mara244 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	To the younger girls in this sub: Some things I wish I knew when I was younger I should also save this. I'm 20, and I absolutely love this thread for if I have daughters!	/r/RedPillWomen	05/05/21 08:20 AM
2	How does one tell the guy to wait for sex and why should we? In my experience, I've never had to come to that any such agreement simply since it's always been an unspoken rule because my preference has always been for someone religious. So abstinence is a significant value for both of us from the get-go.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/12/20 01:26 AM
6	Loneliness As A Homemaker Good advice! This is almost exactly what my mom (sahm) does, she works for a religious non profit from home so shes very occupied with it most of the time. And shes made some lovely friends through it as well. 100% would recommend this to a homemaker to beat loneliness through a meaningful cause	/r/RedPillWomen	03/12/20 03:25 PM
4	Happy International Men's Day to all the special men in our lives! Yess, i'd to hear y'alls creative ideas. I just keep in mind to show my gratitude often, instead of keeping it to myself. Even if it's for a dinner. (And usually when they tired after work, is my favorite time; show them how truly happy and grateful you are to have them in your life)	/r/RedPillWomen	20/11/20 09:49 PM
10	Would you marry a man that didn't make enough to support you? Exactly. This is the more important question than does he have enough money to support you. Kind, respectful, loyal and valuing men who are strong in faith, which are basically all qualities that I value, and values that align with mine, are already extremely rare to begin with. If I found this man who is jobless but has all these qualities, I would happily accept it knowing I've found someone of high value to me, so Id have faith in our successful future. The thing that absolutely matters, thou…	/r/RedPillWives	14/11/20 01:22 AM
9	How do I not get jealous of my boyfriend having female friends? I feel you. As in I understand the feeling of having a stomach ache over the thought of your man having female friends. I dont think the advice here telling you to simply brush it off because it's the only rational thing to do, is extremely helpful.(not to me at least) I'd talk to my SO about this and hope he can feel my perspective. Differing from what the other reply said, I also am the only sister if brothers yet I personally never make male friends. Any friendship with the opposite gender in…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/11/20 07:35 AM
74	My fiancé doesn’t want me to do things for him This man sounds like a heaven sent angel to me honestly with how he doesn't want to burden you in any way; id be wondering if I were in a dream lol Jokes aside, does he want children with you? Perhaps properly nurturing his children/your family would be something you bring to the table if that's something he wants	/r/RedPillWomen	31/10/20 09:55 PM
21	Anyone else grinning and bearing through a career while hoping to be a homemaker one day Same. I cannot even imagine not having a mother always there for me at home. Coming home from school to delicious warm food shed make, excited to have us home after a long day at school. Raising my siblings and I together, emotionally almost always ready to comfort us and guide us no matter what situation we put ourselves in. I simply cannot imagine not doing the same for my children. I pray I never need to do otherwise	/r/RedPillWomen	29/10/20 02:24 AM
64	Anyone else grinning and bearing through a career while hoping to be a homemaker one day It would be ideal for me but I feel like it is a little unrealistic nowadays. All of the men I have met are either against the idea of a wife not working or they like the idea but can't afford it. That's the issue. Men are increasingly disapproving the idea of having a wife who doesn't work. Traditional ways are decreasing in men almost just like they are in women. I believe resorting to minimalism or being frugal and creative is a solution for the few remaining men who prefer a traditional fami…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/10/20 03:48 PM
24	What is very unflattering for a woman? Women who put down, complain about or otherwise disrespect their husbands... especially when said husband is in hearing distance This deserves to be on the top. The last thing a man needs to hear after a long day at work(or at anytime) is constant complaining, nagging, and getting into arguments. An unnecessarily 'loud' personality. When a wife is kind, soft and gentle in demeanor, a good listener, that's what helps make a house a comfortable home for your family. Elegant femininity. OP's right.…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/09/20 03:29 PM
2	Continuously amazed by the results (rant) This just goes to show you how much these values in a relationship affect the relationship.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/08/20 05:46 PM
0	Whiter, golden, & rosier (ie. Caucasian) skin is seen as healthier and more attractive The thing is, humans in general (especially asians) have this inferiority complex over those who are Caucasian/have Caucasian features. Humans have struggled with this almost from the beginning of time. For example the arabs have had the arab superiority complex over non arabs for thousands of years(which you can still see within the non-practicing in the middle east sadly). The Jewish are proud and arrogant of their prophet-rich bloodlines, and believe themselves to be the only "chosen ones" an…	/r/MuslimRedPill	26/06/20 07:37 PM
1	Whiter, golden, & rosier (ie. Caucasian) skin is seen as healthier and more attractive Ok so this is actually not racist. It's a reality. I have a diverse south asian family, so I have really dark skinned relatives, as well as Caucasian ones(pale, blonde, blue eyed and gingers) due to northern/afghan backgrounds. In the eyes of Allah everyone is 100% equal. But society has always preferred Caucasian features over non Caucasian features, and given such people an overall advantage in life in general. This is a harsh reality. Most of my direct family members have very Caucasian featu…	/r/MuslimRedPill	25/06/20 10:33 PM
1	"looks dont matter to women" EXACTLY what I'm thinking 😂😂😂😂😂	/r/MuslimRedPill	25/06/20 04:26 AM
1	Husn al-dhunn doesn't mean you ignore social trends Thanks so much for your kind words, they really do mean a lot(especially when you're getting intensely criticized lol). And may Allah make us all among the pious minority, Ameen. And any little good I may have done is all due to Allah, alone. Alhamdulillah. I do remember coming across you on here as well, and it also gave me hope that men who hold true Islamic values do exist, when I started doubting it. I definitely think Allah is trying to tell us something through our conversation on here. Yo…	/r/MuslimRedPill	16/05/20 05:06 AM
1	Husn al-dhunn doesn't mean you ignore social trends Part 2 The truth is, doing this takes a lot of effort. Years, 5 years, 15 years whatever. Of course it takes effort, which is worth rewards, and guaranteed success. If Allah is capable of changing hearts overnight, performing unfathomable miracles in a blink of an eye, cutting 15 years to 2 or 1 is no big deal for Him. If it works for 30% of the population, I'm sorry it’s difficult for you to trust that Allah will put you in this 30% But after our conversation, I'm going to teach my brothers oth…	/r/MuslimRedPill	16/05/20 04:54 AM
1	Husn al-dhunn doesn't mean you ignore social trends Part 1 I do remember agreeing with your points earlier, but we definitely have our disagreements, which is okay. I'm glad we had the opportunity to learn each other's perspectives here through civil discussion. Also, thank you for your kind words, May Allah make us among the pious minority. I appreciate your detailed response to my comment earlier, but there are some misunderstandings here. The problem is, people are doing what you have just done. You glance over our complaints and expect men to…	/r/MuslimRedPill	16/05/20 04:37 AM
2	Husn al-dhunn doesn't mean you ignore social trends Part 2: > So, you're already starting off at a poignant position I'm afraid I'm sorry, but I'm not. And I hope you can understand that after seeing where I'm coming from. The entire purpose of my life, my education, any efforts is Allah. My life revolves around Islam, and Allah's message(and having a pious parent who happens to be a Quran teacher has only intensified my love for Allah). As the eldest sister, iA I will help raise my young brothers with this beautiful, hopeful message and the abso…	/r/MuslimRedPill	14/05/20 09:48 PM
2	Husn al-dhunn doesn't mean you ignore social trends Part 1: (Excuse my format) Look, I would understand and respect your decision to go your own way if not doing so puts you at risk of loosing faith. Exceptional cases are exactly why marriage isn't obligatory, and avoiding it does not make you lesser of a Muslim. I apologize if I made it sound otherwise. This only becomes problematic if majority of the 1% starts thinking this way. > how many of those numbers actually, pray, fast, try their absolute best to avoid major sins (zina in particular) …	/r/MuslimRedPill	14/05/20 09:47 PM
1	Husn al-dhunn doesn't mean you ignore social trends The fact that "quality women" probably only make up 1% of the population, is probably very much a reality. Similarly for pious men, who also make up a tiny percent if us. Like rare gems. Now I understand going your own way to preserve imaan and yes, ofcourse marriage isnt meant for everyone(exceptions/outliers always exist). But Allah recommends it to the majority of us as sunnah because we need it. One of the major reasons to why, is to increase the number of our Ummah, and with high birth rate…	/r/MuslimRedPill	14/05/20 10:49 AM
1	She also promote self harm Yeah, y'all are getting some pretty dead serious accusations, like lusting over minors, and people are wanting the authorities to be called over. The 'proof' she provides is a statement explicitly suggesting "18 years" of age, being a reasonable age for marriage with no mention of sex (so I don't know how it becomes lust). Last time I checked, 18 makes you legally an adult.	/r/MuslimRedPill	03/05/20 09:40 PM
2	The Future of these Extreme Feminists? Honestly I do see your guys' perspective; it makes sense. We've messed up western society quite significantly, and the middle east and the Muslim world is not holding anything back trying to catch up. Divorce rates increase, and so does the aging population as birth rates fall(women trying to hard to compete/become something they're not; completely forgetting and ignoring what they've been gifted with). It really messes with the economy, but rightfully so. Seems as though the majority of humanit…	/r/MuslimRedPill	01/05/20 10:16 PM
1	The Future of these Extreme Feminists? I agree with the issues brought up in this post but saying women offer NOTHING but sex? What about the pious ones who nurture and raise righteous children, the next generation? That's a whole lot more than just sex. If done correctly both men and women can offer a lot to each other in the long run.	/r/MuslimRedPill	30/04/20 05:44 PM