mantis_princess Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	Escorts and strip club should be normalized for people who have no other options Funny that you ignored the second half of that sentence completely? I didn't say that being a guy with no intimacy couldn't be extremely miserable, I said that it is not such a vital need that it justifies using a woman's body in exchange for money. Especially not if the woman has been trafficked, which is the majority of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 10:30 AM
5	Escorts and strip club should be normalized for people who have no other options Disagree. Sex and sexual intimacy are not such a severe need that you will die without that it justifies using women's bodies for money. You say that you are ugly and neurodivergent and that that makes it so you have no other choice, but there is women that are those things too and you can always work on your social skills and try dating different types of women. Tons of ugly people and people with horrible social skills still end up dating and/or married. By using prostitutes, you are not even …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 06:21 PM
1	Is there certain milestones you would expect men to meet at certain points of their lives? I am about to be 25 and I had some big struggles in my early adult years and COVID was all weird and I started a new major last year so I won't be graduating until I am 27, almost 28. People have different life circumstances and will do things at different points in life. The only thing I really care about is a guy having at least some direction and being able to hold down a job lol. Basic adult responsibility, doesn't need to be anything fancy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/23 05:48 PM
3	the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in dating My fear/distrust of men made me stop liking men altogether until I got over it pretty much. I started hormonal birth control when I was very young (age 13) which messed with my libido and attraction during my teen and early adult years so I did not really experience attraction in a normal way until I stopped birth control. So since I am bisexual, I only dated other women and had no interest in men because I was scared of being vulnerable for a man and it just didn't seem worth it. Now that I am …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/23 06:59 PM
6	If men had lower standards for women than women had for men, average wouldn't be used as an insult (cmv) There is a couple arguments against this but it is also kind of complicated. Calling a woman average can be an insult because it does seem like women are more likely to think we are more attractive than we are, so saying someone is average when they think they are a 10 can feel like an insult even if people would generally agree that its true. She believes she is a 9 or 10 so it is an insult to her and sometimes guys will do it to hurt a woman on purpose to knock her ego down. This can happen to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 06:21 AM
1	Fewer women on apps because treated badly? My past experience might not be super relevant because I am bisexual and when I used a dating apps, I exclusively was dating women at the time. But I have reasons I don't like/am hesitant to try dating apps again that are not related to men being disrespectful I guess so here ya go: -I don't love how on dating apps, you are meeting people with the explicit intention of dating in mind. I don't think it is an authentic way to meet someone and a lot of people are lonely and that can affect how they…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 05:45 AM
1	How much does muscle/good body factor into your dating choices and how much muscle do you like? Face and personality/how a guy carries himself is more important to me. Physique is not a primary interest for me and I like both lanky guys and some muscley guys and in between. I do not like anything above bearmode though and super jacked huge guys are not for me lol. Same for obese. So I guess I have dealbreakers but I have a wide range of likes and don't have any specific preference in that range	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 05:25 AM
2	What are your perceived benefits of being female? -We don't have to experience getting involuntary boners during puberty. Not much explanation needed there but I am very grateful that I never had to deal with male sex drive and boners as a teenager lol -Not being seen as creepy or a predator is a big one! While women often do have good reasons to be careful, I imagine growing up worried about being seen as creepy/predatory would be intimidating and could hurt a lot sometimes. Especially if you are just a shy/awkward guy who doesn't know how to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 05:11 AM
8	CMV: In today's age, men are expected to take on both the feminine AND the masculine roles in a relationship, while women are only expected to take on the feminine roles. Just because a man doesn't expect it doesn't mean it is not necessary for the woman. We all have to look out for ourselves and some women are fine with housewife arrangements but a lot of women are gonna need a pretty solid level of trust to even get there. I am not going to become a housewife to a man super quickly no matter how smitten I may be with him because that is not a safe arrangement for any woman. I want to date a guy for a while and know he will be a good match and be on the same pag…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 03:35 AM
1	What impact would a male birth control pill have on the dating and marriage market? It would be hard to say, it depends on how safe it it is to use/what the side effects would be. I wish male birth control existed and that it would be safer/less life altering to use than female birth control because taking birth control is hell for a lot of women (including myself) and I wish I could have more security against getting pregnant when I don't want to, especially if I am with a guy who is trustworthy and on the same page. Messing with hormones can really fuck up your body and mind …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/23 12:34 AM