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Identity politics in general seek to garner some form of social benefit and disperse the cost of thaat benefit to those not receiving it without their consent. This is evil. Women should not benefit as a group and insist that men pay the cost for it against their will. When you inspect identity politics with this scope, you will see they all do this. They demonize a target population, then try to use that demonization to justify forced servitude.
/r/MensRights23/05/18 09:47 AM
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Those were jokes? How many white knighting feminist owned twits does it take to change a lightbulb? Rape culture.
/r/MensRights15/05/16 08:15 PM
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Obviously, you are a man encouraging predators to take pictures from the bushes. You know how dangerous predators are with their electronics. Did you ever watch that move Alien vs. Predator?
/r/MensRights15/05/16 08:04 PM
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Dredging up 3 year old articles on 10 year old studies.
/r/MensRights15/05/16 07:43 PM
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Feminism is NOT socially constructed. It was directly created by the goddess to defeat the patriarchy!
/r/MensRights08/05/16 07:04 PM
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What about if only half of our adult population works and supports the other half, like what men have had to do for women since the beginning of the "patriarchy"?
/r/MensRights08/05/16 02:28 AM
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Just one silver lining. If she comes after you for child support she will need to prove paternity because you arent on the birth certificate. And if she does, then you have legal rights to fight for custody. Legally, she can't have you not the father and the father at the same time. You are probably going to need a good attorney.
/r/MensRights08/05/16 02:15 AM
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The only thing that motivates a man to do anything in life is the promise of sex. That's all a man wants. Some pussy (or ass) to fuck. Honestly though, sex usually isn't even that good for me, maybe because I'm circumcised. It's that societal expectation though, the one where you should want sex above all else and should be ready to perform on demand... that's the real rape culture. How many times have I been in a relationship and she's been horny and feeling frisky, and I have to perform even i…
/r/MensRights08/05/16 02:09 AM
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All communications are recorded.
/r/MensRights08/05/16 02:04 AM
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Even if it were true that more men kill themselves, which it isn't, it would be because testosterone makes men more inherently violent, even against themselves, and because patriarchy. When men jack off it's self rape also. /s
/r/MensRights08/05/16 01:57 AM
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Pay gap statistics don't include America's 80% male homeless population that manage to make less than $5 a day on average by begging and cashing in aluminum cans or the like, because those incomes are never reported to the IRS, only to the food stamp office. So yes, the wage gap is a social constuct. Oh, and women get paid more for being a homeless begger than men do, by orders of magnitude, because society is conditioned to protect and support womyn more than men. In the bottom 1% income, women…
/r/MensRights08/05/16 01:49 AM
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+1 triggered. Every time I begin networking with men or women while offering support I get labeled as a fgt. Not your fault an emotionally supportive male gets tossed in the gay stereotype. You called me so many names and launched so many insults I think we should switch names bro.
/r/MensRights07/05/16 05:57 AM
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So it's OK for an 18 year old to take advantage of a 15 year old. But it's not OK for a 15 year old to want her first time to be with someone more experienced and gentle and slow and less hormonal and slam bam thankyou mam. No wonder so many women claim their first time hurt. Got u.
/r/MensRights06/05/16 07:58 AM
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This is just more ageism sexism stereotyping of men who are beaten down by society to the point that they have no option but to live in a white panel van with blacked out windows for a tiny amount of privacy.
/r/MensRights06/05/16 07:56 AM
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Reported for pis sing off the SJWs.
/r/MensRights06/05/16 07:51 AM
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Haven't you heard? Teens are unable to consent. Here is something funny. In NY state you can be married with parental consent at the age of 14. You can't legally consent to sex with your husband though until you are 16.
/r/MensRights06/05/16 07:47 AM
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Rent-a-center. You are only renting it. Just let them repo it on the last payment.
/r/MensRights06/05/16 07:44 AM
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Little boys get their first erection during the awkward phase between being a girl at six weeks of gestation and being a boy at 9 weeks. Yes unborn babies or parasitic organisms growing in the womb of liberals get many many erections before puberty. It is about as voluntary as lubrication is for females. Sexual response exists in all mammals phisiologically from birth. Involuntary erection is normal and healthy. The absence of such is usually an indicator of physiological disfunction
/r/MensRights06/05/16 07:25 AM
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They brought up all lives matter. You should ask why men are disproportionately in prison more than women. The black lives matter folks claim police oppression over disproportionate black imprisonment. Racist claim more black people commit crimes. Liberals say those are strawman arguments. Those same liberals won't accept that there is police oppression against men, rather claiming men commit more crimes. This is the same straw man argument that they fight against in racism. This direct contradi…
/r/MensRights06/05/16 07:18 AM
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In a society where men are only valued by what they can provide or what can be taken from them, do you expect any less? It is the logical conclusion to such values.
/r/MensRights06/05/16 06:59 AM
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On the 18th birthday humans suddenly get the capacity of making informed decisions. It was proven in a court of law!
/r/MensRights06/05/16 02:57 AM
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You should remember there are fundamental differences between male and female social structures. Women are encouraged to give and seek support from their social networks, and those who garner the most support become the more powerful voice. Men on the other hand are forbidden this type of social structure (gays excluded). Not being able to network in this way, the only avenue for social structure is through competitor and dominance. This results in the male pecking order or "patriarchy". It caus…
/r/MensRights06/05/16 02:34 AM
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It's quite sexist (against women everyone) on its own... fixed. Men can be passive agents as well.
/r/MensRights18/09/14 06:32 PM
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I've always felt it would be "justice" for someone who perjures themselves to face the same penalty that the accused was facing for the crime.
/r/MensRights18/09/14 06:23 PM
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Just to put this into context, a man intentionally losing an erection while being sexually stimulated is about as likely as a woman intentionally stopping herself from lubricating while being sexually stimulated.
/r/MensRights18/09/14 06:10 PM
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A commentary on feminists who think that taking away any social power men have is somehow empowering women. Two dis-empowered people does not an empowered person make.
/r/MensRights04/04/14 11:02 PM
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my 1st rage comic evar. hope u liek it.
/r/MensRights04/04/14 10:55 PM
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/r/bulges ?
/r/MensRights04/04/14 09:36 PM
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Considering that /r/creepshots is banned, and /r/dickslips isn't...
/r/MensRights04/04/14 09:34 PM
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Going there to fap, thanks for the link bro.
/r/MensRights04/04/14 09:30 PM
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I was raped by an elephant at the zoo. Can I get out of my parking ticket?
/r/MensRights04/04/14 09:27 PM
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Apparently, it's a financial seminar group loosely tied to other groups such as NXIVM, Rainbow Cultural Garden, World Ethical Consortium, JNESS, and Executive Success Programs. Popular words posted around the internet about these groups are "scheme", "scam", "fraud", and "cult". Nothing to do with the MRM.
/r/MensRights04/04/14 08:04 PM
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Tammi Bleimeyer, who is pregnant and has five children, including the 16-year-old, was released on a $2,000 bond, the station reported. So the mom was sent home to take care of the other 4 kids? Why didn't CPS take them all away, OMFG!@#
/r/MensRights04/04/14 04:01 AM
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Not to nag, but this post isn't really about feminists. It's about how most of the time the sexism that feminists complain about hurts men more directly, and as often, as it hurts women.
/r/MensRights04/04/14 03:30 AM
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When I was growing up, my mother would make me butt in front of other women trying to get to the door in order to open it for them. If I didn't I would get a lecture. If I did, I would get praised. It's not the act that's sexist, it's the social conditioning and expectation around the interaction.
/r/MensRights04/04/14 02:25 AM
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Yeah, the part I always laughed at was the 41% of girls that thought it would be ok if a guy raped her when she turned him on. I mean, if she's ok with it, how is it rape, even if it looks like rape? I've run into lots of women over they years who have rape fantasies.
/r/MensRights04/04/14 02:17 AM
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This is why it's a bad idea to get drunk off your ass or fucked up on drugs to the point where you lose your mind.
/r/MensRights04/04/14 02:10 AM
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Sounds like artificial market controls to force the price up. Did someone get a monopoly on medical grade salt water or something?
/r/MensRights04/04/14 02:00 AM
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Can you source the fact that there is a "shortage"? You do know that saline solution is just distilled water and table salt, right? Last time I checked there isn't a shortage of either. More likely, the collection center is trying to maximize their profitability at the cost of their male donors. A bag of saline costs them $10. A sports drink costs them $1.50. Plasma collection companies are businesses, they aren't humanitarian organizations. They make $100-$200 per donation, out of which comes y…
/r/MensRights04/04/14 01:07 AM
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I love the way the blogosphere lets you change links so they have different titles, like the role reversal "http://time.com/23280/police-teenage-boys-forced-autistic-girl-to-perform-sex-acts/" would link to the same article, so you can go post it to feminist places and get them to go read it.
/r/MensRights22/03/14 09:03 PM
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Hillary has made many sexist statements and is viewed by many in the feminist movement as a "rape enabler". I tend to agree with them in their views that she is an embodiment of the "war on women", trying to pretend that she is supporting women, while at the same time disempowering them by forcing them into a specific gender roles, like "not being soldiers", and "being victims". The Clintons are a just a couple of CIA douchebags who need to be removed from our government, along with the rest of …
/r/MensRights22/03/14 08:49 PM
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Before I found the MRM and peer support, I felt victimized by women all the time about sex. I was conditioned into the belief that it was my "duty" to have sex with them whenever they wanted, and that I only had social value when I was performing deeds for a woman, and that I was wrong for not wanting sex all the time. This isn't quite rape, but it is still very disempowering to say the least. I felt coerced by society in general to have to say "yes". This is the real "rape culture" in action.
/r/MensRights10/03/14 09:08 PM
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"How many MRA's does it take to screw in a lightbulb?" Rapist! The light socket didn't verbally consent!
/r/MensRights10/03/14 09:01 PM
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I've only seen anti-planned parenthood sites that have to do with black civil rights, anti-abortion, and anti-eugenics, not Men's Rights. Sites like http://www.blackgenocide.org/
/r/MensRights09/03/14 10:09 PM
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Agreed. Most of that kind of behavior seems to be from feminist trolls and white knights.
/r/MensRights09/03/14 10:02 PM
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Downvoted, you shroo.
/r/MensRights09/03/14 10:01 PM
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Amazing what feminism has created isn't it. At least in the 1950's assholes knew their place.
/r/MensRights09/03/14 06:37 AM
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I can't wait to see it when it shows up on hulu.
/r/MensRights09/03/14 06:33 AM
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Upvoted.
/r/MensRights09/03/14 06:26 AM
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http://www.nbc.com/contact/general
/r/MensRights09/03/14 06:17 AM
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You guys don't see the irony of it being International Wyminz Day?
/r/MensRights09/03/14 06:06 AM
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Oh, well maybe it's just at the soup kitchens I vollunteer at.
/r/MensRights09/03/14 05:37 AM
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I just posted pretty much the same story, happened to me in the 90s.
/r/MensRights09/03/14 05:09 AM
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I was 23 and hanging out with a girl. She asked me if I wanted to sleep over on the floor because it was so late. I gave her a ride to her job interview the next morning. A week later, I was being held down by 6 guys, one of them being her brand new boyfriend, having my palms cut with a knife because she told them I was forcibly feeling her up and violating her, all the while I was denying it happened. About 8 months later I ran into her boyfriend and he apologized profusely to me because after …
/r/MensRights09/03/14 05:08 AM
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I don't need feminism because... we're all gonna die and finally be equal some day.
/r/MensRights09/03/14 04:50 AM
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Take a deep breath and put your MRA privilege in check. It's a joke.
/r/MensRights09/03/14 04:20 AM
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6% of all homeless persons are female in the USA. That should be higher too.
/r/MensRights09/03/14 03:52 AM
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There's that feminist ridicule I've come to expect in this sub. :)
/r/MensRights09/03/14 03:09 AM
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Why do you have to be so sexist against men who voice their problems?
/r/MensRights09/03/14 03:02 AM
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Don't be such a mangustyst.
/r/MensRights09/03/14 02:58 AM
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I actually respect and can more easily relate with women who are "whores" than those who are prudes who wield sex as a tool for social, fiduciary, or material gain; or as a weapon to socially, economically, or materially cause harm to others. And I totally agree. Straight men should be able to wear skirts, dresses, and pink feathered leotards in public any time they want to... Edit: http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6143/5981536063_e528b003ae_z.jpg
/r/MensRights09/03/14 01:21 AM
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gendercide Not a new concept. One deeply ingrained in feminism, though usually it's talked of as a "bad thing" when XX's or trans-XY's are the target.
/r/MensRights09/03/14 01:08 AM
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When I was 32, I went to a public library to get tax forms. I sat in the children's area, as all the other tables were taken, and proceeded to fill out my tax information for the year. It wasn't long before 3 girls came up and started teasing me about my long hair. I just laughed and continued to do my taxes. The oldest of them asked if she could brush my hair. I consented, as a man with long hair was likely a novelty in her experience, and I wanted her to know that we were equals in my mind, ev…
/r/MensRights09/03/14 12:55 AM
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I Don't Need Feminism Because... Too many "feminists" don't understand the difference between sexism and feminism.
/r/MensRights09/03/14 12:27 AM
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Racism can only be perpetrated by people who have money you can take from them.
/r/MensRights09/03/14 12:25 AM
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Don't blame me if it is. Blame the government. Also, 281.4 million divided by 143.4 million equals about 50.95%. I'm not a math professor either, but I did complete the fifth grade. Source: http://nationalatlas.gov/articles/people/a_gender.html
/r/MensRights09/03/14 12:16 AM
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This probably has a lot to do with why 95% of homeless persons are male.
/r/MensRights08/03/14 11:46 PM
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According to Census 2000, 281.4 million people were counted in the United States — 143.4 million of whom were female and 138.1 million male. The former made up 50.9 percent of the population, compared with 51.3 percent in 1990. That makes males in the USA a minority and not able to be sexist against females.
/r/MensRights08/03/14 11:38 PM
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By this logic, a woman wants it if they lubricate while being raped.
/r/MensRights01/08/13 07:52 PM
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"Telling someone they can't do something (in this case, be the victim of sexism) because of their gender is by deffinition sexism."
/r/MensRights01/08/13 07:49 PM
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This is a great example on how marketing embraces stereotypes in order to increase revenue. People are conditioned on the whole to take care of females and expect males to fend for themselves. By using females in their advertising, they are preying on that conditioned state. They likely receive more donations by using women in their ads than they ever would by using men, or a mixture of both genders.
/r/MensRights01/08/13 05:24 PM
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I fail to see what this has to do with men's rights? Any kind of sexual activity outside marriage is illegal in Saudi Arabia. Age of consent in the USA is 16 in 30 of the 50 states, and you aren't required to be married. The Saudis see sex outside of marriage both illegal and immoral. They see the USA as immoral and barbaric by allowing it. Any legal bias you have is strictly cultural. Personally I find it appalling the way the USA wants to force the world to adopt and subscribe to it's own soci…
/r/MensRights09/01/13 03:36 PM
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Because some egalitarians simply don't differentiate between people based on gender, race, etc. They see and treat all people as equals. I understand this, as I never notice a persons skin color or other "racial" identifiers. In order to fight for equal rights of men, you need to first see a distinction between between men and women and some simply don't do that. Also, many egalitarians apply the philosophy to how they treat others, but they don't actively attempt to promote the philosophy to th…
/r/MensRights01/08/12 06:29 PM
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National Incidence Studies of Missing, Abducted, Runaway, and Thrownaway Children (NISMART), via National Center for Exploited and Missing Children. http://www.missingkids.com/missingkids/servlet/PageServlet?PageId=2810 They have sources listed.
/r/MensRights31/07/12 08:20 PM
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It's called communication. Maybe you've heard of it. You seem to assume that men should be obligated NOT to make advances by default, implying that it should be the holy domain of the golden vagina barer. If a man finds a woman attractive and communicates that, where is the problem? If a woman finds a man attractive and communicates that, where is the problem? It's called freedom of speech, and if you don't want to reciprocate a sexual advance, use that same freedom to say no. If you want to ini…
/r/MensRights31/07/12 08:11 PM
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You could just say "MRM is an egalitarian movement". Not all egalitarians are MRM activists.
/r/MensRights31/07/12 08:09 PM
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I got treated that way until I moved out of my parents house. All the judgment, humiliation, punishment, and expectation on who I was supposed to be and what I was supposed to do for THEM left when I did.
/r/MensRights31/07/12 08:02 PM
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I suspect the MRM is a reactionary movement, throwing back into the face of feminist bigot her hypocrisy, false disinformation, and propaganda lies that society readily buys. While many male MRM supporters are egalitarians at heart, they have been the victim of a society wide smear campaign for nearing 100 years. Standing in defense of this deception is expected and justified.
/r/MensRights31/07/12 07:59 PM
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That's only if he has money. I have a girlfriend half my age and people eye me with suspicion, animosity, and some have even called me a pedo to my face.
/r/MensRights31/07/12 07:53 PM
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Agreed, but just because some men have learned to not trust women and society doesn't mean their concerns are not valid. Men need to feel safe to heal and become egalitarian.
/r/MensRights31/07/12 07:51 PM
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What kind of activities do you consider "harassment"? You realize that "sexual harassment" not only requires that a person not want sexual advances of another party, but that the other party know the advances are unwelcome. No one should legally be expected to have ESP about another persons desires in general society. A man telling a woman "I think you're sexy." is not sexual harassment unless it's after a woman tells him "I'm not interested." Otherwise how are men and women to express sexual in…
/r/MensRights31/07/12 07:47 PM
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http://www.breakingthescience.org/SimplifiedDataFromCDC.php CDC indicates that 70% of all non-reciprocal violence (a person getting beaten up by their spouse without fighting back), is women on men violence.
/r/MensRights31/07/12 07:42 PM
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Why are you trying to turn this into a women vs. men thing? Isn't it enough that men are assaulted more often than women? That men are victim to violent crime more often than women? This is just more evidence that women are more protected by society than men, and men are more inherently more disposable. Noone here is blaming only women for this, these are society wide crimes perpetrated by all of society.
/r/MensRights31/07/12 07:35 PM
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We don't piss off feminists. They choose to be pissed off. It's their default position against the "patriarchy". They were pissed off long before MRM was conceived, and they will only stop being pissed off when they take responsibility for their own emotions and stop displacing the "cause" of why they feel bad onto men. Emotional response is a choice of the individual, whether they realize it or not.
/r/MensRights31/07/12 07:32 PM
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I find a lot of girls to be creepy.
/r/MensRights31/07/12 07:29 PM
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I think you mean societal values. Stop displacing beliefs embraced by most everyone in society onto men alone. My feminist mother taught me most of these values.
/r/MensRights31/07/12 07:26 PM
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All men are violent monsters. /s
/r/MensRights31/07/12 07:16 PM
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Whenever I get flack from someone for cooking, I invite them over for one of my pizza drinking parties. I make pizza par excellence in abundance, and we sit around drinking and playing Euro board games late into the morning. The last time i threw a pizza social I had 3 guys asking me for my sauce recipe.
/r/MensRights31/07/12 07:10 PM
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Reminds me of the military treats men.
/r/MensRights31/07/12 07:06 PM
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I'm still working to get to 50% homeless women without emergency or transitional shelter.
/r/MensRights31/07/12 07:04 PM
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Also... we already had "sexism" defined. Why did we need a specific -ism to fight it, wouldn't what people claim "good feminism" to be better be defined as "the anti-sexism movement" if that's what it was really about? Even the word "feminism" stinks of sexism, because it doesn't include males or masculinity in it's name.
/r/MensRights31/07/12 06:36 AM
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String theory? Strippers really?! Black holes? Racist and sexist much?! god this could go on forever.
/r/MensRights31/07/12 06:29 AM
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I need one that says I need men's rights because I'm not a sexual predator no matter what everyone thinks. ... because when I was driving across the USA in my white van with dark windows last summer, with my 21 year old girlfriend, cops were called four times by random people, I was detained and questioned each time, because people thought I was somehow a sexual predator. I am 39. I am a man. That doesn't mean I want to rape children.
/r/MensRights31/07/12 05:57 AM
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Yes, and in every hard science. "But how does the axial coefficient drag feel about being adjusted?"
/r/MensRights31/07/12 05:51 AM
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Well, call yourself what you will, hang out. If you really do have those values and mores, I'm sure you'll fit in fine. Contrary to what many feminist propagandists are claiming, this isn't a woman haters club. I think they just feel threatened because 1) Feminism is traditionally the holy domain of women, and 2) We keep calling self-proclaimed "feminists" all over the web on their non-equalist bullshit when they spout it.
/r/MensRights31/07/12 05:46 AM
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Sorry, not MGM, MRM... all these TLA's (Three Letter Acronyms). MGM is Male Genital Mutilation, Freudian slip there i guess. Also, yes my name is tongue in cheek. It's a regendered spoof on the old Little Rascals black and white era shorts, in one of them the boys formed the "He-man Womanhaters' Club" and got together and complained about girls.
/r/MensRights31/07/12 05:42 AM
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The problem really is that feminism has fractured and divided into so many subset under the umbrella flag of feminism, that it has become much like the christian faith did during the protestant reformation era. Each sect bickering with each other sect over what it meant to be christian, and what was good and bad. A new movement needs to take place, with a new name, untarnished by all the infighting, zealotry, and bigotry. This is what MGM is to me. A fresh start with old ideas, going back to the…
/r/MensRights31/07/12 05:31 AM
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I do see you as an equal. I the feminist misandry and hypocracy which i see as abusive and cynical. Hate speech, derogatory comments, and reinforcing stereotypes about men in general does nothing but make feminism look like a bunch of sexists who are perpetrating the same crimes on men they claim are being perpetrated by all males in society, and then blame men for their crimes. It does nothing for equality. The comic makes a very good point about societal age/gender discrimination and stereotyp…
/r/MensRights31/07/12 05:10 AM
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I didn't attribute it to feminism, though lies that are anti-male usually are picked up and ranted about by feminism as proof as why men are evil.
/r/MensRights30/07/12 08:46 PM
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Not blaming the victim for being raped, blaming the victim for saying he was raped. Claiming you are raped is the holy domain of feminists.
/r/MensRights30/07/12 08:38 PM
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It doesn't explicitly say that all the rape was male on female penetration with a penis either. Women rape other women with objects and fingers too.
/r/MensRights30/07/12 08:36 PM
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And according to statistics (by the us govt): of 800,000 total missing children reports: 200,000 family member abductions 58,000 non family member abductions ... 115 stereotypical kidnappings, where the child was taken for the purpose of keeping the child, sexual abuse, ransom, or intent to kill. it's amazing how much societal propagated paranoia there is about stranger danger, i.e. men (especially in vans, offering candy) kidnapping children with the intent of raping and killing them, compared …
/r/MensRights30/07/12 08:32 PM
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What's the point of that? When he pushes her off and tries to walk away, whats to stop her from screaming and tearing her clothes and throwing herself on the bed, then as he's trying to do his pants back up, have some white knight walk in to see "him trying to rape her"?
/r/MensRights30/07/12 08:12 PM
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If this is a troll, you're likely to be a troll as well, playing to role of counter-troll to his troll. I'm an oldfag /b/tard. I know how these play out.
/r/MensRights30/07/12 07:54 PM
4

Feminism makes it more difficult to get up and walk away, because it constantly reinforces the negative stigma associated with being accused of rape. Being accused and found innocent is nearly as bad as being accused and found guilty.
/r/MensRights30/07/12 07:52 PM
7

You understate the power of false rape claims. Go to google news and search "false rape" and tell me women don't make false rape claims, and that men aren't getting exonerated from their 20+ year false rape convictions after losing a huge chunk of their life to these women's lies, based on DNA evidence. Do it. I dare you.
/r/MensRights30/07/12 07:47 PM
3

Why do you feel the need to attack people when they say they are a victim? Where's the benefit of the doubt? If it's a troll as you say, why do you continue to feed him?
/r/MensRights30/07/12 07:42 PM
6

Attack and blame the victim. Standard "patriarchy" tactics. It's always been my contention that the actions and attitudes which support the idea of "patriarchy" are enforced more by women then by men.
/r/MensRights30/07/12 07:38 PM
4

Once you are pressured, manipulated, or coerced into having sex, it's easier to go along with whatever they tell you to do, after all you've already given up resistance. Ask any rape victim at what point they gave up and just let things happen, they usually tell you they did at some point. In this story, fabricated or not, it appears to have happened at the point when she played the "I'll tell everyone you raped me" power card.
/r/MensRights30/07/12 07:37 PM
5

Because doubt is the first thing we should offer when someone claims they are raped, correct?
/r/MensRights30/07/12 07:26 PM
6

I think we should all submit photos like they are, saying "I need feminism because I need to be demonized and condemned for being born with a penis."
/r/MensRights30/07/12 06:32 PM
1

trollface.jpg?
/r/MensRights30/07/12 01:04 AM
1

Derp herp derp.
/r/MensRights30/07/12 12:14 AM
2

Remember, most men were trained on how to interact with other members of society primarily by their mothers. All of the pain men inflict on women can be blamed on women.... /s
/r/MensRights29/07/12 08:52 PM
1

You might be best served getting a $100-200 do it yourself mail-in test if you have to reason to believe you aren't the child's father. It won't have legal weight because there is no documented chain of evidence, but it will tell you as much information as you'd get from one of the more expensive tests.
/r/MensRights29/07/12 08:04 PM
1

No, it's because you see women as people and not sex objects.
/r/MensRights29/07/12 08:00 PM
3

Maybe he had a wife/girlfriend, got burned, repeated, got burned, repeated, got burned, ad infinitum, and now is shy.
/r/MensRights28/07/12 06:35 AM
2

Weird, I always thought this is what rich people did to the poor.
/r/MensRights28/07/12 02:29 AM
9

It's all about the power you feel when you see their look of disappointment and frustration when you freindzone them after sending them all the signals. And when the sulk off, heartbroken, and don't want anything more to do with you, that's just proof that all they wanted was sex. Men are such scum... oh wait, we're talking about women getting rejected? Nevermind.
/r/MensRights28/07/12 12:35 AM
10

The penis is the main oppressive tool of the patriarchy.
/r/MensRights28/07/12 12:25 AM
2

What they want you to do is give them a reason to say you oppress them.
/r/MensRights28/07/12 12:22 AM
10

I want to have sex with her, and all the time I will chant "This is because I'm powerful! This is because I'm the man! This is because I'm your oppressor! Sex is power!" /s
/r/MensRights28/07/12 12:15 AM
3

Could be, but I think submitting a reply could be akin to signing a blank check, as they could lay forth terms at any time to which you would be bound to.
/r/MensRights27/07/12 09:27 PM
3

http://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/x6yef/reddits_had_a_few_threads_about_sexual_assault/c5kf246 Upvote my role reversal reply if you like.
/r/MensRights27/07/12 09:22 PM
3

I thought she was making a pun on the word "zero", not "hero".
/r/MensRights27/07/12 08:50 PM
7

humyn* fixed.
/r/MensRights27/07/12 08:25 PM
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It's because she has always said NO to men because it made her feel powerful. For feminists, sex is power. The irony is that they constantly accuse men of "rape" because of their own belief that sex is about power.
/r/MensRights27/07/12 07:08 PM
10

http://crunkfeministcollective.wordpress.com/on-commenting/ ... By submitting a reader comment, the reader agrees to be bound by and accepts the terms laid forth by the CFC. Aren't they supposed to tell you the terms before they bind you into a contract? tldr; if you post a comment we legally own your balls.
/r/MensRights27/07/12 07:03 PM
43

Hahah. I had the pleasure last week of telling a woman "No means no." Then when she, in her drunken state, still persisted, "What part of 'Back the fuck off before I call the police.' do you not understand?" I can tell you, it is empowering to take back control of your own sexuality, and not just acquiesce to the role of being a slave to THEIR hormones. I've heard the rhetoric all my life about how all I want is to wrap my penis up in a girl's vagina, and I am sick of it. Every time I think abou…
/r/MensRights27/07/12 06:27 PM
-1

Racists always think they are superior because of their skin tone. In reality though the level of melanin in a persons skin doesn't mean anything.
/r/MensRights27/07/12 06:17 PM
44

The author calls them "her children" until the point where he's supposed to man up and die, then suddenly they are "his children". If I were him I'd get on the net and tell people he's gonna dump her because of all their white knighting.
/r/MensRights27/07/12 06:13 PM
15

tldr; man didn't get shot at theater, world hates him for it.
/r/MensRights27/07/12 06:07 PM
1

... and accurate if you buy infowars.com
/r/MensRights27/07/12 06:00 PM
2

Some stuff is pretty ludicrous.
/r/MensRights27/07/12 05:59 PM
1

The entire Orson Scott Card prediction seems chillingly accurate. Predating Bush's popularizing the phrase "New World Order" by 4 years.
/r/MensRights27/07/12 05:58 PM
1

I dunno if they did get it right, i mean they could have at least taken a report, the assailant is unidentified by the woman's statement.
/r/MensRights27/07/12 06:47 AM
1

I just upvoted your page cuz I'm creepy that way. Quit complaining. xD
/r/MensRights26/07/12 05:31 AM
6

quit making me jealous!
/r/MensRights26/07/12 05:27 AM
2

I didnt upvote that thread. Well, i did, but then i swtiched it, like 30 times.
/r/MensRights26/07/12 04:35 AM
3

I'm a rapist, in fact, some people call me "Therapist".
/r/MensRights26/07/12 04:34 AM
2

Here is a good a place as any. There is plenty of anti-male rhetoric that gets spread around this subreddit, prompting debate and the like.
/r/MensRights26/07/12 01:53 AM
6

Especially when competing for World's Strongest Vagina.
/r/MensRights26/07/12 01:50 AM
3

OMG, so many white knighting manginas! Successful troll is successful!
/r/MensRights26/07/12 01:44 AM
7

Simple, it makes them have to leave the country to perform this barbaric rite. If you want to practice cannibalism or human sacrifice or battle to the death as part of your religious practices, you gotta leave the country too.
/r/MensRights26/07/12 01:38 AM
11

According to the records of Child Protective Services, Coleman had been reported five previous times since March of 2010 for physical abuse, sexual abuse, neglect and medical neglect of her children. CPS declined to intervene on the children’s behalf on any of those occasions. Police now say that her son’s body bore old bruises indicating a history of battering. Coleman’s two daughters corroborate that. And this is why CPS is sexist. They will remove children from a father at the slightest provo…
/r/MensRights26/07/12 01:07 AM
0

I only blame feminism for allowing it to continue and embracing it as how things should be, not for it's creation. Oh and I also blame feminism for trivializing it out of hand as something not to be addressed and blaming men for it, when all of society is at fault.
/r/MensRights26/07/12 12:55 AM
-1

Lawyers love Latin. In Latin, fetus sometimes was transferred figuratively to the newborn creature itself, or used in a sense of "offspring, brood" (cf. Horace's "Germania quos horrida parturit Fetus"). In other words, fetus can mean child, offspring, baby, etc.
/r/MensRights25/07/12 07:28 PM
3

It wasn't feminism that created those sociologically conditioned gender roles, they've been with us much longer than feminism has. See the titanic. "The Unsinkable Molly Brown" would never have existed without the countless men who were compulsorily drown on the decks of this ship because of this social expectation.
/r/MensRights25/07/12 07:13 PM
1

I remember when it came up for vote in my state. The biggest outcry was from women, that it would "make girl have to go to war". At this point I am a proponent of the ERA, as it would force feminists to tackle legal issues that are only effect men at this point.
/r/MensRights25/07/12 06:04 PM
1

The idea of forced servitude where you are putting your life and limb on the line against your will in the name of freedom is one of the most heinous of deceptive lies that I can think of. The compulsory cataloging of human flesh, specifically male flesh in this case, implies that the government only sees you as their property and a utility to be employed in their expansionistic unconstitutional ideologies. This is why I didn't register, upon moral grounds. If there were a legitimate war and att…
/r/MensRights25/07/12 06:00 PM
3

Not to mention that many states won't allow you to have a drivers license now. I didn't sign up between 18-25 back in 1991, when there were NO PENALTIES for not being signed up. Now I am too old to register, and they are passing laws which are effecting me POST EX FACTO. I can't get a drivers license in 37 states now, even though I could have when I was required to register. These types of laws are supposed to be unconstitutional. Assigning punishment to a "crime" long after a "crime" was commit…
/r/MensRights25/07/12 05:14 AM
2

I don't get why any feminist would downvote this article, as it's explaining how False Rape accusations trivialize the experience of real rape victims, but of course the first thing it gets is a downvote. Silly trolls.
/r/MensRights25/07/12 05:06 AM
2

It actually happens in first world countries too now and then.
/r/MensRights25/07/12 05:04 AM
1

I think it's likely sociological conditioning. People respond to conditioning just as quickly as instinct. In India's past it was expected that a woman would throw herself on the funeral pyre of her dead husband and die with him out of love a grief. It was considered to be a sign of true love. It happened more often than not. This also was sociological conditioning. It's fallen out of social expectation for the most part, and doesn't occur except in remote areas of India today.
/r/MensRights25/07/12 04:18 AM
2

Hey, that's exactly what people say to women when they get raped. "You're not a victim. You brought this on yourself. This is your fault."
/r/MensRights25/07/12 04:07 AM
2

You are welcome here. Varying viewpoints are always welcome. Please understand though, that mens issues are very much trivialized by society on the whole and anyone who claims that "this is not a gender issue" when it is being seen as such will be seen as someone who is again trivializing the concerns being presented. I went over some of your posts. I disagree with much of what you said. I don't think you are a feminist nor a misandrist. I think you hit some nerves with the viewpoint: ... as it …
/r/MensRights25/07/12 12:41 AM
0

I don't see my statement as anti-LGBT. It's more LGBT-neutral. I edited it to be more specific as to what I was trying to communicate.
/r/MensRights25/07/12 12:03 AM
4

I posted this because during the feminist FGM outrage media push, these types of blog entries about FGM in africa were the norm, but this is the first I've actually seen about males dying from circumcisions in africa. It seems to point to circumcisions being "botched" as the problem, and not the fact that they are mutilating boys.
/r/MensRights24/07/12 11:09 PM
1

I'm sure whatever the cause, it can ultimately be blamed on a penis bearer somehow. Reddit and troll brigades seem to go hand in hand. MRM works for equality. Anyone attacking another subreddit in the name of MRM is just a troll trying to start shit imho.
/r/MensRights24/07/12 11:00 PM
1

This is only right, since men are ALWAYS raping women ALL the time. Women raping men would only be justified payback.
/r/MensRights24/07/12 10:48 PM
2

Because if two people get drunk and have sex, then one wakes up in the morning and regrets it and says "I was raped!" it would allow the other person to say "No, I was raped!" and whats the judge to do?
/r/MensRights24/07/12 10:45 PM
1

But it only effects men, correct? Men don't get 50% of the woman's property.
/r/MensRights24/07/12 10:43 PM
1

"You can't rape the willing." + "All men want is to get into a girl's panties." = "You can't rape a man."
/r/MensRights24/07/12 10:41 PM
0

I'm sorry, I'm not going to edit my post to be less hateful. There is no implied hate in my text that I can discern. I speak from my personal experience, as I have stated. Please don't assume that simply because I'm a white straight man speaking about LGBT that I hold animosity toward anyone. I see hatred as a symptom of fear and ignorance. Though I'd be happy to tell antecdotes about all the times I went to LGBT support groups in the 90's and was harshly ostracized and on one occasion physicall…
/r/MensRights24/07/12 10:32 PM
11

Why do you feel the need to attack men who exhibit emotion and feelings? What kind of deeply laden resentment and hatred do you harbor toward feelings? Are you so tied into your gender role as a man that you can't come to terms with your own lack of emotional support and lash out at me because of it? I am strong. I am strong enough to be able to express painful emotions. I am strong enough to care about you, even though you feel the need to attack me for doing what you cannot. I'm here to suppor…
/r/MensRights24/07/12 06:33 AM
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Oh shat. This isnt a raid? Back to 9gag for me.
/r/MensRights24/07/12 05:20 AM
2

Rules #1 & #2 /b/ro.
/r/MensRights24/07/12 05:09 AM
11

Some people do feel that way. I was crying when I posted that you insensitive asshole. Your response is a prime example of the hurtful way society generally approaches men who are victims of MGM, rape, and other sexual assault crimes when they speak out about it, attempting to invalidate and disregard the victim. Thank you for your example, if unintended. MGM is not something to make fun of. I see you already voiced your indifference to MGM and why you justify it here.
/r/MensRights24/07/12 05:03 AM
1

Are you kidding? /b/ is the best part of the internets!
/r/MensRights24/07/12 04:59 AM
2

Tell them the truth. That feminism doesn't attempt to address injustices against men, and in fact often times promotes them, as anything bad for men must be in contrast good for women. This flawed ideology isn't a base ideal in MRM. We want gender equality. Personally on the odd incident that I encounter a misogynist male spouting anti-woman hatred in here, I try to let them know that is not appropriate and we don't need to demonize women in the name of equality, for if we did that would make us…
/r/MensRights24/07/12 04:55 AM
34

The thing that I find most interesting is that it's an LGBT support group fighting to make the definitions of rape gender neutral. In my experience, I've found that most LGBT support groups readily embrace the feminist ideology of being downtrodden by straight men and see them as the enemy.
/r/MensRights24/07/12 04:46 AM
0

Oh, I'm wrong again. I guess people did apply a term meaning "to cut around the perimeter of" to females.
/r/MensRights24/07/12 02:57 AM
1

Oy vey!
/r/MensRights24/07/12 02:54 AM
1

It is correct within the context of the statement, as circumcision is specifically a mutilation procedure performed on males.
/r/MensRights24/07/12 12:16 AM
8

The penis mightier than the sword.
/r/MensRights23/07/12 11:57 PM
4

Babies' genitals was not incorrect, just less precise.
/r/MensRights23/07/12 11:52 PM
15

I wish I had the opportunity to know my foreskin enough to miss it. Reading other peoples experiences with their foreskin makes me feel a sense of loss and sadness, and that people don't really care about me, knowing it was forcibly removed from my body without my consent or knowledge. People look down on me with spite and roll their eyes at me when I complain. NOBODY CARES THAT I WAS MUTILATED AS A BABY! I AM THE VICTIM AND I AM BEING PUNISHED FOR IT! PUNISHED THROUGH WHOLESALE SOCIETAL INDIFFE…
/r/MensRights23/07/12 10:34 PM
2

Oh god you make me troflmao.
/r/MensRights23/07/12 08:25 PM
1

Black girl detected.
/r/MensRights23/07/12 08:21 PM
1

I'm glad the recent German court ruling is finally bringing MGM to public attention.
/r/MensRights23/07/12 08:05 PM
1

Hahahahahah. Wow. Was that intentionally a misattribution? "Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends." -- Jesus Christ John 13:15, King James Version
/r/MensRights23/07/12 07:11 PM
2

whats the law about "As soon as someone mentions Hitler, someone else will mention Godwin's law." called?
/r/MensRights23/07/12 06:52 PM
1

History demonstrates, and demonstrates well, that tyrants only gain power over a populace when there is an imbalance of arms between the military and the general public. Having a well armed populace is the greatest and most basic form of national defense.
/r/MensRights23/07/12 06:34 PM
2

You're talking about guns, the rest of us are talking about crime.
/r/MensRights23/07/12 06:30 PM
1

Your argument is specific to guns. I argue that because of a lack of guns, it provides a situation where people are no longer able to adequately defend themselves from a criminal and thus criminals are more likely to commit crimes. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1196941/The-violent-country-Europe-Britain-worse-South-Africa-U-S.html Fact: Violent crime has been steadily increasing in the UK ever since handguns were banned. Fact: Guns are 21 more times likely in the US to frustrate crime …
/r/MensRights23/07/12 06:28 PM
2

Trayvon Martin's case has yet to be decided. Available witnesses would seem to indicate Martin in the wrong. It's amusing that gun control activists point to this incident which has been upheld by the courts as a justified use of a weapon in the mode of self preservation as a reason to ban guns. The more guns in the hands of people who can demonstrate they can responsibly use them, the less likely a gun will be used in a crime, and the less incidents of violent crimes. That's what the statistics…
/r/MensRights22/07/12 09:07 PM
1

It's a reasonable amount of time. It's about the same time it would take my girlfriend to dig her pistol out of her purse. I live in Oregon, where violence incidents requiring legal intervention are relatively low.
/r/MensRights22/07/12 09:03 PM
2

No, you were saying that THIS incident would have been prevented if nobody but criminals intent on doing harm had firearms, which is an obvious fallacy.
/r/MensRights22/07/12 08:29 PM
27

Actually, women are expected by society to give their lives for their children just as much as men are expected to give their lives for their mate and children. This is a gender role that effects both sexes.
/r/MensRights22/07/12 08:09 PM
2

Guns do have some place in /r/mensrights, as the "Gun" is a symbol of power in the primary social fantasy and the gender role of what it means to be a man. Being an element of both the hero archetype and the oppressor archetype. Many feminists argue for gun control, and I feel it's because of the underlying social belief that they are inherently masculine. Really guns and hammers aren't any more masculine than dishwashers and irons are feminine. They are just tools.
/r/MensRights22/07/12 08:06 PM
5

I carry, and it takes me exactly 3 seconds to load a magazine into my pistol. Unloaded guns don't misfire, and my gun isn't ever loaded unless there is a NEED to fire it. I think you have some misconceptions about how to properly handle and use a gun. I'd suggest you go to a gun safety class and learn how to fire one, instead of just being afraid of them, in case you ever come into a situation where you find you're in NEED of using one. Oh wait, you're in the UK, you'd have to go to a free count…
/r/MensRights22/07/12 07:44 PM
6

My point is that the primary social fantasy teaches that men are only worth what you can take from them, and "true love" is only apparent once they are dead.
/r/MensRights22/07/12 07:36 PM
8

TLDR;: believes self deluding gun control fantasy in which the outcome of people being able to defend themselves in a dark smoky theater would be everyone shooting each other in confusion, then goes on copypasta rant on social programming on God or something else unintelligible.
/r/MensRights22/07/12 07:34 PM
3

It's not that it would be prevented, but likely would have been resolved sooner, if those three men who's only defense was to use their bodies as shields to protect their loved ones also had been packing a legal semiautomatic weapon. Even with draconian legislation, it's not at all difficult for someone who really wishes to obtain a gun in the UK to get one, even though it makes him a criminal to do so, at least that's my understanding from speaking to UK residents over the net. After the Columb…
/r/MensRights22/07/12 07:21 PM
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As selfless as these men were, they still fell victim to the gender role fantasy that a man only really loves someone if they died to express it. So many movies (Batman included) teach that a man only has true love if he's willing to risk death or die for it. It is much more commonplace, and socially expected, that men die protecting loved ones than women. The recent song "Grenade" by Bruno Mars points out this social programming. http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/brunomars/grenade.html
/r/MensRights22/07/12 07:10 PM
2

I'm glad he read that list to me. I found out I was a rape supporter because I am sexually attracted to women who are the "type" that are honest, trusting, self satisfied, generally happy, playful, sensitive, caring, loving, strong, respectful, and who don't just objectify me as a success object... being attracted to my stuff and only valuing me for what they can take from me. Guess that makes me a rape supporter. Good to know. Go rape!
/r/MensRights22/07/12 07:21 AM
3

There is a ridiculous amount of sexist and ageist propaganda about pedophilia about these days. So much so that when a 39 year old man engages in a legal relationship with a 21 year old woman, he's labeled a pedophile by bystanders in society. I am speaking of myself of course. How much can we really justify this pedonoia and default suspicion of older men of being sexually deviant offenders? Heres how much: according to the National Center for Missing Children, out of 800,000 missing children c…
/r/MensRights21/07/12 12:07 AM
1

Because men are not mind readers. In fact most aren't permitted any positive emotional contact with anyone. He's obviously socially inept and by communicating the problem, he can correct it. He's looking for some kind of connection obviously. Pushing him away without letting him know why will not give him enough information to correct his behavior. Pushing him away and letting him know why will at least give the next girl or guy a better chance.
/r/MensRights06/07/12 02:52 AM
17

I'd like to see the "For every 100 women homeless without emergency or transitional shelter..." statistic. In my experience with homeless persons, just doing head counts, it's locally somewhere between a 1 to 8 and 1 to 10 ratio.
/r/MensRights19/06/12 05:45 AM
19

This reminds me of a time recently when I was volunteering at a homeless shelter. We were serving dinner, and there were about 150 men, most of which were looking malnutritioned. When it was time to start serving the meals, 2 short extremely overweight women (in the 300-400 pound range) came in through the door from the outside through which the meal line extended, and cut into the front of the line. I asked them "why are you cutting in line?" They responded "ladies first, it's only polite." I l…
/r/MensRights19/06/12 02:32 AM
7

I was born into a judo christian family and was circumcised before i went home from the hospital. I feel violated to the core of what makes me a man. I am now 39 and it takes ALOT of stimulation for me to get an erection. According to this report based on a new study, circumcised men are 4.5 times more likely to suffer erectile dysfunction: http://www.thewholenetwork.org/14/post/2011/08/does-circumcision-cause-erectile-dysfunction.html "One of the major reasons that circumcision can lead to ED i…
/r/MensRights17/06/12 11:06 PM
0

It's very easy to detect sexism when you do simple role reversal. How many would stand for the same sign on mother's day with the roles reversed? "mom, if you were anymore perfect you'd be dad. happy mother's day." I mean seriously, women and men would both be up in arms.
/r/MensRights17/06/12 10:41 PM
3

File a report if not filing charges. You need shit like this legally documented for your defense.
/r/MensRights17/06/12 12:35 AM
1

google "women say all men want is sex" shows 9,860 results. google "men say all men want is sex" shows 0 results. So how are men conditioning young women "to believe that males only think about sex." if they aren't the ones saying it?
/r/MensRights09/06/12 11:15 PM
8

"I truly feel that as women we should support each other regardless of whether we decide to work outside of the home or not." I wish men would say the same of each other, but societal expectations force most men to say something along the lines of: "I truly feel that as men we should never support each other regardless." A men's revolution is coming, and the independent superman stereotype is going to be the first thing to get the noose, mark my words. Communication begets Community begets Chang…
/r/MensRights09/06/12 10:18 PM
8

Not saying anything is the worst thing you can do. Tell him to get some help and why before you ostracize him, so at least he has some clue as to what he did "wrong". Men score unusually low in Extra Sensory Perception tests and mind reading.
/r/MensRights09/06/12 10:11 PM
6

Of all dictionary definitions of sexism (http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/sexism), none implicitly exclude female on male sexism, and even the most sexist definitions only state it is "usually male" on female.
/r/MensRights09/06/12 09:28 PM
21

As a man who talks to other men I can tell you that 99% of heterosexual men I have spoken with do not think of themselves as sex crazed baby rapists. I think what you are hearing are echos of misandry which have permeated mass media for the last 50 years. Likely guys who say these things to a woman are saying it because they have been taught that they are supposed to, even if they really don't feel this way. Unfortunately men telling women what they think they want to hear is still predominant i…
/r/MensRights09/06/12 06:24 PM
12

You forgot this part: "Funding for the research came from several lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender advocacy groups, such as the Gill Foundation and the Lesbian Health Fund from the Gay Lesbian Medical Association." Following the money on "research studies" is always a good idea when looking for bias. There were probably other involved factors which could influence the results, such as a lesbian couple with enough money to afford artificial insemination from a sperm donor are being compare…
/r/MensRights09/06/12 05:54 PM
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