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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
32	lowering standards for experience		masscollider	/r/seduction	29/09/14 12:48 AM

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1	lowering standards for experience Great thanks. I don't think I regret my decision. But it has made me realise that even if she was a 9 I was really into, I still would've fought it hard, probably out of fear. Which I think is the real problem here...	/r/seduction	29/09/14 10:02 AM
1	lowering standards for experience Thanks, unfortunately I think this may have been a factor. She was pretty and nice to talk to, just not the 9's (in looks, not necessarily personality) I've dated before. I got home last night and was kicking myself a little as I realised I was a bit fearful of under performing under the sheets, as I haven't had a lot of experience.	/r/seduction	29/09/14 08:44 AM
2	lowering standards for experience Thanks, you're right, I didn't really feel that rush of excitement of getting her into bed. I guess I would also feel a jerk if I had sex with someone knowing I didn't want to take it further. I think also I was put off that there wasn't really a "chase", if that makes sense. I wouldn't normally sleep with someone until at least the second date either. I also feel like I actively avoid/ put off sex and get really nervous for fear of under whelming them. But the only way to improve is practise, s…	/r/seduction	29/09/14 08:37 AM