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If you lift regularly, yes. Otherwise no, we just become fat. When I was young I was very thin. I was one of those guys who hit puberty and became a long thin thing that looks like the wind could take away. I started lifting weights at 18, and now I have a wide upper back with an impressive bone structure there. My wrist are still very thin as they were naturally, my hip round size is still quite small as it was naturally. But in other parts of my body the bones have grown to adapt to the growin…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 07:31 AM
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I personally tell what I don't like once and without falling into lengthy bullshit discussions. If she does it again then I remove affection. IMO it works better than removing affection directly to tell her what you expect of her the first time it happens.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 02:17 PM
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That's normal if you are ripped. Happens to me too. Only solution is to tailor your clothes. Make sure your shoulders fit and have the tailor fit the lower part. Companies try to sell to the majority. Ripped guys are not the majority.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 08:01 PM
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Depends on the country. Europe has many different cultures. Some countries start partying as early as 18-20:00, others it is usual to wait until 0-1:00. If you don't specify its hard to tell, but the solution is easy: go out earlier one day and check for yourself. Its not complicated.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 05:58 PM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=EayYYgPNfX8
/r/askTRP03/05/18 05:51 PM
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This is what a lot of TRP mises. Men reactions are also emotional, the issue is that men and women emotion are different in certain areas.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 09:33 PM
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There are ways to deal with it, but honestly you should not be liking hot girls on Instagram, not because your girlfriend says it, just for yourself. What's the point of handling validation to instawhores?
/r/askTRP20/04/18 06:46 PM
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That's a good way.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 08:39 PM
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This happens. People won't believe it but this happens. I moved to a place where I was seen as higher class, and girls suddenly got very feisty and a lot of men became very aggressive. Some girls prefer to disqualify themselves from the start out of feeling inadequate. Funny part is I'm not a person who cares about that, but they never get to discover it. It was a shock and it made me question myself. If I did not had the previous experience of being treated like just one person more, I'm not su…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 09:34 PM
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You are a woman, why be so direct? Ask him questions and give your opinion on certain issues that let out how you think and also let you gauge how he thinks.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/18 01:22 PM
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As I said I find it interesting for a LTR, but too much work for plates.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 11:39 AM
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I don't know what more to tell you. What was difficult first was really shut down the filter and just say whatever. You are worried about saying something very weird and don't let go. But once you accept you need to go through it because otherwise your emotional system will never learn, that you will fuck up several times, it gets easier to let go. And after the weird, it gets fun quick.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 11:25 AM
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I don't know if this will be useful for you, I'm not autistic, but my emotional development was stunted for other reasons. What worked for me was to go into conversations, drop off my logical capacity, that is not analyzing what is being said, and just respond whatever I felt like saying it. Literally, just say it, don't analyze. Just get on the flow of the conversation and participate without caring about the validity or logic of the content. At first, my reactions were very bad, my guess is fo…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 10:35 PM
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If we are going to use the lingo, incels are not beta. Incels are omega. They are the losers at the bottom of the hierarchy. Betas make money, marry and receive duty sex. Omegas get no sex.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 12:52 PM
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Some people are dealt a better initial hand, some are dealt a worse one. Deal with it. Some people want better answers but there is none for this issue. That's how life is. In any case, if you live in the USA or a western country, even if you are poor you are better off than most humans. How do you think the children of a poor Asian country feels when he sees the opportunities you have? Basically, life is not equal for everybody, deal with it.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 05:14 PM
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Scientific studies have shown women crave aggressive dominant muscular men (what beta call "assholes") when on their fertile period, but prefer comforting rich intelligent men (think gentleman) when they are not fertile, even to the point of being repulsed by the attitudes they found attractive during their fertile period. The evolutionary reason is obvious. Women want the genes of the first group, hence the attraction during the fertile period, and also want the resources of the second group, h…
/r/askTRP01/04/18 12:22 PM
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I can't decide if satire or crazy.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 11:52 AM
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I don't understand why people find "too conspiratorial" the idea that neo-marxists are breaking the traditional western institutions, like family and free speech, to gain power, when they themselves admit to it. They openly write about it.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 07:12 AM
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That's fucking creepy for real and feminist ate it for political reasons. Macron was underage and she was in a position of power over him. That is textbook predatory. But no, that was fine and the problem is that a 40yo dates a 20yo.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 11:30 PM
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I disagree. You will think it is a hateful place only if you are a pussy or have been brought up like a pussy. Speaking directly and even rough is not hateful, it is how men speak. Red pill is not hateful. You can only think that way if you have been brought up in a feminized society and your standards are all fucked up.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 11:11 AM
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Its a power thing. She, a feminist, is sticking it to the man. Its proof she controls the relationship. That's the mental pleasure she gets.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 11:03 AM
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That's interesting, I'll have to look into it.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 07:49 PM
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That is usually the minimum recommended that prevents your body from malfunction, but usually the optimum is much higher. Just go and get a blood analysis to check. They are usually included in most insurances, so you don't go around guessing. Also, sun makes the skin age quicker and increases the chances of cancer. I wear sunscreen daily, even in winter. So moderate amounts of sun with vitamin d supplements is a much better overall approach IMO.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 05:58 PM
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I was beta billy at 15 and had some reactions like the ones of your friend. It looked like I learnt nothing but it was just pure ego. I was embarrassed that you saw how i had been manipulated, so the immediate reaction was anger. Your friend will be thinking about it when he gets home if he is anything like I was. By 18 I had understood a lot of things, started to clean my act and I was able to accept my mistakes without anger, specially because I was understanding how to correct them. In fact, …
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 02:43 PM
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If you eat enough vegetables, and you should, you are getting more than you need of most vitamins and minerals. The vitamins in vegetables are more bioavailable than from artificial sources. You also get a lot of fiber and other non essential micro nutrients, that help a lot that you don't get with multivitamin supplements. Instead of taking a multivitamin, it is much better if you increase the amount of vegetables you take, for example by taking a daily vegetable/fruit shake. The exception is v…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 02:33 PM
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What evidence do you have regarding causation between the two events? Evidence are the ones I presented. What you meant to ask is for proof. And I don't have proof, this is a reddit comment, not a scientific paper. Secondly, comparing humans to other animals is ridiculous. As I said in my comment, all psychological studies in humans have shown males cope better with loneliness than females. You seem very hell bent in not discussing the relation between the rise of feminism and the increase in un…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 09:08 PM
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Tell that to the courts.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 05:18 PM
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Could be. The issue is female suicide rates are increasing. Female unhappiness has been increasing constantly since the raise of feminism. And I have read of a couple other examples of old single women killing themselves. All psychological studies show that, in humans, males cope with loneliness better than females. Loneliness is bad for everybody, but males endure it better. Look at nature. In animals, females tend to find a pack soon and stay with it, sharing a male if necessary. Males are eit…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 05:08 PM
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He was already leaving. I don't think he was interested. I get both your points. He could have fucked her with a bit more game, but he could not be bothered. I'm like him. If the women is too trashy I lose my eagerness to fuck her, its just not worth it.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 06:58 PM
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Sure, but I doubt someone asking how to make 250k already has a substantial net worth.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 10:00 PM
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OK, let me rephrase, you need income to obtain some substantial net worth. Plus even if you don't have to pay income tax, you have to pay corporate or capital tax. They are usually lower but still substantial.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 10:00 PM
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I mean, you have to have an income to increase your net worth.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 08:09 PM
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You call me when the whole world has bent the knee to you and your violence like in your mental fantasies.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 08:47 AM
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It is easier to be alpha as an extroverted than as an introverted though.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 06:00 PM
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Once the other escalates, use APPROPRIATE force. You would thing so, but there are countries with fucked up laws that will punish you for defending yourself.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 03:43 PM
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And don't forget that even if there is no knifes involved, you fight each other, you win and fuck him up, you are risking getting sued, including risking prison depending on damage and country. Fighting in the west is fucked up, yet it is needed. Its very weird.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 09:06 PM
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Try giving classes to kids. If you are going to top college that is a good selling point.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 02:19 PM
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Most girls have "dated a mid 30s to 40s successful guy". The curious part is that they tell you, they usually hide it.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 11:52 PM
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Most of the time violence is not the right answer. Sometimes it is. Saying that violence is always losing frame is wrong.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 11:47 PM
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What has race has to do with fitness? Race is something you are given, fitness is something you have control over (at least 99.9% of people) and your fitness level is a data point that showcases your personality. A girl that is fat is telling you she is lazy and irresponsible.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 08:28 PM
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Why are you obsessing so much about the interactions with a fat girl?
/r/askTRP17/03/18 10:31 AM
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Tattoos making you a badass is a thing of the past, when only sailors and soldiers got them. And those guys were not badass because of the tattoos, just because of their experience and attitude. Today, tattoos is almost a hipster thing. Tattoos are now more an image thing than being a badass. What you should take from this experience is your insecurity around being too soft. You are probably correct about your assessment. Read the sidebar and start learning how a real man behaves. Go to the fitn…
/r/askTRP14/03/18 06:22 PM
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People like AmateurFighter are sad. Deep down they know they have very little to offer other than violence. That is why he keeps putting his body on the line for perceived slights that allows him to validate his girlfriend ego and keep her hooked to the validation. At the end, if you feel you are worth nothing, what is the problem with gambling nothing for sex? It is sad.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 09:12 AM
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Fuck me, leading questions? Isn't it obvious why she does not want him there?
/r/askTRP10/03/18 10:36 PM
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Its not a fools game. Its fulfilling your natural instincts and your brain will reward you for it. Its the same thing as running or lifting weights. If you look at it from a naive logic point of view, what is the point of running to come back to the same place? Or what is the logic of repeatedly moving a weight from position A to position B, to then leave the weight where you found it? Apparently none, its wasted energy. But if you add biology, suddenly running and lifting weights makes sense be…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 01:25 AM
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Only one other organism in the history of the known universe has been brainier. (And humans who still have some of their genes are among the smartest of the modern human race.) What is the other organism you are talking about?
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 01:07 AM
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So what you are saying is that with all that fat your dick is always soft, got it.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 11:17 PM
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The problem with organized religion is the promotion of faith, blind believe. A lot of the ideas they promote are valuable life lessons, but behind there is the need to have faith, to believe in a father figure. And that is such a huge emotional pull that it is too easy to abuse by the hierarchy of the organized religion. I really don't have a problem with people believing in god in an independent way, but organized religion always seemed wrong to me.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 10:48 PM
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Plus education and estrogens in water and everywhere.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 07:40 PM
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Well then, you have two options. Cheating or talking with her. Before going the cheating way I would give it a good though to try to speak with her. Women can accept sharing their man. Also, I wonder why you accepted marrying a fat woman. If she wants more sex from you and you try to fuck other women she can take it personally.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 10:51 PM
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Some mothers are not good mothers, it happens. Sometimes their mental deviations twist or even overcome their maternal instinct. I know its hard for people who have had good mothers to really understand, but it still surprises me how unaware some people are about how cruel and nasty bad mothers can be with their children. It happens all around you.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 05:14 PM
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iron clad prenup to protect my business and income No such thing as iron clad prenup. I am recently married We've been together for 7 years and to be honest I am at a breaking point. We still fuck once a week but her BMI is 24 She is my best friend The suggestion is to urgently read the sidebar. She is not your best friend and you should never consider your women as such. She is your partner/wife, not your friend. Let me put it to you straight, you are her beta bux. She is coasting with you, giv…
/r/askTRP24/02/18 05:31 AM
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Depends on your mum and in your sister. I could not show any emotion to my mum, positive or negative, as she would use anything to try to manipulate me.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 05:15 AM
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They are easier and they are harder. Easier because they have buttons you can push but harder because they always bring drama.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 02:24 AM
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Its over. She does not want to be the one to break it up and look bad so she is giving you that bullshit in hopes you'll break it.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 02:22 AM
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Men are not born with every lesson learnt. And some things you can only learn through experience. You needed to go through that experience to learn your lesson. Do you really think those guys were born learnt also? They also went through similar shit. Nobody goes through life without scars. You are not less of a man because you were young and naive. You were naive but you've learnt your lesson. That's all that counts, even if we like to fantasize about a movie-like life where you make no mistake…
/r/askTRP23/02/18 01:28 AM
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and wanted a divorce (He hadn't seen wife for more than a year, but they were still married.) When he asked her she said yeah...if you give me $10K. Aussie dollars cash in hand on top of whatever she would get in the divorce. He thought about it and said yes. When he contacted her again, she said now the price is 100K. Within a couple of months she offered him a divorce for free..because she wanted to get married. Why do women tend to overplay their hand so much? I've seen this happen repeatedly…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 01:08 AM
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So you are suggesting the only way to marry successfully is to go meet a women in an Islamic African tribe?
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 12:57 AM
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Having the discipline and skills to get buff and get money is not inconsequential. It's not all there is either, but if it was so easy everybody would do it, yet I walk in the street and most men are not.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 12:55 AM
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Ask your doctor to only cut the minimum amount, not to do a full circumcision. There is no reason to cut the whole thing for medical reasons, just create some space in the top part. That way you keep most of the inside top protected and you keep your sensitivity.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 07:58 PM
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We were not implying anything in regards of the amount of women that like to have orbiters. If you read again you'll see we are just pointing out that orbiters exist and there are a lot more than you would expect. If you wanted you probably could get them to orbit you. That's the point, but I completely understand why you would find it annoying. And some of them are high IQ guys. Orbiting is not a problem of intelligence but of desperation. Desperation can short circuit a person's brain.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/18 11:39 AM
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Exactly. The best way for losing the fear of getting rejected is getting rejected a lot.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 11:33 AM
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The government is the biggest father figure for adults. It offers a fake sensation of control in exchange for taxes and people love it. That is why politics is so folkloric and emotional. Its a genius scheme in a way.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 05:57 AM
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Its the perfect opportunity to play with her. For example, react by saying nothing and look at her intensely like you are doubting exaggerated. After a moment tell her: "Let me see, turn around" Grab her and make her turn around while you look at her up and down. Then doubt some more and say: "mmmm, I'm not sure..." Or go hyperbolic telling her shit like she is the most beautiful girl you have ever seen in the whole world while laughing at the same time. You get the idea. That question is the pe…
/r/askTRP19/02/18 09:27 PM
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If you started to put some effort in your social media presence you would be surprised. Go check the amount of Twich girls that make a living by being decently looking (nothing spectacular) and nice on screen. The amount of views and donations they receive is mind blowing. There is a lot of lonely and thirsty men out there that can not figure out how to straighten their life so they default to extreme online beta behaviour. And you have to remember that women have a bias against weak men. You do…
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/18 08:29 AM
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Also, try it with a girl you don't work with and don't have to see every day.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 07:57 AM
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I don't think you understood what I wanted to say. Also, I said being rich is difficult, not hard. Being poor is way harder, being poor is miserable compared to having money, there is no doubt about it in my mind. There is no color when I compare the experiences. But in reality being poor is simple, there is no too much to it. Being rich on the other hand is way better but since it opens a lot of opportunities it can be difficult to navigate.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 07:53 AM
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Approach a 6. Get rejected anyway because 6 are out of their mind with social media attention, but you won't care as much. Do it every day. Get used to rejection. The first approaches you'll be nervous and won't be able to enjoy. The more you approach, the more your emotional system will get use to rejection and the fear will be lost: just another rejection like the previous days, what's the big deal? . Suddenly, you'll find yourself calm when approaching and even having fun. You'll start to hav…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 07:40 AM
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Envy is useful if it pushes you further. It is also useful to acknowledge there is always going to be someone ahead of you. Someone with more money, someone who fucked more girls, someone who has a bigger dick, ... Use envy to push yourself but don't let it grow to a point it consumes you. Learn to accept not being the best at everything.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 11:21 PM
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I hope you do well in life. When you do I hope you look back on this conversation. I have been poor and have made good money. I have been quite beautiful if I can say that myself and I have gotten older and therefore uglier. I know how all of it feels. And let me tell you that I understand why you think like you do, but you are missing a lot. I know its not usual to hear someone say it and therefore it might be shocking, but you should give it more though instead of following popular wisdom whic…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 08:24 PM
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Similarly, given that you seem to be ugly, you might not understand the difficulties of being beautiful.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 10:58 AM
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Yes, ugly people dream on being beautiful and think it would be a cakewalk if they were. And being beautiful is great, better than being ugly, but it comes with its specific set of problems that ugly people never even imagine. Similar to being rich. That is why some beautiful people end up in bad places in life, or poor lottery winners end up worse than they were after a few years. Being beautiful or rich gives you more opportunities but they have their own set of problems you have to figure out…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 09:52 AM
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Role models are always useful. I was just referring sexually since that was the topic. Women have a harder time being cheeky since so much of your attractive, at least initially, is passive. But you can look at men with desire when they are talking at random. If you do it naturally its hard for anyone to accuse you of anything since it can be easily denied. Its hard for me to give advice to women on how to flirt since I don't have that experience. At the end of the day, women were put here to ma…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/18 06:35 PM
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The truth is nightlife is narcissistic, that's probably why it helps you see people as things. People act and treat you different in a nightclub than at the gym during the day. Its how the game is and you have to play with it. Some people say they don't like clubs and nightlife in general because its too superficial, and they are right, but if you know what's up it can be fun.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 08:06 AM
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Yeah, I keep getting that message that women have to be fun, wild, adventurous and sexy. I've been perceived as 'vanilla', too much of a 'goody two shoes', and many want me to 'explore' I was getting that impression, so I though it would help you understand what goes on with us men in our early 20's. Let me tell you the myth of this adventurous woman is greatly exaggerated and glorified. Women that prefer monogamous, serious and long term relationships can be as nasty, it's just that we men like…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/18 10:48 AM
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I get you have good intentions, but he already know his girlfriend fucked a guy for money and he has decided to stay in the relationship. Seriously, what more proof do you need that he is in her hands and does not have the balls to do the right thing? If he believed she kissed a guy but nothing else happened, but you knew she fucked him, I would understand the value of telling him. Its easy to male-hamster just a kiss, even when we know it should be a death sentence, but you can understand him w…
/r/askTRP09/02/18 10:29 PM
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Young men don't know what they want or what is good for them, specially in this feminist era. Don't forget that women mature earlier than men. A 22 yo man is a child, not so much a 22 yo woman. A lot of early 20's men dream with a crazy super cool "adventurous in your face" woman, just to discover it is not at all how they imagined once they date her. Then we start to reflect and realize the more level headed women might be onto something. My point is I am sure there are a lot of things you as a…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/18 10:15 PM
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I am usually on the side of telling your real friends what is up, but in this case he already knows and did nothing, so what's the point on you telling him? Tbh you should think on getting some distance from this guy. What's the point on having a friend like this?
/r/askTRP09/02/18 10:03 PM
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Why? Being highly intelligent does not automatically translate into maturity or emotional capability or however you want to call it. The prime example is the typical mathematical genius who is incapable of having a good social life, think the extreme of A Beautiful Mind. Men get comfortable and attached to lower value options. And having the potential of high SMV can be a trap because some lower value women will trap the man, making things easy for him and he will not have the will to go out and…
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/18 02:20 PM
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Not really. That's a bit of a fantasy of progressives and their idealization of the European countries. All their argument hangs around government healthcare vs regulated private healthcare in the USA. But that is just one issue. If you look at others you can see the USA is at the left of a lot of European countries, for example homosexuality.
/r/askTRP03/02/18 02:06 PM
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Because 18 yo girls are fucking 20's and 30's guys (and older) and you look like a child in comparison.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 10:54 PM
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The guy is making a power play on you. He is letting you know he has information on you to unsettle you, but doing it in a light way so you can not get angry. You could have answer with a big friendly smile: "hey, tell me, how is it to be the guy she shows the message other guys send her? Doesn't it get heavy or boring on you?"
/r/askTRP01/02/18 11:22 AM
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Starting with a threesome instead of completely open the relationship is not the most horrible idea and most probably what saved your situation, at least made it way easier to handle. A threesome is at least something you two are doing together, even if it involves having a third person in there.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/18 11:22 PM
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Not really true. Engineering is full of betas, despite the lack of women. It can be very annoying, in a different way, but not less sad.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 08:46 PM
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I'm not u/BluepillProfessor , but I agree with him and can give you my experience. My father ignored me and my mother was abusive. She was obsessed with me but in an abusive way. I grew up being very sensitive to her humor changes and finding diplomatic and funny ways of deflecting her manipulative ways without angering her. What I realized once I grew up is that I was better than other kids understanding women. A lot of times, I intuitively get what women are thinking approximately just by look…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 09:20 PM
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Are you a young man? If you are young and discovering TRP don't worry too much. Young people need to be a bit selfish and narcissistic (just a bit) because you are developing yourself so you need to center more on yourself. Once that process is over and you feel you are more sure of who you are in the world you'll open up some again.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 03:08 PM
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I 100% disagree. Sensitivity is not a immutable and its not incompatible with TRP. You read TRP and your sensitivity will change. If you understand half of what TRP is saying, it is impossible for your sensitivity to remain the same. Also, sensitivity is not incompatible with TRP, you just have to be more selective on how you apply it, in fact TRP refines your sensitivity for the better. Instead of being pulled emotionally from side to side by manipulators, you can more clearly discern where you…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 09:39 AM
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My mother was a feminist and educated me to be a good feminist. My father and I had no relationship for reasons I can not describe to not make it easy to identify me. I was basically brought up with the belief that it was my duty to help women as much as I could. It was not stated directly like this but that was always her advice. She would guilt trip me to get her way, and would be horrified when I developed traditional masculine traits, punished me for them, ... You get the idea. When you effe…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 09:22 PM
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I was brainwashed by my mother to accept this type of stuff. I was convinced I was being modern and the rest of men were a bunch of inferior brutes for thinking otherwise. Seriously, I was absolutely convinced I was the superior man for accepting it. Thankfully it did not take long for me to question everything my mother was imposing on me and I ditched this believe early in life.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 08:59 AM
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Appearance is reality. Not really and it is very dangerous to believe it. But appearance does help a lot and its one of the best ways to start to turn your life around.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 08:51 AM
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Exactly. List is an emotion and women love a man who will display lust. On the other hand start crying and see how quick they disappear.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 10:58 PM
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Schools started doing blood type analysis because they were cheap and fun, but they stopped doing them because it lead to husbands finding out their kids were not theirs when the blood type combinations were impossible.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 10:52 PM
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Marx said its OK to lie if it helps push the right message. Feminists have taken the advice to the heart.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 04:09 PM
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I don't really understand why you did not break it off when leaving to college, would have made things easier.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 11:55 AM
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Also women don't like to take risks, specially social risks, and will wait until VR is seen as socially normal and "cool".
/r/askTRP13/01/18 11:29 AM
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She doesn't understand what mansplaining is. She's just using it as a smear word. I'd say she understand perfectly what it means.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 11:24 AM
5

Men and women are different. Its that simple.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/18 01:50 AM
8

I still call myself lefty. It bothers them more that you claim they are not the real left, just a spawn of post modernism, than anything else. And I love to disturb their smug beings. There was a video of a white male leftist discussing with a bunch of SJW in a panel. The leftists came from a very modest family, had no college degree, was dressed simple, had lost a lot if hair already in his 30's... you get the idea. The SJW were in their 20's, college kids and all very dress up with an edgy tou…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 04:34 PM
11

Cooperation is just a strategy to compete better against the rest.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 01:53 AM
6

I don't get the obsession of feminists to fight against biological realities. What's the point? What do they think they are getting?
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 10:17 AM
6

Being chemically enhanced changes everything. The argument is a woman with her natural hormones and all the training she can get vs a man and his natural hormones. If you shut up a women with testosterone obviously her muscles get closer or even surpass the muscles of a man.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 09:56 AM
24

Just looking for publicity at the expense of feminist dummies.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 09:51 AM
2

Both.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 09:08 AM
67

Change jobs. Start looking for a new job ASAP. A company that is willing to throw you under the bus for two fake messages is not worth working for. It is completely unreasonable. No shit it has you scared, it is out of your control and completely unreasonable. Start looking for another job.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 08:51 AM
2

That happens at all age points, but my experience says that women like to extract resources from betas and will do whatever for who they see as alpha, independently of the age. But you have your mind made in a different idea.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/17 10:20 AM
1

You'd be surprised how many girls in their 20's hook up with older men but keep it on the low.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/17 11:09 PM
1

Learn biology.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/17 08:49 AM
13

Women tend to like older men, or at least not mind at all. Youth is much more sought out by men than by women. Also, the 35yo usually has his life more settled and accommodated than most 26yo's which is also attractive for females. Putting it plainly, finding a reasonably attractive 26yo male that is also wealthy is much harder (much much way harder) than finding the same characteristics in a 35yo. So really a 35yo that has kept in shape and is doing well economically does not have a lot of comp…
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/17 11:00 AM
62

Truth. The truth makes you free. Lying to yourself might make you feel good and warm inside in the short term, but the price you pay for it is that you don't correct your problems and you keep getting stuck in the same places without even understanding how or why, suffering more in the long term. The two attributes you've mentioned are different, one can be changed the other can not, so I'll address them separately. There is no excuse for being fat for 99.9% of people. Absolutely no excuse, its …
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/17 02:47 PM
10

Its funny because its very common. Lots of men get a Bonner when their girlfriend/wife cries to them. There has to be some evolutionary reason for it. Maybe because it makes us feel needed and "the man" in control?
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 12:32 AM
5

something I've been learning over the past few years, is you have to be manipulative to have a successful relationship with a woman Is that being manipulative? Seems to me a normal response. You are being direct and not lying. Being manipulative would be, for example, to insinuate something that is not true to misled her and make her do something based on that false information. That is manipulative. But just removing yourself because she is being unreasonable does not seem manipulative.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 12:25 AM
8

Or they'll become feminists.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 10:13 AM
-1

You should have done something before you lost all your hair in the top. There are only three things that you can do: Minoxidil: mild effects, won't solve your problems but helps grow a bit of hair and helps retain the ones you have. The patent expired a few years ago so you can find generics cheap. Finasteride: Blocks a testosterone derivative that produces hair lost. It has more effect than minoxidil, plus its just a pill so its simpler to administer. The problem is it can mess with your testo…
/r/askTRP19/12/17 10:52 PM
11

You joke, but you are onto something.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 06:12 PM
14

There is a difference between women feeling attracted to a man because of their fame and power, and a woman sleeping with a man to get a job or something. A prostitute will sleep with you for your money, but that does not mean she is attracted to you.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 05:51 PM
10

Last season of House of Hard was bad anyway, the stupid ending was just confirmation of how low it had gone. So not that much lost.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 05:49 PM
99

Over 90% of Instagram hoes are prostitutes, and the rest are just showing meat to promote their YouTube channel, shop or whatever business they have going on.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 05:46 PM
3

There is no point on trying to make feminist happy, they will never be.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 05:37 PM
9

Imagine you are a feminist fat woman who enjoys having a couple of confused man as orbiters. And you know that if they read trp they will read how to straight up their live, by lifting, economic progress, change in attitude, ... and specially be told in no uncertain terms that she is using them for attention, to stop orbiting and block her. If you are this feminist fat woman, would you be in favor of trp?
/r/askTRP19/12/17 05:36 PM
21

He must demonstrate himself a man of lifelong value before she allows an access to her body. Which is kind of sad. Her body is used as a piece of leverage to tie a man's commitment. Why is this sad? Although it is a challenge and even annoying from the male perspective, it is a very intelligent move and strategy from the women side. Women have a small window where they are at their peak and using it to make a man bond with them is the most intelligent thing they can do.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 09:24 AM
6

You can order them to text you if you created enough attraction and are dominant enough during the initial interaction. For example, if you feel cheeky and playful enough and the interaction is going well, you could give her your telephone number, not get hers, and tell her: "Send me a message and I'll take you out". It is important that you feel she is interested, otherwise this comes a bit creepy or stupid. But if she is interested it shows a detachment and outcome independence that makes you …
/r/askTRP12/12/17 10:15 AM
3

Yes, BJJ is a completely legit martial art and it works. But in the street in general you want to stay in your feet if you can. Going to the ground can be dangerous, sometimes you are dealing with more than o e person... BJJ is great, it can help you in a fight and everybody should give it a try. But learning stand up fighting is more useful for street fighting.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 02:14 AM
-1

Yes
/r/askTRP11/12/17 09:38 AM
3

The key is not to get tangled in the arguments she'll through at you to derail you and keep the point in what you want to say.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 10:21 AM
2

Its normal at first. Keep trying and taking a lesson of every interaction.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 10:19 AM
-2

For some women safe, boring and socially skilled (another way of saying obedient to society's expectations) Not really. Its more about not understanding double meanings and hidden social cues and have a tendency to take everything at face value. For exemple, you know the typical guy that sometimes say things out of context but everybody accepts it and rolls with it because they know he has no malice. But you are right that for a LTR a man needs to mix alpha and beta qualities. This is often said…
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/17 06:03 PM
4

Beta is not evil or a complete loser. A lot of Beta's make good money and have a comfortable life. Comfortable being the key word here. These men tend to be comfortable, safe, dependable, a bit boring, .... You get the idea. A lot of them have enough spine to deal with the responsibility of the job because that is socially acceptable, but they don't have enough character to deal with the shit society throws to men and socially he conforms and plays it safe. The typical loser, living in his paren…
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/17 02:54 PM
14

The way here is more random and fortuitous than most want to believe. Its not who wants it more necessarily, a lot of it is right moment right click. But that's alright because that is how life is.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 09:12 AM
11

Women get praise for just being. Men get insults for just being. Its the way of the world (there are biological reasons for this).
/r/askTRP05/12/17 08:51 AM
9

Because the evolutionary purpose of females is to select the best males. That is what feminism is trying to do in a very twisted and sick way. Or better put, feminism is an offshoot of the instincts of women that lead them to test and be hard on men to select the best individuals but gone wrong.
/r/MensRights04/12/17 06:19 PM
2

That's a silly conclusion. Evolution does not work that way. People make power plays that benefit a few at the expense of the majority (for example feminism), people make mistakes. Thinking of Darwinian evolution as a deterministic human view is silly.
/r/MensRights03/12/17 05:25 PM
4

The red pill is not really only about getting women and certainly not about manipulation, at least not in the bad sense of the word. The red pill is about using evolutionary science to become a better man, specially one that will understand and attract sexual partners. Its focused on sexual strategy based on evolutionary science and it is very necessary given the lies this feminist society and its schooling system feds its young males. If you think its horrible and manipulative, you might be suf…
/r/MensRights03/12/17 08:09 AM
8

This is narcissistic behaviour. This level of delusion is not all women.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 01:08 AM
1

Either shave it or get a hair transplant. You have no other options.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 02:18 AM
3

How would you know?
/r/askTRP18/11/17 02:17 PM
2

I disagree. Fantasies are fine as a way to motivate oneself. But fantasies, as alluring as they can be, never taste as good as raw reality. Even when the reality is way shitier than the fantasy, there is something in the brain that feels awesome when it knows something is real, is not comparable to fantasizing. Reality always hits you harder.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 08:38 AM
2

Why would I be happy to learn the ambition I'd always had of finding "the one" who'd love me unconditionally isn't really realistic. Because now you can have a real relationship instead of one where you are just being a fool and living a fantasy? Some people compare reality with their dream. I think that is a mistake. If you still believed in your dream, what would have happened is you would be having a relationship where pieces would be falling constantly as you tried to implement your dream bu…
/r/askTRP06/11/17 08:34 AM
10

Doesn't knowing the truth make you happier? It does to me. I hate going like fool around the world.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 11:54 PM
1

The issue is not lack of confidence. Approaching unreceptive girls can be done, no problem. In fact it should be done at least some times to get a feel of it. The problem is that introverts and awkward people make social interactions difficult. And life is already complicated and draining enough to make it more difficult, so naturally we men (and women too) will gravitate to people who make our life simple. I get that it is a strong female fantasy to have the powerful men that cares about nothin…
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 09:36 AM
4

Take getting better and enjoying social situations as a game and a challenge. You might not be enjoying certain social situations because you are bad at them, not because they are boring. Plus pubs and clubs can be very different environments with different type of people, specially depending on the type of pubs. You don't enjoy any? What about other type of social situations? You like working out, have you though about joining some amateur sport team? Are you bad in that social environment too?…
/r/askTRP05/11/17 09:14 AM
1

Indeed. Even in old societies that accepted homosexual sex, getting your woman pregnant was seen as your obligation. In conservative circles it is accepted that someone has homosexual relationships on the quiet if he has and mantains a family. Some people think its hypocritical, and on the surface it is, but in reality it responds to the instinc of having all the people in the tribe involved. If he has gay sex on the low its alright as long as he is raising a family and increasing the tribe. The…
/r/askTRP04/11/17 12:33 PM
8

Its not only the rate of rejection, but how easy the interaction will be. If I see a girl happy and smiley it gives the idea that she is in a good mood and therefore will be more open to trying new people and new experiences. Sane but the opposite with a girl that seems angry or upset. Even if I get rejected, when a girl is happy and cheerful, the interaction can be not awkward and even fun, so if you get rejected it just does not leave that bad of a feeling: I tried, it was fun and not creepy, …
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/17 07:21 AM
1

Because they want commitment but don't want it easy because it is a test at the same time. They want commitment to feel safe. Their instincts scream to them to get a man to provide and look for her. But at the same time if they get what they want too easy, it makes them feel like the man has no value, that the man is so desperate that will give commitment to the first woman that pays them attention (aka sex). Some people are saying it makes no sense and don't try to understand women because they…
/r/askTRP03/11/17 06:33 AM
18

Just saying - once you actually get to that hill you'll want to conquer something else, so have a mission outside of 'women' for fuck's sake. This is a funny one because its like telling a hungry person that has not eaten in days: "hey, don't worry about food, once you have some food, getting more food will be a lot easy, so don't worry about getting food and focus on your big mission". You have to have the basics solved before you can go for your mission. Telling people to focus on big objectiv…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 07:05 AM
2

Because not every men out there is doing it, despite knowing that is what they should do to improve.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 06:54 AM
8

The "I am in full control of myself" people pisses me off. They are like a fucking cult, convincing themselves of "the truth", despite all the scientific evidence to the contrary. We are animal, biological machines, and our brain is not a logical computer, it will never be no matter how one tries. No human will ever be in full control of his mind. You just have to accept it and learn to live with it, instead of trying to convince yourself of bullshit.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 08:53 AM
11

Don't leave it at that you fucker.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 09:51 AM
5

Let me repeat the idea that TRP is not a religion you have to follow line by line or be fired, you can pick up what you want and drop what you don't agree with. That said: I do think that women need to be treated like human beings, not like dogs. Being treated like human beings is a very broad and undefined idea. Its usually more of a feel good comment, than anything specific or important. But it is important to consider, if you believe men and women are different, logically you will need to tre…
/r/askTRP22/10/17 03:34 PM
9

Talk to their parents and hard next. Once she realizes she can emotionally blackmail you, there will be no end to the mental fuckery. You need to get out.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 04:47 AM
2

Between 12-14% is ideal medically for a male. 10% is acceptable. Less puts stress on your body, it can be done, but its not optimal health and performance wise, although some people target it for aesthetic reasons. Above 14% its kind of alright at first health and performance wise, but it degrades quick and soon the extra fat will start affecting your hormones, putting stress in your articulations... Plus its a sign you are not eating well and/or not exercising. A healthy male that eats clean an…
/r/askTRP11/10/17 08:37 PM
2

Why? Seems like a good way of speaking about media manipulation.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 07:46 AM
3

If your boss is a dumbass, not much an employee can do. Bosses have the power and the responsibility, not you as a subordinate. If the boss allows and even encourages certain attitudes, there is a limit as to what you as subordinate can do, other than changing boss, department or company.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 09:57 PM
1

I don't know why but it happens. Maybe its a way to rebel against a father that was absent or whatever. I don't know the reason.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 11:45 AM
2

Also, rich girls want to piss daddy going for the alpha poor guy. It happens more often than people imagine.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 07:26 AM
3

In my child home there was a housekeeper every working day, and as children we still helped cleaning dinner and during weekends. There are a lot of ways to teach the children his to take care of the home, even with a daily housekeeper. And as you say its important.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/17 07:24 AM
1

My principles are practical and based on experience. I would never have principles based on what others think my principles should be. So to some degree my principles have changed and could change because of new experiences.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 05:54 AM
3

Accepting how she is is a step in the right direction. You need to understand what you have around first to be able to focus on yourself the right way.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/17 08:03 AM
1

Yeah, just do what feels right. Don't push yourself for a few days and go out when you feel it again.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 07:16 PM
53

And they equate that with happiness, which is even more pathetic and tells you everything you need to know about the present state of our society.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 01:30 PM
7

There is something to what both, you and op, are saying. The problem with psychopaths tricks (narcissists and similar too) is that they can and often do work short term, but sooner than later they are discovered, then all trust is lost and they are blocked out. That's why psychopaths are lonely people. But it is also true that men like to protect women. We feel good doing it. There is probably some evolutionary advantage for the tribe who's males like to protect their women. Women do have the po…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/17 08:34 AM
3

You were a bit down from being somehow I'll and your girlfriend bullshit wore you down on top of it. You are human. Rest, relax and you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 07:39 AM
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