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| 2 | Is there a sub like this from women?I came to the comments to also say this. Sometimes I check that sub when I'm in the mood for a good ol' classic head explosion. Toxic echo chamber. | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 09:04 PM |
| 2 | [Queston] Why when i approach girls most of the time, they say "can i help you with something" ?You are better off complimenting something that they clearly put some time into. People are born with their eyes. They put zero effort into planning how their eyes looked that day. But, if you can be observant and compliment something that they put time into and are proud of, it's much more flattering. | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 11:15 PM |
| 1 | [Queston] Why when i approach girls most of the time, they say "can i help you with something" ?I don't see it as dangerous. | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 11:10 PM |
| 1 | [Queston] Why when i approach girls most of the time, they say "can i help you with something" ?If someone sees you as a rapist/freak for telling them they are beautiful they are projecting their own insecurities. You obviously shouldn't ignore signs someone you are interacting with is giving you. If they don't want to talk, gotta move on. But, I also wouldn't give a shit worrying about what they thought about you. Wasted energy. Talk to enough random women and one is bound to think "ew, who is this creep". You have no control over that. | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 11:10 PM |
| 2 | She is rooting for youFair enough. We both seem to agree on one key point, which is: getting out there, taking action and acquiring experience are key to successfully learning to attract women. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 05:41 AM |
| 1 | She is rooting for youI'd argue my advice was better than listing behaviors to follow out of context. Attracting women shouldn't be an act. By "work on yourself" I mean... Pick up some good books and read them, then get out there and try things. A lot of being attractive comes down to having the group of skills required to attract women. You won't develop those skills unless you build a foundation (work on yourself) through education and experience. Your 1 and 2 are not wrong... And will work wonders for some men. Bu… | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 04:24 AM |
| 1 | She is rooting for youIt's good to mix in some humor and laughter, yeah. I agree that conversations that are overly serious aren't a good place to start. I have a tendency to go down that rabbit hole at times, and it almost never gets me a second date when I do 😕 An ex once said something to me that I think applies here. Something along the lines of "I get stressed all day at work, and have so many other stressors in my life, I need you to be a source that helps me to destress." And this makes sense to me. If I am to… | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 08:01 PM |
| 2 | She is rooting for youYou do you, and get women however works for you. I am not a moralist. But, I will say that being honest and learning to have fairly normal, basic conversation where you learn about each other CAN work, if you build that skill. It's the only thing that works for me. I'd say about 3 out of 4 dates don't bite. They aren't interested. But 1 out of 4 do, and that's all that matters. My success rate goes up or down depending on my physical shape at the time. Edit: 3 out of 4 don't bite. | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 07:49 PM |
| 33 | She is rooting for youMost... MOST men, are physically attractive enough that if they work on themselves, they can LEARN HOW TO BE ATTRACTIVE. There's a lot of being attractive that is a skill. I know some pretty weird looking guys who get tons of women. | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 07:45 PM |
| 0 | She is rooting for youI've never gotten women by being honest and having nice conversations with them, Sounds like you need to work on yourself some more then. | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 07:42 PM |
| 12 | She is rooting for youYou really aren't going to give the author credit?? Pretty low. | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 07:41 PM |
| 2 | She is rooting for youYou can both be a rock AND openly express yourself. Just don't over do it. Don't be needy. OP stole this word for word from a book... | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 07:39 PM |
| 0 | Unprecedented unicorn's union's unsubstantial understanding - unqualified undertaking urges unsatisfactory uneasinessI mean, she's admitting she has a problem. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/12/21 06:52 AM |
| 25 | The reason women love men who appear somewhat disinterested in themYou used the key word in your post. "Needy". The key isn't to be disinterested. I tried that shit when I was younger. It doesn't work. Show interest, but in a non-needy way. | /r/seduction | 28/11/21 12:35 AM |
| 2 | Girl at the gym views my insta stories without following me😱 | /r/seduction | 09/11/21 03:57 PM |
| 3 | 10 rules that i've learned from around 50 laysWhoa, guilt trip. You are doing a lot of assessment of OP here with almost no information about him. Regardless of how sad the situation is (you are way oversimplifying it, BTW). OP isn't responsible for it. He didn't write the history books. OP is also not an evil or bad person for wanting to have casual sex. | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 06:10 PM |
| 7 | Read this if you get stressed and anxious about sexAs someone who has developed sex comfort over the past few years, I agree! It should be a bonding and learning experience. Thoroughly enjoy the moment and each other! Communicate, share eye contact. There is so much more to sex than orgasms. It is the most intimate thing one human can do with another human. Focus on the intimacy, and not just the end result. This post was a great reminder. Thanks!! | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 06:14 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Do you participate in this sub because you want to get better at meeting and getting dates with women? | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 12:33 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Exactly. She randomly encountered OP on campus, and can encounter him again at any time. I'm going to give OP benefit of the doubt that he wouldn't aggressively over react, but many men do just that. To me, I read her behavior as doing her best to keep herself safe. | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 02:04 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]You're not wrong. It can be a great first date, but you framed your response as if he did something wrong. He didn't do anything wrong. What he offered was perfectly okay. | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 02:00 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]How did she string him along? Everything he says above implies she was never interested and he just didn't get the hint. | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 05:15 AM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]She likely wasn't interested in him from the get go. He did nothing wrong, and nor did she. | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 05:14 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]She likely wasn't that interested to begin with, and was being friendly. No big deal, move on. Have you read "Models" by Mark Manson? There are 3 categories women fall into: Interested, Neutral, Not Interested. No matter what you do, a Not Interested girl will never be interested. Just something we all need to accept and spend our time elsewhere. | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 05:13 AM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]I strongly disagree. A casual night time date is exactly what you want to do for a first date. The truth is he didn't do anything "wrong". She likely just wasn't that interested to begin with. | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach on a girl shopping didn’t only just get me a date, but made her day. Keep trying guys. But always work on yourself 👌🏻Meh. | /r/seduction | 06/08/20 06:01 AM |
| 2 | Jerking off ruins my GameThis a primary reason why in Mark Manson's book Models, he recommends masturbating no more than once a week. Masturbating too frequently ruins our desire to be with a real woman, and can also make it harder to get off when having sex. | /r/seduction | 24/07/20 09:50 PM |
| 10 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 55 Progress ReportI agree that OP's approach in this case was a bit cringe, but why does giving a field report imply he thinks of women as animals? That's an unfair assessment. OP set a challenge for himself to get better at approaching women, and the field reports are for motivation and accountability. There is nothing inherently wrong with wanting to get better at approaching and attracting women. It is innate to our biology and harms no one. You are on the wrong subreddit if this bothers you. | /r/seduction | 24/07/20 09:07 PM |
| 3 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Second DateRemarkably pessimistic way to look at it. Not sure why it matters who initiated the friendzone. Sounds like a lack of confidence on your part. Just because the girl decided you were a better fit as a friend, does not mean the friendship isn't on an even level. | /r/seduction | 23/07/20 12:32 AM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Second DateNo one said anything about using anyone as a pawn to get anything. It's possible to both develop a genuine friendship with someone AND reap some benefits from that friendship as well. In general, it never hurts to surround yourself with a network of friends that adds value to life in different ways. If you're not doing that, then you are likely only making life harder on yourself. Perhaps you have everything you need, and don't see value in expanding your circle. I personally don't see any reaso… | /r/seduction | 22/07/20 10:32 PM |
| 6 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Second DateI don't understand this mentality at all. In the end, having female friends helps to attract other women. As one poster suggested above, it increases social proof, gives a potential wing girl, and if the girl thinks you're cool, it opens you up to the possibility of meeting and seducing her friends. You honestly sound like someone who does not take it well when a woman rejects you. | /r/seduction | 22/07/20 09:27 PM |
| 1 | 100 approaches and still nothingBest is to approach straight on, at a small angle, a little bit to her side. That doesn't look confrontational, and she can see you. Will likely give a woman the creeps if you approach from the side and she didn't see you first. | /r/seduction | 19/07/20 10:53 PM |
| 13 | Summary of Models by Mark MasonBeing vulnerable means you're not afraid to expose your true self. You put yourself all the way out there, because you're so confident you don't care what others think. It also means you're a big enough man to accept that the world, including the woman you're approaching, won't always accept you. Being bold is very different. You can be bold without truly accepting yourself, or the perception/response of others. Being "bold" is limiting. It doesn't imply the importance of self-assessment and lim… | /r/seduction | 09/07/20 06:45 AM |
| 11 | Summary of Models by Mark MasonDefinitely mentioned that... | /r/seduction | 09/07/20 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Got 0 practical experience and a date out of the blue, think I need some help/encouragementI'd be interested to hear more. Glad it went well! | /r/seduction | 03/02/20 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Got 0 practical experience and a date out of the blue, think I need some help/encouragementYeah man, it is natural to be nervous! I've been there before. I'm a natural overthinker and have been diagnosed with anxiety. I feel you. Even now that I'm more experienced I still get nervous at times. The best thing you can do is find a way to control all those thoughts. I recommend having a simple strategy. A strategy with only a few rules. That way you can't forget it. Let the strategy guide you and do its work, and don't worry about much else. Be confident. I personally have found these 2 … | /r/seduction | 31/01/20 07:40 PM |
| 3 | Got 0 practical experience and a date out of the blue, think I need some help/encouragementWow. TLDR. The length of this post shows that you are thinking wayyyy too hard. A key thing to know/remember - don't be more invested in the girl than she is invested in you. In most cases, she will sense that immediately and lose interest. Maybe it sucks that it works that way, but that is our biology. It's good to show interest and pursue. Not good to be over-invested. Hopefully that makes sense. | /r/seduction | 31/01/20 05:23 AM |
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