mariesb Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
126	UPDATE: Part 1 of my 3 experience implementing the 3 month rule. I HAVE MADE A HUUUUUGE MISTAKE with cohabitation. There is no advantage to moving in with a man who has not committed to you (MARRIAGE, hopefully you've vetted by then). Stop doing it! Also on this note, set your boundaries before you start dating and stick to them! This is the self-work part of the equation that is absolutely essential. A guy tries to convince you to change your mind? Red flag. As much as men are gross, we cannot blame them when we make bad decisions that we know are bad decisions.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/22 04:52 PM
27	This is why we don’t do hike or walk “dates”…he proceeded to MAKE FUN OF ME, before I unmatched. DANGEROUS. Seriously WTF	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/10/21 01:56 PM
233	An empowered class of people does not have to beg and scramble to maintain control of their means of survival like this. This comment says it all "It says a lot that porn platforms don't want to/can't make sure their content is consensual and no underage girls are involved. Why are all these braindead people acting like it's oppression to be regulated? You realize you're enabling trafficking and abuse? Don't call yourself "womensrightnews" when you support the violation of women for money."	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/08/21 04:43 PM
86	Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after that one guy A man being weirdly picky about food automatically makes me feel like a mom. Imagine trying to get your kids to explore food while their dad sits at the table bitching about onions. No freaking thank you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/06/21 02:58 PM
6	Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after that one guy Lolll!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/06/21 02:53 PM
4	Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after that one guy Not even LinkedIn?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/06/21 02:52 PM
77	Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after that one guy Don't trust anyone who is hard to find on social media (ie uses a fake name, weird profile photos, etc) or who "don't use it". They're usually lying and have at least ONE account where they are hiding significant others and loser signals.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/06/21 02:09 PM
40	Remember that a bad relationship can literally change the trajectory of your life If you haven't vetted a man enough to accept his marriage proposal, you have not vetted a man enough to even consider living with him. NOPE	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/06/21 07:45 PM
29	Feeling slightly resentful that my mother taught me absolutely nothing about men Definitely relatable. Even my dad was just “don’t have sex” and when they found out I’d had sex with a guy in a “situationship” that (of course) didn’t work out they just kind of made fun of me for it and never went past that. It was really awful and I’m going to do way better.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/03/21 11:46 PM
96	Scrote doesn't want women lifting and being physically (or mentally) strong, would rather have us do our nails while listening some soft music Always find it hilarious when men shit on women lifting weights. Uhm, it’s a preventative measure against bone density loss, which women are more at risk for btw. They are so shortsighted even in their criticism LOL	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/12/20 06:51 PM
177	Elon musk LVM tweeted “take the red pill” and Grimes mom called him out. 5 of them	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/05/20 12:19 PM
34	Men use you for lots of things, not just sex Same. Will also say don't afraid to move on quickly after "relationships" like this or relationships in general. Wasted three years in an arrangement like this and starting spending time with my current guy a month later. Was worried it'd look like I'd be moving on too quickly, but knowing what I know now I would've regretted turning him down.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/01/20 04:35 PM
1	If you are single and childfree, don't date single fathers Not dead, just a not great parent. Yes my parents have custody of the children.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/12/19 06:12 PM
15	If you are single and childfree, don't date single fathers My mom married my dad, who had a daughter when they met. 25 years later my mom has become responsible for raising his daughter's children. As much as my mom loves her it's obvious that she resents the added responsibility. It doesn't even end at adulthood. Nope.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/12/19 06:31 PM