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Discussionmaroon_man_/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 12:33 PM
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Just pretend to be her bf. Don’t get emotionally attached. Don’t spoil her (just the occasional date). Don’t marry. The end
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 11:35 AM
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Um actually I haven’t consumed porn for months. I don’t think it’s good for you and I made an effort to quit long ago. I slip up now and again but I usually go for months long stretches without viewing it. I think I can count the number of times I’ve viewed it in the last year. Ironically a lot of the men I know that consume porn frequently (everyday or every week) have active dating lives and women respond well to them. How many more assumptions are you going to get wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 07:20 AM
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I did call them out. We actually ended up getting into an intense fight. In one case I stopped them and told them to go apologise to said woman. They’re adamant that acting like a dick is what women love. I don’t have any legs to stand on because despite all this they’re much more successful with women than me and they can always point to that fact. As for the mild mannered guy he could be an abuser but as far as I’m aware these genuinely gentle souls. Problem is women won’t even so much as give…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 07:15 AM
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What you need is some yt dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 07:08 AM
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Lol it’s ok. I can tell you’re angry at them(daddy issues?). Them being low value is an indictment on the women. Ya’ll are giving birth to and raising low value men meaning ya’ll are low value women. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 07:07 AM
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Lol and you hate black men. We may have something in common :p
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:48 AM
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Lol you’re a man hating child free woman. I’m not surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:45 AM
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Anyways that’s fine. I’ve always said women these days don’t want to get married. They don’t need men and men don’t need them on an individual basis. You actually don’t need anyone in life. People are just too emotional at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:43 AM
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Actually some of the most misogynistic men I know get laid frequently. One even catcalls women and has 6 attractive women (and more) fighting over him. He’s not the only one. He’s not the only one. Another had ambitious and intelligent women falling for him. Meanwhile I know plenty of mild mannered and hard working men who respect women and women want something serious who are getting ignored, led on or played like fiddles.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:42 AM
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It’s hard to connect with someone who’s emotionally exhausted. I’ve tried my best. They’re so used to playing games and being immature and this lasts all the way past the age of 40. Especially single mothers. Older women are no more mature than their younger counterparts. They just have more wrinkles and are less pleasant
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:36 AM
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So you’re saying that most women have suitable decent and marriageable men in front of them but they just simply refuse to get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:33 AM
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but to be honest I’ve noticed older women tend to be more worn out from their past relationships. I don’t mind the vetting part (it’s very important) but they just tend to be more jaded, tired and unenthusiastic about life. They’re also less physically attractive to boot. Not exactly expired but past their ‘best before’.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:32 AM
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If she had (suitable) options she’d be married by now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:29 AM
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“I’m a PhD”-Kevin Samuels show
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:28 AM
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Argh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:52 AM
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Please advice me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 07:18 AM
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Who said I buy Chinese products?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 03:58 PM
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Believe what you want to. I believe in doing what works but there are some lines I just won’t cross.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 12:44 PM
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Sex tourism. In certain countries parents will prostitute their daughters to foreigners in order to make money.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 12:36 PM
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I don’t know man. For me personally women maximising their own benefits whilst neglecting men does not justify going overseas and taking advantage of or borderline raping women in 3rd world countries. If it’s consensual that’s fine but not paying to have sex with trafficked humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 11:25 AM
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Ok that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:17 AM
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Actually he’s right. I’ve noticed assholes on average do tend to have more self respect as they put themselves first and won’t bend over backwards to please other people. I’m not saying nice people can’t have boundaries but they tend to get taken advantage of and let themselves get disrespected more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 07:28 AM
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It’s mostly irrelevant in my personal observations. The woman is either attracted or she’s not. Being nice can help you in a minuscule (like 0.5%) portion of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 06:54 AM
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They will lie to portray confidence but deep down they have an accurate assessment of themselves. Short and fat men as well. Men who aren’t particularly short or fat are the most delusional because people will rate them 7/10 and they’ll believe it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 06:12 PM
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Quite a few (literally seems like every 3rd or 5th woman) but then again I’m from a country with one of if not the highest rate of single motherhood. Most of them actually aren’t single though. They just aren’t with the father of their kids (they have a bf).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 05:09 PM
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Now I’m tempted
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 05:08 PM
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Women will lie but they have a more accurate assessment of their own smv. Men actually overestimate their own smv.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 04:35 PM
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‘Smart’ women are firstly rare. The vast majority of men and women are average so as a man with limited options you try and appeal to the majority. Also ‘smart’ women tend to be boring, prudish, aggressive and actually more difficult to obtain than the typically dumb women. Imagine jumping through hoops for a dead bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 10:06 AM
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That’s fair
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 07:14 AM
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We agree on something
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 09:50 PM
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It doesn’t infringe but I don’t think you wolf want someone who’s just with you for provisioning
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 09:29 PM
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Either way I’d rather sleep with someone who desires me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 01:13 PM
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Yeah it’s still kinda lame . Men aren’t entitled to a dating life and I say this as a borderline incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 01:05 PM
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Stable in what sense? If they can’t get the alpha provider then they’d just stay single. Pretty much similar to what’s happening how. Anyways I don’t know why you want to force a woman to only be with you for your provisioning. It’s kinda lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 10:52 AM
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30
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 09:37 AM
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Nah. It’s ok. If I’m meant to be single then so be it. Braces are so expensive and I’m already old.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 09:15 AM
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I’ve been told by women that My hygiene is great and have been described as ‘clean’ and ‘metrosexual’. They even come to me for financial and general advice. I’ve even heard I would make a great bf (to someone else). Unfortunately I’ve also been told that my face is ugly. I would go for ‘ugly’ women but any woman who puts even half the effort I do into self improvement isn’t ugly. She can get an above average guy. I’m starting from a serious deficit. For a woman to be my match or perceived she l…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 09:14 AM
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Who’s problem is that? Women would rather be single than settle. More men should be like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 09:02 AM
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I’m even more fucked than I originally thought
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:56 AM
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Aren’t you the one who emphasised height and facial attractiveness? I can’t say much for other men but I personally don’t have of a high ceiling in terms of my physical potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:56 AM
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I’ve realized that women rate themselves accurately but it doesn’t mean they want to settle down with someone at or below their level.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:54 AM
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Loool. I love your reply. These pua types are truly delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:49 AM
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He lost his virginity to a prostitute maybe edit: actually that’s worse. The girl would probably instantly dump the guy in 9/10 times.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:39 AM
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They would not pick the beta if their standards went up. They’d still aim for the alpha provider . Your chances would go down even further.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 07:42 AM
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Let them take the country then.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 07:38 AM
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Prostitution would not assist in the dating situation. Most incels actaully want to be desired which is why they’re against beta buxxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 07:37 AM
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Prostitution won’t solve much. We (men) want to be desired not to pay to basically rape some desperate woman. That’s just as bad as beta buxxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 07:35 AM
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London is beautiful. Have you been on that boat ride across the river by Big Ben? Did you go to any football stadiums? Which stations did you pass by? Which side of London? (North, west etc) Have you visited Buckingham palace?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 12:49 PM
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Damn. Why’d you let her go? How was the sex? So many questions
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 12:46 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 08:34 AM
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I knew you were black before I saw the emoji
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 08:17 AM
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Just like Steph is cold they profit off of hypocritical thirsty guys stuck in their anger phase. Whilst the redpill has a role to play there’s a point where you have to move on and do what you can with the information presented. It’s all really pathetic to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 06:57 AM
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*are not only 100% looks based I made a mistake
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 12:35 AM
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Women are only 100% looks based. Looks are priority but there are other factors considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 12:29 AM
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Women get a ton of validation these days. Being Chad will get you far with a lot of women but it’s not nearly enough on its own anymore. Stacey has A-list celebrities hitting on her now. It’s ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 12:20 AM
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Nice. Fuck them and don’t get emotionally attracted.Also don’t get trapped with a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:38 PM
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Maybe pump and dump the more attractive ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 06:11 PM
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Fine by me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:52 PM
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Other people have already answered you. Chad has to put in more effort for Stacey and in most cases she will probably not give him as much as a less hot looking woman would for the same amount of effort. Beckie is more likely to treat him better and fulfil all his sexual desires with no hesitation. A borderline femcel would treat him like a literal god and that’s worth a lot to men. Stacey would want a Chad that earns a lot of money, put in lots of effort and treats her well. Those are in rare s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:07 PM
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Women value things other than looks but looks are still a huge priority and Chad is a first round pick. It doesn’t necessarily mean they’re going to chase after him or give him an easy pass. It happens sometimes but women aren’t that thirsty. He just has it relatively easier than the other 90%+ of men some of which although average looking stand almost zero chance. Think of Stacey as an Ivy League University, Chad as an A+ student and the vast majority of men as B/C students. The A+ student is n…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:26 PM
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Chad does get Stacey. It just depends how the first 1 or 2 Chads treats her. The other thing you have to note is that whilst Chad is rare there are still plenty of Chads/Chadlites and there’s always a ‘bigger and better’ Chad around the corner. It doesn’t help that one man might hit on or court 100s of women by his lonesome self so Chad would get around. Also note that Chad himself gets bored and there’s always another Stacey or Beckie around the corner. I mean ask yourself. When you watch (or u…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:17 PM
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The weird thing is that hen you accept things for what they are the hate starts to go away. You will still feel frustration at times but at some point you’re calm. You accept things for what they are. In my case I’m willing to keep gaming women even if I’m currently talking to 1/2 women because i know how flaky and fickle they can be. When they do eventually ghost or flake I accept it for what it is and keep it moving. I try not to expect too much from them. Maybe that’s part of being numb but I…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:03 PM
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Nah she did the right thing. Some dudes are crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 09:12 AM
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From my experience it’s more that you’ll ask out 10 women. Assuming 9/10 will not be interested in you (typically more for the average or below average man). You ask out all 10. Half of them might be decent but either have no context if you (who you are), are already in a relationship or simply aren’t interested. Out of the remaining 5 4 of them are not very decent people. Hence they will accept your date offer simply to pass time or get a free meal. Depending on how indecent they are they might…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 09:11 AM
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Nah. If you had to express serious interest in dating them there’s a good chance they’d reciprocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 09:03 AM
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Enjoy the sex for 2 years then bounce
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 08:32 AM
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Use it to your advantage. Build up that animosity and resentment. Once you’ve won her over than start gaming the next woman and the next. Feel free to lie to her and lead her on. After all you worked hard for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 08:30 AM
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‘I’m a PhD’-Kevin Samuels
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 08:25 AM
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From what I understand it’s so she doesn’t have to earn her own money. She can basically maintain and improve her life without anymore effort on her part. He will also solve all her other problems of loneliness etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 06:22 AM
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It’s something I’ve noticed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 04:50 PM
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Loool well men are hardwired both biological and by society to chase women. It’s a way of convincing yourself. You’re supposed to move on at some point but I guess many can’t let go of their obsession.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:34 PM
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Polygamy is practiced in other parts of the world. Why wouldn’t women want the best most alpha guy possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:32 PM
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I agree with that last point
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:31 PM
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Doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 12:35 PM
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Does it really? I know late 30s running around happily childless
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 08:11 AM
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So women by 22 are usually ‘spent’?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 08:10 AM
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What of the women who can provide for themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 05:03 AM
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At 21!?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 03:11 AM
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Thank you for the comprehensive answer. I guess it all makes sense. I also do feel that pressure to continue my lineage even though I’d rather not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 03:10 AM
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Hmm…This is weird. She seems like she’s from a certain part of Africa and from my anecdotal observations the women from that part of Africa would be better off single.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 03:03 AM
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Also if they really wanted to settle down it can’t be that hard to find a relatively HVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 03:00 AM
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Thank you for your perspective. This is interesting. I’m so convinced that women don’t want men but when I think about it even the women on FDS who think 99% of men are scrotes are still on a dating subreddit at the end of the day. Do you think they ever lower their standards to a point where a well put together (good money, style/dress sense and in shape) but facially unattractive man has a chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 03:00 AM
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The blackpill is simply that looks are more important to women then convention advice would have you believe. It doesn’t mean that Chad will be a bad person all the time or that women will put up with everything he does. He just has more of a chance and leeway. I agree with your definition of the blackpill but there is nuance that even incels miss.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:54 AM
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It depends on the man and where they’re at. I’ve wanted both sex with different hot women and with just one woman that I’m really into and find attractive. I’m probably going to settle for almost any warm body at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:53 PM
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Most men are programmed to see a relationship as the only path to happiness hence why mgtow for the most part is one huge failure. An accompanying high sex drive doesn’t help.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:41 PM
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Sounds like the dream
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:32 PM
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That’s true. For me I would just like sex and physical intimacy. I’d rather not pay for it. That’s the only thing a relationship would be good for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:31 PM
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Men really are irrelevant now
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:18 PM
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Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:15 PM
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They’re interested in a relationship but they’re fine being alone if their standards aren’t met unlike men who constantly chase after women and go so far as to lower their standards. The blackpill is true for the most part. Not 100% but I’d estimate it at 60%+ with other factors coming into play. I’ve actaully observed some of the things talked about on this sub in real life. The difference being that real life men aren’t as vocal or bitter even if they have never had a gf in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:15 PM
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Which makes them horny
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:10 PM
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Nah. Women are wish the Chads and bad boys would be more romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 08:54 PM
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Most men are desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 07:26 PM
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Is that why men are crying over being alone? Men don’t want to be alone. They might not want marriage in particular but they want partner(s) and stand to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 07:25 PM
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*just as ok being alone…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 07:24 PM
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They want to be but they’re just as ok being some unlike men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 07:13 PM
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All they need is what’s between their legs. Men are willing to go to the ends of the earth for it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 07:12 PM
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Maybe the successful ones are just vocal but I’ve noticed even the ones with minimum wage jobs appear happier
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 07:05 PM
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and here I thought you just hated men. You actually have a balanced view.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:59 PM
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Actually I think that they think men are low value anyways and those that get picked are bangmaids.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:57 PM
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I’ve seen single women. They’re genuinely happy it seem so.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:58 PM
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For me I’d worry about being a good partner to the wrong woman. Since the right woman has too many options for you to stick out. She is also hard to find just out and about. In fact she’s usually snatched up. The wrong women tend to be the ones who give you a chance but they’re also the type to be flaky and play games.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:58 PM
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That’s in contrast to what I see on this sub. Most women seem more than willing to go wgtow
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:53 PM
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Congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:47 PM
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and some of the men who want something more aren’t attractive enough
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:46 PM
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Are you wgtow?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:45 PM
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Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:45 PM
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How did you meet your husband and how did he make the cut?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:31 PM
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Are you married or planning on getting married?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:30 PM
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It makes me wonder how they were fulfilling their sexual desires all along
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:30 PM
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Men are really bad at mgtow in practice
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:29 PM
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Men are really bad at mgtow in practice but
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:29 PM
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Congrats to you I guess. Disneyland Anaheim?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:28 PM
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Which route do you plan to take?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:27 PM
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Men (on an individual level) really are of no use to women anymore and they’re finally catching on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:27 PM
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Thank you for the comprehensive answer
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:26 PM
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I’ve accepted that men (on an individual level) have nothing to offer women and they’ve finally caught on. What makes your partner different and how did you meet him?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:23 PM
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Pleas elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:21 PM
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What’s SMBC? Is this trend of less single people in their 30s beginning to change? I’m guessing there will be a lot more single women now. Are you also saying that they want marriage or nothing else?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:20 PM
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I agree with you on the part of men being more afraid to be alone than women. I don’t think men (as individuals) have anything to offer women and they’re starting to catch on. I am surprised that someone is still worried about their sexual desires at 50. I would think one would pretty much just have given up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:18 PM
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So women really don’t care much for men…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:15 PM
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I agree. It’s better to be alone then to forcibly couple with someone
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:14 PM
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Thank you for your feedback. What’s your own stance?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 04:58 PM
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I’m guessing the CF stands for Child free
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 04:57 PM
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It’s self imposed pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 04:57 PM
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.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 12:04 PM
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Doesn’t matter. Women will continue to do as they please. I agree with you to some degree. If people want to place a value on instant attractive then let them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 11:16 AM
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I also like women. I figure that they just don’t like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:52 PM
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lol and all that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:55 PM
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I haven’t even began to lie yet but because of my experiences I don’t blame any guy who has already started lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:47 PM
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I’ve approached and asked out a lot of women out on dates. It’s not the fact that they reject me that gets on my nerves. It’s that they give me their number with no intention of it going any further (instant block) even though I reassure them that it’s ok for them to simply say ‘no’. Some will just toy around with me and play these stupid games. It happens so frequently. It even happened in the last hour. I approached a woman and asked persimmon to engage with her. I then asked her about her int…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:46 PM
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Do you believe that men and women should just leave each other alone (go their own way) and neither has much or anything to offer the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:44 PM
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Being honest with women never helps. They lie, ghost, flake, manipulate etc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:36 PM
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I believe in omitting the truth. Being honest with wen never helps. They lie, ghost, flake, manipulate, stonewall, gaslight etc. I’ve just decided to play the game
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:36 PM
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I agree with him and for me it’s because of the poor treatment that’s accompanied it in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:31 PM
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