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I used to fantasize so much about dean winchester as a dorky lil high school girl. Mans was dreamy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 10:41 PM
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The artists in my area refuse to do bf/gf name tattoos. We are in a college town so that's probably wise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 08:29 PM
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Kind of off topic, but I had a fascinating discussion on the subject of eugenics and biopower last night in my anglo lit class. My contribution was how the eugenics of female infanticide in extreme patriarchal countries like India and China, and the government essentially turning a blind eye meant that they endorsed it, and it became an institution of society that held power over the life of its people (biopower). It was a really good discussion, and even the guys in the class agreed with my poi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:00 PM
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It's availible online as a PDF. Idk how to find it (gc had it stickied) but I know it's out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 01:38 AM
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I did this to a guy once. I asked him what college he went to and he said 'tech', referring to Virginia Tech. I said, 'oh, technical school? That's cool.' Then didn't respond after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 04:33 AM
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I've taken four years of spanish and I loved what I could understand too! I did get the impact of the feminine use of death that the lovely queens are talking about. I wish English had a word like that, it's so powerful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 04:11 PM
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I invited her but she hasn't responded!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 02:20 PM
9

She got burns all down her back and thighs. It was not pretty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 02:15 AM
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Do NOT mix a weighted blanket and an electric blanket! My sophomore roommate ended up in the ER because of this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 10:15 PM
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Omg I thought it was an orchid and was very confused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 01:26 PM
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This makes me so frustrated because he is highly regarded at my venue as a great artist to work with, and not on my managers' list of 'artists the ladies can't work alone with.' It just proves we can never let our guard down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 01:43 AM
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Does anyone have a link to an article? I try not to give Buzzfeed clicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 01:20 PM
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I want to see a whole host of these of women from all sorts of cultures- a swedish girl in Sverigedräkten, a Mexican girl in her dress, a japanese girl in kimono. A whole conference of queens!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 01:52 AM
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Yes! but also freshly 18.
/r/askFDS29/01/21 01:03 PM
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I just can't believe this man. Subjecting someone else to your putrid farts seems like such middle school behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 04:22 AM
6

Is that some JLaw/Hadid symbiote?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 02:18 AM
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Why are we limited to the golden girls? Give me the LOTR trilogy and the upcoming amazon series and this sounds like the life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 02:17 AM
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My brother, know he doesn't watch porn because of our Catholic upbringing and he's just too fucking shy, and he's too busy with other hobbies to play video games all the time. My parents played the most critical role in him being this way, but if they had done different who knows how they would have turned out. Hopefully the guy I'm dating too, but we'll see. Have to keep vetting!
/r/askFDS29/01/21 02:15 AM
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Thank you! I'm at my parents' house currently but I'll be back in my apartment on Saturday! I'll at least be cleaning my room's walls, who knows when the last time property management did it was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 02:00 AM
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How often is enough? Once a year? My parents never do this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 01:55 AM
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I wish we could go back to the days when kercheifs were common I for one would love to be able to cover my hair in a non-religious context.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 09:10 PM
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Right now it seems to be the popular thing to throw everything you have into GME but please don't listen to me.
/r/askFDS28/01/21 08:38 PM
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Human version of 'we're not a band we're an idea' (still love mcr though)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 08:23 PM
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Wow! I'll make sure to do that before I move out of my apartment!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 08:01 PM
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This is literally opposite of Aragorn Ellesar Telecontar energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 07:47 PM
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One of my best friends in high school wanted to be a cop. He was a sad kid, a country boy who thought he wasn't smart enough for college. He's now a junior, we're both English majors, and I'm so thankful he made the choice to not join the force.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 07:43 PM
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Wait you have to wash the walls? I kind if wipe them down with a dust towel sometimes but never really washed them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 07:37 PM
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The Nordic model is the only way to protect trafficked women and still pursue the sex sellers and buyers to the full extent of the law!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:22 PM
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How do you even say that name? Ahn-ya-lie-say? Ahn-ya-lees?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 02:56 AM
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Hobby Lobby! I almost shared this a month ago but my arms were full of 9 jumbo skeins of yarn lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 03:32 AM
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Yeah, they might beat you if they fucking body check you into oblivion. I played in high school, I fucking sucked at offense, but they kept me on the team because I was 6'0 and barely anyone could get a shot up against me. One of my classmates, a boy who could not have been more than 5'1, who did not play basketball, said he could easily score on me. I just ignored it then, but I wish I had asked him to explain his scrote logic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 05:00 PM
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Thank you! I'm just starting to get into sex toys (catholic upbringing) and this looks so fun!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:33 AM
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Please drop a link!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:17 AM
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Abortion is your best bet here. Why do you need money from him? If you need money for an abortion, ask here, I'm sure we can help you out. Do let his commanding officer know, he can and should be reprimanded.
/r/askFDS26/01/21 12:36 AM
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A rabbit vibrator goes a long way sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 11:52 PM
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If I were a petty bitch I would venmo request him 7$
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 11:50 PM
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Children are a major goal for me, but I don't want to sacrifice on my other dreams. I want to be on tour with a band at least three years and make it to tour manager. I have to do that before having kids, because I can't be on the road nine to eleven months of the year with kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 12:53 AM
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Okay but there's an AITA post of a scrote who LITERALLY shit himself to win an argument
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 03:31 PM
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I did a whole ass video report (john oliver style) on why the Dove real beauty campaign sucks ass. I got a hundred on it, but I was a freshman, so I'm kind of embarassed by it now. Maybe I should find it and share it here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 01:39 PM
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I disagree with the hair thing, it's not true for everyone. I colored my hair because I genuinely thought it was super fun, it brought joy into my life during the pandemic. Plus, it helped me bond with my mom, because she's the one that did it and she also went through a blonde phase at my age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 01:33 PM
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Melanie Martinez
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 01:09 PM
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My favorite therapist has been a man who also has bipolar 1 because he gets me. He's been there, he knows what's going through my mind when I'm having god delusions. I've never felt more understood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:02 PM
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I'm in DC and it's less frequent than it used to be, but last summer it was constant Billie Eilish. I used to love TØP (they fillex the void when mcr broke up), but even my mom says they sound like a pop band now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 04:46 PM
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My thing with Billie Eilish and AJR follows thusly-6 years ago they would have made it big on the pop music scene, but because rap has taken over the top 40, they were shuffled off to alternative radio, and now alternative radio is being overrun by songs that sound like 2015 pop songs. It's not alternative-its not breaking any rules or pushing boundaries of sound and lyric, it's been done before and these people were just late to the party. Listen to how similar billie eilish and melanie martine…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 04:10 PM
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Back when I was a pickme, I would demean other people (especially other girl') music tastes like that. Now, one FDS and 20 credits of music industry lectures later, I have an appreciation for all types of music. I still hate a lot of it (oh god rap and hip hop makes me want to DIE and don't get me started on how Billie Eilish is destroying the alternative music industry), but I would never demean something that my partner clearly cares about so much! This scrote is not just a no value male, he's…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:34 PM
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I think it might be. The plate looks clean and the laundry looks dry. But, I don't have my glasses on. If it's real, someone should start a rescue mission.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 02:58 PM
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I need to learn script writing because I want a pretty wall art that says 'I am not fried chicken'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 02:46 PM
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I missed it now I gotta dig through superfans because that sounds entertaining.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 01:25 PM
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Update, I sobbed like a baby
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 08:33 PM
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Okay, real question because this video has me thinking about it. Do you blink more often when wearing falsies, because they're so heavy? I've never worn them so I have no clue, but I'm getting headshots done in march and want to wear them, but I need to practice wearing them if they're that much of a burden.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 02:18 PM
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Wow, he's a cutie AND not down with the systemic oppressjon of women through pornography? And appears to be my age? Hell yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 02:08 PM
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Looking back on it, my first boyfriend at 15 was kind of like this. He made comments about how I was always running, or encouraged me to finish all my food and guilted me if I didn't (I remember one time at Mod Pizza he did this and I almost cried. My 6'8 dad can't even finish one of those pizzas)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 02:06 PM
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We can only hope
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 02:00 PM
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The night that it was called for Biden, when he and VP Harris gave the speech in the parking lot, I started sobbing the minute she stepped onstage. Pretty sure I'm going to cry today as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 02:00 PM
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I thought that was a colon not a semicolon and I was very confused as to how a man could be gentle without tenderness. Oops
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 01:58 PM
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I didn't have to smile at customers at my retail job! Big perk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 01:16 AM
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I know FDS doesn't vibe with public proposals but my dream is to be proposed to in front of Hogwarts Castle at universal studios. Has been since middle school. I guess a HVM would work with the park to go in before it opens to have that moment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 12:57 AM
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Wow lots of scrotes mad in the comments. The counter shows 8 but I only see the automod. This woman is so spot on I'm just mad I haven't been this articulate when confronted with this issue in the past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 07:46 PM
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I have no grandparents so this would make me cry big time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 07:42 PM
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Scrotes are so fuxking entitled. Romance me, what a bastard. They don't want to have to prove themselves at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 04:31 PM
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Weed has always been a hard dealbreaker for me, which is rough on my college campus where everyone and their mom smokes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 04:20 PM
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I just started watching 90 day fiance and I'm very confused and all I know is she's my favorite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 11:15 PM
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I'm white with only wavy hair and I swear by my silk pillowcase! It reduces frizz by a LOT and my wavy curl pattern is much more pronounced than with normal pillowcases.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 11:28 PM
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Another 6'0 here. I concur
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 04:04 PM
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Checking into a psyc ward might do wonders for you, if you have a good one around. They can get you medicated, do intensive therapy, and come up with an action plan for when you are released. If this is not possible, I HIGHLY reccommend the DBT workbook, it almost completely solved my suicidal ideation and helped me create positive coping strategies. Sending love and prayers your way
/r/askFDS10/01/21 08:05 PM
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I love Eowyn's moment of clarity from the return of the king, where she realises that she doesn't need to be battle-hardened to have worth in the world, and that she can be joyous and loving and good. The quotable line for a ring would be 'and the sun shone upon her'. It's a really touching scene, my second favorite in the series (after the Argonath)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 04:55 PM
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I think at some point you have to tell, it's impossible for me to hide my bipolar sometimes even though it is well managed. For mentally ill women it's just another thing we have to highly vet for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 04:39 PM
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insert King Elessar Telecontar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 03:52 AM
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Police now. Get a restraining order, and get his ass arrested when he violates it.
/r/askFDS08/01/21 11:02 PM
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I would like some insight too, because I live in the heart of applachia and would love to be taken on a well-planned hike date (good trail, packed picnic, plenty of water).
/r/askFDS08/01/21 01:22 PM
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This looks like a college dorm room to me. I discovered FDS as a freshman, hopefully she has time to learn and level up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 01:13 PM
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"Objectifying me as a potential boyfriend" fuck off. The absolute scrotacity. I cannot even begin to break this down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 01:06 PM
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Is there a women's shelter you can go to to escape this creep? They may be able to help you get set up with your own place and a job to support yourself. If not, make moving out your goal. Save every single penny and put it towards a security deposit. Find a studio or an all-female group home and relocate there. Don't be afraid to get the police involved if this man turns violent or stalkerish. Is it safe for you to assert your boundaries in your current situation? Even moving to a separate bed …
/r/askFDS08/01/21 01:04 PM
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Dump His Ass. This shit might be cute from a five year old learning how to help out in the kitchen, but not from a grown ass man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 12:54 PM
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Love, he already cheated once. In FDS that means he's done, no second chances. And now he's mad at you for...asking for help? Drop his ass and focus on yourself-leveling up in your career, your friendships, your personal life. This man has nothing to offer you.
/r/askFDS08/01/21 12:27 PM
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Congrats on losing the weight! The outlook for people who are morbidly obese into their middle ages and beyond is depressingly bleak, it's an empowering thing to take your health into your own hands!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 03:12 AM
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I tweeted that as soon as I got the news that they'd infiltrated the capitol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 01:09 AM
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My parents have a library at their house and in high school, invariably, my HV friends would be in awe and super jealous, and the LV ones would talk about the waste of money and space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 11:05 PM
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I like the individual ring posts! It makes me smile to see them pop up on my feed, knowing that my sisters are loving themselves and being queens
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 10:01 PM
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I won't do most of those things and I still expect my damn bills paid. Sex should be pleasureable for both of us, and of course I want to grow together as a couple, but I won't be anyone's therapist, and I sure as hell won't be feeding anyone like a mommy bangmaid. No thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 02:02 PM
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The only superhero costume I'll accept is a guy in an org like A Moment of Magic who dresses up snd goes to children's hospitals. I went on a date with one, and while it didn't pan out due to lack of interest, he did all the right things-ask me out, plan the day, confirm day of, pay, wait a day to ask me on a second date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 01:31 PM
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I've never heard of it, but I'm not around a bunch of pickmes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 11:02 PM
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You gotta remember, that was the total for both of them. He really only spent 75$ on her. The scrotacity knows no bounds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 08:05 PM
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Look at the pornified pose the woman is in. 'All you want is sex-but only sex that satisfies the male gaze. Also, you won't orgasm'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 06:13 PM
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I have the expectation that they check once a day. If she wants to give him a chance, she should expect an apology for the missed connection the first time. If that doesn't come, move on sis. Plenty of fish in the sea.
/r/askFDS05/01/21 05:09 PM
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Happy cake day! Good bot!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 03:16 PM
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Still, if he let the time run out the first time he must not have been that interested, no?
/r/askFDS04/01/21 07:31 PM
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He didn't reach out to you the first time you matched, no?
/r/askFDS04/01/21 06:40 PM
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If he didn't want you the first time, he doesn't want you this time. I say delete your profile and move on.
/r/askFDS04/01/21 06:33 PM
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Plus, every scrote has the expectation that you be his ideal of beauty, and if you're not his perfect vision of a 10/10 you're garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 04:31 PM
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I'm not an expert at anything. I'm really knowledgeable about lots of things (Tolkien, the music industry, sewing, ect) but I found that no matter what it is, LVM will do one of two things-talk over you or refuse to talk about it at all. Which is why my current guy is so refreshing. On our most recent date, I mentioned I was going to the fabric store afterwards. He offered to come with, and listened as I explained what types of fabric and notions I needed for my project. He asked thoughtful ques…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 02:38 PM
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I watched this with sound off and I'm dying laughing. The flop? Oscar worthy? The gesticulations? Incredible! This scrote really puts on a show! I hope he dies mad about it and she sells his PS5 (that she probably bought him) and uses it on something nice for herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:38 PM
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They don't practice, they sit around writing shit 'songs' and fantasizing with their dudebro bandmates about the rock n roll lifestyle. I'm in the unique position of being a music major and being exposed to guys who are actually doing the right thing-working a main job (or staying in school), actually practicing their instrument, picking up any gig they can get, marketing themselves to local venues. What I've learned is that most of the really dedicated ones will stay single-I only know one guy …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 03:32 PM
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Marriage counseling more like marriage clownseling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 10:52 PM
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God I hope to get my concealed carry permit soon. I've grown such a pair of ovaries working retail in the holiday season, now grown men screaming at me doesn't even phase me. I wish all my sisters could be granted nerves of steel so we could all call men out fearlessly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 09:08 PM
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Women shohld be less afraid of 'causing trouble.' Men cause trouble all the time and do they get fucking reprimanded? No! Call Him Out 2021!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 08:55 PM
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At least 6'4, tall, thin but toned, dark longish hair, bright eyes, into the alt music scene, book smart, musically inclined but not a dick about it.
/r/askFDS28/12/20 03:20 AM
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I have three guy 'best friends' and they are all the eptiome of HVM, I've dropped every other guy out of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:15 AM
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I don't know much about technique, but I know you can't go wrong with the classics. You might like Bing Crosby, he has amazing vocal talent. I'm also a huge fan of David Bowie, and Gerard Way (frontman of MCR) also has amazing vocal talent. I'm trying to think of women-my vocal performance major friends all love Ariana Grande and swear she's an amazing singer. Unfortunately not a lot of strong female leads with good voices in the alternative scene, but I hope to change that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 04:40 AM
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LOTR represent! My current boy friend is showing possible HV status: we sat through the entire extended trilogy and he didn't make a move, and even asked questions that allowed me to show off, and encouraged the showing off. (I blew his mind when I told him that Aragorn had been in Gondor's army under a pseudonym. He said that changed the entire movie for him.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 01:36 AM
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bEcAuSe ThEiR lOvE lAnGuAgE iS pHySiCaL tOuCh NoT gIfT gIvInG
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 07:47 PM
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I just resurfaced from a 7 page deep dive into that sub and I can confirm this is 100% accurate. I really feel for the woman who's 7mo has a cow dairy allergy and has to keep him dairy free for 7 months, just hit 4 months and FIL fed him a muffin with dairy. LVM husband sided with the FIL of course, but even this poor woman's mother is telling her she's overreacting. I just wanted to scream.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 07:45 PM
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I'll use the example of Lil Nas X. He has talent, unlike a lot of people, and he is very good at reading the industry and figuring out what is popular. He made it to the top of the chart as an unsigned artist, having broken through on his own without even a manager. That would not have happened in the early 2000s before itunes, it started happening more when itunes became a thing (around the same time that Napster happened and everyone thought that the traditional label was going to go under) bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 07:41 PM
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Music industry IS saturated with talentless buffoons. It's gotten worse since the early 2000s with the advent of streaming and the increased accessibility of decent recording tools and software (I'm a music industry major I love talking about this)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 01:53 AM
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Sorry posted before I was ready. I'm not familiar with the public transit, but I know a couple people that survive with just bikes. There's a lot of growth in the city and it's actually where I hope to move after graduation!
/r/askFDS20/12/20 12:49 AM
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I live in Harrisonburg, VA, which I don't reccommend, but I absolutely love Charlottesville, VA, just over the mountains. You're right next to the Blue Ridge Mountains and about an hour drive from the Appalachian mountains. The University of Virginia is there, there's a great culture of education. It's a very safe area, my girlfriends there regularly walk (in groups) after dark.
/r/askFDS20/12/20 12:47 AM
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Gotta do something in the interim before surgery to mitigate the pain. Like how my mom isn't a candidate for back surgery even though she has three busted disks because she hasn't done enough PT, due to the fact that there is no PT happening right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 01:28 PM
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Yall laugh but I do this with my brother. He is the man I trust the most in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 12:18 AM
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Because females is, unfortunately, the only way to specify natal women only (when women really should suffice) and there is no such confusion about men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 04:20 PM
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I had no idea that they let women stay on lithium! My psydoc heavily pressed me to get on birth control (which I don't want because of personal reasons) and impressed on me it was so important to not get pregnant because the risk to the baby is so high. It honestly scared me, and now I'm scared of being pregnant, because without my meds I tend to have psychosis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 02:59 AM
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I drive by that field every time I go to work and it inspires me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 03:03 AM
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Another NOVA lady I see...hard to find decent guys when most of them are political wannabes with lots of daddy's money thrown into the mix
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 02:47 AM
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This happened to my family too, but with the house, farm, and oil rigs in Texas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:58 PM
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Both of these are in my top 10! They're just about as polar opposite as you can get in mood, but they're both great examples of family love and empowering young girls to overcome older male villains.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 04:12 PM
6

Fucking "matter settled" acting like he actually did something. Who put this scrote in charge?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 05:56 PM
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The best comeback to the line "do you want to have the sex talk?" Is "I already know about the birds and the bees, thank you! It's okay if you're a late bloomer though, everyone has their own pace" and then BLOCK. Scrotes like this are never worth your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 09:47 PM
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Do you have any good advice on establishing a good cleaning routine? I keep my space VERY tidy and wash the toilet and shower once a week but...vacuuming? Dusting? Bathroom floors? Struggle central. I'm ADD and can barely focus on things I WANT to do, the other stuff seemd like a total wash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 09:45 PM
21

I dated a LVM (LV Boy really, we were 15) who read both (had annotated copy of clockwork full of his handwritten notes) and swore that they were the best literature ever written
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 03:44 PM
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I say females sometimes, like on the period sub, because I want people to know that when I say woman I am only referring to adult human females, not any other group that wants to usurp the word. It's tricky. I wish we had another word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 01:08 AM
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It's a conference. College football teams are organized into conferences that they play playoffs against. Power 5 is a major one, so are Big 10, Big 12, and Pac 7. My medium mid atlantic school is in the CAA, and we would be the best in our conference if not for fucking ND state. Why are they CAA when they're across the country? Fuckers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:34 AM
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I concur with the other commentors this is definately a dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 06:23 AM
4

Sometimes???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 01:41 PM
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I work 20 hours a week, am a full time student in upper level classes, crochet, sew, bake, and talk to my friends every day, and still have been thinking about my ex because twitter suggested him to me. Sometimes it's just something you have to ride out. I treat it like intrusive thoughts (like self harm): acknowledge them, see if there's somewhere they're coming from, and don't try to force them away (that just makes it worse) One upside of this is that I've finally decided to work through all …
/r/askFDS26/11/20 01:18 PM
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I thought NVM meant negative value man, have I been reading the sub wrong this long??????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 08:38 PM
15

I just underwent a schizo diagnostic (I'm not, my BP meds were just not working) and that post scared me so bad I couldn't finish reading it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:59 AM
13

Honestly feels like 2020 has slamfuk'd us all so it seems appropriate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 02:06 AM
97

The last time I heard someone bragging about a dirty room we were in the sixth grade and talking about sticking it to our parents pickmes really are another breed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 06:18 PM
6

I'm not defending him, because he should have been more creative with what they had in the house, but my cousin got COVID and his wife didn't leave the house either, they lived off what they had for two weeks. Towards the end my aunt dropped off a box of fruits and veg because they were desperate for fresh food (they weren't using instacart or anything because they're lowkey paranoid and don't trust it)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 05:27 PM
20

Check now because I see it on mine! 🤏🏻🤏🏻🤏🏻🤏🏻🤏🏻🤏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 05:56 PM
3

There's this song that I fucking LOVE by mxpx its a cover of nofx's Franco Un American but there's a line about Joe Rogan and I have to make a face every time it comes along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:30 PM
31

Wait is this wrong? My parents do this with our stock pot (never the le creuset though) when we make huge batches of stuff like spaghetti or gumbo that we're just going to be eating the next day. I never thought it was bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 07:58 PM
96

He got her pregnant and now wants to break up with 'no commitment'? Scrotes will really do the most to do the least, huh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 06:31 PM
20

I work shows and metal guys are either the sweetest most polite guys you've ever met or total dickbags you hope get hit by a car, there is no in between.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 02:32 PM
17

Aragorn is another example of positive masculinity! And Samwise Gamgee! If you're looking for more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 02:31 PM
15

I found it on gendercritical in a neutral tone and figured hey, this can't be too bad! Rip gendercritical, so glad FDS made it past the banwave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 09:26 PM
22

HA ain't that the truth sister! Sorry, while you were playing your stupid video game I made a fucking sweater with my hands, what does your 'hobby' get you Chad? Rage holes in the wall? I'll pass, thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 12:33 AM
12

I'm 21 and in college and it's just sooooo bad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 12:31 AM
26

I swear my brother is the only responsible gamer in the world. He gets his homework and violin practice done first, stops wherever he is to join us for family dinner, only plays until 10pm after dinner, never rages or gets emotional ("because it's just a game!") and always concedes to let me use the system if I want to play my game. My parents raised some HV kids!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 12:30 AM
5

Wish I could, but I'm a music industry student and have to stay on top of trends for classes. Yall have fun, update us on how it goes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 09:43 PM
95

I will never date a gamer guy. Unfortunately it seems like all guys my age bracket play games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 09:42 PM
137

That's insane! Makes me want to see how many matches I have but I refuse to give those conpanies money. Too bad you can't even use it as an ego boost because most guys swipe right on every girl, so a match is meaningless!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 09:30 PM
7

What the fuuuuuuck. They really do be doing the most to do the least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 09:28 PM
15

Scrote thinks he's entitled to the last word in any conversation, tell me what else is new 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 09:25 PM
14

That's the perfect reply! So glad you are rid of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 09:22 PM
4

I shove their arms away from me. Sometimes followed by a 'don't touch me' depending on the perpetrator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 09:19 PM
9

What would be some red flag answers? I'm in college and trying to vet college guys is hard. Thank you!
/r/askFDS23/10/20 03:49 PM
21

That's a good one. I'm going to try that next time. "I have a deep tissue massage with lavender essential oil kink"
/r/askFDS23/10/20 01:56 AM
1

Petition to add "on the ground outside" to "field date" is the FDS repertoire of shitty date memes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 07:58 PM
8

Crowdfunded FDS Nexis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 01:24 PM
2

I'm ADD and bipolar!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 09:11 PM
5

Is there no way to protect the woman from the husband immediately going out and racking up debt in retribution for her asking for a divorce?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 08:37 PM
12

This makes me mad because I can never finish my plate at most restaurants but now I want to just to spite this man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 04:27 PM
7

Happy Cake Day OP!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 02:50 PM
41

I found that being labeled a bitch got me more respect and much less shit than when they thought I was the nice sweet college girl. I work in the concert industry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 09:12 PM
6

No, they don't dismiss it. They use it to diminish us and our valid emotions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 08:55 PM
39

No, they don't dismiss it. They use it to diminish us and our valid emotions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 08:55 PM
2

I'm obsessed with her necklace omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 01:29 PM
6

Sis you want to be my best friend? LOTR and tolkien is my favorite thing in the whole world and I used to be in a Rocky Horror shadowcast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 03:58 PM
3

Violin and viola! I wanted to be a music industry major but I just could not take the amount of pressure they were putting on me to be an amazing performer. Plus, aural skills classes are the worst. I'm an industry minor now and so much happier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 03:15 PM
21

Congrats to you! I was an undergrad music major for a while and that shit's hard. My complex is what made me leave, I didn't feel good enough compared to the other people of my instrument. The professor certainly didn't help matters. What instrument are you, might I ask?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 09:45 PM
61

My ex fucking loooved this picture, said I was his angel. Gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 09:59 PM
8

Guys I was so drunk when I wrote this I just got back to school and I love Tolkien so much please forgive me 😭😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 07:19 AM
27

Girl I agree so hard. I do list Tolkien as one of my hobbies but I am a) 20 years old and b) a fucking English major studying medieval lit. My first assignment in one of my classes is to compare a medieval poem to a poem from the trilogy. I taught myself Sindarin in middle school. I love having academic discussions about the work. All these 30 year old sad boys who think they own Lord of the Rings who have never even read the Quenta Silmarillion are just pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 09:11 PM
4

And now he's on the team with the literal dumbest name in the NFL 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:59 PM
61

I got a promise ring as a teenager. It was a manipulation tactic to get me to have sex because "now we're going to get married so we don't have to wait." I firmly believe there is no correct circumstance for a promise ring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 11:10 AM
66

Not true, they also bring the audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:51 AM
185

Omg this is the dream. I have a HVM friend who leads every conversation with asking how my academic research is going, even though we're in totally different disciplines and he has no real interest in what I'm talking about, he asks because he knows I care and that I love to talk about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:36 AM
10

I had to shave my vag at 16 for a swim competition, my tech suit was so tight everything stuck through. I placed higher than expected, but I can never imagine doing that to please a partner. It was so painful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 11:33 AM
-11

Wow, thanks for admitting you find people with those disorders second rate. Do you think it's even possible for me to be a HVW when I have BP1 with psychotic features?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 09:22 PM
44

Girl you are so right, any revealing pictures will be the death of your profile. I do The Rocky Horror Picture Show and I'm super proud of it and put it on my profile around Halloween, hoping to snag some virgin I could take to a show, but allllllll sorts of LVM came out of the woodworks, asking if that's what I wore in the bedroom. Now I'll just show them pictures after a few dates, or they can see it on my socials once they get them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 11:44 AM
3

Paramore Tell Me It's Okay- how I feel about deleting all the LVM in my life and how miserable I was entertaining them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 02:22 AM
3

Happy cake day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 03:38 PM
5

He sucks and us definitely a LVM, but where do we draw the line about mental health issues? I would not want to be discounted solely because of my disordered eating (among other things) and it feels hypocritical to do the same to other people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 07:58 PM
3

Know what's fun with lingerie ladies? Making lingerie. You get to work with all of the pretty materials that you don't get to use if you're making garments for everyday wear. Plus you're learning a good life skill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 02:07 PM
7

Because now dating apps are a also fun bonding activity with girlfriends. Many times last semester (before we all got sent home) my roommates and I would all have a contraband drink and flip through each other's tinder or bumble, rating the guys and making fun of them. Or it's just that all your girlfriends have them and you don't want to feel left out. It's hard to remove yourself from that conversation with your friends, especially right now when you're so far away, haven't seen each other in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 02:04 PM
17

I'm currently in college, and there is exactly 1 heterosexual male that I would trust enough to live with me, and he has proven himself to be a HVM friend over several years. I pity the poor desparate woman who answers this advertisement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 02:58 AM
14

And the IG account is calling this shit 'mature' listen if this is what it means to be mature I think I will forever stick to being immature and expecting loyalty from my partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 07:47 PM
40

I hate this attitude so much actually. By infantilizing grown ass men it almost feels like we are absolving them of some of the wrongdoing, becuase they're just a child and children don't know better. No, he's a gross ass adult with adult responsibilities, he can be held accountable for his shitty attitude towards women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 07:34 PM
9

I don't have the link but Why Does He Do That is available online in PDF format!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 02:47 PM
15

I made president's list last semester, I just finished 7 credits in four weeks and got 4.0 in both classes, and I made a corset from scratch, no pattern!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 09:59 PM
5

I get a ton of guys who think I'm a fake nerd girl for liking Tolkien. Never had one support me or listen to me talk about the relstionship between the Silmarillion and the trilogy, but boy have I had to listen to talks about video games and sports ball.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 06:41 PM
3

Oh my goddddd are your duets on I want to duet this as the lvm boyfriend, fake pedo stache and all. And give you lots of FDS support in the comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 02:29 PM
10

I just learned how to make good crusty fresh bread yesterday and it was the biggest hit with my family. I can't wait to go back to school and make it for all my girlfriends!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 03:07 PM
14

Nothing is tighter than their porn sick vice grips anyways 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 09:11 PM
2

And he gave up on his fancy basketball career to go to a school near her! Wish I had a Troy Bolton when I was looking at schools. Instead I had a LVM scrote who complained about me looking at schools that he couldn't get into.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 04:58 AM
6

Why is he not blocked girl?????? Then you don't even have to think about his pathetic selfish assholery
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 02:52 AM
9

If you're handy with a sewing machine, Butterick 4827 with a modified sleeve would work. You can probably find a girdle like that on etsy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 08:42 PM
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