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DATING ADVICEmaryofscotts/r/RedPillWomen01/10/18 06:58 PM
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ADVICEmaryofscotts/r/RedPillWomen24/10/17 10:32 PM
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I've done this whenever I feel not good enough for him... "someone told me I was beautiful when I was walking down the street!". I didn't lie, but it definitely wasn't worth mentioning. It was just me trying to get him to see my worth instead of just having a convo with him about it. You should speak to her about it if you're curious, though. It might deepen your relationship. Good luck :)
/r/askTRP05/12/18 04:09 AM
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"it's been awhile, it would be nice to catch up over coffee" = will be trying this one soon!
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/17 08:15 PM
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I don't like how people jump to conclusions about how I've wasted my best years. I was in 2 relationships throughout my education, both men proposed marriage. Both were abusive (in all senses). I was extremely docile, kind, feminine with them, cooked/cleaned/actively spoke about a family. I tried everything to understand them and their side of things which is what kept me in that situation for much longer than I should have stayed. It got me nowhere except for beaten down (sometimes literally).
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 12:41 PM
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Well.. it seems like you're screwed if you do, screwed if you don't... on one hand getting the PhD makes me de-valued, and on the other hand, getting it but not wanting to be a careerist also makes me de-valued. Either I have too much ambition or none at all. Catch 22. You previously commented being rude, and I'm confused as to why you feel the need to comment again.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 04:08 AM
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Yeah.. I think it could be a good shorthand for weeding out, but it means you might miss some decent options, too. I score extremely high on agreeableness (probably why I attract manipulative jerks and don't stand up for myself) and really low on neuroticism, which is not something that I've found with many colleagues...but it is what it is.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 03:19 AM
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Well, not all men are created equal. You are obviously more considerate to your partner than he was to me. Also, considering he is engaged to an academic assistant at his university...yes, he did. I don't know how many men would actively discount being with someone just because they have a degree. I suppose it's the same idea as women discounting men just because they don't. But evolutionary...that doesn't make too much sense, because women want providers whereas men want someone who can care fo…
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 02:57 AM
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I don't think it's good logic to discount an entire group for dating purposes because they are educated... too many assumptions based on titles. Anecdotal, but from what I know of med school friends...there are more female med students/doctors where I'm from...many of them marry male colleagues.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 02:51 AM
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If you and your girl make a plan in life which is...you are going to pursue X so that we can build Y future together...wouldn't it be a positive quality that she followed your request?
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 02:45 AM
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read the context as to why I got it... it was in order for me to be his wife. It was our long term plan. He strung me along and eventually bailed.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 02:35 AM
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I don't think that's true... You have to lead a life you're proud of, too. Also, plan w my ex was for me to get my degree and teach at his uni (he was a prof).
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 02:28 AM
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Good qualities: I would like to think/am told: I am incredibly/"too" kind, calm, compassionate, funny, not promiscuous, spontaneous, easily excited, happy-go-lucky, warm, funny, 'cute' in my actions. Bad qualities: Can be arrogant, indecisive, too driven, know-it-all, insecure, needing of soothing/reassurance. I think probably the main issue is I get really nervous around men I like, and I think I mess it up because I only showcase the masculine/strong willed side when I feel nervous to protect …
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 02:20 AM
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What else should I have done?
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 02:12 AM
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I didn't expand on other qualities. It doesn't mean that I don't possess them.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 02:08 AM
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I never suggested he should care...was just giving background/providing a benchmark re finding someone who is similarly educated and/or ambitious...
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 01:40 AM
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Hey...thanks very much. I really appreciate your diligence and they way you foster this community with respect and kindness, and being straightforward. I've already actually learned a few lessons about how to best comport myself just based on your comments. Many thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 01:24 AM
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well said
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 01:14 AM
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You are completely correct. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 12:51 AM
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I think I'll have to think about the man I want. I'm in my 20s. Thanks for your post.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 12:51 AM
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good advice. thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 12:50 AM
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I don't talk about modeling unless it's relevant (I used to live in Milan for a bit for work...what did you do...etc.). I do usually have my guard up on dates though, which might be what's holding men back. I'm not sure. Anyways, thanks for your post.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 12:49 AM
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would I, when I can get the young version of you that isn't approaching the wall. It sucks, but that's what you My ex is engaged to a girl 5 years older than me and significantly less accomplished and less attractive. He alternated us (I found out) for years. When he wasn't with her, he was with me, and vice versa. The fact that he never believed I woulnd't have cheagted on him suggests he isn't an alpha but rather pretty insecure and screwed up. I am in my 20s. You sure make a lot of assumption…
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 12:45 AM
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You sound delusional... "I don't care what she says...she cheated?" lol. I'm a stranger on the internet; what reason could I possibly have to lie to other strangers on the internet? Could it ever be that there was a trust issue/insecurity in him?
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 12:41 AM
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You've made an assumption and now are commenting on things based on it. I did not detail what happened except for the fact that I was honest with him about not talking to other guys. He was very insecure and was terrified that I was cheating on him. This would suggest that he was not an alpha. Your anger is disproportionate...I wonder if this somehow struck a chord with you?
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 12:40 AM
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Ideally, he'd make as much as me or be driven towards starting his own business, etc. I guess yes... I'm looking for too many things that are hard to find. My ex was like...he met everything on my checklist...except he was genuinely mean and constantly made me question my worth and value as a person, and then made me feel like everything that was ever wrong was my fault and mine alone...so that wasn't good. But I can't find anyone as accomplished/good looking/etc. as him, which is probably why h…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/17 01:47 AM
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Hey..thank you so much. I'll check these books out now. I really appreciate your response. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/17 01:44 AM
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Thanks for writing back. It does. I'm in a big city, and have contact with many men from all walks of life... I'm not sure who to choose. Attractive and kind, but not educated? Educated, but not attractive and actually quite mean? Anyone I've met that seems to have it all hasn't been interested in me, or perhaps I just don't know how to show him that I'm interested in a feminine and open way.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/17 12:40 AM
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Thanks for writing back... 1) It ended because he thought I had been lying to him about speaking to other guys (I hadn't been) and he never let go of it. I spent years trying to get him to understand I was honest...he never did. 2) I wear dresses, skirts, I love children and talk about that, I talk about how much I want a family. I suppose I can be very opinionated, and that's not very good. I also have a very dark sense of humor, which I imagine is a turn off for men. 3) I am very insecure; I h…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/17 12:38 AM
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I went on a few dates with a guy who would always say "yeah, i'm a really [insert positive adjective here] guy" instead of acting that way. so unnerving!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 05:22 AM
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yessssssssssss this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 05:21 AM
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honestly...putting me down for something i'm really proud of. swearing at me/telling me how all his friends think i'm ugly/making me feel small
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 05:19 AM
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highly extroverted, i'd say
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 05:15 AM
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If you don't know if you're exclusive/official...do you keep seeing other men? Do you tell the guy you actually want to be with that you're seeing other men? Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 02:58 AM
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