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| 20 | I find the casual cohabitation culture to be repulsive I don’t know whyI’m simply asking a question and I have not insinuated anything regarding anyone. Based on your assumption about me based off a few sentences I can deduct that you are quick to judge and have trouble respecting other people’s opinions. As I have said I’m trying to figure out something about myself which means I’m open to self improvement. And based off your lack of knowledge on cohabitation you sound like a pick me but I respect your decisions. FDS discuss cohabitation a lot and I think this is … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 06:07 AM |
| 11 | Tribal pick me-ism : stop trying to make his family (/friends ) like you! (Especially his mum)This sounds like most Asian cultures, I grew up watching this too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 04:47 AM |
| 2 | I hate how normalized sex isDefinitely!!! Fully agree alway get em tested for everything. I hope things get better in your area soon, syphilis can be lethal if not treated | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 08:14 PM |
| 5 | I hate how normalized sex is😭 I am and I learn that the hard way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 06:14 PM |
| 2 | I hate how normalized sex isMy classmate’s bf removed it mid way and when she report it to police they said this is a he said she said situation 🤦🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 05:31 PM |
| 2 | I hate how normalized sex isNothing, it’s 98% effective even used perfected. And that’s both high enough for me. Like I said women in my fam fertile af. I’m not looking for 100% I’m looking for the highest I can get which is vasectomy (99.9%) If a man wants it with me this is the minimum requirement and yes that 1.9% makes a huge difference in long term use I did the math. Besides I don’t crave sex to begin with so no point for me to take the risk | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 05:28 PM |
| 40 | I don’t get why women like Pam from the The Office, what about Jan or even PhyllisHe abandoned his duty as a father by leaving her alone with the kid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:37 AM |
| 13 | Why all women should take up BJJI used to do BJJ it’s effective but only do an extended. Krav Maga is much more effective | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 04:19 AM |
| 25 | What is a high effort date during pandemic?During a dangerous time like the any HV person will not be meeting up with strangers and putting themselves at risk | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 06:52 AM |
| 6 | Today I told my bf some of thing things he do bothers me and he responded with the fact that I tell him he gutted me hurts himI know it’s almost like a sign I should leave | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Today I told my bf some of thing things he do bothers me and he responded with the fact that I tell him he gutted me hurts himHe called to ask if I was ok | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 05:54 AM |
| 9 | Today I told my bf some of thing things he do bothers me and he responded with the fact that I tell him he gutted me hurts himBut that’s so hard to do like I tried multiple times and I would get sad after and quite half way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 05:54 AM |
| 14 | I want to have good sex at least once in my life.Get a satisfyer pro. It will give you the orgasm of your life. Better than a man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 07:18 PM |
| 7 | Strangely I don’t find this to be heart warming. She was a free grieving counselor for himOmg that is a whole new level of LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 04:14 AM |
| 8 | Strangely I don’t find this to be heart warming. She was a free grieving counselor for himI got banned from that subreddit for point out the age gap | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Biggest mistake in my early 20sOmg that’s scary. Still last time I tried to breakup I immediately regretted it and took him back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 01:13 AM |
| 2 | Biggest mistake in my early 20sThe attachment is so strong I can’t even go through with the breakup. Last time I tried I cried and regret right after | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Biggest mistake in my early 20sDefinitely I’m already gaining wisdom. Never date a close friends ever again 😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 01:12 AM |
| 2 | Biggest mistake in my early 20sOh I don’t live with him. I’m actually against cohabitation. I don’t have much close friends either. :’( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Biggest mistake in my early 20sEvery time I tried to breakup I will feel regret the moment after I said it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 01:10 AM |
| 3 | Biggest mistake in my early 20sThank you!!! I’ll keep that in mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Biggest mistake in my early 20sThank you for your kind words!!! I’m not exactly interested in relations atm strangely since almost everyone else my age group are either craving one or already in one. I’m keeping up my academics but ending a relationship is so hard since he’s also my emotional support 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 11:41 PM |
| 3 | For all you former trauma bonders! 🙋♀️🤦♀️I feel so called out rn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 08:15 PM |
| 8 | I’m speechlessI would assume so | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 11:15 PM |
| 11 | Stumbled across this just now...If anyone know which book that’s from please share 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 03:15 AM |
| 4 | I saw this in another group, would you consider this a LVM? Or it’s not his fault?That’s a good point, it’s not a one time bad decision it’s a 15 years of bad choices | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 05:01 AM |
| 3 | I saw this in another group, would you consider this a LVM? Or it’s not his fault?Thank you for your break down. His guy is definitely immature when it comes to money and also has boundary issues. Which I was not able to see from OP’s post but through the way you broke it down and rephrased it I was able to get a much more clear picture | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 11:54 PM |
| 4 | I saw this in another group, would you consider this a LVM? Or it’s not his fault?Good point him and his mother could mess up her finance too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 11:52 PM |
| 7 | I saw this in another group, would you consider this a LVM? Or it’s not his fault?It feels like Reddit has such a huge bias against women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 11:42 PM |
| 6 | “You didn’t care if we used a condom during sex, so why would a pandemic stop you from wanting to hang out?” -NVMMany STDs have a dormant period where it will not show up on a test so yeah waiting is a good idea. Wait I told yalls are exclusive the. Do STD test. And I’m so happy you found FDS and deletes that guy 💕 💕 Anddddd don’t be afraid of making guys wait. If he wants to be with you he will wait as long as you need him to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 12:37 AM |
| 2 | Inspirational instagram accountsYalls on this thread makes me want to make an instagram just to follow these women 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 05:26 AM |
| 14 | A man deciding how he's going to treat you 🙈I still don’t understand why so many women think mommas boys are cute and sweet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 01:42 AM |
| 21 | You don't need to be submissive to be feminineThis post strikes me as problematic. The old GF did not ALLOW her self to be treated poorly she wasn’t able to fight back. A good man will treat women well regardless if they are the “right one.” Women don’t change men. Men change themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 08:57 PM |
| 13 | Just ☠Ehh I’m pretty sure she’s joking | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 06:17 AM |
| 6 | You don’t have to get along with your partners parents!!I can relate so much my culture expects the women to serve the mans parents | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 05:09 PM |
| 7 | The financial break down of what a man gains from having a stay at home GF or wife (sources for this calculation listed below)Omg that is ridiculously low considering the amount of work and risk egg donors have to take on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 10:48 PM |
| 30 | The financial break down of what a man gains from having a stay at home GF or wife (sources for this calculation listed below)They don’t want to the the facts. Men are some of the biggest gold diggers out there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 04:17 PM |
| 18 | The financial break down of what a man gains from having a stay at home GF or wife (sources for this calculation listed below)You welcome :)) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 05:35 AM |
| 17 | The financial break down of what a man gains from having a stay at home GF or wife (sources for this calculation listed below)I’m glad this was helpful :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 05:33 AM |
| 3 | I have a question for former pick me or cool girls. How do you come to terms with the things you used to do?Yes humor as healing. Thank you for sharing. Laughing embarrassing stuff actually helps me overcome it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 07:59 PM |
| 6 | I have a question for former pick me or cool girls. How do you come to terms with the things you used to do?Thank you for the reassurance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 07:57 PM |
| 8 | Feel BadI’m Asian too so I see where you are coming from. When I was little I was told to not lick ice cream because it was gross and I didn’t know till now it was because of it’s sexual innuendos. Girl you do you ok, get a vibrator, get laid. Do whatever you want on your own accord. Culture is just baggage from dead people so don’t carry it unless you want to 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 05:55 PM |
| 12 | “Work is not my first priority. YOU are my first priority.”My partner has always put his work above me...... I’m happy for you, after reassuming this I think I have some revaluation to do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 12:18 AM |
| 1 | What's your Meyers Briggs?ENFP I start projects and struggle with follow through | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 05:38 PM |
| 9 | This man is 47 and has a picture with his two daughters who could be my age. I’m 22.Oh ew. This guy needs to get reported | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 10:38 PM |
| 15 | This man is 47 and has a picture with his two daughters who could be my age. I’m 22.You can set the age range to your preference so you don’t have to see older men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 06:01 PM |
| 2 | A list of Liberal Feminism’s Effect on RelationshipsI tried to read this post but can’t make it pass the fifth one since it made me sad. But good job on the analysis and thanks for sharing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 04:53 AM |
| 5 | Tips for college-aged womenThe condoms part is so important. One of my besties got pregnant by her boyfriend and he broke up with her to visit a girl in another state while she is getting the adoration. Don’t put yourself at risk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 07:08 AM |
| 6 | Getting a plant helped me focus on myself and change old habitsYess there something about plants that just change the ambience of the toom | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 07:40 AM |
| 5 | Getting a plant helped me focus on myself and change old habitsOh no, but it’s ok I hope you find your calling. But if you ever want to try again lucky bamboo would be a safe easy try. Those things are hard to kill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 07:40 AM |
| 19 | Disgusting.If he didn’t want kids he should be the one getting vasectomy not convincing her to get her tubes tied like tf... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 01:59 AM |
| 10 | If you watched this seriesWhat’s this series called? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 07:54 PM |
| 20 | This page made me realize my grandma is settling for my grandpaI realized my mother settled for my father. She wasn’t happy decades ago and she’s not happy now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 12:18 AM |
| 45 | As requested: a medical professional explains why you should not be having anal sex.I’m saving this post. I got an anal fissure from constipation and it hurt so much that I was crying. I can’t imagine getting one from anal sex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 02:59 AM |
| 2 | One month after IUD insertion, I'm still having horrible pain. Fuck the lack of male birth control purely for their convenience. You should NEVER have to be the only one who suffers and sacrifices. Fuck that.Thank you for sharing you honest experience without filters. We need more of these people these are the things many people don’t discuss. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 12:03 AM |
| 2 | I give up, I give up. I don't know!That’s something I’m working on too. So far what helps me is whenever I feel the urge to be a bob the builder type I redirect that energy toward building myself. I wish I could have given a more concrete step by step guide but this is all I have as of now. Perhaps some more experience members could contribute as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 06:44 PM |
| 4 | Should I lose my v card already??Wait. Get a vibrator and a dildo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 04:18 PM |
| 20 | Save your motherly instincts for your family, friends, or children, NOT MEN.Imma try something like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 11:35 PM |
| 6 | I give up, I give up. I don't know!You family’s history has nothing to do with you and think about what you want first b/c your goals and dreams should always come before his | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 07:06 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend recently gain 20 lbs and I no longer find him attractive. He still a lot of qualities I like but I can’t be with someone I don’t find attractive. What is a good way to handle this situationI was able to talk to him but it’s not working. I was say it in a more gentle manner like showing him photos from before the weight gain and how he looks good in them. But it’s not working | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 07:12 PM |
| 6 | My boyfriend recently gain 20 lbs and I no longer find him attractive. He still a lot of qualities I like but I can’t be with someone I don’t find attractive. What is a good way to handle this situationWell I’m glad you know what to do in your situation. But this is my preference I took care of myself and I expect my partner to be a responsible adult and take care of himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 07:09 PM |
| 2 | My boyfriend recently gain 20 lbs and I no longer find him attractive. He still a lot of qualities I like but I can’t be with someone I don’t find attractive. What is a good way to handle this situationI tried that long ago but he said he hates walking | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 06:56 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend recently gain 20 lbs and I no longer find him attractive. He still a lot of qualities I like but I can’t be with someone I don’t find attractive. What is a good way to handle this situationI have hint at it by saying I’m perfect a leaner body. But here’s some context before I was exclusive with him he would tell me he works out and want to get fit since he’s on the chubby side. But after we went exclusive it’s non stop weight gain for the past year. I guess this is the last straw. And before we got together his diet was not healthy but not unhealthy and after we went exclusive it’s mostly pasta and fries. I have brought this up with him but it didn’t work. Weight can always be los… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 06:47 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend recently gain 20 lbs and I no longer find him attractive. He still a lot of qualities I like but I can’t be with someone I don’t find attractive. What is a good way to handle this situationIdk if his regular diet would help him lose weight since it’s mostly pasta and fries | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 06:36 PM |
| 5 | My boyfriend recently gain 20 lbs and I no longer find him attractive. He still a lot of qualities I like but I can’t be with someone I don’t find attractive. What is a good way to handle this situationHe went on a vacation and overate. He doesn’t exercise much to begin with so I don’t know if he would lose the weight | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 07:53 AM |
| 14 | My boyfriend recently gain 20 lbs and I no longer find him attractive. He still a lot of qualities I like but I can’t be with someone I don’t find attractive. What is a good way to handle this situationI have spoken to him about the weight gain by asking how did it happen but I have not talk about how I don’t find it attractive. I never thought about talking about our expectations for each other. And I’m not quite sure how a conversation like that would work can you give more info? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 07:52 AM |
| 11 | My boyfriend recently gain 20 lbs and I no longer find him attractive. He still a lot of qualities I like but I can’t be with someone I don’t find attractive. What is a good way to handle this situationYep he overate on vacation and he did say that the increase in weight bothers him but didn’t say if he would do another about it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 07:46 AM |
| 12 | My boyfriend recently gain 20 lbs and I no longer find him attractive. He still a lot of qualities I like but I can’t be with someone I don’t find attractive. What is a good way to handle this situationHe went on vacation to Asia for a few weeks and over ate. Edit: I thought about talking to him about it but I don’t want to hurt his feeling so I’m looking for ways to say it gently | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 07:45 AM |
| 18 | How Have Men Reacted When You Told Them They’re Bad At Sex?I told my bf that and he went ahead and research female anatomy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Can we make a playlist for this subreddit?Yessss pls and please shared the list once you are done 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 06:34 PM |
| 7 | The amount of likes & retweets... 🤢Omg no | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 06:23 PM |
| 5 | Divorce is final on the 15th:Wow I’m amazed. I’m so happy you found the courage to leave this situation. You did the right thing, being a single parent is better than parenting with a violent person. I’m hoping to ask if you are open to posting a guide on how you began your process of leaving including finding the emotional strength to leave despite having a young child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Am I being ungrateful?I don’t think you are being ungrateful. Just tell him want a real gemstone. You will be the one wearing the ring so your opinions on this issue is the most important one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 02:38 AM |
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