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Honest answer? Most people here won't like this answer but it's the most honest answer I can give: They see you like a dog that wants to get in their pants because of these types of views that they 'make no effort' when in reality they are probably doing skin care, more hair care, maybe make up, a decent amount of them watching what they eat, way more than the average man, even if they aren't the standard of skinny that you like. Bear in mind that biologically, men should have a significantly lo…
/r/seduction13/02/25 06:59 PM
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It's weird that you'd be critical of feminism for this, since from your post it sounds like you are the issue. Not everyone has the mental energy to respond to messages all the time, even for friends, and from your description it sounds like you know you were being excessive since I love checking in with my family and while I was dating, my partner, but there's a limit as to how much as person might have the energy to handle. Either find friends who have desire to communicate with a similar freq…
/r/ExRedPill13/02/25 06:22 PM
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Porn gives you unrealistic ideas of sex and is designed to get you hooked on it, as the more men can't find any women interested in being what they've become addicted to in the real world, the more they stay single, stay at home and watch porn, buying premium subscriptions etc making the porn conglomerates more money. And in doing that, the more what guys are watching strays from what is normal or comfortable for women, meaning the further the guy is down the rabbit hole of not being able to fin…
/r/ExRedPill13/02/25 06:02 PM
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It seems like your issue is psychological. If you've never felt love towards or liked the company of any woman before (including your family?) then you probably pre-emptively project the expectation on them that you will not like them because your previous experiences with women. Especially if you went into life seeing them as nothing more than status symbols as a means to improve your own status with other men because other men bully you for not attracting women or other reasons. I think before…
/r/ExRedPill13/02/25 05:49 PM
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Most people actually are able to get some happiness from the parts of romantic relationships that don't involve sex, and most people are able to enjoy the company of other humans in both a platonic and romantic way that's different to the type of companionship you get from a pet, since pets can't give you the same sort of interactions and romantic love that other humans can. I'm guessing you've never experienced feeling romantic love and from your replies to the comments of this post you've said…
/r/ExRedPill13/02/25 05:15 PM
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It might not seem like but this has a silver lining. These types of people telling you how they feel and being repelled by you means it's easier to filter them out. The best way to date for a long term/committed relationship isn't 'attract as many people as possible'. It's 'deter/repel the people that I'm not compatible with' so that you have more assurance that whoever remains genuinely likes you for you and values similar things to what you value.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/25 12:53 PM
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It's likely more that women who you don't find attractive don't want to date (or interact with at all) some guy (you) who sees them as not attractive and sees them as having less worth than the girls you're lusting after. Women aren't attracted to that attitude. What you're interpreting as a big ego for not wanting to associate with you is just them having self worth and not wanting interact with someone who sees them as less worthy as people of having someone who genuinely loves them for them. …
/r/seduction17/01/25 01:06 PM
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Either they have boyfriends because they are pretty, so people of that level attractiveness are likely to get a boyfriend quickly, or they are not interested in you and said they have a boyfriend to save themselves time instead of wasting time having you try to convince them to go out with you. Another option is you might be creeping them out so they are polite and just say no it's not you, I have a boyfriend. Your best chance of finding a gf is to get to know people and they get to know you ove…
/r/seduction23/07/24 05:05 PM
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I second purging all the media you consume of anything blackpill or redpill. If you just want to improve your looks, taking some moderate/basic tips from looksmaxxing (just the basics ones, not the crazy change your eye shape and jawline etc type stuff) could help. Stuff like skincare, finding what sort of beard grooming works for your face and features (clean shaved, stubble, light beard?), maybe look for some content on different types of aesthetics for men regarding clothing styles, from clas…
/r/ExRedPill23/07/24 12:30 AM
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One angle to look at it that could help is that not all men actually believe or think like Andrew Tate, and the ones who do, you want to avoid. So if anything, if you doing these would make you unattractive or undesirable to those Andrew Tate follower type of men, that's just a bonus of doing what you want. I've not been anxious about being desirable to Andre Tate types, but I also grew up in family that had some traditional beliefs, so the purity culture was drilled into me too. I've been getti…
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 10:51 PM
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I think this is why looksmaxxing is gaining more traction as women don't have as negative a reaction to that as red pill men, and it can be toxic in its own way, but somewhat less so in terms of the magnitude of how it affects relationships with the opposite sex. Plus it's more likely to yield more positive results as you can technically do it to only a moderate degree with skin care, a flattering haircut anf flattering dress style to improve your look and move on away from the rest of it withou…
/r/ExRedPill12/07/24 11:57 AM
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That makes sense that they would essentially have a similar experience to very good looking women. At the end of the day it's pretty privilege no matter what gender you are, and if you're one of those good looking people experiencing that, it can also make you very jaded seeing that side of people. When you look at it, better looking people historically don't usually have the best time. It would usually mean other people jealous of you or someone of high status getting to marry you who isn't nec…
/r/ExRedPill12/07/24 02:21 AM
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Literally all of the worst places to find an actual relationship as opposed to a hookup. Maybe explicitly state in your profiles that you are looking for relationship, and use them to schedule dates instead of hookups. Also if the girls are drunk, be careful because maybe it's not a good idea to sleep with them. If you do sleep with a sober person, ask them if they'd be up for seeing each again sometime for a date if they're interested.
/r/seduction01/07/24 03:06 AM
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/r/ExRedPill28/06/24 12:05 PM
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Being slightly conservative is different from being alt right. And being more left leaning is also a spectrum. Alt right is more than 'I'm slightly concerned about this issue', alt right is doing something unlawful like storming the Capitol that would be seen as terrorist activity if it was done by minorities, it's racism, sexism, homophobia (since sexual orientation is a protected characteristic under the Equality Act, and comes under Equality in the UN human rights) and blatantly trying to ign…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/24 11:56 AM
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Best advice is touch grass (literally). I'm a woman and seeing redpill content basically blackpilled me as a teen and young adult against the idea a man would ever be happy having relationship with me since I dot wear makeup, not that feminine, not a tradwife type who wants to be a housewife who does all the cooking, cleaning and raising the children (wasn't even interested in cooking for myself) and just like to dress casually in t-shirts and jeans. Was very set in this mindset until I couldn't…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/24 11:24 AM
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Wanting the people in your life to be contributing positively to your life is not selfish, and doesn't necessarily mean it's all about mateiral gains either. Literally every human and most animals are this way, even some other life forms can have symbiotic relationships because they get some benefit out of it. Realistically having an interpersonal relationship with someone means you will have to deal with or help them with at least some of their negative circumstances at some point. If they only…
/r/ExRedPill22/06/24 10:20 AM
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The thing is if the type of people you're attracting are the type to cheat on their boyfriend they are not good quality people, and if they would fight over a guy they probably already have a low self worth so aren't the most stable people you could be attracting. Sounds like the friends aren't only good looking but also have a bad taste in women and low morals if they would feel okay finding out they slept with another man's girlfriend. This is likely why OP feels so insecure, because his frien…
/r/ExRedPill22/06/24 09:54 AM
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If you are studying for example a post-grad course at university, there will probably be girls around your area also doing that so those would likely be the best candidates to date
/r/seduction30/05/24 10:31 PM
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You sound like someone who has never actually experienced true love. If you find someone you truly love, if you fell in love with them and their body gets smashed to smithereens in an accident, you'd still want to be there with them everyday in the hospital taking care of them and spending time with them, until you could take them home to stay with them. That's how the feeling of true love makes you feel. That person becomes someone you want to see as your family and you're willing to stay the c…
/r/seduction18/05/24 10:09 AM
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When you meet someone who you might feel is 'the right person' it's not going to be like hookups where you can lists traits and you will develop feelings when they match some pre decided list of criteria. Maybe some of them, such as values, desired lifestyle, etc, but superficial criteria probably aren't going to be the thing that will find you the right one. You'll find the right one by getting to know them, and you'll feel it and you'll just know. They won't have to match some standard, they w…
/r/seduction17/05/24 11:05 PM
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As a woman, as long as you pay attention to if they seem attracted to you (not just interested in what you are saying as a person) and let them go about their day if they're not it's probably okay
/r/seduction17/05/24 10:44 PM
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Well yeah obviously? Everyone wants to date someone good looking, that's universal for men, women, other, straight, gay, bi, etc
/r/seduction17/05/24 10:20 PM
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I think it's great you if spending that time working out is what makes you happy. I think it's pretty sad though if anyone were living a life of being happy that people value them just because of a body (not saying that's you, just a lot of redpillers have a weird mentality like body makes them valuable). Personally I like living a life where I know no matter what I look like, there will always be people who value me simply because they see me as a nice and cool person
/r/ExRedPill24/04/21 10:58 AM
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Not being funny but I've been to literal incel forums where even the blackpilled guys will be like "you're lying" if you say something nice or just "tits or gtfo". Incels won't take regular guys' advice because they say their situation is completely different, they are terminally ugly, and normal guys don't understand. The only solution that could work would be too harsh and nobody would ever do - to legally classify incel forums + subs a form of radicalisation/extremism so they would be illegal…
/r/ExRedPill24/04/21 10:44 AM
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You sound like a decent guy and I think someday younwill find a girl that likes you. If you need any genuine advice I would be happy to help
/r/ExRedPill24/04/21 10:40 AM
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Um... no? Infidelity is not answer. It would be pretty shitty to be having sex you don't even want like it's a chore because your partner is horny all the time. I could maybe understand if they had a a normal/low libido and were getting no intimacy at all, but if they are blatantly not compatible in libido as high libido and low libido people are with each other, they should admit they are not compatible and find something that actually works. A partner going through some illness or something th…
/r/ExRedPill24/04/21 10:36 AM
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Came from a group of incels getting together. I guess their idea is that they can't get advice from normal people because it doesn't work, but I don't know why they really feel taking advice from degenerates who society thinks are pos is the way to happiness. Log off reddit/forums, go outside, make female friends, socialise and you will be good. Stay indoors on the internet and it will not take you to a good place. This is basically true 100% of the time unless you're making friends through real…
/r/ExRedPill24/04/21 10:30 AM
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Not really. You don't have to be popular, just hot or popular people are seen as more attractive. It's actually less superficial to give less hot but popular people a chance as well as hot people. Also hot people are usually more likely to be popular anyway. Guys' criteria is more superficial because hotness is the overwhelming factor. I see most girls actually end up with boyfriends less attractive than them even though on dating apps they like attractive guys. I think obviously on apps and stu…
/r/ExRedPill15/07/20 09:39 PM
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As a person who started a dating a guy who was nice and had a horrible relationship because he became an asshole after the first 2 months, it's not easy to find a "nice" guy. To be honest, even guys who regard themselves as nice probably have at least a few behaviours that make him an asshole, he is juts less of an asshole that full assholes. It seems 3 women there went with hot guys because because they were hot, they didn't pick him because he was an asshole, it was just because he's hot. So r…
/r/ExRedPill02/07/20 03:36 PM
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Maybe it's just me but I didn't see anywhere anyone who said they chose assholes over nice guys. I saw that some people dated assholes but that doesn't mean they picked assholes over nice guys. Maybe the only guys available to them at the time were assholes. Also speaking from experience, girls don't usually pick guys because they are assholes, assholes show an amazing side of themselves initially and to get you to fall in love with them and make you develop that feeling and attachment towards t…
/r/ExRedPill30/06/20 08:30 PM
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So logically you should be perfectly able to enjoy friendship with those you find unattractive. Women in general do not respect guys who are just friends with them to get access to sex, other people or relationships, or just to get access to something other than their friendship in general. I can't figure out why you wouldn't be able to fathom enjoying a friendship with a woman you are not attracted to, however the reason you can't fathom a woman you think is attractive respecting you if you are…
/r/ExRedPill16/06/20 07:15 PM
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Of course I have respect for male friends. The reason males and females who are genuinely friends do not have a problem respecting each other is precisely because they are genuinely in it for the actual friendship. I have a great amount amount of respect and care for any guy who is genuinely friends with me, i.e. a guy for who access to sex or anything other than friendship isn't the reason he is friends with me. Personally, I am more likely to date guys who care about me regardless of sex, so i…
/r/ExRedPill16/06/20 06:21 PM
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I'm not sure if you're just a troll because some things in your post sound absolutely ridiculous and it's hard to believe that a person could realistically believe this, but at the same time your post history seems consistent with the story you've told here. ​ If this is genuinely how you feel I have to tell you, you have not really missed out anywhere near near the ball park of how much you think you have. My ex started having sex at 14 and was/is able to get both fwbs and girlfriends. He is 20…
/r/ExRedPill16/06/20 05:40 PM
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Personally I like to get to know a guy before him becoming my boyfriend and then get to know each other really well before even thinking about sleeping with him, and I know some girls are similar, so it's not necessarily friend zoning him, just getting to know him well enough before hopping into bed with him, but if all the guy is thinking about is just when he will be able to get sex the whole time it's probably for the best that those type of guys will go elsewhere so girls wanting a serious m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 01:30 AM
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I'm not really into hookups but I can't imagine a guy I have to strain my neck to make eye contact with when talking would be better than what I usually go for if that's what I was looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 11:57 PM
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I think it might be difficult if you are using Red Pill techniques to fake confidence, but usually guys have an easier time getting relationships than sex so the problem is probably more you are trying with a girl who did not select you for who you naturally/really are in the first place if you had to use Red Pill to get her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 09:43 PM
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I do feel for you dude. I'm not sure about the relationship situation since these statistics/how it is for men when it comes to being able to get a relationship, since these statistics are focused on how much these groups receive sex, but my condolences if getting relationships is harder for you because of these things. My point was just that women are not lucky just because they can have sex easily. A lot of women dislike guys who just want to have sex with them without even getting to know the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 09:35 PM
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No guy is going to feel sympathy for me that even though I want a guy suitable for marriage, those types don't go for me. They would think I should just improve myself to be desirable. Same idea with women when they consider your situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 08:57 PM
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So rape
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 08:44 PM
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Police cannot unrape or un-abuse a person so no their existence don't necessarily mean safety and respect from men. There are police who have used their position to abuse and manipulate women themselves. Prostitution is legal in some places and it is illegal to prevent women being manipulated and abused into it however we all know that hasn't worked and just causes both women who do and don't do it consensually to get punished so it's a dysfunctional law. Also comparing men who want sex paying f…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 08:35 PM
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*Wanted sexually. Being wanted for a committed long term relationship to settle down with things are not so easy. Also there are guys who will fuck any hole whether it's in a bit of plastic or in a wall or made in a piece of fruit. So it doesn't make us lucky just because guys want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 08:20 PM
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Never tried pulling short girls so I'll take your word for it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 08:17 PM
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Prostitutes aren't necessarily hotter than normal women tbh, I've seen a lot of examples. Also it's not for free. Having to pay for sex kind of puts a wrench in the whole idea of feeling desired for a lot of guys and they might not like the idea that she has sex with loads of men, they might be worried about diseases even if the sw has none.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 08:12 PM
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You can
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 08:08 PM
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Not true
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 08:04 PM
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Used to have fairly severe social anxiety and got rid of a lot it. I couldn't actually make conversation with anyone until I literally had to learn how as part of my job at 19 years old. If you need tips on how to get through it and maybe help ease it I'd be happy to give some pointers that did it for me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 08:03 PM
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It is not hard to get a girl to love you, depends on your personality what you're offering. It's much more difficult for many guys to get sex, but you probably can get a girl to love you a lot easier than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 08:00 PM
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Some do
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 07:42 PM
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I'm a 5'3 girl and I like guys around your height (still tall to me but easier to kiss, hug, and look at when talking). You could try going for shorter girls if you have a problem with girls not accepting your height.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 07:35 PM
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I think basic ideas like looking nice, maybe by working out a bit to attract more women and the psychological stuff to make women more attracted to you work, but I would advise against doing a lot of the psychological manipulation because it is well... manipulation. And it can get to a mentally abusive point with Red Pill ideology. But stuff that's not harmful like working out, looking nice, coming off confident, and tips to help make a connection with a woman or get her to notice you aren't too…
/r/ExRedPill23/04/20 01:49 PM
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As a woman who has to deal with the same dilemma regarding men and committed relationships, I can expect that those men maybe just self improve instead of complaining because they're supplying something their target demographic don't want. If you can somehow get guys across the world to stop offering up dick so easy there would be more demand for it. But yeah it is stupid to be annoyed at women for not going the bottom tier when they have better options. Same way it would be stupid for me to res…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 09:58 PM
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It has nothing to do with equality and everything to do with you offering something women already have abundant access to and that's why they are not jumping to get it. This is the problem with redpill thinking, it tries to make out like ugly guys are oppressed when actually it's about supply and demand. There is so much supply already that there is no demand for dick, so it doesn't make sense to be annoyed that there is no demand and make it out like women are being unfair when there's a good r…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 09:39 PM
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Now you're just trying to troll. Bottom line is women don't want guys who just want sex unless they are actually attractive or have something to offer that is better than what every single guy is already offering, they are not being unfair. So just offer something better than what other guys are offering.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 09:23 PM
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The reason guys hook up with girls they find ugly is that as long as its a set of holes for their dick to use those guys would rather take it then leave it. Why would a girl go for an ugly guy if she just needs stimulation when a vibrator could do the job better and wouldn't actively be a deterrent to her being being able to get in the mood? There's no "giving up their dick" because a lot of girls don't even want their dick unless there's something special about the guy. Like you said, even ugly…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 08:40 PM
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I agree, but I was just saying giving them attention and affection can affect whether they are attracted to you and how comfortable they feel being intimate with you basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 03:26 PM
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I guess the cueing thing is true. What do you mean by status by the way? Like societal? As in guy who spends all day at home playing games vs a doctor or something? I think status is more to do with seeing the guy as a potential long term partner if things go well. Even me not being a money grabbing kind of girl, a guy with a good job is more attractive because even though I would like to pay half I don't have to worry about him being to afford a mortgage or a house in a good area, being able to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 10:55 AM
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What do you think girls need to want to sleep with someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 10:49 AM
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I guess if you're going for hot girls, then of course they would have a lot of guys showering them with attention so it probably wouldn't make a difference for them. Maybe the problem a lot of guys are having then is based on who they're picking. Of course most guys would want to be with a hotter girl but then of course their standards will be a lot higher because they have so many options they don't even need to give guys anything to get attention from them. Maybe instead of trying to find a sw…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 10:47 AM
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Idk how true that is because regardless of "status" I wouldn't feel flattered. Regardless of the status of the guy I meed him to make an effort to give me affection and attention and care for me even of he doesn't love me to feel comfortable having sex with him and to be able to enjoy it. I'm not sure whether there are studies for this or whether it's just redpill thinking but I don't think a lot of redpill cynicism is actually true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 09:57 AM
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As a girl I kind of actually do. And a fun day out with a girl is not the same as a guy treating you specially. A lot of the time whether I see a guy as attractive or not changes on how much feeling I have for him. I didn't think I could ever be attracted to my ex bf when we first started hanging out but 5 days of him being really sweet over text and 1 more time hanging out I was seeing him as suddenly super physically attractive. I wasn't anywhere near love but affection from a guy makes a huge…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 09:46 AM
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I mean I know back in the days before Tinder some guys put more emphasis on giving girls nice dates rather than focusing on the idea that they are only there to smash, even if they were only there because of that. They had a better understanding of giving a girl a nice time and were more at peace with doing it than a lot of guys today, e.g. redpillers etc. who see having to give a girl a nice time for her to want to have sex with you if you're not especially handsome as completely unfair of wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 09:09 AM
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People use relationships for attention, companionship and self worth whether they love someone or not. So it doesn't make any sense to be annoyed with relationships when all you have to do is give attention and show up if all you want is sex. I'm not even into using guys for money but damn right if all I wanted was affection and attention and some guy was just using me as a set of holes for his dick I would at least make putting up with being used when all I want is affection worth it for me and…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 08:52 AM
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There are different aspects of maturity and for any non-mentally disabled person, being older and having more life experience does give you a certain level of maturity in a certain aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 12:58 AM
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That's not any kind of evidence that your stance is correct. As everyone knows, correlation =/= causation. In what way can a woman even get physically "used up"? It's not a physical possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 12:56 AM
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Doesn't really make sense as he chose to be eternally with Bella who he wanted to age, plus he could have had loads of young flesh and didn't. Also not all males use a strategy, some literally just are nice guys as their intrinsic personality and women get attracted to them as a result of that. They are extremely rare but I've met one guy like that and he was always lovely and just himself, and so many girls wanted to date him. So it gives shitty guys a free pass and is overly cynical to say all…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 09:48 PM
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No it isn't. Please explain exactly how a person can physically get "used up" from sex because basic human biology disagrees with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 09:37 PM
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That's really good :) I'm sure if you were able to devote yourself for years to something that ended up detrimental to you, you have it in you to be able to get back on the horse with this new approach that you know will help you and improve your life and your own way of seeing your value in the world to be so much better. You know at some point you had female friends you really cared about and valued, and they probably genuinely cared for you and valued you just for you as well, so it sounds li…
/r/ExRedPill31/03/20 01:03 PM
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Getting "used up" is not a phenomena that exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 12:52 PM
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The justification is men trying to say it's an okay attraction to have just because of looks when it actually is quite predatory whether you intend it to be or not, because of age and mental state. It's not like a 25 year old is going to look ancient, the main difference is mental state, so it raises the question why guys are so eager to date someone clearly not suitable for them because 19 and 20 year olds do not have the same mental maturity and are comparatively children when these guys could…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 12:03 PM
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Look dude I'm in my early 20s and it's weird as fuck to even think of me dating a 60 year old (gross). Also as a bisexual girl a lot of 19 year old girls are not particularly hotter at all. Younger and less mature, sure. I can tell you as a young woman myself it's not because older women have "sour grapes", most women really just find it weird because we've been at that age and know how big a difference age makes in terms of mental state. 19 year olds are like children compared to even 30 year o…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 11:46 AM
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Dunno man, I don't belong in this sub, it just got recommended to me, but I'm a girl and my experience has been the opposite. Dude falls out of love because it was too much work for him but I was always happy to put in the work even when I could have easily left. I wish you guys well on your journey though, good luck :)
/r/MGTOW231/03/20 03:03 AM
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I fell in love with a guy before just because he was a lovely guy and was nice to me, did well in school, and was kind of a nerd, and he was overweight, so it's not a lie to say women like decency and hard work. But obviously there are billions of women so some are bound to care more about other things. Which group you'd rather focus on and try to date is a decision only you can make.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 02:16 AM
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It's the difference in the mental state of let's say a 20 year old and 30 year old that make them think that. I'm only 23 but I can already see what a huge difference every year of life makes at this stage. I just finished dating a 20 year old and the difference is noticeable. At this point it would feel uncomfortable for me to date a 19 year old or something even though compared to a 20 year old dating a 30 year old there'd only be 4 years difference. But it makes a huge difference. That's why …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 01:59 AM
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Vaginas getting "used up" from sex isn't a thing. Please educate yourself more about biology. And nobody's upset at the prospect that they aren't getting to date someone who literally just sees them as a piece of meat, like how you describe them, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 01:48 AM
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That is a great step forward and I'm really happy to hear that. I think after you manage to accomplish being truly happy with yourself, maybe get some female friends as part of recovery, and try to relearn how to value them as full complete and independent people, not just on qualities that you find romantically/sexually attractive. It seems you are taking on the right kind of mindset to progress through this so I really wish you well I think if even after trying to change your mindset you still…
/r/ExRedPill30/03/20 07:52 PM
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I'm a 23 year old female and I just lost my virginity a little over 4 months ago in my first relationship. I had never kissed, held hands with, or been on a date with a boy ever. I did want a relationship but I wanted to do it with someone special and I only felt comfortable entertaining the idea of sex in a relationship where the guy loves me and considering I was never a person guys were interested in it seemed like the right person/circumstances many never happen. It is not nice that people d…
/r/ExRedPill30/03/20 09:33 AM
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Actually you're meant to consent before anything sexual happens, not initiate something and lack of a response equals consent. Especially with drunk people. Also some people go into shock, so it doesn't mean he is weak or something. Many men do experience assault but don't feel comfortable enough to talk about it because of the stigma and fear of being blamed.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/03/20 01:04 PM
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I'm really sorry that happened to you dude, that's really fucked up. I think at least the guys and her friend could have got the real story instead of physically assaulting you before finding out your side. I really hope one day things won't be like this any more.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/03/20 01:00 PM
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All of these movements use men's frustration and resentment of women, the dating scene, and or feminism to brainwash and radicalise guys. The same way radical feminism uses females' frustration towards males, relationships, sex, and sexism in the current sociopolitical situation to radicalise girls. It's all the same shit. Your best bet is focus on self improvement tips and creating and maintaining relationships with good people and avoid any ideological movements around dating, relationships, s…
/r/ExRedPill28/03/20 11:33 AM
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I agree, I see guys saying this stuff all the time and it sucks because I am a girl who likes sensitive guys and guys who are at peace sharing their emotions normally and not trying to give an image of manliness even when it's not how they actually feel all the time. Like just be a person. But guys never see that in me and if I complain about some double standard against women they always argue with me as if I'm oppressing them when I literally would love so much to have a sensitive gentle nice …
/r/ExRedPill28/03/20 01:47 AM
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I don't know if 6 months is going to undo years of brainswashing. You need intensive therapy and then "reprogramming" to be a normal human. How would you ever be able to be satisfied in a committed relationship if you've always fucked around? You will get bored eventually. Also if you fall in love again, what will you do when you both age? Are you capable of really loving a girl truly for her, where her looks aren't going to be a problem when she's no longer the most beautiful to society? Will s…
/r/ExRedPill28/03/20 12:24 AM
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I do take bio into consideration, one guy put "if you're a crazy bitch stay away" and I'm not crazy but that is not the right foot to start on given that I don't even know anything about him yet. But the only guy of the guys I started talking with last week that I decided to talk to today (and look forward to it) literally just put "bulbasaur, charmander or squirtle?" and his gamertags in his bio so I knew he liked Pokemon and I liked that. Also he looked quite cute in one photo that wasn't his …
/r/seduction27/03/20 11:20 PM
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I'm so thankful for finding this sub and these posts because my first ever relationship just fell apart and I was going to just find a guy and launch myself into a relationship with him as soon as I was comfortable enough, maybe after a few dates, but this whole sub makes me realise why I'm much better off staying tf away from guys unless its to be friends. Real talk, the right guy for me will probably start as a friend because then I can make sure I am not dealing with a guy who is playing all …
/r/seduction27/03/20 10:03 PM
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What kind of insight would you like? Promise I will keep it straight to the facts this time :)
/r/seduction27/03/20 09:48 PM
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I don't have Tinder because I don't have a phone number atm but I have been using Badoo for maybe a week after me and my first ever boyfriend just broke up after 5 months together, and I have 27, way too many to keep up with. I lost energy trying to get to know all these people.
/r/seduction27/03/20 09:01 PM
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I'm a woman and personally I'd say if a guy has any one of these: - looks handsome in his pictures (not into buff, but nice face) - looks decent looking in his pictures and has interests I am interested in - knows how how to hold a good conversation - is endearing enough to me to make me warm up to him but not overly familiar to the point that it makes me uncomfortable - is looking for a really serious committed relationship and is willing to do what it takes the odds are significantly increased…
/r/seduction27/03/20 08:46 PM
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