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Youre incorrect saying that men dont want the same emotional loyal love or 'disney' love as you put it that girls do. Not yourself as you say, and maybe not your male friends/family members which is a bit sad, but that doesn't mean you should insult the remainder of the male species. I think men are just as emotionally intelligent as women and they are capable of the same level of compassion and care, and more often than not they will desire a love that makes them WANT to make the other person f…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:59 AM
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I reckon u need to do some research. Im guessing ur like 14 and maybe dont understand the contradictions ur making but even the article you sent kinda proves you wrong about your patriachy claims. Maybe start off by googling the feminist movement and how it benefits men? then maybe google the effects of the patriachy?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 04:33 PM
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i sincerely hope u dont die a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 04:21 PM
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idk where you live but it must be in some first-world fantasy land. Women are still being denied an education all over the world. They are still being killed/abused/raped all over the world without any consequence. They are still considered not as valuable, not as intelligent and not as worthy of respect as you have so clearly proven in your frankly plain misogynistic rant. No, it is by their own actions and deeds, their endless demands such that no matter how much they are advantaged and men ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 04:14 PM
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well the flaw in that logic is that most men arent sexy, successful, progressive environmentalists like Dicaprio :( men such as yourself come off as misogynistic which is a turn off sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 04:06 PM
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What fucking patriarchy? More degrees, more money, more choice, better health, do what you want when you want why you want, what the fuck more do you greedy fucking beggars want before you will be satisfied? The patriarchy as in the social heirarchy that place men above women. Women will be satisfied when that changes, and they have equal access to education, human rights, freedom, safety, respect etc. The fact that you seem to be referring to women as greedy fucking beggars kinda proves the inf…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 03:57 PM
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Of course, you should be nice to everyone otherwise they wont want to be around you. You should make an extra effort to understand and reach out to someone you want a relationship with. Like you say this doesnt always work, and not everyone is gonna want to date you, maybe majority dont want to date you. But at the end of the day, girls want someone kind, not someone mean. Thats not gonna ensure a long term commited relationship, but doing the opposite ensures that you wont get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 03:52 PM
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Sure, some girls will friendzone you even if you are nice but thats the way of life and u kinda just gotta accept it. If youre not nice, they wont friendzone you or want to be around you at all. The fastest way to get a girl longterm is to be kind and show her you respect her and are gonna treat her right - otherwise why would she choose you over someone whos exactly like you but just not a dickhead? The salary preference is starting to shift. The rise of feminism has taken the pressure off men …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:56 PM
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Emotions will be felt, even when repressed. Sure, some people can repress their emotions until they seemingly dissipate but this isnt healthy and longterm will result in lower empathy, emotional control and higher irritability. Most short term emotions that are repressed will arise as angry outbursts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:49 PM
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I think love is what OP described above. Its a deep devotion for someone, a desire to see them happy, a deep emotional bond. It can be different for everyone, but I think overall its a deep respect, care, comfort and kindness between people and the trust that it wont be broken. Idk if you have ever been in a LTR but def all the guys I know 100% have had better sexual experiences. Most men in LTR will say the better you know your sexual partner, the greater the connection, loyalty and trust, the …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:46 PM
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Why do u think older women have emotional baggage? Because they have been fcked with by older men who prey on them becuse theyre all new. As a young woman, I can say most men (and women) have a ton of trauma/emotional baggage, and in men it usually presents itself through ideologies such as your own. But give the young girls u prey on a few years and theyll realise ur just a sad older guy with mummy issues. Youll be the one giving her a headache with ur constant need for control and ur emotional…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:36 PM
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My boyfriend has cried with me so many times, hes cried to me and I to him, and each time I feel so in love and protective of him. My male friends will come to me with mental health problems, drunk crying etc. and I always have the deepest respect for their emotions. Im sorry if youve been made to feel this way in the past, but women actually value emotional intelligence in men, and would much rather you cry to them instead of your emotions being expressed in anger later.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:25 PM
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Thats so sad - love can be so fulfilling and most people will say that this type of deep emotional love is the greatest thing youll ever experience (and you only get one life so may as well). When i look at the adoration my dad has for my mum, when they give eachother flowers/cook together, its so lovely it makes ME smile. Men are able to feel love deeply; I see it in my brothers, my friends and my own boyfriend. They are capable of emotional intelligence, kindness and gentleness just like women…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:23 PM
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youre talking about sex not love. Of course, as long as society continues as patriarchal, women are going to be overly sexualised and therefore more likely to 'get laid'. But thats where it ends - if theyre a bad person then they arent gonna get some guy to fall in love with them. No guy is desperate enough to spend his entire life with an average-looking douchebag of a wife. Just the same with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:17 PM
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I think there are a lot of shitty people, men and women. If you are a kind person, people will like you. A lot of women, especially in the younger generation do not want some rich crazy successful man as they can earn their own salary now. They want a kind and gentle man that will be a life partner and make her happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:13 PM
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Women love the same as men love. Men have internalized this hopeless idea of height requirements/high salary as you said when in reality a lot of women care about it as much as men care for women's salary/height. Sure its an added bonus, but if you are attractive or a genuine sweetheart, people will fall for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:08 PM
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i dont think u are correctly using the term proxy metrics as ur example does not make sense. neither does ur phrase "correct the aggregate power differential between men and women". feminism isnt social engineering, nor can it be described as dogmatic?? this doesnt make sense either as feminism is not a set or rules/a defined opinion. there is a power imbalance between men and women; many women are still denied education, freedom of expression, equal working opportunities etc. not to mention tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:04 PM
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equal rights does not mean equal treatement. and the modern feminist movement is more about rape culture and sexual harrassment - any man bashing is not feminism and is just sad. feminists dont want to bring men down/overpower them, they just want to be raised to be equal to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:31 PM
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it can be that simple for a lot of people, which is why the blanket claims relating feminism to misandry is insulting. feminism at its core is about equality --> thats a correct blanket statement because thats what it is, that what it was made for. What people such as yourself choose beyond that can no longer be used as a blanket statement because its not the core belief of feminism. also i dont mind if listeners arent able to understand feminism, ill still try to communicate how good and SIMPLE…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:28 PM
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do u think men and women should be treated equally? (human rights, respect, etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:24 PM
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4th wave feminism focuses more on the absence of discrimination rather than human rights, so its still about being treated equally. feminism is about bringing women up aka empowerment ur correct on that but bringing them up to mens level doesnt create inequality it creates equality! i dont see how that could be viewed as a bad thing without those views being mysogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:23 PM
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humans rights arent the same as equal treatment. and its just a question :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:19 PM
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google feminism for me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:16 PM
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how should they be treated differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:15 PM
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do u think men and women should be treated equally? (human rights, respect, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:09 PM
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omg someone that actually knows what feminism is :') thank u
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:07 PM
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actual equality extremely important. so ur a feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:06 PM
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do u think men and women should be treated equally? (human rights, respect, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:05 PM
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My boyfriend and I are both feminists. So are all his friends and all our families, and all my friends and like everyone in my life. It's nice surrounding yourself with people that respect you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:04 PM
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do u think men and women should be treated equally? (human rights, respect, etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:02 PM
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We keep getting our dicks wet, are you tho?? really??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:36 PM
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It's totally ok to go on tons of dates and still not like any of them. When she's saying she's lonely, that still doesn't mean she's wants to settle for any of the 4 guys she's met up with this week. It means she wants to feel loved and cared for by someone really special, which tbh as her friend you should be all for even if it feels a bit unrealistic. Keep encouraging her to look for someone that makes her happy, rather than wasting time on someone that she doesnt truly like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:51 PM
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I think youll find its the opposite. When men have sex for personal gain aka pleasure its celebrated, when women do it its seen as immoral and dirty. A man that pays for dinner with the expectation of sex is seen as fair, whereas a sex worker that gets money in exchanged for sex is again seen as immoral. Sense the trend?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:34 PM
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This just applies to immature people in general, and in my experience its more men that will have difficulty openly admitting fault as it is seen as a weakness, whereas women are raised to be more empathetic and emotionally intelligent, and a lot of the time will be more open to admitting guilt after offending someone who has done nothing wrong. Fat women dont ask you to love them, they just dont want to be disrespected. Same with fat men, again this kinda seems like a general rule not to commen…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:01 PM
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