marcus_life_coach Archive

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1	Advice on inner game Main Answer ONE Your not bringing the party, I used to do what you do which is ask too many questions, girls use to say is this an interview? TWO The party or burden of conversation is on you, not her. While still be authentic. Your like a guy with no value trying to steal hers. You have to let her see your personality. It's not so much what you say but you have to do it for at least the first 2-minutes min after opening, and before it evolves to back and forth... Example I have a newbie univers…	/r/seduction	23/10/14 12:14 AM
1	Advice on inner game Side Note Before Main Answer My newbie students regularly don't even know if they have hooked the girl and bug out early, when the girl was interested. This happened this week and last week with day game. Their confidence crashed and prematuraly ejected. Even though as I watched or was their wing for bigger sets, the girl was totally in. Is this girl into me? simplest ways to know, Hello kitty eyes (they get big and she is consistently looking at you), or Body is directed to you, or She crosses …	/r/seduction	22/10/14 11:48 PM
2	How hard is the approach to CALIBRATE? [Daygame] Simple answer - quite hard if your new at this. New students in general are peaked on anxiety (many don't know what to talk abt after 2min), this results in fight/flight/freeze because adrenaline is released and cuts off executive brain function. SO WHAT DO YOU DO? - Exposure technique from clinical psychology, approach again and again and again, execute a 30-day plan. Expossure to fear decreases its potency ie your fear decreases, your brain starts working more. Then you will start picking up h…	/r/seduction	22/10/14 05:36 PM
1	Advice on inner game Give me 3-examples of what you talked about in your most recent discussions with girls i.e. what you said to open and then what you started talking about.	/r/seduction	21/10/14 06:27 PM
13	Seddit, what's a book which helped you improve your game? Shocked this is not listed, this book is one of the top books recommended by both the RSD crew and Mystery's crew - The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida http://www.amazon.ca/Way-Superior-Man-Spiritual-Challenges/dp/1591792576/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1413915194&sr=8-1&keywords=deida+david	/r/seduction	21/10/14 06:20 PM
2	DONT. ASK. FOR. HER. NUMBER. SirByron - how many times have you tried this (day vs night), what's the success rate?	/r/seduction	21/10/14 06:17 PM
1	Help with getting back on my feet, in a failing relationship all because of me. 2 CENTS - In my humble opinion it appears you have made the cardinal mistake of getting tied down too early. I do not advise students to get tied down until their internal centred-ness, confidence and abundance has reached a particular threshold. However, under certain circumstances I think you can have a gf or steady girl, but in an open relationship (it's not hard, I have students only in the game 1-month and they can do it, its an honest 5min conversation with the girl). MY ADVICE - Drop her,…	/r/seduction	21/10/14 06:13 PM
2	Questions about college "Learn to value yourself higher" I second that. I have had students and know pua's here in Toronto who have let 'learning skills with women' ruin their lives. To the point that some have dropped out completely and took their uni funds and misappropriated them to game 7-days a week. Define how many hours you will spend gaming and stick with that eg. 4hrs week day game, 4 hrs night game. Don't go above your goal, and don't feel you have to hit on every chick every second.	/r/seduction	21/10/14 05:12 PM
1	looking for advice regarding older women/age gap Hear what you are saying Power, but this woman knows what she is getting into and it's not because she is looking for a mature man. If she was she wouldn't go after someone this young.	/r/seduction	21/10/14 05:07 PM
1	looking for advice regarding older women/age gap Tread with supreme centred self-assurity and confidence, EVEN in situations where you are out of your depth; or fake it until you make it. Explanation - When you are in situations where you get caught because your not mature, she might tease and say 'your so cute, and immature' or 'your just like my son' don't stress. Admit it openly, sarcastically or with wit (depending on your personality), 'Ya i didn't know that, good to know', don't be embarrassed about it. 2nd - don't think 'I should do thi…	/r/seduction	21/10/14 05:00 PM
1	Great boot camp!!!! BecomingAlpha.co Hey, I was the top PUA coach in Toronto 2013, including the top guy on Meetup.com for PUA Group here in Toronto before the huge Eaton's centre melt down. I am mentioned in this article by Vice http://www.vice.com/en_ca/read/a-swarm-of-pick-up-artists-tried-to-invade-torontos-eaton-centre I am back in Toronto after a year away and started up again. I discovered seddit this week and have been asking my free coaching clients (I host tons of free events in Toronto, all on eventbrite), as well as boo…	/r/seduction	19/10/14 09:00 PM
1	What does confidence sound like? Great answer A., I second.	/r/seduction	18/10/14 07:17 PM
1	Getting back in the game after long term mental illness, I'd love for you guys to help me You know what the 1-year plan is to start/restart game, just go out. Find a wingman, review the basics, and that's it. Don't blow your mind with thousands of videos and opinions from forums like this. 1. Commit to set amount of hours a week, day and night game 2. Journal your approaches - Don't write online, field reports, it will expand your ego and not make you centred. 3. Reflect on journal notes, experiment, adjust, review - wash, rinse, repeat. 4. Find or create a wingman from friends. IMPO…	/r/seduction	18/10/14 07:14 PM
1	Last but not Least Two basics, i)man to woman intent ii)leading. For the first, it literally has to be in your eyes, your underlying message/tone. That you are a man and you want the girl sexually. Second, you have to lead, have to. Baby step exercises - 1) Grab her hand say get up lets dance. 2) If she is standing in front of you and move her, say you look better standing there. 3) If her arms are on her sides, grab her arms and cross them, without explanation. Then do some heavier lifting. Just remember if she r…	/r/seduction	18/10/14 07:05 PM
8	One point I use to motivate myself My coach told me this on my bootcamp and like all the things he told me, it came out to be true. I never regret blowing out a set, or screwing up. The only regrets that haunted me are not talking to that beautiful girl on the subway or in starbucks.	/r/seduction	18/10/14 06:58 PM
1	Can someone experienced comment on success rates of no openers eg "would you like to come home with me?" Vs success rates of more normal openers? jswk - this is not about congruence like ThrowawayPUA is saying. What you mean is, 'should I forget about establishing COMFORT.' Comfort aka trust aka safe. You can use your non-sequitur line about let's go home baby, but then what, she laughs because you said it in a funny way. There is still no comfort developed for her, girls need that, in their psychology. Comfort can happen within an hour, but usually takes several hours and venue changes. Exception - girls who just wanna hook up, and you w…	/r/seduction	18/10/14 03:08 AM
1	Can someone experienced comment on success rates of no openers eg "would you like to come home with me?" Vs success rates of more normal openers? What is genuinely on all guys minds is intimacy, it's evolutionary biology, reptilian brain. What it sounds like is you don't want to put in the time or work man, there are no shortcuts except on rare occasions. This 'work' and 'impatience' gets reduced significantly when you have abundance. But you won't get a girl or a roster without putting in the work. TECHNICAL ANSWER TO YOUR QUESTION - As an experienced guy I tell my students all the time 'the field holds all TRUTH'. Do each type 100s of t…	/r/seduction	18/10/14 02:58 AM
1	Can dressing nice come off as trying too hard? Everything your wearing is fine, as long as the party isn't a pool party. Detailed answer - wether your wearing a garbage bag or 3-piece suit the critical factor is how you feel about you in the situation. The ultimate goal of an alpha (aka being your best self) is being authentic no matter what you wear. If you have that strong centred core it won't matter. Exception - going to an event or know you will have limited time with a girl to allow her to get a feel for you. Example NYC morning during…	/r/seduction	18/10/14 02:45 AM
2	What personal quality about yourself, are you trying to improve? Personally, I am back in Toronto and building a social circle from scratch. You are the average of the 5-people you hang around the most.	/r/seduction	18/10/14 02:22 AM