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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 13 | I have found a truly great man but struggle with intimacy | ADVICE | marshmallow_fluffe | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/24 02:32 AM |
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| 2 | I have found a truly great man but struggle with intimacy1) I did go to one but they didn’t seem to be of much help. Like the advice is pretty much “breathe and don’t be anxious” 2) Yes but typically I just masturbate when I’m stressed/anxious to relieve stress 3) nothing about a man desiring me sexually does anything for me, and I’m not sure why | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/04/24 01:11 PM |
| 7 | Men who are not obsessed with women are also demonizedWomen are not criticizing single men for going about their day and then coming home and watching sports or playing video games or being part of their local sports team. Criticizing boorish and immature behavior when your teams wins or loses - yeah. But I’ve never seen women critique single men for watching sports. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 05:19 PM |
| 0 | CMV: the real problem in NYC isn't gender ratio, it's that everyone is marriedIn general, people settle down and marry in their 20’s or early 30’s. I’m a year out of college and half my friends are engaged. The 35 year old guy who’s still trying to hook up or “figuring out his relationship type” to relive college glory days is the abnormal one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 05:14 PM |
| 1 | The reasons for women to want marriage and children are often outweighed by the reasons not to, despite children being necessary for society as a whole3-4 weeks PTO is definitely not enough to cover 8 weeks over the summer, a week of Christmas break, a week of Easter break, February break that a lot of schools have, those random days off that schools get but corporate employees don’t (Rosh Hashanah in my area, Columbus Day, Veteran’s day) etc. Also even if you’re getting out at 4, that’s still earlier than 90% of corporate jobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 01:28 PM |
| 1 | The reasons for women to want marriage and children are often outweighed by the reasons not to, despite children being necessary for society as a wholeIt’s demanding in the qualities of the job but it’s one of the few careers where you’re off for Spring Break, off for the week between Christmas and New Years, etc so you don’t have to dump your kid into daycare on those days. You can also pick up your child at 2pm instead of having them be in daycare from 7am to 6pm. However, the point I’m trying to make is that most single women have careers and aren’t just sitting around “enjoying their youth” until a hard working man picks them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 01:07 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHe wants something long term we met on hinge | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 04:00 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadlol how do I look Maxx in like 2 weeks 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 03:32 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadokay I’m talking to a guy MAJORLY out of my league. I’m a pretty solid 5-6, average weight, short hair which I know is a turn off, glasses, have a pretty good job, nerdy, I consider myself fun and outgoing but a bit tomboyish. Started talking to this guy and he is PERFECT. 6’1”, hunk, engineer, geeky and into all the same stuff I’m into, etc. SO OUT OF MY LEAGUE. Advice???? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 03:27 AM |
| 15 | The reasons for women to want marriage and children are often outweighed by the reasons not to, despite children being necessary for society as a wholeIn America or most developed countries, women are actively advancing their careers just as much as men are. There are plenty of women in business, law, STEM, nursing, etc working just as hard as a man. I would say family oriented women go into more flexible careers for when they have children such as teaching, running a daycare, school counselor/therapist, occupational/physical/speech therapist but that’s a far cry from just “enjoying your youth” until a man picks you. Like the amount of work th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 07:20 PM |
| 31 | The reasons for women to want marriage and children are often outweighed by the reasons not to, despite children being necessary for society as a wholeWhat do you think women do before marriage? Do you think all single women don’t work until they get married? A very small percentage of moms are stay at home moms, especially once their youngest kid is school aged - so if they’re staying home at all it’s typically only for 5-7 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Is there such thing as luck in dating or is it all based on your accomplishments or hard work?Plenty of men want attainable women but they pair off pretty quickly in college or right after college. The ones left are the outliers who either have very high standards, were traveling for a few years, have emotional issues in a relationship, etc. Men on PPD do not represent the average man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 03:51 PM |
| 5 | Is there such thing as luck in dating or is it all based on your accomplishments or hard work?A tall handsome software engineer is 100% not pursuing the size 14-16 with dyed blue hair nerdy woman unless they were together since high school. He would be pursuing a hot nerdy woman if he could find one but otherwise he would be pursuing Stacey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 02:41 PM |
| – | Is it wrong to leave men once you start feeling like the male in the relationship or a motherly figure?I just broke up with my BF because he whined and complained the entire time on basically a free trip that my family took him on and totally ruined the trip for me. Complaining is SO unattractive, on anyone of any gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Is there such thing as luck in dating or is it all based on your accomplishments or hard work?A lot of guys try to just do casual hookups or FWBs so they can feel like players but then they’re scaring away the nerdy or shy girls who aren’t really into that. Not saying you specifically do that but that’s a major problem. No mentally healthy woman wants a FWB. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Is there such thing as luck in dating or is it all based on your accomplishments or hard work?Many of these men think Hollywood stars are “mid”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 01:16 PM |
| 6 | Is there such thing as luck in dating or is it all based on your accomplishments or hard work?No abuser is abusive 100% of the time and very few of them let their true colors slip for the first few dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 01:15 PM |
| 2 | Is sex, then attention the most important thing to women?lol I’m a woman but can’t figure out how to set my flair on mobile 😭😭😭😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 01:14 PM |
| 11 | Is sex, then attention the most important thing to women?I would say charisma and making her feel wanted and valued is the most important thing. Working more and providing means nothing if she feels like a bangmaid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 12:27 PM |
| 10 | Is there such thing as luck in dating or is it all based on your accomplishments or hard work?When men talk about “women” here, they mean very conventionally attractive, size 0-2, very socially adept women between age 18-25 who lead lifestyles that consist of partying with Chad and clubbing 4 times a week. The concept of a woman who is nerdier or more introverted, enjoys going to the movies or trivia or maybe occasionally a brunch with the girls, and doesn’t look like a porn actress is legit a foreign concept to these men. Most women are not hooking up with Chad on the weekends. Men do n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 12:21 PM |
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