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I bet she's a past student
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 01:08 PM
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That's exactly what I'm worried about. I feel like he should have bought them sooner. I can see how one might not anticipate it as it was a weekday but we did plan for it in advance so he still should have bought them. In any case, I'm glad I could see my friend instead. I've recognized how necessary it is to show how you want to be treated. I also said I was really disappointed so all I can do now is see what he does. He has been putting effort in so far so I will take this as a caution whereas…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:17 AM
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He's usually working around my schedule and when I went to see my friend the day the movie got sold out he said we could see each other afterwards....I said I wasn't sure about timing so another day would be better and he said ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:56 AM
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Yeah he is really excited about me it seems haha and I think I have been trying to figure out if that is a good thing or not. I feel like I'm mostly worried about getting swept away and hurt if he's a LVM. So far signs have been inconclusive on that so I guess I should just take my time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 11:49 PM
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I just wonder if I'm being too nervous. It has been a couple years and I haven't had all the best experiences while dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 11:37 PM
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Assume?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 02:18 PM
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"I'd like to go through YOUR likes" 🤬 Sorry to break it to to the men of the world but usually our likes are things like fashion, recipes, travel, diys, animal videos, personal development etc. You know things that actually make us more interesting people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 07:33 PM
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BUt If I DatE SOMeOne I jUst wANt to EnjOY OuR TiMe TOgetHer Those agruements annoy me the most. So should I accept your low effort possibly dangerous date so I can prove to you I'm a fun person to be a around? Because tbh if that's the case I'm going to say no since a walk date sounds boring asf. Like maybe after a nice dinner if you have been on a few dates together or a walk date to a ferries wheel or something fun like. Heck a walk plus any kind of fun activity sounds great! But come on? A w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 02:36 AM
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Now I wonder if any guy is good enough for my friends and question everything he does. Gets a little exhausting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 01:48 PM
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I love Hey Violet! Fuqboi is also a good one to listen to!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 11:42 PM
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Ok who here made this 😂 it's so bad but so good. This is a great go to video to show to pickmes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 02:52 AM
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I've had posts removed and I feel like often it was because it didn't have to do with a fetish
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 12:58 AM
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And then to top it all off, we get put down for having trust issues and not wanting to date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 08:10 PM
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Wtf I've already stopped using OLD but this is terrifying! I'm never using it again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 07:59 PM
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This is also something that has been on mind and I can't wrap my head around. I even know of couples where one or both is moving but they decide to date anyways. I guess just for each other's company but the expiration date would make me feel like there could never truly be a connection. Perhaps the point is that they know how it will end so they just want to enjoy the moment and not be shocked when or if it ends. Sounds more like serious commitment issues to me though. I could understand if one…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 02:21 AM
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I'm the same as you! I had to quit the dating apps because I was always swiping left and thinking to myself "omg why are like all guys so unattractive?" Almost made me feel like I should just swipe right on a few but I decided against that. I quit all the dating apps. It is possible to meet a HVM on there but I feel like most of the great guys do not use the apps. Try to enjoy school and do well! I also went to a commuter school and still joined a ton of activities and then eventually got a job …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 11:20 PM
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Her name is Kristina Basham. She's a model, influencer, owns a bakery, and has a masters degree. He does have a pretty high net worth but I'm still confused...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 05:29 PM
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Hmm why didn't he list a single reason of why a woman should "stick around and earn him"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 09:27 PM
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It feels so good. I even ditched dating apps. My skincare routine is on point and I'm feeling fabulous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 02:48 AM
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I don't even know how some of these guys manage to get girlfriends. I did see somewhere he was older and also they are going on a getaway so one would assume he is older than 12 but obviously not maturity wise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:47 PM
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If you don't block him, six happens a few months later where he pretends like nothing happened and starts back at one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 04:28 AM
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I agree with this so much! All of the love languages are important and we show and receive love through all of them. Usually I can barely answer the questions because I like both options and then I end up getting basically a three way tie in the end. Also the hierarchy is a little weird, just because I might appreciate quality time more doesn't mean I never want to receive gifts or flowers! I find it to be not very telling at all and just tells others to ignore the other languages or needs. It's…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 08:32 PM
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I pray that she said no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 08:43 PM
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I'm shocked but not surprised that so many men don't realize an engagement ring is meant to last a long time and that he's going to be looking at it a lot too. It's one thing to maybe spend less because you're not super wealthy (as most people aren't) or at least upgrade it later when you can. It's another to be cheap about and spend more on yourself. To them it's just a piece of jewelry that has no meaning and my bet is they will see the marriage as meaningless too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 08:43 PM
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If you go to the comments there's a bunch of guys saying stuff like "it's his money he can do what he wants. Why doesn't the girl buy the ring?". Meanwhile that guy spent over double on himself. It makes me never want to date again. Edit for spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 05:02 PM
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Serious question, is he 12 or at the oldest a sheltered 16 year old?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 08:32 PM
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Men who shouldn't breed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 08:19 PM
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And any guy who says his ex was crazy probably put her there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 05:01 PM
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My parents divorced when I was young which may partly be the reason for this but growing up and even in high school and early uni, I never saw myself getting married. Now in my late 20s I can maybe see it happening if I meet a really good guy and/or maybe in my mid to late 30s. On the other hand I have had only bad or lackluster relationships and many men I meet are just disrespectful. Sometimes I wonder why do women even get married at all? I feel like if you do meet someone great the companion…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 05:47 PM
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I feel that some of her advice is contradictory also. Recently her instagram has been about whether or not to let the man pay and she is very much on the pro side of letting a man take the bill when dating. I like her advice on that not just because of following fds but also some personal values. I'm all for also treating my guy once I know he's great but the guys who ask to go Dutch on a first date are bad news. One of her pieces of advice lately for that was to not take a man like that serious…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 05:40 AM
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What on earth is a man period?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 07:03 PM
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Replies to the post ​ Follower: Well said! Most importantly, society isn't equal. We get paid less, we are taken less seriously, we are often ignored and forgotten, we are the victims of an incredible amount of violence. Being treated well in this environment is absolutely necessary. Men doing nice things for us is just the bare minimum for what we endure everyday. Of course it's a man writing that comment, how could they understand when they are born with every privilege possible? Anna: Adding …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 06:55 PM
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I have had bad experiences with a guy like this. No one has asked me since but now it is a dealbreaker for me. I have told myself to immediately cut things off and block him if it happens in the future. For some this may seem extreme but for me it is necessary due to the things I have already been through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 03:45 PM
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I remember your post. Glad you're out of that situation and now you can focus on you! Take this time to find out what you want to do and what you want. I always love watching comedies after a breakup and taking lots of bubble baths. Then when I'm starting to feel better, reading up on professional development. Focusing on hobbies and friends is also wonderful. Edit: meant personal development but professional too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 10:20 PM
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100% agree with this. I feel lucky that after an abusive relationship ruined me that I somehow got into an ok (still not the best but not abusive) relationship after that despite the energy I was probably giving off. I could have easily ended up in an equally worse situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 09:58 PM
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I agree with this. She should do what she feels is best for her! and waiting until marriage to move in I don't think is the wrong thing. You get more of an idea of who someone is when you live together though. Also if she does decide to move in then she should be financially stable on her own because then she can leave easier in case things don't work out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 06:51 PM
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Being engaged or married is the only time I would move in with a partner. I think moving in when you're at least engaged is also a good way to see how you can be compatible in home life before you get married too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 06:11 PM
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No matter what, I am always too busy for a last minute date even if I don't actually have plans. To be honest most of the time I do though because I like having a busy schedule and I'm not waiting around for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 06:10 AM
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I think my abusive ex was already at least talking to the girl he saw after me when we were still sorta together. Then after that girl, he was almost immediately in a relationship again. Guys who always need female validation are a red flag to me. There's a difference between dating to find someone and dating to fill a void.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 12:18 AM
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I don't believe this is normal in any part of the world. I once went on a few dates with an Irish guy and he was a complete gentleman. He paid for everything and wouldn't let me pay for something even if I tried.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 05:45 PM
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Not being able to plan a date is my biggest turn off. A guy who is able to plan a fun date really captures my attention. If a guy wants to impress you I feel like he will chose something fun and put thought into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 01:07 AM
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Mirror selfies Says they're a "private" person Comments about hitting on girls or the girls that are supposedly into them Has "rules" you need to follow Calls their ex something rude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 09:23 PM
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I also just don't find most facial hair attractive so I understand exactly what you mean. There are tons of girls out there who love beards so it might come down to it being a preference or incompatibility. I once went on three dates with a man who showed a lot of high value characteristics and was actually really cute. On our first date he was clean shaven because he was about to leave for a wedding but when he came back he had a beard which it looked like he wanted to keep. I just couldn't get…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 06:41 PM
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And my "unpopular opinion" is that I don't want to go on a date with someone who doesn't care enough about me to treat me to a meal every so often.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 09:44 PM
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I recently got myself a water flosser actually! So far I have been liking it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 03:35 PM
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I would ask how and why but I once dated a guy who thought flossing was a sham and only ever changed his toothbrush when I almost had to beg him to. He did go to the dentist at least though. Proper hygiene is a necessity it shouldn't even be a thing that needs to be screened!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 05:23 PM
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I don't know anymore if it's more of a red flag for a guy to post once a week or so or for a guy to say he's a "private person"/"needs to keep things private for his job" so never posts anything 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 03:47 PM
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Yeah I've been wondering about guys who run an account for their job or have a personal account as well as a social media marketing one they run for a company. Recently I've met a few guys who have creative jobs/hobbies so they post photos semi-frequently of either themselves or their work. All pretty classy so I would say it's ok. But what about guys who are creative so they happen to also have friends who are the creative type who take really nice photos of him? Would that be a red flag? Some …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 03:23 PM
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I always buy myself flowers! Oddly, I even did it a couple times when I was in a relationship... I'm not sure how that guy didn't get the idea to get me some 🤷‍♀️ No matter, someone will buy me some one day without me even having to hint at it! For now I'll pick some tulips from the garden.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 08:14 PM
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Like yeah buddy it took you months to realize you didn't just want to string her along and by that time she had lost interest 🤷‍♀️ jeez I wonder why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 04:57 PM
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I don't find it that surprising anymore that my emotionally abusive ex loved Lana Del Rey
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 09:27 PM
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I have never wanted to send nudes. Once a guy manipulated me into doing it. I hate that I did it. No one has has asked me since thankfully but now it is a complete dealbreaker. If a guy asks, he is dumped and blocked no questions asked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 03:59 PM
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