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my narcissistic abusive ex did this. said he was 6’1 but was actually 5’10. it will be the first of many compulsive lies he will tell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 06:47 PM
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My ex claimed he ‘sleep-fucked’ and likened it to sleep-walking or sleep-talking. He would roll over at literally any time of the night when I’d be fast asleep and mount me like Khal Drogo and pound away - not even finish a lot of the time - and roll back over to sleep. He had the audacity to claim this was something he was unconscious of doing. It was awful. Fucking rapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 07:16 PM
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A message I received in my DM’s following this post from a porn addict active in NoFap: ‘Going to a random party alone when you're in a relationship is basically prediction for cheating. Fucking horndogs everywhere and the alcohol making you unconcious of your own behaviour until it happens, smdh. If a girl is in a relationship, then her body/sexuality only belongs to her boyfriend visually as well as tactilely. If she ever needs "AtTeNtIoN" from other men, then she is seriously far away from no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:40 PM
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Congratulations! An amazing achievement!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:29 AM
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I aspire to emulate that Big Hen Energy...not a single fuck given.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:36 PM
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Gorgeous flowers! So lovely and bright.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:49 PM
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I have mixed feelings about this. My surname sucks and my father is toxic af and we don’t have a good relationship. To rid myself of my surname would be a blessing. I understand comments about changing your name implying ownership to your husband, but keeping my maiden name would similarly tie me to a misogynistic patriarch. If anything, I’d consider changing my surname to my mother’s maiden name or change it to something that I chose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:31 PM
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Some of my recent favourites: Girl, Woman, Other by Bernardine Evaristo The Bluest Eye by Toni Morrison Homebody by Rupi Kaur
/r/askFDS02/04/21 09:12 PM
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The depravity never ceases to amaze me. Very sorry for your loss ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 04:01 PM
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Congratulations on ending things! Enjoy this new chapter of freedom, positivity and happiness ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 03:59 PM
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I’m so happy for you and your journey of healing! 💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 03:56 PM
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I watched it for free on a seedy website. I will pay to watch it again when it’s available to stream in my country.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 02:48 PM
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I just watched Promising Young Woman and it was fucking epic. I haven’t felt so empowered, enraged and fired up from watching a movie in a long time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 09:09 PM
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Beautiful words! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 07:49 AM
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No, Queen. We move on from this LVM. He has straight up told you he doesn’t want to commit to you so we must listen to that and believe him. If he was really sure about wanting to be with you, you would know and there would never be any doubt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 10:07 PM
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Firstly, it depends what he did/how he messed up in the first place. What did he do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 09:50 PM
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Here for this! Keep on loving yourself the way you deserve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 09:50 PM
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This picture is gorgeous 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:52 AM
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This unlocked a terrible memory from when I was making out with this guy and he proceeded to literally TEAR my tights off as if he thought he was the hulk. I was mortified. Why not just take them off like a sane person? Instead of irreparably damaging my clothes 😤In the trash they had to go, along with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:50 AM
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It’s a male ego thing. They see buff actors doing it in raunchy movies (or more likely, in p*rn 🤢) and then think they are the sex gods that will be able to replicate it. And even if they can manage, he will still perform disappointingly. No, sir. Save us both the embarrassment and let me pop it off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:46 AM
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My last Valentine dumped me over a voicemail which I listened to and cried over in the cheese aisle of the supermarket. His reasons were that I was ‘crazy’ and that I need to ‘take some anti-depressants’ because I was sad all the time. No shit was I sad all the time with you, you abusive fuck! I’m with someone else now who is very kind to me and this Valentine’s Day was wonderful. I am happy that you found happiness Queen! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 07:24 AM
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Drop him. Red flag after red flag. 🚩It reads to me as if you’re almost his sugar baby but without that much sugar IMO. You’ve been dating and hooking up since LAST SUMMER and he hasn’t wanted to make it exclusive by now? 🚩You’re a rebound from his divorce 🚩and he’s feeding you breadcrumbs to keep you interested enough that you’ll continue entertaining him. 🚩Three roses is not even enough to be considered a bouquet. If he wanted to make the effort, he would...and he DIDN’T. He has the financial m…
/r/askFDS13/02/21 09:04 PM
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I love reading over there but it doesn’t let me comment or anything! I try and post and every time it says ‘Sorry, comment discarded.’ Have I been banned or something? So confused!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 05:18 PM
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My ex-NVM was a cokehead, pill taker and binge drinker and the abuse he made me suffer was insurmountable. Me, being naive, didn’t realise he was even using until he came home late one night with bleeding fists (from fighting, he loved to fight) and had a ‘breakdown’ where he confessed to his drug use. He was angry, nasty, confrontational and subjected me to all kinds of emotional, physical and sexual abuse. Having never touched drugs myself, and not moving in circles of friends that did so eith…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 10:29 AM
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Oh, I’m sorry to hear that. You deserve so much better. What are you going to do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 07:22 AM
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What did you find with your current boyfriend? If you don’t mind me asking, of course
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 10:02 PM
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I met mine in work. We work in a psychiatric hospital. He works on the male ward and I on the female. He is loved by staff and patients alike. He is the kindest soul and gentlest human. He literally worships the ground I walk on. I couldn’t ask for anyone better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 10:12 PM
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He violated your boundaries. I’m proud of you for ending it. We’re here for you. I’m so sorry this happened. Sending you strength and love ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 10:10 PM
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I could refute almost every sentence and accusation in your comment but it’s not worth the time. I used to have guys message me on social media, of course, but when I got into a relationship I removed anyone that was a ‘hook up’ or from OLD. Any other guy that messages me otherwise, in that manner, is blocked and deleted. Insults and immaturity aren’t going to get you far in this community. Do what you please at your own detriment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 06:25 AM
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Girl, sorry if what I’m going to say seems blunt. This creepy guy only wants to hook up with you again. He’s not ‘really into you’ - he just wants another memory for the spank bank. He’s manipulating you into thinking you’re special by remembering mundane facts. Also, take a look at yourself and your actions. Would your partner of 5 years be happy with you having conversations with a past hook up, reminiscing about how you both fucked each other once upon a time? That’s totally uncool. How would…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 06:06 AM
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At least he showed himself to be a disgusting human being so early on. A bullet dodged Queen! Onwards and upwards ❤️👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 10:18 PM
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They are beautiful! How thoughtful of him. You deserve it Queen 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 08:56 PM
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Butters my croissant! 😭I’m shaking laughing trying not to wake up my SO next to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 07:09 AM
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And all that ‘catering’ she did didn’t stop her getting cheated on. And she stayed with him. Jesus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 11:30 AM
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We are all here for you sister! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 03:12 PM
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So, he cheated on you and that wasn’t enough to leave him immediately? He puts you down in front of his friends and that wasn’t enough to leave immediately? Good heavens above. Get OUT! Leave him in the trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 08:46 PM
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I was abused for a year with my narc-ex. I thought there was no hope for love after him. But, so far, I’ve been proven wrong. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 07:41 PM
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We met at work. We work in a psychiatric hospital together. He’s amazing. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 07:40 PM
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No, I’m holding it. My hand is just out of the shot 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 09:29 PM
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Welcome sister! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:53 PM
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I feel like you’re focusing too much on what men think of you. Don’t seek validation from them. Don’t try and find your self-worth in their words. You obviously see a lot in yourself that you like. Continue to focus on levelling up and working on yourself. Surround yourself with like-minded people, be busy with hobbies and pay no mind to what a man may think about your appearance. It’s only a waste of your precious time and energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 05:24 PM
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I actually belly-laughed at that second sentence 😂 I feel so much pity for this girl...let’s hope she discovers FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:49 PM
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I watched this. She was vulnerable and was the perfect victim for a narcissistic psychopath. She had previously been in an abusive marriage and was suffering with terrible physical health problems. I’m struggling to put into words my thoughts about it too. I read the police reports on this case and the details are too horrifying to relay. It just makes me sick knowing that men out there are capable of such depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 10:37 PM
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Yes, I agree with /u/ps9939 I wouldn’t bother sending him all that. I think a day time activity followed by dinner is a nice idea. What kind of day time activity would you be interested in? How do you feel about this guy? What has he been like on your previous dates?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 06:42 AM
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I don’t know what is more delicious - that response or that lunch!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 07:08 PM
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I would consider it very much over, if I were you. There’s so much wrong with that and /u/warinmymind94 summed it up perfectly. Men are replaceable, never forget it queen 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:09 PM
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Boy, good BYE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:06 PM
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Sort of during COVID, but I had known him a couple months prior. We both work together in a hospital where we look after vulnerable adults with autism, learning disabilities and mental health issues. He’s amazing with the patients and everyone at work adores him. He asked me out just before lockdown and we’ve been dating ever since. He’s the kindest man I’ve ever been with. He’s sensitive and caring, buys me flowers, treats me like a Queen. Family-orientated and so damnnnn handsome. He’s not int…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:16 AM
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