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Do you want to marry this girl? If not - who cares Approach her like there’s a lot more where she came from (trust me, there are).
/r/askTRP27/10/18 04:51 AM
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When a girl wants to be with you it’s super easy. When a girl doesn’t want to be with you it’s like this.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 04:50 AM
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100% move on
/r/askTRP27/10/18 04:42 AM
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YOU THINK SHE WOULD ASK CHAD FOR SPECIFIC DIRECTIONS OR DO YOU THINK SHE’D BE AT THE BAR 10 MINS EARLY WITH A DRINK AND CONDOMS FOR CHAD LMAO CHAD DOESNT EVEN HAVE TO WEAR CONDOMS BC HE.... Dude tell her the address and quit being an idiot
/r/askTRP27/10/18 04:41 AM
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Girls hug I hug my bros A hug is not invitation to escalate
/r/askTRP27/10/18 04:39 AM
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Don’t wear a mask. Masks are creepy
/r/askTRP27/10/18 04:34 AM
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It’s going to depend on how interesting other people think your life is. If your life sucks now, it’s going to suck on social media. If your life is awesome now, it’s going to be awesome on social media. If you’ve got nothing to show - it’s only going to hurt you.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 04:32 AM
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I think we all maintain that there is a scenario where we would cheat on a potential wife. Since women are just as horny as men, you must also maintain the belief that there is a scenario where your wife would cheat on you. Cheating is inevitable. You are not the sexiest / coolest / most awesome man on earth, and even if you were - variety is the spice of life. So don’t expect to be her only, expect to be her favorite or best man. She should be your favorite or best woman. This all depends on yo…
/r/askTRP27/10/18 03:57 AM
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You can’t make this stuff up
/r/askMRP27/10/18 03:44 AM
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Tl;dr some girls don’t suck dick. If you want a girl to suck your dick, date a girl who sucks dick.
/r/askMRP27/10/18 03:42 AM
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Hm what if he has two big eyebrows and you only have one big eyebrow? What if his dick is long and skinny, but yours is average but fat? Oohhh!! What if he can bench 225lbs 10 times, but you can bench 250lbs 5 times? That girl you’re after is gonna need a calculator! What if you both lend her your calculators but he has a ti-83 and you only have a ti-67??? Surely she’s going to choose the guy who isn’t worried about another mans face. Worry about better shit
/r/askTRP25/10/18 05:27 PM
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COLD WORLD
/r/askTRP25/10/18 04:04 PM
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Move on. If there’s no sexual tension, there’s no sexual tension. If you want to see her again as a friend, invite her out next time you’re out with your bros, tell her to bring friends. I would not hangout 1 on 1 again unless the dancing is a way for you to meet other girls.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 03:59 PM
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Bring a guy friend
/r/askTRP25/10/18 03:36 PM
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Start making out Start with your hands on her waist, back of her head / her face, smile, tell her she’s a good kisser. Are you in good shape? Take your shirt off. Usually this is monkey-see monkey-do but if she doesn’t take hers off, you can take hers off. Get close, get on top of her. Keep kissing, neck / lips, ears - ears are good. Hands should be around the waist / between the legs but not the vagina (yet) - maybe do some dry humping. DONT GRAB HER BOOBS LIKE A 5 YEAR OLD BOY. Now personally …
/r/askTRP24/10/18 09:50 PM
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If she’s not hanging out with you then she is not interested.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 09:28 PM
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Sleeping with somebody’s wife and hanging around the husband is just stupid. Also, that should tell you just how batshit crazy the wife is. I would avoid both
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/18 09:27 PM
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You guys have no real connection outside of “we were drunk and at the same place at the same time.” Those make for awkward mornings. Unless you really hit it off the next morning in the hungover afterglow of a drunken romp, I see no reason why either of you would want to see each other again. How would you introduce her to your friends? -here’s this girl I took home from the party last night lol The same is true for her. If you think she’s special (which would be weird since she just slept with …
/r/askTRP24/10/18 09:23 PM
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She sounds like a great drinking buddy, but not a gf. Don’t get caught in her problems.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 07:09 PM
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ONS is ONS You were probably both drunk and maybe don’t really have much in common. Also - ONS to plate is gonna be unusual if it’s a true we-met-that-night and banged scenario.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 07:06 PM
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Do you think she is posting on a message board about you? It matters to you, not her. Move on bro.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 06:50 PM
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Bro - Leave this woman She is not good for you. This is not how a relationship starts. Nobody should ever talk to you that way. You’re 25, who else is calling you names? Who else is mad at you when you do them a favor? If the only person on this list is your EX-GF then you need to realize she sucks, NOT YOU. If EVERYONE treats you this way, maybe you are an asshole and need to change, otherwise - she is the problem.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 06:47 PM
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amazing
/r/askTRP24/10/18 06:43 PM
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Just say thanks and then start a real conversation.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 03:26 PM
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Your whole attitude is self-defeating. “I know I’m not good enough for the hot white girls soo...” Guess what, they don’t know how good or good you aren’t. When you disqualify yourself with that attitude they definitely know you’re not good enough for them. I’m a minority / I’m short / I’m little / I’m a loser Guess what - nobody likes someone who feels bad for themselves.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 03:23 PM
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I don’t think any of these girls have rejected you, they were probably all actually busy. There is nothing wrong with being persistent. If you want to see these girls again, reach out and see what they’re up to. There are girls I have asked out 3-4 times before they agreed to meet. There are girls who asked me out. And there is everything in between. If you hooked up and enjoyed it, ask her to do it again. She’s probably thinking “omg I slept with this guy too soon, I don’t want him to think I a…
/r/askTRP17/10/18 03:08 PM
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Was she always this way or did something happen? If she was generally awesome, but now in a funk - that’s normal. Especially if it’s like her mom died or she lost her job etc. If she was sad when you met, and is still sad - that’s a different issue that you’re probably not qualified to deal with. Generally speaking - avoid getting into a relationship with people with mental health issues. They’re not usually in a place to date. These people need friends, but romance might not be the best idea.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 02:59 PM
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Agreed.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 02:56 PM
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I have had girls tell me they are older because I am older I have had girls tell me they are younger because they were older I have had girls tell me they drove a specific kind of car when in reality they didn’t even have a drivers license. If you’re out to have fun, don’t worry about getting the truth. All you can do is be honest and let them do what they want with your truth. When you’re being honest it’s easier to spot a liar. You don’t need the truth to have fun.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 02:54 PM
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How she is with you is how she is with everyone...you’re not special dummy
/r/askTRP16/10/18 07:37 PM
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she currently has STDs and not using birth control? Where did you find this angel from heaven?
/r/askTRP16/10/18 07:36 PM
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idk most married guys are betas who got drunk at the right time with the right girl in college and never let her go. These are the guys who say, “I have no idea how I’d meet people today.” And their irrational fear of starting over keeps them in a relationship that was really decided before either party knew who they were. Idk how these things play out, will report back in 20-30 years
/r/askTRP16/10/18 07:29 PM
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What time do you get off? I’m going to be at x place around y time - can you hang?
/r/askTRP16/10/18 07:24 PM
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If you’re not seeing your bros / gym / work / study then you have too many. If you have time to come on here and ask about this one girl...you have too few
/r/askTRP16/10/18 07:19 PM
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Sometimes when it’s my first time with a girl I have been seeing for a while I get nervous because of all the build-up. I have tried everything and what usually works for me is to look directly into her eyes and remind myself that this girl wants to have great sex with me and in all likelihood is even more nervous than I am (women are generally more nervous). Usually I look at her, tell her, “give me a second.” Make our kiss / rub and before you know it im back at attention ready to go. It’s a c…
/r/askTRP16/10/18 07:18 PM
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Ask her: “why?”
/r/askTRP16/10/18 07:11 PM
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Yeah ask her out. Do you meet people so you can text them?
/r/askTRP16/10/18 07:10 PM
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You’re walking a slippery slope. As others have said, some girls just really have a knack for sucking dick while others really seem to struggle. It doesn’t seem to be a practice makes perfect thing either. I find younger girls are actually better than older girls. (Pretty sure if a girl is old and single she probably gives bad head lmao). Anyways there’s no way to cure it without giving her some kind of complex about it. If she’s truly horrible just let her do her thing for a little and then tel…
/r/askTRP16/10/18 07:08 PM
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100% chance those booty pix are getting spammed to 10+ other guys. Don’t ever think you’re special until she gives you time and money
/r/askTRP16/10/18 07:04 PM
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Her Birthday and maybe your anniversary if you guys get married
/r/askTRP16/10/18 04:37 PM
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this is adorable try making out for a while and then try taking her clothes off, don’t bother with the bra - it sounds like you won’t be able to figure that one out. I’d suggest you stick to unbuttoning buttons and unzipping her zippers. Then you can take her pants off. Girls have this thing between their legs called a vagina. That’s what you want to explore once you get her pants off. Just rub it gently until you know what you’re doing.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 04:35 PM
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If the date went well - plan a second date on a day that works for you. Let’s go to x at y time? She will say “yes!” or “I’m busy, but what about z?” If you get neither, or a legitimate excuse like leaving the state / attending a funeral - then wait a week or two and ask again. Basically treat her like one of your guy friends. Do you ask your guy friends their schedules and favorite bars? No - you just say - hey bro I’m going here - wanna go? She’s the same, except you’re gonna try to take her h…
/r/askTRP16/10/18 04:20 PM
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Classic psycho girl move She is trying to see where you are because she wants to know if you’re seeing anyone else Don’t play into this. Next thing you know - you have to FaceTime her at 11:30pm when you’re out with your bros because you started this weird trust issue game. Don’t ever agree to checking in when you go out with your friends. Trust is trust, nothing you do will build her trust for you, the second your phone dies (after you’ve established this check-in pattern) she will think you’re…
/r/askTRP12/10/18 10:34 PM
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Idk how well you know this girl / don’t know her, but in my experience it’s better to ask a girl to do something you’d already be doing. So if you’re going to a friends party, invite her to the party. If you’re going to the grocery store, invite her to that. Otherwise you’re going out of your way for someone you don’t even know if you like. This is better for you. Try less. Try so much less. Just tell them where you’ll be and when. They will show up or they will not. It doesn’t matter.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 06:07 PM
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There are a lot of clues in your post that point to a frame issue / maintaining who YOU ARE. You say you usually talk in Spanish and English and mix the two / go back and forth. Why didn’t you do that around this girl? That’s you bending yourself to fit her frame.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 02:32 PM
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The only way to find out is to make a move. Worst case she says “ewww we are friends” Best case she is into it. There’s a middle case where she says, “ewww we are friends” and then a few weeks later she is into it. Make a move
/r/askTRP11/10/18 02:27 PM
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No, and I don’t miss believing in Santa Claus either. Seeing the world and people for who and what they are is much better than projecting some Disney fantasy on them. It’s also much fairer for both involved. TRP preaches that the only person that can make you happy is yourself.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 02:25 PM
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Avoid the age conversation, you both know she is older than you, no reason to discuss it.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 09:16 PM
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Yeah just chill dude. Try to have a good time. Remember that the date is as much you trying to find out if you like her as it is her trying to find out if she likes you.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 07:50 PM
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1 change your mindset: Everyone is worth being friendly around. 2 everyone likes friendly people - so be friendly. “Hi how’s your day? Then listen. It goes a LONG WAY. 3 examine your friends: Guys that don’t talk to girls are not guys you want to be around. There is something wrong with them. 4 Make friends with a girl. Like actual friends with no expectations. You need experience being around women just hanging out. Women are fucking awesome and fun to be around. What sounds more fun: going out…
/r/askTRP09/10/18 02:10 AM
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you are dumb for real. Get a new fiancé Sounds like you are hoping she is going to start trying harder at anything once you promise you will never leave her. LMAO very dumb. Good luck buddy
/r/askMRP09/10/18 01:53 AM
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Well done. This scenario is a win-win-and-win. Re: your wife’s reaction to hearing about your blonde friend. It’s very similar to when an infant takes a tumble. If you rush over to the infant with fear in your eyes and panic in your heart, the baby will think something bad has happened and cry. If you laugh at the baby and smile, the baby will be comforted and giggle about this non-issue. The same is true when dealing with people. If you make an ambiguous scenario guilty or sketchy, you will inv…
/r/askMRP09/10/18 01:42 AM
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This is an excellent explanation
/r/askTRP07/10/18 07:59 PM
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What do you want from her? Attention / Validation = needy Companionship = normal
/r/askTRP01/10/18 04:26 PM
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Spend most of your time and money on yourself There are 10,000 guys just like you and 10,000 girls just like her You lose more from inaction rather than action. Go for what you want
/r/askTRP01/10/18 04:24 PM
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There is a smell that kills my mood. That smell - smells like animal shit at the zoo. It seems like 1/10 girls has a vagina that smells like that. I don’t understand the cause and I never stick around to find out. When I smell that smell I just need to get away.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 08:39 PM
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Multiple plates is more work than one good woman
/r/askTRP21/09/18 08:35 PM
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So obv your gf sister is hotter than your gf?
/r/askTRP30/08/18 05:40 PM
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Maybe they’re fidgety because you are great guy and they don’t want to screw this up? Assume attraction. Assume the girl likes you until she says she doesn’t. How many times do you hang out with people you secretly want to get away from? 99% of the time you’re hanging out someone because you want to hangout with that person. If she’s out with you by mistake - that’s on her. Don’t reject yourself because you think she may be secretly trying to reject you after accepting your offer for a date. Thi…
/r/askTRP29/08/18 07:11 PM
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I prefer to call girls once every two weeks as opposed to texting every day. Girls are funny on the phone
/r/askTRP29/08/18 05:44 PM
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Some girls are slower than others If you are dating a slower girl - take your time. Slower / Shy girls usually are chatty on the phone or texting but are fidgety in person. Some girls are bad at texting but great in person. As always, date as many girls as possible at the same time and get a feel to see if you like them. Don’t rush. Some girls need a few dates to feel comfortable to kiss with YOU. Some girls need 10 minutes with YOU to kiss. Don’t worry if she slept with “Chad” after 10 minutes,…
/r/askTRP29/08/18 05:39 PM
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Can you count the beat? Most songs are in 4/4 time which means there is a 1...2....3....4 beat to every song. A basic two step is taking one big step left with your left foot and then a small step left with your right foot. Then take a big step left with your right foot and a small step right with your left foot. Do that to the 1...2....3....4 beat of a song and you are dancing at a high level in most circles
/r/askTRP29/08/18 05:34 PM
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“holds more power” - this is probably all in your head. When we are intimidated by someone, we usually forget that they have weaknesses and faults just like us. Being intimidated by a fellow man is the same as putting a woman on a pedestal. Don’t put any person on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 04:03 PM
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You’re going to learn the most with a girl you want to see more than once. 6 months of the same girl will make you better at sex than 15 one night stands over the course of a year / however long it takes you to get to 15.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 04:00 PM
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If you haven’t met this guy and you never do - that’s a red flag. If you meet this guy and the two of you hangout and you become the third wheel - it’s a red flag. Maybe he’s a really cool guy and a potential new friend. Maybe he’s banging your girl. But you should try to become friends with him as it seems too late to push him away from your Gf.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 03:30 PM
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If you’re not getting laid in real life, you’re going to have an even harder time on Tinder.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 10:17 PM
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Try to remember that there’s absolutely no way you know she is great within the first 6months to a year. So every time you start thinking - she’s so “x.” Say to yourself - she’s so cool after 3 days, she’s been cool after 10 days etc. You’ll find almost any girl that’s not autistic is cool for a month or two. That’s nothing special. A special girl is cool for much longer. Don’t commit to anyone too quickly. Anyone can be fun and interesting to you for a few weeks or a month. If after a long time…
/r/askTRP17/08/18 06:38 PM
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Wear clothes that you like to wear and if you’re on a budget (like most people) wear clothes that match other clothes you already have. You should try to dress 1-2 years older than you actually are.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 02:06 PM
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What made you sure?
/r/askTRP17/08/18 02:04 PM
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Why did you move up to relationship instead of FWB? What was that conversation like?
/r/askTRP17/08/18 01:07 PM
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Girls with low self esteem are bad news in the long term. It may seem fun at first to try to build her up, but it’s not your job. You need to focus on yourself. It’s mostly draining and these girls can be horribly insecure / jealous / stalkerish. All makes for a nightmare in the end
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:30 PM
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Don’t trade your sense of humor for anything. I am also a “funny guy” and I found that being the funny guy is cool until you are one-on-one with someone and they don’t want to sit there and listen to joke after joke. If you’re anything like me, you hide anything you don’t want to talk about behind your jokes and use your wit to deflect / steer all conversations back to safer pastures. I’d suggest asking more questions in conversation / try to listen more. Not every conversation is going to be tw…
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:25 PM
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wrong again - you have a lot to learn, but you’ve come to the right place. Why don’t you actually try getting ripped and having a six pack? You’ll find the work (exercise) to be quite fulfilling any girls that take notice are just a bonus. This is true for all pursuits.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 02:19 PM
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I bet Chads life / mission is hard. His mission is not girls and that’s why he has an easy time with them. Girls can sense when you spend every waking moment wondering how to sleep with more girls. Chad is focused on himself and the girls are attracted to that.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 12:25 PM
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How do you know you definitely want to have sex with a girl from a dating site?
/r/askTRP09/08/18 03:13 PM
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On the plus side, it seems like you understand what you did wrong. Let this girl go, she can do better than you and you both believe that. so now there’s no reason to drag this out. Work on yourself. This whole scenario should have at least taught you one thing: Dating a “10” is not enough to satisfy a man. Evidence: You were a sad sack piece of shit when you guys were together. Next steps: work on yourself, discover that everyone else who isn’t obsessed with dating has it figured out...
/r/askTRP09/08/18 03:08 PM
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I wouldn’t go. A grown man doesn’t sleep in dorms and he definitely doesn’t drive 2 hours to rent a motel near a dorm. Use this as motivation to find a place and improve yourself so you’re not living at your parents. That’s step 1. Your living situation is the root of you entire problem here, and likely why you’re “too busy with work” to date.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 03:02 PM
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LA seems like a cool city. But what’s your mission? Moving to LA to meet girls is hardly a goal / plan. If you were moving to LA to grind out a career in acting / some LA-specific industry I would applaud your bravery and drive. But moving to LA to pretend to be cool to meet girls is a waste of time and you’ll be competing against all of the other dummies that are doing the same thing. Working on your goals and yourself is better than faking it.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 03:53 AM
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Having friends / social circle is a pre requisite to having a great life. Everyone should have friends / people they can hangout with and rely on. Having a great life is a pre-requisite for attracting someone who also has a great life. And it is 100x easier to meet a girl through mutual friends than anywhere else.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 07:48 PM
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The only problem here is insecurity. Your girlfriend is attracted to many guys and flirts with many guys. You should be attracted to many girls and flirt with other girls. The Landlord is attracted to many girls and flirts with many girls. Guess what, if he’s really a good landlord. He doesn’t shit where he eats. To expect your girl to only have eyes / fun with you is losing expectation. Expect your girl to prefer your company over others and to see you as her best option. If you think this old …
/r/askTRP08/08/18 03:54 PM
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I think some of the guys here are saying OP is trying to fit EVERY GIRL into the wife box. I agree that being single forever sounds lonely. I also had a really crappy relationship that almost ended in marriage (because I wanted “love” so badly) that I almost sabotaged the rest of my life for it. So I’m not sure what a man can do. In your 30s you’re meeting someone who hopefully dated someone they thought they would marry but didn’t. It would be weird to date someone with no previous serious rela…
/r/askTRP07/08/18 12:11 AM
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Start slow and observe to see if she likes it... Easy moves: grab her wrists with one hand and hold them above her head. slap her butt, open hand. the hand on her trap, thumb near her collarbone is a precursor to choking. Also, you don’t have to go full choke. A lot of girls just like a hand around her neck. If you’re standing up behind her, a hand around the neck is a move that many girls like. Again - everyone is different so take your time and be cautious. You can always get rougher.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 03:17 PM
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I too am in this mood. I’m no longer interested in sex without a connection. It’s a sign of maturity. Also, this gives you more time to focus on yourself and what you want.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 02:43 PM
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100% this A girl I was seeing asked me, “should I get fake boobs?” It was honestly the dumbest thing she could have said because it revealed exactly what you were saying. I felt bad for her. If people tell you they are damaged / don’t feel good about themselves you have to leave them alone. Don’t try to love anyone that doesn’t love themselves.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 06:40 PM
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Do you think you could stop eating apples tomorrow? probably true and with little effort Do you think you could stop watching porn for a week or a month? If not, you have some kind of issue with it. If it’s hard to stop, you have a habit, and porn is not a great habit. It would be hard for me to not go to the gym this week. It would be hard for me to not eat well. It would be hard for me to stop doing laundry. It USED to be hard for me to not watch porn before bed.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 06:20 PM
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Take that money and buy yourself a gym membership / new clothes / something for your apartment / invest it. Improve yourself and let your improvements (new clothes / nice haircut / nice apt / nice body) do the talking. Going to a PUA circle jerk is a waste of time and money. also - meeting girls isn’t a hobby. It is a residual effect of having a great life full of self-investment.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 06:15 PM
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Hahah you’re right. Skimmed right over: “I know she’ll never have the same emotions she has for me with other guys...” OP!! she already has those emotions for another guys.... Nobody is your special flower ever. And you are nobody’s special flower. There is no “ONE TRUE LOVE.” There are people that qualify for wife / gf / lover / friend, but nobody is the ONLY OPTION.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 06:07 PM
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This is 100% true. “I’m tired” means - go down on me and we’ll see what happens Nobody, man or woman, is too tired to receive oral sex. And oral sex leads to sex so there ya go.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 03:44 PM
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100% she’s trying to break up with you. No reason to go nuclear, but she is no longer your girlfriend and she definitely doesn’t •LOVE• you the way you want to be •LOVED• So don’t compromise. If you like her and can handle it, just keep hanging out with her - but no more girlfriend status. She is now a FWB. You’re not helping her move. You’re not bringing her to parties where you might want to hookup with someone else. But there’s no real way to salvage this where she will respect you the way yo…
/r/askTRP02/08/18 03:40 PM
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Great exchange overall. Don’t see any reason to “next” here. I’d say: “yeah definitely” Then next week you can text her “Winery tonight?” on the day that you’d most like to do the winery. She’ll either say “I’m in” or anything but yes. You have nothing to lose.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 03:32 PM
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Lmao, no the black guys matter, otherwise he would have said 2 dudes. It’s funny OP is hilarious, but more importantly, honest so I am glad he shared because there are a lot of people who wouldn’t never have the self awareness to realize where their whacky feelings come from.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 03:25 PM
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Encourage her to go see someone qualified to deal with the issues she feels she cannot share with you. It’s entirely possible that after some therapy with a professional she will feel comfortable opening up to you. Don’t force her to go to therapy, but suggest it. Help her understand that you don’t think she is crazy / deranged for needing to see one and support her - in this way you can still be her oak. It sounds like you really want to be there for her and currently she won’t lean on you. Tha…
/r/askMRP02/08/18 03:18 PM
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Exactly. OP sees a hot girl and says her SMV is high without knowing she has 15 grand in credit card debt, issues with alcohol, and a dead end job.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 11:31 PM
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Girls always want to be the more attractive partner in every relationship. If she’s not “out of your league” you could do better.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 04:00 PM
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In 8 years of going to the gym I’ve been approached twice. One girl just came up to me and gave me her number - very strange. Never texted. Randomly saw her at the local bar later and took her home. Another woman (older) asked to work into my set - no reason other than to talk to me (other machines were open). Nothing came of this interaction. If you want to meet people at the gym, don’t wear headphones.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 04:39 PM
2

Keyword: Depressed Don’t try to date anyone who seems depressed. If you’re dating someone who gets depressed - you should be there for them, but trying to date someone who is depressed is a bad idea. They’re not thinking clearly. Nothing you did wrong, depression is a tough thing and something that the depressed person can only solve on their own (if they even want to solve it).
/r/askTRP31/07/18 04:32 PM
2

What I am saying is that you have gone backwards. When you were single you had all your hobbies and two women. Now you’ve got no hobbies and one woman
/r/askTRP30/07/18 06:22 PM
1

Be the guy she fell in love with. If you’re not longer that person, don’t be surprised when she leaves. Also, the guy she loved was sleeping with 2 girls. That should tell you something.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 05:44 PM
1

This is very true. There are 2 ways to get rid of any girl that likes you. 1.) Invest too much too soon Or 2.) Don’t make a move when she wants you Anything else she will work with you on, but there’s no discussing how she feels like you like her to much, or why you didn’t invite her back to your place. Seriously, I don’t think there has ever been a time where asking a girl to come home with me has backfired. Not asking is a surefire way to make them want nothing to do with you.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 05:41 PM
1

Cry as much as you want. Being alpha is not apologizing for who you are. Being beta is apologizing for being yourself.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 07:36 PM
16

Take your time, you’ve been out of the game for a while. Don’t immediately try to get into a relationship. Enjoy being single. Enjoy being on your own. You will be surrounded by friends who are pathetic without a woman by their side to make them feel whole. These people will be even more pathetic should they ever wind up divorced. These pathetic men are the fat / slobby boyfriends / husbands who immediately quit on themselves once they got a gf. You’re young, don’t rush marriage. Your friends wi…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 07:32 PM
3

You shot your shot. She knows you’re interested - that’s probably enough for now. When he is inevitably out of the picture she will be there
/r/askTRP26/07/18 07:25 PM
1

Everybody’s been there, don’t stay there too long. Make your move or distance yourself. Staying where you are is torture and keeps you from meeting the right people.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 07:24 PM
2

Embrace it. Think about the distance runners from Kenya who run / live at high elevation. When they come down to race levels they dominate. Training is about improvement from the day before, not beating someone else’s numbers. Some people may claim to run a 6minute mile. Their route could be downhill with the wind at their back. What does a 6 minute mile mean anyways? I run with a backpack full of clothes and a sweatshirt on no matter how hot it is. I’m not running so I can post some time on the…
/r/askTRP26/07/18 04:00 PM
5

Here is the truth. You have a crush on a friend Which really means you have a crush on a girl you believe will reject you if you make a move Which really means - orbiter / unrequited love. Lmao no single guy is just friends with a hot single girl they don’t want to sleep with.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 03:46 PM
2

Yeah man, you need friends / bros.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 10:58 PM
2

Also a late bloomer - older now I’ve been where you are You don’t have enough experience to know if what you have is good or not so be very open with your close friends about what you’re feeling / what’s going on in the relationship. Focus on yourself. If she is great she will try to lock you down, not the other way around
/r/askTRP23/07/18 12:08 PM
1

Depends on how she asked. But in general, save big favors for your close friends. A big favor can make people uncomfortable. Nobody wants to feel like they owe you something. And it doesn’t matter how big the favor is to you, you could literally be on your way to the moon and if you bring back a moon rock she could get weirded out that you’ve brought back a moon rock. So I would say, save favors for someone you are seriously dating. It’s better to have a girl complain you don’t help her enough t…
/r/askTRP23/07/18 11:58 AM
2

There was a post on the main sub about being a TRAIN, not a TAXI. tl;dr - you need to have a plan for yourself and this plan should extend out into the future. That way, when “out of your way” requests pop up, you can say “on track” (like a train) instead of going wherever you’re summoned (taxi). Also, do you want to date someone who would cut you out of their life because you had something better to do than drive 2 hours? Don’t treat each interaction as if it’s the last chance you have to seal …
/r/askTRP20/07/18 07:23 PM
3

The timeline here is your problem. You have hung out with this girl...twice? One sleepover? “About a month ago” so that means maybe you have known her for 4 weeks? Even if you have seen her once a week over those 4 weeks... It’s too fast to be saying you want a relationship / exclusive. She also even told you: SLOW DOWN. Also assuming you’re her top option - doubtful. Her top option is the guy who is too busy to drive 2 hours to pick her up after one sleepover. Everyone has made this mistake bef…
/r/askTRP20/07/18 06:28 PM
1

Wrong dummy. If you only have sex with one person it’s highly likely you’ll have sex with another. If you have had sex with 16 people, you might start to think you don’t need to do 17.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 01:01 AM
0

There are so many more relevant things to judge a potential LTR by than N-count. How is she with money? Is she honest with you? Is she fun? Does she love her family? What’s important to you? The number of unique dicks she has seen? What if she has seen one realllllly long one? Or a hundred short ones? Or maybe one that’s suuuper wide! To answer your question: Ideally she has slept with enough guys to know what she likes and doesn’t like and is comfortable with you being the last guy she sleeps w…
/r/askTRP19/07/18 10:23 PM
25

Wait until you are 1-2 years removed from this person. You will see what a fool you’ve been and how long you’ve been lying to yourself. You were in a relationship that was bad for you. Be glad you’re out. Take your time.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 09:41 PM
3

I have met a lot of girls while dancing and I will tell you how it goes. How I Dance with strangers without being a creep: 1.) im dancing 2.) a dancing girl appears near me 3.) I continue dancing and see if she’s trying to make eye contact or if she is actually (gasp) just dancing near me with no intention of meeting me. 4.) we make eye contact and smile, she will start dancing in my direction 5.) I do some of her dance moves, she may do some of mine 6.) HANDS! START WITH HANDS! Reach out and ge…
/r/askTRP16/07/18 04:55 PM
10

You’re worried about the wrong thing. Become great and you will attract great people.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 04:31 PM
1

Try to do it with somebody you care about and trust for your first time. This isn’t basketball practice lmao. Also, you’re better off sleeping with someone you know you will want to see again afterwards. Take your time. You’re not gonna be a virgin forever
/r/askTRP13/07/18 03:39 PM
2

Hmmm...is this post about self-improvement or how do I get validation from sleeping with a girl that is a 7? “7” Work on yourself. A “7” is not the goal here. You’ve strayed. Get back on track.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 12:16 PM
1

Develop a running habit. Can you run home from school / work? Can you run to the gym / run home from the gym? Try to find time to walk and run and you’ll never get fat.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 12:13 PM
7

You’re 19 in NYC... The average age for marriage there is around 29-31. I lived in NYC for a few years. It’s a great place to be single, a very hard place to be in a relationship. Wear condoms, don’t fall in love, you are wayyy too young to be thinking about marriage. There are tons of girls there. Have fun. I will say, go to the gym. Most NY guys do not exercise as everyone stays relatively thin because they walk everywhere. Casual Lifting in NY will put you above your peers. focus on school / …
/r/askTRP09/07/18 12:11 PM
1

I’m in a similar situation. Been doing the gym / dieting / running pretty consistently for about 3 months now. Starting to notice people notice me in a good way. Now it’s the gym, not a bar / club so the rules are probably a little different. I’ve never met anyone at the gym. Mostly because of all of the reasons you have listed. However, I’m starting to internalize the idgaf mindset even without a drink or three. Might as well say hello to this girl. A simple “hey” or a smile might be enough to …
/r/askTRP06/07/18 04:02 PM
2

I know we are all about growth mindset, but instead of blaming yourself for developing feelings that she was able to somehow read... Have you ever considered that maybe she just found someone else that she likes better? You can’t expect to be everyone’s favorite forever.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 03:56 PM
1

This is going to get downvoted but there’s no shame in being a virgin at age 18. If you are ashamed of it, girls will pick up on that insecurity. You’re 18, so that’s pretty normal to be insecure about this. If you had the frame, I would own it. I don’t mean walk around with a tattoo on your forehead that says, “virgin.” But if you do find a girl you like and she is into you, it might not be the worst idea to say, “hey - this is my first time.” This is coming from someone who lied about not bein…
/r/askTRP03/07/18 02:40 PM
4

Try it, you’d be surprised. In one trip to the grocery store you can change your diet. You can start running today You can start going the to the gym Today. See what happens in 2 months. Imagine what can happen in 2 years
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 02:27 PM
2

lmao what It sounds like you had a chance at a conversation with a cute girl and you shut her down by being super dumb and weird. I don’t think this is a success story. She didn’t ask you to help her move, she asked to try your ice cream which was probably an invitation to start talking to her.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 02:12 PM
2

Women always assume you are seeing other women. You could be on the driest spell of your life and the next girl you hook up with will assume you have women coming in an out of your place daily. After all, that’s why she chose you...
/r/askTRP13/06/18 01:33 PM
2

If you want to ask someone else out, you should get out of this LTR that’s going to turn into an LDR which is not good. Think about when you first started dating this person. Or even in the first few years. Did you ever want to actually ask anyone else out? I don’t mean seeing a hot girl and thinking, “wow she’s hot...” I mean doing the whole dance of charming her and asking her out? Probably not. Now - you have been with this girl for 4 years, you’re moving away, and you have met a girl that ha…
/r/askTRP13/06/18 01:31 PM
0

Re: the notch Tl;dr notch pursuit is motivated by ignorance of a deeper love or experience of heartache and a desire to remain sexually active without emotional attachment. Me: As someone who was very interested in “the notch” In high school I did not have much success with women at all. Very insecure and mean person with a general distrust of everyone. Had friends, but not close with anyone. Enjoyed healthier friendships in college and lived for the pursuit of “the notch.” I would say, if you’v…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 01:22 PM
17

In general... People like romance when it’s appropriate. If you’re dating someone for a while it is smart to surprise them with gifts and flowers. It is not smart to show up to a first date with gifts and flowers.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 12:30 PM
2

“How long have you had that problem?”
/r/askTRP22/05/18 05:34 PM
1

I can relate to your feelings and I think your first problem is you are spending too much time and energy with women (and probably people in general) you don’t like. Scenario 1 should never happen to a man who only pursues women he actually wants. If you only want her for sex, and you don’t feel good about that, leave her alone. Life is too short to give time to someone you aren’t truly interested in. Scenario 2 will likely take care of itself once you only entertain women you like. You are subc…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 06:28 PM
2

Going to the club / bar with the outcome dependent on if you get laid / meet girls or not is a bad idea. If George Clooney asks you to go with him to a party are you going to turn him down because he is more attractive / successful than you? Probably not. The chance to hangout with Clooney and see what his party is like is plenty of motivation to go. If you don’t feel that way about going out with your friends, don’t go. Also, club night hookups are rarely worthwhile when compared to sober sex w…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 06:16 PM
1

Depends on where you live. If you live in bumblefuck Arkansas, you’re not going to dress like cool people in LA and vice versa.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 06:55 PM
2

If she posted a picture on her social media with her boyfriend and you interpret that as a personal “shit test” to you, you have some serious delusions. I don’t think you get what a “shit test” is. It’s when a woman challenges your opinion and you wind up changing your mind in the 10 seconds between you realizing you don’t agree on everything. In an attempt to be the vision you believe she has for you, you change your mind about any topic to gain her approval. That is failing a shit test. Exampl…
/r/askTRP26/04/18 06:43 PM
1

Part of your paycheck is for putting up with your co-workers bullshit in a professional manner. If he shits on your desk, start bringing Lysol to work or find a new job. Those are your only options.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 06:37 PM
1

No. How does an escort help you achieve your goals? Dumb! Buy yourself some nice clothes with the money you would have spent on the escort. Or save it... I’ve never had sex with an escort. No shame to people that use them, everyone has tastes. But if you’re holding off approaching women because YOU believe you’re not good enough then you should aim lower for now, but not at escorts. If winning for you is “sex” (which is not really a win but whatever) then build your confidence with real wins, no…
/r/askTRP26/04/18 06:35 PM
5

Tl;dr dramatic girl says we need to talk. Rational man with options says: “ok sure” Rational man: waits for dramatic girl to be dramatic Dramatic girl: “ blah blah blah blah blah” Rational man: decides if the dramatic girl of one month is worth this headache.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 06:27 PM
1

There are so many reasons a woman will find you attractive regardless of color / height / size / hair style / income / beliefs / politics. However, no woman is attracted to a man who is ashamed of who he is.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 06:23 PM
1

What is best? You know your schedule, if Thursday works best for you - reschedule for Thursday.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 08:50 PM
4

No there is an added stress that you just don’t need. If you’re cheating, you are playing the role of boyfriend and single man. That is more complicated. As a result, more of your time is given to others and that means less time for you. If you’re just single, there’s no penalty for dating around, you can be honest with everyone which is less stress. Some people cheat because they enjoy the deception more than anything else...but that whole act is a waste of time. If you’re thinking about cheati…
/r/askTRP18/04/18 06:48 PM
5

ACTION: You guys have been having awesome sex. WORDS: She says she needs a break from the awesome sex and just wants to talk. WORDS: She says if she had a boyfriend she would still have awesome sex with you . (Lmao what???) If I were you, I’d just play it cool until you guys inevitably meet up again. No harm in chatting.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 03:53 PM
8

Different women are different in bed. If you’re curious, go explore. There is no prize for dating the same person for 70 years and there is no penalty for dating 70 people over 70 years (provided you’re clean). I’d advise against cheating, so if you’re really that curious...break up.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 03:43 PM
3

Lmao ask her what she means... how would we know? We’re a bunch of people who only know her through this one single interaction, you have been talking to her much longer, therefore know her much better than us. It’s called confidence. Believe in yourself.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 03:45 AM
1

Yes, confront her, tell her: “I’m insecure...remember that guy you told me about? He sounded really alpha and I think you might have added him on snap and searched him on facebook. After you told me about mr. Alpha chad I started stalking you because I believe our relationship of six years can be undone by a man with an ounce of confidence.” If you don’t want to confront her: Take her phone. Send a SNAP to G - “send me a selfie 😘” You’ll have your answer. Good luck, betas
/r/askMRP17/04/18 12:59 AM
1

You should still go. If you have had fun with this girl in the past, you may have a chance for a great friendship. This sub doesn’t play up the importance of female friends, but any alpha I have ever met also has female friends. It will help you recognize interest / non-interest and help you to learn what feels like friendship and what feels like romance. Go have fun with your friend, maybe you will meet a new girl while you’re out.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 05:24 AM
4

Going out to dinner and seeing movies and having fun are all things you can do with another guy. It should not count as dating. It sounds like you have never dated anyone.... There is a huge difference between going out for food and going out for a date. Did you guys kiss / sex / cuddle or did you really just eat dinner / watch a movie / have fun with her? Dating is when there is romantic energy and both of you are attracted to each other. Unrequited love is when you have a crush on a friend who…
/r/askTRP13/04/18 06:49 PM
7

Never say, “how to make a girl your slut” - this reeks of inexperience. What you mean is, “how do I make a girl comfortable being sexy around me.” It takes Confidence and experience. If you are confident and experienced, she will trust and believe you when you tell her she is hot / sexy because you have positioned yourself as an authority on what is hot and sexy. First and foremost: Be good in bed, she will enjoy sleeping with you. If you’re doing it right, you will rarely ever ask for nudes / b…
/r/askTRP13/04/18 04:25 PM
6

Yeah but what if you only make out with her for 10 seconds? Is that going to count? Will the date be a success if you make out for 25 seconds? What if you only kiss her for 24 seconds? Are you a failure!? No You are approaching this with 110% outcome dependence. You’re going bar hopping with a girl. It will be fun. Drinking with cute girls is fun. Go out and have fun. Decide during the date what you want to do with her. Ask her questions. Find out what she is like / what she is into. Find out wh…
/r/askTRP13/04/18 04:11 PM
2

Stick to the truth, don’t overshare. If something funny happened, tell a funny story. If you got so drunk you pissed the bed, keep that to yourself... Think about what you would think of her if she was saying what you’re considering saying.... 1st date - are you going to tell her about the day your parents got divorced or the day your dog died...probably not.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 10:34 PM
-1

Lmao don’t ever make negative jokes about a woman’s body. Bad move dumb dumb. You may see her again, give space - see other people. If you’re as good as you claim she’ll forgive
/r/askTRP12/04/18 08:40 PM
2

You have discovered that finding “everlasting love” with a woman is not a mission in life and you have become sad because the “trophy” you were searching for is not really an award / fill you with all the validation you were desperately seeking. You will find that a fulfilling romantic relationship is an excellent accessory to a fulfilling life. Pursue your curiosities, pursue your goals and interests. If you happen to have a lovely lady by your side while doing this - tremendous. But if you’re …
/r/askTRP11/04/18 12:50 AM
1

You should date people you are attracted to / want to be around. It is unhealthy and compromising to sleep with people you don’t want to be seen with. Life is too short to sleep with women you don’t want. Spend that time working on yourself and you’ll attract the women you do like.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 06:08 PM
1

Didn’t miss how you flipped her question of plans into immediate validation and reschedule. “Omg a female has reached out to me, I am unavailable tonight, but willing to meet you at your earliest convenience.” That’s you flipping right into her frame. And for the record, these are all games you can play over text. You can come off as needy even if you keep It to logistics...constantly reaching out for plans / immediately rescheduling when you are busy do nothing to establish the frame of her see…
/r/askTRP05/04/18 10:34 PM
1

Didn’t miss a thing. OP has a girl who is interested in seeing him. “Oh I can’t today, how about tomorrow” is literally seeing her ASAP. It’s in his best interest to introduce a little dread until he actually wants to see her again. Think about it this way, which creates more anxiety for you? You ask out Jane Hotpants for drinks on Friday. She says: no I can’t or She says: no I can’t, how about Saturday? Option 1 puts the anxiety on you, “is she still interested, she didn’t make plans, what do I…
/r/askTRP05/04/18 09:09 PM
1

Slow down buddy. Unless you absolutely have to see her tomorrow, don’t. She’s not going anywhere. I don’t know a single girl who has left me because she wasn’t sure if I liked her or not. I know tons of women who have curved me because they were painfully aware of of how much I liked them.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 08:48 PM
3

Do not do that. Do not rent a place so you can have a place to have sex with a girl. That reeks of desperation / entitlement. “Hey we can have sex now, I rented this AirBnb for us, okay get naked I’ll sex you!” Get your life together so you have your own place. Until then, develop a plan that allows you to explain why you live at your parents place. Youll have to do your dirty work on the road.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 08:45 PM
2

You’re 19, he’s 27 - he is about 8 years more experienced than you. No surprise here. As you get older you will come to accept that the woman you are talking with has had sex with other people. You can have sex with other people too.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 08:08 PM
1

Personal insecurities, I used to be attracted to girls that needed help too. For me, it was comforting / secure to date someone I knew needed my help. It also helps you rationalize why someone likes / loves you. She loves me because I do x,y,z for her. That’s not love though. Love is when you both are into each other and both help each other grow and improve. You’re trying to play the role of a “needed man” which makes you think you are “earning love” which makes you feel secure in the relations…
/r/askTRP04/04/18 09:16 PM
1

Shave that belly
/r/askTRP04/04/18 09:08 PM
-2

You have totally overthought this. She is inviting you to this party and is worried that you won’t have fun / think she is lame for inviting you to a lame party full of other couples. ASSUME ATTRACTION Why would your LTR tell you about a party she doesn’t want you to go to??? Take things at face value and trust her. If she betrays your trust, leave. No reason to spend time with someone you don’t trust / believe what they say. Communication with this LtR should be easy and clear.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 03:59 PM
2

The same holds true for sure. This is a reminder that you must match interest or progress the relationship in a realistic way. If you meet someone and hookup the same night, the next encounter isn’t going to be a 5 course meal at a 5 Star restaurant. It will probably be a “wyd tonight” text at 7-8pm. In an ideal fairytale movie, two people meet, sleep together, wake up and spend the rest of their lives together. That’s not how dating works, if either person tries to make things work that way, on…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 02:13 PM
3

99% of the time there is only one response you want to a plan, that response is: “Yes!” Anything else is some version of: “No, I’m not interested.” I think the best thing to say to plans that fall through is nothing. Let her wonder if you’re mad or not. If you invite her out later she will have her answer. At the end of the day, your time is best spent with people who say YES anyways!
/r/askTRP26/03/18 07:41 PM
22

Yeah idk what came over me it is truly stupid. Edit: Actually I know: It stemmed from this weird experience I had with a girl who wanted to see me everyday. We went out on Wednesday and she tried to make plans with me the next day, I was flattered, but couldn’t do it because I had another girl to see. The next day (Friday) we hung out and she basically spent the weekend with me. Then she went to Paris and never returned a text or call again, except for one drunk dial at 11pm. In hindsight this g…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 06:50 PM
8

came here for this, was not disappoint
/r/askTRP16/02/18 03:49 PM
3

Where did you hear that leaving a date early makes the girl wanting? Great sex leaves a girl wanting... That is the most backwards logic. Being funny and pressing for more makes the girl wanting. You will realize one day that nearly every girl secretly believes they are ugly and undesirable. All you have to do is make them feel desirable while maintaining your own desirability. If the date is going well, it’s always a good idea to ask a girl to come home with you on a first date. Don’t let her r…
/r/askTRP15/02/18 09:36 PM
1

If you’re in a relationship and your dating someone because you’re in love with “who they could be” and not “who they are” you are delusional. You wish your S/O wasn’t out getting wasted and doing drugs and accepting drinks from guys at the bar. You imagine how great it would be if she was someone else, someone without a drug problem, who looked like her... I’d say demote this girl. She sounds like a lot of fun. Hit her up when you want to party. But that’s it. She doesn’t sound like a girlfrien…
/r/askTRP12/02/18 09:20 PM
6

Nah it’s cool. She is paying for gas - doing responsibilities FOR YOU. Beta would be if you drive all the time and she never pays for gas and never offers to drive and then her car gets repossessed. you keep driving her around and she takes her time getting her car back on the road the road because she can just depend on you to drive her everywhere... That is BETA
/r/askTRP09/02/18 09:15 PM
1

I’ve tried this! It works.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 04:50 PM
2

Lvl 35 High SMV chad learned missionary - it’s super effective!
/r/askTRP05/02/18 04:49 PM
7

Haha that won’t work Bc this guy is gay and trying to pick up OP.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 04:45 PM
6

You’ve got things in the wrong order Make yourself great Secure good friendships Women are a logical conclusion once the above two are satisfied.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 04:42 PM
1

The future of marriage is the same as the past of marriage. Two naïve people date each other with zero dating experience. Eventually they date so long that they are scared to be single. They overlook each other’s inherent red flags due to the length of their mutual investment / shared assets / memories. They decide to enter a contract where neither of them can leave without significant effort. Maybe they have kids, maybe they don’t. One thing is for sure, if you do it too young - you’re almost g…
/r/askMRP02/02/18 09:46 PM
1

I have a question: Why did you get married? What about this woman made you think you couldn’t do better? When did you meet / how old? Any “serious” girlfriends before this? This sounds awful and you’re trapped because kids...
/r/askMRP02/02/18 09:40 PM
2

Gross
/r/askTRP02/02/18 08:15 PM
17

Women like to talk about their problems Men pretend to listen Don’t be a woman
/r/askTRP01/02/18 08:19 PM
1

Rock climbing is like exercise and unless you have both expressed an interest in that - I’d skip Comedy show / museum / fair / carnival / Free or cheap concert (only go for the headliner) / cooking class etc
/r/askTRP31/01/18 10:39 PM
1

Do you live in a small town? Visit a big city. Go see how many girls there are that are 100x hotter / smarter / richer / cooler than your LTR I suggest NYC.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 10:33 PM
10

Tl;dr OP cock blocked a guy who wanted to bang his GF OP is Seeking advice on how to effectively cock block other guys who want to bang his gf who is clearly interested in other guys. OP thinks that because he slept with her, she is still his. OP thinks sex = commitment OP thinks he is special to a girl he has to spend mental energy to prevent her from cheating on her OP asked random strangers on the internet how to keep his “never cheated, but almost did until I stopped her” - FAITHFUL gf on ho…
/r/askTRP31/01/18 10:31 PM
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💯💯💯💯
/r/askTRP31/01/18 10:24 PM
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I think you did the right thing by trying to escalate / slowing down / trying again. You’d know it if she was 100% into you. And some girls just don’t get there after a first date. Thats kind of normal. I bet she would go on another date with you, but don’t make it a drinks date - you can drink, but show her one of the fun things you like to do. She probably (correctly) assumes that you’re just trying to sleep with her. Make the second date a fun event / activity that is inexpensive. See how tha…
/r/askTRP27/01/18 12:23 AM
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I am guessing you’re mid to late twenties, possibly older. You’re looking for a traditional girl who is still available and modest. Here’s what you sound like: “Yes I’d like to buy a used car made in the late 80s early 90s with one owner and hardly any miles!” And you can’t believe that all of the cars you’re looking at have been in accidents / scrapes and bruises along the way? Sounds like you can’t afford a new car. Level up or buy used. Hit the gym.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 07:18 PM
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Because you are thinking about this the wrong way. Slut = woman who will sleep with anyone, no standards, no sense of commitment Most women are not sluts However, must women are looking to date the best man they can find (who can blame that?) and will likely not strike gold with the First Man they date. Your pain is a reflection of poor self image. You ask yourself: how can I be the best man for her if there are other men? It’s a fear of competition. You are afraid to know the very real possibil…
/r/askTRP24/01/18 03:54 PM
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If being naked in the bed with the person you’re sleeping with isn’t hot enough to get either of you horny you’re both with the wrong person.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 08:27 PM
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Holy shit dude, your fantasy is basically to be the guy that is fucking your fwb/ gf and you don’t even realize it. You are this girl’s provider. You want to pretend she only wants sex from you, not your money. When in reality she is after your money. Also there is a HUGE fucking chasm between gf / fwb. Try this: Have some self respect. Demand that this girl split $$$ with you. See how that goes. See if she decides to meet you half way. If she doesn’t - GTFO this is an unhealthy relationship for…
/r/askTRP23/01/18 08:21 PM
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Nobody should ever take back a cheater. If you’re not mature enough to not cheat you don’t belong in an LTR. Nobody ever gets over getting cheated on. It’s a trauma that you never work through. People who take back cheaters are people with self esteem issues that truly feel they don’t deserve trust in a relationship. Trust will forever be an issue. A relationship without trust sucks. Don’t be in that relationship.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 08:16 PM
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You’re a bad friend. The best part is that this girl isn’t even into you. To do what you’re hoping to do you would have had to establish right away that you’re not interested in a friendship. “Oh you have a boyfriend, huh? How long have you had that problem?” If she keeps talking to you after that it’s a green light for you. If she is disgusted, it’s because you’re not better than her Bf so she’s done with you. Sounds like you heard boyfriend and said,”omg u have a bf? Tell me all about him! Let…
/r/askTRP23/01/18 08:11 PM
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^ this exactly You have nothing to lose if she says no.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 08:04 PM
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You’re doing her a favor by not being in her life. If you don’t want her, don’t be with her. Give her a shot to meet someone better. You’ll find she is going to date around. Then you will realize that nobody is special. Nobody only has a heart for just you forever. That’s crazy talk. At best, you can hope for someone who only loves YOU right now. And even that’s a stretch. It’s a cold world. Find a source of validation that isn’t attached to another person’s behavior.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 08:03 PM
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Those are some good points. Wine at home is a great idea. I was just thinking about keeping some at home the other day. Right now I only have liquor. The Venue idea is great too. I used to think it would be fun to “explore” with a girl, but it leaves you at the mercy of whatever bad plan you draw up. Not good to leave a first date to chance.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 09:39 PM
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Yeah that’s what I’m feeling too. It seems like I’m pining and that never ends well
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 02:01 PM
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Congrats on your change Do not go to college and make hooking up with a girls a priority. Make your grades first, lifetime bros second, and there will still be plenty of time for babes. Focus on your classes, go to the gym. Establish good eating habits. Go out with your friends as often as you can, but make sure your grades are there. I had a similar situation in HS. Not fat, but a minority where it wasn’t cool to be a minority. Went to college, accepted by peers. I took this as a sign to party …
/r/askTRP17/01/18 06:45 PM
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I am not surprised by this at all. You say she is lazy, has a bad job, has a messy car, has a messy home... Yet you are surprised she is also a lazy girlfriend / plate? Do you think that your mere presence in her life is going to inspire her to be what she is not?
/r/askTRP17/01/18 05:36 PM
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Step 1: good sex Step 2: have good sex with a different girl Step 3: keep busy One of them will be invested, possibly both. Women are great at doing a lot with very little information. Give them too much info, and they’ll get overwhelmed. If all they know about you is good sex, you’re doing great.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 04:55 PM
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That’s pretty much oneitis dating in a nutshell. Each girl becomes a potential girlfriend as you quest to reach a fourth date! Slow down, let the game come to you. Don’t play the role of boyfriend until she has asked for it AND earned it. I’d suggest following a soft rule to break this bad pattern: never schedule consecutive dates with the same girl. If you see Julie on Friday, you have to see Sandi before you can see Julie again. It’s also possible these girls are looking for a hookup with no s…
/r/askTRP11/01/18 04:49 PM
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It takes two people to have starfish sex. You should be folding her up, spreading her out, turning her over, picking her up, bending her over, and getting under her. If all you’re doing is laying on top and thrusting...you might be the starfish.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 08:49 PM
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Cold approach in scenarios where girls are showing signs of being single
/r/askTRP05/01/18 01:19 AM
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Then what? Drinks or lunch is a date. You’re unlikely to hangout 1 on 1 with a girl you meet on a cold approach who says she has boyfriend. Think of her as new guy friend. Would you call your brand new guy friend up to grab a drink one on one? Probably not... You may invite him to a shared interest, say you meet someone at a rock concert and you text them again about a different rock concert - that makes sense. Also, let’s say you’re throwing a party - you can invite this girl, tell her to bring…
/r/askTRP04/01/18 08:20 PM
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Don’t play silent treatment, that’s a move for teenage girls. And she is a human, not a mind reader. She is not going to figure out what upset you. If she knew it would upset you - not texting, she probably wouldn’t have done it. She either doesn’t care, or doesn’t know better. You saying it’s a string of disrespect makes me feel like she doesn’t care all that much about you. Being at a party with her friends isn’t an excuse for her to not be a girlfriend that texts her boyfriend on NYE. If you’…
/r/askTRP03/01/18 09:10 PM
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Yeah I read it. A girl you want to smash just wants to be friends. That’s the end. You’re delusional for thinking she will change her mind and be attracted to you. She’s not. Move on
/r/askTRP03/01/18 08:53 PM
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It is totally possible for a woman to find a man she wants to “fix” read: control It is totally possible for a man to be in that relationship. these guys above me missed the point: It is impossible to have control in respect when the relationship begins from a place of her loving a “damaged” / “broken” man. I suspect it is a very small percentage of women who are interested in a man like this, and the relationship would not be good for a man. So TRP is not going to give you advice on how to be s…
/r/askTRP03/01/18 08:35 PM
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Yeah you can’t LJBF with a girl you want to smash
/r/askTRP03/01/18 08:32 PM
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It is worth orbiting if you have other options and she is hot / cool enough. Like I will orbit a girl I am interested, but I orbit her like one of those comets that rarely passes through our solar system. I don’t orbit like the moon around the earth. Further, despite what some people will say here - it is beneficial for you to have hot girl friends that are just friends. Hot girls know hot girls and being seen with hot girls is social proof for available hot girls that you can actually pursue. I…
/r/askTRP03/01/18 08:30 PM
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Ok use this formula: Take your SMV and her SMV. Add them and divide by 3. Multiply this number by 30. Call this number “n” Add “n” number of days to your birthday. This will be your new horoscope birthday. Everyday, read your horoscope using this new date on EliteDaily.com (NOT COSMO, more on this later) When you find a horoscope that contains all the letters of her name, send her a text. Now the text should be sent at the time of the day that is your new birthday (this is why we didn’t use Cosm…
/r/askTRP03/01/18 08:15 PM
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One unanswered text makes you feel snubbed? What did the text say? Why didn’t she wish YOU a happy new year?
/r/askTRP03/01/18 08:04 PM
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See if she likes being restrained. You can start by holding her wrists together with one hand during sex / making out. If she is into that, I suggest flipping her on her belly (during sex) next time and using a long sock / t shirt to tie her hands behind her back. You shouldn’t tie a knot that cuts off circulation...Just tight enough for her to feel like she is tied up. Start small and slow and safe
/r/askTRP25/12/17 07:41 PM
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Does your beard connect? Is your beard full? Does your beard reach your cheekbones? If yes to all 3, you should try growing a beard. If no to any of the 3, stubble to clean only.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 04:28 PM
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She’s not thinking about you. If she thought about you that way, you would be her bf and someone else would be on this sub asking how to deal with a girl he has strong feelings for that are unreturned. Block her / delete her. Remind yourself that anyone worth this much emotional investment would be equally invested in you. Good luck, happy holidays
/r/askTRP24/12/17 04:25 PM
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Yeah a brutal age shaming by someone who can’t even buy beer for themselves. Really have to watch out for those vicious 18 year olds!! If you’re intimidated by people who can’t even pay rent / get a decent job I can’t imagine how women your own age must make you feel.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 04:22 PM
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Pursue and be happy you went for it. If it doesn’t work out, learn from your mistakes
/r/askTRP19/12/17 07:09 PM
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Sounds like a Yes-man. Plenty of people (men and women) want to be surrounded by people who only agree with them. But where is your “friend” in this? What does he want? What does he like? How are his needs met if he just agrees and never questions anything? Yes, if your self esteem was so low that you agreed with everyone and people-pleased with everyone you ever met it is very possible you will find someone to sleep with you. But that’s not what this sub is about... This sub is about living you…
/r/askTRP19/12/17 07:03 PM
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Tl;dr you’re not getting laid and putting too much pressure on this one girl. If you had more girls to sleep with you wouldn’t be upset about not sleeping with this girl on date 2... I don’t think you have to worry about being an orbiter. Orbiters don’t ever get real dates / kiss / touch Sounds like this girl (and this may be shocking...) isn’t ready to sleep with you. Cutting the date short because she doesn’t want to sleep with you doesn’t help you at all. It just confirms to her that you’re o…
/r/askTRP15/12/17 04:38 PM
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Lol, but you’re the one not getting blowjobs...
/r/askTRP14/12/17 06:32 PM
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Try talking / making noise. Try biting your tongue. Try to think about your bank account Try to remember the road kill you passed last week If there is a pattern in the sheets, try to discover it. Try trigonometry Try reciting the lords prayer
/r/askTRP14/12/17 06:15 PM
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She’s not in the mood because you kill the mood. You’re such an idiot. You don’t turn this girl on and you can’t figure out why getting butthurt about the situation only makes the problem worse. It’s not a power play / shit test!!! She doesn’t want to sleep with you because you cry and pout if she says, “No” after you fail to turn her on....
/r/askTRP14/12/17 06:13 PM
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Your first problem is that you’re an idiot and have no idea how to please a woman / talk to a woman about sex It’s called foreplay sweetie, look it up You’re going to make sex a chore for this poor girl which will lead to her not enjoying sex with you ever. This leads to once a month planned sex. Eventually one of her girlfriends will tell her about a real sex life and how great it is. She will realize you are pathetic in bed / baby child about blowjobs, and move on to someone who cares about lo…
/r/askTRP14/12/17 06:10 PM
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How did this make it back to her?
/r/askTRP13/12/17 10:10 PM
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Do you know these guys? Are you friends with these guys? If it’s no and no, and you never get to meet them...red flag. Your LTR should want you to meet all of her friends.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 07:04 PM
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I’d suggest taking some kind of class, but make sure you want to learn the class you’re taking. Don’t take yoga to meet girls. They will smell that on you, and you’ll be the creep. If you would take the class even if it was all 85 year old men, then take the class. It’s a win-win for you. You have learned something and also met young women. Go for it
/r/askTRP13/12/17 06:59 PM
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Possibly - but you’re going about this wrong. Are you actually going to be in her city this weekend? Or Are you going to go to her city to see her this weekend? If the latter: it shows how little you have going on that some rando you met at the airport is suddenly worth traveling to a different city for a chance at a date. Someone in a different city can’t be your best option. She can smell the scarcity on you. Further: Nobody - girl or guy wants to be on the hook for a date with someone who cam…
/r/askTRP13/12/17 04:11 PM
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Make it 11 belly touches!! OP is red pill
/r/askTRP13/12/17 04:04 PM
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If he is really a friend you would be friends with him too. I cannot imagine a scenario where a gf of mine would have a best friend I haven’t met / hungout with. If the three of you can’t hangout, he’s not a friend.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 12:35 AM
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Here’s a great example: My ex and I are about to go to the grocery store. She gets a text from someone named “Clyde” Half seriously I say, “haha who is Clyde, that’s obviously a fake name and take her phone.” This is mostly a joke to me at this point. I didn’t suspect a thing. She freaks out and grabs the phone and takes off. Now she’s got my attention. So I enter the room where she is hiding. And I ask, “who is Clyde?” She says: it’s a guy from the shoe store, I wanted to get some shoes for you…
/r/askTRP13/12/17 12:33 AM
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Shouldn’t expect a double standard because you have a girlfriend translates to: I’m open to giving you more if you were available. This makes you wonder — what could it be like if I was in this LDR with an ex-oneitis-rebound-girl What’s your end game here? Move to her city and be with the oneitis who is clearly rebounding? Keep sleeping with her, effectively plating your LTR until both plates break? It’s your world, just make sure you see what’s coming.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 10:17 PM
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Wake up. Your head is on backwards and you know it. Your ex oneitis is playing you, probably bitter about being in a shitty LTR, wants you to end yours because misery loves company. If she wants you to end your LTR, that is pushing for commitment. Because she is asking you to hurt someone for her. In her eyes, that’s commitment. Also, that’s commitment because it’s you freeing yourself of commitment so you can commit to her. She is pushing you for commitment.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 10:04 PM
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TL;DR my oneitis just got out of a relationship and wants to rebound with me. I have an LTR who is starting to bore me (normal). Should I end my LTR to rebound with my ex-oneitis? it’s your world, but consider: If your ex-oneitis was as cool as you say she is (and she isn’t), she would not be concerned at all with your current relationship and you guys would be doing the affair without her prodding you for commitment. I don’t care what you do with your LTR, but if you’re thinking that you will g…
/r/askTRP12/12/17 08:53 PM
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^ This If you’re looking for a something to take care of, adopt a cat or a dog. It’s fine to care for your LTR if they stumble, but if they’re stumbling 95% of the time, you’re not their bf, you’re their crutch. Eventually you’ll get tired of that. Sounds like that’s what OP did and likely his motivation for cheating
/r/askTRP12/12/17 08:39 PM
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34 yr old is stupid af for getting butthurt after a ONS that ghosted him. If he had other options, he would have soft nexted, and pursued better / more enthusiastic potentials.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 08:36 PM
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You’re insecure. You’re worried about black guys because you’re worried about not being the biggest dick that’s ever entered her. Why don’t you just ask: how big is my dick compared to all of the other dicks you have seen? Hopefully she will pat you on the head, and tell you that you have the largest cock in all the land. Then you will FINALLY be able to sleep soundly at night! If you’re not worried about your dick (which almost every guy who has ever asked this question is...) what does it matt…
/r/askTRP12/12/17 05:15 PM
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Sorry - read to quickly. Ignore the ex bf part. But the rest still stands. Pursuing this one more than you would someone else is the prime example of doing it wrong. Common sense says oneitis. Take time for yourself. Seriously. Ignore this girl who has already left once.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 10:02 PM
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It’s not, and it’s absolutely not because you’re 22 and she is 21. Your brain isn’t even done growing and it shows. If you met the hottest girl of your life at 22, you’re in for a sad life. Find someone hotter who isn’t going back to her ex bf. But First, find yourself. Jumping from serious relationship to relationship suggests you are looking for women to define who you are. Define yourself, that’s going to help you choose between multiple women instead of whining to the Internet about one woma…
/r/askTRP11/12/17 09:34 PM
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Who else in the family knows?
/r/askTRP11/12/17 08:12 PM
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Focus on your finals. If you feel her response is unwarranted give her time to respond / apologize. If you can’t forgive her response, end it and move on. Seems like usual antics from a college aged woman to me. Probably stress related.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 08:06 PM
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Be patient Months? LTR? You’re 23 she is 20. She is gonna need years of practice She is probably picking up on your frustrations. And again, this isn’t something where you make a suggestion. If you keep suggesting, you’re gonna come off as a nag / make these seem like a chore. Is that hot? Also, if she is a good girlfriend. She is probably aware that you like Bjs and is probably working on it in her own way. Also, finishing in her mouth is fun, but it’s really only fun if she enjoys it. Also, yo…
/r/askTRP11/12/17 07:46 PM
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No, go to the gym instead. These things are shortcuts. There is no shortcut for self improvement. Diet and Exercise always work.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 06:52 PM
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“not that I care” Then the answer is of course, and she probably compares you to her previous partners with her friends. They probably laugh at how she is continually faking orgasms with you and she can’t wait to get back with her ex Bc he was a real alpha Chad type who she will never get over. It’s only a matter of time before she calls out his name during sex by mistake! Get some confidence and worry about better shit.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 06:37 PM
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Make her feel sexy. She is your gf. From time to time it’s a good idea to tell her how the thought of her gets you hard. This can be a lie, but it’s probably partially true. You really want her to believe that you find her incredibly sexy / desirable. This will increase her sexual confidence with you and make sex better for the both of you. As far as blowjobs, You have to be smart / thoughtful in the way you go about this. Right now she is a 20 year old girl who is allegedly sucking her first di…
/r/askTRP11/12/17 06:29 PM
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Drinks at a bar you know, and in an area where you know other bars / attractions is always the best idea. Start with drinks, if drinks go well - suggest a move to nearby place that may have activities. You can plan special dates when she proves she is worth the time. A first date is really her first interview for dinner.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 04:52 PM
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I’ve been here before and it is the dumbest trap to put yourself in. You need to ignore her. If you have her number, delete it. If you are friends with her on social media, unfriend her. When she asks, “what’s happening / what’s wrong? / are you ignoring me?” Just say: “hey I’ve been busy” She isn’t what you want.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 09:59 PM
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It’s hard to text a girl so little that she loses interest. It is very easy to text a girl so often that she loses interest. Just respond when she texts you. Keep the conversation going by agreeing with what she says, and then add something to it. Send her memes.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 09:47 PM
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Make it easy on yourself: approach available women.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 07:01 PM
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so there’s this one girl who has a boyfriend and...
/r/askTRP05/12/17 04:02 PM
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That’s normal. You and your LTR had lots of practice, and unless she is severely lacking in the bedroom dept, she’s probably still your best chance for a 10/10 lay. You’re not gonna find someone who knows how to please you as well as your ex on night one. Give them time to learn you, and take some time to learn them. In the meantime: Focus on what you like about this new girl(s) (hopefully many girls). They probably do something better in bed than your ex. Focus on that.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 07:05 PM
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Before you go into an LTR you have to have a certain level of trust for that person. If she’s never violated your trust, then her trust is in good standing. Continue to trust. If she’s never broken your trust, and you don’t trust her...that’s a YOU problem. See: insecurity And it’s okay to be insecure, but maybe you’re not ready for a LTR. Maybe you should do plates for a while. Does she put rules / restrictions on you when you go out?
/r/askTRP30/11/17 04:22 PM
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You're right about saying no. Far too often I settle for these mopeds.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 09:06 PM
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