourself for the sake of pussy. Improve yourself for yourself, on things that interest you. Cultivate hobbies and friends that drive you towards "YOUR" goals, not the goal of pussy. Remember, no man ever lost anything by not chasing a woman. Learn to love yourself before you expect others to love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:22 PM
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Yea my personal favorite. They point to guys like Bezos as absolute proof of that while billions of men remain invisible to them. And people ask why I don't go out of my way to help women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:18 PM
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Oh that has been proven long ago. Feminists were also the ones who terrorized Erin Pizzey for daring to make the claim that domestic violence could affect men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:15 PM
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Most of the western world is a fucked up place for men to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:14 PM
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Hell, men are shamed for the way they sit. Just think you are sitting down and a woman somewhere has a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:14 PM
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Realized a long time ago that the only person whose validation I need is myself. Women can take or leave what I have to offer, can't open your mouth and communicate your attraction like an adult? Well then don't fucking whine when you get brushed off or the guy you are attracted to doesn't ask you out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:12 PM
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The same society that provides the validations couldn't give a rats ass if you are miserable in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:12 AM
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No they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:50 AM
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Main reason I don't use them. Plus they are generally lots of bots to keep the men thinking they have a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:40 AM
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True. The difference is that the pretty girls sluts or not don't have to resort to OLD. What usually drives women to OLD are if they are single mothers and/or morbidly obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 10:24 PM
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I'd wonder how much of this because OLD is infested with women who are obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 10:16 PM
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My response would be "here is $5, go away"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:52 PM
4

Oh I have dated plenty but dating doesn't mean a relationship, cohabitation or marriage. I date casually and when the fun is gone it's done. Move on, rinse repeat. Fortunately there are plenty of lonely women in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:41 PM
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Oh I date, I just don't cohabitate or marry. I leave that to the dummies who want to spend their Saturdays holding their wives purse as she tries on cloths.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:34 PM
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Intimacy is a privilege. Relationships are fucking tedious work that is nothing but endless compromise and you do that shit long enough you end up unhappy and miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:30 PM
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We are specifically talking about light sentencing of female predators. It happens all the time in most cases they lose their job and get sent to jail for a few months as opposed to men who are sentenced for years at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 06:07 PM
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People don't admit to a lot of shit in their day to day lives. Doesn't mean that you are not working next to someone who is a freak.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:02 PM
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Women are also the first to complain when they become invisible. Just take a look at feminist Jessica Valenti who spent so much of her career fighting the scourge of catcalling and is now bemoaning how she misses the fact that men don't cat call her anymore. This is why as a man you never try to make a woman happy, it's a pointless exercise like trying to herd cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:57 PM
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What about all those women who thought that Mary Kay Letourneau's relationship with her student was oh so romantic? No shortage of women who would fuck a teenage boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:53 PM
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No you can't, relationships are entirely compromise which means one persons desires need to be sacrificed for the other persons happiness. That's the only way the dynamic works and believe it or not you compromise on everything from the cereal and coffee you buy to when and where we should vacation. You ever see those sad looking dudes at the store holding their wife's handbag while she tries on a new outfit - that's what compromise looks like. Women don't have to worry about this because most o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:44 PM
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Who is talking about your group of friends? We are broadly talking about the population of broads of whom you and your friends are a miniscule subset.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:42 PM
1

Now go ask your sisters on how many would be open to splitting the bill, most are not. As for the rest of your write up, this is what I'm talking about - women who claim to be modern and yet want traditional structures in their lives and will demand their partners follow traditional norms while they are beholden to none of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:28 PM
1

Most women are modern/egalitarian when it suits them. They approach life like ordering at a Chinese restaurant, I will take one from column A, two from column B. Funny how all these modern/egalitarian women have such a problem splitting the bill or even rejecting marriage. Somehow those are traditions we need to uphold when it comes to women. Fucking joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:19 PM
1

Depends on how you approach life. There is difference between living alone and being lonely and living alone doesn't mean you have to be lonely. Personally I find no reason to compromise, I mean I wouldn't go to the dentist every week for a root canal as well but I don. Why the hell would I constantly compromise on anything I want to do with my life? Today I can travel the world, work as much as I want, earn as much as I need, spent time with friends and family when I want. I can sleep late when…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:15 PM
1

You are assuming that women are forthcoming about this. How many women admit to using tinder to find hookups?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:10 PM
3

It only matters if you give a fuck. If she wants to vette a person hire a fucking Private Investigator. Social Media says nothing about the person when you can create fake accounts and utterly doctor your whole fucking life if you are psychotic enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:09 PM
1

Absolutely. If you are a guy your best bet is to play things closer to the vest. Women by and large hate a guy who dumps his purse out in front of them. In any relationship there is only space for one person to bitch and women have called a perpetual shotgun on the position.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:04 PM
0

I treat fat people the same, regardless of whether or not they have a cock or a cunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:01 PM
2

Personally, I don't care about who a woman fucked or is going to fuck. But then again I'm not looking to wife up one of these chicks so it's not really a concern for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:00 PM
1

I totally view it as shackling. One day I was master of my domain and could do whatever I want when I want. The next day it's a compromise. Sorry that's a step down in my book, why the fuck would I want to downgrade my life in order to accommodate someone else because of some outdated idea such as marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:58 PM
1

If a woman is a gold digger and successful at it more power to her. It's the mans responsibility to decide if he wants to tolerate it and if he's dumb enough to take her on then it's his fault. No different than the women who fucked WestElmCaleb and are butt hurt over the lack of commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:57 PM
7

If all is fair in love and war then a woman gold digging is fair game and a man lying to get sex is fair game.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:55 PM
2

Which is why it's better to meet someone for coffee or drinks as a first meet. This way if there is no vibe the extent of the interaction lasts as long as it takes to empty your cocktail glass and leave. Time is money and sitting through appetizer and entrée with someone you have no chemistry with is a fucking nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:54 PM
1

Well most people never do get married with the intention of a divorce. In fact some of them don't even know what's going on right up until it happens. But the real difference between you and me is that I don't need to shackle myself to someone for the purpose of societal approval. Most of whom live a miserable existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:51 PM
1

Like I said, whatever gets you through the night.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:50 PM
8

It is that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:53 AM
1

Sure, whatever gets you through the night.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:51 AM
1

Yea the men who thought they could be the exception are ex-husbands. Usually living a pathetic existence after the divorce rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:10 AM
3

I never said there was an island of magic women, but women on OLD generally fall into three categories Single mothers Morbidly obese Mental problems or has been through one abusive relationship after the other I have no interest in a woman who falls into any of those categories - even for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:05 AM
1

No thanks, I'm good without marriage or playing Russian roulette with my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:03 AM
1

Yep, no lies to keep straight etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:25 AM
1

I've met plenty of divorced people, hell I've met plenty of folks who were divorce 3 times. Sorry, in an age where marriage is as disposable as a shaving razor why bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:24 AM
1

Great, I too grew up surrounded by people in happy marriages. But that has nothing to do with what modern day marriage has morphed into.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:13 AM
1

Famous last words. LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:01 AM
2

Yea and it's a suckers bet. As Admiral Akbar so eloquently put it - It's a Trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 09:53 PM
1

I'm not manipulating anyone. I tell them right off the bat that I'm not in it to get married and I'm just interested in casual fun. Anything that happens after is with her approval and choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 09:52 PM
2

How is it off topic when marriage is being discussed and someone claiming that it's a suckers bet is somehow off topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 09:50 PM
1

LOL, well it's a good thing I'm not administering an IQ exam
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 09:49 PM
2

It's a suckers bet. That's my 2 cents. About as useless as tits on a bull.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 09:44 PM
1

Who is talking about you? We're talking about the population of boards and not all broads are created equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 09:43 PM
0

The fact that she's proud of using people isn't a great sign for mother of the year. Make sure you wear a condom and always get rid of it yourself. Oh and buy your own, women with baby rabies will have no qualms about poking holes in a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:50 PM
2

Good luck to the both of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:46 PM
2

Oh I agree, but people generally have hang ups about weird shit like that. Part of why I love the single life, I don't have to give a fuck about who a woman has fucked or who she is going to fuck. Not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:43 PM
0

Please, I wouldn't touch marriage with a 10 foot pole.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:42 PM
1

Bwahahaha, women are action packed with issues and it isn't men demanding that men stay within their own age group.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:39 PM
2

Same reason why women get bent out of shape if their bf's ex looks better than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:38 PM
1

Oh right I forgot that women are passive as fuck when it comes to relationships nearly comatose. Let me rephrase that then - women shouldn't bitch about men not wanting to wife them up as they age like sour milk. Better?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:36 PM
1

If mgtow men have "gone their own way", why do they spend so much time talking about women? Is there some aspect of the acronym MGTOW which suggests that MGTOW men cannot talk about women or certain topics? I've seen this dumbass argument many times and can't fathom why people think this is clever. Just go your own way and never worry about a woman again. But most don't do that. We do, by ensuring we don't wife up a chick or cohabitate with a chick. Some guys go full monk others continue to date…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:32 PM
2

Because you would have to be an absolutely moron to get married or cohabitate in the US these days given the skewed laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:31 PM
1

Sorry, I own my own house, have 0 debt and do what I want when I want to. What the fuck would an aging crone add to this equation apart from aggravation and the prospect of shopping for the 200th pair of shoes that all look like the other 199 she has?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:30 PM
1

And because women demand that men wife them up at 28 does not mean that women get to have it. Glad we played this pumpkin.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:26 PM
4

If I am hypothetically marrying a 28 year old woman I'd have to date her from the time she was 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:24 PM
1

Absolutely agree. It is very hard. No doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:16 PM
1

Height's a tough barrier to overcome but it can be had - your pool of women will be considerably smaller though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:09 PM
0

To each his own man. You do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:03 PM
1

It's the thrill of the hunt and the ability to taste forbidden fruit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:02 PM
1

Depends on who these people are. I've also found that confidence in certain areas of life don't always translate to confidence with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:01 PM
2

I would always say average with the willingness to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:00 PM
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Lot's of kinky chicks end up in church especially once they hit their late 20's early 30's. Good chance they have a kid as well so it's time to reset and try and find a nice church going man to serve as substitute father for her bastard. But those same chicks will stay true to her hedonistic ways and fuck you in a heart beat if you are interesting. I generally avoid these chicks because the conversation eventually leads to religion which I have no interest in and as I said, they are more than li…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:31 PM
3

Despite your morality the world does not owe you respect or understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:29 PM
6

I think there is something to be said about taking shots smarter instead of just incessantly shooting at every girl you meet. Instead narrow down on a few, pay attention and oddly enough don't look at her tits, maintain eye contact and keep the conversation flowing. One of my longest FWB's told me that one of the main reasons we hooked up was because I didn't look at her like a piece of meat and that the pillow talk was actually interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:27 PM
-1

Uber religious chicks are part of that. If you are shooting for one make sure she is one of those "born again" types - those usually won't have a problem putting the Jesus picture outside whiles you blow her back out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:25 PM
1

Confidence man, it's all about confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:23 PM
2

Naw, don't fuck a married or in-a-relationship chick - unless it's an open relationship. You are going to run the risk of getting your head blown off by a a jealous husband or bf and it won't be any skin off her teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:22 PM
2

In my experience some women will gladly consider a FWB as long as you are upfront about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:20 PM
1

That is why I never meet women on OLD. The ones there are largely damaged, overweight or single mothers. None of which I want any part of.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:13 PM
1

It's sad to see women behave like you are betraying some female code by daring to be a mother and a wife first over being chained to some job while your kids are being raised by the day care center.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:43 PM
5

For me personally the risk isn't worth it and as I've gotten older I tend to prefer quality of pussy over quantity anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:40 PM
4

Confidence is what matters. Looks help but at the end of the day confidence and assertiveness is what wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:28 PM
5

Yes you can be honest and get nothing. But you can lie and get nothing too. The honest approach is better because there are no lies to keep straight and you are not apologizing for what you are looking for or who you are instead of hiding it like sex is supposed to be this shameful act. More importantly you don't run the risk of becoming famous like WestElmCaleb or worse end up in prison for a rape claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:14 PM
8

Just be brutally honest. That's always worked for me. I don't hide it and I'm honest which most women tell me is refreshing because they know where I stand and not think that I have some ulterior motive. Of course the real problem happens when they catch feelings and want to have the conversation of "where this is going?" I just respond - why does it need to go anywhere? How about just enjoying each others company and leave it at that. Of course for her that is never enough so I wave sayonara an…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:08 PM
1

I care more about my average man than I do women. Women don't need my help and I certainly would never go out of my way to help a woman that I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:04 PM
-1

Nor do I tell my fat friend that he looks awesome. I tell him that he's a fat fuck and that he needs to get his ass to the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:56 PM
3

This varies from man to man. I have few friends but they are guys I grew up with and we went through a lot together and saw a lot together. We are all spread out over the world and we all make sure to get together once every 3 - 4 years - pick a spot and travel and spend a week together just getting back together and two of the group pick an activity we want to do and regardless of what it is we participate in. Only one in the group is married and he still makes it a priority to meet up with us,…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:53 PM
36

Humans behave like crabs, they can't help but pull someone down when they have a good thing going.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:20 PM
8

Those prisoners wouldn't want to see her with them in public.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 03:47 PM
5

OLD taught me that I was better off meeting women in person. Ain't no women of quality to be found online.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 03:26 PM
3

I think the highest population of men who are interested in relationships are among the young 18 to 25 crowd. Especially if those men are religious. Some of them will generally pair up with a gf early and they will get married early and head off to build a life together. A larger percentage will pair off and have their hearts ripped out through their assholes via the court systems and some will become jaded while others want a second go around to see if the first time was a fluke. A smaller perc…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 03:12 PM
2

More like pair bonding isn't really a priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 03:03 PM
3

Are there attractive men who are not interested in casual sex? Yes. Are they a significant majority? Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 03:02 PM
1

I'm one of those guys, but I'm upfront about it. I don't do the old switcharoo of dangling relationship and then say it's only sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 09:55 AM
6

No, the red pill doesn't teach guys to have sex. It teaches men about female nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 09:52 AM
1

Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 09:01 AM
86

LOL, small business owner. Let me guess she sells garbage on etsy?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 10:58 PM
1

The word is skeptical, not sceptical. There is no such word as "sceptical."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:24 PM
1

Being assertive does not equal to molesting or assaulting someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:23 PM
2

In his entire statement did he claim that he was keeping the women in his hareem chained to a radiator or enslaved? I can understand your question if he did but from his statement it looks like those women want to be a part of his hareem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:15 PM
2

Yep, that place makes me realize what sad existence blue pill men lead. Imagine wasting time when your wife has no desire to fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:14 PM
2

Good luck to whatever power takes over the shit show. They are going to have to purge this thing with fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:11 PM
2

You mean to tell me you weren't thinking, fuck yea, I can't wait to be some good old husband material when I grow up?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:33 PM
39

But remember, she's "not like that" anymore, so you should just forget about it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 08:11 PM
1

You’re not husband material. Thank you for the compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:05 PM
5

There is a vast difference between enjoying someone's company and tying yourself to a person for some societal approval. I view women as fun pass time to be enjoyed for a short while. Anything beyond that isn't worth considering.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:02 PM
6

I don't have anything against women, just don't see what a relationship with one is going to add to my life. As far as I can tell, nothing of any real value.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 04:24 PM
2

Boundaries are sacred and the second someone crosses a boundary without permission is the second you excise them out of your life like a tumor. If more people did this there would be fewer problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:33 PM
5

On the contrary that is a pretty common thing in the top 10% because they understand that marriage isn't about love or any of that bullshit - rather it's the ability to maintain wealth and create more wealth and the creation of legacy. That's the extent of it. Maybe of them agree to this with the agreement that if they have someone else on the side it will be done in secret so as to not embarrass their wives/husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:31 PM
1

Well it takes all kinds to make a world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:29 PM
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A womans past does not matter The past always matters whether you are a man or a woman. Can a man who is a pedophile claim that he is now out of prison and the past does not matter or will he still be on a sex offender registry? The past is generally a good indicator of the future, not always but quite often because that is really the kind of person you are. Women try to hide this shit because they have a goal of suckering some poor beta male into marriage. She will do this without an ounce of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:21 PM
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If the past didn't matter we wouldn't be prosecuting people for things they said and did 10 - 20 years later. Remember guys, a woman isn't worth destroying your life for, no pussy is worth that hassle.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:13 PM
11

Women decided they wanted to be men and men are realizing they don't want to date or marry mannish women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:11 PM
3

Exactly, I walk into my home and I'm greeted by my dog who regardless of the kind of day it's been is always happy to see me. Compare that with the poor married schmuck working overtime again because he just wants to prolong the moment when he has to go home to what is waiting for him beyond the door. Have known quite a few guys like this, they generally take the long way back home and sometimes sit in the car for 10 - 15 mins before going into the house. My weekends are mine. But the single bes…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:09 PM
7

You assume that even after they settle down they don't have casual sex and they don't have agreements with their wives about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:00 PM
2

That is where most of your problems come to the surface, givers match up largely with takers who then destroy the giver. You see the same when it comes to couples outlook of money. One will be a saver the other the spender and the saver will always wonder why it feels like he/she is dumping money into a bottomless pit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:55 PM
3

I'm a giving person, I just choose to donate my time and money to charity and not a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:54 PM
6

Oh yea, they prefer to wait at the finish line and claim that they were there for your rough years.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:52 AM
1

And you need to figure out a way to stay on topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 10:20 PM
8

The women in nursing homes weren't bitches and whores. Grandpa wasn't playing house with a kween or boss bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:12 PM
1

I don't date women with mental problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:37 PM
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70% - 80% miserable seems about right.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:27 PM
2

Woman of Mass Destruction - hand grenades have a better safety standard than the modern woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:26 PM
1

Oh there was a time I thought that it existed. Just as there was a time when I thought Santa was real.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:23 PM
41

So asexual college educated guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 06:41 PM
23

She was too busy pumping out kids with Tyrone and being a Queen.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 06:28 PM
123

What college educated man wouldn't want to wife up an illiterate woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 06:27 PM
3

I'm not gonna say pacific.... What do you have against the Pacific?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 06:27 PM
2

You don't have to live up to the standards. And men are not obligated to live up to whatever standards you have set. Everyone wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:18 PM
2

I think being a woman is about as bad as being a man. We all have problems sister, the only difference is I don't have daddy government to save me from mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:10 PM
2

Translation: I can't live up to that so fuck religion. Okay, so quit expecting men to pay for you. C'mon show us all what a stronk woman you are by paying for your own tampons without whining about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:09 PM
2

For the modern attending college equates to smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:07 PM
9

Thank god. I'd rather get long COVID than spend a second with a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:04 PM
1

Yes one step.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:56 PM
0

The non-silent ones are one step from being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:28 PM
3

Women have options when it comes to who they fuck. Very few of them have options when it comes to who will wife them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:26 PM
4

Oh you don't need luck. Just the fact that you aren't wifing one of these WMD's up is reason enough to be successful. That's what women really fail to understand is how much of a drain they are on a mans life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:24 PM
4

Yep, Tom Leykis taught me that doing all these BP things of courting a woman was a waste of time. You want to be the guy she is texting while the BP guy is opening the car door so he can shell out a few hundred dollars on her meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:20 PM
0

These days I don't even think that since I don't ever want to cohabitate or marry a chick. Sex, have fun sure - beyond that I have no use for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:27 PM
33

Women are always baffled by the statement - marry before you carry. Yet these same women will claim how hard life is raising a kid by yourself etc.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 11:33 AM
1

God yes. Brunch, what a useless waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:37 AM
2

I have met plenty of those guys - I call them ex-husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:33 AM
1

Bowchika-bow-wow
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:48 PM
2

Bonobo monkeys are freaks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:44 PM
24

That's because other women will tell her that she is beautiful at any weight.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/22 09:39 PM
9

Yep, like, just admit that you are fat and move on. It's a given that if the guy isn't into hunting whales he is going to move on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/22 09:36 PM
3

You assume that a conservative and a politician claiming to be conservative are the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:33 PM
-2

Voting for your fellow man is a deluded concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:48 PM
-2

No, it isn't physically impossible, very difficult sure. But impossible? Not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:45 PM
14

Men handle it in civil ways because men by and large when negotiating with other men always have to contend with the possibility of violence if all parties don't behave. There is no such dynamic for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:44 PM
14

Women have more government support than men, so it stands to reason that women will be more liberal because they have daddy government with training wheels on to catch them if they fall. The men on the other hand have no support and hence have to live a more conservative life because if calamity comes society won't give a fuck if he winds up sleeping under a bridge.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:42 PM
2

I'd be curious to know what her degree is in.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 08:46 PM
16

Oldest trick in the book.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 08:45 PM
63

Don't you know you can be crass, classless, bitchy, neurotic and insane only if you have tits and a cunt?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 08:45 PM
6

Well the first part never happens so it makes the second part of that statement moot for an Incel. Fairly self explanatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:14 PM
8

whoever they can Is there something confusing about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:58 PM
15

In all my years I have never heard those words come out of a mans mouth. Men don't expect their wives and gfs to make them happy or outsource the responsibility of their happiness to their partners. They don't demand that their gf's perform like a trained monkey for their entertainment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 06:26 PM
12

Men should stop chasing period. Have a backbone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 05:34 PM
18

Ask a woman which restaurant she wants to eat at and watch the response.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 05:27 PM
27

Women outsource their shit to their partners. "He never made me happy" - is a popular statement by women. Like somehow your partner is responsible for your happiness when in reality only you can make yourself happy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 05:25 PM
3

With no lube
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 05:21 PM
29

How I fucked my mothers boyfriend
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 04:48 PM
1

Plenty of broke ass people who never spent their money on either of those things. In fact in the US I'd say most people suffer from spending money on trying to finance a 10x lifestyle more than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:25 PM
3

Fight back by ensuring you never lift a finger to help a woman ever again. Never hold a door open, never buy her a drink. There is more to life to catering to women, frankly surprised it's taken this long for this shit to reach what it has.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:12 AM
5

She put money down for a new gingerbread house but kept eating the materials so the workers all quit and the builder refunded her deposit and told her to go away.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/22 09:15 PM
2

Definitely has a FDS vibe eh?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/22 07:33 PM
16

Opportunities are limited.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/22 07:31 PM
2

The K-Mart Layaway plan
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/22 07:31 PM
88

Red Flag Bingo Covered in Tatts No picture of face Single mother Demanding No sex requirement with profile pic of tits.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/22 07:30 PM
5

So the expectations are for a guy to step in and be step dad with no sex. Sounds like a niche market eh?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/22 07:27 PM
1

All evidence to the contrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:23 PM
1

Is he allowed to have a preference in what he finds important and less important? For instance he absolutely loves your tits and hey your ability to talk about Slavic history while good isn't the most important thing to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:40 PM
2

Hurr Durrr....that's funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:38 PM
1

Well you claim that a woman needs to get a man to see her more as a person. Two people are out on a date, what makes you think that the man in this equation is looking at her as an object? These are two people, not a man out on the town with a handbag.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:37 PM
2

A good place to start is your dating profile that says - that you are looking for someone who respects you while your profile pic is just tits and ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:11 PM
1

So you think the guy who is on a first date isn't sure if he is out with a person or a handbag in a human skinsuit?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:08 PM
11

A few of my personal favorite is the I love to laugh line.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:54 PM
1

Merely that complementing someone on a physical attribute is not dehumanizing in anyway. Anymore than claiming that if I spout out a bunch of accomplishments it means that the person somehow cares and sees you as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:52 PM
1

Not really, for all I know she's a secretary who has all these things and daddy is footing the bill for it. It says nothing about being competent at anything. No one said that having big tits is an accomplishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:22 PM
3

What's plenty? Is it above or below 5?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:20 PM
1

It's about as valid as saying that you are a secretary who has her own place and drives her own car.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:14 PM
1

You mean we think of ourselves as the content of our character when we feel like it. Posing for the sake of posing - more of the - I want him to take me seriously bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:21 PM
3

Biologically women's first impulse is sexual as well. Most women know within the first few minutes of meeting a person if they are going to fuck that person and guess what, it has nothing to do with his ability to quote Chaucer or wax eloquent about feminist ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:18 PM
8

Well let's be honest women for the most part never approach men. So it's a bit different.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:15 PM
0

Oh you would know but would you care? Women will apply different standards to different men while wrapping it this insane bullshit of being needed to be seen as a person. Sorry, you are either a person or not a person, another persons opinion of you doesn't erase that. As a rule I never compliment a woman. Who the fuck needs to walk on eggshells?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:13 PM
-6

Sure. My bum is attached to me and it is part of my physical person. As for not caring what I had to say or do - why does what I have to say or do make me more of a person than just my physical being?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:12 PM
1

Women aren't mad that men objectify them, they're mad that the wrong men are objectifying them. BING-FUCKING-O
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:00 PM
2

How do you know? I will bet that he complemented all those women on their appearance and bodies and they had no problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:59 PM
-2

Are parts of you not a part of YOU? Like you as a person are not attached to your tits and ass? I mean they are your tits and ass right? Not like you swap em out like spark plugs or something right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:41 PM
2

This complaint is only to men who she deems unattractive - West Elm Caleb won't have this problem. In fact we can easily say that women don't consider men who are unattractive to them as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:38 PM
1

Yep, it's like pissing and shitting. Sure I'd love it if I woke up every day and took a piss at the Ritz with it's excellent facilities, but there are times when I'm on the highway and I need to stop at the gas station to take a leak. Sex is no different, the rest of the emotional bullshit that comes with it is just that bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:43 PM
1

Sex - fun, enjoyable but ultimately something that needs to be enjoyed and compartmentalized so as to not affect other areas of your life. Look around you and most of the assholes who got fired or suffered a setback did so because they followed their cocks and cunts instead of their brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:40 PM
6

You are assume that all these 30 year old women are worth it. Single mothers exist because a woman decided to have a kid. Men have no say in whether a kid is birthed. So no, women own that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:08 PM
75

Practicing witch? The weight watchers spell didn't take eh?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/22 12:47 PM
1

You patriarchal shit lord. Flay him with your tampons girls!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:27 PM
2

So the author is outraged that men are dating multiple women from dating apps? Isn't that the whole fucking idea of dating? Am I to believe that women all date one guy at a time? What exactly is she outraged about? My favorite line in her whole wall of nonsense Without any change in the toxic dating culture being created by these apps – or the men they’re turning into fuckboys Hahaha, the app made these men fuckboys, not the women who actively lusted after them and fucked them. Oh no, it's the a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:12 PM
5

Maybe she should have talked to an actual man before writing this. What? And run the risk of accidentally doing work?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:05 PM
5

Okay with it provided that there is no cohabitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:03 PM
1

I would choose a root canal over a relationship. Fucking waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:24 PM
1

What's there to bridge? You operate under the assumption that Red Pill folks actually expect you to solve shit. They don't, it merely points out the situation as a means to educate folks to the reality of things and not the fairy tale bullshit you are fed about the opposite sex. Then it's up to you decide your level or risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:16 PM
2

In no particular order Desperation Bitterness Bashing the Ex Trying hard to sell her independence Excessive drinking
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:46 PM
3

Well it's unheard of from your POV. I on the other hand have see this shit first hand. Butt hurt women do exist and do crazy things, including weaponizing the work place.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:31 PM
1

Provided you don't have a woman weighing you down. Start early, invest early and don't waste money on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:30 PM
3

Oh definitely a misogynist - remember in 2022 women can do no wrong. They can be shitty as fuck and it is never their fault. We as mere men are expected to worship women as all knowing and all powerful even though majority of them have mental problems and can't hold a decent conversation to save their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:29 PM
1

Plus if you want unconditional love get a dog. A woman isn't going to give you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:26 PM
1

I agree. Be yourself, never apologize for it. Do what makes you happy and never outsource your happiness to others - bitches do that and most of them are on some form of psychotropic drugs anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:22 PM
2

Not to mention living way under your means is how you get to amass wealth. The corolla will contribute to that in taking your ass to work. Can't say the same thing about a woman who will most likely be spending.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:21 PM
6

My experience in both personal and professional life has been the same as the OP. I as a rule refuse to date/fool around with women I work with - have even said this on a few occasions to women I work with that have indicated interest. Yet every time I have encountered this and rejected a woman they have taken it poorly - usually resorting into petty shit that is either name calling or somehow I'm not man enough etc. I fortunately never had the misfortune of running into a raging idiot who would…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:11 PM
1

I never pursue a relationship with a woman. Casual sex sure, but a relationship is verboten.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:51 AM
1

Preferably not wife up or knock up women and limit my tax liability to the state.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:15 PM
1

It takes two humans to procreate sure. But the abortion laws tell me that only a woman has the right to decide if a child is born. Time to put those big girl panties on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:46 PM
2

It's delicious isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:45 PM
2

Start by removing the welfare system where people are rewarded for shitting out kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:32 PM
0

Naw, we can't look at male suffering man. Society has no tolerance or care for it. Hell there is a video on Youtube of a court proceeding where a man appears before the judge to plead a temporary reduction of his child support payments because his hours at work have been reduced by his employer. The judge proceeds to send the guy to jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:31 PM
5

Fatherhood in 2022 for women is a plug and play role where men are expected to step up and save them from their fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:27 PM
37

I have my own place, vehicle and full time job Who is subsidizing the home and car?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 04:03 PM
1

Lot's of entitlement for someone whose head is shaped like a football.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 04:00 PM
1

Nope. For the riveting delusion of people who think that life is some fucked up fairy tale.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:06 AM
3

When learning to fish you don't get advice from the fish, you get advice from the fisherman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:46 AM
5

Woman gets liquid shits from food poisoning, patriarchy to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:45 AM
0

Changing society has effectively changed the requirements that men and women have in their partners Adapt or die Well I can't answer for women. For men, stop looking for the fairy tale, it doesn't fucking exist. Find what interests you and the things you love and invest your time and effort in those things. Women are great for the occasional enjoyment. I don't have an issue with OLD because I don't participate in shitshows.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:29 PM
2

Is that before or after he hits the pavement?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:34 PM
18

Society does not care about male feelings period. Chips up, down, sideways, nonexistent doesn't fucking matter.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 05:08 PM
4

Most of the friendzone stuff is because the man thinks that the woman should infer his intentions based on his actions and that if he does enough good deeds that she will grow to love him. Which is fucking bullshit because women admire men who are not afraid to take the chance and can voice out their intentions instead of pussy footing around. This is part of the brainwashing that men need to overcome - your mom telling you that women want nice guys who treat them a certain way is horseshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:06 PM
8

I work as a consultant and back when I was travelling I was always astounded how my female peers were wearing designer fashion at client sites by recycling their wardrobe using services like Poshmark and rent-the-runway. I mean we are talking about thousands of dollars they work to earn so that they can blow it on leased cloths.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 03:34 PM
4

Guys want a mom bod Ummm perhaps men who have a weird fetish do.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 03:32 PM
1

Really? Where? We rarely see them in the wild. Quick grab the camera and take a selfie.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:50 AM
1

Really? Where? Just because they reject your skankass doesn't mean that they are advocating for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:42 AM
1

Attract woman, but never treat her like a priority - that will keep her keen.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:33 AM
3

The funny part is that female landwhales are the most vocal when demanding 666 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:13 PM
4

Extremely picky and I cannot abide fat women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/22 05:04 PM
1

I gladly dodged that bullet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:52 PM
21

Oh look a 22 year old dumpster fire.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/22 10:41 AM
5

Great, prove it. The usual way this goes is she will first say that she only wants casual and then a month in she wants to talk about "where this is going." Bait and switch, is what you can usually expect in those situations - most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:24 AM
7

The flak is largely coming from simps who are desperate for female validation and women who fucked those guys only to realize that their investment went nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:08 AM
9

Yes, she explodes two ways - both in girth and as a claymore mine that destroys your life and sanity while simultaneously shredding your ass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/22 03:38 AM
1

Absolutely. No one should be forced to live with someone who doesn't satisfy them sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 12:22 AM
3

It's all fair in love and war. Women slather on makeup to improve their looks, men wear shoes that make them appear taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 12:19 AM
3

Ultimatums. Will not tolerate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 12:18 AM
1

Most women are this way. Boring as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 07:18 PM
2

9 out of 10 people are boring as fuck but demand that their partners be the most interesting man/woman on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 07:17 PM
84

Settling down and starting a family used to be something honorable and celebrated. These days though settling down and starting a family is like winning the 1st place at the shitshow.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 07:16 PM
4

Most people fail at life because they have no fucking direction or idea where their life needs to go. They instead operate from an idea of experimentation and lurch from one dumpster fire to the next while screaming about how unfair it all is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 05:10 PM
8

Insecure wouldn't be the word I choose. I think revulsion is a more accurate term.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 02:19 PM
11

"Rapper and actress" Exactly what has this woman produced or even acted in? Women love giving themselves these titles that mean fuck-all. Go to LA and even the bitch at great clips is an actress.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 02:14 PM
5

I'd be curious to know how many men these women rejected outright and how many of them have the phrase "Don't just say hi - say something interesting" in their profiles. Women don't like hard work and this right here is a perfect example of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:05 PM
0

I wouldn't date a fat slob why the fuck would I want to be married to or living with someone to let themselves become a fat slob?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:20 PM
2

Watched what cheating did to my older brother and that was enough for me to swear off relationships for good. This way she can fuck whomever she wants and I can do whatever or whomever I want. Only the neurotic feel that they need to lock others down for their benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:41 PM
1

Nope, can't risk her getting bruised up in his effort to restrain her. That is grounds for assault as well. Others won't interfere even though violence against any human being should be repugnant. Yet somehow being born with a penis is an excuse to have women assault you if they feel like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:06 AM
2

Sigh, this is why you never want to use your real name when pumping and dumping chicks. In fact it is best if she never sees your home and never knows your last name.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 11:02 PM
1

So basically women who are 18 are all idiots who don't know what the fuck it is they are doing or what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:56 PM
0

Women make fuckboys. So not really sure what they are whining about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:51 PM
5

How exactly do you know who initiated? What if she initiated? If we are talking about two drunk individuals who don't recall what the fuck happened - where is the proof that the man initiated anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:49 PM
6

If a man and woman are both intoxicated the man is still charged with rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:45 PM
22

drunk driving does now doesn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:43 PM
6

Avoid drunk bitches like the plague - in fact on the hierarchy of bitches to avoid it's always drunk followed by single mothers. In fact I make it a point to not even try anything with a woman who has had more than 1 drink. Sorry, my life is worth more than your pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:41 PM
39

Always ask for the Whorefax history report.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/22 07:21 PM
8

Chest tats and jowls - followed by proclamation that she is a single mother.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/22 07:21 PM
1

I never said that not wanting to have sex is okay or not okay. However women using it as a weapon has a long and illustrious history.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:46 PM
3

Same here. Not saying that they don't exist because there are some thirsty ass motherfuckers in this world, but personally don't know any and I'm okay with that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/22 03:37 PM
3

They have no capacity for it because the hamster brain requires stimulus and drama. They crave it and they try to reach ever higher.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/22 03:25 PM
1

Of course you complaining about not getting the best assume that you are the best. Highly doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:11 PM
1

Fuck around in your best years and that's what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 12:41 PM
5

Women thrive on drama and stimulation and the need is fucking constant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 12:02 PM
2

The man can't defend himself against a woman. A woman can hit a man, what are his options? Take the hit? Hell I will bet that if she broke a nail hitting him he will likely go to jail for assault. His only alternative is literally to exit the house or leave her ass where it is and get as far away from her as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 12:01 PM
1

She worked at a subway man, how good can they fucking be?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/22 10:27 AM
17

And if I am too tired, there is always Subway - A $5 footlong is a lot cheaper than alimony and child support.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/22 10:25 AM
2

It absolutely is treating sex as a reward when you use it as a form of punishment. Women know this but will argue otherwise because hey accountability is too much for her delicate sensibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:23 AM
2

Oh absolutely, women are way more likely to initiate violence. Hell you even see it out in public where a woman will hit or even throw things at a man because she knows that she can do it and no one will care.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:47 AM
4

About 10% of the female population is worthy of commitment. The rest are whores, and those you don't wife up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:59 AM
5

Doesn't take away from the fact that you keep hitting a guy and he's supposed to just take it. Everyone has a breaking point, hell you have one and causes you to hit your husband and yet he needs to keep taking the abuse day in and day out?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:50 AM
2

Went MGTOW at 27, never looked back.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:47 AM
0

Beta gonna beta. He was pretty spineless just expecting you to infer his feelings for you instead of having the balls to ask you. $100 says he would have asked for permission before kissing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:23 AM
4

Is it possible that he's doing nice things to be nice and he wants to date you? Why should it be one or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:01 AM
2

Hahahaha, discuss Margaret Atwood novels with. Ladies, this is a PSA - if you have a male friend who wants to have such discussions with you or he identifies himself as a feminist - Do not find yourself alone with such a man Do not continue to be his friend You are likely going to end up dead with your skin being worn like Buffalo Bill or he is a rapist. RUN BITCH, RUN!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:47 PM
1

Women are by and large depreciating assets. Having one is an expense that you won't ever recoup.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:44 PM
1

So glad I got the snip when I turned 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:42 PM
2

Most if not all women use it as leverage. What you think it's some great accident that men sleep on the couch when a couple are having a fight?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:30 PM
2

Because from the POV of a man it appears like women reward bad behavior. They are not necessarily wrong when the price for good behavior is commitment with diminishing sex over time while the price for bad behavior is sex on demand with no expectation of commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:50 PM
1

Ultimately it comes down to what her pain in the ass factor is? Sex while it's important and all is a miniscule part when considering the time the two of you would be spending together. An intact hymen doesn't mean that she isn't a pain in the ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:55 PM
1

The #1 cause of divorce is marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:47 PM
1

It's an even more powerful incentive to never get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:52 AM
1

The problem is that both genders will tolerate bullshit from a partner - largely to keep the peace and also from fear that they won't lose them. For men it's the fear of losing access to pussy and for women its the fear of losing commitment. Just refuse to tolerate bullshit. Never make your partner believe that they can't be kicked to the curb for bad behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:48 AM
2

You need to look at this from the way women calculate emotional labor Emotional labor done by a woman is calculated 5 points higher than the same emotional labor done by a man. Hence as a man you are always at a deficit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:29 AM
8

Pump and dump boys, remember, it is ideal if they never know your name.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/22 04:04 AM
5

And you just proved that your price is an appetizer and an entre. Moving on up babe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:57 AM
22

And this right here is why I will never take a woman who claims she is a christian seriously.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/22 08:58 PM
10

That's right kweeen, the number of men who are waiting to wife up a 30+ year old single mother is enormous....just keep believing that....snicker
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/22 08:56 PM
8

Modern technology....it's a marvel
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/22 08:54 PM
6

Yep, she in her men are all pigs and terrible state and obviously your bf has committed the cardinal sin of being born a male. Flay him with your tampons feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 08:38 PM
10

Of course, radfems don't date feminist men. Feminist men are rapists and molesters, stay away.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 08:36 PM
2

Let me save you the trouble. It is the lot of a man to suffer and walk the path of loneliness. Having a bitch in your life isn't going to change that, in fact often times it makes it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 08:35 PM
10

Women are human beings and like human beings can be and are pieces of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 08:33 PM
5

They being women? Yea I agree. Maybe y'all need to start high-fiving sluts?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 08:30 PM
24

Misery loves company and feminists are some of the most miserable people you will ever meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 08:28 PM
8

You don't want to have kids. Good for you. Not all women want to be childless.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:22 PM
21

What the fuck am I reading here? He had the audacity to say that I would not have been a good wife because I am a drama queen followed by I tried to fight him and his wife.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/22 07:17 PM
7

It's quite easy to tell an adult and a kid apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:27 PM
5

Men largely hope their women don't ever change. Women on the other hand want their men to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:27 PM
2

I repeat, what interaction are you referring to. An interaction requires two or more people. If the women are outright rejecting men then what interaction are we talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:08 AM
44

If young chicks are sluts then the older chicks used to be sluts.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/22 11:47 PM
3

What interaction are you talking about. Lesser women won't even look at guys who are in their level. For interaction to happen women need to remember that they are part of the equation as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:31 PM
4

She's the personification of a Twinkie.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/22 05:28 PM
2

Looking hideous has nothing to do with sexual attractiveness. People can generally look good and not be sexually attractive. But a fat slob is essentially that a fat slob, no amount of manicures and makeup is going to take that away.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:23 PM
2

Women will always tell on themselves. Women love to talk and it's important as a guy to shut up and let her gab on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:41 PM
2

Everyone thinks they are the exception. Which is rather funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:26 PM
2

A hideous woman with a manicure is still a hideous woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:22 PM
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Women are more than welcome to withhold sex before commitment and men are more than welcome to never wife up a high n-count woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:06 PM
30

Next thing you know you are on the hook for child support because her crumb crunchers felt like you were their daddy. Avoid like the fucking plague guys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/22 02:54 PM
15

It is okay to give up. No one should have to keep doing something that just ends up making them feel bad about themselves in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:54 PM
3

No man ever won a woman by jumping through hoops like a trained monkey.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:11 PM
2

Date without commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:30 AM
1

Actually women like the men who are are not invested in a relationship more than them. Especially if he is the cash cow pulling in beaux coup bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:28 AM
2

Like what exactly is she teaching him? He's settled, takes care of himself, has his own place, is financially solvent. What the fuck is she teaching him?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:26 AM
4

You are an ideal candidate to serve as wage slave and can eventually be strip mined during the divorce rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:15 PM
1

Well it is a term that is supposed to have emphasis. If I said it in the tone of a guy who got his balls chopped off it would be without the exclamation mark.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:00 PM
1

There is literally an article written by a feminist who made a career out of getting rid of catcalling in the UK but now at the age of 40 says she misses being catcalled. This right here is why I never take women seriously, on anything. Y'all are born with morals that are about as stable as quicksand.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:59 PM
1

Not at all. It's a fairly standard response given to someone who does not matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:55 PM
3

I follow the simple rule that every woman was a whore unless she proves that she isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:40 PM
2

Perfect. Now...Fuck off!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:39 PM
17

Yep, stop giving a fuck about female approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:53 PM
1

Want to really get to know your spouse? Divorce them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:51 PM
1

Wring your hands some more child. It's hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:49 PM
2

I'm not. Got anything else you want to call me?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:48 PM
2

Why? I'm not the one with the hang-up about what others feel about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:32 PM
1

And at one time Doctors recommended that you smoke cigarettes to get rid of a stammer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:29 PM
1

Humoring and actually participating in a persons mental problems isn't the solution either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:24 PM
1

I don't. It shouldn't, that's the point right? The only people complaining about it are these morons. I didn't create the transphobic label nor is there an associated label for them. Call me whatever you want, just don't expect me to humor your mental disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:23 PM
3

Nope, it isn't worth my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:22 PM
2

You want to play make believe with your gender, fine. Just don't expect the rest of us to play along.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:11 PM
5

Trans-people are mentally challenged.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:09 PM
2

Actually the person they are accusing of being a transphobe are actually accurately gendering them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:08 PM
6

Almost makes you wonder why their gender identity is so fragile that you not recognizing it is somehow the end of the fucking world? If you and your friends want to believe something have at it. Why do I need to join your delusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:07 PM
6

I don't need to respect anything. Least of all some person's feelings. Don't like it - fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:06 PM
61

"Where are all the nice guys on the East Coast" They are either with nice girls or they are living their best lives avoiding you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 12:40 PM
1

As are super attractive good women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 09:28 PM
1

dating in terms of finding long term relationships or marriage no. Dating for the fun of it, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 12:02 AM
5

unless you are suffering from a medical issue, gaining weight is entirely about the person being a lazy fucker/slob/pig
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 09:45 PM
5

So a neck injury keeps you from working. Okay given that this woman can't work, what sort of housewife is she going to make?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/22 06:46 PM
12

More likely that she is a lazy slob who stops trying once she is in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:44 PM
1

Unless we are talking about weight gain because of an actual medical issue then yes it's a total deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:37 PM
7

Being able to regurgitate shit on a test only proves that you are able to regurgitate what is put into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:36 PM
8

The fact that you used the term "baby mama" proves that those women procreated with a substandard guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:19 PM
6

Nope. I don't regret never getting married and I certainly don't regret not creating copies of myself. I think people should follow the path that maximizes their happiness. Man or woman does not matter, what makes you happy, do that instead of living your life for the approval of assholes you don't even like in the first place. I am 37 and I quit the dating/relationship/marriage game at 27.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:07 PM
110

If it floats, flies or fucks - rent it. ~ Some wise man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/22 07:54 PM
1

I said they don't pass the eye test which means I don't care about them when it comes to a relationship and getting to know them in that setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:50 PM
2

Because it's a preference. You are conflating romantic relationships with friendships which isn't the same. We started talking about this in context of a relationship. Dating a fatty and being friends with a fatty are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:30 PM
1

Well sure, because men look at casual sex in the same way we view the need to pee or taking a shit. It's sex, and here is an interested woman. We don't apply feelings to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:17 PM
1

Yea, we have no fucking desire to get to know them. They failed the eye test. There is no reason to pursue beyond that. Sort of like a woman who disqualifies a man for being short. Do they pursue beyond that to see if he is a nice short man?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:16 PM
1

Fat women are not nice. They tend to be mean, tight fisted and pitiless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:15 PM
1

Men are not shallow for not viewing overweight women as a viable partner, unless you have a fat fetish most men and women find overweight people unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:18 PM
-3

Same question, not everyone wants a life of vanilla starfish sex for the rest of their life just because a woman is "good"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:16 PM
2

Yea you do. We literally live in a world where they will show a hideously overweight woman and tell her that she is beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:15 PM
3

Thank you, finally. Okay so do we know why the man left this "good woman" or do we not care? Did anyone ask him if he just felt like it or if he was bored as fuck with so called good woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:14 PM
1

Thank you, finally. Okay so do we know why the man left this "good woman" or do we not care? Did anyone ask him if he just felt like it or if he was bored as fuck with so called good woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:14 PM
-2

Thank you, that is seriously all I am asking. Far as I can say is that women automatically claim that other women are good/beautiful/awesome/sexy/boss etc etc. I'm merely asking for proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:11 PM
1

So again, how exactly are we claiming that these are good women that men are leaving?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:59 PM
6

The point isn't to decide whose hobby and interests are superior. The point is that if you find your partner uninteresting because you could give a flying fuck about his interest in anime or reality shows then he's clearly not the guy for you. It has nothing to do with which hobby is better. For instance I find talking about crystals or astrology is beyond tedious, there is no shortage of chicks who are into that shit. I don't date those women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:51 PM
0

and the millions of guys whose only interests are video games, working out, and anime are sooooo exciting So don't date those millions of guys. Fortunately there are billions of men on the planet and for every million guys who like the above things you have millions of men who don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:49 PM
1

How exactly are good women evaluated? Having tits and a cunt doesn't automatically make a person good/beautiful/kind/awesome/sun shines out of her ass etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:47 PM
2

Exactly, we are not chimps that beat our rivals to death with our fists. We instead created weapons to be more effective at killing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:51 PM
1

But your statement makes it seems that my two choices in life is to be a scrawny person or the Rock. Which isn't the case, most men are not either of these and most soldiers are not either of these.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:50 PM
2

Living in a third world crap hole for most of my life made me realize that the baldest motherfucker in the neighborhood wasn't always the biggest guy around.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:47 PM
4

Not as much as I pity the women injecting rubber in their ass cheeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:44 PM
5

Any soldier will tell you that all the muscles in the world isn't going to help if an average joe shoves a spear through your eyeball or blows your head off with a gun.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:43 PM
2

Oh I have plenty of hope left, but I don't look to people to give me hope. Figured out a long time ago that depending on others for my satisfaction in life was a losers bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:33 PM
2

Don't think I stated that there are no other experiences - for instance where would the world be if it wasn't for the naïve?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:27 PM
3

Right and if you just keep looking fairies and unicorns can be found as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 10:41 AM
6

People will surprise you when you get to know them More likely that people will disappoint you when you get to know them and they will keep disappointing you the longer you know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:56 AM
7

No they don't. Men who do this have women running the other way because women hate clingy and needy guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:30 PM
8

Ted Bundy killed women and still had women writing love letters to him and wanting to marry him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:26 PM
1

Treat women like they are not a priority and you will get your dick wet. Treat her like a princess and she will treat you like the help.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:18 PM
2

It also bears noting that women are somehow easily manipulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:16 PM
7

I always wanted to take care of a single mother and never get my dick sucked.....said no man ever.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/22 06:47 PM
-11

He locked me down into marriage very quickly Translation, he grabbed me by my hair and took me back to his cave and I loved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:14 PM
112

I'm going to say 200+
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/22 11:38 PM
7

It has more to do with listening to shit without the ability to look for a solution. Women are not interested in solution, they just want to bitch. I have plenty of male friends who I have offered emotional support to, but we recognize that part of the emotional support requires a solution, that's the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:02 PM
16

Because you can only have one insecure person in a couple and women have called it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:00 PM
1

It recognizes that a woman will say and do anything including lie to get commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 12:17 PM
2

Trust is something that is earned over a long period of time and I don't trust people regardless of their gender..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:03 AM
0

Selectively and casually
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:35 AM
1

I do and yes men in the US can and do face jail time when they are unable to pay
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:21 AM
1

Men get sent to prison for being unable to pay child support, you understand that much don't you? It's one thing to go through bankruptcy while you are a couple, it's quite another thing to go through it with one person dragging your ass into court and the family courts sentencing you to prison time for not being able to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:46 PM
8

Humility and understanding of ones on insignificance is a lesson most men learn early. Women, not so much.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 07:47 PM
2

Well considering the simple fact that if he is bankrupt his kids ain't fairing to well either now are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 07:44 PM
2

And that's your prerogative, just as the other bloke was able to look at his situation and assess what was best for his daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 06:40 PM
1

Jobless.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:50 PM
58

Evidently marry before you carry is a impossible concept for women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 01:24 PM
1

I agree that you never trust a woman on the pill I do use condoms but mainly for STI and STD protection - condoms are the least effective form of birth control due to their high failure rate. With a vasectomy I don't need to stop having sex. Lastly, abortion is something only the woman decides and if she isn't open to it then you are on the hook. Better to remove the hassle off the table. Personally never wanted to have kids so it works for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:32 PM
2

Well people and stupid decisions have a long storied history.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:12 PM
2

I'm not talking about child support. I'm talking about a child I never agreed to have. There is a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:11 PM
3

One of the reasons I got a vasectomy at 30 was to ensure that no woman would have the leverage to baby trap me. Dating and relationships is all about leverage and the person you are with. Are they or are they not shitty enough to use said leverage against you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:51 AM
2

I'm sure there are signs not sure what they were in case of my sister-in-law. Too late now, as I live in dread that I will wake up one day after his youngest turns 18 to find that he took his own life. Have tried to talk to him, tried to get him to a counselor but there is no undoing what has been done to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:49 AM
4

The real question is do you blame him if he is? Just think about the ramifications of what that does to a person? To be trapped in a situation and never experience happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:47 AM
7

Your circle of friends is not representative of the larger population and also understand that people develop friendships with people who are like minded and have similar morals and outlook. So while your circle of girlfriends might not do shit like this there is no shortage of women who will do this and a state that will gladly destroy her husband for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:45 AM
5

What is also not discussed here is the financial toll it takes. Divorce lawyers and courts are incentivized to keep the fight going for as long as possible basically strip mining both parties. The person who posted his claim that he walked away has a perfect reason for it. Does he save his money so that he has something to pass on to his girls for their future? Or does he go bankrupt?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:42 AM
6

Yea, now think of what your husband is going through as he fights and fights and fights. The CPS being called is just the beginning that's a tried and true tactic by women to suddenly turn dad into a child abusing maniac. Have a cousin who is going through that right now with 2 kids. The guy you responded to is a litigator so he understands the road ahead of him and chose to surrender the kids as opposed to bankrupt himself and his spouse which is the road you and your husband are on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:40 AM
9

That's what he is saying, when deciding custody of the children it shouldn't matter if you were a bad husband or a bad wife. It should be solely based on your competence as a parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:04 AM
9

The men in the army have a colorful history of guys getting married and getting divorce raped while deployed. Don't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:01 AM
152

7 kids from multiple fathers, jesus....its like you are marrying a clown car.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/22 11:07 PM
46

No specific woman. Just an observation of the number of men destroyed in divorce and the absolute one sided shitshow marriage is. I was one of the lucky ones who decided to learn from the other guys mistake - the other guy in this case being my older brother. Watched a guy who was happily married get destroyed and become a shell of a person after his wife of 15 years cheated on him and then proceeded to threaten him that he would never see his girls again if he filed for divorce. I get that most…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:58 PM
46

Right? Mother Nature isn't without a sense of humor.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/22 10:36 PM
3

Are these the same men who are toxic to you? Just curious because this sounds entirely like your horrible choice in guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:25 PM
3

People of quality are not found on OLD. You go on OLD to find pump and dump candidates, you don't go there to find a woman to take home to mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:23 PM
1

Nothing, Tinder will pivot and market itself as an app for people to escape wildfires.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:20 PM
7

So far the only person complaining is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:19 PM
5

Tinder has always positioned itself as a hookup app - most sane people know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:17 PM
15

Totally. Participating in a shit show doesn't make it any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:12 PM
2

Single mother Obese Filters Hyper-political Astrology/crystals
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:59 PM
2

Time to flip a coin to see which of you two fuckers gets to stay home.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:57 PM
–

Maybe not in your eyes. You have no fucking idea what he values.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:12 PM
3

It isn't as bad when you realize that most of the stuff you have is just stuff and hardly worthy to keep you anchored to a spot for no reason. Yea it's expensive if you think that moving should mean that you bring all the stuff you have accumulated with you. Not so bad if you literally just have a backpack and the cloths on your back.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:10 PM
1

Sounds about right.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:05 PM
3

It's not a skill that is taught anymore and with the advent of delivery apps it's just gotten worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:04 PM
1

Oh absolutely, I don't mind donating money to charity but I don't consider paying random chicks who hit me up on social media as charity cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:56 PM
1

I've had it happen both ways. Women I knew from my past as well as women who simply just hit you up - they have no idea who you are or anything about you but their rent is late and somehow it's my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:47 PM
–

Having moved extensively all my life and having lived on 4 continents by the age of 37 I'd say I have a far better grasp of this than you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:46 PM
1

How often does it occur? Well I have had my fair share of women I knew in the past - not even women I pursued hit me up for money because they can't make rent. I can imagine it happens, how frequently - who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:02 AM
3

The general idea is that a woman who wouldn't give you the time of day or rejected you in the past but then suddenly shows interest once she hits the wall and has a few kids from her failed relationship are only out to use and abuse you. Which is why I avoid single mothers like the plague.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:41 AM
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https://www.thailovelines.com/Frontinfo/thai-women-sweden.html This was like 10 years ago, and I believe they now have a law that limits thai marriage visas - ironic given that the feminists are demanding more middle eastern men be allowed into the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:37 AM
–

What exactly is unrealistic about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:55 AM
6

Being a perpetual victim, about the most boring part of a western woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:42 AM
–

Swedish men have done just that. Finally got fed up with the state of things in their country and majority of the males there get married to asian women much to the disapproval of the local gals.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:30 AM
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Expats are still a thing and last I looked the number of folks leaving this western craphole was on the rise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:28 AM
1

I'd be amazed if a modern woman in the west can boil water
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:48 AM
2

Clearly https://palaceintrigueblog.com/2019/07/09/modern-women-will-hook-up-with-child-molesters-and-nazis-as-long-as-the-guy-is-good-looking/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:44 AM
2

Does anyone on Tinder have standards? It's a meat market and advertises as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 11:05 PM
2

Men should view dating like sport fishing, approach it with the same commitment but always practice catch and release.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:28 PM
1

True. Hell most employers will also monitor your social media activity and won't blink for a second at firing you for anything they find on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:24 PM
1

Well you are entitled to your opinion. I personally bear no resentment to the fairer sex. Just wish them good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:22 PM
3

I don't hate women, I understand women and can appreciate that they do what they do in order to maximize their happiness. I also realize that in doing so they will have no qualms in sacrificing my happiness or ratcheting up my misery if it means that they are happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:15 PM
1

Employers also check criminal history as well as credit - especially if you are working in a financial institution or in an advisory capacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:12 PM
1

Because single mothers have already proven to not have any qualms in shitting out a kid if she gets pregnant when there is no commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:51 PM
1

Depends, does he meet the kid or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:51 PM
5

Talk about scraping the bottom of the barrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:06 AM
24

From what I've seen of the world every economic ideology benefits the wealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:17 PM
5

Perhaps a better approach is as men simply develop the view that no woman is really interested in you outside of being a candidate for resource strip mining. Women have motivations just like men and those motivations exist to largely serve her needs. Men simply need to stop operating under the assumption that women are selfless, altruistic and give two fucks about male happiness - they really don't. Understand that, and move on to other pursuits.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:15 PM
2

If you are going to be an asshole be a competent asshole. Nothing worse than an asshole who is incompetent and tooting their own horn.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:26 PM
1

Men are intimidated by intelligent women No, I'd say I like intelligent women provided you know how to handle your intelligence without the need to show off about it. I get that you are excited about it, but please, subtlety is a good thing. Would you like a guy who finds a reason to introduce his accolades at every turn? No? Well same here. Men don't want to be challenged Men are competitive by nature and sure we have no problem with a challenge. That being said, do you think someone wants to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:25 PM
1

you are the architect of your own misery, just wait till you get to see the child once a week and even that after you pull teeth with the ex. Just remember not to buy that Colt-45 to end your misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:48 PM
2

Closure is overrated. Unless it's JavaScript, then it is underrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:19 PM
0

NO FUCKS GIVEN!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:18 PM
3

No one gives a fuck about men dying. As a man I stopped giving a fuck about society since society does not give a fuck about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:28 AM
2

People want relationships because most folks don't have the ability to navigate a single life. So they throw in reasons like love, the government pays me more for being a good boy/girl, my work pays me more - like any corporations gives a fuck if you are getting your dick wet or your pussy plowed. Freedom and being alone scares most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:20 AM
1

Oh the nagging never stops.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:04 AM
0

This line of thinking is how you end up as the biggest debtor in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:02 AM
1

American immigration policy is just as bad as the German one seeing that illegal immigration is skyrocketing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:20 PM
2

Sorry for the shit hand man. Guys like you were the main reason why I refused to marry or cohabitate with a woman and it's never going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:09 PM
1

Alcohol provides them with plausible deniability. So next day she wakes up and is disappointed by what she sees, scream rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:53 PM
1

Take a look at Kazhakistan, the government there is getting smashed into the ground and the cops there are running for their lives over increase in fuel costs. I'd love for you to implement your ideas here because the resulting shitstorm is going to be epic - someone pass me the popcorn and bourbon I need ringside seats to this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:51 PM
1

Hahaha, I love it. A bitch in every bed, a cock in every pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:49 PM
2

100K in a large metropolitian city isn't going to get you to be your own provider. Fucking hell, 100k in a city like San Francisco or NY won't even get you your own fucking apartment without the need for room mates or conning some sucker into shacking up and splitting the bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:48 PM
1

No men are expected to take care of women. Otherwise we are not.....snicker....real men.....LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:40 PM
9

Free yourself brother. The world is a marvelous place and life is to short to go home to a miserable nag everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:39 PM
2

Dude, you just defined my life. Marriage is a fucking con job and a fuck all one sided contract with no benefits or protections for the guy. I mean if you are so hell bent on getting married you are better off just working and donating your money to charity - at least the money will be better spent than ensuring that it goes to the ex so she can get Botox and booze for her bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:32 PM
7

Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but earning money doesn't prevent you from being divorce raped and taken to the cleaners.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:26 PM
6

Everything short of basic food, shelter, electricity and water is a luxury - that includes beer and wine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:22 PM
6

correction, their money is theirs to blow on luxuries, your money exists to pay for yours and their necessities.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:21 PM
1

They do it for attention I hit the gym at 4am, the gym bunnies are never to be found at that time. Plus there is no need to wait for equipment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:04 PM
0

Fucking hell, I was able to do that all my self? Damn I feel powerful. Run along froot loop.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:33 PM
4

Bisexual, straight, Lesbian woman Any port in a storm eh?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 07:22 PM
5

Donkey, mule, plough horse, draft horse....pick your farm animal of choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:04 AM
9

I do. Decided early on that participating in a game that gave another person the leverage to ruin me financially because she got bored, wasn't for me. I date off and on but never with the intention to cohabitate or marry - there is 0 benefit in my life for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:08 AM
12

And women want success symbols in their partners - not people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:06 AM
13

Yep, hence the reason why I don't want to be a financial donkey for a woman. Got no interest in it. You and the sisterhood can work for it. Me, I'm good, I've gone fishing - Adios.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:04 AM
2

In the modern world you don't have to take on student loan debt to learn a new skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:01 AM
3

All women are gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:00 AM
6

This was the epiphany I had at 27, today at 37 I don't regret not chasing women or getting married or cohabitating with a chick. For me it was better to chase financial freedom. Just all around more enjoyable, challenging and at the same time rewarding.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:58 AM
17

There ain't nothing natural about being a donkey for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:54 AM
1

Just one problem Einstein, I'm not the one asking you. You asked me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:17 AM
-1

That would be a fair bet sure. But doesn't take away the fact that of those 400 dudes there are quite a few who are terrible at their job.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:12 PM
1

So what am I then? To me? Nothing, vapor, text on the screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:10 PM
0

Nope, plenty of terrible people get paid to do work. You can take a shot at the NBA, not every NBA player is great - there are bad and terrible players who are on the bubble and kept on because teams just need a body out there at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:23 PM
1

Well I just know you as bytes on a computer screen....so.....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:22 PM
3

You can have a family without being a provider. I believe the "Stay at home Dad" is now a thing. Just go out and find the woman who wants to be the breadwinner while you sip wine and watch Oprah at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:21 PM
0

You can't, that is my point. You can't force people to change preferences that they organically develop. Not unless you are drugging an entire population with psychotropic drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:20 PM
4

Men are free of gender roles, ain't no one demanding that you wife up a chick and play the donkey.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:28 PM
3

Yea dude, it's an unfair world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:17 PM
1

Just tinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:17 PM
5

It wasn't meant as an insult. It was meant as a means to educate. Women don't give a fuck how much you have suffered and sacrificed. They don't have an ounce of sympathy that you have never had sex. In fact they won't shed a tear if you never have sex and die alone. That is the simple awful, motherfucking truth. All those stories you were told about women just want nice guys that you internalized? Every single word was bullshit. What women want are confident bastards who don't ask permission to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:14 PM
3

Why? And by what criteria? You want the government to assign you a virgin bride once you hit a certain age and you show up with your proof of virginity? Women are going to be motivated by what matters to them. To your bad luck it seems that women are not motivated by virgin men. How exactly do you propose we motivate them? Run an elaborate brainwashing program backed by the CIA and copious amounts of LSD?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:10 PM
3

This would assume that porn stars are good in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:06 PM
3

The woman in said equation just hasn't found the right monkey branching opportunity. Maybe she doesn't encounter it in her day to day life. The guy is living on borrowed time regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:03 PM
2

Props on that username - love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:02 PM
2

Yea I think you are saying equality when what you really mean is fairness. Nothing in the world is equal or fair - especially when it comes to dating and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:01 PM
1

But I'm not shaming them, I'm just avoiding them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:59 PM
15

plenty of women don't know their weight, as it changes unlike height. BULL-FUCKING-SHIT
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:31 PM
2

No short chick is carrying 150lbs in muscle on their frame. Like I said, there are women who look good at 150lbs but those are women who are talk a statuesque. Those women are few and far between - the general variety of woman you find is short and at 150lbs she would look more like Quasimodo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:30 PM
1

I agree with you. Online dating is usually filled with fat losers and single mothers. Not really my demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:24 PM
5

Umm no, it is entirely dependent on her height. If she is short and 150, having a fat ass and thighs isn't attractive to anyone outside of the guys with a fat fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:21 PM
10

Being a fat ass is being a fat ass, regardless of how it's distributed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:20 PM
3

Is it bad? No. You have every right to have a preference, just like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:19 PM
5

Based on my experience, a woman never fucked a man for buying her dinner. The key is to be interesting. Which is why I let guy like the OP with his virgin report card take the girls out to dinner, and while she is at dinner, I text her and ask her to meet me for a drink after dinner. Dress nice, smell nice, don't stare at her tits like an idiot and have something more to say than she is pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:57 PM
1

Yep she did mention that the oldest was 15.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/22 07:43 PM
1

You increase your chances by being interesting. I can tell you from long experience that a woman never fucked a guy because he brought her dinner. So skip dinner, let the OP with his virginity report card take her out, you text her and tell her to meet you after she is done with him for drinks. Dress well, smell nice, don't focus on her tits, don't pedestalize her and have something more to say than obsessing over how good she looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:41 PM
1

You increase your chances by being interesting. I can tell you from long experience that a woman never fucked a guy because he brought her dinner. So skip dinner, let the OP with his virginity report card take her out, you text her and tell her to meet you after she is done with him for drinks. Dress well, smell nice, don't focus on her tits, don't pedestalize her and have something more to say than obsessing over how good she looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:41 PM
2

Dude, your depression and loneliness are your problems and expecting that a woman is going to come in and fix you is the fucking mindset that has gotten you here. Women have no interest in solving your problem, it isn't their problem and why should they bother with you when they have a bevy of men who have no problem, are fun and are sexually experienced?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:38 PM
4

Why? How much more evidence do you need that women are not the sugar and spice and everything nice creatures they are portrayed to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:36 PM
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Agreed, the age that a woman will join you to build something together is a dream of a bygone era. Modern women have no interest in your struggle or what you did to get there, modern women wait at the finish line and fuck the winner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:34 PM
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Go to the actual site and read the follow up threads a few things she "neglected to mention" Her affair lasted 2 years. Her husband suspected she was up to no good and was looking into it - possibility well over a year since that is what he told her father.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/22 07:31 PM
2

Cost of doing business man. I don't think any man would say that pussy was cheap and hell pussy you want to marry is probably the most expensive pussy you will ever have.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:12 PM
1

So you are approaching - what exactly are you complaining about? They don't approach, the world isn't fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:09 PM
1

First off, there is no "gender equal society" - it's utter and total bullshit dreamed up by idiots. Women want no part of a gender equal society.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:29 PM
4

Sure, and men who are the active ones can also select their best option and cut off the ones who aren't their best option.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:26 PM
4

First off, ignore the equality bullshit because it's bullshit. Women don't want equality. If they did then women would have no problem if a guy laid a woman out if she hit him. Women don't have to approach because the men do the approaching. So while you are waiting for them to honor feminism your fellow brothers are stepping up and approaching them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:25 PM
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No man minds dating a few years younger. Question is if you are offering something those younger women want. You need to come to terms with the fact that a majority of women in their 20's are not lookin to be tied down. The number of virgin women in their early 20's itself is low. The only punishment I see here is your feeling that you are entitled to something because you checked a box and have taken a rigid stance. You've essentially think that your virginity is some great prize and the women …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:21 PM
25

Sounds like you missed the boat, sorry. You either lower your standards to include "impure women" or you remain a bachelor.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:17 PM
23

You think you bring a lot to the table. But they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:16 PM
3

Women rarely make the first move, part of what turns them on is a guy who has the stones to step up to the plate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:15 PM
10

Upper hand in what way? Both parties can say no to a relationship. You both put your best foot forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:14 PM
12

School and virginity I don't necessarily disagree with you but the older you get the chance of finding a virgin is going to go down drastically. At 26, your pool of women already is very shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:13 PM
8

You are not entitled to anything in life outside of death.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:11 PM
7

At 37, I'm happier today than I was in my 20's. Never married and at this point have no interest to be held hostage in a marriage contract. The problem is that in your 20's you are still learning and navigating life after living your first 18 years in your parents care. You are still trying to figure out what you want to do while also trying to build a career which basically keeps you chained to work. In the midst of all this you have pressure to get married have kids get the house with the whit…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:40 PM
14

stupidity
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/22 08:49 AM
-3

Don't be fat and don't try and be a man
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 02:04 AM
100

Tatts, bull ring and bastards - will be the name of her memoir.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/22 02:03 AM
8

Sorry this is about the dumbest fucking thing I have ever read. Unless the guy is literally spending every waking moment with you rubbing you like a belt sander on a block of wood, the only body that is getting worn out the the guy working with his hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:37 AM
1

Standards are only too high if you yourself cannot meet the standard you are demanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:31 AM
0

It's a self inflicted wound either way man - everyone has their preference and everyone has what they are attracted to. Can't really help it when it doesn't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:29 AM
0

Not entirely true. A very small segment of women can do that. Usually the very top tier of women. Same with men, the the top tier can get what they want. But those are small groups that you are looking at. The vast number of women can't do that just the same with the men. Even if a woman was able to get a guy she wanted to sleep with her - that isn't what she views as success in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:19 PM
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I think what people mean is that both women and men struggle dating the people they are attracted to and want to date. Just because women can get a date doesn't mean that they want to date the guys offering, they have certain guys they want to date. Similarly the men who want to date can't date because they can't find the the woman interested in dating them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:21 PM
1

Sorry, you participate in the shit. Picking abusive guys because it makes your pussy wet and then acting surprised when he beats the living shit out of you requires some blame. The the same way if I send my bank account information to the Nigerian Prince in hopes of making millions only to have my bank account to be cleaned out - I may be a victim of a phishing scam but I do deserve some blame in being the idiot who sent my bank account to said Nigerian Prince.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:28 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:26 PM
1

Who do you do it for? Myself. Not ending up being a fat fucking tub of lard that ends up winded running up a flight of stairs is important to me. Plus one of the phobias I have developed after moving to the US is that I would end up like one of the many blobs you see wandering the aisle of any Walmart.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:10 PM
3

Most people who are still in long term relationships are just there because they have no stomach for the long drawn out fight that would happen in a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:03 AM
3

Good. I look forward to the day where I see divorce lawyers and family court judges peddling in the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:00 AM
11

Women repeat what they read in cosmo and when they encounter it say that they hated it when their husbands or bfs opened up to them. Think there was post on reddit I read awhile back where this chick after a fair bit of prodding got her bf to open up. Basically her bf was raped as a child. Of course the moment he opened up to her she admits to losing respect and actually no longer desiring him. Never open up to a woman guys, as Admiral Ackbar stated - It's a trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:52 AM
3

If i tell those preferences i am shamed by women as shallow. Your mistake is caring about what women think of your preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:44 AM
2

Treating women as a priority is a waste of time and energy. Always treat her as an option that can be cast away at anytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:40 AM
11

No one likes assholes. LOL, not according to the women who actively date and fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:38 AM
22

Layaway pussy by the great Eddie Murphy
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/22 07:57 AM
1

Yea, doesn't happen every hour on the hour but yes it has happened. The first time it happened was a woman I worked with at my first job out of school with Frito Lay. As a rule I don't ever date women I work with and even back in my early 20's when I had some faith in humanity I never did something as dumb as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:53 PM
2

There are literally guys who make a shit ton of money playing video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:48 PM
1

Nope and I hold that same sentiment for members of the Black Panthers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:39 PM
10

Cute guys don't fuck livestock.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:09 PM
2

Neither would be my choice. Woman A - well I don't own a Hazmat suit and have no interest in acquiring one Woman B - I have 0 interest in marriage or having kids, so would be pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:02 PM
1

I beef with no one. I just avoid black women because I'm not attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:54 PM
7

My friends? Yes. Some random chick? Nope. Especially since women will more than likely use and abuse their male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:49 PM
3

No one is entitled politeness either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:45 PM
3

The electrocution is all part of the fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:41 PM
1

Nope, just someone who has lived long enough to understand that when you mess with the bull you get the horns and the world is fucked up enough to not care what you think is fair or just.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:39 PM
1

Well an anti-racist can be a blatant racist so we agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:37 PM
0

Perhaps try a burkha.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:37 PM
1

Well I can take an expensive car to a shitty part of town and get it stolen. I can be considered a victim and I'm sure someone will ask me why the fuck I would do this. Same thing really. People ask questions, it's how we learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:42 PM
6

Women commit far less violent crimes because they physically are incompetent and incapable. Not because they lack the desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:41 PM
4

I don't know about you but I love that I can just sit down, not say a word and be toxic. I mean if that isn't a super power I don't know what is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:39 PM
3

From what I have seen of the world people are all racists. In fact the ones who claim to be anti-racists are generally top of the list with regards to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:38 PM
2

For me it was two guys that showed me the light Tom Leykis who taught me to understand women My older brother whose marriage of 20 years went out the window when his wife "confessed" that she had been sleeping with some dude she knew for as long as she had been married. Basically watched my older bro go from a happy guy to suicidal.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/22 06:37 PM
-1

Right, because I was replying to a post saying that men were racists for having a preference for not dating across racial groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:35 PM
2

It isn't so long as women aren't bitching about men being racists for not dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:34 PM
2

Did I say men were better?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:18 PM
2

I have yet to find one who was attractive. If that makes me a racist so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:17 PM
3

Never improve for a woman man. Improve for yourself. Do the things that improve your life, your happiness. Women are attracted to that shit and will actively look out for guys like that because at the end of the day women want a ready made situation. They want a guy who has the finances figured out - the bigger your wallet better because in her mind it makes her life easier and also shows that you have a work ethic that does not require supervision from her. The days of building shit with women …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:18 PM
53

Everyday this sub reminds me why going my own way at 27 was the single greatest decision I ever made in my life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/22 03:55 PM
2

Even though they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:41 PM
8

Yes please, vote with your feet and keep walking....farther the better. Keep going, I can still smell cheap perfume and tuna.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:41 PM
14

Yet women will gladly proclaim that they don't date black guys, asian guys, hispanic guys and no one claims that it's racist. Personally, I don't date black women - just never found one that was attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:21 PM
95

Women can't handle rejection. The standard response I have encountered anytime I have rejected women is that I'm either gay (even if I was, why is that a negative? Not sure) or that I'm going to die alone (like was she going to join me when I die?)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:20 PM
1

It very rarely happens the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:33 PM
3

Depending on the part of the world you are waving this around this should be fun to watch someone blow your head open like a canoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:32 PM
7

I've lived in some pretty shitty places all over the world and I have been in my share of fist fights with other guys, unless you know what the fuck you are doing, don't even bother getting involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:21 PM
3

Yea, maybe give the assailant the peace, love and positivity talk, it won't stop him from stomping your face into the sidewalk but hey at least you got the words out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:19 PM
8

Talk is easy until the violence starts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:16 PM
19

Cal from Titanic was the original feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:07 PM
12

People who use the "pull out" method are called - Parents.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/22 06:47 PM
14

six seven kids
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/22 06:41 PM
1

Wait till they hit 40 and start complaining about feeling invisible to the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:22 PM
0

Ah but where in society does anyone tell girls or a woman to never hit a boy or that it is not okay to hit a boy or a man? No most women grow up with the entitlement that men are not allowed to hit them but they themselves have no qualms in hitting a man until they finally meet the one guy who is going to say fuck this and smash her face in. Look at the Ray Rice incident, all you see are people who say that he should not have hit her. Okay, how many folks did you see asking why she kept hitting …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:41 AM
6

Crazy right?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/22 10:52 AM
1

Young boys have more repercussions for hitting a girl than a girl will ever face hitting a boy. Most girls grow up with the mindset that boys are not allowed to hit them and use that information with impunity
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:41 AM
2

The numbers of those women have gone up over the years. That is the common variety of woman you find in almost any church in the western world who suddenly finds Jesus and is on the lookout for the man who will be her husband and raise her kids as his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:40 AM
16

Not wrong since Obama got it for being black.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/22 10:04 AM
55

Bad teeth, short hair and looks like she smokes cigarettes as a sport.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/22 10:02 AM
10

Men are also more likely to negotiate higher pay.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/22 09:41 AM
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I pick death. A woman ain't worth the trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:01 AM
2

In Jussie Smollet's case it was entire true. Which is why people ask questions. Only a dumb ass just suspends any inquiry of what happened. Feminists hate it precisely because they want to be portrayed as victims. Society at large would have a different take if they were presented with the actual truth that women participate in abusive relationships as much if not more than the men they hookup with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:36 AM
1

when victims instigate and go out of their way to pick abusive men because it turns them on when their men abuse others, then they deserve some blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:20 AM
1

And that in turn is putting a lot of women out of womens sports. Can't wait till some trans woman destroys Serena Williams. Should be a blast. Someone pass me the popcorn and bourbon.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:10 AM
4

Looks around........who is stopping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:46 AM
7

Women don't like spending their own money on men. They prefer to keep their money and have men spend money on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:39 AM
4

Great, and you know how many men will care that older women are banging younger men - 0
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:37 AM
3

What a deal eh? A woman who has no time and comes with a kid who you have to now pay for. This is one buy one get one free deal that no sane man should want a part of.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/22 02:33 AM
2

Lying for any degree of time takes a shit ton of effort to maintain the lie which is what I am talking about. Obviously it's easier if the guy lies to the woman, pumps and dumps her and moves on. Sure - that's easy. However, if the guy lies and proceeds on a relationship with a woman over months and years at a time - especially given social media and the internet it makes it nearly fucking impossible to maintain the lie for any length of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:55 AM
1

Fuck that, I wouldn't even do that. Not my problem. There is no shortage of men who interfere with couples having a fight in public only to have the women turn on the guy trying to bring calm to the situation. Ne
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:45 PM
1

Abusive relationships rarely ever go one way. In majority of the cases abusive relationships are reciprocal and the women in most cases instigates the abuse - either via verbal abuse or physical abuse. Until we acknowledge female participation in the abuse none of this will change.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:44 PM
2

Did you deserve to get tossed through the wall? No. Did you actively participate in the choices that led you to that end - Yes. Just like when someone burns a fucking building down you don't just shrug and say oh well it burned down no one deserves that. No, you go through the ashes and find out what the fuck happened. Same thing here, this isn't victim blaming but rather understanding how you participated in fucking your own life up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:42 PM
2

Women date and fuck assholes in hopes that the asshole wifes them up. When they get put through the ringer a few times, they then drag their damaged psyche along with whatever bastard children they managed to have with the assholes they dated and then proceed to inflict themselves on some beta who is just happy to get his dick wet once a month for paying for her freeloading ass and the kids who hate his guts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:39 PM
1

Sure, but the problem here isn't the shitty women. The problem here is the law that is weaponized against men. Yea we recognize that all women are not going to divorce rape us, but the fact is that a 100% of the women have the ability granted by the government to do this to us. That's the fucking point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:37 PM
2

The the trash pumping and dumping is one part of it. It's the subsequent claim by women who choose these men, get fucked over and then go on to bash all men for their shitty choices. Like lady, you picked an abusive asshole and though that your pussy was so special that he was going to turn into a knight in shining armor. I mean how fucking arrogant do you have to be to think that you can change someone's behavior? There is a good reason why they say that a Leopard never changes his spots, peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:35 PM
2

Abusive relationships are rarely one sided - meaning it's rarely one person inflicting the abuse on their partner. Rather abusive relationships are largely reciprocal with both partners inflicting violence on each other and in majority of the cases women are the instigators.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:31 PM
2

Men in the manosphere speak about women because we trying to understand female behavior. That being said, I have yet to meet a men in the manosphere who won't say that a guy who got divorce raped was some poor guy who was a 100% innocent victim. In fact guys who get divorce raped will themselves admit that they ignored signs. You never see that from a woman, somehow all the guys who abuse women were innocent lambs who were drinking whole milk and attending church and sunday school and then one d…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:29 PM
1

I guess everytime a man has been taken advantage of, cheated on or divorce-raped, it is also 100% his fault Absolutely. No one asked him to ignore the myriad of red flags and wife the bitch up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:26 PM
4

We also don't refer to women we are not attracted to as creeps, creepy etc. We are not attracted to them and that's the end of it. I've actually seen cases where women will literally label a guy creepy even though he has not said a word to her or stared at her in an open office setting. Why? Who the fuck knows, but somehow sitting there doing your work in silence is somehow creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:25 PM
1

Never works. I equate it to people who keep wild animals as pets and then one day are surprised when the animal attacks them. Same fucking thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:22 PM
2

Yep, they liked it as long as the asshole/jerk was doing it to someone else. Heck I remember a few years ago seeing a post on reddit where a woman's dating profile said she was looking for a guy who was into street fighting and that she wanted a guy who would be violent towards everyone but her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:21 PM
2

So women are all dumb fucking automatons who don't have the ability to analyze people's behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:19 PM
4

Pussy tingles overrides the higher brain function.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:18 PM
2

Oh at that point it's "There is no reason to hit a woman blah blah" - even in cases where she actively was hitting the guy - nope everyone ignores the fact that she was the aggressor.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:17 PM
3

Young boys are told never to strike young girls. When do we start telling girls and women to keep their hands to themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:15 PM
2

Not that difficult to lie. But it's nearly impossible to keep the lie going. What you are defining is a man who is so accomplished an actor that he is able to keep a large portion of his behavior especially bad behavior hidden until he gets hitched or is living with her before he reveals it. Sorry, keep that level of deception going is a fucking herculean effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:13 PM
0

Been to a strip club once in my life for a bachelor party, those women are fucking sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:10 PM
2

Yea because these women all think that their pussy is powerful enough to change such a person. When it doesn't happen they are surprised.....but...but....cosmo said if I suck his dick like this, or finger his asshole like that that he would magically change, instead he kicked the shit out of me and then later told me that he loved me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:08 PM
5

But of course. You think it's some accident that women view themselves as people who relationships are happening to and never voice out that they are active participants? Considering that the lions share of abuse and rape happens to women at the hands of guys who they are dating is all you need to know. So much so that when a woman these days tells me that her ex was abusive I simply don't even bother with it, because that word has come to mean everything from - he one day said no to some stupid…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:05 PM
1

Yea but you are not bashing them are you? All you are saying is that you are not attracted to certain skin tones. Why is that considered bashing? It's just a preference which is no different that claiming you won't date a guy shorter than 5'11.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:55 PM
2

I will take the respect. I'd rather have good sex and most western women are rubbish in that department.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:25 PM
12

Her point is that there is a 10% off sale at Macys - I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:23 PM
6

And this right here is why no one thinks that women are funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:22 PM
1

There is a simple word that can be used to combat the western woman - NO. Use it liberally.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:20 PM
2

What he is pointing out is that having a cunt does not make you virtuous or moral. Just another ass wipe in a planet full of ass wipes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:45 PM
4

Why? I have seen many women who write exactly this on their profiles. No black guys, no asian guys, no hispanic guys etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:39 PM
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If you are a man then your path is one that you walk alone and if you are lucky have a few good friends to share some laughs with. Expecting a woman to aid you, help you, assist you is a pipe dream. Women will share in your success, they will leech off your success and in the moments you are down will abandon you. This is why I always say, you never ever prioritize a woman in your life. It's a waste of time and energy. We have a finite amount of time in this life and no one can manufacture more …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:13 AM
2

Nope, I don't help strange women - not my problem and have no desire to take a knife to the neck by making it mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:43 AM
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This right here. These women derive satisfaction and pleasure by destroying man after man. When men don't line up to be wrecked, then they are not real men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/22 09:33 AM
6

Yep, I mean hookup apps like Tinder don't exist because women don't like hooking up with randos.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:48 AM
1

Oh it's easy, I just assume that all women sleep around. I'm not going to waste my time trying to decide which cheerio isn't poisoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:47 AM
5

Captains Log 1/1/2022 - So far no sign of intelligent life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:45 AM
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A lady who tore apart her family is surprised that men don't want to line up to be next in line for that shit show.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/22 05:17 AM
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Because women want the ceremony
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:29 AM
1

It's part of their value sure and I'm not saying you need to follow what I'm saying. Hey if you want to go find your wife from the whore house, have at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 10:22 PM
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Females are born with value - when you take that value and give it away to every other dude your value is going to drop. You can scream about it all you want, most men don't want a relationship with a promiscuous woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 07:52 PM
1

No, I stated that men and women were immoral. I wouldn't be dumb enough to accuse anyone of being moral.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:52 AM
3

I believe women lead suicide attempts but fail spectacularly at it. Men are more successful because they choose more lethal means. Which would then suggest that women lead suicide attempts as a means to get attention instead of actually wanting to check out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:44 AM
1

No sweetie, I was asking if a woman could be equipped with a mute button. Believe me the only one being harmed if she didn't have a mute button would be my state of mind and my ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:42 AM
2

The pursuit of happiness - marriage is about the last thing in the world to achieve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:41 AM
1

They do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:40 AM
5

The way I see it, avoiding marriage like the plague allows me to rest easy. I walk into my home and you know what's not waiting on the other side of the door? A nag. I do what I want when I want to, and live my life on my terms. No way am I able to achieve half of what I have with a woman as an anchor weighing me down.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:33 AM
2

That's because I choose to focus on the majority of people instead of a sliver of the population that constitutes a minority. But okay, whatever man/woman you've lined up to fleece - better? As for believe in same sex marriage? I don't believe in any marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:30 AM
1

Yes, because men are routinely accused of being pigs when men and women are equally pigs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:28 AM
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Nope, just show up blubber and put on a good show for the judge who is most cases will hate the guy simply because everything will be his fault automatically.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:23 AM
2

Aren't we talking about marriage. Well guess what - it's an actual contract you sign between you, the dude you have lined up to fleece and daddy government.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:22 AM
6

Marriage is the leading cause of Divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:20 AM
2

You beat it by never cohabiting and never marrying. In this day and age a marriage makes as much sense as a hole in the head. If she wants to walk let her, not like there is a shortage of women in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:19 AM
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Women are 3x more likely to end up on welfare. And the lions share of the homeless are men. Funny how there are no government programs for them because they had the misfortune of being born with a cock.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:17 AM
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And the agreement can be voided by one party just saying that they were coerced into signing it. Poof done.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:14 AM
1

Not when the contract largely goes one way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:11 AM
1

Agreed - human beings are shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:11 AM
5

37 year old living the marriage free life. No kids and no cohabitation. I started living this way shortly after I turned 27. Women to be enjoyed but never prioritized - nothing more than a time suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:10 AM
2

Naw man, accountability for bitches is oppression by da pah-tri-ar-chuy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:05 AM
4

So, he needs to take her out for a date but she can't be bothered to get on the fucking stair master?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:05 AM
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Don't forget the nagging....you can always tell the guys who have been nagged to death, they look like those big cats at the zoo - the ones that were captured in the wild. You can see the dead look in their eyes as they pace around their pathetic enclosure while remembering what it felt like to roam in the great wide open and hunt prey.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:03 AM
9

BING-FUCKING-O
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:01 AM
11

Not when the state is involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:00 AM
8

Utterly useless in a world where the judge can literally wipe his ass with your pre-nup.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:59 AM
4

Cash and prizes is a pretty big incentive for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:58 AM
10

He should have. Agreed. I don't think men tell other men that they should not have vetted better or more importantly should never have wifed the bitch up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:58 AM
3

Marriage as it's discussed by MGTOW men is referring to marriage that requires the signing of a marriage certificate. That's what people mean by marriage in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:56 AM
1

And women raise those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:46 AM
0

Human beings are all immoral. Having a cock or a cunt makes no difference to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:18 AM
1

Totally, gets the ladies wet
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 11:21 PM
1

It wasn't meant to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:19 PM
1

I will compromise for a mute button.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:12 PM
1

Sounds good, where do I sign up for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:48 PM
1

I choose to look at it as women are incentivized to destroy their families because it is easier to do that than actually work through things. Frankly, it ain't worth it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:26 PM
1

And that sir is all you need to know why marriage in this current age should never be an option for any sane man. Avoid like the fucking plague. If you want a child go the surrogate route.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:10 PM
2

Yes, those men made a poor decision to gamble with their life by entering into a contract with a woman and the government.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:08 PM
1

As a rule I don't have female friends because the one thing I learned over the years was that friendship with a woman is generally a one way street where she expects periodic favors to remain as your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:48 AM
12

Or five....what the hell just give her the whole cake.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 11:25 PM
1

Overtime yes. But that shitty experience also creates the next generation of gangbangers and car jackers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:03 PM
5

Even though they never accepted their own advice of "being patient" - but that's what I'm saying, women have this strange way of removing accountability in their actions when a man is involved. She was pressured, not that she made a decision like an adult and went with it because she wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:02 PM
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Well women always talk about their escapades in terms of being a passive participant who was beguiled and forced into it. They will claim that he scammed her that she didn't know that he was a scoundrel or a douche or a bad man - even though there were enough red flags to host a Chinese military parade.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:06 PM
2

The younger me would say - given a chance The older me would say - not wasting my time The older I get the less I find women to be worth the investment of time. Time I can't manufacture. There will always be another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:04 PM
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I don't even thinking they are giving advice that works for women. In the case of single mothers they are giving advice that would ensure that their sons don't become like their fathers, even though those fathers were exactly who she wanted to fuck and procreate with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:02 PM
8

Deranged and trashy. Clearly the epitome of a modern day wife.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 06:47 PM
24

Female virginity is valued, Male virginity is ridiculed. It stands to reason then that Female promiscuity is ridiculed while Male promiscuity is valued.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:44 PM
2

Divorce rape, toxic mahahaskewlinity.....sorry only partial credit for you you forgot about muh patriarchuy. But nice try.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:56 AM
6

Can't really blame them after the divorce rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:23 PM
7

This is about the only thing you have written so far that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:02 PM
9

Adele is a perfect example of a divorce rape. Very refreshing. Especially the gnashing of feminists screaming at the heavens of the unfairness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:22 PM
2

Yea it is. You not wanting to believe it doesn't invalidate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:21 PM
7

You do know that being bored is the #1 reason given by women for a divorce right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:17 PM
16

Funny how that doesn't apply to the woman then eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:16 PM
15

Yes, a man impoverished who gives a fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:13 PM
13

Right? Oh if only we brutish men would only be sophisticated enough to have our lives destroyed on the whim of the whamen and just bow and thank them for the privilege of having our lives torn asunder.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:11 PM
26

and get divorce raped at 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:32 PM
1

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:30 PM
1

See if you can tell the difference between a man saying that he refuses to date a single mother because he has no interest in raising some other mans spawn vs he's a fucking misogynist for having that preference. Men don't exist to rescue you from your fucked up choices in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:13 PM
1

My general rule of thumb for women is that if your profile states this or you tell me that you have some sort of mental problem, I'm pulling the rip cord and I am out. Sorry, I sympathize with your condition but I don't want crazy in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:19 PM
1

He's lucky that he got a sane judge. I've seen cases where claims that the kids saw you as a father figure was enough to get you stuck with child support payments for a kid that isn't even yours. Hell there was a case recently of a Philly man fighting to stay out of prison on back child care payments on a kid that wasn't even his.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:18 PM
1

The difference is that the men in the manosphere vocalize what everyone is thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:12 PM
2

I love that meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:10 PM
1

No, poster has made the claim that any man who refuses and has a preference of not dating a single mother is a misogynist - like men are not allowed to have a preference in fathering their own children. Please don't try and dissemble what was stated very clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:05 PM
1

Except with a biological parent both the father and mother are invested because it is after all their biological offspring. In the case of a step parent he has no investment in the child save for the fact that the child is a priority for their partner. The investment and the need to participate will never be the same as when dealing with ones biological offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:01 PM
1

Adoption isn't the same as stepping in as a stepfather. In the case of adoption, a couple makes the decision to adopt a child and give him/her a home. A step father on the other hand has no choice if he wants to date a single mother and enter into a long term relationship with her, he is required to become a father regardless of how he feels about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:59 PM
1

Hell there are cases where the mother resents the child because he/she reminds her of the guy who refused to "man up" and do the right thing and so she actively participates in the abuse of her own child(ren)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:57 PM
1

Part of being adult is the ability to look at a shitty deal and realize when to walk away from said shitty deal. There is no conceivable scenario where raising another man child with a single mother who divorced the ex or had a child out of wed lock with someone else is a good idea. Not one single benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:56 PM
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Actually this used to be the case but is no longer that way. A stepfather these days is nothing more than a walking ATM for the woman to rob. He provides legitimacy to her bastard while he has no authority to discipline the child he is actively sheltering.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:52 PM
2

Good for him. And Genghis Khan the ultimate Chad is directly descended to a good portion of the modern population. What's your point? That we adopt Roman ideals? Sure, let's do that. We can bring back crucifixion and slaves both men and women who can be raped at will by their masters. Are you game dummy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:41 PM
2

It does when said person had decided to attack men for having a preference. It's funny how women can claim that men who refuse to date or even consider a relationship with a single mother are misogynists and that's not scornful. Sorry, you behave like a basic bitch be prepared to get what you give.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:33 PM
3

Right and a lot of men say that they have no desire to be one. The only person outraged about men making this decision seems to be you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:31 PM
2

Your friend is right, he was the sucker.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:09 AM
1

Being a stepfather is a thankless job. One that requires you to burden the responsibility but almost none of the rights when it comes time to put the snot nosed little shit in his/her place The ex and the ongoing drama Financial burden of having to provide for a child that you did not father The inevitable you are not my dad Lastly, single mothers are generally losers who made one awful choice in their life and are trying to desperately find a sucker to help them correct their life. I have no de…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:01 AM
2

Single mothers man, they fuck their own life up and wonder why men don't want to wife them up and care for their bastards.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:53 AM
5

Ah but in the case of a woman and a man having a kid together the kid comes first for both of them. In case of a woman and a stepfather, the kid comes first with her and he has no reason to emotionally or financially invest in a kid that isn't his.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:52 AM
4

well having a PHD is no indication that you are smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:43 AM
2

So men are misogynists for not wanting to wife up a single mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:13 AM
2

Married pussy is the most expensive pussy you will ever have and it will never be worth what you pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:02 AM
7

Yes, I am purposefully blocking out those women. I have 0 desire to be better acquainted with a woman who follows celebrity and garbage as a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 12:47 AM
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Women in the west aren't worth the squeeze. 90% of the time you are getting someone with no skills, overrates her sexual abilities, thinks that swearing is a sign of being cool for some reason and has basically forgotten how to be feminine. The remaining 10% are married or in some kind of fucked up non-monogamous cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 12:35 AM
4

Modern day Church is infested with single mothers looking for a religious man usually with the help of an asshole Pastor who won't have any qualms about shaming you for not wanting to wife up some other mans leftovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 12:30 AM
8

I refuse to interreact with women who believe in astrology. Sorry, no offense to them but I don't have the desire to know about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 12:15 AM
3

Yep, ripping off the veil that women are sugar and spice and everything nice is the first step. For me a lot of the disappointment stemmed from knowing that what I was fed about it was largely horseshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 11:46 AM
2

Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 01:22 AM
2

Yep, this wouldn't be such an issue if this were just stated upfront. No instead we obfuscate because the "fairer" sex can't stomach the fact that they just might be as shallow as their male counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 01:13 AM
5

You pay one way or the other. At least with a hooker she leaves and you are not financially wrecked by the end of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 01:11 AM
3

My general rule of thumb is to never ever trust that a woman is going to stick with you when times get rough. They don't make em like they used to my friend. The only person a man can depend on is himself and if he's lucky to have them, a few good friends. A woman, that's just for the good times.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 01:09 AM
1

Correction plenty of women think they can stand up for themselves. But remove the veneer of civilization and get rid of the cops and you soon realize that having your clock cleaned with a punch to the face is no bed of roses.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 01:06 AM
1

Well in France you can literally go fuck a guy have his kid and have your soft agreeable man pay for said kid without having any recourse. I mean it would be in your best interest for a soft agreeable guy because those guys you can control and cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 01:04 AM
8

True, the initial shock of the redpill is depression. But a whole lot of fun once you get past that phase and realize that life is more than just trying to keep a woman around for you to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 01:02 AM
9

Followed up by the claim that women have to be careful because of rape and battery and yet women have no problem hooking up with randos off Tinder and most of the rape and battery is happening at the hands of guys they vet and enter into relationships with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 01:01 AM
3

Well being raised by a generation of single mothers hasn't helped. It's like the line from Fight Club - “We’re a generation of men raised by women. I’m wondering if another woman is really the answer we need.” Fact is that looking for a woman to define and mold you as a man is never going to go anywhere because a woman has no fucking idea what a man is anymore than a man can mold a woman. We can be imperfect stand-ins for the real thing but you end up with weak men that women hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 12:59 AM
4

This is precisely why I will always be in debt to Tom Leykis, he taught me so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 12:29 AM
7

Not everyone in the world wants to get married. Those who do put a lot on the line for it these days and have to show up with premium dollars. When those are the stakes those men are not going to want to marry a woman the size of a hippo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:59 AM
4

My general approach is if the initial conversation was strained and if there is actual interest on her part. One word answers and shit like that are an automatic disqualifier. I also make sure she knows what the rules are right off the bat, I don't date to cohabitate and marry - never had any interest in it. We both continue to keep and maintain our own spaces and spend time together doing things we mutually like. Also the first several dates will be dutch to feel out if there is any chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:58 AM
1

True, for men currently it's pretty much a death knell. For women it's less impactful since they are left dealing with the drama and perhaps the social hit of acquiring the title of being a gold digger if one is pursuing a doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:49 AM
31

You are a fucking idiot if you date anyone you work with in todays climate. The saying "You don't shit where you eat" has never been more true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 03:11 AM
2

so crushed to not have the approval of a naïve child.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 03:10 AM
3

Oh right, you are accepting these things out of the goodness of your heart. Yes, totally makes sense. /sarc
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 03:09 AM
88

Divorced single mothers already failed the wife test. It would take a colossal dumbass to make her redo the course.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/21 02:39 AM
23

I follow this as a general rule. I don't ever pay for a woman or buy her drinks. That usually weeds out the uninteresting and self proclaimed strong women from the bunch. What you are left with is generally women who are not in this weird mindset that they are somehow better than everyone else and that those interested need to pay for their time and attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:35 AM
0

Generally yes. Women all want the alpha male. However only a small percentage of them have the ability to keep one past the post-nut clarity phase and no it takes more than being able to suck a golf ball from a garden hose to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:31 AM
2

It doesn't and I have no interest in changing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:28 AM
4

Sounds about right.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/21 02:28 AM
3

I mean it's the only fucking rational thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:24 AM
3

So we are playing this game where women pretend that a man is courting them and dating them for the sole purpose of what? We going to pretend that dating isn't a process towards a romantic relationship? Wouldn't you have some conscience that would suggest that accepting these "free things" with no regards for the giver somehow makes you a colossal shitbag? I know for sure if this were flipped the other way it certainly is. Hell how many of your sisters scream that men are trash because she slept…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:22 AM
3

He has no respect for some women. It's a case by case basis. For instance, I don't blanket respect women because they were born with tits and a vagina. I do respect some women, but that respect is reserved for those women. Just as I respect some men and that respect is reserved for those men. What I don't do is apply blanket respect to a gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:18 AM
2

Spoken like a true cuck. Please tell me you don't pee sitting down?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:16 AM
1

Condoms are the least effective form of birth control and have a high failure rate. Personally I got snipped so that a woman would never have this leverage over me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:14 AM
2

Live long enough and you soon realize that human beings are anything but decent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:11 AM
11

Every single one of them indicates $ signs. Basically she wants her life to be one endlessly catered party.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/21 01:59 AM
7

About 10% of the global female population is marriage material.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/21 01:46 AM
7

What all of these guys fail to realize is this: I am more than my body. I am more than body parts and pretty eyes and nice hair. I am intelligent, I am kind, and I am strong. I am hilarious and I like adventures. I am compassionate and independent, and I love to laugh. Here is what she fails to understand and grasp, her intelligence, kindness, strength and whether or not she is hilarious is entirely subjective and depending of the the guy actually thinks she is any of these things. You don't get…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/21 01:40 AM
15

I come in frog condition, try to imagine how I will be when I become a princess You will still be a frog. To date in the real world there hasn't been a single example where a frog became a princess. ....drugs are bad, I will not allow them You expect some guy to spend time with you sober? In sports, I prefer massage and various procedures Getting a massage is a sport? I'm not saying I don't believe it since I recently discovered that there is a professional hacky sack league and that there is al…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/21 04:13 PM
1

The modern version of marriage is voluntary slavery for which your reward is food, a place to sleep, monthly conjugal visits and children that may or may not be yours. The old version of happily ever after was a con job guys, happily ever after is freedom and how you exercise it. Not living with some aging woman like a prisoner in your own house.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:55 PM
1

Not only would my answer be no, it would be an emphatic hell no.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:31 PM
1

Never been a better time than to be a single man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:02 PM
2

I'm 37, and there is a massive number of men who don't want kids or who go along with this shit because the woman badgers them into it. As for your normal family men, those are the suckers who are getting divorce raped and then turn to suicide once they can't see their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:01 PM
2

And a lot of men don't want kids. I never stated that all men don't want kids. But it is also not accurate to state that all men want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:59 PM
0

You are right, pre-nups only protect assets that are gathered prior to the marriage. Everything in a marriage is a joint asset which makes not getting married even more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:43 PM
2

People change their minds for all sorts of things. Doesn't change the fact that a child is only born because the mother wants it to be born. Period. The husband in that scenario is a third party observer, nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:39 PM
0

It's an asset protection contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:38 PM
3

Actually since the woman carries the child it goes one way. A child is born because a woman chooses for the child to be born. If this were a marriage where the wife didn't want the child she could retroactively abort it and the husband would have 0 recourse. So why do we change the narrative when a child is born that suddenly it's because the man wanted it? Sure he may have wanted it, but the fact remains that the only reason said child is alive is because the mother decided to not abort his/her…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:09 PM
1

People have been known to change their minds about all sort of things, including wanting a kid or not. No shortage of women who married guys who very clearly stated they didn't want a kid and then years later are stuck with a wife who is unhappy because she suddenly developed baby rabies. While I agree, that this isn't just a mens issue, I am talking about it from the angle of men because of your first statement that women are taking time off to raise "a mans kid" - making it seem like she is ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:54 PM
0

I never said there aren't men who don't want children. But I will wager that more men would prefer to be child free and are dragged into fatherhood than men who willfully knock up women - again not saying those guys don't exist, just that they are not around in enough numbers for it to really matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:46 PM
3

Dating apps are merely an extension of society's changing norms of social interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:44 PM
1

It means that she doesn't want her husband spending any money that she makes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:41 PM
6

The problem with this line of thinking is she’s taking a career hit to raise the man’s kids. ​ No, she is taking a career hit to raise their children - you know the ones that she wanted to have as much as he wanted it. We act as though women never want children and that they are doing as a massive favor when in reality women want to have children more than men in most cases and are usually the ones dragging their spouses.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:38 PM
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First off marriage is a suckers bet. If you intend of going through with it you always always always request a prenup - always. If she is the higher earner at the time of the marriage it will protect her. If however her earnings drop and yours goes up then the prenup should also protect this to ensure that your assets are protected. People need to stop viewing marriage in a romantic sense and start viewing it as a business agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:36 PM
1

And if he doesn’t want me to do that, it would hurt my feelings a little. Why? It's something he wants to do, doesn't expect interest on your part. If you want to learn about it voluntarily fine but I don't understand this sentiment by women. In most cases when this has happened in the past I have had the response range from her telling me that she doesn't think the hobby is right for me to setting ultimatums - which for anyone who knows me is that the second that is done, I'm done.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 01:38 PM
7

I agree, if you are looking for sex guys, just be upfront about it. You will be surprised most women will appreciate the fact that you are upfront about it. Just two things to remember - Do not give her the impression that this has a chance of changing in to something else Do not ask her about who she is dating
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:15 AM
2

See, I think in a healthy relationship both people should have the right to pursue interests and keep whatever hobbies they have instead of giving it up because the spouse wants them to adopt their interests now. How many times have we heard of women who start dating guys who are gamers and over time she resents the fact that he has a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:12 AM
1

Oh I know women, just don't think I need to enter into a legally binding contract with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:10 AM
1

Only if you are lonely enough to think that a woman is going to add to your life
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 11:36 PM
131

She thought her pussy was so powerful that it would change him
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/21 11:35 PM
1

Oh I have plenty, but I don't date to find someone to go play paintball with or go sailing with or even travel the world with. Maybe for a short period of time, but in the beginning everyone dates to find the person they want to get naked with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 10:29 PM
2

No, you are moron who commented without any idea of what was being discussed. It's the same as walking into a conversation on female problems and interjecting male issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:52 PM
2

Not selling you anything, nor do I have to justify being terse with you. You are after all the moron who thought that it would be a good idea to interject your claim of not wanting to be a SAH parent on a thread that is specifically talking about people wanting to be SAH parents. When called out on it, you are now crawfishing and filibustering in hopes that no one notices.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:24 PM
1

Just allergic to stupidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:16 PM
1

I'm sorry did you smash into something and stumble over to your laptop and type this response up?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 05:55 PM
4

Says who?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 05:55 PM
32

Just admit that you are chickenshit and move on girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 05:53 PM
1

Which is your choice. I believe I was responding to a statement about people who want to be SAH parents - a.k.a NOT YOU!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 05:52 PM
3

Nope, if I'm not attracted to you we are not dating, hooking up or anything that has to do with me seeing you with your cloths off.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 03:35 PM
5

Maybe this is different for women but the general idea of dating is to eventually find someone you want to fuck. Men don't want to sit around discussing ancient slavic history.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 03:29 PM
7

As a meat holster. Which is not what women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:19 PM
7

Drowning in matches for sex, not for commitment - there is a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:15 PM
4

Reduce your lifestyle for starters.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 05:18 AM
4

Promiscuity among males is a rarity because most men can't be promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 03:54 AM
8

Most of them are like born again virgins, you know the reformed slut who discovered Christianity and is now super religious? Same thing, spent her early years fucking around and realize that pussy alone wasn't enough to keep a guy. Very possible you are dealing with a lot of Alpha widows there who were hoping for the diamond ring and got nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 10:00 PM
2

Not a single mother Not a fat ass Not a feminist Not a woman trying hard to be a man Have hobbies and a life of her own
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 09:52 PM
24

FDS is basically broads who fucked around, were unable to get the commitment and are now trying a different way to get commitment while desperately trying to hide their fading market value.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 09:50 PM
1

We shame men who are feminine, we don't shame women who are feminine. You ever year a guy tell a woman that she's being a pussy for not being able to open a pickle jar? No?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 09:46 PM
3

And you have saved how many from an ass kicking?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 03:11 PM
6

It takes horrible men to keep the other horrible men out of the door man. You didn't think the soy eating patchouli oil wearing latte lapper who is seeking to be one with the earth was going to be your savior now did you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 02:57 PM
6

Except the men are marrying these women and bringing them back to Sweden. No one has complained about exploiting anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 02:42 PM
3

Yea, you didn't think the shy pointdexter was going to deal with horrible men? It takes violent men to deal with violent men. Otherwise you end up with a society where women are raped at will.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 02:41 PM
1

It brought enormous prestige to the pleasure house to be able to procure the first pillow time of a prominent noble.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 02:40 PM
5

I don't think either side is bitter. They both look to maximize the benefit for their particular gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 01:22 PM
2

Eh, I think it will be augmented. People will be less tolerant of flaws
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 01:21 PM
3

The only promise is expanding to the stars.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 01:20 PM
0

We already work hours and pussy is overrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 01:19 PM
6

Depends on the bot and the level of realism.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 05:26 AM
10

Yea, it seems to have done wonders for the homeless, smash and grab crimes and all around violence in those cities. But yes, let's keep going - what's a few more dead/raped/violated folks on the mountain of social wokeness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 04:58 AM
15

Society is a pretty delicate veneer. In fact when all the BLM and Antifa rioting was happening last year over defunding the police I was wondering why women were so gung-ho about it? Those cops are what keep the other horrible men from the door dear.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 04:34 AM
0

The robot can and will simulate that want. Not different than having a pet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 04:32 AM
4

I heard, also not surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 04:29 AM
8

The men here will do what the men in Sweden are now doing, going overseas for women. The should set the feminists caterwauling even louder.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 04:29 AM
1

It's perfectly self explanatory in it's statement, mannish women are women who wear their femininity like a curse. They dress like men and try to do everything to hide the fact that they are feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 04:28 AM
4

In the orient back in the day it was not unheard of for pleasure houses to bid for the opportunity to take the virginity of the son of a noble or feudal lord.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 04:26 AM
3

One should never live life based on getting a gf or bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 04:24 AM
0

It is mostly true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 11:20 PM
94

Take a look at Japan. It's the canary in the coal mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 10:47 PM
1

I know, I know
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 09:11 PM
8

I know this is what MGTOW comes close too, maybe even advocates, but where it diverges is that it still derives a mans worth partially from his contributions to society Not true. MGTOW advocates for the limiting or hard end to contributions to society. Never seen any MGTOW worth his salt advocate for paying taxes and supporting modern society.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 08:21 PM
1

I don't think that I have ever been bored enough to want to look at a ladies purse. Even if I was bored there is always watching paint dry and curling on tv.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 06:48 PM
1

Oh jeez, does this mean we won't be holding hands?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 04:49 PM
1

We just want your casual ass to keep moving away from us.. Not to worry, I would have to consume enough alcohol to kill a horse to make you half way entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 03:30 PM
13

"Men are just flies on a piece of shit" So is she calling herself a piece of shit? I don't necessarily disagree if she is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/21 03:07 PM
1

No, he was just successful at pulling their address and phone numbers based of a photograph.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 01:50 PM
1

We do, that's part of deciding if we want to put up with your insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 04:33 AM
4

They do, the only agency men have is to decide if your insanity is worth putting up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 03:44 AM
2

To prove that women don't give a fuck about who the guy is they will fuck you or show interest provided you look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 12:57 AM
3

I believe there was a guy pretending to be a child molester who managed to do just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 12:45 AM
13

Exactly. In a world where everyone is grabbing what they can to be happy, it makes no sense to be a selfless individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 12:38 AM
1

But that wasn't the statement here. You said that she will be left to die alone. At no point did you say that she would be bitter about it etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:36 PM
3

Same shit.....people trade up. A woman will abandon you when you are down - it's almost a guarantee. A man will abandon you when he can level up and get a hotter woman - almost a guarantee.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 10:08 PM
3

Well by that logic I guess women taking advantage of men is ok because some justified it. Do I hear the caterwauling of women complaining about this? Anyone? Bueller....Bueller.... Women have no problem with degeneracy as long as they benefit from it. They just hate it when they are on the receiving end of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 10:05 PM
2

Men and women trade up when they can. Seen plenty of women who will literally get on Tinder while their husband is still dying in the other room or like that politician will abandon his wife while she is going through chemo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 10:02 PM
2

Yea, what you are talking about is a relationship from a bygone era that does not exist anymore. We like to imagine that it does but it really doesn't exist in any real sense. About 10% of the population might do what you did and stick with their significant other through thick and thin - you know those marriage vows?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:59 PM
4

Huh, I don’t remember setting these rules. Well that doesn't surprise me. The ladies do seem to conveniently forget. Still doesn’t change the fact that it makes both of you shitty. Sure, but that wasn't the question was it? Plenty of things are shitty but people justify it all the same and continue to do it. If there is nothing wrong in abandoning your husband who has hit a rough patch then there is nothing wrong in abandoning your wife to level up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:45 PM
2

I'll stick with my anime. Smart choice. No one who watches the documentary will ever come away with faith in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:39 PM
2

People divorce for all sorts of reason. Now the one caveat to your scenario is if the guy is just a deadbeat and stays home and refuses to do anything. But for every one of that there are dozens of men who through no fault of their own got dealt a bad hand and the woman bails. Like I have stated - the single most popular reason given for divorce by women who file for divorce is that they are bored and unhappy. So women leaving a relationship is all about maximizing her own happiness. Which is no…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:36 PM
3

It's the life she chose. No different than men who refuse to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:24 PM
8

Women make the rules for dating sweetheart, we just adapted to the rules you set. So the moment it became acceptable to you to chuck your significant others for superficial shit it became totally acceptable for us to do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:23 PM
4

Depends, if they have kids who is looking after the kids? Is it the new roommate? Sure it's an apple and oranges situation but there is not altueristic noble reason she is leaving her husband. She is leaving him because she wants a guy who earns more so that she can go back to her life of living in easy mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:20 PM
2

In both scenarios the people are maximizing their personal happiness and trying to get a better situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:55 PM
4

What do you think is going to happen when you divorce then? You are signing up for the additional responsibility and overwork.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:46 PM
3

But if you do pay, can we ensure that the poor sap has visitation and not have to beg the ex to see his own kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:45 PM
2

Nope not being crazy. That was my view of it too. But I'm glad she said it because it just goes to show the absolute shit show modern marriage is. And it doesn't help the woman. There is a documentary on Netflix called Divorce Inc. where they explored some of this. Only people getting ahead in a divorce are the lawyers and the courts. They want a long drawn out fight over assets because it's more money for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:43 PM
5

So your take is that you can't afford the marriage because your husband isn't earning what you want him to earn but somehow breaking the marriage and renting your own place is more affordable? Now remember, even in marriage you can afford to downscale your life style but notice that isn't ever a solution. No, divorce and renting is a better alternative. I mean that's the way anyone would see this. And if that is acceptable, then there is nothing wrong with a man leveling up by getting a younger …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:38 PM
3

I could care less if you want to be a bread winner or don't want to be a bread winner. But in a relationship each person goes through ups and downs that may cause those roles to transition from one to the other. Not that hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:35 PM
10

Go for scorched earth is my response. In a world where women will say that they divorced a guy because she was "unhappy" - why then should a guy not choose to maximize his happiness?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:33 PM
3

It is isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:27 PM
1

Yea, this one's the smart one, cuts through the red tape and goes right for the guy with the dollars. Can't say I blame you for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:26 PM
3

Yea, is maybe the only reason for it, but even then involving the state in your life is fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:25 PM
7

She is absolutely leaving her husband when he's down. Just because you can't spin it in a positive lite it's no reason to shy away from it. There is nothing noble about ditching a spouse when they are down just as there is nothing noble about ditching a spouse when you level up. But since we live in a world were we are claiming that it is entirely acceptable to ditch a husband when he is down then it's entirely acceptable to ditch a wife when the husband can level up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:24 PM
3

Your personal happiness and satisfaction dies and, women who are breadwinners of their household are not dying of hunger.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:19 PM
3

It made sense in a time where people died at 45 and divorce wasn't a thing. It made sense then for poor and middle class folks to marry and build a life together. Sort of like George and Louise, that doesn't make sense anymore because these days at the first sign of trouble in the dry-cleaning business Louise would be divorcing George.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:17 PM
3

It's more acceptable in the US because the thought of buying your hand bags from Michael Kors instead of Louis Vitton is not acceptable in this society.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:09 PM
3

That's what I told my niece when she decided that it was a good idea to get married at 20 to a guy she met 6 months earlier in Church. She didn't talk to me for 3 years after the marriage and another 2 after the divorce. Her first statement after we met again was "go on say you warned me" - I just shrugged my shoulder and welcomed her back to the world of the single adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:05 PM
6

You don't need to be a psychiatrist to know that people with anger problems will always be that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:03 PM
2

Yea, which is a lot more than what you get in other countries where the loss of home and income means the loss of life. I spent most of my life outside of the US and lived in some hellish places across the world ranging from South East Asia to Africa. Once you see what life in a slum looks like you begin to appreciate how lucky you have it. However in the US most women do leave. You think it's some great mystery why in the 2008 downturn divorces spiked? It's such a common occurrence that people …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:00 PM
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If she wants to, personally never been a fan of women who have caked on makeup with a trowel. Also I'm not expecting anything from you, I just know what I won't accept. Women don't have to accept short guys and I don't have to accept mannish women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:57 PM
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No, finances are about maintaining a lifestyle. You choose what you want and in the US most people could do with less but choose not to want it. Which is fine, just don't act like it's the end of your life because you have no fucking idea what actual poverty looks like or even feels like.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:52 PM
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That was my reaction as well but I try not to look at the logic of the statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:48 PM
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Because it comes down to what each person holds important. For women maintaining a lifestyle is more important just as for men it's the quality of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:48 PM
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Traditional women do tend to be feminine, that being said you always have to be careful running into a traditional woman or someone who is a reformed or born again female who is desperately trying to get back her femininity but has no frame of reference of what that looks like. I mean outwardly she thinks that putting on a sun dress and growing a hair out should do it. But it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:47 PM
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Yep, in a world where a woman can break a marriage simply because "she is bored" - why the fuck would anyone think that you can't level up or somehow we should be monogamous or faithful? What the fuck for? If you can get better. go get better, you don't owe your current wife or gf anything because you can rest assured if she could get better she would be out the door in a hot second.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:30 PM
7

He doesn't have to, that's the point right? Not when he can get hotter and better than what he has.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:27 PM
7

What if he can't spend his whole life getting his dick sucked by average?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:22 PM
14

Nope, he leveled up and is no longer attracted to her when he can get younger and hotter - just a different scenario. She became the breadwinner and no longer respects her husband and finds him attractive. So she bails and goes finds another guy who earns more than her or at least equal to her. Women are motivated by money, men are motivated by beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:20 PM
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Nothing wrong with it. Just as there is nothin wrong with women who file for divorce when a financial hardship hits the relationship and move on to the next guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:12 PM
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No, generally mannish behavior is very specific to less agreeableness and more work in every scenario. The rest of it was just what other things I refuse to put up with. Like personally I'm as jaded as it comes about politics and think left and right people are jokes. I can't take people who are on either of those spectrums seriously or consider you intelligent in anyway. Far as I can tell you are both horrible fuckers who are fighting over who is less horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:09 PM
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Its self explanatory. Women who do this desperately try to be more mannish in the mannerisms, how they deal with people, how they interact with people etc. In fact a standard filter I set for women is that I refuse to interact with women who celebrate cursing or my personal favorite, "I don't need a man" - well then what the fuck are you doing on a dating site? Add to this, short hair, bad hygiene, hyper political women, feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:02 PM
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Meaning that men in general have no interest in women who are not feminine. We like hanging out with our guy friends, we enjoy the challenge at work. We just don't expect that the women we are seeing is like one of our guy friends and it's round two of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 06:50 PM
4

I mean people ride bulls for a living so I guess it takes all kinds man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 06:15 PM
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Here is one thing I have learned over the years. No one goes from normal whole milk drinking innocent person to raging crazy bitch/bastard. They have always been crazy and you choose to overlook them or in most cases with women they think that he will change for her. It's why you never think with your genitals and understand that relationships are long ass endeavors and eventually that best foot forward isn't what you are going to see, no you are going to experience all the other shit that's beh…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 06:15 PM
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you never fuck crazy man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 05:57 PM
2

Personally any woman who abandons her femininity is low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 05:56 PM
2

As ZZ Top so eloquently put it -'Cause every girl's crazy 'bout a sharp dressed man
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:18 PM
1

Self preservation, no pussy is worth getting divorce raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 01:54 PM
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People do what they need to do to get what they want out of a situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:19 PM
1

I personally don't cohabitate with a woman but I have friends who are married or in relationships and it's a constant shit fest for them. Guy helps out around the house but he isn't doing the job the way she wants it done. Who needs that aggravation?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:12 PM
1

Nope, just calling out bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:57 PM
1

most people don't care how you clean things so long as they're clean BULL-FUCKING-SHIT
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:44 PM
8

Only after being burnt by the lifestyle. You see this in churches all over the US where the singles groups are filled with single mothers who are looking for "a man of faith" LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:23 PM
5

First two can literally be filled by a dog. Sharing chores sounds good until you realize that she wants you to do the chores her way or else it's a constant bitch fest. Kids are great but a divorce is going to ensure that they are alienated from you if the mother wants it. Married couples fun activities are always determined by the wife and the husband goes along as the pack mule nothing more, in fact the longer you are married the more dead the husband looks. Marriage does not guarantee to be l…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:13 PM
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Tinder and dating apps didn't change anything, it just expanded the dating pool of individuals. Couple that with society's tolerance for hedonistic behavior changing and you have fewer and fewer people who see any value in being married to a person for an extended period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:22 PM
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What exactly are these "other advantages" - I keep hearing this but no one ever seems to be able to define what the hell they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:05 PM
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Funny how the whole "women need to be careful because of violence" is never a problem when it's casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 11:55 AM
21

A relationship is all the responsibility for sex that dwindles over time. Sounds like a consolation prize to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:13 AM
7

Neutering is the first step to getting a PHD, infact anyone with a PHD is a eunuch.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:11 AM
1

I date, I don't date to get married or have a bitch move in with me. Short term FWB's works just fine for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:46 PM
1

And I stay away from dating prostitutes...see it's a win win.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:03 PM
1

I'd say it started earlier than the 90's. More around the time of feminisms second wave.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 07:02 PM
2

Never seen that talk but yea I agree - even today most feminists are upper class women who are sold the idea that somehow being a wage slave for a corporation is the life. But I can't hate feminism all that much, it's allowed me to embrace life and realize that there is more to life than catering to a woman and being a donkey who pulls the cart until he drops dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:46 PM
1

Too late to do anything about it. As this goes up the government will do the only fucking thing it knows how to do and trying to impose laws by force, which will further accelerate this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:29 PM
1

As I stated, it works fine for me. You might have to purchase pussy or enjoy being purchased. Not my thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:25 PM
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I think you misunderstood what I wrote. I'm not saying that it is true. I'm merely saying what was pushed to society to destroy the family unit. We had families for a long fucking time in this country. Then almost overnight we went from families being the bedrock of the community to every husband in history being a wife battering rapist. Sorry, the women wanted this, and now they have it. The broads burnt the fucking bridge and are now complaining as they always do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:19 PM
0

It never was a problem. But somehow overnight every man who ever lived became a wife battering rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:17 PM
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Ah the enchanting "fairer sex" - what a fucked up ball of shit they are.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/21 03:11 PM
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Sorry to answer your question with a question but have you ever known a woman to admit that she is exactly like that? I haven't. Women will tell you they like nice guys and then in the same breath tell you how all their ex's were assholes and jerks. Something clearly does not compute. Either she isn't like that and has somehow managed to have the worst luck or she is entirely like that and is lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:07 PM
2

Hasn't so far. Been doing this for better part of a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:00 PM
2

When we had this all you heard was how women were being beaten up and raped, left and right by their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:59 PM
2

You can easily achieve that with a power of attorney, signing a marriage contract to put up with a woman and her state sponsored violence squad is hardly necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:58 PM
4

No marriage is not worth it today. Regardless of the tax benefits. Divorce and the damage it wreaks on your financial life is reason enough to never do it. I recall reading somewhere that it takes roughly a decade to recover from a divorce but you very rarely if ever make up the loss. Couple that with just the basic hostile nature that family courts have towards men makes little to no sense in involving the government in your personal life. Add to this the freedom or lack thereof in marriage, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:56 PM
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It's got nothing to do with luck. Just a backbone and holding your boundaries instead of making exceptions for pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:37 PM
1

Sorry, people change over time. Got no desire to orient my life around the whims of another person. Fuck that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:39 AM
0

I know this is a question for the whamen but just to clarify one point - MGTOW men don't settle because there is no benefit in marriage for a man. You can date, have FWB but you don't want to cohabitate or get married - basically avoid inviting the state into your personal life. That isn't the same as what you are talking about with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:00 AM
1

Personally I never give leverage over my life to a woman. Will she cheat does not enter into the equation when you simply keep it FWB and move on the moment she starts catching feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:50 AM
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Your parents having a happy relationship has no bearing on how your own relationship will turn out. Plenty of people come from intact homes and go on to get their hearts ripped out of their ass and alienated from their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:47 AM
1

Yep, anyone can cheat. Which is the perfect reason to never wife up a woman, western or otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:23 AM
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Or you can stay in the west, stack your paper and not get married. Marriage and relationships are entirely optional. Go get yourself snipped, and never commit to a woman. Done.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:21 AM
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Oh I do and I demand Dutch at the outset. If you want to be a big girl then time to find your wallet sweetie.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 11:33 PM
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Women shame women more than men ever do. What men do is not marry promiscuous women or women who are single mothers. So yea, women want to fuck whomever they want go right ahead. What you don't have the right to do is demand that men should wife these chicks up regardless of their behavior or actions from the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 11:31 PM
2

Also remember, badly picking someone to get married to is financial Armageddon.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 11:29 PM
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Being a meal and drink service for women isn't part of my enjoyment of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 11:15 PM
0

Doormats.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 10:07 PM
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There is no MGTOW sub anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 10:06 PM
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I never said I had one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:33 PM
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That would assume that I even want one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:18 PM
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First off most people in this country have jobs and yea if you are chained to a desk for your daily survival you are a wage slave nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:45 PM
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