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Ah yeah, I’ve been there man. Most people don’t care really. If you have unattractive traits that you are aware about fix them. Then you won’t have anything to be anxious about. Either way, people don’t care as much as you think. Nothing won’t be exposed unless you expose it yourself
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 02:01 AM
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You'll have to drop the notion of needing dating advice. Personal growth in all areas especially social skills will change your life. I was in a place where I hated women from how my mom treated me and I always thought women had it out for me. I read pickup forums but I was still too scared to do what they mentioned so I turned to growing myself. I Started learning social skills, (how to approach, how to learn about others, asking question to build bridges, listening, Not taking it personal, lea…
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 11:00 AM
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Easy ask her out before you go, have a date. Don't overthink the situation
/r/seduction11/06/20 11:07 AM
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i was like this until 22 until i started photography. I started my personal growth journey and really looked at guys who were confident, and wanted to have that for myself so i started going out alone, was still hard for me to talk to others but i did one person then two or three as i got comfortable doing so. Around that time i was building a new wardrobe as well so that helped me feel more confident when i wearing a cool fit.
/r/seduction04/06/20 08:10 PM
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Well first congrats on your weight loss! That's awesome you got off the couch and toned up. Now here's the thing. You have to build a wardrobe. This is not the best subreddit for this i would go to malefashionadvice. They have reviews and such and they can point you in the proper direction. A quick baseline as you wrote what you like to wear, Artsy / rebellious is cool, but what does that look like and do you know any brands make those clothes? i would hit scotch & soda / allsaints / and maybe g…
/r/seduction03/06/20 03:08 AM
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online dating can kill social skills if not developed and honed. Like when i first started i didint really know how to talk to girls untill i started doing day / night outings and talking to women in person first. Then possibly sometimes transfer that skillset to online and it would be easier. The other way around is a nightmare & causes anxiety since your getting validated by women you dont know instead of having a good self image for yourself and just having fun with it.
/r/seduction01/06/20 03:41 AM
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Yeah, i would leave that alone. If someone doesn't want to put their best foot forward or even attempt to dress for a meetup, i would inquire about why & depending on answer would know what to do at that point.
/r/seduction01/06/20 03:33 AM
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This is true on so many levels, but people dont want to be alone / have comparison issues so they self sabotage. Same adage as if you chase the rabbit it will run, but if you has something the rabbit wants it will come to you. Self work is the greatest thing a man can do to be attractive to women. Once i stopped worried about getting girls and got working on things for me, more women come to me now the ever in my life, really interesting parallel.
/r/seduction25/05/20 03:05 PM
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Yep, uninfication in relationships makes the bond stronger. With no bonds marriages fall apart down the line since they just become two people co-habiting a space.
/r/seduction16/05/20 11:57 AM
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Wow thats so powerful, i really felt the part about when she was sleeping it was escape from war and the part about lust instead of love. This guy knew what he was in but didn't step up to secure his self image. Even towards the end about doing the average things engaged, kids ,and house. Just nothing special about the relationship. Alot of relationships are divided and this will always happen until the husband & wife unify on a goal.
/r/seduction15/05/20 04:11 PM
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Your welcome!
/r/seduction12/05/20 08:06 PM
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First off, dude congrats for thinking about this and actually reach out for help. That's awesome! So first off yes you have value your perspective and mindset all those things help with creating value. Second you have to understand who you are and what kind of lifestyle / life you want to have in the future. Laying the foundation for these ideals will help you later on in life. Getting in physical shape, reading about areas you want to grow in, creating an action plan & sticking to it, having ac…
/r/seduction12/05/20 05:12 PM
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Every animal can, and its not really a scent its the energy you give off. Higher energy attracts weaker energy pushes away
/r/seduction22/04/20 11:06 AM
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Cool! thanks for this!
/r/seduction20/04/20 10:26 PM
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Dude this!!! I stopped caring about flakes and just kept moving and they totally reach out, it was weird at first now its often. Patience and abundance mindset keep you ahead.
/r/seduction08/02/20 07:57 PM
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Dude this is actually great. I'll post mine to. This is the first step in attracting what you want. Most guys don't do this and wonder why they meet the women they do. Since i've made my list i meet women 80% that have qualities i'm looking for. Sex drive is a good one, i haven't thought about that. Only thing i would change is her "having" to do alot of things, it should be both ways. You do it and she would reciprocate, or communicate that upfront if you want a certain behavior. ​ What do I wa…
/r/seduction06/02/20 05:15 PM
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Exactly, low self image causes that. I was there not too long ago. So just have to grow that then he'll be good.
/r/seduction05/02/20 02:30 PM
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Your welcome, and just remember. You can do it. It'll be tough. But you can do it.
/r/seduction04/02/20 10:55 PM
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Dude! First of all there is no league. This is Not the NBA/NFL. Stop that! Second, stop the comparison. You have no idea how their relationship is. Just stop it. Focus on what you can control approaches, self growth, social status, and etc. Get the girls you want, and don't worry what some other guy has. Ok? I'm proud of you to even partake on this journey because it a tough one. Now go out there, meet some great women & have fun.
/r/seduction04/02/20 10:24 PM
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I dress well on a daily basis, and have been for the past two years. The results are quite immediate, women look at me,men look at me. I get compliments from both sides. Like last night i went to an event and as soon as i walked in women would look at men then look away and i had three guys say they loved my fit. So Dressing well does do something. The main key behind it is you wearing the clothes and dont let the clothes wear you. Some examples of what I wear. styleninja on ig
/r/seduction02/02/20 02:30 PM
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That happened to me recently, so yes. it's totally true. It was a bit of a dry spell for me. and boom got needy, it wasn't till communication lessened, I came to my senses but it was already too late.
/r/seduction25/01/20 03:25 PM
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I hear you man, it’s tough. Don’t attach numbers to dates all the time, attach yourself you actually approached them! Dude your doing what most dudes won’t do! Be proud of that! Anyways since they did respond, better for you! The next few you meet since you’re learning could respond and you’ll get dates! Chin up and forward on to the next! 😁
/r/seduction25/11/19 04:33 AM
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Nah your just being shallow honestly, there’s no league. Get rid of the idea. This is not sports lol. Rating girls on a number system doesn’t work because it doesn’t transfer. It’s either your attracted to them or your not. So in case of the super hot girl you only “put up” with her because of how she looks is pretty weak, get around women that like that 6 you say who is more wholesome and well rounded. Remember an average girl can turn hot with clothes and makeup if she wants to so don’t forget…
/r/seduction24/11/19 12:43 PM
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OP stop explaining yourself man, your post is great. I experienced that as well, ive done 2 years of inner work and girls come up to my because of style and they feel a great energy. I've never gotten this much female attention in my adult because yep, I used to chase all the time and wasn't a valuable man as I am now. Just personal growth guys and the world is yours.
/r/seduction19/11/19 03:43 AM
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I agree on what's here on self image. The better it is easier life is the worse it is the harder life is. I heard amazing things about the book, I just haven't gotten yet. I agree on what's here on self image.
/r/seduction19/11/19 03:37 AM
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Let’s go to the beginning here, so you want to get laid without dating apps. Ok cool. Why don’t you want to use dating apps? Are you looking just to get laid or you want to make a connection with a person to have a relationship with down the road? Like most guys said, put yourself out in the world and someone will talk to you, sometimes being shy might deter people, so get some confidence when you’re out there. Wear your favorite clothes or something that gives you confidence so it’ll be easier …
/r/seduction04/11/19 04:00 PM
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This happened today, I had set a date with a lady I met from tinder and checked with her earlier today, and she had called me to say she was in New York for a family emergency. I was just cool about it, no biggie. It didn't bother me and she kept apologizing and I was nah its cool we'll just meet another time. SO then she proposed to make me a meal lol, but if I would of acted like the examples OP gave, would not of turned out that way. The way you respond can really make or break a connection. …
/r/seduction14/10/19 02:33 AM
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This is awesome, thank you so much for this post. I too have been saying this & doing this. Just the action of doing moves us so much further.
/r/seduction15/09/19 05:06 PM
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Amazing post right here, This is what it's all about setting the time to do it. Love that he mentioned some numbers he got didn't go anywhere & used that as a building block. Awesome work man, super proud of you.
/r/seduction15/08/19 02:19 PM
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Yeah society has been preaching men should always chase, not the idea of if you think someone looks cool to go talk to them. Low self image & self esteem are too rampant for this to work properly in today’s time.
/r/seduction01/07/19 01:55 PM
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The problem with these guides is that, it usually forces a persona on you & when you meet the girl and its not the same person that's been texting her that becomes a huge issue. So please, do you personal growth & your communicating skills will grow as you work on it.
/r/seduction13/06/19 10:01 PM
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"I don't know what's wrong with me " This. That right there is your problem. Great job doing the work to grow, but assuming something is wrong because you fixed some external things doesn't women will flock to you. There is no game. You need to work on you mindset & internals before women start noticing you. How often do you smile? Do you look approachable? how is your body language? Are you warm? Your interactions will be suck until you work on the inside.
/r/seduction29/12/18 05:07 AM
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Yeah, it's about being centered in self. Like you said you're aware of what your good & not good at. Being a nice guy means your saying yes to something you can't probably do & to win that person you'll force yourself to take it up & do it. When your settled in who you are as a person & not seeking others to validate if your attractive, smart or funny. Your mindest & interactions are different. I used to be one of those guys seeking validation because i didn't feel good enough about myself so i …
/r/seduction20/12/18 05:45 PM
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You don’t really need a social circle to meet women, I’m solo 98% of the time and meet high quality women majority of the time. It depends on your mindset and intention while meeting women. The women you meet now are a reflection or something in you. As you evolve as grow as a person your attraction with raise into higher quality. Only if you grow, last question to ask yourself is. What is a high quality woman to you?
/r/seduction23/05/18 10:25 AM
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Girls Chase is awesome, Chase Amante and his writers/friends alway produce great content. I usually read 2-3 articles monthly of theirs and i learn a lot. He even has practical mindset to apply in some articles. For anyone looking to go deeper than pickup its a great site.
/r/seduction27/03/18 02:33 PM
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Man, you’re not ugly. Get out of here with those thoughts! Work on your social skills. Develop more confidence and you’ll be okay.
/r/seduction18/01/18 05:53 PM
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You don’t have any confidence in yourself. You have to grow yourself to attract other people. Work on your social skills and develop a personal style that works for you. Check out r/malefashionadvice for some insight to get going. I was like that a year ago, girls not liking me, being disrespected by strangers. It sucked so bad, i was forced to change. All those past things dont happen anymore because i invested & grew myself. Get growing.
/r/seduction18/01/18 03:41 PM
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Who is telling you that man, you approach who you like anywhere! I talk to women in shopping lines, while they are shppping, just getting out of their car to go into a store. Make it happen. Stop making silly excuses to stay comfortable.
/r/seduction18/01/18 03:35 PM
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Hey man, you need to go to places that you like and interact with women there. Just going to a bar /club isn’t going to help you. Feminism is a false god. Be you. Work on your social skills and style and you’ll attract women. Get it together.
/r/seduction18/01/18 03:02 PM
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Goals are a common range, like losing 50 pounds, eating more vegetables, or even walking 10 minutes a day. Small goals that lead to bigger things. A business is like an outcome to have for your future.
/r/seduction22/10/17 12:25 PM
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Another knock out of the park with GC, Awesome Hector. Thanks for this new bow in the quiver.
/r/seduction19/10/17 03:20 PM
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Can you give a bit of insight of what you may have learned so far?
/r/seduction24/11/16 04:55 PM
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This is still good for here seduction is about communicating desire for a woman.
/r/seduction27/06/16 03:16 AM
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All some good points, thanks for the post
/r/seduction27/06/16 03:11 AM
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I'm not sure if someone else may of said this but. It's all in your mind. If you say your scared and not sure what to say or do you will. What I started to do is themes. So let's say if I want to go shop for clothes. That's my theme anything else in between is extra. So whilst I'm shopping I can see a nice looking girl I might be interested in, so I'll go strike up small talk. If I don't get her number who cares, millions of women in the world. So there's an example as you go out to do something…
/r/seduction06/06/16 03:25 AM
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Just make the plunge and go all in. If you don't go you will never grow or learn. Long story short. Just do it!
/r/seduction20/11/15 05:40 PM
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