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Sydney Sweeney is a pretty girl and nothing more. Pretty blondes with blue eyes are not a rarity, I used to see girls like that except x10 prettier in NL all the time. No one turned their head. Why do people glaze over and put on a pedestal celebrities? I rarely find most of them attractive (women and men) and have certainly seen more beautiful exhibits out in the street than in the Met Gala.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:00 PM
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Please ignore your mother. She has become resentful due to past experiences and is now jaded towards any type of relating that has a non transactional component (or even EXCLUSIVELY transactional). This is horrible advice and a reminder not to get caught up in social media hype, where people by the way consistently lie/present a different image or selected aspects of their own life, to gain followers and traction. That sprinkle lady has a cult following of largely desperate and low emotionally i…
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/26 02:37 PM
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The only women I know that are/have been promiscuous were diagnosed BPD - one was even an escort (she came from a wealthy background, she absolutely did not even need the money). Seems like you should have more compassion for those women instead 🤔 all the others were in long term relationships or dating exclusively. There is a lot of projection on your part, not that you needed to provide further clarification for the obvious anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:55 AM
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Girl. Be so for fucking real. Please stay safe, you do not need an opinion here, you need a mindset reset because if what you wrote still makes you wonder “how bad is it”, you are a danger to your own self. PS. Even a woman who desires submission to her husband has to have certain standards, along with HIM. This guy is not capable of leading anyone anywhere except towards an ever approaching catastrophe. He cannot lead HIMSELF. He is an emotionally dysregulated, unable to control his urges/vices…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/26 05:06 PM
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The “reality of the current dating disaster” - but you haven’t much participated in the dating scene if your husband is your one and only, correct? I could agree with you vis a vis the horrors of navigating dating life but on the other hand, I could argue that a husband that proposes an open marriage wrapped in religious rhetoric is peak horror. Trying to embalm being polygamous/polyamorous in moral and social considerations is a travesty that surpasses Kyle liking his ex’s insta story. Somehow …
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/26 08:12 AM
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Looks like he considers himself to be too good to be tethered to one woman. And you are convinced of this, too.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/26 07:44 AM
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OP, it seems that your husband has successfully managed to convince you of his newfound ideas, so much so, you are gaslighting yourself into entertaining a living situation with the physical/emotional/mental implications that derive from it that I am certain you wouldn’t even dream of entertaining before you entered this marriage. I do not know if your husband belongs to a Christian cult or this is his personal brand of Christianity that conveniently fits his evidently very different needs from …
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/26 07:33 AM
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Your second paragraph says it all. OP, take note.👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/26 07:08 AM
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Girl you do not need to “look up” for anything, especially since you were lukewarm (to put it delicately, in reality you flat out rejected him) about him at first. Find someone that makes your heart sing and who would want to do all sorts of wonderful things with you instead of using you as a booty call (and not even being good at that, Lord, the audacity! 🙄🙄🙄) and to satiate his non existent self esteem (men who do this negging nonsense like it is mid 2000s and they are self proclaimed PUAs are…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/26 08:31 PM
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I spit out my tea at him saying he’s an old man at freaking 32 😂😂😂😭😭😭 What a clown, Lord!
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/26 07:14 PM
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Wonderful comment and absolutely insightful.-
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/26 12:57 AM
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Sometimes I wonder if some posts are rage bait. Oh well. Seeing you were a minor when this all started and I take it was your first relationship, I am going to go ahead and assume this is indeed a true story, the bewildering details notwithstanding. Let me quote you first on a couple of things; “I don’t know if I can ever trust anyone to have my back and care for me the same way he does.” —> correction, he does NOT have your back. Nor care about you. At all. Not even a friend would behave in suc…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/26 10:03 PM
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You are only posting/replying in quotes so I am not sure if this is rage bait or simply a bot. Anyway, I am confused at the end goal here. Is it to choose the final contestant in this dating reality show and “reward” him with exclusivity/relationship or is it perpetual dating like some never ending hunger games but in romance? I mean - good luck? 👍
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/26 03:13 PM
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You have to be realistic here and bear in mind that while you should not “settle” for a life you do not want, it might be more difficult and potentially take longer to find the “right fit” for you. 1. Right from the get go, people who want to pursue/be in long term relationships or marriage with single people with no kids are eliminated - you are already a mom not to one but four children and a lot of people would be hesitant if not outright unwilling to take on this huge responsibility. If some…
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/26 03:04 PM
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And they were roomates vibes I do not know what is not clear about all this for you.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/26 09:34 AM
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This deserves a 1000 upvotes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:02 PM
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I hope the multi-millionaire wife gets a wife who appreciates him and not stay with an egocentric leech
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/26 10:43 AM
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“If you meet your partner early the man has future earning potential” - I don’t mean to be the bearer (or reminding of) bad news but a lot of these stories end up with the placeholder/first wife being replaced as soon as the man reaches their biggest milestone(s) and “upgrade” everything in their life (a logic that I find disgusting because human beings are not objects to be upgraded like some men describe it, but it is what it is).
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/26 09:34 AM
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Pretty sure she simply meant “your” strategy, this is a typo
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/26 04:59 AM
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I would rather swallow hot charcoal and step on Legos than date a creep like him 😬😑😑
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 12:56 PM
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The problem with the example you used is that the short, balding, chubby dude (no comment on the unnecessary inclusion of ethnicity) has a lot of internalized low self esteem, and projects hard on women, making a relationship with them difficult (and that by his own making). Why? 1. Men like him inherently idolize the shredded, muscular, sharp jaw etc men (you would be surprised that a lot of women do not care about this type of physique) and have a lot of issues about their body image. This ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 09:13 AM
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How is this “literally your point” when I was not referring to relationships but to the way women approach casual dating/sex too? This false equivalence of “men settle for sex, women settle for relationships” is baseless and perpetuated in circles of men who are projecting their own issues onto women. Just because men are conditioned to believe that more sex=increased attractiveness for males, does not mean that women that choose them as relationship material “settle for them”. On the contrary -…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:39 PM
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PS. I am not taking seriously the examples you used. Those women do not “commit” to those men and these monstrous unnatural links are not “relationships”. Are we glazing escorts or professional gold diggers now? I do not think a man should be proud of bedding those women with or without commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:33 AM
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It is the opposite. Think of it like the equivalent of a man sleeping with a woman he does not find particularly attractive but he wants to scratch an itch. The tale that women choose men for sex they find irresistible but settle for “beta bucks” is a myth circulating in incel communities and for too long it has become ingrained truth and accepted as gospel. Women are not asexual beings - but they are being judged differently for expressing sexual needs. Having casual sex with a guy often means …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:30 AM
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Correction; the more plates (ugh, what an AWFUL expression!) you “spin”, the more your value goes higher in the eyes of internet denizens whose understanding of relationships and psychology mirrors their intelligence; it is abysmal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 01:56 AM
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The comment meant IF she stays with HIM specifically and has children, she shouldn’t expect he would be of any help, judging by his behavior. Not that she generally should choose to have children alone.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/26 08:20 PM
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But I never said she made a well considered choice in the first place. She thought she was being “sensible” and went for what was deemed in her mind a secure option. It was a mistake on her part and she should fully own it.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/26 05:52 AM
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I understand what you mean but she was not led astray by her friends’ life choices; she explicitly said about her current beau that he “is not super attractive”. While looks (as in, someone who is deemed conventionally “hot”) are not a priority, much less the top one, in one’s set of criteria, I believe you should feel attracted to your mate of choice. This is not superficial or shallow, he/she does not have to be super model handsome but they have to get your juices flowing sort to speak. I int…
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/26 07:10 PM
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Agreed to everything, with an asterisk; dating people her age does not mean she wants to “get around”. Many people in their 20s, especially mid to late, want stable, loving relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/26 06:38 PM
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I don’t understand why she is superficial because she is conflicted about dating someone she evidently has little in common with and her attraction is mild at best. What does that make HIM, for being with a woman younger than him that has a lukewarm attraction towards him. I do not believe he is clueless about it, either he is not very bright (and I refuse to believe that a seasoned, successful guy in his thirties is naive or dumb) or he wants what he can get. If anything, he is the superficial …
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/26 06:35 PM
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Why should we assume that she means she wants to “sleep around”? Maybe she wants to date, as in, have a relationship(s) with one of her peers rather than someone she has little in common with and it is evident feels little attraction towards.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/26 06:31 PM
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Why are you so hang up at this “podcast’s definition”? It is entirely plausible the term was not used correctly or implied something else. It matters not. The general consensus of what constitutes a man-child involves emotional immaturity and dysregulation and avoidance of commitments/responsibility. Being a toddler in a grown adult “suit”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 03:31 AM
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First of all, why the random disrespect to autistic individuals lol (I am not one but damn), like I said, good for you and different strokes for different folks but it does get tiresome to associate “good sex” with “experimentation”. If you can’t get all hot and bothered by just looking at your s.o and orgasm x5 by kissing and touching alone, are you even crazy about them? I feel we get lost in the “we need to do more” a lot to the point good old passionate no frills sex sounds like a non-experi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 06:12 PM
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Well good for those who find these things exciting, there is no worse turn off for me than “talking” about intimacy like it is a process or something technical. There is no real sensuality for me in any of this, but I guess some people prefer technique to tenderness and passion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:45 PM
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Vanilla sex does not equate to “scheduling sex” - and spontaneity has nothing to do with the type of sex. If anything, getting into kinky sex sounds to me like requiring “preparation” and not very on par with expressing yourself organically and being “in the moment”. Safe words, gear, toys, all sort of things that are “arranged”. Vanilla is wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 07:46 AM
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So far sounds like you are drowning in self doubt and panicking over self inflicted wounds. No mention of any signs of him second guessing you or the marriage. If that is the case, you know what you have to do; work on yourself and ask where does all this insecurity stem from. It is normal to miss your spouse and long distance is hard on most people, but this seems to be deeper than that here.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/26 11:13 PM
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I wonder if you have some reading difficulty because you keep interpreting things in a way that is CLEARLY not the intended. What I said is that people (you know, MEN and WOMEN) when they feel a natural attraction will both be their interesting and interestED selves and no one has to play the court jester - so your argument that men are justified for being promiscuous because they have to “work harder” at attraction is null. What is so hard to understand here? If you have to work for attraction …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:55 PM
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Good for you (I am sure those women are not clamoring for you either) but the point in this sub/post is that men can be so delusional as to believe that they can naturally attract women that could have been their daughters because of projecting a “wise, mature” image lol. At least you are not deluding yourself with those fairytales and know what’s up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:50 PM
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Ok, I now saw this comment, lol. I wouldn’t have responded had I seen this. You are so jaded, you categorize women between “prostitutes” and “civilian” (sic), using military lingo, positing that all women are whores and this it is better to go for the professional ones. This sub is REALLY a cesspool 🫣🫣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:33 PM
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How did I repeat what you said, when my words were the antithesis of yours? Lol You mentioned that male promiscuity is “better” than female promiscuity (personally, I find both disgusting and unsafe) because men have to do “all the work”, seducing, keeping conversation interesting etc. And I said, if a woman is not seducing you/being interesting BACK and you are doing all this “work” the answer is that she is just not that into you. Believe it or not, women that are attracted to a man will not s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:30 PM
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Do you date inflated dolls? 🤔🤔🤔 what dates have you been on that women are not keeping conversation and seducing but “just existing”? I feel sorry for you if that is all you have experienced from women. They must have thought you sucked big time to behave like they are bored out of their minds…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 12:55 PM
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Women do not “prefer older men”. They prefer partners that are sensible, reliable and can be counted upon. Usually, that meant the man would be older - but not measured in decades! A few years (like 4-5) is fine, so he would be on a good track to have a stable job etc. The very fact that a 45-50 year old would be willing to date essentially his daughter in years, negates the “sensible, reliable” factor. He demonstrates a “peter pan” syndrome which is wildly unattractive. Do not go by what celebr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 12:49 PM
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Why would women envy a young pretty woman who instead of enjoying her youthful years with handsome guys her age, is dating her dad? Believe it or not, women feel sympathy and motherly instincts towards these women/girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 12:39 PM
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That is a myth, blud. The number of losers that get top notch women - pretty, successful, that are supportive and help those fuckers, from every day life to built themselves - is astonishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 12:35 PM
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Darling, a man who is inexperienced at 28, and you were literally his first kiss, is not going to be your knight in shining armor. Been there, done that, got the horrific memories. Once he got that “taste”, he is going to want to go explore more, he whetted his appetite and he will now possibly want to live what he hasn’t experienced so far. A man has to feel he has sown his oats. Now, I am saying this a little bit in tongue in cheek, I do not mean he has to be promiscuous - I despise promiscuit…
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/26 12:12 PM
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If he is generally a person who lets himself be influenced by everyone and sundry this will never change. Proceed with caution. Unless you, as his wife, are sure you can manage to become the strongest influence that tramps others (notice I did not say “the only”, you won’t change a grown man’s character, forget it). Now, just out of curiosity, were the things that were proposed to change sth big (like getting married in a church vs civil wedding for example) or sth like the napkins?
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/26 08:51 PM
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Looks like living the single life with extra steps. Or wanting my cake and eating it too. You can be single and dating non exclusively, it is legal as you know - instead of this mess. Anyway, people will do what they want to do, it is their prerogative. Apparently people will call progressive anything nowadays, so I am choosing to call myself a radical monogamist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 01:03 PM
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I would certainly NOT call a man with a cuck fetish progressive. I would call him a moron and a weirdo. What are you people smoking, seems pretty potent stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 10:46 AM
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“He's indeed my best friend, we have a lot in common and our relationship is great.” Girl, there is a name for this and it is called PLATONIC FRIENDSHIP. You even said it yourself - he is your best “friend”, but nowhere did you describe him as “your man”, let alone the one. The fact that you believe, at 24, that you hit some limit and you are afraid of aging or missing out on companionship in life is pretty insane. I am not mincing my words. You are cheating on him already with your mind if you …
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/26 12:14 AM
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Ok, this is not a walk in the park for sure. Porn addiction is a very real problem nowadays, mature content is so easily accessible and once you go down that rabbit hole, it can take control of your mind; not just hooked to watching it but also getting deeper and deeper into more extreme stuff and getting desensitized to real life intimacy with a partner. This needs to be acknowledged by him and he must show willingness to take concrete steps to curb it. A lot of times this needs professional in…
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/26 01:07 AM
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I do not mean to put you in a difficult and awkward spot but you have to give a hint at least about the kind of trust issues, because as you can understand, people’s input is going to be in accordance with the issue that has been driving the wedge in your marriage. If you want us to give honest, straightforward advice, I personally need some clue over it. Some things are the kiss of death in relationships and some can be worked with proper communication.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/26 08:29 PM
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Your backwards country is one of the least safe places in the world for women. Most cases of rape and abuse go unreported and social justice and women issues have a long, long way to go. I am not an American and do not care about the US, but even with their huge problems, they still are thousands of miles ahead from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 02:53 PM
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Allegedly, we are the OG avoidants 😅😅😅 I can relate to a great extent but also I have my lover girl side. The horror!
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/26 10:02 PM
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My girl, are you an Air sign? You just might be my twin! There is nothing wrong with you by the way, and I do not understand why we need to adhere to some arbitrary expectations - in dating and in life.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/26 04:18 PM
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Hey, first of all, I hope it did not came out as me talking down to you - sometimes written communication is difficult because it does not convey tone - but I am amazed and upset on your behalf, reading that a young, beautiful, and from what you have written, very interesting, sweet and kind woman values herself so little as to stay in a dead end relationship because she is afraid she might end up alone at the ripe old age of 28(!). Women start all over again, in their thirties and forties, with…
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/26 12:19 PM
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There is a lot to unpack here, especially since there is also a cultural component that you do not clarify and we might not comprehend regardless; maybe in the culture you both come from it is considered more of a norm than an outlier to start a long distance “courtship”(?). Nevertheless, irrespective of this, it is still bizarre to initiate a “what are we” conversation with someone you have never met physically, the connection has not steered clearly towards a romantic orientation except some f…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/26 02:04 PM
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My sweet summer child. It is true that people do not change but people REVEAL their true colors often years into a relationship (mostly when they have locked down or so they believe the other person, like marriage/pregnancy/shared assets). Some people are so lucky never to have intimate encounters with disordered individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 01:00 PM
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My girl, I am 8-9 years older than you and single. Reading your post and comments made me shudder at how cringeworthy this all sounds. You are trapped in a decade-long relationship where your partner not only is not strongly attracted to you, it seems he barely LIKES you as a person. Some of the things he does are very condescending and denote a complete lack of respect and consideration. I am not surprised, however, since you exude desperate energy and low self esteem, to the point it is uncomf…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/26 11:41 AM
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Did you really, unironically write “I fear all the good guys will be taken when I get to grad because I will be…21”?!
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/26 05:05 PM
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It is not rage for me personally, it is compassion and pity that a woman would resort to such thinking. I am directly copying one of her responses to me, since you feel that we all here “exaggerate” and “project” things that aren’t; ‘I agree but I feel like I might just be accepting reality. Men around me seem intimidated by successful women and I want to be married so badly. ‘
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/26 06:55 PM
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She doesn’t like her current job, but this is not the real issue here; read her post again, she is framing the entire conversation, including any decision she might make regarding further studies, her next course of action etc, according to her (skewed) perception of “what my - potential, currently non existent - man might think”. She is basing her entire life according to the preferences of imaginary suitors, “men” in general, believing that being feminine is embracing this caricature of shallo…
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/26 05:53 AM
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Be very careful from whom you take advice online. I take it you want a traditional man and in your view that is just a respectful man who can provide for his family and has conservative values. A lot of people are masking as that but are not practicing this “family man” model.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/26 02:39 AM
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No healthy man - emotionally and mentally - is intimidated by educated, cultured, successful women. Maybe you have a certain image in your head, the standard misogynistic trope of the “shrill alpha female”, but apart from the fact that is is over exaggerated by bitter males, in reality obnoxious, opportunistic, step-over-others types are unattractive in both genders. Having a career, interests, ambitions does not make you “undesirable”. It seems you have drank the Kool-Aid that successful women=…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/26 02:33 AM
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This is the saddest post I have read in a while.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/26 01:47 AM
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Can’t relate, never had casual sex in my life and I only slept with my husband (that marriage ended in divorce by the way), and I won’t be having it anytime soon. I do not know where you see all these hordes of people that are hooking up casually or rather would prefer to - I think most people, even those that do not care to admit it, are looking for love and to find their person. Being promiscuous is not a medal one should wear with pride.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 12:24 PM
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“The risk of being a husband” was written unironically meanwhile hooking up with all sorts of random people is apparently risk-averse. Hope you get tested, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:41 PM
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Do you want to attract a real flesh-and-blood person or a caricature you have fantasized about? The fact you want to attract a whole human being because of an “aesthetic” is very telling. This is no different than those posts about men wanting to attract “exotic” women they have weird fetishes about. This is fetishization and it WILL show, so even if you cross paths with such a man, it won’t go any further.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/26 06:55 AM
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Have you ever considered that women are sentient beings, with intellectual pursuits and interests and maybe, just maybe, WANT to study physics, law, medicine, philosophy etc? Do you really think that women are one dimensional caricatures with zero personality and dreams/vision/passions that don’t even have anything to do with bringing home the bacon but with their intellectual curiosity? Whenever I see such opinions I am astounded at the fact that so many men out there really do not see women as…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 05:14 PM
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