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/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 10:19 AM
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Yes, coming here to say women with no libido are not the norm but they skew the average. I always thought I had a problem until I found out most of us hide or lie about this side for fear of repercussions. Although this is different for women with religious trauma and societal pressure, they can develop issues like vaginismus that affect not only their sex drive but how they view sex altogether (something dirty and bad). There’s also another thing that I see a lot, people going into relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 10:16 AM
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Freaky for having a sex drive?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 10:08 AM
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Nevertheless it's preposterous to compare some random chick who likes astrology in the modern day to the great thinkers of history who lived in a time in which astrology was widely accepted as a science. That was never my point. You said "Astrology is kind of dumb on the basis of rational thought.", in that same thought Leonardo da Vinci would be "kind of dumb" for believing in it. And two things can be true at the same time. A random woman liking the same thing as a great intellectual does not …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:53 AM
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What if I told you it is said that Leonardo da Vinci liked and studied astrology along with all the other subjects that interested him? Would that discredit all his work? Science is based on theories that are observed, tested and experimented to be proven right and astrology is not one the subjects of scientific research. Until I personally see longitudinal well researched studies discrediting ALL of astrology studies, I’ll keep my interest. Until now all that is said is that it lacks evidence a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:37 PM
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The same that invented meditating and mindfulness?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:33 PM
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It’s not about the interest in itself but the attitudes that men can have when they don’t agree with you. I personally like astrology and if a guy starts calling me dumb because of it, I’ll see it as a sign of the universe to not engage, as I personally hate close minded people (news flash it’s not because of your sign). OP was just trying to find reasons for the behaviour since it doesn’t make sense (coming from the rational men), I don’t how it is “crying” since most guys here are calling her …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:32 PM
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Thank you for the well thought response. I was personally becoming annoyed at how I couldn’t see any reasonable reply on the why, just “because it’s stupid, what else ahah”. I personally use it as a filter to know who to not engage with. Not everything has been proven. Even in science there’s so many theories that have yet to be proved. The evolutionary psychology the pills are based on is shunned by the scientific community. If we bash one we have to bash all of them, even religion. And if some…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:19 PM
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Not you excusing mean spirited rude behaviour and basically saying all men are opportunistic emotional and psychological abusers who are waiting for their “prey” to show their vulnerability to use it against them. If anything we should show their our vulnerabilities so we can weed them out faster. It’s not because you’re a mAn but because you’re rude and vile and it still doesn’t excuse this behaviour. This is gold lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:04 PM
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What does that have to do with dating? Besides the fact that I don’t care for clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:31 PM
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I love how these guys never fail to self report but then cry about wOmEn hAvInG sUcH HiGh sTaNdArDs. Hope you don't take these fools comments to heart, they're just butt hurt. You don't have to "hang" with willfully obtuse fools, it's just a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:24 PM
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You can have access to food that is poisonous and slowly killing you and THAT food isn't great. The water analogy was better suited. If I'm lost at sea with no drinking water, saltwater is of no use for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:17 PM
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Can you give an example of "female privilege" in this context?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:07 PM
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We know what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:28 PM
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Being 6ft whatever doesn’t make you God on earth. Also, please cite the study for that sex drive claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:26 PM
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It's okay to say that men are a little more innately aggressive. Yes and no. Even though I agree that testosterone influences aggressive behavior, men are also socialized to be aggressive which can make it nature and nurture. Women can also be violent and aggressive, they're just socialized to express it in other ways (passive aggression, shit talking...). Men also tend to be more violent due to having no healthy outlets for their negative emotions and low emotional intelligence, many are insecu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:47 AM
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Hmmm when multiple women are the problem and not him I wonder when he will realise maybe he’s the one uninteresting and not the other way around 🤔 Women will divorce mainly because of infidelity and too much conflict (lack of responsibility with chores and kids mainly) how is that any reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:51 AM
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You want to get married to someone you don’t find interesting and have nothing in common just to have a family? Yikes, that’s a divorce waiting to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:31 AM
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Completely disagree, besides traditional women it’s mainly men reinforcing gender roles in this day and age. How else do you explain so many men taking the RP? Feminism is against imposed gender roles and fighting for women, it’s not actively taking men’s rights. Unless you count giving freedom to attractive women to choose to date whom they please.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:17 AM
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It doesn't have to be, if you leave women out of it. I can give you some examples: Most men complain that the justice system is unfair to them. Fight for fairer laws. Dating apps are horrible for men. Don't engage and give them your hard earned money. Unrealistic expectations for your gender and demanding gender roles? Rebel against them. There's so many things you guys could do that doesn't require interference with feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:55 PM
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93% of federal inmates are men. Well men commit most crimes and the most violent ones, it makes sense that they are incarcerated. You could also speak for biases in the justice system but that can be associated with patriarchy, with women being perceived as weak and non threatening and men perceived as innately aggressive and dangerous. I don't agree with this at all but it's something to be handled with judges and lawyers (that are mainly male). Who do you think is more likely to go to college?…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:29 PM
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Owing a gun doesn't compare to rejecting someone you aren't attracted to. One is a very dangerous object that can kill people and another is a human rejecting another, besides the ego blow I don't see where having freedom to reject someone isn't a right. Should we be with people we don't like then, what exactly are you asking of women? And yes, some women are rejecting men for such things but most men under 6ft are in relationships/have dated before. The women that care for money like that are u…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:45 PM
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Lmao what are you going on about, that doesn’t make any sense
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:43 PM
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Where exactly is feminism exercising supremacy over men? What are these domains where women suppressing men? I’m sorry but I’m not sure I’m following your train of thought. How are men oppressed? Please give me an example of this deep suffering men are going through because of feminism. Also, are you suggesting that we should get rid of feminism just because it doesn’t serve men’s issues? Why exactly should a movement focused on women’s issues put all their efforts and investments in men’s issue…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:36 PM
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Feminism worked really hard to give women agency and freedom, mainly to have a say and choice in women’s lives. If women are choosing rules and boundaries for their lives that men are not measuring up to, either they should adapt or not bother. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:56 PM
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Feminism focuses on women’s issues for there to be gender equality. For many years we were behind on many things (and still are) hence why our efforts are focused on what needs more work. When we get things equal maybe we can focus on men’s issues. And if we supposedly don’t care about men, why don’t you guys get together and work on your issues? Or is it because men don’t care about other men’s issues? Or are you guys gonna blames us for patriarchy and capitalism too?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:49 PM
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In what context are you guys having conversations where you have to answer like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:38 PM
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I can’t say for sure but from what I read, the fwb got upset after they got together, so how could she know? Also why would she go through all this trouble just to be with a fwb? It’s not like most guys shave either. And besides, he gave her little time to prep ahead he shouldn’t be expecting anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:13 AM
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Oh you don’t understand, this one knows how almost 4 billion people behave, he’s waaaay ahead of us. He has it all figured out and knows exactly how each of one of us will act based on his roommate, we just can’t understand. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:21 PM
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According to?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:16 PM
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Coming here to say it’s my preference too, everything she said I co-sign. And I know many women like this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:58 PM
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I WISH we could trade places so you guys would understand us. Sexual attention is cheap, specially when so many men are so desperate. And unless I’m l interested in a hookup why would I want to be seen just as a sexy thing? It’s reductive and honestly insulting since it makes you feel less than human. OP said she was hit on when she was 10 (TEN) years old and unfortunately I was too, so how can I value that? When there’s guys fucking holes, inanimate objects, food (the list goes on) why should I…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:56 PM
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Why is it weird to not base my self esteem on whether or not I’m getting compliments by men? Being asexual is not having sexual feelings or desires, I don’t see what that has to do with compliments.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:31 PM
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But what if we don’t get validated by those said “compliments”? I get very flattered when a woman tells me they like my outfit but when if it is a guy, I can’t help but think there’s ulterior motives so it doesn’t do anything for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:25 PM
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What do you men have it “ten times worse” than women? We’re not only talking about being objectified, it’s also being assaulted, raped, trafficked, etc like OP said. I’m not trying to make this about who has it worse but come on now…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:20 PM
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Let me tell you that those cases are rare. Most women are complaining that their partners stopped taking care of themselves, working on the connection, helping around the house, listening to their concerns… I’m not saying women are perfect but the bar is below hell for a lot of men and they still don’t want to try to become better. So women are opting out until things take a change.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:45 PM
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For women partnered life can be harder than single life. Do these statistics ring a bell? It’s well known that women (specially working women) take the majority of responsibilities with the home and kids besides all the time devoted to the partnership that they don’t have for themselves. It’s a no brainer why so many women prefer single life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:40 PM
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Huh so what are you trying to say with “cushy bubble economy”? That society is going to collapse and we’re going back to hunting-gathering times? Why are you so bitter that we evolved as a society to have “cushy” jobs? Do you by any means work in any of the industries that you’re glorifying? And how are men slave to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:30 PM
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Well no shit Sherlock, that’s exactly what I was telling the commenter above, that an average woman doesn’t have much chances with a 10% man. What’s your point? Also, I personally don’t care for a 10% man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:49 PM
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Well I don’t agree, there are more men I meet that care about having kids and leaving a “legacy” than women but I won’t use my anecdotal experience as a fact. I will, don’t worry lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:46 PM
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Isn’t that human nature tho? We all have different needs sexually, I’m not expecting men to be a monolith with the same interests, so why would you. Yes, it requires effort and communication to know what the other person is into but I think that’s for everyone not just women. If I go assuming all men like pegging because I think that’s what they like instead of asking, you can see how that’s a disaster waiting to happen. Just like we don’t have same favourite colour, sport, hobby, it’s only natu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:01 PM
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Lmao, make fun of my interests all you want (which has nothing to do with the topic here but I digress) but you still haven’t answered my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:53 PM
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It’s not about it being hard work, this post is about awareness. People are saying they don’t want kids and the reasons why but still people are against it. Also, apparently we’re not a niche since the birthrate is declining in a lot of countries. I’m sure you don’t care but a lot of people (specially red pill people) are going after childfree women, just look at this thread. You can even see it on a constitutional level with the overturning of Roe v. Wade and how many are coming after contracep…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:51 PM
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I’m telling you, if it were that easy most IG and OF models would be paired off with a well off guy. Besides, even if these average women have potential, there’s way bigger supply of younger, hotter, etc. women than there are successful/ above average men. If they’re above average it means they’re not easy to find hence the name. It’s a losing game tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:18 PM
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Can you elaborate on why “women are extremely hard to please”?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:20 PM
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Wtf is keyed up supposed to mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:18 PM
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So you’re saying testosterone makes men lose their self control, if it propels then to kill?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:10 PM
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What if my life doesn’t revolve around get sex but actually finding a relationship? Why should I care for something that’s available if I have no use for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:07 PM
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If you’re going to make such outrageous claims you should at least cite that bOoK or some sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:02 PM
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So a pirate (woman or not), a literal criminal is the best example for leadership?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:00 PM
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What about the limited resources we have on this planet? Like water, food, shelter and many others?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:23 PM
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Or maybe she doesn’t care? I can speak for myself as I am older than 18-25 and don’t give two flying fucks about what some random dude thinks. Did you know some men (even successful) want to be childfree too?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:14 PM
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You realise you’re an exception to the rule, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:10 PM
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I’m not against people having children at all but if you think it compares to staying out partying or pulling an all nighter to write an essay, you’re in for a surprise…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:08 PM
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Do you have kids? Do you take care of kids of your loved ones for more than one hour? These people are not trying to be negative, they’re showing the reality of having a kid. Speak to a parent of a toddler (one that will be honest with you) and you’ll see reality for what it is. Have you thought that maybe there’s lots of cons to having a child and speaking about them is not being nEgATivE but they’re being brutally honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:04 PM
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Case in point: this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:59 PM
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It’s awareness yes, if you’ve ever had to take care of a toddler or a child full time, you’d know better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:51 PM
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The delusion lmao. You think any rich dude is going to take an average girl just because she’s at the gym and looking good? If it was that easy, average women would be getting with rich dudes left and right. Most rich (upper middle class and above) men marry women of their class. You’re talking about noveau riche guys (athletes, rappers, “entrepreneurs”) that are not a dime a dozen and are difficult to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:49 PM
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The thing is these trolls sounds genuine…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:25 AM
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Can you at least engage with the arguments the commenter above provided instead of just trying to insult them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:39 PM
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How does a low libido impact women’s luck in romance? Because everything you listed seems to matter more for hookups rather than relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 06:04 PM
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Have you stopped to wonder that the majority of people on that sub are probably men? So those said men are the ones upvoting women? Just a thought
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 06:01 PM
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Or maybe a shimmery face looks cute?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 10:12 AM
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Myself and a lot of women I know hate the inverted triangle look. I appreciate the thigh and glutes muscles the most because I know how hard it is for a guy to train them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 10:11 AM
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Or maybe, different women have different preferences? I for one don’t find too lean physiques attractive. It has nothing to do with my self esteem, it’s just a preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 10:07 AM
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This comment right here. The more a guy is worried about maintain a pretty hardcore physique, the more they can police their and your food. Also you can’t enjoy different type of meals because it doesn’t hit their macros. Not healthy for me either as I had an ED in the past too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 10:05 AM
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I’m being 100% honest with OP and all the women here, because I understand how frustrating it is when members of the opposite sex tell you HOW to date/seduce them. I totally get this point but we're trying to find out the motivation or the modus operandi behind men that act like this. I'm now starting to have a feeling most men on this sub are not the ones it so it makes sense that they don't know how to answer. Here's the thing, I could totally give you reasons why someone can make you want to …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:30 PM
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I'm of the personal opinion that I should be with someone that likes me for the qualities I already have. I shouldn't try to be something, my personality will show itself. I could totally fake my personality just to get someone and then when we get married we find out we're actually not compatible. I can ask them their personal values because for me, what makes a good husband, makes a good wife. Also I don't like catering before even knowing if we're compatible. Why would try to cater to someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:44 PM
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Men don‘t know how to date other men. You don‘t ask the fish how to catch fish. You ask the fishermen. Although I understand your point of view, I was trying to provide another perspective to this claim. Men might not know how to date another man but they know their point of view (at least we'd hope so). OP tried to make a discussion around the reasons why but since women can't know the reasons why (we're not mind readers unfortunately), they're trying to provide some advice to someone that migh…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:24 PM
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So you can’t judge those women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:54 PM
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Those women probably belong to the demographic that wants casual sex, I have a feeling they only prioritise sexual attraction. But we’re trying to speak for the majority of women and I think it’s safe to assume most don’t really care for casual sex. They might engage in it as a means to an end (like you said previously) but it’s always thinking it might end in something more stable and committed. I don’t necessarily agree with this way of thinking but it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:54 PM
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These guys are forgetting most of us aren’t dating chads/alphas/whatever. It’s mostly the average guys trying to be players imo. About your edit, yes I’ve heard it too but from other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:27 AM
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Now you’re on to something. So it’s basically understanding if the guy is respecting boundaries and not trying to subtly push them or to look out for any love bombing. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:25 AM
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What are wife qualities then?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:23 AM
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Basically show on a date that I can be the perfect bangmaid for him?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:18 AM
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Men could tell us the motivations behind pumping and dumping or just their personal opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:12 AM
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I know some that do just that and they truly don’t care. Their mothers and other people around them seem to accept it or just ignore it. “Boys will be boys, amiright?”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:11 AM
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Most women don’t. They enjoy it but would rather do it with a safe and emotionally intelligent partner. If some women view it as a means to an end, it was as a response to the men making it a gatekeeper to a possible relationship or something more serious and stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:00 AM
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You can have a high sex drive and masturbate, you don’t need to be sexual with someone to do it. Some people have self control and can wait for the right person. 2 months can go by fast. Also it’s like being single but you’re getting to know someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:54 AM
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Like dating apps? It’s not better there, including apps like hinge and bumble
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:51 AM
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I hope you don’t complain when you get ghosted by good looking women…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:50 AM
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It’s so funny because a few years ago I was “pumped and dumped” by a guy I was dating for 2 months and I never told him I had a rule or anything, I always said I just wanted to get to know him better first. I’ve also done the sex on the first date and we continued dating, it ended for other reasons. These rules just make things more difficult and they don’t prevent an asshole from assholing, they’ll just love the challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:23 AM
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What made you leave RP? Maybe understanding the reasons might help OP.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 04:52 PM
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With my past experiences it’s not hard for my husband to be the best sex I ever had lol. And I wouldn’t marry someone I didn’t have sexual compatibility with, it’s one of the things I value a lot when vetting for a relationship. But that’s because I’m sexually liberated, I can’t speak for more conservative women. I wouldn’t say I have HL but I don’t have LL either and you best believe I’d be very sexual for a partner that I’m in love with and that shows effort and care in that department. I’m ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:33 PM
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I’ve heard this too but it was more related to not having kids than to not being married or being in a LTR. I can only remember one woman speaking with regret of not being married and having kids, but I think it always comes back to having kids. These are my experiences I can’t speak for everyone. Since I remember women around me (I come from a more conservative family) that married young always advised me against it, some seemed regretful or just felt stuck in a marriage they couldn’t get out o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:23 PM
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When I was half my age I was a tween? I wasn’t even dreaming about things like this. What’s valuable for me might not be for another woman. I value integrity, honesty, someone fun and interesting to talk to, healthy self esteem and hardworking. You can say that I’m lying but that’s how filter. I’m not thinking about the top percentile when dating, is that something you do? Compare women you’re dating to VS models?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:11 PM
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I agree, sometimes it is a bit of a gamble but time to get to know the person definitely helps. I just don’t think for most people that aren’t asexual, aiming to not have sex works long term. We need to find a balance between having patience to get to know someone and being able to get our needs met too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:04 PM
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Oh I totally agree, my question was more of a question to people that find it a crime that women have physical preferences not to you specifically, you’re just the one that that started the discussion. The thing Definitely and don’t forget how location, culture, and other things factor in physical attraction. I just hate this narrative that women aren’t human (not just from RP) and should ascribe to this superior morality like we don’t have different wants and needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:01 PM
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Wait so you’re comparing an attractive successful 35 year old men to a nerd dating a Victoria Secret model? How is that comparable by any means? You realise your reality may be different than mine right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:48 PM
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Well well, you just found that women are complex and may different experiences, interests and say different things. Look we are not a monolith and all experiences are valid. Edit: I read your other reply too and I never blamed men, I actually put the onus on myself for failing to assert my needs and wants. Whatever men choose to do is their prerogative, I’ll just choose to not engage with such men. Women are socialised to be agreeable and not assert themselves, so when a guy tells us something, …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:36 PM
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Yes but the top percentile men are not even in the same dating pool for average women so they don’t matter much. Contrary to what red pill says most women are very much open to dating average men, the problem is their personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 11:57 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 11:36 AM
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Actually older women are the ones leading in this movement and advising us. After being in unhappy marriages for long, they find out they’re happier alone and without the responsibility of taking care of a man child. So many people live fulfilling and happy lives with their friends and family. They only regret wasting their time on said marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 11:30 AM
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Or you have sex with people that respect and care about you. Both ideas are valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 11:17 AM
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I’m what American Pie dimension are you living?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 11:12 AM
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Can you source those statistics?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 10:59 AM
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When we become older, we filter and differentiate better between guys like you and better suited guys. So that’s why dating becomes easier. When we’re younger we lack the knowledge and boundaries to assert ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 10:58 AM
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“See where it goes” seems like code word for “I don’t want commitment, just to have some casual fun with you”. There should be a PSA for all women dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 10:57 AM
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I can tell you that don’t you need to worry about finding an eligible guy after a certain age (unless you live in a rural area where the dating pool is small and already married off). But worrying too much about not finding a man might make you seem desperate and more prone to attracting guys that could take advantage of you. Believe that you’ll find someone for you and it will happen. Don’t worry too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 10:54 AM
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Yup, we care about looks but not in the way red pill puts it. It’s more about how you present yourself than anything. Also what is wrong with women wanting to find someone they’re attracted to? Isn’t that what men already do?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 10:34 AM
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Not discounting that engineering is hard but from what I saw most engineering students didn’t study much or had a good routine to keep up with classes. When it was finals time, they had to work 10x harder just to make up for time lost. It’s not like they know time management to keep up with their social life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 10:32 AM
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But America bad, what’s wrong with stating the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 10:25 AM
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You realise that these attractive women that are influencers and have millions of followers that you’re talking about don’t make up even 5% of the population? What’s the chance that your neighbour or your female coworker does OF? You need to think of a pool of realistic women, not women you see online. Like with athletes and rappers, they don’t represent the average guy and live in a different reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 10:23 AM
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Let me give your another perspective. I’m in my 20s and I also want to date men my own age (which is what I’m doing right now). Older men by >5 years start to give me the ick sooner than later. Also, we don’t tend to have much in common and they can be condescending making it harder to keep a relationship like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 10:12 AM
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Women that tend to date older men do so out of looking for financial stability and comfort. The more a woman is successful and independent, the more she looks for someone closer to her age with whom she can share her values and engage in similar interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 10:07 AM
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What odds? According to what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 10:05 AM
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You can always find new solutions to social security, besides it’s not like the economy is helping much in that area. I’d rather not have kids for selfish reasons that to have them deal with economic crisis, climate change, social and economic inequality, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:27 AM
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Because people in those countries don’t have access to contraceptives and when in rural areas, they tend to have more kids to help with agriculture or even work (yes, child labor is a thing) to support the family. It’s usually not by informed choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:49 PM
4

Yup, what’s wrong with not wanting to overpopulate an already overly populated world?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:44 PM
2

So what if American kids want to experience different things abroad? They’re kids so they want to be immature and not have responsibility. How exactly kids having kids would make them better?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:43 PM
4

Men aren’t marrying anymore because they aren’t finding people to marry them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:39 PM
1

These are my thoughts exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:38 PM
2

What’s the source of that claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:26 PM
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That’s a recipe for disaster. The amount of growth and maturity I gained in my 20s has been invaluable. Having a child in the middle of that would have stunted my growth. Tbh, our brains only stop evolving at 25. There’s plenty of growing to be done even after that. I’d rather have more life knowledge to give my child than “energy”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:24 PM
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The financial aspect is probably the main reason people are thinking of “dedicating 18 years to this living thing”. You need stability and some kind of comfort to manage those possible 18 years (imo more!).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:20 PM
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I’m guessing you have a partner that helps you take care of them or they’re away from you for long periods of time. Because if you want to travel on a whim because you saw cheap prices, will do you do it anyways or do you have to rethink your life around them to see if you can leave them with anyone so you can travel. Another example is how you spend money. Maybe without kids you wouldn’t care much about spending on frivolous things, with kids you may want to rethink have a savings account in ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:18 PM
2

Where exactly are you guys getting this information about being average = ugly? Have you thought that maybe the type of women you’re aiming for are not average?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 12:07 PM
2

Rising among who and where?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:31 PM
1

Women always worked throughout history but their work was rarely if ever monetarily compensated. Not working the fields, gathering food, making clothes, etc was a privilege of the rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:30 PM
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Why would we return to traditional gender roles? If anything I think our society will progress to a new way of living, like community living but not that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:27 PM
1

Can you show your sources for the first claim please?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:26 PM
4

Jealous of what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:12 PM
4

And to add to your point, female competition sounds like something done out of seeking validation not exactly “instinct”. One thing is having low self esteem and another is doing things because of nature. I never wanted a guy more because he was sought after, actually it made me become less interested because I don’t like competing for attention. I know lots of women like that too so this point makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:12 PM
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Nope, still would leave even if he was really attractive. Would you accept cheating if your partner was really attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:07 PM
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Bezos was not rich when they got married, Amazon was created later actually. She actually helped him in the company when they were just starting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:05 PM
1

???
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:56 PM
2

Well if you guys are all going after the same types of girls, you’re bound to be picked last with all that competition (case in point: dating apps with a ratio of 70:30 men to women). Also it doesn’t help that most of the guys complaining about it are also not very likeable (personality wise). Just reading through the replies here and I can see so much hate and vitriol that leaves me wondering how can such lovely people be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:26 PM
3

Suffering because they can’t have casual sex with all the 20yr olds out there? Wow, what a wild problem to have
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:34 AM
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It’s not. I’m not sure how spewing this fantasy of the chad makes your life better. What exactly are you getting from spreading misinformation?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:13 AM
2

This so much, you put it so perfectly. I just wish the guys here actually paid attention to what we are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:08 AM
1

So one anecdote of someone represents all women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:03 AM
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What in the world is this statistic, most romantic movies are about some chronically single woman that bumps into her romantic interest at the worst time of their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:01 AM
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Well then “most” guys are in for a surprise when they find out most 20yr don’t want a 45yr old guy that isn’t satisfying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:57 AM
2

Yup, this is exactly how I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:55 AM
2

It’s their only option because they have really high standards… or they’re pretty hard to like. Being able to be single and happy is something that people can feel. Being desperate can give off a bad vibe that repels good people off you. Just some food for thought
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:54 AM
1

Maybe he was smelly and she couldn’t bear the thought of telling him? Rejection happens to everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:49 AM
1

Well that’s funny because of the few that actually stick around to raise their kids, some are bound to be good no?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:48 AM
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Name 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:47 AM
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Yup, this was my experience too but in a coed high school. I found it even more interesting that the most attractive girls always dated guys people would assume were slobs or just not on their “league”. It’s interesting how being chronically online can skew someone’s perception of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:43 AM
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I love how you resort to calling him a beta because you see your theory holds no ground. Not everyone is insecure and needs external validation that they’re “hookup material” to lead romantic lives
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:40 AM
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The self report…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:30 AM
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I’m not sure I get, is this bad? I mean if you didn’t like it/want it why entertain her?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:29 AM
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This right here, I see a lot more women posting on r/childfree and talking about it irl than guys. Most guys think of it like a way to continue their “legacy”. They don’t even dream of the struggle that it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:27 AM
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Can’t you have self respect and healthy boundaries without being TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 08:52 PM
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I’m not sure that counts as lesbian sex since bisexual =/= lesbian. Since you do threesomes, would you do MMF and play with the guy (assuming you’re straight)? Probably not, and it’s the same for lesbians, most hate the idea of being a part of a threesome with another guy or things done in hetero sex. Bisexual women tend to like toys or activities that can be done with a man. Lesbians are very much focused on female centred activities. Other than that, I’m not sure I get your point going back to…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 08:45 PM
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And you’re not giving me your anecdotal experience? Or are you a researcher that has been been studying same sex relationships and comparing them to their counterparts? I’m using my own knowledge and things I’ve heard from other women. What is your actual idea of lesbian sex, because if you’re thinking of porn, it could not be further from reality. There are a lot of things that hinder heterosexual women from pleasure but the main ones come from either trauma or lack of stimulation from their pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 08:16 PM
2

Are we looking at the same Elijah Wood? Because you’re saying you look an actual movie star that had a lot of fans back in his peak. I’m not saying that there aren’t girls that prefer taller guys but does not mean all think the same. The women’s average is approx. 5’4 so you’re still taller than most women. Sorry your ex said that but your ex is just a mean person and you need to work on your confidence asap. There are shorter guys (probably uglier too) that manage to have more than one relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:55 PM
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Yes, using toys helps a lot but the pleasure is mostly coming from clitoral and nipple stimulation. There’s a lot of sensual touch and a lot more focus on pleasure rather than masturbating with another person. And I dare say monster cocks are not pleasurable, it feels more like torture. I never claimed such thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:36 PM
1

Is it okay to ask why you think no one will go for you in case you become single?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:26 PM
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Nope, I’m saying that since there are disproportionately less lesbian couples those percentages are going to be proportionally high. Still, 50% of a 100 lesbian couples is going to less than 10% of 1000 heterosexual couples (not real statistics). So yes lesbian couples suffer a lot from DV but still heterosexual women have higher number of cases. Well I can’t speak much since I don’t know much about that but are they saying they’re unhappy with it? But even so I’d rather have less sex but amazin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:21 PM
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Well in that case, I’m afraid no amount of tricks or tips will help you get anything from her. The sexual attraction and desire for you needs to come from her. Just like you can’t force attraction for someone, I’m not seeing how can she (from the things you reported). Just keep in mind that you’re wasting your time and that things might get worse with time and she could even leave you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:14 PM
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From OP’s replies, I want to go as far as saying she’s not sexually attracted to him. This is harsh yes but he said the first time she saw him naked, he saw the “happiness escape from her eyes”. He needs to leave and find his self worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:05 PM
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Never heard of that, care to explain what that is. And we’re specifically talking about bedroom activities. How exactly suffering from DV or not help this OC understand that the size of his penis doesn’t matter to get desire from women? Bu if you want to talk about DV, lesbians report MORE but you have to remember that the numbers are proportional to the number of couples, overall hetero relationships still have a higher number of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 05:59 PM
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Do you feel confident in your skills? Do tou try flirting with her before PIV? Much of sex is actually the before, so using the 5 senses like touch and smell can help a lot with the making things spicier. But I’m actually more worried about you, why are you with someone that rejects you so much? I’m not trying to judge you, just understand where you’re coming from. It seems like she’s not giving you much why not be single and focus on yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 05:49 PM
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Lmao you have no idea what you’re talking about. The big difference is in actually doing foreplay and focusing on learn their partner’s pleasure points. Too bad most guys don’t want to hear this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 05:38 PM
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So how do you think lesbians report the highest level of sexual satisfaction among women? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:26 PM
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