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| 1 | Coffee shopsFuck off asshole. This is so wrong I don't know whether to cringe or laugh. | /r/seduction | 27/11/19 11:32 PM |
| 2 | What is she getting at? Want some advice.The only advice to give you is to stop being a pussy and ask her out. | /r/seduction | 27/11/19 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Best places to meet new women?I don't think many people would disagree with you. I love hiking and soccer however, it is true that resistance training is the most efficient "bang for your buck" way to improve your health. But it's also the combination of positive values a gym brings. I could name many more reasons why I believe a gym is worth investing in, but I feel as though I'd be wasting our time. If you don't think I'd be wasting our time, I'd love to go into it. | /r/seduction | 25/07/19 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Got the hostess number!Love it! This makes me feel happy. You never know when you will connect with another beautiful soul. | /r/seduction | 25/07/19 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Guys, can you truly have sex with no strings attached?Yes, it is possible. As far as your situation... I'm afraid I don't have much advice. This is more of a r/relationshipadvice thread. | /r/seduction | 25/07/19 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Best places to meet new women?The gym has been the main place where I've made relationships with woman for the past eight or so years, although I wouldn't say it's the best, it is pretty good to have in your life. Going to the gym should be something you are doing on a semi regular basis anyways. You go to the gym to improve your health, and on the side you should make friends and maybe a girlfriend. | /r/seduction | 24/07/19 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Guys, can you truly have sex with no strings attached?If he's giving you a lot of non-sexual attention, and he's not fucking other woman, then it's likely he does have feelings for you. By not attractive enough, I don't just mean pretty, I mean the woman as a whole. I get the idea you want a committed relationship with him. Have you talked about it? | /r/seduction | 24/07/19 03:13 PM |
| 2 | She’s definitely interested - gym pickupYeah no problem. No need to force it or anything. | /r/seduction | 24/07/19 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Guys, can you truly have sex with no strings attached?Yes, under certain circumstances of course. Those circumstances mostly fall under she isn't attractive enough to me to be my girlfriend. | /r/seduction | 23/07/19 09:53 PM |
| 2 | She’s definitely interested - gym pickupUpdate me when you do end up saying hello. Just like the others said, don't overthink it. Just have a chat, if she doesn't seem interested, it's no biggie, just move on. | /r/seduction | 23/07/19 09:47 PM |
| 2 | She’s definitely interested - gym pickupGreetings, gym pickup is my primary way of meeting woman. I've been doing it for probably around 8 years now, and have developed a simple, laid-back strategy that is just second nature. Usually I have 1-2 girls at a time I'm dating at the same gym. Sometimes even 3. If a girl is looking at you or smiling at you then just go talk to her, I don't care where you are (generally). The gym is not an excuse to puss out. A good opener for the gym is "Hey, what are you working on today?" Then you just ha… | /r/seduction | 23/07/19 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Any advice specifically for dating just before the transition to university?If it were me, I'd walk up to her and say "Hey Katie, we should go do x." You could preface it with "You're cute." or "What are you up to this weekend?" or "Do you like x? Cool, let's go do that saturday night. What's your phone number, I'll text you." It doesn't really matter, just ask her out. That's what I do, and sometimes they say yes, sometimes they say no, sometimes they make of some shit excuses. Be sociable, and figure it out as you go. | /r/seduction | 13/07/19 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Any advice specifically for dating just before the transition to university?Uhhh okay all of that's great but have you asked her out? | /r/seduction | 13/07/19 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Doing all fine until...There's not a whole lot of context here but here's some thoughts. She's probably talking to other guys. She might have a certain guy that she really likes, and wants to be available for him. You might have pursued too much. You shouldn't ever ask for a relationship. It should be her idea. She just might not be ready for a relationship with you yet. You could give it some time, and maybe back off a little bit. Let her think about you. I'd check out Corey Waynes work. He has a great book which you… | /r/seduction | 12/07/19 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Girl at work messing with me or signals?Holy fuck you are clueless! How about you ask her out. | /r/seduction | 11/07/19 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Update: I got rejected by co-worker yesterday and everything has been totally normalAmazing my brother. Always keep it pushing. Rejection has no effect on us. I currently have two girls I am like this with at work. One coworker, and one customer. All the while, I am continuing to meet and talk to other girls as they come into my presence. | /r/seduction | 11/07/19 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Racial barrier (and maybe height barrier?) in my area is seemingly impossible to overcome. What to do next?I'm here to assure you being black is not relevant. Get that out of your head so that you can focus on what is relevant. I'm just going to ignore your height bullshit. | /r/seduction | 11/07/19 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Why so much hateExactly! Agreed. | /r/seduction | 11/07/19 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Why so much hateMy advice is don't call yourself a PUA. Just consider yourself someone who loves to be social. Or someone who is constantly trying to become a better person. Then all of a sudden it's not weird, even though that is what PUA truly is. Self development. Most people just don't understand because they think of the aggressive, manipulative, immoral PUAs. | /r/seduction | 11/07/19 09:54 PM |
| 1 | So we banged now what..?If it were really bad, I wouldn't reply. It's just some constructive criticism. Take it or leave it. We enjoy helping our brothers. We do not enjoy deciphering digital chicken scratch. It's not a bad thing, nor is it asking too much, to work on improving our digital communication skills. Take it or leave it. | /r/seduction | 09/07/19 10:41 PM |
| 1 | How do I meet girls besides nightgame and daygame when I don’t have a reliable social circle and hobbies don’t helpYou have to find an area where there are girls. If there are no girls for everything you do in your life, then you need to find new shit. Pretty simple. Either you need to go to a new uni, find new friends, go to new places for your hobbies, find new hobbies. Or if there isn't any attractive girls in your country then go to another country. The point is, in order to talk to girls, there has to be girls around you. Change your life to make that happen. The places you go to where there are girls, … | /r/seduction | 09/07/19 10:23 PM |
| 1 | How do I meet girls besides nightgame and daygame when I don’t have a reliable social circle and hobbies don’t helpThe gym has been my main pick up area for the past five years. There is a technique to it though. | /r/seduction | 09/07/19 10:05 PM |
| 1 | So we banged now what..?You don't want a relationship with her huh? Okay here some simple quick tips. Use the phone to set up dates. You can reply to her texts, but don't text her all day or even frequently. Your goal is to have her initiating contact 80-100% of the time. In the mean time you can set up a date with her like once a week. Answering your question: Yes, that's how it should ideally and usually does go after you fuck a woman. Yes that is the correct thing to do. Learn how to type, or better your English so … | /r/seduction | 09/07/19 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Online datingMission accepted my brother! | /r/seduction | 09/07/19 09:40 PM |
| 3 | Should I go or not?Don't go if you are going to be a downie. Go if you are going to hang out with your buddies and socialize with other people. I don't drink alcohol either, that doesn't stop me from having fun. You never fucking know, you might have a blast even without going home with a girl. Or you might bang the girl of your dreams. | /r/seduction | 09/07/19 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Are these IoIs?You are answering your own questions. She wants you to talk to her. "It's really nice to see you here." Are you fucking kidding me? Get off reddit and ask her out. | /r/seduction | 09/07/19 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Feeling very uncomfortable after reading: My Secret Garden - Nancy FridayTruth my neighbor. | /r/seduction | 09/07/19 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Semi-sexual talk with baristaIf she's spending the time and energy to smile at you and have a conversation about that, it's worth assuming she wants to talk to you more. Ask her out. Edit: Related story: One of my exes was a gymnast/cheerleader. She had a bunch of hip problems, the first time (and not last) we had sex involved massaging her hips, leading to banging. | /r/seduction | 08/07/19 06:45 PM |
| 5 | where are some places that I can chill with a girl. im 19I like parks, nature centers, smoothies, juice places, gym, ice cream. I also enjoy places where you can get snacks/drinks at a counter like starbucks. Basically all the normal shit but without alcohol, which is over rated IMO but I rarely drink. Or at your apartment. If you still live with your parents, you should probably think about working towards finding your own place. | /r/seduction | 08/07/19 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Girl has suddenly stopped giving me eye contactTips for what? Learning how to talk to groups of people? Edit: You could just practice. If groups of guys makes you feel more comfortable you begin with that. Today at starbucks I met two guys who were into film. We exchanged instagrams and talked about cameras, cyber security, and business. Look up videos, there's plenty of teachers that can you help you out. Maybe Charisma on Command is a good channel for you. Read How to Win Friends and Influence People. | /r/seduction | 05/07/19 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Clarifying your intentFair enough, that totally makes sense. I'm not saying I never do it either. Definitely in some cases it can save you a lot of time and effort. | /r/seduction | 05/07/19 08:16 PM |
| 3 | Question on neediness and textingDon't just ask like you are busy, be busy motherfucker. Go do shit. | /r/seduction | 04/07/19 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Question on neediness and textingFind something else to do in your life other than worry about your gf. Some people call this a purpose, passion, goals whatever it is. Then just use the phone to set up dates. If she texts you, you can text her back, but it's not your priority. Ideally she should be initiating contact 90% of the time. | /r/seduction | 04/07/19 10:32 PM |
| 4 | Girl has suddenly stopped giving me eye contactWalk up and say "What's your name?". If her friends are right next to her, you ask them their names too. Then you TALK to them. At some point you can tell her she's cute or whatever and ask for her number. | /r/seduction | 04/07/19 10:19 PM |
| 3 | Girl has suddenly stopped giving me eye contactShe figured out you didn't have the balls to approach her. Lesson learned my brother. I think we all know what you should have done. But MUH friendsssss. To that I say, learn how to talk to groups. | /r/seduction | 04/07/19 10:16 PM |
| 3 | what to reply to tinder who who flaked coffee date?Don't reply, wait a week, ask her again. If the same shit happens, or it doesn't seem like she wants to make plans, move on. Keep it moving. | /r/seduction | 04/07/19 10:12 PM |
| 7 | (QUESTION) Pet Store worker really into meShe's begging for you to ask her out bro. I would have asked her out way earlier even if her coworkers were there. At this point, since she liked your instagram pic, she wants your attention. Just hit her up on instagram. | /r/seduction | 04/07/19 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Strong eye contact at the bar, but didn’t know what to say. Suggestions?"Hey, what's your name?" Then socialize. | /r/seduction | 04/07/19 09:58 PM |
| 5 | First date reviewWhat kind of loaded question is that? Of course you can enjoy the company of someone without thinking about sex all the time. Is 7 hours a long time to wait to have sex? Is that what you are asking me? 7 hours is a long date my friend. If y'all are connecting, and you want to have sex, then go for it. It can take 10 minutes for someone to become comfortable with you, or it can take multiple dates. 7 hours is not a long time to hang out with someone on a first date IF you have nothing to do in yo… | /r/seduction | 04/07/19 09:28 PM |
| 1 | InsecureBroad question so here's a broad answer. Start with watching good self development youtube channels, and reading self-dev books. Then APPLY what you learn. How to Win Friends and Influence People is a classic GOLD mine. Edit: Check out Corey Wayne on YT too. Focus on making yourself a better person in every aspect. Between work, school, and gym you should be able to make some connections with people. Instead of spending time on instagram, go do something like a hobby, or go to an event. You alre… | /r/seduction | 04/07/19 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Clarifying your intentGlad you found something that works for you! Keep it up! IMO, it's too logical for girls to handle. We all know girls make decisions based on their emotions. You have to make them FEEL attracted, and sometimes it takes a couple minutes or hours. So you could ask her to clarify her intent, but she's not so sure yet, so she will give you the "friends" answer. OR you could go along the date assuming she is attracted, and see how she responds to you as the date goes. If she doesn't want to go back t… | /r/seduction | 04/07/19 04:42 PM |
| 1 | First date review7 hours is a hell of a lot of time to hangout with a girl. Unless you live with your parents, you should have asked her over to your place earlier. Nonetheless, she still has high interest. Just don't over pursue and you will be fine. Give it some time, don't text her all day. In a couple days, text her and plan for a meetup and you are good to go. | /r/seduction | 04/07/19 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Developed a serious case of Oneitis. Idk what my next approach needs to beWho gives a fuck if you get rejected again. You see her everyday, so what. You can still be friendly and work with people you get rejected by at a restaurant job. Get some fucking balls and either tell her you don't want to be friends, work up something physical interaction, or talk sexually and see how she responds. If you do just want to be friends only, then keep doing the same shit you are doing. Personally I don't care to hangout with girls unless we are more than friends, but that's up to … | /r/seduction | 03/07/19 06:25 PM |
| 1 | This girl seems to have mixed feelings, not sure.Her interest level isn't very high. Ask her when she is available to meet up. If she gives a vague answer you can either leave it, or tell her to hit you when she wants to meet up. | /r/seduction | 03/07/19 06:10 PM |
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