manunderconstruction Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Even /r/relationships agrees that she she won't want to fuck if you're fat		manunderconstruction	/r/MarriedRedPill	13/10/18 01:58 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Is there any way to help the creepy guy? I've been one of those "people pleaser" types, so I would usually accept criticism too well and take things personally. I've always wanted to improve. My main problems were not understanding the rules and people assuming that I always knew the rules, but not telling me when I screwed up. I have had many mentors/friends who have applied the clue-bat to me when needed. Most recently, including my wife. The Red Pill helped me by directly explaining some of the rules around dating and relationships,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/18 09:29 PM
1	Is there any way to help the creepy guy? Yes, there are ways to help. I was this guy, to some extent. First, at my university, we have a sci-fi and gaming club that lets geeks gather. One of the goals of the group is to imbue social skills. The common goals of gaming allows for people to open up in a space space that is more tolerant of geeky behaviour. Geeks find like-minded people and learn confidence and social skills. In addition, older geeks and those in authority will coach the ones who need the most help and use the clue-bat whe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/18 03:05 PM
1	Saw this comic and thought of this subreddit (Instagram: shencomix) If you want to succeed, double your failure rate. -- Thomas J. Watson In other words, takes more risks and don't worry about the failures. You will make many mistakes. You may fail, but you are not a failure unless you stop trying. To be successful, you must embrace failure and learn from it.	/r/seduction	07/01/18 12:07 AM
1	CMV: Evolutionary Psychology could help promote men develop an understanding of female sexuality and to be less belligerent and susceptible to developing false expectations No, but at least they can focus on doing things to really improve their chances if they know the truth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/17 02:20 AM
1	Is it worth it for me to get a GF in high school, if I know she will not be my wife? Why? Yes, I think so, if only for the practice and experience. It's OK to have relationships that are just for fun and not headed for marriage/LTR.	/r/askTRP	01/10/17 03:19 PM
1	NMMNG and Divorce I should have mentioned that the Passionate Marriage books are not in the sidebar or even Red Pill. I read them before I found the Red Pill. The books focus on emotional intimacy in an equal partnership and are more blue pill. One of the concepts in the books is that the friction inherent in relationships (called "the crucible") is what forces us to grow and mature. This "grow or die" part gives a nice diagram and explanation of what happens in a red-pill (or any) relationship where one partner …	/r/askMRP	29/06/17 10:03 PM
1	NMMNG and Divorce Think of it this way. Half of all marriages end in divorce, so if MRP is near about 50% divorce rate, then it's no worse than normal, even if your numbers are anecdotal. Keep in mind, that a good portion of the marriages of men who are in askMRP are not in good shape. MRP encourages men to grow. If you partner isn't willing or able to grow along with you, then the relationship should not survive. This "growth cycle" is discussed in the Passionate Marriage series of books by Dr. David Schnarch.	/r/askMRP	29/06/17 06:26 PM
1	I'm going to commit suicide tonight. I strongly encourage you to go talk to your school counselor or a teacher that you trust. Also, call a suicide hotline in your area. Here is one for the U.S. https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ If your mother has told you to commit suicide, then it's very understandable that you feel this way. High school can be brutal for anyone who isn't part of the "in" crowd. You may message me if you like, and I will talk.	/r/askTRP	29/06/17 06:11 PM
2	I am confused and have questions. Based on other RP comments, I'm thinking that this is a type of filter. Women want the natural alpha, the guy who "gets it" without having to be told how to do so.	/r/askTRP	29/06/17 05:46 PM
2	Lifting Advice Needed Check here: /r/bodyweightfitness/	/r/askTRP	29/06/17 05:17 PM
1	How to deal with aggressive people or people trying to sandbag you at work/socially? Dang, my DL is only at 155 pounds, including the bar I'm lifting 65% of my body weight. I've got to keep grinding. ;)	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 05:32 PM
1	CMV: Women aren't going to "shit test" men they are attracted to or respect In the book "Thinking Fast and Slow", the renowned Nobel-awarded psychologist Daniel Kahneman explains how we humans have different brain systems and that we constantly make decisions that we are not consciously aware of. He even offers simple exercises that let the readers prove it to themselves. He includes research citations as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/16 06:04 PM
3	1 month in – Here's what's effective I think of shit tests as challenges. My wife is challenging me to be a better man.	/r/TheRedPill	20/12/16 12:44 AM
1	[askseddit]: Advice on that little doubt voice that sits in the back of your mind. Don't sell yourself short. Let her decide. There is no way that you can know what she wants better than herself. If it still bugs you, then use it as motivation to become a better man.	/r/seduction	30/10/16 06:21 PM