mangolet Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	What to make of this: Girl is "hot" all night (making out with me, following me around, hugging me from behind, etc.) and then very cold all of the sudden.		mangolet	/r/seduction	10/04/17 12:50 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Girl I love saw me kissing with other women I think she just wanted to be reassured that she still had you on lock. Seeing you kissing someone else made her insecure and then knowing she could still take you home validated her. She didn't need to fuck you. Knowing that she could if she wanted to was enough.	/r/seduction	28/07/17 01:32 AM
1	Break down how this guy isn't sounding confident. Sounds like a whiney bitch that blames "society" and such for his failures, instead of himself. If he's going in with that mindset he is setting himself up for failure. Also it doesn't help that the way he approached and his tone of voice was low-energy and defensive.	/r/seduction	23/07/17 02:53 PM
2	Making statements in texts backfired for the first time Yeah that is my opinion too. I would love to receive a text like this instead of "I cant" or no reply. From what she said I would guess you crossed the line from confident to arrogant but I have no idea what happened really.	/r/seduction	16/06/17 11:27 PM
1	Painful night. Girl seemed to like me in the beginning but then hooked up with another guy in the end. I'm going to be a dick here. You are exactly the type of guy that makes picking up girls at the end of the night so easy. By contrast, almost anyone else is more attractive to a girl than a guy that has been following her around the whole night.	/r/seduction	14/06/17 03:23 AM
3	A good looking guy who is frustrated beyond belief Yeah. It's definitely better than being scared to say anything risky or going into interview mode but in this case it's just too much of the opposite. It's like you don't have an off switch. If I was talking to a girl that was like this I would be exhausted by the third message. Not every message has to be a testament to your cool-ness. You should be more interested in getting together than anything else through text.	/r/seduction	14/06/17 03:08 AM
1	4 fundamental steps to become a true alpha male I wish the idea of an alpha male would die. You say to not do cliche manly things in the beginning like shoot guns or drive a truck, but then go on to say for your second point to do cliche manly things like martial arts or woodworking. Why are video games less manly then woodworking? I understand what your trying to say: take up hobbies that are more productive and pragmatic. Martial arts, hiking, hitting the gym and woodworking are all useful skills or good fitness whereas video games and gett…	/r/seduction	06/06/17 09:53 PM
4	Do I have to lower my standards if I am short? It comes being rejected by the first girl and assuming that it's because of your height. There's very likely something else you can work on. Even if it is because of your height, suck it up. Life is tough and you'll be making it harder on yourself by adopting a defeatist attitude. Also, I just noticed my username is similar to "manlet." That wasn't on purpose but LOL.	/r/seduction	06/06/17 07:14 PM
8	Do I have to lower my standards if I am short? Hey man I'm 5'4" and I've never had a problem with girls, for what it's worth. A lot of short guys do it to themselves by having a defeatist, cynical attitude. If you truly consider yourself to be on equal footing with hot girls taller than you (I do), they suddenly become an option. It's all about confidence in the end.	/r/seduction	06/06/17 03:19 PM
3	Improve my text game Meh, pretty boring interview-like conversation. You don't talk like this with your friends right? I bet you are a more interesting person. Be bold. Make risky, stupid jokes like you make with your friends. You'd be surprised what you can get away with. Each one of your texts ends in a question. To me that shows you are not confident that she will reply unless you ask for a reply (by asking a question.) "How about you?" "I've moved around a lot actually. I can show you the world."	/r/seduction	02/06/17 04:28 AM
3	What to make of this: Girl is "hot" all night (making out with me, following me around, hugging me from behind, etc.) and then very cold all of the sudden. Nope, I was hesitant to do anything with her because of the people we were with. If anything I was too dry with her? Sometimes I would cave in and say "fuck it" but mostly I was telling her "not now."	/r/seduction	10/04/17 05:03 AM
2	General question about girls who call you mate/pal etc It could be just the way they talk OR they are giving you a hint that they are not interested OR they are just seeing how you react to it. When this has happened to me I usually call them out on it by saying it back to them. "alright, BUDDY" and then put my arm around them or something. After you do that it should be obvious what she intended. Since this is through text, I would consider that you are being too much of a friend in your conversations in person or whatever.	/r/seduction	26/12/16 04:20 AM
2	26 M, never had a GF - Wondering if anxiety may not be the real issue...Plz bare with me - tried professional counsel, hasn't worked and can't afford... Oh man lol. IQ literally means nothing. You need a reality check. You're making excuses for your lack of social awareness. It becomes a self fulfilling prophecy when you think your IQ (it hurts to give even the slightest relevance to this) is the reason you can't get girls. Just chill out. People like different things and that's okay. You need to get someone in real life to give you their impression of you after a short conversation. I have a feeling you are way off in what you think about yours…	/r/seduction	25/12/16 11:03 PM