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| 1 | Women have standards. So?Leagues definitely exist, and I don't advocate for anyone using anyone, esp younger people, but if a young guy wants a sugar momma, I would tell the older lady the same thing when he inevitably cheats on her, "fucking obviously.." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Women have standards. So?Exactly what do you want me to counter? I've countered many topics on here before just to be met with some mad dude taking a jab at me, oh you just did too. "It is so cute women.." Exactly what I'm talking about. You're not even adding anything worthwhile or formulating your own opinion, but you're mad about what I said, so you belittle me and use emotions of how you FEEL to try to make a point about how women are just emotional and can't handle reality? Do you really not see the irony in how yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Women have standards. So?I saw that, lol. And the thing is, I feel a lot of us women on here wouldn't be welcomed in other female dominated spaces, so it's not like we're one-sided. I've argued against women many times, but if you're a woman and dare disagree on one topic, you're just sloppy seconds and coping. Then, the girls that actually get attention are the exact, insulting, illogical type men like to say is the average woman, and they make it all worse. Sigh.. Not saying I'm better than anyone else on here, but it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Women have standards. So?Then don't complain when those same girls that are out of their league turn out to be shallow and use them. I don't care what you do. Just don't complain about the consequences you chose | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Women have standards. So?Yes, I would love a sub about the evolutionary psychology in men and women! Do you know of any that discuss that? On either side of the spectrum, you're gonna have men and women saying the stupidest shit to get likes from other narrow-minded people, and it mostly just hits emotionally and nothing more. I don't understand why this sub has become so split between wanna be Chad incels and bitter new age feminists | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Women have standards. So?A lot of them are picking the youngest, prettiest girls to go after and then are surprised she's a spoiled, shallow, brat like fucking obviously??? I thought this sub was good for the actual conversations you can have about touchy topics but it's just another sub for men to cope with not wanting to be desired by vilifyin g women and not taking accountability. If men beat women, it's the woman's fault. If men cheat on women, it's the woman's fault. If the man is at all unhappy, it's the woman's f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 03:52 PM |
| 1 | AMA, obese american SEAmaxxing in the phillipines.You said in another comment that you didn't move there, so I'd assume you're coming back to the States... so you'd either take care of that baby on you're own, fly her and the baby out here, or get hit with a child support case, which she legally can and mostly likely would do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 05:01 AM |
| 1 | AMA, obese american SEAmaxxing in the phillipines.That's the end goal, and you know it. Weird you think that's a flex for taking advantage of those women and also letting them take advantage of you knowing you'd have to support them if they did get pregnant. If you only rely on VA Disability you're only making $3600/month.. that's not enough to sustain a family in another country so the only one that loses is you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 04:47 AM |
| 1 | AMA, obese american SEAmaxxing in the phillipines.Disabled how? You can be a disabled veteran with just mental illnesses | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 04:44 AM |
| 1 | AMA, obese american SEAmaxxing in the phillipines.You really don't get it. It's not because they like you. It's because she'll get American citizenship... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 04:41 AM |
| 1 | "No abuser shows their true colors outright!" Sure...These are almost all bots, man. There's A LOT of them on Tinder. I bet if this person keeps responding, "she" will send him a link to her OF or Snapchat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 04:33 AM |
| 1 | "No abuser shows their true colors outright!" Sure...These are bots. I'd assume MAYBE one person replied out of the 6 or so he posted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Finally allowed because of the purge: Racial Dating TrendsYou're not, tho so don't group us all together. You just make it worse and prove their point when you comment rude shit like this. Not like it'd matter to them either way, but you're just adding fuel to the fire by trying to look down on WM Plus, only a couple of guys are saying that, so there's no need to insult the entire white male population on here because a few are being racist assholes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Finally allowed because of the purge: Racial Dating TrendsShe's saying that if men were asked if they like Asians, they'd say yes more often because they're thinking Japanese and Korean girls, but if they were asked if they liked Indian girls, the stats would be lower | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Finally allowed because of the purge: Racial Dating TrendsBut if he were to say BW are too masculine and obese he'd be wrong, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Why do women virtue signal on this sub?They always get me when they ask women what they find attractive or sexy then downvote you to shit if you say you like guys under 6ft | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 12:13 AM |
| 1 | As a man, your personality can never make up for your lack of looks or status. All it can do is make a woman pity date you to feel more safeSo if you're ugly, you have no choice but to find a shitty person that'll use you? Everyone has the responsibility to themselves to set boundaries and demand a certain level of respect. If you don't do that for yourself, you can't expect anyone else to do that for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 04:08 PM |
| 1 | As a man, your personality can never make up for your lack of looks or status. All it can do is make a woman pity date you to feel more safeDating an ugly man won't guarantee he won't cheat on you. Some women do date uglier men to feel more secure, but that's the outlier. My bf isn't as attractive as I am. He had awful style and was all around, not my type.. we're still together a year later. We both have more to offer than our looks. And yeah, he's very satisfied with how I look, but that wouldn't keep him around if I sucked as a person. Good looks get your attention, but personality keeps your attention. And if women are so shallo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Women should be more careful of the men they actually date or know than strangersThen no woman would ever date any man if we all should be afraid of our boyfriends. No relationship would survive if that's how we see men in general. I think you should've stated that we should trust men MORE because no one is out here raping every woman they see and practically no women is in danger and NEEDS to tell their friends the exacts of the guy they're going on a date with. It's stupid to promote fear in women when there's next to no practical danger. Also, good men don't SA their part… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Women should be more careful of the men they actually date or know than strangersYou can't get to know someone if you don't trust them enough to be alone in the same room as them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 10:35 PM |
| 1 | The pill doesn't nullify female reproductive responsibility. If anything, it's increased the responsibility and concerns surrounding it.So it's not biological, its emotional.. exactly the point. If that's what you like, they're legal, and you're not ONLY there because she/he fits in a certain age range then go for it. It becomes a problem when you only go for that age group because of their innocence. That's what makes it creepy because myself and another lady proved to you its not biological and why. If you still only like young girls despite everything we told you, it's emotional and clearly not biological. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 08:57 PM |
| 1 | The pill doesn't nullify female reproductive responsibility. If anything, it's increased the responsibility and concerns surrounding it.I think it's the exact opposite. Many people Would be weary of a 30 year old dating a 20 year old. My friends are that age and we all thought it was weird but waited to see how he treated her (which was exceptionally well) but the reason we were all cautious because everyone knows the maturity difference and power imbalance so he needed to prove himself. He's amazing and makes good money so she'd never have to worry and he's also allowed her to grow as a person without his influence. That's very… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 08:40 PM |
| 1 | The pill doesn't nullify female reproductive responsibility. If anything, it's increased the responsibility and concerns surrounding it.Yes, they protect the women they decide to settle down with, but very rarely is that a teenage girl. I meant they don't stay with her or have her best interests in mind. That's why people think it's predatory to date such young girls. They aren't developed enough to actually consent to an older man's needs, whatever they may be, but usually are surrounding sex. He knows the ins and outs and she's still learning so it allows a imbalance of power and him the high potential to abuse her. It's wrong… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 07:25 PM |
| 1 | The pill doesn't nullify female reproductive responsibility. If anything, it's increased the responsibility and concerns surrounding it.Its wrong because men don't protect them anymore. They'll use them and throw them out when the girl start developing into a person they don't approve of. It's the problem of ONLY liking those girls. Why do you? It's usually more nefarious than wholesome, i.e., her innocence. It's about power dynamics and control. Anyone can think a 17 year old is hot, but when you take into account ANYTHING more than her looks, teenagers aren't a great choice for a life partner and very rarely do you see success… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 06:29 PM |
| 1 | The pill doesn't nullify female reproductive responsibility. If anything, it's increased the responsibility and concerns surrounding it.Single motherhood wasn't as common because men would marry younger women and become her first partner and then get married 6 months later. Men were also expected to financially take care of the wife and divorce was highly frowned upon. Why were so many women being abused back in the day? Because they literally couldn't leave if they wanted. Now men and women have the choice to date before marriage which also means leaving a marriage if it's not right for you. I personally think it's the over sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 02:23 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about these "Are we dating the same guy" groups?I just came across these looking for hiking groups the other day. I thought it was hilariously sad that these exist. I think it's a good concept, but as most groups do, it leads to echo chambers and the normalization of extreme opinions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Women can easily find relationships within online datingI found my bf, and from the outside, he's not in the top 5% of men, I'd rate him a 6. I was his first tinder date and he was, fuck, maybe my 30th? I was so sick of tinder because yeah the eye candy is great and it's also great getting compliments all day every day but I was getting sick of just not connecting with anyone so I was about to delete the app again after that weekend so I don't think your theory is entirely true. I think it's hard to find someone that compliments you enough to want to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 06:54 PM |
| 1 | It is disturbing how many young beautiful women are working minimum wage jobsIt's not even that looks fade but I don't want that to be my greatest asset. I don't want to take advantage of something I didn't work for. I also don't want to constantly think I'm not enough and chase purely superficial goals like perfect skin or a small enough waist. Social media validation has never really been my thing even when I was younger and struggling to renovate my house. A lot of people told me I should just get an OF and renovate my house in lingerie but I don't need to be in the p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 04:27 PM |
| 1 | It is disturbing how many young beautiful women are working minimum wage jobsI'd rather work a low wage job than sell sex. Also my family wouldn't just take care of me because I'm pretty. I never asked them for anything and every now and then my dad would help me out by buying me new tires or fixing my windshield when I didn't have the money but I'd never want to depend on my looks to take advantage of my family | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 03:52 PM |
| 1 | This is the best time in human history to be dating.LOL petty. I think the other guy is just saying we're wasting a lot of our time on unnecessary things to the point you don't know what's real and what's fake online or inperson (filters, fillers, make up, money). Having to be a man that's progressive enough to accept modern women but also be traditional enough to pay for first dates is kinda a hard line to balance on I'd imagine. I'm a woman tho so idk if that actually is hard. I just assume so many men are upset now because they don't have a cl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Women think nice men are least sexually attractive but best for relationshipsMy guy why read studies of women's opinions if you don't want to listen to women? Would it be better if I got my bf to verify what I'm saying? ANYTHING can be disagreeablenss. Literally anything. I want Applebee's and you want chili's. I want blue sheets and you want green. You choosing the most extreme disagreement to inject fear is such a pathetic grab at a "gotcha". Those men are calls rapists and they aren't normal men. By your logic you think most men in relationships rape their gf? Of cour… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 04:34 PM |
| 1 | What do men want in women, what do women want in men, and how are these desires different from eachother?Right, which are physical assets. I'm saying mentally. There is no difference. Our brains are identical and you can't distinguish a man from a woman. Our DNA also doesn't determine who we become. You have the building blocks to become whatever type of person you want, your environment is what stimulates your cells to form specific needs. Women are similar because we are taught differently than a man early on but again that is environmental factors, nurture, and not nature. A person can be anythi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 04:02 PM |
| 1 | What do men want in women, what do women want in men, and how are these desires different from eachother?Not even scientifically true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 02:40 PM |
| 1 | What do men want in women, what do women want in men, and how are these desires different from eachother?How are you still using generalized women statements? Everyone is different, hence why I said you need to complement her well. Complementing someone has nothing to do with gender roles. Couples complement each other regardless if there's a power dynamic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 02:26 PM |
| 1 | What do men want in women, what do women want in men, and how are these desires different from eachother?How is that? We both work cushy jobs and can live life the exact same if wanted or could be single forever if wanted. Nothing in today's world would make women need to be under the authority of man unless that's the life THEY choose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 02:05 PM |
| 1 | It seems like women 25+ only like BIG and MASCULINE menWe mostly eat it with Tony chachere's creole seasoning. Sometimes I'll make a stir fry and season it with Asian seasonings like teriyaki, garlic, ginger, throw some bell peppers in. We also only eat chicken thighs. It has less protein but he and I aren't competing or anything even close so it doesn't matter too much. Chicken breast is just too dry for me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 01:01 PM |
| 1 | It seems like women 25+ only like BIG and MASCULINE menMy thoughts too. My bf and I are gym rats and eat tons of chicken and rice but we season everything lmao. No wonder he doesn't want to gain muscle if he thinks he has to eat plain chicken to do so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Do we actually want men to experience sex without his entire character on the line?I think it's more the type of virgin they are. This guy my friend and I always hung out with couldn't get laid to save his life. He would pay prostitutes. He was short, fat, balding, and a drunk. He was cool as shit tho and we hung out all the time and years later I still text him to see how he is. Another friend of mine (originally met on tinder) has never had a gf and he's 30. He's average everything. I just assume people are either awkward, reserved, or busy. The people I think women mostly s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Women have more to offer than menYeah I actually just replied to another comment to explain how tinder inflates women's egos because you think you're now attractive enough for the hottest guy that liked you so no normal men get a chance and that uber attractive one doesn't exist near you or is already taken. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Women have more to offer than menYeah I think it's also accepting your truth like those men probably think they're gonna go on to make great money one day and don't accept they'll work this job for the rest of their lives. I don't think anyone wants to admit that lol. Question if you're a male: when is it acceptable for a woman to be fat? Like in your eyes does her value decrease after birth or as she gets older (if she's with the same man). Just your personal views. I'm not trying to make an argument | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Women have more to offer than menHave they ever been married or they were always single with no kids (in wedlock)? I think I'm just not familiar with women or men doing that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 01:47 AM |
| 1 | How are bigger women improving their dating game if even?I have bigger bones that a lot of women my size. My ribs, hips, and shoulders specifically. Like I will never be as thin as an Asian woman. My stomach lays a little flatter than my ribs and I still have a 27 inch waist but in Asia, a 23 inch waist is normal. My hips are pretty boney but I still have a 38in hip/butt. That's what I mean when I say big boned. I don't use it anymore but yeah I mean my bones are literally bigger than girls my size but that's also what allows me to carry DDs and a cur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Women will choose the nice guy cause free gold is better than expensive diamondThere's plenty of men who in your exact words "take and take and take". How is that not male equivalence to princess treatment. It looks different because mens needs are different than women's but you just spoke of a dynamic where the "bad guy" makes the woman compete and please him... I've come to the conclusion you have no idea what you're talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Do you agree that dating should be treated similarly to dieting?Same thoughts. You need self control in literally every aspect of life or you'll be broke, obese or an addict with no friends and no future | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever expect sexual exclusivity from men before exclusivity is clearly communicated and/or discussed? Do you think it's reasonable for women to do so?Ohhhh. Yes absolutely. I've only had 3 bf but they all expected the same thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 07:41 PM |
| 1 | How are bigger women improving their dating game if even?Sigh. I literally have abs and a 27" waist. Idk why it matters to you so much. I'm naturally t h i c k meaning I have big legs, butt, and boobs. Again, I'm not at all fat but yes, I do have to maybe move to a medium shirt or pants to compensate my curves. Why would I talk about getting into trouble with fat girls for using the term "thick" if I fit the fat standard that it means now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Do you ever expect sexual exclusivity from men before exclusivity is clearly communicated and/or discussed? Do you think it's reasonable for women to do so?I don't assume we're official if we're sexually exclusive. I had a fwb once that was sexually exclusive on both sides and it was discussed for health reasons. It's fine if you sleep with multiple people at once but I don't want to risk an std and that's why I ask even before I want to be with him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 05:04 AM |
| 1 | How did I fumble all girls last nightYeah I'd be a lot less likely to sleep with a guy if my friends were there just waiting for me to finish. Thats a private thing. I don't want them to hear or record or some shit. Also if they were drinking they probably wouldn't let each other | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Why does this subreddit say to never take dating advice from women?Projecting murder?? You really have no idea what you're talking about and it shows lol. I'm using the same logic as you. Now you see how absurd and stupid you sound to make such a large claim based on a single statistic. You're clearly using it in your favor if the same antics were used against you and you disagree with it. How old are you? You're either very bitter after years of rejection or you're young and confused and hurt | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Why does this subreddit say to never take dating advice from women?Women are also harassed by men regularly and have the highest probability of dying at a young age from a male partner so sure, it's being fake. Maybe if more men could take rejection well then we wouldn't do that. Also, it has nothing to do with how YOU feel the date went. She just didn't like you. That's the end of it. There's more to it than attraction and having a not bad time. Women file for divorce more often so no woman knows what she wants. Men abuse their spouse more often so I guess all… | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 03:24 AM |
| – | Left on delivered but came back?Ehhh sounds too messy. She needs to figure out what she wants with you before you see her. Personally I wouldn't even ask her out again and would make her initiate and explain whats going on then decide if you even want it but that's only if you feel it's worth it | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 05:10 PM |
| – | Left on delivered but came back?How long have you guys known each other? She might have been more interested in the other guy initially but doesn't like him anymore so she's coming back to you. Or he could be a friend I guess but either you two are still too early on to be introduced to friends or he was a potential partner and she didn't even want to acknowledge you. Idk how that would be a test. I'd find someone that's actually into you | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Does acting "butthurt" ever achieve anything?Ehh I'm a woman and maybe I'm not the best for this advice cause I'm an aspie and I'm very straightforward but if you're butthurt why don't you just ask where she's been? It doesn't have to be anything crazy but a simple "hey haven't heard from you in a few days. Is everything ok?" Or something less robotic Because I would be sad if I liked a guy and I was gone for whatever reason and when I reach back out it seems he's not actually interested and doesn't care that we hadn't talked. That's only … | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 05:17 PM |
| 1 | First date went well, planned a second one, but she made didn’t make that much eye contact. Could it be nervousness?She could also be autistic and will never look you in the eye. I didn't even know what color my bfs eyes were until weeks later when I realized I had never looked at them for more than a glance | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 05:08 PM |
| – | Tips on limiting beliefs and inner gameWere you always handsome or were you an ugly teen? I'm a f but it wasn't until maybe 2 years ago I became confident. I was ugly and fat as a teen and practically no one wanted me. I'm pretty attractive now but it took like 5 years until I accepted it. Now I know I'm attractive but I'm kinda weird sometimes and it stresses me out lol. Also if you're more of a softer guy tinder sucks. I feel tinder is for more outgoing and aggressive people in general. Even if a guy is average compared to you, if … | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 05:04 PM |
| 2 | How to get a girl really close to youI'm 25. If I want to rub my boobs against you, I'm not going to play dumb and act like I'm doing it on accident and it'd annoy me if you also tried to make me do that. That's childish and I'd see it as such. I guess I'd see it as creepy if a guy did that because we've both had plenty of sex before but you're trying to cop a feel "accidentally". I'd rather someone just put their hands around my waist from behind and/or give me a sweet kiss on the cheek. Not too much too soon but also very intenti… | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 04:07 PM |
| – | How to get a girl really close to youHe said senior so I assume 17/18. I'm a 25 f and would not like that but i probably would have in high school tbh | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 06:44 PM |
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