marriedandneedadvice Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	Starting over?		marriedandneedadvice	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/20 02:41 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Starting over? For anyone that might be reading, I found this which was crazy scary and enlightening.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/20 07:42 AM
1	Starting over? I had no idea.. yeah that’s exactly what he does. Meanwhile all of his accounts are private. Thank you for putting a name to that, I will be googling financial abuse (ugh)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/20 07:35 AM
4	Starting over? Good idea. He controls the phone plans, bank accounts, everything. That’s cheap enough that maybe I could get family to help.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/20 06:58 AM
3	Starting over? Wow, truly thank you. I didn’t think about taking/hiding sentimental things.. I actually have a ton of homemade photo album/scrapbook type books that he has easy access to and could potentially destroy. And now that I think about it, he has my birth certificate and my SS card in HIS safe in his closet.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/20 06:56 AM
3	Starting over? Thank you for your thoughtful response. I didn’t even think about confronting him in a safe/neutral place so I’m SO glad you suggested that. it’s scary to think how he would react in private especially with how volatile he’s been lately. I think I’m okay recording him.. I’m in Texas. Actually not even 5 minutes ago I got a video of his latest diatribe and it was one of the worst ones yet. Would that really help me in court? Or yeah I just reread you said a potential restraining order.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/20 06:50 AM
2	Starting over? I love that advice. I do need to be careful and calculated before he can sabotage anything. I do have a car, but he pays the note so I’m not sure how that would work. Thank you	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/20 04:49 AM
5	Starting over? I might just start pulling cash out because he “pays” me into a separate account (that he controls) every time he gets paid. So he can see every transaction/money transfer. Or would spy alert him that I’m transferring money? I hate sounding helpless but I do have a kid who is too young for public school, and he never wanted me to put her in daycare, he wanted me to have my “job” be everyone’s ultimate care. So I’m not sure how I would afford daycare right off the bat? (Absolutely appreciate advi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/20 04:44 AM