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A few UVA rays can still enter through windows so it's awesome you're wearing sunscreen!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 01:27 PM
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It's the "sponteneé" for me 💀 what a clown
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 01:05 PM
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I despise how you cant click on anything on reddit without having to read a man critiquing a womans appearance or expressing sexual desire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 02:28 PM
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It's good for women to have high standards and expect to be treated like a queen whether it's in this way or others. I'd be mindful of love bombing though. When I see stuff like this, I get a little anxious for the woman. I also wonder how authentic this is, and if all this is just for show. I'd strongly recommend staying away from a man who makes massive, grand gestures like this early on and if he wants it to be plastered all over the internet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 02:19 PM
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Father who art in heaven Anything BUT an LVM gamer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 12:35 PM
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Lmao, yeah it's hilarious when the ages and pictures do NOT add up. Age is just a number and jail is just a place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:41 PM
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Speaking as someone raised muslim - I am 100% on her side and have met so many young muslim men that have the same attitude as that scrote DESPITE being well aware of how normalized abuse is against their fellow muslim women. Hope they die mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:20 PM
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It's surprisingly common! And not just men in their 40s, I see guys in their 20s use high school pics. What's amusing is they always mix them in with their current pictures as if they're recent lol...like picture of a teenage boy with an emo fringe with a green day shirt clearly from 2007 is comparable to picture of the older man in a button down with a pizza stain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:29 AM
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Triggered lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 10:14 PM
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Cant imagine how traumatizing that would have been for you....jesus christ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 10:07 PM
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95 percent of men on online dating. Not even roasting his or their looks, all they do is stay indoors and want a manic pixie dream girl to get them out of the house and maybe encourage them to shower once in a while.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:45 AM
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Was in a 4 year relationship with a redpilled man. He was emotionally distant, accusatory (projecting ideas that I'm cheating because "AWALT"), could not be vulnerable, somewhat controlling and all of that killed my attraction for him and resulted in me walking away and ending things. Made me realize how much I dislike redpill ideology (and no I dont mean the work on/improve yourself advice which is just good advice and not unique to redpill) and how dangerous it can be, and how it just repels m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 04:24 PM
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Same men will shame u for staying with men who treat u like shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 04:06 PM
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It's scary how normalized shitty marriages with lazy participants and chronic abuse (emotional and mental) are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 03:17 PM
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Cue my ex complaining I took too long to get ready or when I'd choose to eat a salad and skip dessert at restaurants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 12:32 PM
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This actually happens today too, some Muslim men in America will bring a girl from overseas slamically marry her and if they get divorced, since there was no legal, governmental marriage, she will get little to zero benefits. It's beyond messed up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 12:24 PM
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Red pill is far from gospel. I can't speak for other women but I'm personally attracted to a man that has a good balance of "alpha" and "beta" traits and I'd venture a lot of women are on the same page as me. Even writing out those terms makes me cringe. A confident, self assured, secure man who isn't afraid to be caring and loving to the right woman is very attractive. I think likewise, most men would want similar attributes in a partner. Red pill seems to encourage men to project this alpha pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 10:43 PM
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I really like the message of processing old, toxic relationships fully and healing and taking the lessons you learned from older relationships forward. But I think this fairytale promise of finding a perfect guy/hvm may or may not happen for a lot of women. Loving yourself and prioritizing your self respect above everything, even your emotions is what will allow you to cultivate a happy life. And while it would be great to find a HVM, it's not a guarantee nor a requirement. It's always better to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 09:20 PM
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They're mad that we would deadass rather be single than date them 💀 It damages their fragile ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:16 PM
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Ah, a man LARPing on the internet once again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:14 PM
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Female perspective: absolutely not. In fact, I find a lot of male friends attractive but for several reasons (they're taken, they're may be an underlying compatibility issue, wrong timing, work coomplications etc) there isn't anything romantic or sexual going on. Having sex with someone does not mean you respect them and the vice versa is true as well. I think there are some mental blockades such as these that you'd need to work out before pursuing friendships with women. Just as there are some …
/r/ExRedPill15/06/20 01:13 PM
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I like how you listed 3 to 4 healthy and normal activities that women partake in. I'm curious what exciting activities you do aside from reddit and gaming (did I make you laugh yet?) It also sounds like most of the women you know are the insta thots/influencers/models. I assure you majority of women (as in everyday women) aren't posting ass pics, but yes a lot of them do post their food so obviously women bad. I think theres a lot of incredibly witty and funny men and women out there. For you to…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 03:18 AM
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We're not the fortunate ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 03:09 AM
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Men consistently overestimating themselves (abilities, looks etc) is so true....on the flip side, parkour is fun to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 03:06 AM
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Why do I get the feeling that this the same men on reddit that say they will immediately dump a girl if she does xyz like they have options 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 02:51 AM
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Honestly, I'm thankful when all the red flags are out there in the open so he can be automatically nope'd. He knows this type of post is going to attract an insecure, eager to please woman who gets off on being different and perceived as special. She'll be easy for him to control and manipulate and he knows that. Never be that woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 03:56 AM
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Here, take an upvote and a chuckle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 05:27 AM
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I brought it up because it's something I've seen being said in the manosphere quite often, in those terms. Also I wrote RP as in redpill, not OP, if that caused confusion. Your point(?) There are situations where the children go to the father. In situations when they don't, its unfortunate but again mothers DO the brunt of the work. The court favors them because they know or can tell this dad hasnt changed a diaper in his life...and if he has, then the court does and will rule in favor for good …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 05:25 AM
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I think they delude themselves into thinking that they simultaneously ARE chad (a l p h a) and disenfranchised by him...but what can be agreed on is that whatever the case is, it's women's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 01:43 AM
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It's also interesting to note that in many custody cases, the children aren't "stolen" from the father but rather they choose/express desire to live with the mother because mothers generally do majority of the parenting and caregiving (regardless of how much they work). RP tries to make it sound like there's some secret, underlying plan to strip children of their father.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 01:27 AM
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He belongs to the streets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 05:39 PM
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Lmao quickest way to get banned from a sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 03:45 PM
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The "7/10 looking good bro" has me deceased 💀 unreal cognitive dissonance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 03:44 PM
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Literally spot on, especially the video game part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 02:20 PM
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I adore Rose. She got catfished and I think she genuinely wanted to give him a chance to see if they could have a connection (a chance which Ed didnt even deserve tbh)...but Ed's true colors showed up real quick and even in this scene, he comes off so insincere. Glad rose could see right thru the BS and dumped him before he could inflict any real damage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 02:15 PM
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Thank you for bringing this post up, rolled my eyes several times reading it. Shit like this is why I try to avoid the popular page. All the comments applauding him are also cringe and scream insecurity and revenge fantasies about women gasp aging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 02:08 PM
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All I can say is lmfao. Their toxicity, negatively and insecurity knows no bounds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 02:23 PM
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They think they're being adorable and funny when they do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 02:20 PM
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Unpopular opinion is a magnet for the common reddit misogynists and pickmeishas. If she really is and feels okay with her current dynamic, why does she feel the need to make a post about it and gain validation on a subreddit and website that's KNOWN for glorifying this kind of behavior from women...so much for an "unpopular opinion."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 02:19 PM
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This makes my blood boil. Hope she rests in peace, her life was cut too short. To any woman reading this: please do not take or send explicit pictures of yourself. Too many men will exploit your trust.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 05:57 PM
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Agreed. A dude this to me, probably hoping I'd want to change his mind somehow but I was like ok not interested bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 04:42 PM
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That's a good point. It was ignorant of me to comment without knowing the history of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 11:22 PM
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I'm assuming this was really recent. I think first and foremost, you need to accept that the relationship is over and then you need to prioritize yourself. Its cliche but now really is the time to build yourself up and level up. An abundance mentality is key here. Also, a "HVM" that dumps you is no longer a HVM to you. I'm not saying he is bad or anything like that- but if he dumped you then he isnt the one for you sis. Careful not to idolize him and demonize yourself. Try your best to focus you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 04:59 PM
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As soon as a man hints that he believes this, I take it as a red flag. His belief means that it's either 1. True for him 2. It's a power play to try to awaken the pickmeisha inside you that will try to prove him wrong. I think years of porn use and viewing women as objects will definitely make them less likely to get attached and it's always good to steer clear away of men like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 01:00 PM
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Every man on OLD: I like pizza, the office and DOGGOSS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 12:43 PM
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Honestly when men in OLD mention "snap" instead of (Or not in addition to) asking for your number, it's a major red flag that they want nudes. Good for you for spotting this early and shutting it down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 12:42 PM
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Absolutely. Some of the most objectively gorgeous and successful and talented women on this planet have been cheated on. It says nothing about these women and everything about their partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:43 PM
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I'm deceased 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 08:40 PM
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Amen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 05:07 PM
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She is allowed to be happy. In fact, a lot of women are "happy" in all kinds of relationships with abusers, losers, jerks and LVM. I dont think she or her husband are bad people and they both deserve happiness, just as all human beings do. But I'm allowed to use her story as a learning tool for myself and for other women on what an unhealthy relationship dynamic might look like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 01:58 PM
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I was surprised by the number of upvotes just cause I cant imagine a high value man would actually like being treated like an infant...I know I personally would hate it if my partner made a post about how it was so cute that I changed a tire. I think this story could have had a more positive spin about her appreciating that her husband took an initiative with cooking (finally)...but sadly her perspective is extremely telling about their dynamic and that dynamic is one I would want all women to a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 01:53 PM
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I see where you're coming from and I agree that his attempt at baking is definitely better than being on his ass playing video games. And I certainly dont want to make fun of a seemingly wholesome couple. I'm more taken aback by her view of him. I think women have been told as they're growing up that "you're gonna have to raise your kids AND your husband harhar" and it kind of normalizes that idea which isnt a healthy dynamic. Women and men alike deserve equals as partners not parents. Being a p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 01:43 PM
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Right??? Its so cringe, I thought it was satire. A part of me is hoping it's not a real post. Some of the comments are equally unbearable, with some other women being like "men are so adorable." Jesus the bar is low. A man who has been quarantined for nearly a month gets so bored and decides to bake a treat (not even dinner, a treat) and that is adorable?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 01:16 PM
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I found this so cringey and unbearable. The way she describes his as being adorable and the fact the he "rarely cooks or bakes" and keeps coming out every 2 minutes seems like she is taking about her SON not her husband. I'm surprised by the amount of likes this has. Men like being babied this way? Disgusting. This woman deserves better than to be so pwoud of her adowable hubby making banana bwead... that's going to be mostly eaten by him anyway 😂🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 01:10 PM
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Hahaha it's hard out here 4 us man. But keep slaying and being queen tho 🤟💅💁‍♀️💓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 03:31 AM
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LOL u right, compared to the average desi uncle, govinda is hritick roshan 😂 But you're absolutely right that in Bollywood, the beauty standards are way more stringent for women. I'm Pakistani and even when it comes to weddings, the woman gotta be hot AND a doctor. Dude just has to have a semi decent job, literally it 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 02:32 AM
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Lmao even calling Govinda an average Joe is being too kind. The fact he cheated on his wife with Rani Mukherjee had me shook 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 02:16 AM
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Run. Also I love when LVM show u their true colors early on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 03:04 AM
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Any press is good press :) It's just losers sad and salty that women are telling other women not to settle for 2am wyd texts and low effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 03:02 AM
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This post highlights two things. 1. That a HaTeFuL aNd mEn bAsHiNg sub like FDS can in fact praise and acknowledge men being kind, decent and good fathers. On FDS it's high value vs low value. In the manosphere it's men vs women. That men are rewarded easily for doing small things for their children. It's an expectation for women but something medal worthy for a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 05:19 PM
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No offense to religious people but a lot of religions have values and teach things that mainly benefit men. They can be patriarchal and misogynistic so I'd stay clear of men who say they are devout or fundamentalist...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 09:08 PM
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I swear some LVM say this type of shit cause they're hoping it will awaken a pickmeisha inside you that will chase him and try to compete with his ex and prove herself. It's a stupid tactic and you handled it beautifully by shutting it down completely 💅💁‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 09:01 PM
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God the cringe from the first thing he said to you. Insincere and manipulative - this shit is so common.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 04:20 PM
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These are some early things you see as you get to know someone. 1. Following too many thots on insta. Probably means he is porn addicted and has a warped sense of what beautiful means and is. Also just find it cringey and unaware. 2. Not respectful of boundaries. If I say no to something or seem uncomfortable - if he doesnt accommodate or be understanding then run. Means he is coercive. 3. Expects me to carry the conversation. Puts little to no effort in, seems bored. Boy bye. Always reciprocate…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 03:03 PM
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I agree its definitely wise to let actions speak for themselves instead of basing it on whether they have siblings. I definitely have met LVM with sisters. I guess based on my experience generally men with sisters have seen what women go through and experience growing up and may be more understanding and empathetic. But clearly not a hard or fast rule since LVM are everywhere :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 12:47 PM
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Thank you for sharing! I would also say like the person above to consider lowering your highest age to 23. This should weed out some of the men looking for an unhealthy power dynamic with regards to age. My standards: Height - dont care, would prefer taller than me at least. Career - makes 6 figures or on his way to make that Caring, not afraid to be emotionally vulnerable Not into the manosphere Preferably has sister (I find men with sisters are kinder and better people) Handsome or at least at…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 01:32 AM
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Men: we age like wine Also Men: lie about age on OLD and use decade old pictures
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 10:21 PM
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I dont agree with everything and dont agree with every comment either. My main takeaways have been 1. How to spot early signs of manipulative or abusive behavior 2. Not to be a doormat in my relationships 3. Focus on building myself and my confidence 4. Never pressuring myself to be in/stay in a relationship because I'm expected to 5. It's better to be single than be with an unfulfilling or abusive person Apart from the above things, there are things in fds that dont always resonate with me - an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:21 AM
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Wtf is a park hang.....lmfao men never cease to amaze me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 06:48 PM
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It might be him implying that he wants you to come over for to his place for dinner. DO NOT FALL FOR THIS TACTIC. Not only is it potentially dangerous but it also is a "trap" to get you in his home, behind closed doors, under the innocent notion for dinner whereas for him it's one step closer to being in your pants. I would jump ship now but you could ask him to clarify what he means, scoff then jump ship. Asking a woman over to your place for dinner is NOT an appropriate first date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 02:07 PM
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It's an emotionally manipulative tactic. They prey on women's empathy with their pathetic lying tales of "mY gF cHeAteD oN mE" or "she duMpEd Me!!" so that they can immediately make her feel sorry for them. It makes me barf that this tactic is so commonly used and many young women fall for it because they mean well and are caring...I'm glad you knew not to give two shits about them and their problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 03:28 AM
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100% agree. I was in a discord full of gamer boys in their 20s and they were ALL thirsty ass lvms. Many of them were bums and yet all the girls in the server including myself were hell bent on getting their validation and attention and being "cool girls" barf. When I first joined, I felt so flattered by the attention. I thought these guys actually thought I was cool and wanted to get to know me - by the time the next new girl was added, a lot of the attention was diverted to her. Then the same t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 03:23 AM
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LVM always want YOU to prove yourself to HIM which is what this guy is doing by asking that as an opener
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 03:15 AM
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"No" is so important. Say it, scream it and don't qualify your decisions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:02 PM
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Lol why do men always conveniently forgetting that they're aging as well. You turned his negging gross ass down like a QUEEN btw. Hats off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 12:51 AM
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...And redpill/incel crowd claim "women are evil and heartless"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 12:46 AM
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Some men are so lazy and this one is proud of it lmao. I think it's good to be cautious around men that ask questions like what's your ideal date or what's your ideal person - it can used as ammunition to manipulate you into falling for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 12:43 AM
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Your frustration is totally understandable but I hope you feel more RELIEF than anything else. It's so inconsiderate of him to make u drive to HIM and he has nothing planned???? Smh u dodged a bullet. If he's this low effort now imagine a few months later. Also him complaining about your desires is such a red flag and speaks to his desire for an on call prostitute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 07:26 PM
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