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maniac918/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 09:02 PM
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Don't miss the opportunity for a neg, be it right after the situation occurs, or next time the topic of shooting comes up: "I think I'll take my other girlfriend to the range next time. If you want to go, you can just call one of those range boys who were so fond of you." The key is that it has to be said with a smile and an amused mastery tone. Not in a jealous tone. You are letting her know: You noticed that their hands were all over her You're not going to cause a scene and fight over her You…
/r/askTRP23/02/15 10:34 PM
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32, Married 6 years, using TRP to turn marriage around. 8 months into the journey.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 07:44 PM
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Its the difference between being nice and being kind: A kind person helps out of the goodness of their heart, because it makes them feel good. A nice person helps because he thinks being nice will gain him a future advantage. (This rarely works out, i.e. friend zone) Check out the book "No More Mr. Nice Guy" for a much deeper answer on this topic.
/r/askTRP27/08/14 08:35 PM
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Yup, much better now. Do your future articles in a word doc before posting so you don't get any premature wrath while you are still editing.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 08:39 PM
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7) as the video goes on, and it's finally the reporter's turn to talk, Talib starts interrupting him, thus becoming a hypocrite.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 07:30 PM
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This is not Red Pill. This is the garbage advice the world gives you. The love languages themselves are spot on - I've met people who have each one of these. However the underlying advice is "If you both work hard to meet each others love languages, you'll have a better relationship." The problem with this is that women do not have the drive to improve themselves. Just because your wife knows your love language does not mean she will take the necessary action to speak that language to you. What …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 07:13 PM
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I've found Outcome Independence to be pretty useful as well. When you don't get upset at things that used to upset you, it fucks with their heads.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 08:19 PM
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Whatever your definition of cheating is, just don't do that. Otherwise, game on! Dread game is one of the best tools in the LTR game If the LTR doesn't work out, you'll still be used to flirting/initiating, and won't be "out of practice" I have no problem flirting with other girls, even if my wife is present. Now internally I know where the line is, and don't plan to cross it. However she has to think through that in her head - wonder if I would do it, is this girl prettier than her, is she doin…
/r/askTRP11/08/14 09:54 PM
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If I had to put my dog down, I'd be crying. I'd probably be more upset than if my wife died (is that messed up?). As long as you aren't regularly crying about stupid things, this shows that you do have emotions, and the things you truly care about bring them out. She will most likely desire you more and want to become one of "those things." One piece of advice, though it only applies if you were still upset/grieving beyond the initial moment. In these situations, don't let her comfort you too mu…
/r/askTRP05/08/14 06:44 PM
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I found TRP about 7 months ago and am using it to turn my marriage around. I was the nice guy from No More Mr. Nice Guy stuck in a sexless marriage, and that book really called me out on it. The main thing I can tell you is that it takes time. A lot of time. If you come out too hard with TRP, she'll see right through it. You're going to go through ups and downs. One day you'll be great at maintaining frame, make some progress, and get some great sex. The next day you'll fuck it up and accidental…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 10:03 PM
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I've found one of my main reasons for remaining faithful is a fear or STDs. I discovered Red Pill recently and am married, so I never really had a rampant plate spinning lifestyle in the past. But right now the thought of running after different plates and the potential for STDs just seems like a huge deterrent. Not too long ago I was finally at wits end in my marriage and had decided I was willing to cheat. Fear of STDs was literally the last thing that stopped me from doing so. If you can use …
/r/askTRP31/07/14 08:13 PM
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Seems like you're over-thinking this one a bit. It sounds like the main points of the story were: Val invited you both over for dinner You had not made prior plans with LTR, so you accepted the invitation It would be rude to change your mind, as Val was most likely already preparing dinner. This is a logical thought process that shouldn't require explaining yourself. If she is getting upset at this, you have to think of it as a child throwing a fit. You don't explain yourself to a child. You don…
/r/askTRP31/07/14 07:45 PM
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I'd clarify this to be withdrawal of "positive" attention. You don't withdraw all attention, like giving the silent treatment as a child would. That is passive aggressive. You just don't offer any extra positive attention. Basically you can "react" to anything she does but don't "act/initiate" anything yourself. Examples: If she asks you a question, answer it. Just don't try to continue the conversation as you normally might. If she tries to hug or kiss you, you let it happen, but keep it short.…
/r/askTRP24/07/14 05:30 PM
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Lot's of good advice in these comments, but I'll sum it up in one question. Do you make his life easier or harder? If you bring in drama, if you make him jump through hoops for sex, then you are a burden. If you do /r/RedPillWomen things like cook him a great meal when he comes home, or dress to please him, then you enhance his life. He will only enter into a LTR when your value to him exceeds the value of having options.
/r/askTRP23/07/14 06:08 PM
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Take a look at who you are hanging out with. Complaining is contagious, like gossip. I was mutual friends with several of my wife's friends. But when they get together, all they did was talk about people and judge them. It was a very negative vibe, so I stopped hanging out with them. Makes a world of difference in your attitude.
/r/askTRP23/07/14 05:57 PM
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In addition to upping your SMV and Dread Game mentioned in other comments (+1 for those), one thing that really helped me turn this around in my marriage was having outcome independence. I read it first in MMSL, but have seen it elsewhere as well. In the past, when I would try for sex, and the wife pushed back or said no, I would make a big deal out of it, because like you, I was extremely frustrated. This usually came out as either anger or begging. Neither are effective in making her panties w…
/r/askTRP23/07/14 05:52 PM
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I hadn't seen this before. I like the simplicity of breaking it down to either Nice or Kind. It explains "No More Mr. Nice Guy" in a matter of a few paragraphs.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 08:18 PM
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Yea, that's a good thought. We do have several couple friends from church, but we're the only ones without kids, so that tends to limit the get togethers to the occasional Sunday. My group of friends is pretty much those married guys though.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 10:11 PM
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I'm already through MMSL and Rational Male, and plowing through more books and blogs daily. I know that is definitely a big part of it, so trying to continually put in the work there. Your friend idea is spot on, however in my case, her friends are a large part of the problem. She is a nurse - most of her friends are coworkers, and most of her friends are single. None are good role models, and she's actually learning more negative behavior from them. They spend so much time at work together that…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 09:51 PM
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