mashiweirk Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Reframing Toxic Masculinity	General	mashiweirk	/r/MensRights	24/02/21 06:35 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-5	Make this Make Sense You turned her on, but took you 72 hrs to notice… get’r done… then back to the project man. lol	/r/MensRights	14/07/25 11:24 PM
6	Ever notice how men are always the "anti-child" in media? A friend of mine male says he would like to have a child but “you got to convince one of those females and it’s such a hassle.”	/r/MensRights	26/06/25 06:28 PM
7	Personal minor victories. False allegation here, cleared, however Parenting Consultant is “believing her” in spite of the evidence. I feel you on being painted with a false narrative.	/r/MensRights	09/02/24 03:21 PM
3	Why do only women get their own section of a gym? Better, I actually just want a “buff” men’s only section so my “slim” self, doesn’t feel even more slim than usual. Tbo It’s an actual thing that keeps me from going to the gym. Gym bros only section. Lol	/r/MensRights	08/07/21 03:17 PM
0	Reframing Toxic Masculinity How’s that working for you, making any progress?	/r/MensRights	24/02/21 08:46 PM
0	Reframing Toxic Masculinity The world does seem at times seem very hurtful and overwhelmingly uncaring. However in gentle kindness we must be the examples of caring even sometimes when we’re hurt?	/r/MensRights	24/02/21 01:08 PM
1	Reframing Toxic Masculinity Your words say exactly my points, however we cant stop others from using “the words” TM. The best we can do is shift the focus to the facts that TM is trauma related and where does trauma develop and where is our responsibility as a whole in it.	/r/MensRights	24/02/21 12:52 PM
1	Reframing Toxic Masculinity Thank you I’ve been reflecting on this for some years now, my sense is that early nurturing played a role and what we are experiencing is a trauma effect.	/r/MensRights	24/02/21 12:39 PM
1	Reframing Toxic Masculinity In gentle kindness, just try and remove the very words of TM is a probability less likely. It’s impossible if unlikely to control the other person from using it. The best we can do is therefor change ourselves and not use it, or not engage, or reframe it by shifting the focus away from the subject “a human being” being toxic to the question ‘why is’ “a human being” toxic ie harmful. Moving the focus and responsibilities also to society and understanding that ‘toxic’ has a lot to do with how ‘a l…	/r/MensRights	24/02/21 12:25 PM
1	Reframing Toxic Masculinity In gentle kindness, I’ve been reflecting on TM and my own feelings towards its use for some years now, so I feel passionate that it needs some positive reframing in order to help us find solutions instead of devices. Just telling someone ‘to not be’ or ‘don’t do’ from anyone self respecting should know that’s not how humans work. Hard lines or heavy handedness of words rarely ever work because they fail to see their own irony or hypocrisy.	/r/MensRights	24/02/21 07:22 AM